BruddaRed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Life is a Game, Play to Win	Building Power	BruddaRed	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/21 07:06 PM

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6	Should I reach out to her to show that I truly care about her? (This is long, but please help me!) Do your thing for the next two weeks like you said, she'll reach out if she wants to. Hit her up when you're back in town and invite her to join you for a fun activity. You place too much thought on trying not to make her feel uncomfortable. I guarantee you that she wants you to be confident and assertive in your decisions, as most women do. If you get her back at your place again in the future, any girl for that matter, just keep moving things forward assuming that's what she wants too. Only st…	/r/seduction	13/06/22 07:44 PM
10	How did you find out about TRP community? Be careful with Models. Especially the part about vulnerability. Even the Godfather himself, Rollo Tomassi, will tell you Manson has taken the Blue Pill. https://twitter.com/rationalmale/status/874331691489255424?lang=en https://twitter.com/rationalmale/status/1120908232535334912?lang=en https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/comment-page-2/ https://therationalmale.com/2018/02/26/what-makes-a-man/	/r/askTRP	23/03/21 09:17 PM
13	How do you get over one-itis Unfortunately there is no magic trick to get over this girl any faster. You’re just going to have to tough it out until you’re able to leave her in the past. Your problem with oneitis is coming from a scarcity mindset. You said it yourself as you mentioned how the dating pool in your area suck, as do the dating apps. Then you followed up with, “as luck would have it” as if you’re thanking your lucky stars you were able to find ONE girl. Don’t take offense to this, I’m merely trying to help you f…	/r/seduction	17/03/21 06:22 AM
0	Will a large amount of men become miserable when learning about female nature? You’re making assumptions about me based on what exactly? You continue to try and attack me because you have associated what I have said about MGTOW/Black Pill as a personal attack. You don’t have to flex to some random redditor about your lavish lifestyle and how many women you can get with. Typically, insecure people do that sort of thing. I was trying to have a conversation but all you do is continue to throw shade. I never once mentioned putting the pussy on a pedestal, all I’ve said is you …	/r/askTRP	16/03/21 11:31 PM
1	Will a large amount of men become miserable when learning about female nature? Nobody will be top level because not everybody wants to go through the pain and effort it takes to get there. To be quite honest, based on your comment here, it sounds like you don’t want to put in the work yourself, rather, you’d prefer to play the victim. If you don’t want to put in the work, then that’s your choice, but let’s call a spade a spade here, it’s a loser’s mindset to give up and blame your shortcomings on women. You obviously resent women which is a shame because there are certainl…	/r/askTRP	16/03/21 08:08 PM
4	Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM Why would they get mad at falling for a top 20% man? Those type of men are so rare in today’s world. The only reason women get mad is usually because men will utilize the facade of pickup artistry and eventually get found out that it’s all an act. It’s also worth mentioning that the top 20% of men have a plethora of options available and it makes them that much harder to lock down. Hence, the alpha that got away they seemingly cling to in their minds. Notice how women always say, “All men are as…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/21 04:51 PM
15	Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM Okay let's breakdown your 3 comments in this one post and clear things up. Deer doesn't want to be hunted for obvious reasons. Women don't actually want to be seduced (by someone who isn't perfect). Women want to maintain power in the seduction world. They want to still be in charge of sexual market. They want to choose who they fuck and who they marry. If a girl falls in love with some bastard - she loses control Women do want a man that is able to seduce them. To seduce is literally to entic…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/21 07:28 AM
3	Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/21 06:26 AM
8	Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM The subject of the post is about asking girls for dating advice. You shouldn’t be asking women for dating advice just like you wouldn’t ask a fish how to catch it. The fish will likely give you bad advice just as a women would. I’d bet money that if you did ask a girl for dating advice, not only would she lose all attraction for you, but she would tell you something along the lines of, “just be yourself and you’ll find the right girl for you” which is a bunch of shit. Women expect men to “just g…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/21 05:47 AM
70	Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM Does a hunter ask a deer how to hunt? Simple as that.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/21 01:48 AM
10	Will a large amount of men become miserable when learning about female nature? My man, you are too focused on women. Women should not be the focus of your life. You are not putting in all of this effort for women, you are putting in all of this effort for yourself! Do this and a high-quality woman will find you, not the other way around.	/r/askTRP	16/03/21 01:42 AM
