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As in it helped me look at myself and improve myself - Yes. Which led to more success elsewhere As compared to the usual PUA BS - definitely As a guide on "do this step by step and get women" - No. This book is not that. If fact I don't think there is a book that does that.
/r/seduction09/07/26 02:15 AM
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there's a lot here for sure... The most important one for me is you confusing terms.. I said good man, you interpreted that as "nice" guy. These are not the same things. The good man is genuine and knows who he is and what he wants. The "nice guy" is often an act as you describe. The fact that you think the fboy loser type is genuine says a lot too. He may well say "this is who i am" but he is also the type that will feed you any BS it takes to get you into bed as that's his only goal. If it's n…
/r/seduction10/06/26 01:27 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction10/06/26 09:06 AM
1

Yep and women fall for/ sleep with the fboy losers all the time and then ask where are all the good men
/r/seduction10/06/26 09:02 AM
1

Love it and love her reaction more
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:20 PM
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There are levels obviously. I don't chase casual sex so I would not be interested in sleeping with someone that I would not have a relationship with. no matter how hot she was. But I also wouldn't be interested in a woman who had a history of sleeping around and going off with bums/ wasters/ other undesirables. That would make her significantly less attractive to me later. It's each to their own and what they are happy with - it just sometimes causes clashes later when different peoples standard…
/r/seduction22/05/26 09:14 AM
2

Yes, unfortunately seemingly intelligent, attractive women do go off with bums/ wasters/ unattractive guys far more than makes any sense. Really changes how you see them.
/r/seduction22/05/26 03:38 AM
5

Your family are right.
/r/seduction10/05/26 07:31 AM
-6

Sex is not a biological need.. it is a want or drive.
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:30 PM
2

I was never interested in the empty, vacuous hook up/ ONS thing... had 2 and then never again it seemed pretty low quality behaviour and a waste of time and effort - Nothing has changed my mind on that.
/r/seduction13/04/26 04:14 AM
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No. She has a bf. That is all.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:54 PM
0

The inability to understand simple concepts is your limitation, not mine.
/r/seduction02/03/26 04:55 AM
8

jfc, you need to really rethink this.. did you honestly think you would have any other outcome but this? You immediately came across as a creep/ potential threat rolling up in your car. You gave out a weak line, they said no emphatically, you decided to add to the creep vibes but not taking no for an answer. They were even more clear in their response. You completed the set by still refusing to take a clear no as meaning no and tried a 3rd time. That's the kind of "approach" that gives all men a…
/r/seduction01/03/26 03:04 AM
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Some people have stronger resolve and more self control. When single I had no interested in kissing women/ sleeping with them on the first date. I have never done that, by choice, and I don't do hook ups or ONS, nor am I interested in women who do. I need to know there is something there beyond a fleeting, usually situational, attraction. I am not interested in a kiss that night or see that as a win in and of itself.
/r/seduction01/03/26 02:24 AM
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so where my statement was positioned as 3. under the part about her leaning away and being more firm about it was right and you were quibbling over nothing. The point I was making was that OP seems to think that is she say no, she is either playing games or she doesn't want to kiss him, instead of it being self control and restraint that she is displaying. and she wouldn't kiss anyone on the first date. I get it, reading is hard for some
/r/seduction28/02/26 01:28 PM
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so 3 is a possibility then... she just has self control and does not kiss on the first date no matter who is asking her.
/r/seduction28/02/26 12:38 PM
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lol that's an inventive answer.. so no doesn't mean no to you then?? Interesting take on things but its usual PUA bs
/r/seduction28/02/26 12:35 PM
4

