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Means you probably failed to show intent
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:01 PM
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Haha that opener is great, will try
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:13 PM
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Be way more sexual and forward then in daygame, other than that just have fun and TOUCH A LOT.
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:36 AM
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Even though that can work the guy who approaches will always beat the guy who waits for her to come to him. Best way is just to put your hand out (like inviting to a dance) and smile at her, wait for her to take it. THEN dance. Above poster is quite weak game (if it can even be called game).
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:35 AM
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Have you really overcome it? Be fully honest with yourself. 40 a month is a VERY low number, I can do more in a single night. Self honesty is the key to authentic growth. Even the best instructors in the game have some approach anxiety at times, just that they always beat it, so I doubt you have absolutely zero. Not letting AA stop or effect you though, is another thing. Owen says it took him 15 years of constantly going out to get no AA. Personally I have some AA start of the night, but after a…
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:32 AM
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Why Dark Chocolate? Only thing I havn´t heard about before.
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:08 PM
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Maybe 10 years ago, but these days game is all about inner game and improving yourself as a man and as a person.
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:49 PM
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Im shit at online dating (well, I don't do it at all) but your responses just scream try-hard and slightly cringe. You are doing all the work. Try to do short sentence jokes/guesses instead, some mistery which makes her want more. dunno something like your cute but I can tell you're trouble.. That will get her crazy.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:24 PM
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I relapse all the time, and then I try again. Part of the journey.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:16 PM
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Went from social panic attacks, depression, INSANE AA, 0 success and alcohol dependency to minimal AA and a looot of success with women in about 8 months. Just yesterday I approached and slept with a very hot american girl, at one point every guy in the bar was on her so I left her and started flirting with two other girls in front of her and the guys. 6 guys on her and I left her like it was nothing and hit on anither hottie. I glanced back at one point and could see her eye fucking me, lol. Th…
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:13 PM
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Irl always beats online dating
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:06 PM
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wut?
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:05 PM
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You have to show that you are sexually interested in her from the very beginning. Think of it like joking around with guy friends. Your guy friends think your super funny and so on, and of course you are not sexual with them. Difference is that when you do the same with a girl you are interested in, she will also friendzone you, because like with other people (guy friends) your just a funny person, nothing more. Get sexual. Strong eye contact, touch her, be sexual both physically and orally. Be …
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:03 PM
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Why are you paying for their dinner???? Firstly dinner date is a bad first date idea. Seconly you should split bill.
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:19 AM
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It happens, don't sweat it. Sometimes you don't have connection or state. Keeping a group entertained too is hard, goto isolate. Just like sometimes you also have sets and everything just flows, you talk for hours on hours without thinking. A big tip: Dont ask ages, studing etc. Guess. You ran out of things because you were interview mode instead of fun mode. "You guys together?" "ye" "Cute family; so whos the mom and whos the dad?", "Let me guess; youre the dad." to the hot one, queue laughter.…
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:46 AM
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Ye this, fuck online dating.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:46 AM
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Check out RSD Tyler dude is not good looking but pulls like crazy. You are not getting anything done because you are negative and blame other factors instead of thinking positive and taking action.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:45 AM
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Use other peoples success as inspiration and motivataion instead of jelousy or negativity. Try working more on a positive mindset then game right now, I think that will help you more. Try Tonny Robbins positivity challenge
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:34 AM
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KISS - keep it simple stupid No need to explain, just ask her if she wants to grab a coffee with you. Assuming you flirted before she knows what its about
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:30 AM
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You are wayyyyy overthinking this. None of these make any marginal difference. Also try to be more flirty; these are pretty bland. Ask her if she looks like a tomato now lmao
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:12 AM
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Just relax and be interested, because you are right? Forget the kiss; it happens or it doesnt, no worries or pressure, just be yourself and have fun.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:06 AM
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Best way I figured out hoe to do it is keep it short and flirty/fun, book a date, stop texting. Instead upload IG stories of u having fun, she will be dying to meet you on ur date
/r/seduction10/05/19 01:45 PM
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Just don't show them to try to impress her
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:24 PM
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DONT go for friend into more, make your intentions clear right away
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:22 PM
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Keep talking to her, smile, tease, get ioi's then ask her out
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:17 PM
