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If I'm being fully honest, yes there is probably some mental ''idea'' that leads to his arousal, and that with almost any stranger he just stands next to, which is the weird/dangerous part. But he could also be a 17 year old that just gets raging boners or has very high testosterone, like we've all done in class randomly, its not always necessarily linked to assault or weird thoughts. Though the initial thought makes more sense
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:32 PM
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Its his biology lol, hes not purposely summoning it. Animals have this instinct some stronger, most much weaker than what OP describes. Its not a soul mate connection its just lust or attraction. Do nothing, ask them out, let them be, mastrubate
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:09 PM
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Creta, Greece Budapest Amsterdam/the hague Germany, any Thailand ? Lol (havnt been)
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:08 AM
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Is this a pay for play list or general
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:56 AM
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Well, of course there is little substance if the first date is at the crib I do have post nut sweetness, like the feminine side comes out of me after a session lol That being said a multi sessions shouldnt be difficult if she just came to bang, agreed AND it was good. Tbh, I have never had great sex with a woman and they havnt texted me again for round 2 I am assuming it is that issue
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:06 AM
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Its true that trying to logically convince women to be 'realistic' will never work That being said, this means the only solution is macro programming to bring couples back together. Its all in the mind. The whole in Africa they are happy with just a ball, in America people are unhappy with half a million, iphones name it
/r/seduction07/04/26 08:05 AM
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Gonna be difficult. Religion is one of those things that is so hard bred, it wont change. Islam is even more strict on these things.
/r/seduction15/08/25 03:39 PM
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Happens much rarer I think though. Its usually a guy every woman would damn near want Guys, however would have almost any woman tho lol
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:54 AM
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Whipped, guards down
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:04 PM
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100% Ive bumped into a girl with my belly before as we both stumbled awkardly and I just said hi after
/r/seduction24/05/25 11:25 AM
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Tinder unmatching you just because the convo was good is a bit of a stretch, that doesnt happen It is designed to be fishy as hell yeah
/r/seduction15/07/24 11:47 AM
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I rushed when I saw this headline. Unfortunately, the song is pretty bad and none of the lyrics are really about the Passport Bro movement, so it might be unrelated. More power to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:45 AM
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Beard. These guys just get a beard to remedy this (aka drake ish)
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:01 AM
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Depends on the guy and sometimes race. Reddit is mostly caucasian. Short and curvy is the 1# body type for many lol. Thats nicki minaj, kylie, kim, etc
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:31 AM
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That is weird. Though tbh, my mind instantly went to him meaning just walking in a park/strolling. It's a very common date suggestion to just walk around a park, field, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:46 AM
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So I just discovered FDS, and its pretty interesting how similar that subreddit is to incel / redpill / mgtow extremism. It's mind-boggling how hurt, bitter, and delusional most of these posters are. I'm ignoring the ''man are ugly'' posts, whatever, but things like: FDS Coffee Are part of the milder posts and are still weird to me. Since when is a coffee date a bad first date for a TINDER/NEVER-MET situation? Women have told me coffee is perfect. I'd say better for women than men. Daylight, no-…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:08 AM
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That you got the big booty girl in the end brought a tear to my eye man. The equivalent to marriage in a romantic comedy for women
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 08:04 AM
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I actually would enjoy it if the women picked the place occasionally. Ask her which place, go to their website, scout, and agree/disagree based on the price and setting.
/r/seduction07/09/20 10:02 AM
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I just wanna say that I did not read any of that because of the formatting. Try to put some paragraphs/spaces in there or at least a tl;dr version
/r/seduction05/09/20 10:21 PM
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I'd make a small alteration into ''I am a good person, and I expect you to magically see that and take my penis'' 99% of it is men wanting a woman, they have not even expressed to this woman that they want a lover type relationship and not a friendship, so they stick around forever hoping she'll see friendly interactions as sexual interactions. After a certain amount of time the women has no choice but the put this dude in some box, and it'll be the ''friends box'' It's their fault for not havin…
/r/seduction05/09/20 10:17 PM
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Why Facebook? Cold approach is difficult. You can't possible create a memorable/emotional enough moment in a few minutes for her to remember/care about you even half a day later. If I can suggest something: ask them out for a date on the spot. If you're having a decent opening with a girl, ask her if she has half an hour/ hour to spare for some coffee (for example). Then after that introduction you ask for a number.
