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Epiphany PhaseBrynn_and_black_cats/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 09:52 PM
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WAATGM In The MakingBrynn_and_black_cats/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 08:52 AM
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That’s an amazing story. Thank you for sharing that!!! Sex should never be about a power dynamic. It should be given freely from both sides. I want my man to feel good. Does he understand if I’m not feeling it that day? Yep. Does he kick me out of bed over it? Nope. In a day or three when I’m feeling better, I will give him awesome sex. We don’t always agree in the timing. I just see your hardline approach alarming. Maybe she’s having a rough day. Maybe she doesn’t feel so fresh. While no one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:46 AM
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I totally agree. So, why would your philosophy include kicking a woman out if she isn’t fast enough to worship your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:51 AM
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Of course! Us Brynns need to stick together!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:02 PM
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So, you’re okay with telling her she needs to put out in the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:01 PM
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about your daughter. I asked you a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:53 PM
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For men, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:10 PM
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So, real women are telling you what they like and you’re mansplaining it away??? How often do you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:47 PM
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Oh, and I’ll keep bringing it up until you answer, just FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:30 PM
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Sure. Until she wants sex 25 times a day. Then, you don’t think it’s so sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:25 PM
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Still waiting for your input on your daughter here. I’m pretty curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:20 PM
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I’m sorry you think that. I mean, my guy that gives me a lower back rub when I’m in pain? Oh, we are definitely fucking that night. More than once. Enthusiastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:59 PM
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How is it that literal women are telling you what they like and you’re arguing with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:45 PM
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No, we don’t. Knowing a guy is devoted to us??? Wets the panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:42 PM
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Well, I tend to stop investing in anything when the first sentence is wrong. Why would I continue to read something obviously wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:40 PM
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Women chemically castrate their sons???? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:31 PM
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Um.... I’m guessing she’s coming from a culture not based in women’s pleasures
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:34 AM
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Modern American society? Sure. Necessary? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:14 AM
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Did you call me fat?? Dude!! I thought we were making progress!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:12 AM
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I don’t see oil resources necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:11 AM
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Nah, it’s a giant house cat that just wants mice. My boyfriend showed me videos this past weekend of a Swiss dude that was loved and remembered by a pride. Awesome!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:09 AM
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However, there is nothing more fierce than a woman trying to protect her offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:59 AM
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Nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:56 AM
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I don’t know what a burkin bag is. I had to goggle it. Look, I’m very positive on traditional men/women roles. We are made to compliment each other and that’s NOT a bad thing. However, I’m very positive on either sex doing what they need to thrive. We legit don’t need each other, except for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:54 AM
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Still laughing to the point tears are running down my cheeks. I appreciate the civilized debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:47 AM
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Lol Okay, I concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:45 AM
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What woman do you know that loves risking losing their father, brother, husband, son? Again... I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:42 AM
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Yep. Play to your strengths. Doesn’t require physical strength. I’m glad we FINALLY agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:40 AM
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Not sure of your point? You’re violent warmongerers? Yeah, we know. But women are criticized for being emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:38 AM
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However, men ARENT. Women do whatever they need to do to survive. Men don’t. Women will play subsurviant if it means survival. That bitch you’re raping? She’ll poison your ass. We just do things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:34 AM
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Oh. How many wars did women start? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:31 AM
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Men created that issue for themselves. You don’t get to bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:27 AM
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Dude. Who implemented the male only draft? I’ll wait. Who were the biggest opposition to that? I’ll wait. The actual physical work that women get paid less for because they take time out of their work history to raise kids men can’t be bothered with? I’d never say that men aren’t physically stronger than women. We are meant to be complimentary. However, one sex isn’t entitled to abuse another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:21 AM
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I can’t survive without a man? Other women can’t? You hatefully call them crazy cat ladies. They learned how to masturbate and realized they didn’t need men. Men are really upset about this, hence they try to demonize older childless women. You can’t be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:11 AM
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I don’t get what you’re trying to say. Did you acquiesce because you were afraid the pussy would dry up? Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:05 AM
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Lemme spell this out to you. Men created their own problems. So, men were handed good women as wives because they had an income and said daughter’s fathers were giving their blessings to get rid of their daughters they saw as liabilities. Women were taught to be SAHM., raise the kids, be attractive because men brought in money. Women didn’t chose this dynamic. They dealt with it. Men started taking advantage of their wives and literally beating them because they had a bad day at the office and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:53 AM
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From the grip of controlling men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:37 AM
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So your first comment, which is all I bothered with... You are judged by the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:24 AM
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I don’t personality hate you either. Your ethics... yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:04 AM
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If you say so. You might wanna pass that on to other MGTOW. They haven’t figured it out. 47 threads in less than 24 hours are about women. I mean, I could start another count. It hardly seems like going your own way. Fucking go. No one will miss you. We keep saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:03 AM
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You’re trying to make yourself out as victims of women. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:58 AM
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Yeah. Trying to type on a phone sucks. I don’t worship money... or men. THATS THE POINT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:57 AM
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Dude. I took a screenshot of your previous comment. Reread your own words and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:50 AM
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I mean, victimization is a tool of the patriarchy. Oh. That doesn’t fit with what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:48 AM
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Ohhhhh, you’re a victim now!!! What color ribbon do I need to wear? We are telling you, in droves, we don’t want you, or care. Please STFU and GO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:47 AM
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you’re Money can buy me lots if shit men can’t provide. I can literally get anything I want without you. I know you feel threatened by an independent ‘s existence. It’s why you shit in single moms. And you’re just proving my point that you would take a barely legal teen as a wife. She doesn’t know any better. Real men know ho to be men for real women and don’t care about if a literal child worships their broken pornsick dick Fuck you for making me defend FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:45 AM
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I’m not married. I’m independently wealthy. Men can’t offer me anything I can’t get myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:31 AM
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Sure? I guess? I mean, literally, no one will miss you as you’ve touted going your own way. I think y’all want to think you’re punishing women with your absence. News flash. WE DONT CARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:30 AM
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Whatever you need to give you the “tingles.” We seriously won’t miss you, or your other brethren. Commence to going your own way. We will be happier without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:18 AM
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Triggered now means giving you what you want??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:43 AM
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Absolutely! I, nor any other women, want you. Move the fuck on and stop obsessing over us. YOU WONT BE MISSED!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:40 AM
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Dude. Then go your own way. Leave women out of your revenge porn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:36 AM
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Okay, look. I absolutely don’t think it’s okay to deny men’s access to their children. However, it’s your platforms that are all abut dumping women because they aren’t conventionally attractive anymore and able to bear them sons. Yep. Your mindset is shit. Oh, women that devoted their whole lives to you aren’t enough. FOH you get what you deserve when you’re chasing young pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:19 AM
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Um, I’m subscribed to your subs. Yes, you absolutely hate women, especially when GYOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:02 AM
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Who is “we” exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:58 AM
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Dude, the guy you’re trying to argue with is a woman hater. She could give him exactly what he wants and he’d still shit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:20 AM
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Your article doesn’t mean shit. YOUR interpretation of such is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:05 AM
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Did... did you not start the thread??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:57 AM
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Hey, I’m glad. However, you’re missing the point. You think a chick that turns down sex is evil. You tell me she’s literally been pregnant for a year and a half? Is it a small wonder why she doesn’t want your dick near her? Talk about lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:52 AM
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How about when women say “ I need you to stimulate my clit” and they are dismissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:50 AM
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Women do. Men don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:42 AM
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I don’t even need to read much. If I was perpetually pregnant for fucking 18 months, do you think I’d wanna touch your dick?????! Hell no!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:42 AM
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I mean, you’re taking thoughts from women haters from either sub... so take that info as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:56 AM
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Agreed! Thank you for your help!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 11:00 PM
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I’ll try harder to research. I saw this post and thought of this sub. Do you know if this is real or not? Because if it is, daaaaaaamn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 10:19 PM
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Sorry!! I legit never saw it before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 10:08 PM
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Oh, dude. Sorry for the repost. I’ve not seen it it but, damn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 09:56 PM
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Pasties. Have you heard of them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 09:56 PM
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Not that I’m currently aware of but if I do happen across something, I’ll let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:07 PM
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You know, I’m curious now that you said you have a daughter. What would you do if your daughter came to you and told you that a man was treating her the way you’re treating women? Pushing for sex and she better put out right away or she gets the boot. Curious to get the dad perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:05 PM
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Ahh, okay. Good choice for your daughter, but I’m biased. I have yet to find any such mainstream merchandise with my name on it but Etsy is always a go to if you’re looking for something in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:50 PM
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You’re the one making generalizations here. I’m just giving you facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:58 AM
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Yes, because threatening your partner is the height of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:24 AM
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/shrug I’m just saying. Why... do I use my name? Because it’s lovely and I’ve had it for quite a while? Why do you need that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:47 AM
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Holy crap. Does your partner know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:06 AM
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Or, ya know, you’ve left her to carry 90% of the responsibilities herself. As I said in another thread, if I worked 8-10 hours a day, including commute, had to sit through rush hour traffic, pick up kids from daycare, rush home to cook dinner, then get to clean the kitchen, get the kids bathed and ready for bed while hubby sits watching TV or playing video games and then has the gall to be mad I’m not ready to fuck after he “generously” gives me a kiss first. This is a very real situation in mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:04 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think that’s normal. Normal men actually have control over their erections.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:57 AM
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Apparently, you’ve never heard of hyper sexuality in bipolar women who are in the manic phase. Women will fuck their guy until they tap out and a woman is still ready to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:53 AM
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I mean, maybe look into prostitutes? You’re going to push for sex, I.e. coercion... for sex. You catch charges for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:29 AM
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I chose not to have sex for five years but do go on how I need sex every two weeks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 02:43 AM
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By someone very drunk, on meth, possibly both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 02:25 AM
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If her name is Sue and you let her know you have legs, she’s all yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 02:22 AM
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The Baphomet guitar playing tattoo is an interesting choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 01:49 AM
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I laughed, hard. I’m gonna burn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 01:07 AM
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Good grief, I hope this is fake but what a manipulative whore. You should have been happy with your high school sweetheart that sounded like he loved you. What’s wrong with people who throw that shit away? Stupid stupid stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 07:08 AM
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On the more important part of this, why do you expect anything to come of "defending yourself" here? This is what my questions were referring to. Yeah, women stay aware of their surroundings but but doesn’t prevent them from being raped and/or robbed. If a male perpetrator had to chose between a female or male victim, who do you think they are going to pick? Women are inherently more vulnerable because they aren’t as strong on average as men. People can debate that all day but it’s the truth. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:05 AM
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Funny. I see women and plenty of RP guys. Maybe because I chose to defend myself? I mean, why do you care? I’m actually quite fond of men and I stand up for them because I think a lot of them are getting shit on. As I’ve said, I have some wonderful men in my life and I’m invested in them not getting shit on. However, to assume women are privileged or much better off than men is wrong. I don’t know men who fear walking alone at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:38 AM
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What makes you think I don’t do those things already? You live your life like a party 24/7? I’m sorry, I didn’t know wealthy people weren’t allowed to be in Reddit. I also am an insomniac so it gives me something to do at 3am. I’m not sure why you think I’m defensive over it. If anything, I get defensive being on this sub and having to justify my existence as a woman and especially those who think I’m lying about not having slept with slews of men or that I don’t use men. This isn’t exactly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:17 AM
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You used your shitty “analogy” to do it for you. The one you fiercely defended. Look, as fun as this is, I have things to do before I head to bed tonight so I would give you the kindness of telling you to get some good REM sleep and think about your words before you respond any more. Take care, Your colonist from across the pond
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:27 AM
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That means you have NO CLUE what an adjective hominem is. Why don’t you give me your definition of what you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:24 AM
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Again, scroll up. I can’t make your own words any more clear to you. Get sleep. Come back fresh in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:23 AM
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Ye, I do know what it is but I now have more doubt than ever that you do. *literally *Just stop, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:21 AM
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Inflection in the spoken word is expressed by punctuation in the written. That’s not hard, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:20 AM
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Dude, you aren’t even making sense anymore. I’ve literally been throwing your own words in your face. If you don’t like the words, blame yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:19 AM
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So you agree you have no idea what an ad hominem is?? Progress!! Finally!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:18 AM
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Hey, it was your shitty analogy that you WERE JUST DEFENDING.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:17 AM
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Holy shit women =/= holy shit, women But we’ve already established you failed language arts and literature do what’s English added to the pile?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:16 AM
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Again, what did I misquote? I LITERALLY quoted your own statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:15 AM
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Do you know what an ad hominem is? Because you saying I called you a troll first is a great example of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:14 AM
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Then use a comma? Punctuation saves lives. I’m not doing anything except pointing out your own words. You’re hanging yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:13 AM
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Look up three comments. I quoted you directly. For context, in case you want to admit you’re confused but too ashamed to say it, I said that men were the ones in power making the rules and you went off on a tangent about Nazis and Jews, failing to see that the Jews were the ones were were systematically exterminated by the male (see how an adjective works?) Nazis. Ya. Y’all are the absolute pillars of keeping your emotions and power in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:12 AM
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I admit I called you a troll first... And? Has nothing to do with your shitty arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:08 AM
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Woman* I’m singular
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:07 AM
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What am I misquoting????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:07 AM
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I never made a comparison to Nazis and jews
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:06 AM
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Oooohhhhh, backpedaling at its finest right here!!! Do go on!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:06 AM
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“I bringed it up.” Big man brain moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:05 AM
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Yep. I admitted that like 10 posts ago. And I gave my reasoning. What did you miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:04 AM
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“Just a reminder that Nazi said that about jews KEKW” Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:04 AM
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Um hmmm, that’s why you made the Holocaust comparison first. How much did you drink tonight? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:01 AM
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Yep, and you keep arguing against it. That’s how dumb your arguments are. It’s fucking hysterical!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:00 AM
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You brought it up first. I’m following your example. You have transcripts right there. Read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:59 AM
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Um, no, again, check your post history. How manly if you to threaten physical violence. I mean, who would have seen that coming? Turn off Reddit and get sleep, UK boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:59 AM
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You clearly care enough to keep up the conversation where you are clearly wrong. I’m only engaging because I’m laughing so hard I’m crying. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:57 AM
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Yes, holy shit is exactly what I’m thinking of your comments. You can’t make a shitty non comparison and pass it off as an analogy. That’s not how it works. Okay, Nazis were men, therefore, all men are Nazis. All soldiers that killed civilians in the Middle East were men, therefore, all men are civilian killers. Catching on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:56 AM
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If you don’t care, why do you keep engaging? You clearly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:53 AM
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Yep, I did. Which is NOT the argument you JUST made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:53 AM
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Again, nope. Women aren’t Jews. Some women are but as a group, nope. Do you actually know how this works? Lemme answer got you. No, no you don’t. Sleep well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:52 AM
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Um, check your comment history. You’re absolutely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:51 AM
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Dude, you’ve spelled it wrong in every post you’ve made. Excuses, excuses. A man’s typical defense. Maybe go to bed and take your L like a man and sleep it off? It’ll be okay. We can talk another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:50 AM
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Um, no. It’s not an analogy because it doesn’t fit at all. Aside from failing language arts, you clearly failed literature as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:49 AM
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Ad hominem. Your favorite phrase, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:48 AM
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Again, don’t brag about not being dumb when you can’t spell. You’re embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:47 AM
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Nah, boy. Don’t be angry you got schooled. Just take the L and go lick your wounds. It’ll be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:46 AM
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Are you seriously comparing women to Nazis? And I’m sorry, what sex were the Nazis?? What a joke you are. You can’t even be taking yourself seriously right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:45 AM
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Yes, because you chose to ignore the rest of the conversation because it didn’t fit your narrative. Anyways...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:44 AM
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When have women ever been in the overwhelmingly position of power in history? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:43 AM
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Again, deflecting from the argument. Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:42 AM
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Of course you do. Because you’re used to everything being about men. When you’re privileged, equality looks like oppression. Do go on to tell me about these insights you’ve gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:41 AM
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See? Female Redditor! Adjective! You’re learning! I’m proud of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:40 AM
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They did. You just don’t see them. Show them to your mom, sister, girlfriend, women friends. Don’t have any? Sorry, can’t help you there. Another case of a man trying to shout down a woman. Yep. You’re a credit to your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:39 AM
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Nope. Female is used to describe something, hence, adjective. Wanna try again or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:37 AM
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Yep, ad hominem. “You keep using that word but I don’t think that word means what you think it means.” Peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:36 AM
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Dude, I’ve given you several. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:36 AM
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They don’t. Except as an adjective. Do I need to teach you second grade language arts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:35 AM
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And, ducking the topic again. You can keep blowing up my inbox all you want. You list. I’m done engaging you. Have a wonderful day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:34 AM
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Exactly. Keep trying to dodge duck dip dive and dodge. It’s just as funny as the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:32 AM
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Hey, you’re the one who brought up your two brain cells, one trying to read with broken glasses. I’m enjoying this soooo much. Thank you for proving my points although you’re too dumb to realize you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:31 AM
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Again, distraction because you have no point. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:29 AM
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No, I’m a woman. A female is an adjective, not a noun. How dumb are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:29 AM
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Again, nope. Sorry to spill that to youz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:28 AM
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You can read, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:28 AM
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I’ve never once called myself a queen. Again, GTFOH with that bullshit. You have no valid argument. Yep, loss on your part, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:28 AM
1