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Talk to everyone and joke around, THEN isolate after displaying interest
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:22 PM
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Try smiling
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:49 AM
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"Too bad youre not my type" and SMILE flirtingly. Push her away with words/physically while your eyes/smile says you want her, works soooo well. "Its too bad your blonde, theyre just trouble makers.." SMILE Mixed messages makes women crazy (for you)
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:47 AM
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Lol. Keep at it, in no time you'll be amazing :)
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:07 AM
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Ye he's a idiot. Seddit is about seduction if you want to pay head over to /r/prostitution
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:03 AM
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Awesome man greta job! :)
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:19 PM
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Start small, ask for directions. Then ask for advice, like clothing or resturants advice. Entually you work up to it. Start small.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:55 PM
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Go out drinking at a bar, get drunk, pull him into a bathroom. Worked on me lol.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:02 PM
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my favorite in this thread
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:25 AM
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Honestly you have so much of your ego tied to your looks. I don't blame you; people pay you for your looks, and it has made you insecure about your personality. So you have to put focus in your personality; become confident who you are, not in what you look like. There is a very effective way to solve this (and painful): One night, make yourself look as "ugly" as possible. Fuck up your hair, clothing, everything. Not in a "stylish ugly hipster" way, but in a ugly retarded way. You know what I me…
/r/seduction02/05/19 07:07 PM
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Always sunny reference https://youtu.be/XLcswkROgx8
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:50 AM
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I wrote a longer reply down below, but I've been in the position of the guy he is parodying. I would believe that girl was either making fun of me, wanted to use me, or some other reason. If you can't relate, that is a really good thing and you should be happy that you never came from such position where it seems impossible that a girl actually might actually be into you.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:51 PM
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Yeah I understand your frustration, but most guys who come here (me included at one point) had so little self-value and a vast experience of being hurt/used by girls that it can be hard to believe that a girl is genuinely into you. Even when I believed it I often found myself rejecting the girl because of fear. If I reject her now, or leave the set now, I never got rejected. Fear of success is a real thing. Ultimately what you said in the first paragraph is true though, everyone (if consistent i…
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:44 PM
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You ok bro?
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:08 PM
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"Online dating for guys is designed to beat you until you muster the courage to ask women out in RL." - Best quote in that Thread. Stop relying or carrying so much about online dating.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:04 PM
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Ye it helps a lot, it talks a lot about being vulnerable which is real key. It made me open up and being real, which helped a lot internally and externally. You will understand after reading it.
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:51 PM
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It doesnt matter if you are asshole or nice, what matters is confidence and being sexual. You are focusing on the wrong things
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:33 PM
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Models by Mark Manson, start with it everything else is trash in comparison.
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:30 PM
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Unsure if a good idea in cold approch, that way you are first of all not leading, and you are putting the pressure on her to take contact. A lot of girl will bail when they feel pressured, even if interested in you. For social circle game anything works, and of course they are a lot more likely not to flake.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:08 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:20 PM
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Had the "worst" experience with rejection ever three weeks ago: Early on at the club, dancefloor empty, two hot blondes standing by the edge. Im feeling out of it as fuck but decide I have to do it anyways. Walk over the dancefloor to the girls. Say hi, whats up. My voice cracks, sound like a castrated pigeon. They straight out ignore me, don´t even give me a glance. I turn around and fall over a chair. SMACK. Straight onto the floor. Entire fucking club was watching, LOL. People pointing. And m…
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:17 PM
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Or you know, have the exact same experience but just skip the smoke. "Getting some air" is something I do constantly.
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:09 PM
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Summary, lessons learned: Once again I learned: End up next to the girl you are interested in. And yes, I will type this 1000 times if I have too. Stop being a pussy and be open to change girls/sets during the night. If suddenly the girl next to you is the better option, be fucking rude and talk to her instead. This is why me rejecting the milf was actually a really good lesson; strangely enough I never figured I have to get better at rejecting girls, but at this point I have to, leading to my n…
/r/seduction04/02/19 09:01 AM
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I realized over time that alcohol took away much more than it gave. I had more confidence, game, fun, and learned more sober. My fitness stayed on track. Next day was no problem. It was free. Going out 3 days a night drinking isn't really viable if you have work and exercise. So first step was realization. Secondly I only drink when I go out. If I were you, I would stop drinking every day to start with. Check out /r/stopdrinking Then after new years I said fuck it, no more. First time I went out…
/r/seduction30/01/19 06:35 AM
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Thank you GGuy as always I appreciate it!