/r/seduction04/09/20 12:11 PM
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You might have misunderstood the looks dont matter thing. You wanna look the best VERSION of you always (clothes, haircut, smell) but the fact that you're the same small asian guy did not change. Thats the part that doesnt matter and you shouldn't obsess about
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 06:39 AM
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I love how confidently these subs give out soul crushing advice Yes, this is possible, but OP gave us no hints whatsoever about the last time they had sex, or any other life details
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:43 AM
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Right. But what's also important is representation, especially to newer members who want to be educated on it. You can't deny Reddit is huge and the MGTOW sub on Reddit might be the biggest community there is at the moment. If a newbie joins it and sees that the mods have their own rules, own concepts and don't allow free expression or even questions, it will turn people away. Also, their concepts don't seem to match MGTOW concepts. People also look at mods like the ''leaders' of a community.
/r/MGTOW214/12/19 01:58 PM
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(Male) - To add another perspective from the other poster, I'd say don't text him but wait. You not only initiated, you already texted first and you let him know you'd like to talk to him again. From what it sounds like you did everything short of asking him out directly so the ball is now in his court. You also don't wanna come across too needy. I will say, the ''indirectly'' part could be a problem. We're not that great at receiving hints cause we communicate in a more blunt/direct way on a da…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 02:15 PM
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Men are visually stimulated, not really something to feel bad about. This is just human nature, biology.
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:48 AM
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Guys, this is a good thing lol. Stop feeling sorry for yourself What does this mean? It means that if a woman HAS swiped right on you it's a compliment. Because she swipes right on men so little, the fact that she swiped right on you means she actually selected you out of hundreds/thousands. Now make sure you do steps 2-10 correctly.
/r/BlackPillScience23/11/19 02:01 PM
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One thing that men have to remember is that texting is no way to build attraction. If anything, it KILLS attraction. You already gave her 3 dates~ worth of good feelings, validation, attention though text. All this while other men are approaching her on this dating site also, only having not given her this yet, making her want these things from them. IMO there is only one valid tip in this context; let it breath a little longer, give her space, make her miss you. Then a day or two before the dat…
/r/seduction28/10/19 01:06 PM
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This is the answer, she's making sure to rid herself of the responsibility of sleeping with you, so that you take it on. Don't take what most women say literally but listen to their body language. ''I don't take guys home either'' - ''Sure, but I am curious about seeing that <x> you've been talking about'' -
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:04 PM
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Honestly from your 'current situation' you've described yourself in such a way that it seems like you're doing everything right. If you self analyze a bit more, what could it be? The first things that come to mind when it comes to the no 2nd date problem and your comment are: Conversation is going 'smoothly' this is fine. (Silences can actually create attraction and value if you are the one 'forcing' her to break it) but, what are the subjects? Do the subjects make the girl think about sex, fun,…
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:40 AM
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It does not matter what you say as long as you bring it across correctly, so if it works for you it's fine I personally would not use it. It sounds a bit like a defensive self-rejection and I am not gay, so why would I. Always do keep it playful and light though, so yea
/r/seduction10/02/19 07:52 PM
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I chuckled at your edited emoji line. Don't ask too many questions, don't force small talk conversations on text and just have fun. It shows insecurity to keep asking and it will make her doubt her decision to hang out Keep the tension up, keep flirting and ask her out again when you want to. Then when you guys get together keep making out, bring her to your place, have fun and see where it goes
/r/seduction10/02/19 07:45 PM
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20s, in Europe. Situations vary, no one-way is law. There are times where the girl is more aloof, less invested and calling would turn her off so I don't. It is however when done right a better way to secure the date won't flake versus texting (especially cause its so rare). Girls text constantly with strangers or friends so calling will make you less of a number.
