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| 3 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong? | Brokerhustle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 01:34 AM |
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| 4 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Funny enough, I have big tits. I know that's one of the reasons why my husband was attracted to me...along with my face, my charisma, my kind-heart, my dancing ability, etc. This is how genuine attraction works, my dude. So, are you going make a list of what you want women to be attracted to or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Because being tall is a part of who you are. You can't "lose" being tall...but you can lose money. So, if you don't mind, can you list two or three things that you DO want women to be attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:28 AM |
| 3 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?The only thing on that list that seems superficial would be the money. So, what do you want women to be attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobYou missed the part where she said "they get clowned". Guy with the bimbo loses status at work and is taken less seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocializedHello fellow derby girl!! I was 36 when I joined my league. Had all the skills down-pat pretty quickly except for my 25-in-5. Took me forever to get fast! And then tragedy hit...I sprained both knees in the scrim before my first bout heart breaks all over again Derby really is an inclusive sport. You can be all sorts of normie or weird and you'll be welcomed! Matter of fact, my freshmeat class had a guy who'd never really skated before but he wanted to be a ref. He's great now! Travels and refs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | The reason why watching TV and watching movies are seen as more acceptable hobbies relative to playing videogames is because they invariably have higher social/conversational utilitySo much this. As a quick sidebar, I would frequently butt heads with my older kid because I didn't understand he couldn't pause and do whatever thing I needed him to do. It wasn't until he and Mr. Hustle said "he can't take out the trash yet...no pause button". Lightbulb moment! And this one tidbit completely altered how I interacted with the poor kid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand?I've said this before, but a nursing mom kinda gets it. When its close to or past feeding time, the urge to have baby (shit anything) suck the milk out of your boobs so ya get some relief is intense. Or, at least it was for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | What type of negging works best for you/on you?The same women that respond to negging by trying to "gain your approval" are the same ones that stalk you after you pump and dump her. No wonder all of you think women are unstable! You keep using tactics that attract crazy geez | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 5 | What is more excusable, cheating or beating?Woman here. Unpopular opinion: Rather take a hit than be cheated on. At least I see the hit coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | In AFBB, isn't the beta the winner?This is a fair way of approaching things. Thanks for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)So she divorces you and keeps her half and yours ? No. Depending on the divorce decree, she may have to pay out his share of the equity. He walks with the cash, she keeps the house and the payment for it. Voila! No divorce rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences?Don't forget that an "outside baby" can ciphon resources from the legitimate home and family, putting the wife in a position to be cheated as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableIts not fair for us to say "all men" or "real men" that is true. But these girls are tiny, man. I just asked my husband and he said "where are the boobs?!" My 21 year old just said "meh". Idk...i mean, its cool, but maybe your tastes are a lil outside the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableslimthick ;-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 20 | What is the best life changing advice you can give for a 23 year old girl in terms of dating, education or working? (Level up)Yes! Get therapy. Even you dont think you need it, get a "baseline well-check" anyway. If I had known how much shit I needed to unpack when I was young I would have reached my life and relationship goals sooo much faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 16 | What's your opinion in the Light Switch effect?Ya know, this thread...shit, the whole damn post should be pinned. Anytime one of the guys comes waving the "70% of women file for divorce" stat we can just point and say "read this, fella". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 05:58 PM |
| 10 | What's your opinion in the Light Switch effect?I mean, MRP says its always the guys fault, so why would I argue lol? Jk No, really, I was just explaining the "light switch effect" from a woman's pov. I know relationship breakdowns are never one person's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 04:36 PM |
| 12 | What's your opinion in the Light Switch effect?I wouldnt go that far, big guy. Just acknowledging the concept within the OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 34 | What's your opinion in the Light Switch effect?This is it right here. Women try to heal the relationship and when nothing works, she turns inward to mourn relationship and heal herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:37 PM |