/r/seduction29/01/19 04:37 PM
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Yeah man I feel you, can relate. I think it was RSD Max who said "If you want to learn a instrument, you don't practice when you're drunk. So why the fuck would you drink if you want to practice game?". I have not had a drink yet as of 2019 and my game has never been better. I am crystal clear when I go out now and when I get in state I FEEL AMAZING. Honestly to stop drinking when doing nightgame has been the hardest thing ever for me (Since I have been going out drinking for 10+ years), but it …
/r/seduction29/01/19 04:36 PM
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Not sure why you are downvoted, I agree with you. I am fully against online dating but Instagram is social circle game, its different. I disagree that not having one makes you creepy though. I also don't message girls I don't know through IG. Perhaps in the future when I have a better profile (more social proof) I will. I also find it so much better to get a girls IG instead of number (preferibly both though) because you can both look each other up, remember them, and get social proof. Just the …
/r/seduction29/01/19 08:19 AM
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Hahaha, kinky. Bucket list updated... Lol. Really though it is just people in that community having a coffee together, met some really cool girls that way. Oh man I feel you. And the funny thing is she probably thought the same exact thing, but neither of you said anything so nothing came out of it. It's like those romantic movies where no one makes a move, arghhhh. Truth! I'm starting to lean more and more towards just trying to close no matter the IOI's. I once had this girl which I thought I …
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:05 PM
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Ye she sure is, probably a reason I am so attracted to her. Crazy attracts me, not good lol. I will move on cautiously, thanks for the heads up.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:03 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it!
/r/seduction21/01/19 07:26 AM
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Mine which I constantly use to great effect is simply: "Hey I just thought like being social, and you guys seems pretty nice" (insert flirty smile) or something in that regard. Works great at night game. Works on any kind of set. At daygame I would just man up and go direct. Honestly all that matters is two things: Never go opinion opener, that´s all I can say lmao. Don´t worry about opener, just open. I have my go-to if I blank out which is nice, get one and stick to it. The best opener is the …
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:16 PM
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Amen. Especially the part that hints that you stopped working out after meeting her, big nono.
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:07 PM
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You can still pull from coffee dates, I did last friday. Had a coffee, chat a bit build comfort. Go for a walk. Was cold as fuck outside (had a snowstorm yesterday) so I told her I am going back to my place to heat up, and that she is welcome to join me. She did. If you are not comfortable with that just call it a date, netflix or chill, or whatever. Haha yes, takes practice but that frame is amazing.
/r/seduction17/01/19 01:12 PM
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I get your point. I will try using date next time and see how it goes.
/r/seduction17/01/19 01:11 PM
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Actually by not using the word date you take a lot of pressure of the girl, making her less likely to bail. (Benifit). The only thing that matters is meeting her in real life, that´s where everything which matters goes down. Therefore you should just try to do what you can to avoid her bailing, and I believe not calling it a date help in that regard. Hence OP I would not call it a date. Even girls I´ve been with several times I never call it a date. Extra point: Date (at least in Sweden) refers …
/r/seduction16/01/19 02:31 PM
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Just try to have fun dude, you are overthinking it. Be social, have fun. Barely try to think about game, just show interest in her (because you are interested in her, so just show that too her). Then later on at the dancefloor, touch her a bit. Kissing usually happens like magic after that. Best advice I can give you hands down.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:41 AM
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT. Just don't send anything.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:37 AM
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Not familiar with either of them but by your description Fearless Man for sure. If you get inner game down rest comes pretty naturally. Would not recommend anything with canned lines. Also I would do some research on the person behind the product. So many people throwing shit out these days but they have nothing to show for it.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:29 AM
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He is shy/nervous, probably the same as you. You both want the kiss, but no one makes the move. Next time you go for the kiss, or just say "kiss me" lmao. Someone of you needs to make the move!! :)
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:25 AM
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Try to get a "date" asap. Just snap her "whats up", small talk/flirt -> plan coffee. Don't think about other guys. Any hot girl will have lots of guys around her, so what, just ignore that shit. Soon enough you will be surrounded by hot girls. "I know I’m the better guy out of all of these" not the best frame because can be hard to keep up, also you are comparing yourself to other guys. Nothing good comes from that. Instead frame "I am enough"
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:11 AM
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Overthinking. Go on the fucking date, any experience is good experience. Who knows, maybe you hit it off and have a great time. Or you don't. Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:07 AM
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Are you only doing online dating? ... Then you need to chat some first and show of your personality. Text to set plans assumes you already met the girl before, and even then you should small talk 2-3 texts, basically "what are you doing?" works great for me, then onto making plans. About calling: Dunno the girl I am seeing now we always call each other, from the very start. I love it. Honestly "no one does it" so what, no one does cold approach either, doesn't mean that shit isnt super effective…
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:03 AM
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Ye definitely, reminds me of the saying "girls wants the entire movie, not just the end". Plus the more I go out the more I enjoy being out, making it easier to stay late. In the beginning it was more of a burden. Thank you for saying this, I needed that shit. It was so fucking stupid, thought with the wrong fucking head. EGO got in the way. Will not be doing that shit again, thank you once again appreciate it. "Never assume you're so smooth that she made an exception for you." Words to live by.