Again, top comments in a misogynist sub mean what exactly? They are misogynist? Yep, my point exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:26 AM
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Did you read the comments? Lemme answer for you. No, no you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:25 AM
1

Oh, oh, but.... WHATABOUTISMS!!! FOH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:25 AM
1

Hmm, how much time do you have to ACTUALLY read sources that a gender pay gap exists? Oh, none? Because I’m sure I’ll send you like 30 sources and you’ll spend no time reading any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:24 AM
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Did you get upset that I pointed out the truth you have no brain cells? The truth isn’t an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:23 AM
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UN, contact, you tucking idiot. Holy shut, men should be ashamed to claim you as one of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:22 AM
1

What was lost on you? I mean, besides logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:21 AM
1

Hypocracy? Nah, shedding light on men’s issues that are pushed into women. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:20 AM
1

“Female.” Tells me what I need to know, incel. How’s that working out for you? Aside from your irrational hatred of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:20 AM
1

Yes it does. Sorry to inform you. But, go ahead and ignore the truth. Seems to be working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:19 AM
1

He had a right. Order of protection to shield her from him. He had a right. Do you listen to yourself babble?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:17 AM
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You have to be a troll. I’m now convinced. Let’s make a women bad meme and defend it!!! GTFOH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:15 AM
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Are you nothing to read the comments at all? Let me answer for you so you don’t embarrass yourself. No, no you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:14 AM
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Are. You. Fucking. Serious. Nah, men just do whatever the fuck they want and dismiss women and their concerns. Please tell me you’re a troll. “Dude had every right to do what he wanted. Fuck that bitch he sent a card to.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:13 AM
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Do you need more or should I scroll through things listed more than 12-14 hours ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:11 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mots3p/men_from_the_usa_now_have_to_protect_women_in/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Cause, ya know, protecting women from other vultures that shits all over women is a bad thing. But let’s distract people and talk about men who died in wars STARTED AND CAUSED BY MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:10 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/morhuo/until_2014_the_uns_forced_labour_convention/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Or, ya know, military aged males.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/motg1g/feminist_comes_to_terms_with_mras_on_gender_pay/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf “We shouldn’t be engaging women in women issues!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:07 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/moobsz/it_is_funny_when_she_does_it_dare_he_do_it_he/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Oh noes!!! A toxic meme getting called out as toxic by women isn’t good enough!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:05 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mop3x1/dating_as_a_man_is_completely_exhausting_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Oh, poor men have to work to win women’s affection. How horrible that women giving them the most intimate party of themselves decide who is worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:03 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mobosl/judge_dismisses_case_against_man_for_sending/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Dude had an order of protection against him. “What harm was he doing sending a card?” Violating an order of protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:02 AM
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No, the ACTUAL MRA sub. Have you read it?? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:39 AM
1

Well, you have no brain cells to lose so I sympathize . What you said in your last post that I’m responding to is an example of a DOUBLE STANDARD. Hence, those that do behavior X have no right to get angry at others who do behavior X. Does it help you if we assign variables to those things you find distasteful? As a person who holds a degree in mathematics, I’ll do whatever you need to get the point across clearly. The MRA sub is misogynist as hell. Have you read it? Men’s (or women’s) rights sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:00 AM
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Okay. Yep. You found me out. I need to lie to a bunch of anonymous people on the internet for clout. You Sherlock Holmes, you. I should definitely try harder. You do realize that everyone has downtime, right? And Reddit amuses me so, in addition to other things I do, why is it hard to understand people do shit that amuses them? I couldn’t care less what you think. I mean, if you need to make up a narrative in your mind to dismiss me and put me in a little box, so be it. Nothing I say will change…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:30 PM
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Dude, you responded to my post with that garbage. Stop trying to pretend it wasn’t aimed at me. And, yes, I know the world doesn’t revolve around me. Did I ever imply it did? Take a moment to collect your thoughts and pick a direction you want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:15 PM
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Investments keep you rich. I didn’t think I needed to spell this out. I had more money to invest initially but if you invest, you should know how it works. Really? And I’m bored. Why is posting on Reddit hard to imagine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:56 PM
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I’m not assuming you’re out of touch. However, don’t assume you know my situation. Wrongful death suit, court records sealed makes the loss of a loved one lucrative for their survivors. Don’t assume you know me or my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:38 PM
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Holy crap. I think your autocorrect went on vacation. You assume that I’m against men’s rights because I call men out on their bullshit. I will never condone men being punished because they are men. I have some amazing men in my life and I give freely to men’s organizations, especially those that support mental health because do they ever get fucked with the “man up” mentality. Being critical of men isn’t a bad thing. If that’s what you think, it proves you’ve been in a position of privilege for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:10 PM
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Nope. I love men. Let me qualify that. I love quality men. I’m very positive on men. However, I call out shit men as I see them. It’s funny that criticism of men is seen as extremist but criticism of women is just another typical Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:00 PM
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Do what? Talk about pathetic men? I already do that, sunshine. I don’t need a man’s permission to tell my girlfriends what an absolute joke a guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:42 PM
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I didn’t say YOU did. I’m taking about guys in this sub. I have yet to meet a person IRL that thinks about the shit people here do. I read this sub and post here basically because I’m bored as fuck. And yep, the conversations about dick size generally aren’t for women either. Do some women care about if a guy has a big dick? Most certainly. Most women, and it even came up recently on Reddit, will tell you average or even a bit smaller, is where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:34 PM
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/shrugs Embrace it, I guess? Again, how many times do women need to tell you they don’t care? You don’t brag about it to your girlfriend because she’d be grossed out. You brag about it to your guy friends because they find it impressive. I’m not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:25 PM
2

Do you understand what investments are?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:21 PM
2