| 8 | What's your opinion in the Light Switch effect?Like no residual feelings, no emotional connection even as friends after all the bonding that took place. The past is grass. She treats him like a stranger. Most of the time its not good to remain friendly with an ex. Especially if they were manipulative. If you weren't a good person while we were a couple, why would I want to be your friend? Besides, makes life cleaner when its time to enter a new relationship. I dont need a bunch of old flames in my friend list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 6 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you in a relationship?Thank you for acknowledging this. Alot of women develop certain standards because we were put through hell when we're young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you in a relationship?No arguments there! NPD men are hell in a handbasket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you in a relationship?I mean, yeah, I was being a lil funny. But it aint too far off the actual conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill for beta females?Yeah, you're definitely trolling with this comment. I wont even get into it with you dude lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:32 PM |
| 5 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you in a relationship?Him: Above-average looks. A bit underweight. The crime: He hit on my first cousin. When she and her sister ratted him out to the WHOLE family, he tried to play the victim and plead his case. "That bitch made me do it...wearing those tight jeans around me." Ugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill for beta females?Eh 3/5 human, if memory from history class serves me well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | If a guy is struggling to get a female to fuck him, he should go with trashy women.Dive bars, pool halls are social spots I can think of. Hunting or shooting clubs if you're out in the sticks. Thats all I got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Thank you for sharing this and I'd love to hear your FRs. Also, it may be worth it to look into attachment styles. I believe TRP is well suited for avoidants (which you may not be) and that may be why it never felt like a natural lifestyle for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?I see how you got there, but I didnt flesh out my thought completely so I'll try with an analogy. I'm a naturally good dancer, but Im also self-aware. I could tell people "just be born like me", and that's useless. But because I'm self aware of the body's natural relationship to rhythm/ musicality / location in space, I provide better instruction than someone who just studies the steps. Anybody can teach the steps, but if they cant help you tap into something deeper to FEEL the steps, you may ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Um, honestly? I hate to say it, but most people want to learn from the natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?I'm talkin. So RP, in your opinion, goes too easy on men and should be mix in more blackpill. Okay cool. Also, you say RP tenets attract high T guys, and men of color typically are high T. Love, your premise feeds into my discussion. The high T guys are the ones who typically understand this stuff from a young age. The low T guys are the ones who need the manual to figured out. If the guys who are high T are also black / latino / etc., THEY are the ones who we should ask if this shit is spot on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Actually, this thread isnt about just race, but about the veracity of TRP tenets if you identify as a person of color. If you're not familiar with TRP as a paradigm, regardless of racial affliation, then this dicussion isnt for you. I get the sense you're not familiar with TRP based on your statements. So sit this one out. But thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Great, so you're a biological pre-determinist. While, this isnt exactly where I was going with the thread, I'll bite: In your pre-determined opinion, what does RP get right or wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?"But never unironically" Okay youngblood. Do you have anything to add to the actual discussion? Or are you outraged that there might be guys who are naturally RP and you had to read the entire sidebar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Never heard the monikers "Tyrone / Juan" to represent some of a different race than "Chad"? Dont be obtuse. Its been said certain communities are naturally more RP. Perhaps you're new to all of this shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?No "race-baiting" or slurs. Not doing either...especially since I'm old black lady. Let it fly. Its fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:05 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Yes, black women do have that stereotype. And I appreciate that YOU dont believe it. But mainstream America and Europe seem to think POC in general are RP. So why do they think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Okay, what do you consider "naturally RP"? Curious for your definition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Take it up with the TRP guys. I've seen that sentiment more than once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Have you, or anyone you’ve known, ever rejected a woman because she was “intimidating”? If so, why?Woman (actually, old hag) chiming in: I was at a work conference and heard I was "intimidating". It was the final dinner / semi-formal event and I was at a table of around 6-7 men. I was making small talk with a couple of the gentlemen and one said "You're intimating". I opened my mouth to lightly protest and ask how he could say such a thing! My colleague from our local office caught my eye and with a smile said "it's not a bad thing". I looked around and the rest of the men were smiling and no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | You don’t need a pill to understand why marriage is not a good idea and why the vast majority of the general population is not suitable for itA male counselor will help eliminate the excuse of gender-bias on his part. Like it or not, men generally dont like listening to women, and are generally more dismissive if the therapist's advice is (wrongly) viewed as coming from "Team Woman". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | You don’t need a pill to understand why marriage is not a good idea and why the vast majority of the general population is not suitable for itPlease look into John Gottman and The Gottman Method. And, if you want to work on your marriage and can afford it, find a male counselor that specializes in that therapy style. It may not save your marriage, but its your best shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually want or like when women are honest about their preferences.Bad pic? Maybe. But is she unattractive tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Men don't actually want or like when women are honest about their preferences.Since when is there a stigma with calling dark-skinned women unattractive?! There are literally "research papers" with people trying to dissect the topic. You must be new here, bro. Look, some groups of people just have a cross to bear and will not be considered conventionally attractive. Black women, short men, whatever. Just deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Men don't actually want or like when women are honest about their preferences.Yeah. Its really a shame such misguided beliefs exist, but that's racism for ya. I mean, Bombshell Brea is my girlcrush...how in the world can anyone say she's unattractive?! Boogles my mind. https://images.app.goo.gl/Nkpj3ZtMJpbrNe2x7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Men don't actually want or like when women are honest about their preferences.Well, actually...men DO say dark skinned women are unattractive all the time. Dark skinned women just shrug and move along. Maybe men could try doing the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men paying for datesI agree with you in that no one should feel pressured to discuss finances. I'm old school and traditional so I do believe if a man asks a woman out he should pay. But, this new modern phenomenon of "who should pay for dates" could easily be squashed by being upfront. I'm a pretty straightforward woman so I actually could see myself delivering the line very smoothly...maybe along the lines of: "I would love to go on a date with you, but my monthly budgeting goals are already set" Ball is in the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Men paying for datesIm sitting here thinking about how invites to go out for dinner / drinks happen between friends when one party is strapped for cash: "Hey, wanna go to happy hour?" "Naw, not this week...money's tight" "Don't worry about it...I've got ya covered." Would men like to have that kind of upfront exchange with a woman they ask out on a date? Would that make you feel better about paying for the date if the woman says "love ta go...I'm but I'm dead broke."??? I just dont see any other way to satisfy mode… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Men paying for datesThe short path is a toll road, that's just the way things are. I am so stealing this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Is the prevalence among men for liking "thick girls" related to the fact that about 40% of American women are now obese?I believe this is accurate. I had a chat with a good male friend recently, and as he's grown older and more comfortable in his skin, he now openly admits to liking thicker women as opposed to the thin VS model types of his youth. Additonally, social media has absolutely given him the confidence to be honest about his preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | How much does ethnicity matter in the RMP and SMP?Funny. My biracial brother in law just said he's done fucking with white women cause they're shitty and worthless. Harsh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Why dont the good men and the nice guys ever going after women who aren't chasing bad boys?Oh honey. That's got to be the answer and what's worse is there are more of this kind running around here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 11:03 PM |
| 3 | I blame traditional women/housewife types for sexism and male-on-female violence, Change My MindI'm curious. Do you think the amazement that men express to Willow turns into intimidation and thus they are turned off by her "ability to adult"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Why dont the good men and the nice guys ever going after women who aren't chasing bad boys?Well, in all sincerity, I wish you and your growing family all the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Why dont the good men and the nice guys ever going after women who aren't chasing bad boys?