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:10 PM
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A "set" is a group of girls. A "mixed-set" is a group of guys and girls. This exercise to become "present", aka shut your brain up (who is not your friend in seduction) and just being/saying whatever you feel like, and seeing the world around you. The exercise to achieve this is: Breathe in 6 seconds through nose slowly. Hold breath 3-4 seconds Breathe out 6 seconds through mouth slowly. If you can do a "phshyyyy" sound. Hold breath 3-4 seconds I found it in a RSD video, couldn't find the link t…
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:57 PM
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Ye I agree, don't think the line mattered that much and more to do with holding frame. Fair enough. Still I ruined opportunities like this before so for me it is a quite a big step. Some guys will probably laugh at "she is in your home, how do you fuck that up?" but I have done so before haha. I'm quite impatient, have to work on that. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:54 PM
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Check out this post and scroll down to "friday", I pushed a girl too far so she almost left, and ended up having her begging me to sleep with her. Also you will learn the best single phrase EVER for LMR, you're welcome. https://www.brostory.com/2018/11/week-six-last-minute-resistance.html
/r/seduction14/01/19 05:48 PM
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Treat her like any other date
/r/seduction14/01/19 05:16 PM
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Only thing that helped MASSIVELY was action. This fucking subreddit is so much focus on theory but people on here hardly ever take action. You have key-jockey warriors sitting on here throwing out advice and motivation with nothing to show for it. Honestly the basic for seduction is very simple, get that down then focus on people that take action to inspire you to do the same. Don't spend to much time in here.
/r/seduction14/01/19 05:07 PM
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Thanks a lot man, appreciate it. Will do!
/r/seduction07/01/19 01:19 PM
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Hey man, thanks a lot! Yes sorry I am a bit behind, been traveling for a month now (barcelona, st petersburg, moscow and new york). Have so much to write about now! I just published week 5, already written week 6,7,8 so will publish those soon. Thanks a lot for your support! https://www.brostory.com/2018/11/week-five-dirtytalking-milfs.html // Brostory
/r/seduction07/01/19 09:11 AM
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Yesterday I couldnt approach for shit at one point so I went up to 4 girls with the sole purpose of getting rejected. Went up and asked for a favour, basically for her (the one closest to me) to reject me hard. Went in to get rejected and was honest so I thunk it was very naturally and hence I relaxed. Somehow ended up vibing, kiss closing and number closing. I was so fucking shocked of what happened, I went from 0 to 100 in 20 seconds, that I walked up to another girl and asked her to bitchslap…
/r/seduction20/12/18 08:09 AM
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First and most important step is relizing that you are doing it! No one is better at excuses than our brains...
/r/seduction28/11/18 10:38 AM
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Ye I get where you are coming from. Thing is I find myself using that as a excuse, I call it "closing anxiety". Maybe you are different, but if I found myself in the same situation I would call myself out on bullshit for not trying to close. Aka "I don't give a shit so I don't have to try to close" is a excuse I find myself using at times, and I do my best to call myself out on it. And even if you were leaving the very next minute, you should still try to close just for practice imo.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:22 AM
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I'm going out constantly since I realized for years I never took action. Hopefully this can inspire some of you guys to do the same, and get a feel of how my journey is going. For each post I try to summarize my week quickly (focus on game and self-improvement) and then what I learned in the end. In short what I learned this week is not to take state for granted, face your childhood fears, and DONT GET SICK! :D
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:16 AM
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Same here, real life trumps all.