What world are you living in? Seriously. I’m curious. Why should women who are sluts be sentenced to isolation? Did I imply that men should receive that treatment? Not even close. Women aren’t the ones going around expecting men to be chaste. I’ve heard very few women make a comment like that and the ones who do are the women who haven’t slept around. Men are usually the ones bitching and moaning about not sleeping with as many women as they like and the ones that are manwhores think it’s a qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:19 PM
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Because I can be here? Reading about what men consider important is funny to me. Y’all really think that we care about how many women you’ve fucked versus the kind of person you are. That was the point of my comment. I’m sorry you missed it. Y’all focus on shit women themselves bring to the table. If we already have the shit y’all brag about as being the positives of being in relationships with you, why would we want you? And just because y’all fuck a bunch of women doesn’t mean you’re good in b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:13 PM
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Chaste women eith money. Yo wanna be taken care of like bitches, doing none of the work. FOH.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:45 AM
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Are you serious? Women give a shit about who can give orgasms. If you can’t do it better than a woman, a desperate woman may settle for you, otherwise, we laugh at you do your our friends don’t make the same mistakes. You think men talk? Women tell each other what you like. Women tell each other what you don’t like. Women tell each other what you try to pass off as “trying” but you know you’re too you can’t get off without some dirty shit. Oh yes, we talk and tell about what horrific degenerates…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:23 AM
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Because you think women care. I have a 7 figure a year income. Do I give two shits about a male body attached to a penis? Nope. Dildos handle that. Company? I have women for that. What do you offer?? Lemme answer that. Nothing. You wanna mock cat ladies. When a woman prefers your company to an animal, who is losing? Not me. Black cats, dildos, astroglide, all the way. You have NOTHING I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:02 AM
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Because if you’re manwhore, dont expect a chaste woman. You get what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:52 AM
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I don’t have any more anger than men at my age. Y’all wanna bitch you’re “exploited” for your money. You’re exploiting women for their looks and womb. And the men who can capitalize on this are bitching. Why do I give a shit? I don’t. Bring shit to the table and we’ll talk. I don’t criticize programs that teach folks how to make the most of them. I will criticize those programs that demonize those who don’t hold to a certain standard, especially those of a man’s standard. Women aren’t out here t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:34 AM
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Are you kidding me?? Women are demonized for having double digit partners. Men are worshiped for having triple digit partners. Sexless marriages are because you cockily believe you know how to please women or leave women to do 90% of the work because you “bring home the money.” If I was chasing two toddlers under the age of five, the last thing I’d want to do is fucking touch you. You men want your 1950s lifestyle when women had no voice. You hate it now that we are speaking up. If you as a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:16 AM
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Bull. Fucking. Shit. These are men firmly entrenched in TRP bullshit. “Women can’t pair bond with guys if they’ve slept with too many men.” “Women can’t be trusted in LTR if they’ve slept with too many men.” “Women will leave you in a heartbeat for a ‘better’ man.” Seriously, are you reading this sub???! Men here love to shit all over women from any background because they are women. Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:56 AM
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Are you kidding?? Seriously, I have to ask. Have YOU read PPD? Guys bitching about women who aren’t near virginal while they are sluts? Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:59 AM
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I’m all for anyone and everyone improving themselves, especially if it has nothing to do with the increased possibility of getting laid. Women are criticized for being “power hungry” and wanting it all, but since it’s a man, who doesn’t have to take time out of their lives to be pregnant and raise and infant, it’s applauded,, especially when those men are generally not doing shit to help out with their spawn. My edit was to the guy that was in a debate with me and I told him I had been up for 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:50 AM
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I wouldn’t say that. I’d say TRP has horrible representation. If TRP was about improving yourself and not how to be a manwhore that hates promiscuous women (figure that shit out), it’d be one thing. The loudest RedPill guys shout about getting their dicks wet and hating on women who have more than 3 sexual partners. Y’all have the worst fan base. Edit: trying to get more and longer consistent sleep, thank you. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:33 AM
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Well, I think there’s a lot of pervs involved in that. She was what, 13, when that clip came out and now she has blood implants and still looks underage? She’s marketing to a niche.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 02:06 AM
2

You mean Men Getting Triggered over Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I’m comfortable saving my body for my partner’s eyes only and getting money other ways. $2/month for selling your body is... sad and gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 11:35 PM
2

How is that possible? I see people on Reddit selling their OF for like $2 a month. That seems shamefully low* for selling images of your body. *autocorrect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 10:57 PM
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The other side of that is that if a guy doesn’t have a lot of experience, a woman can show him what she likes and she doesn’t have to “retrain” him from what his previous lovers liked. Some women need very specific things to get them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 07:36 PM
1

You mean, she’s not making 6 figures selling shitty paintings and mixtapes on the boardwalk?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 07:43 PM
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Bold of you to assume she’s educated enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 07:06 PM
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I’m all for people wanting to find love but a relationship should be the last thing in this woman’s mind. Get a good job, find a home for you and your four kids, work to support yourself and them. That sounds like a tall order at the moment. Start with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 07:03 PM
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Question for women: reading all the men saying how the women who answered are liars. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:42 PM
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In a row?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:39 PM
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It has nothing to do with options. Has to do with whether he lets his penis run his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:29 PM
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I’m not trying to paint you as anything. You want a girl that puts out right away or you’ll leave. Then you want a girl who doesn’t sleep around for a relationship. Big surprise. Like 95% of the guys here. The whole cake and eat it too. This conversation gets tedious because you all sound the same for every discussion. You’re not my guy so I don’t care what kind of guy you are or aren’t. If a woman isn’t giving you what you want, just move on and not complain about it. I’m sure you’ll find someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:05 PM
1

I mean, if you’re large like that, why are you trying to wear spandex? At least wear clothes that fit you nicely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 03:59 PM
2

You mean, Mayhem! At the Buffet
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 03:57 PM
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It also burns both ways. This nonsense of women want a guy with experience is crap. I didn’t sleep around, I expect the same from my partner. So I guess for guys in that situation, cool, but they also have to be open to the possibility a good woman doesn’t want you to be the town bike either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:35 PM
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Something. To each their own. I mean, I don’t care and to me, it comes as a risk if a guy has a bunch of partners. Means they are just trying to get laid and that’s not what I’m interested in. If I want an orgasm, I can do that myself and I’m okay skipping the ONS that would be mediocre sex anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:30 PM
2

So you impress your pasts standards on each new woman you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:27 PM
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Because why is it about HIS happiness, not hers and her comfort? Maybe she’s not ready yet? Why is he entitled to her body if she wants him “to be happy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:26 PM
2

But you’re saying that if a woman put out on a first date once, then that’s what you’re entitled to as well. No, you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:24 PM
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Imagine assuming I put out in the first three dates because other women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:21 PM
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Because it’s no one’s business. Myself personally, I don’t have an issue sharing with my partner if he wants to know; it’s fairly short. However, it’s a respect of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:15 AM
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But, you are indeed saying that. You think if a girl out out on the first date once, you’re entitled to that as well and if not, it’s a deal breaker. Which signals to me that you’re only in it for the sex anyways, which is why I would make you wait, as I do for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:50 AM
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How about it’s non of your business? If she openly shared it, it’s one thing. I mean, is this high school!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:40 AM
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Because not everyone wants the same things? Might shock you to know there are plenty of men and women that don’t want kids. Quite frankly, if that’s all you’re centering your relationship around, it’s gonna be a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:39 AM
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Imagine thinking you’re in a LTR on date 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:27 AM
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You aren’t entitled to what other guys had.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:25 AM
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For real. Where is this idea coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:12 AM
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Why? And if it might upset you what she did in the past, why ask in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:07 AM
2

I’m just curious how you know she’s doing those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:53 AM
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How about because it’s her body and she sets the rules for it. No one is entitled to anything. If you spent $250 on a first date with some other chick, does that mean I’m entitled to a $250 first date as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:51 AM
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Because, try as you might, you can’t just sweep the past under the rug because suddenly it doesn’t benefit you. History plays a part in this shit. Where we are in 2021 didn’t just happen because we woke up today and decided this is how the world will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:32 PM
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Who said anything about reparations? Are you daft? How about, don’t sit up here with this “woe is me” bullshit because “whyyyy won’t women date me” when we’ve been fighting to get access to even go to college. Women have the ability to put themselves first not and not have to marry the first guy their dad deems acceptable and then become his baby factory and bangmaid and sit there and look pretty with your mouth closed and hope his day wasn’t so bad that he comes home and smacks you around. Oh, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:25 PM
2

Interesting take. Is that your view on slavery as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:02 PM
3

Thank you! I appreciate the info!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 04:34 PM
1

Then I guess I’m biased because I’m over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 04:29 PM
2

I mean, for sure, if that’s situation, that’s one thing but that’s not all porn. I refuse to believe that all of women participants in porn are forced into it. I think there’s a lot of young women who are young and attractive and think it’s a good way to cash in on their looks. There’s nothing wrong with that. I mean, if it’s legal for 18 year olds to sign loan papers for $100,000 in loans for school, I guess I can’t criticize women doing porn, even though neither is the brightest or best idea. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 04:28 PM
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Hence, endorsed. Full facepalm moment right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 04:10 AM
-4

Is that the default guy joke? 😁
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 03:10 AM
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Thank you! I don’t use Twitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 03:10 AM
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I don’t understand the hate towards porn. I mean, as long as it isn’t effecting real sex, why would anyone care?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 02:43 AM
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What’s a blue check mark?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 02:29 AM
1

Holy, shit. What a disaster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 02:19 AM
1

Yes, he is. He’s angry that women on dating sites are more successful on dating sites than he his. I made the jump to sleeping together but a lot of times, that’s what guy s are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:05 AM
1

I think I responded to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:47 AM
1

Oh, I understand completely. Men have been getting a short end of the stick about some things for some time now, and some of it’s gotten out of hand. If a woman can’t accept a coffee date at any time in your relationship without bitching about it, dump her and move on. The first date should always be coffee. No one is putting out a big expense and if you’re not feeling it, move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 01:38 AM
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Government benefits are mostly paid towards children, elderly, veterans, and disabled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 01:34 AM
2

Still waiting for a source
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 01:33 AM
2

How does who someone sleeps with effect your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:31 AM
1

Ahh, too early for me. Only 830pm but good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:30 AM
1

The only acts of violence I’ve had happen against me have been by people of my own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:16 AM
4

You mean for now? After how many hundreds of years of being shit on being treated like property?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:08 AM
0

Did you mean sympathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:05 AM
1

I wonder why that might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:04 AM
1

Exactly, so why are you complaining? I mean, either they figure it out or they don’t. They are only hurting themselves. I’m not sure what you are wanting to hear from anyone in this post, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:48 AM
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I’m going to have to put a pin in this because I was told it’s not a debate sub and I don’t want to get into trouble. The other Redditor and I were just having a nice conversation and exchange of thoughts. I will just say there are points I agree with and those I don’t and I have to leave it at that. I hope you understand I don’t wish to go against sub rules.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:42 AM
0

And you get that based off of one study from a dating website. Let’s face it, anyone would want the best they can get. It’s not having cake and eating it too. If you could get a 10, you wouldn’t say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:39 AM
1

Now I know why your name looks familiar! I was like why is this guy asking about my sleep? Doing better, the last couple of days, thanks! I appreciate it! 😊 I hope you’re well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:29 AM
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I’ll do that. I’ll also let them know how to be kind as well, if they have to reject anyone. Continue to mentor men. All we have is each other to learn from so we need good teachers. And thank you! I hope you find someone, if that’s your goal, an, if not, I hope you continue do fo well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:24 AM
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I’ve always been pretty oblivious to subtle hints from guys. I’m grateful that guys have been direct with me. I’ve been in a serious relationship for a year and a half and I think this is the one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:03 AM
0

Yeah, once, right? That’s the problem. Fat acceptance is usually about women because fat women used to get shit on way more than fat men. Fat women had a safe safe and now everyone bitches it’s not inclusive. It probably should be but there’s a reason women started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:50 PM
0

Who is wanting their cake and eating it too? You are clearly doing the same but you don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:36 PM
1

I sleep pretty great sometimes, other times not so much. Thanks for being concerned about my sleep hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:35 PM
1

Overweight men are not necessarily neck beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:18 PM
1

And fat men in tv and movies are usually paired up with smoking hot wives. When have you seen the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:15 PM
1

But you aren’t denied. You clearly have standards you won’t be swayed from so why is it bad that other people are the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:51 PM
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Well, the subtle signals thing I’m sure is a problem but part of that comes from just trying to be nice to a guy and him thinking you’re interested in him. I smile politely at those I make eye contact with, it doesn’t mean I want to be approached. I may interact with a guy in an innocuous way and it comes across the wrong way as well. I’m all for women approaching men more. I think it should be normalized for sure. However, now we go back to if a girl shows interest, a thought for a lot of guys …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:44 PM
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Women don’t understand what it feels like to be assumed a predator You’re right, I don’t but I can sure sympathize with my brother and my make friends. It’s shitty and I’ve been supportive of them through some shitty situations. and have to “prove” yourself, Well, yeah, that’s how we know you aren’t going to harm us. I’m sorry, but statistically, it’s men that do most of the violent crimes, especially those against women. or have your soul crushed by a dating app with no matches after hundreds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:32 PM
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That’s absolutely not a bad faith answer. It’s a very good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:18 PM
1