or 3. She doesn't kiss on first date like she told you. Why is that a hard thing to understand/ not an option in your list?
/r/seduction28/02/26 07:41 AM
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It doesn't matter either way, you move on. If she has a bf, that should be the end. If she is willing to cheat on her bf I am not interested in her. If she doesn't but says this, I take it she's not interested and don't waste my time.
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:07 AM
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She has a bf. You do nothing except maybe distance some. Some people are just more touchy/ flirty with out meaning anything in it. Unless you are a scumbag type of guy...
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:05 PM
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This has always been my standard as well. I have never been interested in a roster, nor will I be involved with a woman that dates/ sleeps around that way.
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:46 AM
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So to summarise: Feed her BS PUA lines.. but act like you feel it deep down When she raises objections, just assume no doesn't mean no and keep feeding her the lines you read in a book Hopefully you will wear her down enough that she may sleep with you P.S be attractive
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:39 AM
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I thought it was just me reading OPs piece - basically a puff piece/ brag written as a "woe is me" and then talking about what is borderline abuse of women (feeding them BS, playing a character, the PUA and fboy routines of feeding the woman any line) to get them into bed as that's the only goal hi "highly intellectual" mind can imagine. And then I saw some of the responses...
/r/seduction12/12/25 05:50 AM
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Stay neutral and do nothing to encourage her. If she becomes more obvious then you be clear on not being interested in a woman with a bf.
/r/seduction25/11/25 04:08 AM
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At no point did I say that and that is not my view. In fact my last line makes that clear.
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:56 AM
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No man wants, or should accept, a woman he is starting to date sleeping with other men. That's a low standard and should not be acceptable (and, of course, he shouldn't be doing that either!)
/r/seduction22/11/25 05:28 AM
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I would not date her. I don't date more than one at a time and my expectation is the women I date aren't either. I do not accept women with a "roster". I will clarify that maybe.. maybe talking to others is fine but sleeping with or anything approaching that is not. I don't do that and don't accept that from women either.
/r/seduction22/11/25 05:24 AM
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Be clear with her that you don't want to date her and move on. Block her if necessary. You are both not compatible as you want different things and it's good that you don't want to lead her on. Also she maybe thinks that you will change your mind about dating her if you sleep with her. None of this healthy. Doing it just for the lay is low quality behaviour. Even though she clearly finds you attractive enough to lower her standards for you.
/r/seduction08/11/25 06:21 AM
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and 3. She has low standards.. that's part of why they like the asshole's attention In the example given, if she went with some guy in 2 hours, that tells me a lot about her and I probably don't need to know any more.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:39 AM
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So, your friend talked to a girl and her bf in a bar for a bit? and then came back to his friend group and they declined to join. You need to stop reading PUA everywhere. He had an interaction that happens a lot when people are out. He didn't "open a set" whatever that's meant to be..
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:57 AM
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That's all well and good and I definitely agree that taking a woman on a date (no matter how romantic/ fun/ expensive) does not entitle any man to sex in any way. However you are ignoring the reason that most men (not f boys) take a woman on a date - to get to know her and see if you both want another date, and then another - exploring a relationship, if you will. At some point in that dating, sex will be a natural evolution - could be first date for some, 2nd onwards for many What men who date …
/r/seduction17/10/25 03:45 AM
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I call it being a good man.. you are kind and considerate, caring but not to a fault - to every one, not just because you expect something. You bring qualities such as intelligence, patience, understanding. You are charismatic (just not needing to be the centre of attention). You have standards. Nice guy - pretending to care and be good, feels entitled to "rewards" wannabe "bad boy" - mostly a joke but has the confidence and lack of any sort of caring (about the woman, about the outcome) that, i…
/r/seduction15/10/25 02:57 AM
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Yes, low quality woman.. what part are you failing to understand?
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:13 PM
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Lol.. if it wasn't for low standards there would be no standards at all. Didn't shame her (or the "friend") just commented on IP dodging her Edit: Spelling
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:40 AM
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Dodged a bad woman in my view.. just met and off in the bathroom fucking? Very low quality woman (and "friend" for that matter) Unfortunately you are in a best city and can't trust guys like him, better to go alone or find a friend group through hobbies etc
/r/seduction12/10/25 05:32 AM
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Why did you expect her to kiss you when you just met her 30 min ago? Few women with any standards would do that especially in a public place, likely with her friends around etc Instead you told her exactly the type of guy you are which probably pushed her further away.
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:04 AM
2