11	Will a large amount of men become miserable when learning about female nature? That is what happens when you take redpill ideals too far. You’re entering MGTOW territory which should be avoided like the plague it is. The redpill teaches us as men the realities of today’s femcentric culture and how we are to handle it so that we may achieve success in our lives. Rather than worry about women not giving a shit about the male struggle, strive for success regardless. In the end, it doesn’t matter because it’s a win-win situation for you. If you continue to level up in life, yo…	/r/askTRP	16/03/21 01:36 AM
1	Why am I (M21) wired this way? People typically want what they can’t have. I’d bet money that girl from last night wanted you even more by displaying that kind of attitude. Think of it as the ol’ push-pull method. You can’t be 100% abrasive all the time, throw some bait out there to show her you might be interested. It’ll get her brain spinnin at 100mph tryna figure out if you’re into her or not which will ultimately keep you on her mind. Another thing worth adding here. This current generation struggles with social interacti…	/r/seduction	15/03/21 12:36 AM
7	Why do I get attached to every girl so easily? Talk to more girls, give yourself options, and create abundance for yourself. I know it’s difficult now, let alone easier said than done, but you have to endure the pain to get anywhere in life and put in the work. It’ll be easier to create that abundance if you continue working on yourself and level up in money, looks, and status. Get grindin my Brooda!!	/r/seduction	14/03/21 10:48 AM
2	Why do women get to live like losers and no one calls them out on it? Women are constantly patting themselves on the back for how difficult their lives are and no one corrects them because they want to fuck ‘em. -Bill Burr	/r/askTRP	14/03/21 09:05 AM
1	POV:- You are here because you don't have good genetics. This is such a defeatist attitude that will get you nowhere. Women typically want to see three things in a man they become intimate with... money, looks, and status. You can certainly put in the work to level up in any one of those three categories. It’s just a matter of how much pain and effort you’re willing to go through. For looks, you can easily hit the gym on a consistent schedule, change your diet, dress well, groom well, and so much more! Even if you got dealt a bad hand by genetics, you…	/r/seduction	12/03/21 04:15 AM
65	Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted. No, never believe what women tell you. They will only tell you what they think you want you to hear. That’s why you have to watch her actions and understand that the medium is the message, not her words. Especially in this situation where effort was put into creating these business plans to bank off of sugar daddies. You don’t put that kind of effort into something you’re doing for shits and giggles.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 07:55 PM
53	Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted. Bro, she can't have her cake and eat it too. She knows what she has done and continued to do, now she got caught in the act and is begging for your forgiveness. Show some fucking resolve in yourself and walk away with your dignity. Once she realizes she was able to get away with something like this, she'll try to see what else she can get away with. You'll end up conceding territory inch by inch until there's nothing left to give. Her words are lies, jus tryna downplay her actions not to mention…	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 07:18 PM
6	The day after a date Thanks Brotha!! So this shouldn't be a barrier if she's out with you on a date. She understands the risks of COVID going out and is willingly taking that risk. If she says she won't kiss you or go home with you because she's worried of COVID, then that's just her covertly telling you "no" to avoid confrontation. If she enjoyed her time spent with you, you've escalated appropriately, and she feelin you, you can 100% kiss her at some point throughout the night, if not take her home. Regarding comf…	/r/seduction	22/01/21 04:46 PM
9	The day after a date Okay let's break this down, after all that's my favorite thing to do. You mention this is a recurring problem so there's definitely a pattern to be found her. By the look of it, you're landing plenty of online dates so your looks aren't the problem based on the rate of matches. But what could it be exactly? You explain that you walk them to their car and embrace in a close hug. Ooooh there's our problem!!! You should seek to have sex on the first date, if not at the very least kiss her. But how …	/r/seduction	22/01/21 04:10 AM
2	Becoming more mysterious Because nobody needs to know your business other than those who you're close with, not some hoe you're tryna impress. The only time I would recommend you post to your story is if you livin a lavish lifestyle and CONSTANTLY doin fun shit like traveling, fine dining, hoverboarding, ect. You get the idea & that's hard to do without money to spend. So until you're more established in life, I would lay off the use of stories.	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 11:34 PM
2	I just started dating this chick and I already dumped her. Did I do the right thing? Pretty much this right here. It's definitely a major red flag no cap, but only if you're lookin to LTR this girl. If you just tryna fuck n keep her spinning as a plate, then I wouldn't concern myself of it too much.	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 10:13 PM
20	7 hour date (!) gone wrong? BROOOOOOO!!!!! Okay let's take this from the top cause we gotta review what exactly is happenin here. Quick first date is great especially from Tinder. She probably planted that seed with you incase she met you, wasn't feelin ya, n wanted to bounce. Buuuuut she was feelin ya HEAVY and that's why she stuck around. Y'all went to different locations and had a nice date, I saw in one of the comments below that you hadn't touched her at all, but that's okay because you still took her home!! Now for f…	/r/seduction	16/01/21 09:47 PM