/r/seduction27/11/18 03:58 PM
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Excuses, you could have a week with her.
/r/seduction27/11/18 03:53 PM
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Nice man keep it up!
/r/seduction26/11/18 01:22 PM
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Great post. I find myself teasing at wrong moments, thanks for the reminder
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:00 AM
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Joke about her
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:39 PM
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amen
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:39 PM
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Ignore until she reaches out
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:38 PM
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Got some humor and self dep nice, work on other areas ull be fine.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:38 PM
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Looks matters but not much. Did a girl tuesday who I litterally met by her complimenting my attractives friends cheekbones lmao. Personality bests all.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:37 PM
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If in ur head than yes.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:36 PM
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Be honest.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:35 PM
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Bro I'm 27 and never been in a relationship, who the fuck mocks you for that shit. Fuck em. Rather be a fuckboy than a relationship mfw anyday. Get out there and fuck ahit up.
/r/seduction16/11/18 11:34 PM
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What? Please apply punctuation.
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:53 AM
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GJ Mate!
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:52 AM
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Try rsd wing forums how I found my wings.
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:43 AM
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Solid advice. For lifts I'd recommend stronglift 5x5.
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:43 AM
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Who do you want to be? The guy who can only talk to girls in your social circle, because approaching a stunner on the street is "risky". Or the guy who sees a stunner and goes up and talks to her. Having gone to two different therapist I must say take everything they say with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:14 AM
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You can go out to bars/clubs and not drink, I do it, my wings do it and pretty much all of RSD does it. Takes some practice getting comfortable though.
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:08 AM
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Hey man! I go out sober (not always, trying to quit alcohol but is a struggle) and don't really use tinder (at times when bored on weekdays, but only the browser version). It is a bit harder but really worthwhile. Overall this is the best way to go. YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH! Like I've had success with 9's in real life while sober who would never match with me on Tinder because I'm mostly average looking, but my personality/game does the work. Also I'm really trying to quit alcohol which is hard…
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:05 AM
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It's FAAAAR FROM TO LATE DUDE!! :D
/r/seduction09/11/18 06:57 AM
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Who cares just meet her and take it from there
/r/seduction08/11/18 11:17 AM
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Go out early and start talking. Cold showers.
/r/seduction08/11/18 09:49 AM
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Just strated a blog of my journey/funny stories at www.brostory.com and I'm also trying to create a service to meet new people.
/r/seduction08/11/18 09:45 AM
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Its momentum based. First approach is hard, second is easier, third is easy, fourth you don't even think just do. Resets daily but it gets easier if you do it a lot.
/r/seduction07/11/18 09:47 AM
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She wants to bang you, it aint rocket science mate. Go meet her! :) //brostory
/r/seduction07/11/18 08:02 AM
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Hey man! Try just talking to girl/guys as friends as a start, no flirty investment. Ask them about their trip, tell them about yours. People who travel love to talk about their trips so should be fine. Once you get the "meeting and being social" with other travelers down I'd start looking at game and so on, but one step at a time. Also don't give in, I believe in you!! :) //brostory
/r/seduction07/11/18 08:00 AM
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Just ask her mate :)
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:52 AM
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Been there can relate. Nowdays I just give 0 shit on dating apps, I use it as a fun no investment outlet when I have some timer over. Also whenever I book a date I always have a backup plan like working on my blog, company or something else if she bails so its no big deal if nothing happens.
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:50 AM
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Hey guys! I am sharing my journey of learning game and improving my life. Hopefully I can hope to inspire some of you guys to take the same journey as I do, and hopefully get some motivation from you too! It all started when I almost died about two months ago, and since then I have been determined to change my life. So far I am about 6 weeks in (I try to be about 1 month ahead of publishing to give me some slack) and it HAS BEEN AMAZING. Seriously action is really nervous thing to do BUT SO WORT…
/r/seduction06/11/18 07:33 PM
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I'm 27 and some nights I don't drink I just tell her straight out. No worries mate.