There are those that of us that are, at least on a wide scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:11 PM
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I didn’t date much in undergrad because I knew I’d be moving on to more school from there. Had one boyfriend, who it turned out, couldn’t handle things after I moved away. I should have known; was on me. I would think it’s a bit easier for guys in college though right, to ask a girl out, if it’s someone in any classes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:58 PM
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Oh, for sure. I wouldn’t date a guy with kids so I wouldn’t expect a guy to date me if I had them. Makes sense. Good discussion of this mess of a message. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:41 PM
1

I usually have to make sure I say I’m not slut shaming when I talk about women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:37 PM
2

Some woman is better than no woman mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:22 PM
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Right, and that’s how it starts. Work with those we can and get others to join in. For a woman, it’s about knowing there’s choices. Like, get your education, sure, have fun at college, sure, but know they don’t have to sleep with a bunch of guys, or any guys for that matter. Find a nice guy, an actual nice guy, who you click with and have the same ideas about goals and future. Go from there. I was never a party person a college and I kept my head down. I had goals and all that was a distraction.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:21 PM
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Well, single moms aren’t the same as divorced moms, but I see your point. Unless you’re saying Billy Beta wants to Divorce Suzie Singlemom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:10 PM
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Ohhhh, I completely misread that. I thought she was talking about other people being financially stable, learned (lear-ned, which does mean having an education), and other things in life but having a complete family, which she doesn’t have either so I’m not sure why she’s making the comparison, but that she’ll have kids and a husband as soon as she can find some idiot to marry her, hence complete family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 09:01 PM
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That’s so shitty. Divorce needs a major overhaul in the US. It also shouldn’t necessarily be the mom that gets custody of the kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 08:53 PM
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Well, I would hope if a woman likes you and you ask her out, she says yes and there’s no playing games. I mean, if there’s not that basic exchange, I wouldn’t bother. If you ask her out and says she can’t that day but offers an alternative, definitely. If she doesn’t offer an alternative, forget her. She’s not worth your time. As for the other part, all I can say is it’s not something I would do but I can only give my experience. It’s interesting hearing what you folks have to say. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 08:48 PM
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Fair enough. I forget about the debate thing. Sometimes it’s hard to keep my knee jerk reaction in check. I definitely have beaten into the young ladies that I know from 15 and up how to conduct themselves like ladies and respect themselves and to have men treat them correctly and ask for substance. We have some good men that are being great father’s to their little girls. And if the moms hold up the same, hopefully we can turn this ship around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 08:23 PM
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Fair enough. Doesn’t seem too fat by what you can see, unless that mask is hiding double chins. She looks hella old though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 07:55 PM
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Bold of you to assume my over 40 self and over 40 6/6/6/6 loyal man wants/ever wanted kids. I would have been fine if I had no eggs at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 07:09 PM
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No way. What a fucking whore. Her infidelity should have cost her everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 06:49 PM
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So, is she with the father and just not married yet or looking for a man to take over?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 06:45 PM
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I wholeheartedly disagree. I don’t settle for any man just be because he came along. I’m okay with being single. I’m sure I’m not alone in this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 06:33 PM
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Thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 05:45 PM
2

What’s an IGWE?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 04:58 PM
2

But you can usually tell by her face though, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 03:44 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 01:08 PM
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How is she very clearly obese? Just curious?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 01:04 PM
3

Is the random “go away” in the middle a subliminal message?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 01:03 PM
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I need a source for that please.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:43 PM
0

I don’t either. Attitude is a huge thing. Women can read your attitude and mood from a mile away. Who wants to be with someone angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:52 AM
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Like I said, “shady surgeons.” Could you find one? Probably. Do you wanna trust them with your life and literally limb? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:15 AM
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That’s true. However, we are talking about today and today, only shady surgeons would do that surgery, at least in the US. It’s considered barbaric. In the future, there maybe better, safer, and less painful ways to add height. Today, it’s just not a good practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:05 AM
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Most doctors won’t do that surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:36 PM
2