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:48 PM
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No, don't let social pressures get to you, 30 is a beautiful age for a man. I'd even go as far as saying that from that age on men truly turn into their best selves and this includes interest from women. Dress well, gain some confidence in yourself/career, read books & sidelines, youtubers etc. ​ ​
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:03 PM
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You have to build up some comfort and emotional intrigue first, though difficult on Tinder. You should wanna keep texting to a minimum but this means you have to maximize them; - Comment on her profile/bio/background in a clever way, don't get stuck in ''logical'' conversation. Make it ambiguous and fun - Within a few strong messages and good emotional responses, ''how about we upgrade our tinder status?'' ...wait.. '' here is my number/give me your number'' - Wait a bit, Text her/open up with a…
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:55 PM
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There's a huge difference between friendly/gay bff energy and sexual energy. First step would be to recognize your desires and to act on them. You might not realize you even like these women until later, but often this is just the disquised nice-guy syndrome. Escalate, make your desires known. If she doesnt feel the same don't go back to being friends and move on
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:12 AM
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Well done. You talking to the other girl has increased your sexual value x4. The only part I would have done differently which might have put a wrench in your plan, was not to tell her/dissapear with her infront of her. I would have vanished and as a result be away from your phone to let her imagination do the work. You've increased your chances. Let a few days pass, text her (better to just call her) and just ask her out dude (1 on 1). The attraction and interest is there, now the hourglass is …
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:24 AM
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I like Todd's work
/r/seduction06/01/19 02:32 AM
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Still, Tinder. It has its flaws, but it is great for practicing and analyzing your online appeal. Having to compete with so many others while rapidly learning from your Photo, Bio, Text mistakes is helpful.
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:43 PM
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This is only relevant when she is already interested in you. In general what you're saying is true. I used to not watch stories for this purpose and watch them watch mine instantly every time
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:08 PM
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I've escaped friend zones before, but there is usually only one effective way: Leave. State your intentions (being more than friends) and if she doesn't agree, you leave (in a non-irritated, respectful way) and wait until she hits you up. This could take weeks, months, depending on how ''weak'' you've been coming across. The problem then is, what are you gonna do different next time? If you don't you're only gonna hurt yourself more in the end. She's gonna continue wasting your time and treating…
/r/seduction15/12/18 08:28 PM
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People like archetypes/characters. I'm light skinned and I often get the white-girl-whos-into-hiphop-and-black-men-now type fetish. I'm not complaining.
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:47 PM
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You gotta build/find your confidence somehow. Lifting, finding your passion, realizing you are an attractive man and that she didn't just come to your place for no reason. Experience. The goal was sex. You were kissing her lips and her neck. Your next move here should have been lifting her shirt up > kissing her belly and chest > removing pants. Good experience though, it'll get easier every time.
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:42 PM
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I second your advice. Meditation definitely helps with situations like this and with attachment to anything, not just Ego, in general.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 09:33 AM
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Maybe, Probably and I don't know are generally the same as a 'no'. Girls tend to try to soften blows and speak more indirectly. As one mate already said, you've been needy enough. Don't say anything more in this situation, let her come to you or try again in a week or two.
/r/seduction10/11/18 02:44 PM
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Ego in the definition/context of self-esteem. Taking things like a rejection too much to heart followed by a rationalization of 'deleted her, now I've regained my power' 'Hitting her up..you've got it backwards' Is that really true if you know you'll get the date by trying again? Then when the date starts you will properly reel her in and start letting her chase you. Your reply is a good example, a beginner will assume she's the price (true) and thus won't try again in the hope to make her chase…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 01:43 PM
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Good, great job self-analyzing and being honest. A big problem with the Men Vs Women resentment both parties have stems from programming and misunderstandings. Men love differently than women and women love differently than men. Once you can wrap your head around the fact that women are more guided by emotion (emotion is free-flowing, ever changing and unpredictable) your anger disappears. Its not something they can control or fully grasp in the moment. They weren't lying to you, they were telli…
/r/seduction10/11/18 11:21 AM
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Be at least a 6 and work on everything else, and you'll be able to get ''any'' girl. Women don't care as much about physique as we do. Status, ambition, confidence, protection, providing does.
