Brundesgut Archive

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3	How do I sext? What should I do? The principles behind this is solid, but you don't want a woman that gives in to this line of thinking. Be bold, say what you want. You maybe don't get this specific woman, but you shouldn't be trying to anyways. Don't focus on one specific girl. The thing is, even men get nervous before a date or a hookup. You can hide behind macho bullshit, but some kind of nervousness is there. We just learn to not act on it, many women use it as a shield and flake or give out LMR.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 11:09 AM
2	How exactly do you handle LMR for women who activate their 'anti-slut defense' before sex I've experienced hard LMR two times and my solution to both times is the same, although it may sound manipulative. When I was younger, I missed a ton of signals from women and it got me thinking of the mindset behind it. Like the signals are often "miss it and you're done" kind of thing. It baffled me why would a girl I was on a date with suddenly stopped wanting to kiss me, if I missed a gaze, or reacted to her nervous flinch. It's about what I want and seeing if you want the same. If I am in a…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 09:19 AM
1	Confused about woujo’s post It may seem arrogant, but arrogance starts way beyond this point. You don't think you are better than anyone else.... You simply protect your energy and interact when interacted with or you feel strong desire to interact. You don't think person you are speaking with is below you or not worthy, you just don't give out your energy for nothing. It's complicated, because this isn't about doing, this is about feeling. You need to feel correct intent behind your actions and you need to believe the str…	/r/seduction	20/12/25 02:32 PM
4	Confused about woujo’s post Women expect you like her and will try to win her favor, because that's what most guys do. She waits for you to fall into the frame she very well knows, even if you start strong. That means showing her too much atention, or oversharing you like her. When you don't do that and the girl likes you, she panics, she gives you compliments, she becomes touchy, even puts on her man boots and buy you a drink. When she does that, you reciprocate and you can sleep soundly, because you know you won, if you …	/r/seduction	19/12/25 11:13 AM
1	How to get over awkwardness while you speak with someone LunarNinja summed it up pretty well, but just to add to that, try to see when it is actually your fault and when it isn't. I have struggled long with this. Conversations are about two people, the other person must contribute, otherwise it is just rambling. Especially nowadays it seems like women are allergig to asking even one simple question. Most of them literally have the "entertain me" attitude. As LunarNinja said, with enough skill and experience, you can kickstart any conversation, but als…	/r/seduction	18/12/25 12:11 PM
1	Best way to ask a girl out ? So in a nutshell you like to be direct.... man, if you say what you find sexy on her and there is no pushback or awkward silence, she is into you, she is not neutral. That's all you need to know. When a woman doesn't like you, you can hardly keep her responding, taking her out alone is next to impossible. If you have rapport and she agrees to a one on one "date" she likes you enough for you to try and don't fuck it up.	/r/seduction	15/12/25 03:40 PM
1	Abundance vs delusion It's to always remember you have bagged a woman in the past and you can do it again. That your approach works and if she has problem with it, you are not going to change it, but acknowledge she is not meant for you. Basically, explained on the most extreme case: If your game up until now was going to the club, finding a girl you liked most and whispering in her ear: "I want to fuck your ass" and it worked good enough that you were happy with it, you won't crumble when another woman calls you a c…	/r/seduction	15/12/25 02:36 PM
62	Trying to get laid on work conference - worth it? Risky move overall, but if you insist, I would proceed as follows: When you meet a girl you like, suggest getting a drink first, no woman is going to have sex with you if she isn't willing to spend time one on one on drinks, coffee is too formal, I wouldn't go for that. But even coffee dates could be productive, but when mixing work with pleasure way riskier, you need to have top notch game, but as others suggested, if you had that, you wouldn't need to ask this sub. When you are with the girl h…	/r/seduction	14/12/25 08:54 PM
5	you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashed This is the way... If we are talking about the date, there is no way she doesn't know I am interested and I am assuming she has at least a little bit of interest in me... If she openly tells me she is going on the "vacation" with other men, or even hints at some other guy she finds attractive, talked to, was at his place, I am out. Why the fuck would you say this to a person you like and find attractive? You wouldn't. If you want to have a cake and eat it too, you don't have a good character. If…	/r/seduction	13/12/25 12:25 PM
1	Manipulation & Machiavellian Traits in Women: How to Stop it for Good "they’re (I suppose men who speak about manipulation) telling us that they lack the hard power (and resources like critical thinking skills) to do more than whine about their victimhood online." what a load of bullshit. So you're telling me that men, who have been fucked over lack strength, critical thinking skills and other "resources" to even the game. You are also saying that treating women as equals is the antidote to manipulation. Don't know buddy, as I see things, manipulation often rises …	/r/seduction	11/12/25 11:49 AM
