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| 0 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...I've never understood why some men can't be friends with women. I think it's because men see friendships as transactional. You don't expect sex from your guy friends. Do you only speak to women you want to have sex with? Really? Do you even like women? Do you enjoy their company at all? I'm friends with women that I wouldn't sleep with even if they offered. I understand women that breadcrumb men to keep them on a leash. Those are just shitty women. If she's honest and upfront about not having a … | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 05:19 PM |
| 4 | I've failed had honestly, I feel so pathetic and lost.Whenever there is a problem you don't know how to fix you always have to cut it up into pieces and take it step by step. A real good way of going out is having social proof. It's easy to see when guys go out that they are on the prowl. Do you have female friends you go out with? Having an active social life OUTSIDE of dating is essential not only to finding partners but to be happier in general. Whenever you hit a wall take a step back and see what the next best step is. What are your hobbies? D… | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What i learnedAre there any women that you're not into but if they asked you what they could do better you could turn them into someone you would be into? Like there's a few girls in my life that I'm not down with but if they made small changes they would be a lot more attractive. Why isn't it the same way around? | /r/seduction | 26/12/23 08:57 PM |
| 5 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexThe whole point of my post was that I know we're gonna fuck, Im just the one saying no. "High quality" is the wrong term here though so you're definitely right there. It's important to determine what it is you want so you can find the right person for you. I want a harem and having my reputation be stellar is essential to this. The girls Im fucking are starting to recommend me to their friends so it's all coming together. I just want to be an experience people won't forget. Thanks for the reply! | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexJust be careful bro and don't fuck up where you work. One of my main principles is to never make your situation worse for yourself. The job is there to help you live, don't lose your job because of someone. No one is worth that. Always look out for yourself first and always have plausible deniability. Stay strong. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 34 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexAbsolutely right. The higher quality women will be drawn to the fact you want to wait. A huge caveat here: This won't work for everyone and make sure it makes sense to wait. If you meet a girl at a bar and it's been escalating towards a one night stand, it would be counterproductive to do this. But when done right, they will become addicted. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 80 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexIve found more success the longer I withhold sex, to a point obviously. That doesn't mean I'm not escalating though. I take a different approach cus sex isn't enough for me, I want them to crave me. It's me giving in at the end and the anticipation is what keeps them coming back. Edit: thank you so much for the award bro you just popped my award cherry 🍒 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Do women ever make the first move?The secret is to be okay with the woman leaving or staying. I'm not saying to not care at all, though. It's more of a "no matter what they decide, I'm going to be okay". | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Her friend is way more my typeBe honest? Like tell both of them whats up. It may not work out but being honest and having a code will bring you much more success. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Treat women the same way you would treat men. If someone rejects you for who you are they are doing you a favor. Why would you want to hang out with someone that doesn't even like you? Go find people more your vibe and dont hide what you truly feel. People will comnect with that and respect you more for it. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | The more I get laid, the less I care if the other person enjoys it. How do I fix this?You should be doing things that make you happy man. I think a lot of what's happening here is reactionary. You are actually lowering your value by having sex with women you feel disrespected you. They are the ones in control and you try to take it back by only caring about yourself in the moment. Once you can say no to your own ego and stop reacting, that's when you become free. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?Lmao there are a lot of triggered dudes in here. They do this for the same reason guys do...validation. Why do you care? You guys arent dating yet let her fuck with whoever she wants. Stop being so reactive. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitNah I disagree, just like how attraction can be killed it can also be created. Just like how new information can make you change your mind about fucking a woman, the same can be applied to you. If the thought of not fucking someone that is down because you dont want bad sex is something you aren't considering then there is still a lot of growth coming. The ultimate goal is the journey not the destination. Just learn all you can and try different things. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I can't do it, I'm giving up, and accepting this as my reality forever.Just hop on tinder. There are so many sex workers on there and I live in a small town. Just vet them first to make sure its safe. Ive seen rates going from 150-200 an hour for some pretty hot girls. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?You need to have more confidence than them. These types of people crack under pressure. Staying in frame as non-judgmental as possible helps since those that react the strongest emotionally end up losing. That doesnt mean you let them run the set but you do let them tie their own noose. Eventually the girl will get tired of the bullshit herself and then its completely acceptable to ignore him. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?Mainly codependency. Some men lovebomb the girl because they are terrified that they won't like them. Women with codependent tendencies like this stuff but those relationships tend to be toxic. The reason men (nor women) should be needy is to screen for GOOD partners, not just pick whoever sticks around. You want to establish a good foundation in the relationship and good expectations for the rest of the relationship. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.My guy if you are on a date half the battle is already won. The other person clearly likes you enough to give it a try and see if you vibe. Being flirty is about pushing boundaries in a fun way. If you ever feel like she's uncomfortable then take that as your cue to back off a bit and go back to comfort. It's like when you are going into the deep end of the pool for the first time. It's fun and scary and if you need to you can swim back to the railing, but don't ever stop trying to get to the de… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:44 AM |
| 8 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanThe way I look at things is that I simply give what I want to give and receive what the other is willing to give. If what the other is willing to give isn't what enough for me then I wish them the best and keep searching. This is hard work and it's something you do every day. One day you may wake up and realize you no longer have enough from someone. There is no such thing as putting in a specific amount of time into a relationship and then you made it. No one is to be owned. All relationships s… | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 57 | How Do I Confidently Express My Sexuality As A Man?Honestly you should express your sexuality with both men and women. Im obviously not saying to hit on men, but if you compliment both men and women and are genuine about it, it will become natural and non-creepy. Also, having your guy friends feeling great about themselves is just a plus. Women seeing you interact with everyone in this way will make you a lot more attractive in general. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys gaming during Corona season?Tinder is a goldmine right now, suggest y'all give it a shot | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 07:17 AM |
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