BrokenMeeper Archive

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3	[California] Support payment arrangement possible? I can also build in a clause in the MSA that if she fails to pay me 3x then she must sell That's still a huge risk...it's not so simple if she decides not to play ball. Here's a list of nightmares just off the top of my head. She refuses to sell...you'd have to take her to court to enforce it. There's multiple ways she could drag that out and there's a risk the Judge doesn't agree it has to happen quickly. So, she's ordered to do it. She can refuse to play ball with realtors/showings...back to c…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/23 09:51 PM
1	Reasonable time to leave household I never said they can't...I said they won't and listed the very real reasons why.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 02:56 PM
5	Wife changing her mind Something else you need to think about here. She didn't even leave the affair partner and then try to come back to you. She was still with him when she came back saying let's work this out and you had to force her to call him and break it off! She was shopping! She's not gonna stop bud.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 02:06 PM
1	Reasonable time to leave household Uhhhmmm, no. This has got to be one of the most confidently incorrect posts I've seen. You don't know what's you're talking about...just stop. The landlord can have the "third party" escorted from the premises by the cops. If he returns, he can have him arrested for trespassing. Nope. Just as law enforcement told the OP, as long as the other leassee is giving the other party permission to be there, they cannot be trespassed. When a tenant rents or leases a property, it gives them the right to po…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 01:27 PM
4	Wife changing her mind Georgia	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 10:26 AM
29	Wife changing her mind You need to proceed with the divorce. She's stalling you out because the fantasy she had in mind isn't gonna happen. She didn't care about you then, she doesn't care about you now. She's in damage control mode. A postnup isn't going to hold any water unless she has her own attorney, of her own choosing, involving it's drafting. No attorney is going to advise her it's a good idea to do such a thing unless she's going to benefit. This is all fresh, but, if you proceed with reconsiliation, get used…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 03:22 AM
16	Wife changing her mind Yeah, that's not gonna end things.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 03:12 AM
1	Reasonable time to leave household Nope, not at all how it works. They're both on the lease and if one person violates it, they're both jointly and legally liable for the violation. If that were the case, one could only partially pay rent, point the finger at the other claiming, "they're the one not paying! Evict them!" The only case is which they would only try evict her would be if they were absolute morons. It's an apartment, so, it's a fairly safe bet that they know what they're doing. If they're going to evict, they will lis…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 12:51 AM
1	For those coparenting with narcissist ex. How are you doing? Never give discretionary control to a narcissist this will always be the outcome. You need to file for a modification to the parenting time portion of the divorce judgement and explicitly define what days/times you have the kids including holidays/birthdays, etc.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 11:07 PM
1	Reasonable time to leave household Contact your landlord. If he is exceeding the allowed visitor stay length, the landlord can have him removed. Your wife my also be in violation of the lease terms and he may begin eviction proceedings against her. Careful with this. Landlords will evict everyone, not just one person. They're both in violation, not just her, and OP will end up with an eviction on his credit too.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 11:02 PM
1	Divorce versus filing advice So, honestly, that may not matter. It's going to really really depend on how your local court typically handles cases like yours, down to which Judge you get. The only way you're going to get a factual idea on what divorce is going to look like for you is talking to local attorneys that have years of experience with your court and how each Judge typically rules. I'd highly suggest you get as informed as possible before doing anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 03:27 PM
1	Divorce versus filing advice Married 20 years, last 3 as a SAHM, that's a fairly risky position to be in. While courts generally expect the other party to find employment, that's not always the case and you could be expected to pay for her to re-enter the workforce. Lifetime alimony is a concern too for a marriage this long. All of it is going to be highly dependent on how your local court tends to handle such things. You REALLY need to consult with a few (yes, a few) attorneys regarding things before proceeding.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 02:44 PM
3	Do I have a chance? Fuck, I'm sorry man. Mine did the same, she fled 250 miles with the kids to the other side of the state and lied to get a RO. I got lucky though, thankfully, I filed here immediately and the Judge held an emergency hearing then ordered her to return the kids and drop the RO. It took me about 18 months and 60k, but, ultimately got full custody. Def wishing you luck bud.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/23 03:05 AM
1	Do I have a chance? One thing I don't see mentioned here. You need to get an attorney wherever she fled to and challenge the TRO she obtained. There's a very good chance you get it thrown out as Judge knows nothing about either of you and even with the simplest claim they'll issue it out of precaution until it's challenged.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/23 02:31 AM