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| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?It's true but bartenders still slay. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?Alright well just keep making excuses & feeling sorry for yourself, I'm sure it'll work out for you eventually. I'm a bouncer which, along with bartending, are like the 2 holy grail professions of meeting women. Imagine going to a bar & literally being paid to meet & flirt with every woman who walks in. It almost feels like cheating lmao- idk what you're doing wrong. Also, I'm not rich by any means & I have no problem pulling. The vast majority of men aren't rich, and yet people still fuck. The … | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Has approaching gotten better over the past couple of years for you?You bartend and you can't get 😹? Man, you might be beyond help at this point.. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Does asking "are you single" makes you weird?The only weird thing was not shooting your shot after she said that- she gave you a green light. Your friend isn't involved, so his (and our) opinions don't really matter. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 06:57 AM |
| 30 | Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move?You're just afraid of rejection dude. The crazy thing is, this chick must really like you if she's willing to go on a 4th date with you despite you not having made a move yet. Stop wasting both of your time & make a fucking move dude- kiss her. Even if she's suddenly turned off by you now, it's best to find out tonight rather than next month/year/never. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 03:56 AM |
| 66 | Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date?Never happened to me & thank fuck it hasn't because I might really throw hands at that level of disrespect. Speaking of which, respect to you man for soldiering through that shit. I know conventional advice is to just ignore these guys, but I would have to say something like: "Three's a crowd bro, keep it moving", but with the same kind of indifferent disregard you give to a jehovah's witness / sketchy salesman. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Got cockblocked hard last night and now I don’t know if I should reach outIs your friend a creep? Seems like the other girl really didn't want to be alone with him. | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 10:50 AM |
| 44 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsI like my job, I generally find what I do engaging and I have a good group of work friends. It is a very technical role and I still have a lot to learn. However, I'm willing to leave it, if it will improve my dating life. Nah bro, you're cooked | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The simple, crucial basicsIf that's your mindset then you're right- there's no point in trying. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?A high five | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Where to meet white women as a black man?If you have to ask, you'll never know | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 05:53 AM |
| 0 | What to say to "Won't have sex till in a relationship"Get your foreplay up- there's no way a girl's saying that if you got her worked up enough. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 12:13 PM |
| 25 | How to escalate with awkward nerdy manNah just ask him straight up- I know it's nerve-wracking but every man wants to be asked that. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Girl taking 1-2 hours for reply on Snapchat but her snap score isn’t going up at allDamn 😂 Look- even if you're not outwardly being clingy by spamming her, you're still being very clingy internally. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 09:08 PM |
| 15 | Girl taking 1-2 hours for reply on Snapchat but her snap score isn’t going up at allI don’t to be full on clingy You're already there buddy | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Become someone who people like to be around, someone who can make & take a joke, someone who doesn't take themself too seriously. Go out a bit more & observe people who already have these qualities- and try to figure out what makes people (including yourself) gravitate towards them. Then apply these things to your own personality- don't try to be someone you're not, just learn which parts of yourself to put forward & which parts to leave at home. It takes a while, you just have to go out a bunch… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 02:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Keep working on your appearance, but also become cool & funny. I've seem fat guys absolutely kill it just by being loveable teddy bears who can make girls laugh. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 01:27 PM |
| 5 | In your opinion on average do women like the softer more feminine male look like leonardo dicaprio and tom holland or a more masculine traditional look?Lemme ask you this: In your opinion, do guys on average like tall slim girls or short thicker girls? Obviously it's all down to preference- you could meet identical twins & only one of them finds you attractive. There's no one-size-fits-all, we all have preferences. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/25 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Spiritual Awakening: The Real Red Pill for a Man’s Missiontrue masculinity is not just about dominance over others but dominance over oneself. Well said. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/24 04:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineJohnny Bravo style: "You look like you need two 😎" On a serious note, it's a no- only reasonable thing to say is bye. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:33 PM |
| 5 | She fell into my lap"Second date" 😂🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Girls being selfish with sex?What is a 15 hour date? That's an entire day sans sleep- what were you even doing? Yeah this one's on you bro, you don't respect your own time so why should she? | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | If a woman is too forward/lustful, I start to suspect she’s trans..Women are usually overthinkers Lmao the irony- maybe you're trans too | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 10 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.Only if you full send on your smile lol Smile like this: 😏 Not like this: 🤓 | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.Lmao only men read random smiles as a declaration of romantic interest. If you smile back at a woman, you're just being a sociable human- it's really not that deep. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:15 PM |