*replies in cow* I'll start on trimming down right after I finish this Twinkie. And tell your wife I said its okay to eat. She is the same size as my 12 year old son smh. She is growing a life and that baby is going to get the nutrients it needs from food or it will leech it from her body. And that will age her faster than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Why dont the good men and the nice guys ever going after women who aren't chasing bad boys?ScarJo at peak celebrity status was 125lbs...at 5'3" tall. So a chick that is 3" taller than ScarJo should be the same weight or she's "grossly overweight"?! I can't deal lol. Ladies of PPD...just give up and get a cat. The average young men of PPD want you to look like Hollywood bombshells, Instathots and pornstars to be worth their time and committment. No man will ever settle for you *eyeroll* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Why dont the good men and the nice guys ever going after women who aren't chasing bad boys?I smell a lie! There is no way a chick that is 5'6" 140lbs could be "grossly" overweight unless she has no tits, no ass, no muscle tone and all stomach. In which case...why in the hell was she your fuckbuddy?! Cause she was 19?! Fuck outta here lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Q4all: what is this "unconditional love" you all speak of?Girl, you are speaking the truth. I can graph the times where my hubby was nasty toward me against my weight fluctuating up. Perfect correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up?Why not? She's the one who owns it and if she pays the premium, then she calls the shots shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up?If I'm not mistaken...A woman can leave his ass, and as long as she owns the life insurance policy and she's the beneficiary, she can still collect once he dies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Would more men pursue alternative models of masculinity and gender roles if female sexual preferences weren’t so rigid?I'll concede, maybe it was the fame / fortune and I picked a poor example. But this look was emulated in large and mid size city sub-cultures of that time and women were accepting of that appearance. I'm barely old enough to remember but the girls liked and dated skinny guys with a makeup routine and big hair (I was child watching my friends older sisters and who they dated) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Would more men pursue alternative models of masculinity and gender roles if female sexual preferences weren’t so rigid?I don't know about this one. I think about the rock bands of the late 70's - 80's that blurred the lines of traditional masculinity (e.g. big hair, make-up, painted nails, waif-thin) and they obviously had no trouble with women. There is more to this than rigid female sexual preferences. Women seem open to and accepting of men from a wide spectrum assuming a male has other masculine traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 03:55 PM |
| 11 | What unattractive trait discovered post-marriage (or deep into an LTR) eventually killed your attraction and led to ending the relationship?Bwhahahahaha! Whew chile...thank you for that laugh! Now, in regard to agency...once she discovered that her boyfriend had no cleaning capability, she made the gracious offer to teach him (agency). He declined. She then assessed her options and decided to end the relationship. That shows a great deal of ownership over her life. She exercised her agency. What do you believe she should have done? Any suggestions for those who may be in a similar situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 11:36 AM |
| 4 | What unattractive trait discovered post-marriage (or deep into an LTR) eventually killed your attraction and led to ending the relationship?Please tell me you're kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 11:15 AM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on women lying about their age (1) and opinion on women being offended and/or refusing to answer when asked their age (2) can you give your experiences of this with yourself or others (3)?Agreed. My hs boyfriend lied about his age (he told me he was 16, he was really 17) and where he was born. I didnt find out the truth for years! Relationship ended soon after because of the lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-ageYep. My mom is 2 years older than my stepdad. I'm 2 years older then my hubby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-ageAside from growing up around wealth, I am the same as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Sexual unavailability in LTR partnerNo, I'm not judging your living circumstances or culture. Especially since I have a child in university living here at home. I mentioned that point so that you can see the type of sexual life you want is not lining up with your reality. But you recognized the point I was making and that's good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:46 PM |
| 13 | Sexual unavailability in LTR partner-Lives with parents -Takes an hour to get off -Wants sex 3 times a day This isnt realistic for anyone to sustain. I think you may need to temper your expectations / take of your own needs some of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | How does a woman's sexual strategy change after menopause?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 2 | maintaining interest in LTRI think Willow is right on this one. Its no different than the old couples who havent lived together for 25 years but wont get a divorce because the wife needs her estranged husband's medical coverage (a real scenario in my besties family) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 04:46 PM |