/r/seduction06/11/18 12:01 PM
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mah man!
/r/seduction02/11/18 01:20 PM
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Thank you! Do it, Let's take action together! Just finishing up Week 2 writeup :)
/r/seduction02/11/18 06:48 AM
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Any advice on how to maintain it? Sometimes I get in state and do super well, but then I have a massive crash and lose all momentum.
/r/seduction01/11/18 02:06 PM
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haha thanks! I'm 27! And thank you, excited to keep going will post week 2 update soon! :)
/r/seduction01/11/18 06:37 AM
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Hey thanks! I am quite observant of me which helps. When heading home I take mental notes of what happened, and then usually write them down the next day. Or on weekdays when slow day at work. Trying to focus on the positives or on what I learnt for most parts. Also helps that I don't drink too much anymore (for most parts)!
/r/seduction31/10/18 07:56 PM
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Hey man, thanks a lot! Just wrote out my first week, went really well! Even got laid with a cute blonde. https://www.brostory.com/2018/09/week-1-17-23-sep-2018-detailed_24.html Take care! // Brostory
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:35 PM
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What do you say to them when arranging hanging out; is it "come hangout woth some friends of mine" or do you state "group date"?
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:03 AM
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Start by talking to her mate. Just say "Hi, I don't think we said hello before. I'm X"
/r/seduction03/10/18 06:46 PM
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Why are you even asking this? Defeatist thinking. Always assume attraction; no benifit not to. Burn the set to the ground. With some social skills you know when you are rejected; for example a girl last week said "It was nice talking to you." aka conversation over, but until that point just keep going. Then just say "have a great night" and open someone else.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:32 PM
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Just man up and say hi, tell ger the truth: you keep seeing her and she caught your interest.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:25 PM
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Online dating/apps perhaps.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:23 PM
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haha this guys posts are fucking comedy.
/r/seduction29/09/18 10:50 PM
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Sums up this thread fairly well.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:40 PM
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My man
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:40 AM
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? You win because you found out if you are fit for each other or not, easy as that. Goal reached no matter the outcome.
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:34 PM
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You are enough (inner game, check!) No matter what happens, stay cool/relaxed (99% of shit-tests passed!) All you really need, these help though: Strong/flirty eye contact (and eyebrows!) By physical (sexual) You win no matter what if you just approach, because you find out if you are fit for each other or not. Mooooost important of all: Be happyyyy, teaseful, playful, and loveee life and people! Be curious! :) All you need.
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:27 PM
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Dude this is on point, being silly, fun and playful while a bit sexual (and direct!). Love it, keep it up and keep sharing.
/r/seduction11/06/18 09:45 PM
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You get your shit together by trying regardless.
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:43 PM
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Ask when she is done and if you can use her machine in between her sets. Decent opener and if she shows interests you can chit-chat between sets.
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:38 PM
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Good post!
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:14 AM
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Be funny but also be sexual.
/r/seduction06/04/18 12:50 PM
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haha that's a good one.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:46 PM
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This is good advice, I always ask how people know each other, then usually they tell some story that you can laugh with hem at.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:38 PM
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The key to talking to a group of girls is to relax and don't always feel to pressured to always talk. Once you can shake that award feeling of "I must be part of the convo/lead" and you can relax things will be smoother. For example this weekend I talked to 3 American girls. They were old friends so a lot of convo I couldn't contribute at all (about their hometown etc), so I chilled, listened, made short comments and questions, laughed. Ended up being invited to dinner with them the next day. Op…
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:35 PM
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Can't wait till my 30's
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:06 PM
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Stop calling her 9-10, they are all just women you are attractive to. Calling her a 10 makes you treat her different than say she was a 6 in your eyes.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:01 PM
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"not bad"
/r/seduction03/04/18 04:17 PM
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"so come earn it" lmao
/r/seduction03/04/18 11:16 AM
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If something gives you anxiety, it means you are on the right path. Chase anxiety and you will find success. Soccer is a lot of fun! Different positions are good at different things, I played goaly myself for many years. Give it a try, you got nothing to lose! :) A tip I can give you is go out somewhere, a bar or some "fun" place, and tell people that you are new in town and don't know anyone. People are overall very friendly and welcoming, specially if you are vulnurable like this. Specially dr…
/r/seduction03/04/18 10:00 AM
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Just fyi saying "lmk if anything changes" gives girl a exciuse if she wants to bail out, or can make her doubt. I doubt it's even relevant in this case but in some scenarios it can fuck you up. Assume all is on plan and give her no chances to doubt/back off. Have a fun date!