1	Becoming more mysterious You know just how to make a grown man cry don't you :')	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 08:43 PM
3	When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics) Genuine desire is non-negotiable. You shouldn't have to question whether she is interested in you. If you are questioning it, then she doesn't have genuine desire. Do you think she would cancel/flake on a date with Bradd Pitt? If she did, you know she'd try to reschedule herself ASAP! What makes you any different? My general rule of thumb goes a little like this... I usually give her two chances before I cut my losses and pursue other prospects. If things don't work out with our original plans, …	/r/seduction	16/01/21 08:03 PM
5	Universal recipe Become the best version of yourself you can possibly be. Are you a 5’6 out of shape man living paycheck to paycheck? Then become a 5’6 muscular man living with a constant flow of money entering his savings account. Are you stuck working as a cashier at a dead-end job with no social life other than talking to others in a public video game lobby? Then become a lawyer with a degree from a prestigious school who goes out every Friday night making new friends and meeting cute girls. I know this is al…	/r/seduction	16/01/21 07:57 PM
1	Becoming more mysterious This, idk why so many people are against Instagram. It's just another rule to the game we all out here playin and rather than put in the work to show off a high value Instagram, most guys seem to find it easier if they just ditch the whole thing all together and call it "High Value"	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 07:46 PM
2	Becoming more mysterious Snapchat and Instagram are fine. Just don't ever post to your stories. With Snapchat, it's actually a great alternative to communicate and further interact with women. You can get some easy nudes through snap if you got the text game for it. With Instagram, you should only be posting HIGH QUALITY photos of yourself and/or pictures of fun shit you be doing in your life that these women can look at and imagine themselves bein there with you. But don't go giving out your Instagram if you don't have…	/r/askTRP	16/01/21 07:43 PM
15	Universal recipe Chase excellence, not women. Build it, and they shall come.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 07:27 PM
1	What does it mean to be a "player"? A player is a deceptive man. A player deceives women into believing one thing while doing the opposite behind their back. Somebody who is a player would tell a girl that he isn't seeing other women behind her back and then go see other women. Somebody who isn't a player would tell a girl that he is seeing other women as they are only casually dating and as a result, aren't exclusive. Then afterward goes to see other women, ultimately not going behind her back.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 07:25 PM
0	Getting at a cashier Bruh... This is autistic. Please don’t do this OP, this has to be one of the creepiest things I’ve read in a long while. For starters, it shows you are putting waaaaaayyy too much time, thought, and effort into this. Second, you are literally attempting to setup a perfect opportunity for some “alone time” and “won’t take no for an answer” sounds like some real rapey shit. Like come on, you can’t tell me this shit ain’t weird when the entire premise of this fucked op strategy is banking on the gi…	/r/seduction	03/01/21 01:16 PM
4	Tinder is not good for my mental health. They easily get bored with dull conversation and will focus on what’s most exciting to them at the moment whether that be someone or something. You essentially become yesterday’s news. They typically match with hundreds of guys within an hour or two of signing up and if you don’t stand out AND CONTINUE TO STAND OUT you’ll be lost in the wave of men.	/r/askTRP	02/01/21 08:33 PM
1	Inviting someone over for wine on first date, bad idea? I mean it's certainly not a bad idea, but it can be somewhat risky. If she's down to link up at yours on the first meet, she knows what that means and is DTF. But the reality is there are a lot of weirdos out there and it's always best to meet others in a public place first, especially for women who have to always keep their guard up until they feel comfortable around a person. From there, if things go well, you can bring her back to your place later on in the night. Again, if a woman accepts yo…	/r/seduction	12/11/20 08:11 PM
1	Got a bad sex review. Looking for advice Based on the information you provided, I'd say you did nothing wrong. Unless this is a continuing pattern with multiple different women, then I wouldn't worry about it. Don't get too strung up on her dippin out, it was just your turn and now it's some other guy's turn. Onto the next! I also want to add after looking at some of the other comments. Don't let this get to you, experience comes over time, so the next time you fuck, don't psych yourself out thinking you're not going to meet expectatio…	/r/seduction	12/11/20 07:52 PM
2	Why? Yeah it can be annoying and sometimes frustrating. But it's just part of the game that has to be played if you want to have sex with women. But you need to understand this, you shouldn't have to ask any woman to have sex with you, women should want to have sex with you. This is done by biting the bullet and playing the game, and not only playing the game, but giving it your all to win at that game. It doesn't matter how many books you read or Youtube videos you watch, the best teacher is your ow…	/r/seduction	29/10/20 10:59 PM