She has a bf.. leave it alone.. plenty of single women out there.
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:03 AM
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The part i agree with is this "why do the girls we do NOT want desire us while the women we want would never even bat us an eyelash? Well, it's because when you are conversing with women you don't like, you are completely indifferent, you are teasing her, you are being playful with her, you do NOT fear her reactions, in other words, you are being your authentic self. Meanwhile, when you are conversing with women you desire, you sweat, you stutter your words, you make sure NOT to offend her," And…
/r/seduction06/10/25 04:02 AM
1

true enough
/r/seduction29/09/25 01:21 PM
1

In my view that person doesn't even challenge the woman, it's just a series of disappointments. Although i realise more than a few have the "i can fix him" problem
/r/seduction29/09/25 01:21 PM
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absolutely thats a red flag.. the past always matters.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:18 PM
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So they can't complain later when he turns out to be a waste of blood and organs as long as he made them feel good for whatever short space of time that was Men without those negatives can make a woman feel just as good if not better as the negatives are not there. They should be more discerning.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:16 PM
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Its not a problem to me I just expect the women i date to have higher standards.. maybe thats expecting too much
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:13 PM
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i never said treat them like possessions or divine beings but it's this part of what OP wrote "Ex. they're broke as a joke, living paycheck-to-paycheck, in massive debt that they have no intentions nor means of EVER paying off, working a dead-end job, have chronic alcoholism, and personality issues that manifest in the form of uncontrollable anger." that i see as lowering standards. Many good men don't have a chance with women despite treating them as human beings because they go for the more "c…
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:16 AM
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So you will lower your standards for those guys? OP doesn't sound like desperate or phony but wonders why his less together friend gets women the way he does.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:58 AM
1

Doesn't bode well for the women that fall for their BS either...
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:57 AM
11

She may know/ feel it that she wants you but that doesn't mean she is going to on the 1st date and I don't sleep with women on the 1st date anyway. Personally, I am happy to find out she is not that type of girl (as long as it's true). A man's purpose should not revolve around getting laid.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:03 AM
22

Yes. Yes it is. Move on.
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:38 PM
1

boastful is selfish, self centred behaviour and cringe cocky =/= confident. it equals arrogant and is also cringe. Women in clubs etc find this attractive confident and self assured is what the better women find attractive
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:14 AM
5

Hard to give examples as everyone is different and what works for me may not for you. I cannot for example give PUA advice, game advice as that stuff really isn't me. I have never gone out with the main intention to be to go home with a woman. I don't do hook ups/ ONS (full disclosure - i had 2 hook ups when younger before realising how empty the experiences were) and that is my choice. Yes, i have turned down women that just wanted to hook up. Best I can do is to say decide who you are, be comf…
/r/seduction13/08/25 04:02 AM
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One of my flatmates, Emily was an attractive lesbian who decided she was going to teach me a few things and so we got dressed up and went on a couple of "dates". She would point out how girls would look me over because i was with her. She would identify the guys that were most likely to approach her the moment I went to the bathroom. She wasn't wrong about any of it. After this and a number of other times out with them, it was a bit like when Neo could suddenly see the code in the Matrix (ok tha…
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:19 PM
9

I guess after we all moved in, we would share meals and drink and share stories etc. To be honest, given my background, I was pretty unable to believe some of their stories - situations they had been in, what guys acted like around them.. They, in turn, honestly couldn't believe my lack of stories given that i was tall, in shape, rugby player, but their encouragement (and a good amount of alcohol) got me to open up to them about my background (as I mentioned in another post) and even admit that …
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:08 PM
7

hehe what do you want to know.. there are a lot of stories and examples from that year And no - there was no 4some! This is not the start to a porn movie!
/r/seduction12/08/25 04:33 AM
9

Yes it's that (plus a bit more i guess). The problem with "nice guys" is that they tend to be either 1) putting on an act - doing all the things for a woman helping her, supporting her, being available, being her emotional support toy because either a) they think she'll see how good they are and want to date them, or worse b) expect that doing all those things entitles them to sex. 2) genuinely clueless nice guys who have been brought up (maybe in single parent or majority female homes) to do al…
/r/seduction12/08/25 04:31 AM
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my 2nd year at uni turned me from being the "nice guy" and into the good man I still am decades later. I shared an apartment with 3 girls, nursing students, and that taught me an awful lot about what women like and respond to. They were open with me and helped a lot. Notice the move from "nice guy" wasn't to wannabe "player" or wannabe "bad boy" - those are just lame.
/r/seduction11/08/25 04:27 AM
2

They don't like being played but many women still seem dumb enough to fall for the BS that players/ "bad boys"/ f boys feed them It is also disrespectful of you to be so blatant about talking to other women in front of them - you can't seriously be questioning why that would turn them off??
/r/seduction16/07/25 03:56 AM
3

she has a bf so you should walk away anyway. Plenty of available women around. It's most likely she just likes the attention and validation from the flirting
/r/seduction09/07/25 02:20 AM
1