Well, since you’re not my man, I can’t really help you out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 11:02 PM
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I guess I’m not a woman then. 😁 But, I’ve said things before and had people basically call me a liar, so it’s okay. I mean, I enjoy the conversations but ultimately I know who I am.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:22 PM
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You must meet lots of sluts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah, I don’t jump into bed with anyone quickly. Although I said that before either here or on PPD and got called a liar. Other dude doesn’t know what he’s talking about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:08 PM
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Oh, hell yeah. Normal people don’t need that kinda mess in their lives. I’m glad Joe had good friends like you to look out after him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 01:50 PM
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That’s great to hear! I’m sure your daughter will be much happier as well to be in a stable safe home. Edit: autocorrect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 01:40 PM
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Yeah, fuck that. I’m not into sharing my man with anyone. And if that’s what he wants, he can have it and I’ll close the door behind me when I leave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 01:39 PM
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*expense of taxpayers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 12:58 PM
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I’m a sister but I’m a big supporter of men. It’s disgusting how much things favor women. The courts are especially bad. Just document everything you can. I really wish the best for you and your daughter. Both deserve better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 12:48 PM
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I hope you get custody of your daughter. That’s just... a horrible situation. You daughter deserves better. Best of luck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 12:25 PM
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Well, if her friends didn’t say it, I’ll say it. That girl is an idiot. You break up with someone for a reason. Leave your ex in the past and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 12:17 PM
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Yeah, folks are idiots about disability. It’s hard to get and usually takes years. They really try to weed out the fakers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:59 AM
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Which women marry High Value Men (HVM)? (You can reverse the sexes and it's equally true.) A woman who understands the market; a woman who has realistic estimations of her own value to HVM; a woman who understands what she should value in a husband; a woman who understands what HVM expect from wives; a woman who builds herself up with regard to those things, and a woman who positions herself in the market so that HVM can see what she brings to the table. As far as value... the women who succeed …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:48 AM
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Well, he kinda said that HVM will cheat so that’s not a good selling point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:31 AM
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Right? I feel so sorry for the kids if this is their mother. At least she makes it sound like she tries to shield them from the revolving door on her bedroom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:15 AM
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Bipolar and depression doesn’t just go away if you lose weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 09:50 AM
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She’s self diagnosed and trying to find a doctor to say she hands depression and is bipolar. Hence, “working on getting disability.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 09:43 AM
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You’re right. It’s probably higher for both. Lots of people don’t report it.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 03:56 AM
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Aw, man, come on. Just because girls are sexually assaulted doesn’t mean you should ignore the boys that are. Jeeze.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 03:54 AM
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The draft thing really makes no sense to include, just like any military stats. Men made the rules that women couldn’t participate because women were seen as lesser. I think they should get rid of the draft.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 03:52 AM
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That’s what’s reported. Sexual assaults and rapes are vastly underreported and that goes for men and women. Women don’t report because they think they don’t be believed or they will be told it was her fault. Men don’t report because of not being believed or shame.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 03:48 AM
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I think you having a reading comprehension problem. I think you’re not reading what I wrote. Thanks for the conversation but when your mind is clear and you actually respond to my posts instead of pulling crap out of the air, maybe we can chat again. And you’ll probably not read this correctly but im a men’s rights supporter. However, I think men need to be responsible for their actions just like women. Why don’t you just come out and say how much you hate women and you want to go around and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:22 AM
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So if I have a true twin, I am responsible of my twin's kids because they have my DNA ? That doesn't hold on a legal basis even if I agree with you on a moral basis. What on earth are you talking about? This has nothing to do with what we were talking about. And if your twin did you dirty, take it up with him. Where do you come up with this stuff? I disagree that it's my fetus, if it's not my choice. Sounds like you want people to pay you for your choices instead of being responsible of them. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:38 AM
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No way. Sorry. If you can’t get laid, that’s your problem. You don’t deserve compensation. What kind of drugs are you on? You definitely are giving the impression you thing women are objects. You think you should be able to do what you want with them, regardless of what the women want. That means you don’t see them as people. They are sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:30 AM
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No way. You can’t take away people’s right in order to get them to breed. No no no no no. This is over the line and the US is screwed if this ever happens. Women are not just incubators for the next generation. It’s a choice your women to have babies. Why do birth rates need to hit replacement? I’m sorry, but what do you mean about female psychology? The choosiness is about finding a man to be a provider. Not necessarily that the woman wouldn’t work but like I said, lots of woman look for someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:27 AM
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Bottom line, if men are getting paid for not having sex, then women should too. I understand the concepts we are talking about. I’m wondering if you do. Women are not objects. I think this is the point you’re missing in this conversation. You want to treat them as an inanimate object or a commodity. I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:22 AM
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"Society can want anything it wants but it boils down to what individuals want. " See, this is where we are stuck. I believe it is far more complex than that. You are fixated on what should any one of us do, as individuals, given how things actually are. And when it comes to this, I don't necessarily disagree with you. Could you explain what you think the complexity is? But to me, the more interesting question, is what can we do collectively to try to make things better, with 'collectively' enta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:18 AM
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We are not responsible for DNA, we are responsible for choices. You absolutely are. It’s your spent and you’re responsible for where it goes. You are irrational because for exemple you consider certain choices to be choices and other choices to not be choice. Whatever. Sounds like you’re just angry you can’t force women to do what you want and you’re being held responsible for your fetus. Like for exemple for you ejaculating is a choice, sticking your penis in a vagina is a choice, but sticking …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:53 AM
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Well, I certainly don’t want society to force people together. I don’t want to see arranged marriages. Interventions earlier in people’s lives is brainwashing them saying they have to get married and have two kids. There’s some people that don’t want that . I certainly wouldn’t want to be forced to have a kid just because we need “replacements.” No thanks. There’s lots of “average” guys will increase their chances if they just do a few things. Shower and brush your teeth. Find a great smelling c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:47 AM
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Not at all. I just don’t agree with you and you seem to be kinda angry about that. I’m discussing the things you bring up and I just don’t agree. I don’t know what else to say. Your last response, hands down, is probably the dumbest thing I’ve seen. No one owes you anything and you don’t deserve money for not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:35 AM
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I’m not irrational. Is that what you call women who don’t agree with you? Your DNA is 50% of that fetus. You’re responsible for your sperm. Use multiple forms of birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:32 AM
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Women are pickier. They are the primary sexual selectors and then have less raw drive to mate or have sex at all. Yes, they have to be pickier because they take on more risk in a relationship than a man. And that’s bullshit that they have a lie sex drive. I need a source for that. It’s an individual thing. Yes, both men and women do want the best they can get, though by different standards. But it is easier for men to be happy with what they can get; at some point a lot of lower value women (jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:13 AM
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You don’t get the last word of a woman’s uterus. I mean, if you were the woman here and you didn’t have an abortion how would you feel if the guy was like too bad, so sad. Do what I want it you’re fucked. Nah, son. If you break up, consult a lawyer. Again , you knocked someone up, it’s your responsibility to deal with it. We are getting nowhere. I will not change my mind on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:02 AM
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Exactly my argument why women should pay. It's that simple. They shouldn't have decided to make kids otherwise. Do you think that women don’t contribute to their kids? Your $300 probably is t going far. Again, housing, food, clothes, medicine, school. You’re not supporting her; you’re supporting your kid. YOU shouldn’t have decided to make kids either. You are not a victim here. You made your decisions and you hit her pregnant. It is the exact same thing as part time slavery. You are defined by …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:58 AM
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You have to let people choose the life they want. If someone hasn’t found someone that’s an acceptable suitor, what can you do? You can’t force them to marry. I think that’s why online dating isn’t necessarily a bad thing because it raises your chances of finding a good partner. There are men and women out there that are so jaded, they don’t want relationships. Look at some of the people on this sub or MGTOW or incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:46 AM
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Less of a cultural focus on sex and beauty. Less nudity everywhere. More modesty. Focus on glorifying non-physical beauty-based male traits as higher status. Suppression, if only cultural, of online dating. Women are always going to be attracted to male fitness traits such as male beauty. But the current culture has made male beauty a status trait as well, so that hypergamy is latching on to it. This supercharges the value of being handsome. I agree with some of this but others, just no. Online …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:36 AM
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I use the word rape when a woman says no and the man decides to have sex with her against her wishes. I call it like I see it. If both the woman and man consents to marriage, that’s all that matters. The situation here in the thread is enforcing the idea that women are being forced because men think they deserve a wife. Duty sex is kind of a different situation. She very well could have agreed because she feels like she needs to sleep with her husband, like you said. However, there are men that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:25 AM
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Yes, exactly. People should pay for their choices. Your choice was to blow your load inside a woman. That’s on you. The consequence was she got pregnant. You need to deal with the consequences. How is this difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:20 AM
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We need to be careful about the limits of language here. 'Coerce' may have not been the right word. Well, if she’s not willing and you have to force her or badger her until she gives in, what would you call it? But I'm not sure what the right word is for say past cultures of enforced monogamy where, given the cultural context, female sexual selectivity was such that say a large portion of the lower tier of women in terms of relative SMV were not particularly attracted to the men of equivalent SM…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:18 AM
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Now, to address the issue comprehensively, this is the extreme version. Nobody should want this. However, imagine that society does everything it can to manage female hypergamy and sexual selectivity, including helping all men meet female desires and needs as much as men can. But we still find that nowhere say (to pick a number) near 80% of men can find a woman who is voluntarily eager to mate with him on a purely sexual basis. That effectively means a culture based on monogamy would no longer w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:06 AM
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Okay how about this. If you think men should have a voice in abortion, then women get to have a voice in sterilizing men. And yep. Men need to be responsible for their spawn. You had bodily autonomy when you blew your load in her. You made that decision. That’s where your voice and choice comes in. Don’t be a hypocrite. You made your own choices leading up to a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:52 AM
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Well then, I don’t know what to tell you. You’re still responsible for supporting your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:49 AM
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I do not want to work for the $300 of child support I could have to pay which amount to about 5 days of slavery per month. I do not want to work for the 2% tax I pay toward <xxx> which amount for 3 hours of slavery per month. Well, don’t have kids. It’s that simple. So, like slavery. Slavery is making roads, schools, slaves can drive transports, lot of stuff made by slavery. Pay social security and everything else the government could need. You REALLY need to reread the definition of slavery. “S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:48 AM
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Where is the hypocrisy? If guys don’t want a kid, keep your dick in your pants. Again, it works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:35 AM
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I’m not attempting anything. I’m not sure how you not having sex relates to about. If abstinence was universal, sure, but it’s not. My argument is about you being held responsible for your actions. There is no gotcha moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:20 AM
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In the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:15 AM
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I’ll reread this and answer in detail but if you coerce someone into having sex, it’s rape. Bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:11 AM
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I doubt you’re paying 50%. If you want a discussion, please use facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:09 AM
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If you say so. There’s not gotcha here. And if you call me names, this discussion is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:08 AM
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Getting a man to work when he doesn't want to is the same thing. Sooo, if you don’t work, how do you survive? Are you in r/antiwork? Taxes are just legal part time slavery. You give 10% of your salary means you worked 10% for free. No, it’s not. It goes to pay for things you don’t think about. Roads, schools,transport. Lots of stuff. Pays for social security and everything else the government and county needs to function. You are forced to give $300 child support for the woman's choice to leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:07 AM
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Who is paying 50% tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:58 AM
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And yet I got no say in whether it is continued or not. Sure you do. But the final decision is on the woman. Look, it’s never gonna fully equal because men can’t get pregnant. Nope. Most aren't. I'm not saying to ban medically necessary abortions. Just all the other ones 😂 Nope. Anyone who wants an abortion should have one. Access to anyone that wants one. You’re trying to control women’s bodies. I realize it. You don't seem to. I’m sorry, what? I’m the one that mentioned it. This is fantasy Oh,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:57 AM
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Then don’t blow your load in a woman. If you do, you have to accept the consequences. Period. Have a great night. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:52 AM
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And thank you for ignoring my post. Take care. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:51 AM
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Taxes aren’t the same as getting a woman to sleep with you when she doesn’t want to. It’s rape, pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:12 AM
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The person responsible is the man with his Soren. Irresponsible sex isn’t 100% on the woman not is pregnancy. I see you blaming women for everything. Take responsibility for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:00 AM
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While men don't have the option to financially abort. That's what we are discussing. That’s too bad. You were an equal participant in that pregnancy. Great logic. Let's ban regular abortion then! Why? Abortions are medically necessary. Look, if women don’t expect t to be responsible for getting pregnant , either don’t sleep string and find yourself a good partner that is on the sage as you about pregnancy, or don’t have sex. Or sterilize yourself. Absolutely. And use birth control. I mean, you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:56 AM
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Sure it is. You’re letting guys say do this or else. I don’t see how you think this isn’t putting this all on women. Anyways, my stance won’t change and I have yet to hear a good argument from guys. It’s all “I don’t want to be responsible for a fetus I helped create so I’m gonna bounce.” And most people that think this bitch about single moms, welfare, and food stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:50 AM
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If he expressed he didn’t want one, he should have vetted his partner so they were on the same page. If you’re out having casual sex and ONS, too bad, so sad. This is just a way to let guys absolve their responsibility and blame it all on the woman. The guy has an equal part in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:39 AM
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Too bad. Sorry. Unless it was rape or coercion, he’s just as responsible. Period. It takes two to tango do it takes two to be responsible for the situation they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:21 AM
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Well, I’m sorry if a man doesn’t want it but you’re blaming all this on women because they have abortion access. Women aren’t here to clean up your mess. If you get someone pregnant, you’re just as responsible as she is. Women aren’t becoming millionaires for having babies . What exactly is the incentive to have a kid! Look, if men don’t expect to be responsible for pregnancies they caused, either don’t sleep around and find yourself a good partner that is on the page as you about pregnancy, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:20 AM
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How so? Either the father pays or taxpayers pay. It’s better to hold the father responsible for his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:59 AM
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Thank you!! I would think guys would be repulsed by this. I mean, you have a girl naked on the bed who you’re ready to have sex with and she’s crying and trying to cover her body. And if you do have sex with her, she’s crying more and begging you to stop. Doesn’t sound like a good time to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:56 AM
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You’re awesome. Can we be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:53 AM
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Keep your dick in your pants if you don’t want to risk getting a girl pregnant. Works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:53 AM
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This is what gets me. They are supporting their children, not the mother. But anything involving women is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:47 AM
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Jail would work as an incentive for women to just abort the kid they cant afford. This has to be one of the dumbest things I’ve ever heard. Yep, take away women’s rights. “Do what we want or you go to jail.” Maybe throw men in jail for not supporting their kids. Obviously, they can’t afford their kid either. That’s equality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:42 AM
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It’s even cheaper if the father pays for his own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:37 AM
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Hypergamy, female nature, and misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 11:22 PM
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If only you did as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:45 PM
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Hey, don’t put that shit on all of us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 02:43 PM
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Well, water is delicious. Who wouldn’t want to drink it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 02:24 PM
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How it’s it hypocritical to look out for one’s safety? As I’ve said a million times, a guy is more than welcome to walk. I won’t sleep with some guy to make him stay. As far as the small dick thing goes, if a guy thinks it’s a problem, why not bring it up before hand? I have some scars. I bring them up right away so there are no surprises. Bring intact is a cultural thing, especially if you’re in the US. The standard is cut. I might be surprised to see it but I’d never react badly to it. I’m sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:19 PM
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Neon pink pen but meh... One in the same, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 05:10 AM
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Indeed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 04:07 AM
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Aww, shucks. I’m so sad. Anyways... 😁
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 04:05 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. This is why I visit a huge variety of subs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 03:46 AM
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It’s like a syllabus for a university level 300 course. I’m good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 03:43 AM
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Oh for sure. Bioavailability of something processed isn’t the same as something that isn’t. Do you take supplements at all? Those can be helpful even in days you don’t want to eat. A, D, E, and K need a fat source to be absorbed but can theoretically be offset by taking fish oil. Everything else is water soluble so you’ll still benefit even if you don’t eat. I had traumatic injury to my stomach that required surgery and the scar tissue is causing problems and that’s how I got here. I know there’…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 12:27 AM
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Yeah, my fasting came from stomach issues where I was throwing up almost everything I ate. I got to the point eating just wasn’t worth it anymore. I’ve gone five days with no food and I only noticed because I was getting horribly dizzy and weak. That’s why I always keep ready to drink protein drinks in hand because I can always keep those down. It’s only 160 calories but has 30 grams of protein and no sugar so it’s far better than nothing. I eat if I’m hungry. If I’m not, I still have a protein …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:19 PM
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Usually, a big part of it is that a lot of folks that drink alcohol as a regular habit tend not to hydrate properly. Dehydration will absolutely destroy your looks. Causes puffiness and wrinkles. Not as bad as smoking but still. Having a few drinks on the weekend or with a great meal is one thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 08:54 PM
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Alcohol. Alcohol will destroy your skin and beauty in addition to your liver.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 08:39 PM
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I don’t get. The only time I’ve ever had Botox come up in conversation was a doctor giving my options for migraine relief. No, thanks. I’ll stick to the IR putting lidocaine up my nose once every year and a half.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 07:32 PM
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That’s amazing. I do unintentional intermittent fasting because I now lack an appetite. I do make myself take in nutrition though so my body doesn’t shut down. I also almost never eat processed food. Simple ingredients only. The less ingredients a food has, the better. Lots of water I drink water 99% of the time. You’re an inspiration! Stay strong!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 07:30 PM
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I think it’s more that “society” has turned anti men and that’s not a solution for anyone who claims to want things equal and fair. Equal doesn’t mean you get to push someone else down to raise yourself up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 01:03 PM
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For real. 2 for 1 but not really?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 12:46 PM
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I already have. Thanks love. Have a wonderful spring day! I hope the weather is getting nice by you as it is here. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:36 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂 That’s the best joke I’ve heard in a long time. Are you sure you aren’t trying to use my comments from this sub as a way to criticize me in another sub where you’re a mod? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:15 PM
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Psychopathic narcissist piece of shit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 12:07 PM
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I sure hope so. That little girl, as with all kids, deserve the world. I’m not a big fan of kids but holy shit, I can’t imagine doing this to a kid. I just wanna give her a giant hug and let her know she’s safe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 11:47 AM
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I think you and I have a lot in common after reading your comment a few times. I wish all the best for you in your journey. It sounds like you’ve made tremendous strides. I will say that dropping 200 pounds is an epic life changing event. Surgery to get rid of excess skin is just something that someone who hasn’t been through it is hard to understand. I’m far better looking at 46 than I was at 21.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 11:40 AM
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Thank you as well! Have a wonderful day!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:32 AM
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You think? I mean, that’s a huge ass. I don’t know how to put it politely. I’m glad you’re doing well. Dropping that much weight is only a positive. I know the relief you’re feeling. I went from 371 (yep, I know there are those who are going to be cruel and ridicule me, by all means if it makes you feel better) to 170. I’m a whole different person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 11:16 AM
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I do the inhale for 8 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 8 to manage my panic attacks. Usually helps pretty well. Panic attacks are something I’m pretty good about being able to distract myself from. If I can’t, it’s a trip to the ER. Been a year between visits for this so I’m doing pretty well. Singing positive songs are a great distraction as well. I’m glad you’re doing better! I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. I really appreciate your kindness , compassion, and humanity. It’s not something you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:09 AM
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Better than most nights. I seem to have anxiety about falling asleep and I also tend to wake up very easily. It sucks but the meds in the US to help with insomnia have lots of risks and doctors tend not to want to prescribe them. No one should have to deal with 6 hours of sleep on three days. It’s not healthy. I appreciate your willingness to see I was struggling and not inflame the situation. That means a lot to me and I’m tearing up over it. Thank you for your compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:55 AM
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I did, for about 5 hours, thank you. 😊 I appreciate your concern!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:48 AM
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Okay, I legit had water come out of my nose over trying to not laugh at this. Fuck you and thank you at the same time😁
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:46 AM
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At least 7 red flags just in her opening. Dont push and shove, fellas. Form an orderly line to the right. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:44 AM
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Holy fucking shit. I don’t have words strong enough to call this bitch out for what she really is. This is why I have to believe in an afterlife. People that do this shit should spend eternity burning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:41 AM
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That’s amazing!! Good on you! This chick is easily 350 regardless of being short. I have years of research on this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:36 AM
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Morbidly so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:34 AM
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I have yet to get one even though I’m technically a part of that sub because I lurk. I’m okay with getting banned but I wanna make an epic post to do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:26 AM
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You’re a good dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:20 AM
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You’re mistaken. Well adjusted women understand respect goes both ways and is earned, not given. Then you have this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:18 AM
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12???? Who let that travesty happen? No one should be procreating at 12.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:16 AM
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Was that even English or is that whole new language?? Don’t post pictures with those stupid ass filters. WTF is wrong with you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:14 AM
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Probably is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:58 AM
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Last I checked, NPs can prescribe meds under the license of an MD. Has this changed recently?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:56 AM
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I also drink lots of water, stay out of the sun, don’t have kids, don’t drink or smoke. This isn’t hard to figure out. Imagine what she’ll look like at 40? Crypt keeper? I know that’s mean but damn girl, fix yourself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:46 AM
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What a disaster and they are going to let her treat psych patients. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:35 AM
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Dude, I’m 46 and I look at least 20 years younger than her. I’m flabbergasted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:30 AM
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She’s 26???? There’s no fucking way. I’m 20 years older than her and absolutely look younger than her. Holy shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:29 AM
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That’s not curvy. That’s an extra 125+ pounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:26 AM
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Wow, that sounds like a no win situation. Bless you for having the patience of a saint. That has to be very difficult. Best of luck to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:20 AM
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I appreciate the feedback. Thank you! Be well!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 09:13 AM
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Yep. One person at a time dating. I make this perfectly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:20 AM
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It’s also a deal breaker for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:12 AM
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Communication is key for sure. Lots of problems could be avoided if more folks were open and honest. I don’t care if a guy wants to date and have sex with four women. I do care that he hides it from me and I see it as a lie if omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:12 AM
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I mean, I date one guy at a time. It would definitely make me stop seeing a guy if he’s seeing other women. It means he’s keeping his options open, which in theory isn’t an issue, but it sure says he isn’t serious about me. Best to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:09 AM
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Yeah, this is utter bullshit. If you can’t stay chaste for a man you’re looking at as a life partner, why should he do that for you?? The hypocrisy is just... damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:07 AM
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Dude, I love you. As a friend. We could hang out IRL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah, after the puking and diarrhea was over, I still had to deal with pus filled blisters on my shoulders, chest, back, and face. “Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists” -Baz Luhrmann
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 05:02 AM
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Well, insomnia is a cruel bitch. Even worse when doctors won’t give you meds to help. Thank you for your concern and I will reread my responses and reconsider my position. I appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:48 AM
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Also, stay hydrated, don’t go to sleep with makeup on, try to cut down on alcohol. It’ll make your face look red and bloated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 04:22 AM
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Hahahahaha Yes, there is. Men just don’t want to admit it. I think a lot of you call him Chad or Tyrone. That’s a “woman” trait. Men obviously are better. /s if it isn’t obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:42 AM
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Definitely but also find a good cleanser and toner for your skin type. Find a good moisturizer and night cream for your skin type. Wash your face twice a day. Exfoliate as needed. There’s also products to help with fine lines. It might be a heavy initial investment but you need to use very little product and they last forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 03:39 AM
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He doesn’t eat pizza every day. Do you eat your favorite meal for dinner every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:31 AM
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Ahhh, auto mod ban?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 03:30 AM
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I’m sorry. I’m not meaning to be dense here but what are you trying to say? I haven’t slept for like 40 hours so I feel like I’m missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:10 PM
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I’m sorry, but what? Sex ALWAYS comes with an inherent risk of pregnancy. Men can do everything right. Women can do everything right. Birth control still fails. The talk of sexual sex ALWAYS goes hand in hand with pregnancy. Actual adults realize and acknowledge this. This is like 8th grade biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:53 PM
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Sex always comes with implied knowledge that it can lead to pregnancy. This isn’t a new or stunning revelation. It’s always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:42 PM
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I personally don’t have casual sex. Check my post history. Why do MEN need casual sex when they approach anyone with a vagina? If we are being brutally honest, men will do pretty much anything to get laid. Women don’t. This isn’t a stunning revelation here. Where have you been for 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:25 PM
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I have an IUD which is the most failsafe form of birth control only beat out by abstinence and sterilization. How about we also talk about when birth control fails, that man is just as responsible for that pregnancy as the woman is. Oh, but we slut shame women for being single moms (who baby daddy abandons) or whores for having an abortion. Where is the downside for men? Denying paternity, failing to help pay for an abortion, fighting child support for a child that is biologically his? I mean, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:02 PM
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But, I love wine and cats but I’m not a bitter bitch. Where do I fit in here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:52 PM
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“Now moving on: The only risk men take when approaching women is that they will get rejected. The same risk is the only risk women take.” I’m sorry, what? What planet do you live on? Women carry ALL the burden of casual sex, up to and including pregnancy. Do I need to draw you a picture of the downsides of a woman ending in casual sex? I absolutely will if you can admit you’re not educated on the subject. The
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:37 PM
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I do know what he likes. Pizza is his all time favorite. Chicago style deep dish. I’m always open to new recipes. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:22 PM
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I need money to buy organic everything and a pro chef to show me how to cook and exercise. Meanwhile, normal folks are watching YouTube videos and scouring the net for info... for free. Takes a few nights without having on Tinder for validation though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:15 PM
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Well to go along with the positivity of the first part of your statement, single moms are given grants and waivers to go to school for careers in need of staffing. Free. Fucking. School. For those that are willing to carry a fetus. Screw the rest of us who are responsible enough not to get pregnant. We lose .*funding and spots to women just because they are single moms. FOH with that shit. Bring that shit to med school and you’ll get slaughtered. It’s not about the best person for the job. fucki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:09 PM
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46 mama of 0 because I know about birth control. Ffs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:04 PM
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I will say, you can’t control who you’re attracted to. That being said, if you’re 350 pounds, you can’t expect to land a 180 musclebro, unless it’s his fetish. For full transparency, I’m 5’8” and 170 pounds. I’m genetically blessed to wear it in the right places (see: boobs, ass, hips, thighs). I’m not sloppy. I eat healthy. I expect the same from my partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:03 PM
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Oh. Shit. Brutal. Well deserved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:56 PM
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I was thinking of doing a rump roast in the crockpot tomorrow and he doesn’t eat pork. Any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:53 PM
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Preach! I loathe that saying but I didn’t have anything else in which to convey my feelings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:49 PM
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Nah, it’s clean already but thanks for having my back! Any suggestions for dinner tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:44 PM
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Should I make a post like this in FDS and see what happens? You’ve piqued my interest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:32 PM
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No thanks. I prefer to watch that disaster from the sidelines and much on popcorn while that argue with themselves. In all honesty, the fact that I believe and stand by my previous comment is one of the reasons my man and I get along so well. We don’t fight biology. We embrace it we are a perfect yin and yang. I do not, or ever will, understand why some women think it’s an insult to be a woman. Women have their strengths. Nature never intended for us to shoulder the burden alone. This is why we …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:29 PM
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I mean, at least she’s a hockey fan? Those new sweaters are awesome. I’m a Blackhawks fan (ya know, because I’m in Chicago) and I’d definitely sport one of those black/neon green sweaters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:18 PM
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He’s at work. Sorry. But that doesn’t mean YOU can’t fantasize about him dominating you. I mean, seems to be your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:08 PM
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Hey, thanks for the links!! I’m definitely going to dive into those!! Question though. How do these compare on a world scale? Any idea/sources? I’m just asking because my curiosity drive me to find out how many folks globally theoretically havre the same recessive genes that I do. It’s cool though if you don’t have global data. I can adjust my calculations!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:07 PM
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Oh, dear god, yes. Imagine basically experiencing flu like symptoms based on your sun exposure. IT. WAS. FUCKING.AWFUL. It’s kinda like the flu and food poisoning wrapped into one. -20/10 would never recommend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 07:02 PM
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I will way this for sake of transparency. I am pro woman. However, I I am pro man. These ideologies do NOT have to be in conflict with each other. Men have their strengths. Women have theirs. They are meant to be complimentary, but NOT competitive. I think there’s folks who have lost sight of that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 06:58 PM
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Indeed. Thank you. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 06:54 PM
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Well I mean you said he’s top15% of height, top 15.% of dick size, and top 5% of salary. I like to save articles that prove these facts. For instance, I have AB- blood (1% of the world population) and I’m a redhead with blue eyes ( 0.17% of the world population) so the amount of people in the world that are likely to match my DNA is roughly 1340 out of 8 billion people. Statistics fascinate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:47 PM
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Oh yes, because YOURE and expert on ME. Didn’t even bother to read past your first sentence as it is utter nonsense and only going to get worse if I continued reading. Enjoy the rest of your Monday.! Go out and get some fresh air and sunshine!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:09 PM
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What name did I call you? Anyways, don’t bother replying. You have a fabulous Monday! Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:07 PM
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Did I ever say poor men or okay the victim? Nope. That’s your horrible interpretation. The rest of your babble I can’t even interpret. You have a good day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:06 PM
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Ah, yes. The infamous RP “divorce rape.” Just curious but do you tend to have a fetish where you enjoy being a “cuck”? Enquiring minds and all...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:05 PM
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Where did I say that? Perhaps you’re mixing me up with someone else? I mean, the sheer amount of people attacking me here and in DMs is fucking hysterical. Trying to tear down a solid and loving relationship. It’s fucking sad. Are y’all REALLY that jealous and miserable? You can’t imagine that he’s real because he’s an absolute amazing one of a kind guy. I mean, it’s not like any of the 6 people harassing me would date be because I’m not up to your standards so why are you trying to tear down a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:01 PM
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Have you read the shit comments I’ve dealt with over the last 12 hours? No? Because they were removed? Yeah, shit comments FOH with that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:55 PM
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/shrugs If you say so. It doesn’t matter if he asked me out first, initiated exclusivity, said I love you first. Nah, during major life changes when it’s not the right time to get married, it only matters if “he puts a ring on it.” Okay, Beyoncé. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:52 PM
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I’m sorry, after two attempts, did I still phrase it wrong? Total Chad owns haters by being in love with a simple bitch that he’s OBVIOUSLY just using for sex. You’re such a nice guy and WAAAAAY better than him because he doesn’t cheat on someone he loves. Did I get it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:49 PM
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Not yet. We decided not to talk about it until next year. Both of our lives are in transition right now. Could you possibly post your sources for those statistics please? I’d love to read the studies. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:46 PM
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I mean, if that’s your revenge fantasy on a perfect stranger, whatever you need to cry yourself to sleep at night.., err, tell yourself to console your wounded man pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:44 PM
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I’m a white woman. I’m much more pale than my mom who is 50% Italian. At 71, SHE looks better than this and she tans in the pool every summer, I couldn’t do it (because I’m a ghost compared to her) but she takes care of herself and looks at least 20 years younger. It’s not hard or expensive. Yikes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 03:38 PM
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I absolutely LOVE that the women haters are the ones accusing me of making my boyfriend up. I’m sorry your lives are such trash, you try to bring another man down. Four jealous “men” are mad about my relationship. Shit is funny!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:19 PM
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I absolutely LOVE that the women haters are the ones accusing me of making my boyfriend up. I’m sorry your lives are such trash, you try to bring another man down. Four jealous “men” are mad about my relationship. Shit is funny!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:19 PM
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For me to move the goal posts to 3 months two things would need to happen: The woman needs to be really different than the rest for me to invest 3x the time in her ⁠Settling down needs to be my top priority, i.e. late 30s Neither of these situations have occurred. I have certainly had LTRs with high quality women- but none of them had me wait 3 months, just wasn't needed. I mean, if your partners are cool with setting a time limit that’s agreeable to you, then that’s a win-win, right? I’m not pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:53 PM
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One of my college roommates had crow’s feet at 22. I mean, major crow’s feet. How do chicks not know about skincare?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 12:21 PM
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I’m a red head so I have really pale skin. I painfully learned my lesson about staying out of the sun at a young age. I was at a pool for two hours and got sun poisoning. Yeah, I’m okay in the shade and 50 SPF sunscreen, thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 12:02 PM
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I’m 46 and I look 20 years younger than her. Moisturizer and stay out of the sun. Damn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 11:40 AM
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Did you fall asleep? I was enjoying our conversation. Check out that movie and if you like cartoons, Voltron. I wouldn’t steer you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:09 AM
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Um, are you illiterate? I’m serious. You inferred I was calling you a rapist. You have no proof of me actually saying you’re a rapist. Hey, if you have Netflix and like war movies, check out The Outpost. Fucking phenomenal. The shit the DoD does is criminal and stupid, like putting a war in the hands of a first grader. You don’t regret it. Some real heros in that movie. Ima out to watch it again myself. Do you want me to make you some popcorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:43 AM
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Nowhere in the links you provided did I ever once call you a rapist. Perhaps you need to reread them? Oh, I’m just killing time until I get tired enough to fall asleep. Plus, it makes for a great joke to read through tomorrow and laugh at. You should consider stand up comedy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:28 AM
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Dude. Where? I can’t keep asking this question. Either link the proof or STFU. It’s that easy. Fuck, get a new hobby. Are you attracted to me or Don thing? The way you’re following me around? Kinda seems like you’re desperate for women interaction. Kinda makes me wanna pet you like a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:21 AM
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Have a great night as well. I’ll have a response for you by the morning I think😊 Great discussion, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:06 AM
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Short answer before I delve into your post; you and I could be friends. I think we are on the same page essentially, especially when it comes to respect and that’s what’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:02 AM
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You DIDN’T give me proof. Where is the word rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:57 AM
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I very much do. Like fate smiled on me by bringing him into my life. If I was able to work, I’d do a 50/50 split or a percentage based on income. I don’t know if I’d be quite at his level with my background but within 20-30k. If you have any other questions, let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:57 AM
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No, I want to see proof of me literally calling you a rapist. You can’t because I didn’t. This thread is done. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:51 AM
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So, since I’m disabled and bring in a laughable amount of money, he pays for everything except for food. He knew this going into this relationship and he was okay with it. Keep in mind, I’ve never asked for anything from him aside from his love. I’ve never asked him to buy me anything, take me anywhere, or pay any of my of bills. He pays household bills, not any personal ones I have, which is nothing. He is the financial breadwinner. I do the domestic parts. Keep everything clean, he always has …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:48 AM
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Could you give me a “for instance”? My partner and I had a sex talk. We talked about things we liked and didn’t like. I would never bring up past relationships. We started with a clean slate. He didn’t want to know my past, I didn’t want to know his.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:37 AM
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Please show me the actual word rapist. I’ll be waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:26 AM
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I don't ask women to give in, LOL. And there's always two sides. Why is sex only about the woman? She might control access to it, but if she reduces it at the expense of a man it hurts the relationship. A healthy romantic relationship needs healthy sexual compatibility. Women keep talking about "my bounderies, my bounderies!". Look I'm not going to go over your bounderies but it's very clear that it's all about her. What a turn off. You mentioned open communication. So if a guy in an LTR communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:23 AM
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Funny, I don’t see the word rapist in any of those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:42 AM
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It doesn't take me 3 months to figure someone out, what I need to know about moving up with the relationship can happen in the first month. I suppose you're suggesting that I'm comfortable with a chick after a month, but she's not, so I need to wait around. Thing is, what's so special about her that keeps me waiting around? I don't fall for oneitis or put her on a pedestal. I haven't run into this issue. It might be the case that I risk losing a good woman for that reason and it's a risk I'm wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:33 AM
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I need to see a link where I literally called you a rapist please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:52 AM
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I’m already here and we’ve already had sex twice. He has to be up in the morning so I try not to disturb him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:52 AM
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Link the comment that I actually called you a rapist please, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:51 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself as you cry yourself to sleep tonight. Don’t forget the tissue when you go to bed. A coconut might be useful for some things but drying your years isn’t one of them. Thank you for the laugh. Sleep well, sunshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:39 AM
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I’m sorry, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:37 AM
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Which have what to do here? Oh ya nothing at all Oh, I don’t know. Basically you saying you don’t respect a woman’s boundaries because they don’t fit what you want. It was just a hunch. No formal accusation. Clearly it is to you seeing you either think its sex on first date or sex after 3 or more months. You very much think nothing in the middle of those is a thing. For you, it’s sex not on the first date but DEFINITELY by the end of the first month or else you “walk.” Hypocrite much? Sweetie po…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:35 AM
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You wish he was made up. He’s very real, thank you very much. I honestly don’t care if some anonymous person doesn’t believe me. I know what I have. Shocking that there’s men out there like that, right? And no, we did nothing other than kiss for three months. No copping a feel, no grinding on each other. Nothing. Have a wonderful night!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:29 AM
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No worries, I give her a month. If she needs 3 months she's not a sexual enough person. Incompatible; low libido. The relationship will inevitably end up where she's holding back sex because she's "not comfortable" while the man is like, "so if you're not gonna fuck me, can I get a hall pass?" It's a two-way street. Women control access to sex but if they aren't meeting the man's needs then why hold up his end of the bargain? What guy wants to be in a relationship with a woman who barely wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:22 AM
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Let's take off my timeline for a second and assess this. If I get physical with her in 1 month or 3 months, what difference does that make for dumping her after sex? If I'm going to use her for sex I'm going to use her for sex (I don't). The timeilne doesn't change anything. Okay I wait 3 months, sex is bad, I'm out. Suddenly I'm using her for sex? Na what happened was we were sexually incompatible and I just wasted 3 months when I should have spent my time on a bunch of other girls that are com…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:20 AM
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I don’t need to believe. I know. I’m so sorry you have t found that yet. Have a great night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:49 AM
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Okay. I mean, that’s your choice for sure. If the relationship isn’t working for you, bounce. Nothing wrong with that. A month doesn’t mean she’s not into you. It may mean she’s REALLY into you but doesnt want to make the mistake of things getting physical too quickly and you dump her right after because you’re using her for sex. I’m not saying you are but it’s a thought women think about. I think the whole “stringing along” thing is overblown. It makes it sound like you have no power. You absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:34 AM
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But if a woman’s boundary is waiting three months, then you don’t respect her boundaries and she’s better off without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:16 AM
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Nope. I’m not expecting men to cater to me at all. If they don’t like my boundaries, I’m not forcing them to stay. They are free to leave at any time. Yeah, charges. Ya know, like sexual assault or something? No, it’s not black and white to me but it sure as hell is to you. “She better put out when I want it I’m gone!” Fabulous attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:01 AM
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I do. I’m sorry your jealous. I’m pretty blown away myself. We’ve been together for almost two years and he approached me. I mean, I’m sorry if you can’t hang with him. We see eye to eye on pretty much every important topic. Ya know, maybe quality people recognize other quality people? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:58 AM
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Okay, then nope, nothing more than kissing. So how is my guy bullshit? Jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:56 AM
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Until I’m comfortable. It usually hits about three months. I never knew this was the “FDS standard” until I joined Reddit. I need to be able to feel comfortable talking to you about important topics before I get naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:50 AM
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Who am I expecting to cater to me? Asking a partner to hold off sex until I’m comfortable is “catering”? Jesus. You sure you don’t have charges somewhere? Again, he’s free to leave. I’m not begging anyone to stay, especially if he can’t respect my boundaries. There’s the door. I’m sure you can find someone else that will suck you dick in the Applebee’s parking lot after you bought her a salad and water on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:49 AM
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So I’m familiar with the poster in the first pic. I finally had to block him. He Is absolutely calling women a whore that put out on the first date. Second pic is of a response I made. If you have specific questions, let me know. Third one is saying she may be promiscuous when not in a relationship but having casual sex/ONS May skew people’s option of her but she’s monogamous in a relationship. Monogamy in a relationship is what matters. Maybe I’m tired and missing some big revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:46 AM
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Definitely fair enough. I’ll take a more thorough read now that I am home. I’ll read what you posted and give you a response. Thanks! I’m enjoying the conversation!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:31 AM
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Okay, then why do you assume you’re getting strung along by having sex off the table for a while? If you don’t want to pay for dates in the meantime, then don’t. I’ve never expected a guy to pay for me. If she gets mad that you aren’t taking her out on expensive dates, dump her. You’re doing yourself a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:28 AM
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Who said intimacy = sex? Over 6 foot, makes 6 figure salary, 6 pack, 6” dick (since it seems sooo important to some people. Definitely better than a 6/10 though. Gonna say an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:21 AM
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Done and done! 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:06 AM
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Oh for sure. We can be friends. Can I buy you a drink? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:01 AM
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Very well could be. I’m not FDS. I think the underlying message is good but for some, they seem to gotten lost along the way. Myself personally, I’ve never dated more than one guy at a time. Even casually. I’m in single (with many more fingers left) digits for partners and I’m probably old enough to be your mom. I find FDS as toxic as TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:54 PM
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Per your own post; I think the other problems is that a lotta fds users want a traditional man who waits while also being modern women who have slept around. Theres nothing inherently wrong with sleeping around but it is hypocritical to want a traditional man if you do that. So what did I miss? I’m definitely willing to learn and change my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:46 PM
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Okay, so what’s your definition of modern woman and traditional man? That can be the only place we are having a disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:44 PM
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Okay well your straw man argument is that modern women = screwing every guy they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:39 PM
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My guy did. He waited until I was comfortable 🤷🏼‍♀️ If someone pressures you into sex, they aren’t HV anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:37 PM
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Yep, we’re fine. All that fine quality content you added to the conversation can’t be beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:36 PM
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Read through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:35 PM
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I think you fail to see that women value men by their actions, as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:31 PM
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What straw man exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:30 PM
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Gimme a few to dig through my history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:29 PM
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No, it’s not. I’m more of a traditional woman myself. I don’t want some dude that’s slept 100 guys. It’s fine if guys hold themselves to the same standard that they want in a partner. But, I’ve had this debate many times over and men won’t agree to it. Something something biological urges. Something something keys and locks (what? How about pencils and pencil sharpeners?) The sexist version ALWAYS gives men an out for their behavior. Women, by design, are made out to be horrible sluts or frigid …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:28 PM
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So why don’t men adjust their mindset? I mean, you can say all day long that a woman wants a man that is desired by other women, but I don’t buy it. I care about if my guy is into me and I’m into him. Period. That’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:21 PM
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This is what I was saying in another thread in this sub. Anyone who can’t wait for me to be comfortable and ready is just doing me a favor by leaving. There’s so many men on this sub that shit on women for not putting out right away because they don’t want to wait but then shot on them for being “whores” for having sex on the first date. This is a misogynistic game. Women will lose no matter what we choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:09 PM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:05 PM
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And it’s not hypocritical for men who sleep around to want “traditional” women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:05 PM
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Um, I have a very HVM 6/6/6/6 that waited over three months to have sex until I was comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:04 PM
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Well, the same conservative women who make men wait for sex are getting dumped because they don’t put out in the first two weeks after meeting so... I mean, it’s not exclusively a “woman” problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:32 PM
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We can’t. We are brutally attacked vocally and our voices are shut down. Everything now is “don’t shame.” You can’t slut shame anyone without risking a major hit to your life, especially professionally. This is why more of us don’t speak up. You don’t have a voice if you’re not “woke.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:29 PM
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Thank you for that laugh!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:26 PM
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I’m sorry, but what? The guy you love with all your heart isn’t the guy you’re having orgasms with? How does this make ANY sense? Edit: autocorrect thinks I mean live when I type live. Whodathunk? Edit 2: proof of changing love to live.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:25 PM
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If you say so. I can’t seem to engage in conversations here because the men are SO red pilled and all women are sluts, yada, yada, yada. Seems there are so many men here are so jaded they don’t listen to what women tell them. My very handsome, muscular, 6/6/6/6 + partner picked me. He saw me and fell in love with me. While y’all are waiting for the “perfect” woman to show up, you’ve passed up woman who are your soulmates. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:02 AM
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Where on earth did you get those ideas? Creepy behavior is creepy behavior. Full stop. There is not one woman I know that would tolerate the pure hate and loathing fest that incels spew. It matters not about how physically attractive they are. No man that behaves like that is going to seen as a catch regardless of what their face and body look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:24 AM
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Okay, how about this? All humans have equal value while having different strengths. My partner and I are just that, partners. There’s things he’s really good at and things I’m really good at. It doesn’t make one of us better than the other. Men and women were made to compliment each other. We’re not the same but we are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:13 AM
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Are you kidding? When I lived in Washington, I had a tricked out Jeep for running forest trails and I was way more adventurous about it than he was, and that’s saying something. A girl I know in the community, built her own rig by herself and does all the repairs by herself. You guys just seem to have tunnel vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:07 AM
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I absolutely does. Men love to bitch about women having more opportunities. Opportunities are there if you want them. You just don’t want the ones presented to you. That’s what he’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:45 PM
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I’m going to share this because I think it’s one of the best answers to all of this. I’m not sure where you’re getting these statistics, but it appears to be a strangely specific variation on the common question (almost always asked by men), “Why is it so much easier for women to get laid than men?” Now, I’m about to be quite brutal, but hopefully this will be instructive. Let me just clear this up for you, so you can get un-confused. You can get laid right now, tonight. I absolutely guarantee t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:21 PM
1