| 6 | I want to give my boyfriend certain "loyalty terms". Will I be making a mistake if I do?I've dated his type before. Leave now before its too late. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill.You're both correct. There is married red pill (MRP) and the points lefactorybebe listed are major tenants of MRP. Which makes for a shitty relationship for normies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Why, or rather WHEN is ‘male thirst’ a turn off?I mean the first step in pursuit is some type of contact. The primary signal being "hey girl, you have my attention". Which is going to be done with some type of eye-contact. Why would any woman find this a turn-off? Hold on, are you seriously asking why a random woman would turned-off by some dude trying to signal interest while he is with his wife/gf? I mean, I know some couples swing and whatnot, but thats not the spirit of this discussion. "leer" - But perhaps I don't understand when a "look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Why, or rather WHEN is ‘male thirst’ a turn off?Do woman feel betrayed, alienated, less desired, jealous, dis-regarded or maybe all of the above? It depends on the woman and her mood, or perhaps the state of her relationship with the man in question. If everything is all good and she's feeling desired by her man, then she'll probably shoot him a dirty look, give him a playful punch in the arm, or even play along and start picking out pretty people for him to look at. But if the relationship is not all gravy, it could be any or all of those em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Why, or rather WHEN is ‘male thirst’ a turn off?"But to answer the original question, Why/When is a male’s thirsty-ness a turn off? The answer is simple…it’s a turn-off when the woman feels like she has to speak on it." I will say, yes, if the wife / gf has to speak on it, it is definitely a turn-off and typically doesn't lead to sexy-times later at home. But...you forget the perspective of the woman being leered at. She's not going to speak on it with you (assuming your a stranger on the street), but she will turned-off by it...she's gonna w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Why, or rather WHEN is ‘male thirst’ a turn off?Here's a specific example: when a man is obviously with his wife/gf and he looking at another woman like a piece of meat, his thirsty stare is a huge turnoff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | quick silly Q for women: have you ever gone to a male strip review or..Yeah, I've been to one. I stood waaaay in the back and just watched the absurdity of it all. I did get a bit of an ego boost when one of the strippers walked by, did a double take and tried chatting a bit because he liked what he saw. I would go again for the laughs if the opportunity presents itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/19 09:10 PM |
| 7 | Woman gets let down by husband in a dangerous situation, feels zero sexual attraction towards him afterwardsI would bet money the same guys claiming its smart to run away will be on TRP later yapping about men being the more honorable and loyal of the sexes. Pathetic the whole lot of ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingJust curious, how do you feel about strip clubs and (private) lap dances? This one bothers me and its so prevelant nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Communication and marriage counselling vs MRP and establishing some 'mystery'I think a little of both is necessary if either partner comes from a childhood where healthy communication was never taught. On counseling: A male counselor trained in the Gottman method works well. The Gottman method is grounded in science and is very methodical, so men (or at least, my hubby) did respond well to it. On MRP and Dread: most well-adjusted women probably expect (and probably welcome) levels 1-5 (passive dread). Personally, I need my husband to be at level 6 for our relationship to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Don’t men also play the field and then settle down with the best they can get?Women will never (except in extreme heiress cases) have to ask this series of questions. Their husbands generally want to sleep with them just like every previous boyfriend. There isnt two distinct “classes” of women who get valued for two different things. Theres just women/pussy. This isn't entirely true and missing some nuance. There are men with a true Madonna/Whore complex. They stick with their wives for the nuturing and comfort she provides, and he gives her "vanilla sex" and begrudgingly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s a typically unattractive physical trait you find really appealing in men?Have you been in a LTR with someone like this? Do you have some of this traits as well? I have experience with this type of mate and I find it emotionally exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men opening the car door for women?Lol! My high school sweetheart drove a 1978 Delta 88. He'd unlock my door and I'd reach allllll the way over and unlock his. Precious times. Now let's all thank the tech gods for keyless entry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Women and selection of men for status, money and resourcesWhat she says here, is truth. Signed: wife of a systems architect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 10:28 PM |
| 3 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?Sorry OP, I gotta call bullshit on this. Mothers have always given kids the basic framework of being attractive. Sometimes kids (especially boys) don't listen or bother to connect the dots. Can't blame mom if you don't wanna shower, brush your teeth, put on decent clothes or go outside and play with your friends. Looking good and being friendly = Hot. She's been telling ya to do that stuff all your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Why ia cheating bad if they never find out1) Condoms don't protect against crabs and herpes 2) There will be a change in the cheater's behavior in the relationship. There is always a tell. The SO may not be able to put a finger on it, but the relationship dynamics will be off-kilter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?Look youngin, I've been married nearly as long as you've been alive so lemme school you right quick: Black women don't care about being on NordicChad's scale of attractiveness because he's lame. He has no fashion sense, a bland personality, doesn't understand "The Culture", and doesn't have his barber on speed dial to tighten up his fade every two weeks. But you know what's funny? You having the gall to talk about black women and our rank in the SMP when you are Hispanic. You are Hispanic, right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?We don't want to be on every man's scale. The type of guys who rank us at the bottom usually are not on our radar in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 01:56 AM |
