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I’d probably choose to go on a second date with a guy who could humor me and dresses nice. The thing is, you can’t woo someone on date 1 by being loyal. You can’t prove loyalty on one date. But what you can prove is how fun you are to be around. And that’s what gets you your second date, and maybe even the third. Being fun to talk to and relatable and have a nice sense of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 09:32 PM
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It’s a word that the LGBTQ community as a whole is reclaiming. Gay men most frequently use it bc it was most heavily associated with their identity during the gay rights movement. But much like the word “gay” can be a blanket term for any LGBTQ member, so can “queer.” Each individual person though may or may not feel comfortable identifying by it, so it’s usually a case my case basis tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:52 PM
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believe it or not, bisexual/pansexual women can call themselves queer too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:40 PM
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Yeah, that I get, but there doesn’t seem to be many bi/pan men talking (they may also just not feel comfortable expressing they’re bi/pan on these forums, which is an issue) there also isn’t much perspective on non-het women, who i would argue tend to behave differently than het women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:47 PM
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I mean, it’s not that they don’t talk about it, it’s 1) their use of offensive language (like labeling a man who subscribed to TBP as benign a fag) and 2) their generalizations of “all women”/“all men.” The sub itself is not outright homophobic, I’m just curious if these frequent behaviors are symptoms of a larger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:35 PM
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i mean, compared to your intelligence and decency, nothing is quite as oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:57 PM
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That’s what I think too. I just think it’s interesting when people use TRP logic to categorize all women as being one way or all men being one way without realizing that not all women want sex from men and not all men want sex from women bc they’re queer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:47 PM
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Awe how cute, a man who devolves into a child when he can’t form a logical argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:59 PM
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Buying a product for something =/= thing isn’t taboo. For instance, BDSM was taboo for a long time. Doesn’t mean that people only just recently started buying whips and collars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:45 AM
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Bruh stop being so “ugh the feminists are pushing an agenda, muh” and show me your dern source
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:56 PM
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Listen my dude, as much as I really do want to continue this incredibly logical banter we have going on, it seems as though neither can convince the other of anything. So all in all, this arguing is pointless. I come up with actual sources for you, you write them off. I tell you I’ve got experience and research to back this up, you say it doesn’t matter bc of a single spelling error. My goal is to educate, yours is to dissuade. How about you trip me up with an actual scholarly source about male …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:26 PM
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Lol point #1 is grammatically incorrect so I guess you’re pretty stupid too, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:15 PM
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Alright, well since you’re insistent on my providing of a scholarly sources, here’s a source from the Journal of Sex Research: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2012.745474 “the relative invisibility of women's masturbation infects women's consciousness about how they talk about, think about, and engage in masturbation.” Actually, the presence of slang words does make things less taboo. Think about it this way; if there’s a million ways to refer to an action, rather than just…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:14 PM
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“In my human sexuality class recently, I asked students to come up with all the known slang terms for male masturbation. They quickly listed at least a dozen. Then I asked them to come up with slang to describe female masturbation. None came instantly to mind. After much effort, they came up with ‘flicking the bean' and ‘Jill off.' That was it. Language describes reality, and also shapes it. What you don't have words for you do not own or understand.” https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:09 PM
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What if I do, why’s it any of your business chief?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:18 AM
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That’s entirely fair! I’m sure it does range from region to region. I’m American, if that helps at all. Most of the things I say I’m pulling from a class I took at my university called “Sexual Pleasure in the Modern World.” Lots of psychological analysis of the dynamics of gendered sexuality but also of porn and it’s development throughout time. Some things my professor taught I know were probably a little dated, but I still think much of it applies today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:12 AM
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More young women experience rape as their first sexual experience than men, so across the board, no. Women don’t watch porn as often because of many reasons, one being that generic porn isn’t often made with the female viewer in mind. Another is that sexuality is still a point of shame for women. As much as we’d love to say that our time of sexual liberation is now, it really isn’t. Masturbation is still a little taboo for women. Men talk about doing it solo more freely and often than women, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:00 AM
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Hun, I’m not going to try and argue that porn isn’t bad in some respects, partially because I agree with what you’re saying but mainly because that’s not my point. My point is that what you’re saying doesn’t apply to what OP is asking. But let’s run with this. The one study you just sited, the majority of their studied female population was “white, married, heterosexual and on active military duty.” So basically, a characteristically conservative group of white women. That probably skewed their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:50 AM
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While both of you have the right idea about porn in general, I would like to respectfully disagree with how this applies to OP. OP is discussing fantasies that won’t just go away if he stops watching porn. OP wanting to degrade/humiliate women is not his expectation for what all sex is like or should be like; he specifically uses the term “fantasy” to distinguish that these things are his particular desire. They’re things that would enhance his experience, making it more suitable to him specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:14 AM
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As a woman who is actively involved in the BDSM community, let me tell you that your fantasies are neither unusual nor do they originate from “internalized misogyny.” There are women out there who gain sexual pleasure from consensual non-consent (called CNC), from being caned and even from being literally pissed on BY MEN. And it’s not misogynistic at all. What makes all of this completely okay is the fact that the women in these situations are actively choosing to be treated that way. They comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:52 AM
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