A source for anything in your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:54 PM
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Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:47 PM
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I jerk hearing this 80/20 BS. Just because a woman finds a guy attractive, doesn’t mean she’ll sleep with him. She thinks he’s good looking. So what? People notice attractive people. That’s the end of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:19 PM
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Try again. Insults over and I’m done chatting with you. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:31 PM
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That’s just sad that you think that. We will never see eye to eye so you have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:31 PM
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I need reliable citation that women cheat more than men because everything I’m finding says the opposite. And an OKCupid survey isn’t reliable research. And you’re stuck on the idea that women value promiscuity. I need some sources for that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:28 PM
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And you’ve been outright denying mine on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:17 PM
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No, it’s not. No woman I personally know wants that. I don’t know where you guys get your info.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:16 PM
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Because, I’m in a loving and committed relationship, I don’t do casual sex, and I certainly don’t broadcast my sexual escapades. Not really sure how what you said has to contrive other than you’re angry and vulgar but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:09 PM
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Then if you believe in hypergamy, then you shouldn’t be mad about that because it’s “hardwired” into women to find the best provider. Works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:07 PM
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No, one has nothing to do with the other. Jesus. A period is an involuntary response to an unfertilized egg. Men being whores shows low impulse control and lack of self control. Just because it’s offered doesn’t mean you have to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:05 PM
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I’m not telling men to sleep with sluts. I’m telling men that if they’re a slut, don’t demand your partner be chaste. I’m here for the double standard. You don’t get to bitch about sluts if you are one. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:03 PM
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And women don’t reciprocate emotional labor? Then you are with the wrong women. What does “everything women get for free” entail exactly? I must not have been given membership to this club when I was born with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:58 PM
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Part of my problem is being sensitive to the reality that the easiest way to impress women is by being fundamentally mediocre. I’m sorry, what? While there may be women who don’t care, I guess it all boils down to what you want in the end. If you’re happy having lots of casual sex and ONS, cool, do you, but there are women out there that will hold it against you. And by being mediocre, you’re definitely gonna have yourself a hard time finding someone you’d actually want to marry, if that’s your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:55 PM
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So being asked out is being catered to like a spoiled child? And you’ve never known a woman who asked out a man? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:26 AM
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No it doesn’t. I love that a man is trying msnsplain what women think now. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:21 AM
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I’m not grasping at anything but it sure sounds like you’re devolving into bitterness. You see the shit that’s coming your way and discounting the shit you’re pushing back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:04 AM
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What the absolute hell does that have to do with anything being discussed? No one has a right to tell anyone who they have to sleep with. Most women are out there sleeping with committed men. Reddit is warping your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:01 AM
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I mean, unless you’re trying to sleep with other guys... which cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:58 AM
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And? So what? The only ones who are impressed by the number of partners a guy has is other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:19 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:48 AM
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I never called you an incel. I can make an informed decision based on my sex and the experiences I and my friends have had. Who is making fun of small dicks? What do you think about men who make fun of women who have small breasts and make fun of women because of the way their labia looks? Misogyny isn’t exclusive to incels. And there are levels of misogyny. Misogynists say shit like “Women are dumb” whereas incels say shit “All women deserve to have their rights stripped away, raped, forced to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:47 AM
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Maybe. I can only give my experience, which is nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:51 AM
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No, no it’s not used for that. Get out of your self loathing hate hole. Yes, women call a guy an incel if he acts like one. It’s attitude and personality. I am a woman. I know women better than you do. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:48 AM
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Oh, a nice ableist slur to go along with it. It is the same. Your money is valuable to you. Do you trust a random stranger with it? A woman’s vagina is valuable to them. While some women may let anyone in at any time, not even as close to the number of women think fo that actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:46 AM
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And that’s a double standard. It’s sexist, and it should be equal. I’d be grossed out if you told me you had 100 women give you a blow job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:04 AM
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Virgin =/= incel. No woman I know is going to date an incel because they are hateful, misogynistic, and toxic to be around. Virgins are another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:02 AM
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Well, yeah. The typical woman wants to know she isn’t being used for sex. And lots of women don’t sleep with just anyone. It’s a time to decide if it’s someone you could see a future with. And women bear more of the negative outcomes from having sex. So yeah, you kinda have to prove you’re trustworthy. Would you give your credit card to some girl you just went out on a first date with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:21 AM
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That’s not true, at all. Women don’t find incels unattractive because of the way they look. Their misogyny and attitudes is what really hurts them. There’s a whole sub of women who keep telling incels that their self loathing isn’t necessary if they actually adjusted their attitudes and personalities. Are there some really unattractive people? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:17 AM
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That’s a cop out. That’s like men can’t control your urges to turn down women that might wanna sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:12 AM
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And that’s the double standard issue that you’re talking with me about in another part of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:55 AM
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For what? Evolution didn’t create a double standard. That’s all on humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:53 AM
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Honestly, I’ve strictly seen this in red pill guys and incels. No other guy I’ve ever interacted with cared about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:52 AM
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Do you know all women? No, because you don’t know me. I’ve said before I don’t do casual sex or ONS. I have a very limited sexual history. Do I don’t “reward” men for anything with sex. And I couldn’t give two shits less about what other women think of my partner. Men who complain about their partners either actually need to meet women or find better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:35 AM
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That’s great but I don’t think number of sexual partners is a men vs. women issue. It’s a personal preference on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:32 AM
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I’m not an FDS person, so I have no idea. I lurk there when I have nothing else to do. I don’t care what they do. Women making men wait for sex isn’t exclusive to FDS women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:30 AM
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It does amount to much if you read the comments on this sub and some other ones. It’s harmful to women while puffing up guy’s egos. They don’t want a partner with a high n count, and I don’t either. If women are just supposed to accept it, why can’t guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:32 AM
1