| 27 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.I just look at them in a way that shows I'm not attracted or I'll move away from them. Damn, you're treating random women on the street like they've wrong you- that sounds exhausting.. Maybe try smiling instead? It uses a lot less energy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:13 PM |
| 18 | You don’t know the red pill.inferior sub-species What the actual fuck? This is why TRP gets a bad rep. The crux of the redpill is to teach men how to navigate intergender social dynamics in the modern era. It's not about hating women, it's about understanding women so we can have better quality relationships with them. I repeat: It is NOT about hating women, it's about UNDERSTANDING women. fuck you up mentally and bankrupt you in the process If a woman does this to you, it's your fault. If you don't understand why, you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?We have a conversation about it, (I.E. whats your stance on paying?)- usually girls ask that question or they just straight up offer to split (sometimes they even insist on paying). Tbf though, I might just be kinda lucky with the girls I meet 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 08:58 PM |
| 6 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?A dinner date is only bad if you plan it poorly. If you throw in some fun activities either side of the dinner, all of a sudden it becomes a memorable, adventure-filled evening. Mini golf (or even just a nice walk) --> grab a bite of food --> a drink or 2 at a bar You don't even have to go anywhere special to eat- if she's having fun, she'll be fine with a mcdonalds in between the other stuff you plan. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?You're not 'chad' though, you're you. You don't have to pay for dinner, most girls are happy to split a bill nowadays. All it takes is this little thing that adults do called COMMUNICATION. It seems like you're lacking this, otherwise you wouldn't have made this thread. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What the hell is happening?Damn that's pretty creepy dude. The ship has sailed, leave this poor girl alone- she probably thinks you're planning to kidnap her at this point. Next time, ask a girl for her instagram directly, don't just start stalking her. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Can women provide wrong signals when horny or PMSing?It honestly sounds like you can't take a hint lmao | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 33 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesBut there are certainly moments when I just want to stop and never talk to a girl ever again This is where you're going wrong. Stop looking at these girls as numbers for your spreadsheet and just be a normal guy. Girls want people, not robots. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | I often notice my coworker looking at me then away and smiling."Hey [co-worker], I think you're cute- I'd love it if you joined me for a coffee during breaktime / a drink after work / etc" Shoot your shot, keep it snappy, move on if she says no. Stop thinking about it so much or you'll make it weird. | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | 2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessonsIt's not even aggressive, it's just not all lovey dovey- fatherly advice as opposed to motherly advice. If anything, he just mirrored OP's energy (OP seemed like an ass, calling girls 3/10 but still going for them? Describing dudes as weirdos, then proceeding to do weirdo stuff? etc) | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 11:36 AM |
| -1 | Which nationality of women age the best?I love how you completely disregard the valid, reasonable part of his comment & latch on to the short part at the end that gives you a 'win'. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 12:05 PM |
| 4 | I left my high school sweetheart after being an abusive asshole and I still think about her every single day. She turned into a hoe.I was going to say the same thing, although I'll add that you seem to be pretty self-aware, which is good. Make sure to periodically check yourself in future relationships. Figure out why you desire so much control & learn to accept the things you can & can't control. This is the part where most redditors recommend therapy, but I personally believe with enough self-awareness, you don't need to pay someone to ask you questions that you could ask yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/24 11:11 AM |
| 5 | Classification of psychological tests that women use on men to determine their qualityI think of incompatibility as a spectrum- almost every relationship (both sexual & platonic) is bound to have some. It doesn't mean you can't still have a great relationship/friendship/situationship/whatevership, it's just an indication of where certain boundaries will be. Every girl will have different tests- sometimes they don't even seem like tests so we fail them without realising it lol. IMO failing 1 is the difference between being 100% compatible or 95% compatible (or however much that pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 10 | Classification of psychological tests that women use on men to determine their qualityYou don't need to get 100% on an exam to get an A+. If you hold frame & it fails one of these tests, then it's just incompatibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/23 11:06 PM |
| 43 | [FR] Went to the club again today to just get used to approaching girls and getting rejected.That nervous, desperate energy sticks out like a sore thumb- I cringed hard multiple times reading this shit Stop putting women on a pedestal, we're all humans. You can clearly approach other men with no issues, but you struggle with women? That shows that you're framing them differently to men in your mind- why? Think about that for a while- that's step 1: learn how to communicate with women like they're people, not things for you to try & fuck. Good job trying though, but don't treat this nigh… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 04:16 PM |
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