8	The dark side of this game Really not a cold approach fan, but I had my share of success, mainly on the apps. You are absolutely right about handling rejections and having a hard time letting women in. In the years of my journey I have noticed something else that is interesting tho. When you gain confidence and have a good understanding of what works for you, things get so much quicker. I met a lot of women, some were success some not so much. But when we were talking about life and dating, I started to reckognize men tha…	/r/seduction	07/12/25 07:50 PM
-2	Went to a rave party sure buddy	/r/seduction	07/12/25 12:24 PM
-4	Went to a rave party convent lol, sure whatever... You are going to a place where there are shitfaced drugged people. Rave girls are know for being easy and carefree. Really getting into how you "animate your face more" and making sure your body is facing her makes you look like desperate chump but you do you. You are fighting over one of the horniest and sluttiest girls on the planet stressing about how you carry yourself. All you need to do is say hey, grab a drink with her, chat for a bit, go outside, feel the vi…	/r/seduction	07/12/25 11:50 AM
-26	Went to a rave party Rave is hookup on easy mode and you are bragging about it like you are king of the world.	/r/seduction	07/12/25 10:09 AM
1	Concept of bringing value instead of taking value. Giving/Taking value is mostly shit PUAs make up so they can keep pulling money from you, that plus calibration. No matter what you do, when the girl isn't being receptive and you ask them what went wrong, they can chuck it up to one of these three. "Oh, you were taking value instead of giving it" Some will say you are giving the girl value by asking questions and so giving her the opportunity to talk about herself, her passions, because everyone loves talking about themselves. Talking about your…	/r/seduction	01/12/25 11:23 AM
1	Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around Just this...wow. This is the reason men are fucking done with dating. Yeah, you gave a nice enough ideas and your advice sounds good, but that's about it. The mentality behind it is rotten. Seriously, if a girl I am dating told me to my face I need to do this or that, because she can get affection and/or sex anywhere, I would be done with her that instant. Oh wait, one girl told me exactly that and to this day I believe it is the most heartbreaking shit you can say to a man. He doesn't matter, i…	/r/seduction	28/11/25 11:13 AM
2	Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around What a cunt.... For anyone reading this, this is exactly the type of woman you don't plan fancy shit for. If you are planning dates, plan for a woman who actually appreciates you, not someone who decides if she is gonna let you kiss or hit based on where did you take her.	/r/seduction	27/11/25 01:43 PM
1	This subreddit is full of creeps You're right, for the most part. But I think problem is people wanting quick success and going into overdrive for it. They become more desperate, more silly, more harrassing... One thing this subreddit gets right is that it is a numbers game, when you're seeing it from a certain point of view. From 8 billion people, there is always at least one who catches on. But there is great advice here, you just need to find it. I was a years long lurker, trying what works for me and what doesn't. I had a r…	/r/seduction	22/11/25 03:27 PM
40	Women at work think I have wh0res Yeah, as someone here mentioned, these kind of women have a strange way to fuck with you when you are getting no pussy. They see you are single and hopeless, so they act all flirty and compliment you, saying all sorts of shit, like women must fight over you, they also be really touchy and really forward, talking about sexual things all the time. This is not an indication of interest and i can't stress that enough. Don't fall for it. They want to see you flustered, nervous, not knowing what to sa…	/r/seduction	21/11/25 11:20 AM
93	Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back? This. It happened too many times, we were going on many dates, taking turns splitting the bill, holding hands, joking, cuddling, kissing at the end of the date, It looked perfect on paper, but she wanted to take it slow, so in reality, I was going home with blue balls every time. It was frustrating. So I just ended up pursuing other options and well... other options were far more enjoyable. It may sound crude, but romantic relationships are mainly about sex. If you don't get any, you may as well…	/r/seduction	14/11/25 08:27 AM
2	Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how? It's actually very simple, at least for me. There is only one condition, you can't make a big deal out of sex. It's fun, everyone is chasing it, so it's completely normal and natural to imply things are leading to it. When she agrees to a date, she is willing to escalate, if you don't fuck it up badly. Have a good time, show her around. After couple of drinks at one venue, I ask her if she wants to go somewhere else. She almost always says yes. This is where you lock in, and confidently suggest …	/r/seduction	10/11/25 03:11 PM
2	Wearing dress clothes approaching on college campus got weird reactions Any "coaches" who tells you to wear a dress clothes are full of shit. Can dressing sharply help you? yes it can, but if you are just wander aimlessly you look like a pompous tryhard. from several personal accounts i can tell you people who are wearing suits everyday casually because they think it makes them look good are people not very pleasurable to talk to. Very self important	/r/seduction	17/10/25 08:08 AM