Why? I’m not allowed to have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:16 AM
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Exactly. It’s the double standard that pisses me off so much. “But it’s harder for guys to get sex!!” Boo fucking hoo? Learn how to not screw every woman who would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:29 AM
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And want women to be sluts but then bitch when the woman they really like has a “high body count” and “no one marries a slut.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:25 AM
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3-months is so far from "right away" that it counterproductive. It's not like I'm saying that they need to sleep with the man on date 3 or it's done. But once it's going into the second month, and sex is still off the table, almost any guy would assume she has an extremely low sex drive/ vaginal problems/ mental health problems/ etc... The only men cool with waiting that long either don't care about sex or aren't truly HV. It’s long to you. Not to everyone. And are you gonna be the guy who compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:09 AM
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And then you just reinforced her decision to put off sex. If you can’t wait until she’s ready and you ditch her for that, you’re doing her a huge favor. I don’t see how not editing for his partner to be 100% comfortable with makes someone a “great guy.” Quite the opposite, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:00 AM
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Lol ask her about what? What about she being an adult and talking about her alternative dating rules? For sure. I was very upfront about it. However, to get pissy and just ghost her is very childish and that’s not a HVM anyways. If he's HVM, by definition, she will know he has options and probably won't spend three sexless months dedicated to only one woman, with the big time and money expense. Maybe. I have what anyone would consider a HVM. I know he has options. However, if he can’t respect my…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:36 AM
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Knowing people and being friends with them is NOT the same as being in a romantic relationship. If that’s how all of your relationships have worked out for you, wonderful! Not everyone is where you are though. I’m not sleeping with strangers just because they think I should put out by a certain time frame. As I said, they are welcome to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:23 PM
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It doesn’t mean she has problems but whatever, you do whatever. If you can’t wait three months for sex because that’s what makes her comfortable, then you’re doing her a huge favor by leaving. I see inability to respect your prospective partner’s boundaries is a big red flag and I wouldn’t date someone like that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:06 PM
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Also, I lurk FDS. I don’t post there because there IS a lot of hate there, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:03 PM
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For me? Yes. I honestly am in awe of the guy who approached me. I fully admit, he’s out of my league but he loves me and tells me all the time how attractive and sexy I am. Been together coming up on two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:02 PM
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Then, they don’t want to be with that person anyways. Why is it assumed any attention/relationship is better than none at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:41 PM
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Or, ya know, he could be an adult and ask her about it? I’ve always been upfront about my rules regarding sex. If he can’t respect it, he’s not a HVM to me and that’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:39 PM
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No, it doesn’t. For guys who bitch about wanting women who aren’t “whores”, you certainly complain about women not putting out in the first two weeks. Pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:37 PM
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Men who let women know they have other options unless she sleeps with him is indeed pressuring her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:33 PM
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Or, just hear me out, there are great guys out there that let the woman decide when she’s comfortable for sex and the guy doesn’t need to pressure her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:56 PM
1

