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BrunetteChemist/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:52 PM
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Thanks ❤️ This is the spirit with which I commented. I’m not always the best at stating my intentions so as to not come across as judgemental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:13 PM
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I disagree. You can’t deny that, for better or worse, the literal definition and the derogatory use of the word retarded are both regarded as offensive to people with cognitive impairment. The types of high value classy that come to mind for me are women like Michelle Obama, who would be sensitive to the way that their words would come across. They would not bother to try and make the distinction between calling someone a retard or calling them retarded. They would just find a better way to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:55 AM
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Using the word retarded in the way you did comes across as derogatory towards people living with cognitive impairments and I hope that you recognize it as such. I know this guy was a tool, but you are so much higher value than to use words like retarded. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:08 AM
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Not to me. It shows a strong sense of family values and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:21 PM
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Nope I’m the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:08 PM
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Oh my god this just changed my entire life. Thank you for pointing this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:40 PM
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Yassss. Lying to look like he was better than he was. We all have some issues or another but we handle then and move forward, not just hiding them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:03 PM
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Are you saying that the shrinks suggest BPD to just be a more formally defined form of trauma?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:16 PM
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❤️❤️❤️ you’ve got this! Any way that you choose to care for yourself and pursue personal growth and respect is fully supported 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:57 PM
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Take this with a huge grain of salt because I don’t know you from Adam, but one of the ways I found out that I am bipolar was that I fell into obsessing about new men very quickly and just got so excited about everything to do with them. Love can make a person manic if they’re bipolar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:45 AM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:56 AM
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Yeah you responded to me 3 (now 4 😂) times lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:50 AM
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You can stop beating it over my head now. I already responded that I saw your point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:48 AM
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Yeah I can see your point, thanks for the explanation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:41 AM
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I think the next time I talk about sex, I'm going to call it "exchanging fluids." ​ I just want to state that statistically, the reason STI rates have been higher is due to old folks having sex and not caring if they get an infection because they're already done living anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:21 PM
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OMG I can't believe I didn't think about the fact that saying "100% black and white thinking is unhealthy regardless," is a black and white statement of its own, lol. You are quite right, and thank you for saying such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:13 PM
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I guess I can see your point, and to that extent I agree with where you are coming from. I still don't think it's necessary for every woman to give up sex until they find a HVM, but like I said I'm not actually here to argue for one position being better than the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:07 PM
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FDS is about finding a HVM, by being a HVW- not "getting more from men." There's a difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:59 PM
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I get that tough love is a thing, but there is still a line between tough love and rude judgement. I'm not really here to argue the point of sex or no sex, I'm just calling you out to caution your lack of consideration for the other women here. FDS is here to build women up, and 100% black and white thinking is really unhealthy, regardless of what it's about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:56 PM
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Thank you! I agree entirely. Take what works for you, leave the rest, and respect everyone else who isn't going to have all of the same things work for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:50 PM
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I'm pretty sure that many of the posters on here advocate for making FDS work for you. If you stick to FDS 100% that's great, but a lot of people are going to take what's useful for them and leave the rest. You kind of just come across like you're judging the hell out of other people who aren't strict disciples, rather than supporting their growth. Personally, I really like the parts of this sub which support women in the building up of their self respect and ability to command respect from othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:48 PM
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Some of the comments in here really make it sound like there is a chip on some people’s shoulder. This seems to be causing an issue during the discussion of whether or not casual sex is ever reasonable or okay. I know that FDS says to keep sex very close to you until he deserves it, but if you’re not expecting a HVM and relationship out of him and you are confident in your own value, then there’s really nothing wrong with having a sexual arrangement IF THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE EXPECTING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:36 PM
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I agree- I didn’t intend to make it sound like those were the only two choices. It is indeed generally much more complex. I apologize if I insulted you, and thank you for adding nuance to my comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:51 PM
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Is the assumption that they’re not men of real value, but that you’re so great that you should easily find one? Or that your standards are so low that anyone should do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:35 PM
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Woah! Congrats girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:33 PM
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What is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:09 AM
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