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:48 AM
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Bartender or season abroad if you want it that easy, but please don't pick a career based on women; pick a career path you are passionate about.
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:16 PM
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Exactly, with sexual undertone (edited), often your eyes will do this automatically. I doubt you look at your siblings the same way you look at some hot guy, but you can tease both the same way.
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:55 PM
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Ye should have sexual undertones, I do this with the eyes but you are right that I should have mentioned it. Edited.
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:46 PM
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Ye I agree, though for someone who has no idea it is a good place to start and the sibling analogy is something most can relate with.
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:39 PM
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Don't say something is bad advice without giving any reasoning as to why, you are contributing nothing. If it is bad advice, say why you think that is, and give better advice. Good rule to follow in life too.
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:37 PM
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If you are more invested than the girl then it is a bad thing. You always want to be less invested. Right now she is less invested than you, and she is rapidly losing attraction for you while that is the case. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/64zv67/the_most_important_thing_about_seduction_is_not/ No you will come across as less invested. If she thinks you don't care, and she doesn't care that you don't care (lol), then taking a brake is really what you should do. But most …
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:35 PM
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Do you have any siblings? Flirting is much like talking to a sibling, teasing them. Or maybe you tease your parents, I do. Or tease your friends. Say things with irony and a SMIRKY SMILE! The smile and attitude is important. For example I tell girls to "Fuck Off" all the time, but I do it with a smile and flirty eye contact, and the tone of voice says "jokingly". Works great. Without the smile, tone of voice and eye contactit would work horribly wrong. Basically make fun of the other person in a…
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:26 PM
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You are too invested and she can smell it on you, I mean come on you are "stalking" when she is openeing her snaps. Lay off a bit, don't snap her for a few days. Then be like "Hey, let's hangout"
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:24 PM
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This is good stuff.
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:25 PM
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It's ok. Accept it, keep working on moving forwards. Women are attracted to promise of success as much as of that of success. If you strive to better yourself and move forward with passion she won't care, probably only be even more attracted to you. :)
/r/seduction25/01/18 06:31 AM
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Ask when they are done on their machine, and smile. Friendly. Then go on with your workout. When you see her again, say hi. Conversation starts, rapport builds, then take it from there.
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:41 AM
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Uninstall tinder. If you want top quality women you have to find them in real life. In RL, the competition is pretty low, most guys suuuuck. Tinder is waste of time and energy. You are investing in someone you never met, and probably won't meet.
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:39 AM
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Few beers in with a buzz is perfect if you want optimal game. No more no less. Then again getting shitfaced with good friends can always be fun but don't expect to pull lol. Then again I've pulled some amazing women being way drunk but only because I was purely out to have a fun, took nothing seriously and the girls were equally drunk.
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:10 AM
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Just look at her deep and sexual, say something sexual. Done deal. You both wanted it but none made a move, so make the move next time. Don't beat yourself up.
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:00 AM
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Don't do it. It will fuck your social status, and then GL with the one you really want (who I'm guessing has higher status). Only sleep with women who you are genuinly attracted to.
/r/seduction24/01/18 06:42 AM
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I stopped caring so much and just did stupid shit to have fun. Turns out having fun and enjoying yourself while not giving a shit is a great way to meet women. Who would have thought.
/r/seduction21/07/17 10:54 AM
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A tip is to lick your lips beforehand, makes it smoother and not as dry on initial contact.
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:09 AM
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Just talk to her, say something like "So how's your workout going? ;)", then roll it from there. In the gym I would probably tell them about the time I almost died on the Smith machine while benching. Overloaded by 20kg because I thought the bar was free weight (hint, it was not). This was on a low rep set so was intially heavy enough. Lifted off the bar and felt right away "OH SHITTTT". That shit dropped down like a fat lady falling down a staircase. SWOSH! I tried to angle the bar into the hol…
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:07 AM
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You never know unless you try, so walk up, smile, and say whatup.
/r/seduction29/03/17 09:14 AM
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