I have moderate/severe ME/CFS as well. It was definitely an issue I discussed with length with my current boyfriend to see if he could handle it. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:47 PM
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By his definition, “virtually all” immediately negates “every woman” as well so I’m trying to point out the stupidity in his line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 08:55 PM
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I’m unbelievably happy with my man that only hits 7 of those points and I know how amazing he is. Chick is nutters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 08:21 PM
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That’s certainly a lot of assumptions to make but it plays into the typical red pill fantasy, so, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:54 PM
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Oh, absolutely. No one is owed anything. Women included. And the thing is, I don’t understand how some people can be salty at others because of their preferences. Everyone has preferences. And the ones who complain that some women’s standards are too high need to evaluate what their standards are and realize what they will not budge on and understand they are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:16 PM
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Just because women want husbands doesn’t mean they want to stay married to a shitty one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:32 PM
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That’s kind of why I don’t like the idea of “sluts in the past better not make me wait for sex.” (I’m not calling you a slut, just pointing out a mentality here in this sub.) The point of past relationships is to grow and find out what you do and don’t like. If casual sex isn’t working for you anymore, no one has the right to be treated like past partners. There’s a reason why it’s in your past. I find the mindset sickening. Like guys are owed sex just because what someone has done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:23 PM
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Yes, I definitely do have a rule against it. I take sex very seriously and it’s a big deal for me to go down that path. I understand the reason why casual sex should be normalized but I really wish it wasn’t necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:37 PM
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No, I tend to give people a chance and not jump to make the worst possible conclusions about them immediately, thanks. It’s sad your idea of protection is assuming all women are sluts. The problem I see with that is there may be a woman that really likes you but you inadvertently treat her badly based on your bias towards her gender and you miss out on a great person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:34 PM
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Not at all. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:09 PM
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So, does that mean because some men I know are manwhores, they all are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:42 PM
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Never, not once have I had a ONS, casual sex, or done anything physical aside from kissing within the first few months of a relationship. Don’t project onto all women. You don’t know all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:32 PM
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It’s a joke? Read the third and fourth paragraphs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 11:56 PM
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