You just ask. Then, if she says she is taken, or just not interested, you thank her and move on. Don't be one of those pathetic try hard guys that can't take no for an answer.
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:10 AM
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#11 I stopped caring and just go out to have a good time. The juice not being worth the squeeze #12 I won't be on a woman's roster or rotation or an option. Getting older has meant having higher standards
/r/seduction20/06/25 03:28 PM
5

I tend to date younger women but my way of looking at it is that if i have asked her out, chosen the place etc then i will be the one paying
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:29 PM
2

they are.. but can't / don't want to admit it. This allows them to deny it.
/r/seduction30/05/25 02:35 AM
53

TL:DR be a good man not a "nice guy" and certainly not a "bad boy"
/r/seduction21/05/25 07:18 AM
321

This really is a version of the view that women have image of men they meet based on 3 views: What they think they want - Often an idealised view of the man and relationship What they say they want - A socially acceptable view of the man and relationship What they actually respond to - Often not the same as 1 or 2 and sometimes the opposite.
/r/seduction20/05/25 04:04 PM
20

Leave it. she has a bf. There are others.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:46 PM
2

to add on to this, the fear of consequences is also there if the woman you are approaching is part of a wider friend group, knows members of your family, or even just moves in the same circles as people you know. We know it's based on almost nothing, that the vast majority of women are not like this, will not react badly to a calm, confident approach and that, again in the vast majority of approaches, she will will respond with "sorry but i'm not interested", "i have a bf" or some variant of thi…
/r/seduction09/05/25 04:46 AM
2

Already sleeps around a lot Has a low bar for her partners Isn't that bright or intelligent
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:05 AM
4

This is terrible advice.
/r/seduction30/04/25 05:09 AM
6

"rizz" - no i'm not 15
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:45 AM
7

Don't be a "nice guy" - that will get you nowhere. Be a good man - principled, fun, kind, but with boundaries, ie.someone they can respect and want
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:53 AM
1

She is taken so move on.
/r/seduction18/03/25 05:56 AM
12

I would argue that you weren't meeting "incredible " women You met women who would sleep some guy quickly and easily, and who made such an impression on you that you pumped and dumped them They don't sound incredible Fair play for being out there though.
/r/seduction09/03/25 09:49 AM
3

It the behaviour of the ignorant and low value types. If you no longer want to see someone, own it and tell them.
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:33 PM
17

Dating and building to being intimate is different to "being friend zoned" Stopping being just a hook up for guys would stop her being seen as just a hook up.
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:07 AM
1

Yes.. worked on myself, for me. Lost a bit of weight, developed healthier habits and felt better about myself in general. Crucially, gave up actually trying to sleep with them. Made me a lot more relaxed around them and so made them more relaxed and open around me. Just wish I had known this in my 20s lol
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:30 AM
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Agree with always needing to improve your self, but the rest sounds like you would have constant FOMO.. never knowing if the one you are with is the best or the next might be better. Better to be confident and secure in yourself and know what you want from life and find a partner that complements and fits with you
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:47 AM
1

Clearly she liked your look already and is the kind of girl thar hooks up after minimal effort... fine if that's all you want
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:16 AM
1

An increasing number of girls that i know from teens to mid 20s have secondary IGs that they can use to give out and never even look at. Easier than having a second number and gets rid of some idiot that won't take no for an answer
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:37 AM
1

Just say that you only want casual and want to see other women. If she drops you, fine at least you aren't wasting anyone's time. If a woman told me this, I'd drop her on the spot as I don't do "roster" dating, but some do and don't mind it.
/r/seduction31/12/24 07:30 AM
5

If you are with a guy and some loser hits on you, you should shut it down immediately.
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:15 AM
18

Sadly douch bag men are going to hit on a girl you are with, even with you being there. My expectation is that a woman I am with will immediately shut down any guy that flirts with her and not flirt back or encourage the loser. That's the bare minimum. Edit: if she does this and he doesn't get the clear massage and won't then back off then I will step in. If she flirts back or encourages him, she either doesn't respect me or is one of those women who likes drama. Either way, I'm done with her as…
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:13 AM
9

Don't hit on girls that are with other guys.
/r/seduction18/12/24 11:46 PM
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