| 3 | What are some things you wish women understood about men/the male experience?I finally understood blueballs when I was nursing HustleKid1. I went too long between feedings and started getting engorged (that shit hurts!) and ALL I could think of was feeding the kid. Randomly I thought "this must be what its like to be a guy". No fun, indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 02:30 AM |
| 3 | I have a question about women and asking guys for money.For those women who were lower class but didn't ask for money, I wouldn't say it was necessarily out of shame. Maybe they were raised to be self-sufficient. Or they were taught to never depend on a man for money because then he'll "own" you. Or maybe its just pride. It could be anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 10:10 PM |
| 5 | I have a question about women and asking guys for money.This is a class / values sort of thing. I grew up working class but was instilled with UMC values, so I never wanted to demean myself by asking a man for money. But I've seen this play out with some of my working class friends / relatives. When you don't have much money everything is a commodity. Want me to you look pretty on your arm? You gotta pay me. Its the "get over" mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Yes, you're right. Nagging is a communication pattern that generates a desired outcome. That said, I refuse to believe nagging continues in most relationships after a man starts owning his shit. Don't the MRP field reports bare this out?! Husband finds RP > swallows RP > stops being a "drunk captain" and starts "owning his shit" > Wife stops being a nagging cunty shrew > marriage improves Are the guys over at MRP lying about how all this works? Help me out...what am I missing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:07 PM |
| 13 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I'll give credit to MRP...when a guy "owns his shit", magically the nagging goes away. What a surprise, fellas. Glad they figured it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Before I start snarling out an answer, could you define nagging please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Guy is concerned with how he is making his girlfriend upset and gets called "manipulative".This. Covert narc is my guess. Everything is always going to be her fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Options other than AF or BB?Annnd you assumed she doesn't lift. Equally funny, dont ya think? Furthermore...no white knighting over here, my man. I'm just a chick with some time on my hands and knowledge to share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Options other than AF or BB?sigh Yes, that's the whole point. Muscle takes up less space than fat. Therefore, a random statement that 135lbs is too fat on a 5'5" woman means nothing without knowing her body compostion. Please stop talking now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 27 | “I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta buxTo all the guys that believe this doesn't happen in real life...it most certainly does. A friend of mine went through this very scenerio: She worked to support her husband while he attended med school. He graduates and then dumps her for the "upgrade" immediately. Wouldn't even acknowledge her support during his speech at the graduation party. A real gem, this guy. Admittedly, he couldn't get out of paying CS when the kids were young...but...he waited until his favorite kid was older (and not a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Options other than AF or BB?I guess I got confused with your earlier statements. You're spot on when you say "BMI is bullshit"...because "it is the whole composition that matters". Anyone who has spent real time in the weight room knows this is the deal. I think you went off the rails when you said "135lbs is at least 10lbs over". Because, by your words, if 135lbs is too much...then this chick pictured below needs to start cutting (clearly not) https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/9ls6b1/f3255\_135lbs\_5lbs\_140l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Options other than AF or BB?Wait...this pic shows a woman at 5'5" and 135lbs...is this honestly not considered thin? https://goo.gl/images/HvTj5n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Are women really turned off seeing emotion in menTo the contrary...early in our dating phase, my hubby cried because he couldn't make it home for a family crisis. It was that moment when I knew I loved him. Being able to show emotion is critical for my relationship happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Do women who go clubbing automatically deemed inappropriate or slutty?Its funny this post came up. My hubby just told me he thinks that clubs are meat markets and I'm like, my man...I've never gone to a club to do anything BUT dance with my friends. As a matter of fact, I never wanted men to hit on me / grind on me. I just wanna do an old school dance with my homies. Dassit shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What Happens When Your Wife/GF Catches On to TRP?I've actually experienced something similar with my spouse. There was a spell a few years back when I was having some major success at work and he would mutter "I can't keep up with you". It made me so sad that he didnt see my success as our success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/18 02:56 PM |
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