/r/seduction12/10/18 09:19 AM
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I get what you mean. It all depends on your intent. If you want to flirt, if you are confident enough to escalate, your eyes will show that level of intent and your body/speech will follow to the ''act''. Think of it exactly like a captivating act, visualize then materialize it.
/r/seduction30/09/18 04:16 PM
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Honestly when a girl likes you she'll make it obvious to you. I've been (in)directly asked out plenty of times Imo masculinity is leading, assertive energy as well so I don't mind the inbalance there is.
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:50 PM
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Wow, I had no Patrice was this much of a TRP textbook. Hilarious motherfucker with some nice wisdom
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 08:36 AM
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''women..but this time for what they really are: bubbly, beautiful creatures that only live in the present and remind us to enjoy every minute of our lives.'' I dig that
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 09:25 PM
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It depends, you guys are both right. It's in the small details, the way you'd define ''truly caring'' In it's deepest/animal/hellish form, yes, no one cares about you. We are all selfish creatures and no love (a mothers love usually comes closest) is unconditional. I think that's the key word in this. That post was not to be taking to literal, I think it had a more ''have low expectations, protect yourself, thus be more selfish'' lesson.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:48 PM
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It's not exactly ''concern'' or the way you described it in my opinion, it comes from a more selfish place. Average people have average friends, those average friends can't accept you trying to be above average because they can't see themselves being above average. The ''Don't be..because..'' part is the self-protection / defense mechanism part kicking in. The opposite is always the enemy and wrong in this case. The nerd laughs at the gym kid, the gym kid laughs at the nerd. Good post overall
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:50 PM
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True, I can see that. I guess I just assumed the confidence succesfull dates give channeled over to being confident in the approach, since you know you have gotten it But of course the initial evidence not being there yet makes it that much harder
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:42 AM
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Good for you man! I do wonder though, the in person dating/seduction part is the 'hardest' and longest part Imo. If you can kill it at dates why is the actual walking up to someone so hard? Just the initial ice breaking in person?
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:59 AM
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Its great for a first time, keep going! I wouldn't say its a bad approach its a bad number. Remember its not about getting the number, its the connection behind it. A 5 second convo into a number is a flake, no attraction, no report, type of contact. A 40 min convo turned into a number, is a solid contact that will have a way higher chance of actually dating you.
/r/seduction01/09/17 08:59 AM
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Of course, why do you think women don't (like) initiating? part social norm but also rejection and self-esteem. Seeing as their physique is their main selling point, not only initiating but also being rejected when she was at a point of no return.. Yea, emotional reaction ensues. Unbreakable frame = win.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 03:12 PM
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You don't think peace of mind 'forever' is possible? to me that's pretty much the same as happiness
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 09:54 AM
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The abundance mindset is great. However abundance to me also means deattachment. Having money should feel good, but it will never make you feel great forever on its own. That might be why you feel it plateaued. These are all extras, the core is the foundation. Money is like makeup (for men). Feeling good without NEEDING anything, being present and grateful is what happiness is [to me] Getting to that point is the tough part though haha. I want to try LSD.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 09:01 AM
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You might have to continue your inner journey. Redefining what happiness is to you. Removing expectations, feeling gratitute for small things again. Maybe even need to stop having sex. You might be going through what most of us go through when we chase external things. Money, luxery, women for example, thinking it will fill the void but it never does. Your emptiness won't go away no matter howmany new girls you have sex with. Even if you'd meet the right one, you wouldn't know it, you wouldnt ap…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:05 AM
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