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Bshenron/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:45 AM
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Honestly have been having mad second thoughts these past few weeks, somthing hasnt seemed right. I feel like shes trying to bitch me up hard. I dont think staying together during uni getting more attached is really worth it. Ill do some probing but if i smell shit im gonna have to wipe the slate clean.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:25 AM
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Yeah you're right here, the oneitis is too strong sadly even though I've been seeing other girls. Still confused as to why she acted as she did. Any thoughts?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:40 AM
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I respect your opinion so I'm wondering why?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:56 AM
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What's the point in manipulation?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:53 PM
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First rule about fight club is you don't talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:26 AM
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I was getting with this girl, a real SJW. If she tried to control the bedroom she knew where the door was. Did she up and leave? Yeah, she wanted me to do what she wanted to give her head and I said no. Did she come back later? 100% and she knew the bedroom was my domain. I throw her which ever way I feel like. I was serious with this girl for a bit and she loved me dominating her in the bedroom. One time I thought it'd be cool to fuck her against the wall, so mid-fuck I pick her up and pin her …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 11:50 PM
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Is this an elaboration on not making women your mission?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:27 PM
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I'm taking about alpha widowing a girl with no bad blood but the friends are creating unneeded animosity. Not the scenarios where you give the girl reason to dislike you. Obviously her friends are going to side with her there
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:55 AM
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I've had this happen to me a few times. Major thing is you have to stick by what you say. If you say you're interested in being friends, as soon as you make a move you're that creep that uses friendship for sex. If you say you're not interested than keeping talking to her like you are her friend then you're not a man that can keep to his word. Ultimately you have to be willing to take an L. Sometimes rejecting the LJBF can work out in they realize what you mean to them. Only time that ever works…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:29 AM
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A friend of mine took his cheating ex back after he "dumped her for good". What does that sort of behavior show to the girl?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:31 PM
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She said she didn't want to keep thinking about me and if I came round she wouldn't be able to. I figured if I came round after saying I would and was told not to is a beta move especially since I told her I was going to see some girls.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:59 AM
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From someone who has studied this at uni there's a few points I want to add. Ascending through the masolvian pyramid isn't easy. To achieve the next level you must complete the one prior, if you haven't got good relationships don't think you can suddenly pass the 4th stage to begin operating in self-actualisation. The main detractor is that reaching the final stage is difficult and takes perseverance, and operating in the level is hard to maintain as well because if you slip on a previous level …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:15 AM
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Just so you know there's a whole sub dedicated to asking these questions. It's called AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 05:26 AM
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I agree. For a brief moment i was wavering on my TRP beliefs. And then i was shown the red pill again. It was my fault for thinking i was a special snowflake and that i could pick and chose what i want from TRP. I have to accept it as a whole, not just what i want to know.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:24 PM
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I gave it a read, but seems i need to do another.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:09 PM
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Thank you, appreciate you bringing up such good articles
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:06 PM
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Awesome thanks man! Need to learn to control my thoughts and not let them control me.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:04 PM
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So it's gonna be a matter of changing my thinking overall and seeing woman as an additive to a good life rather than making a good life? Man that is seriously hard with all the conditioning we get around us that having a partner creates happiness.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:06 AM
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What do u mean by this game? Is it that if they feel the end coming they'll instigate it first to save themselves being alpha widowed?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:54 AM
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What can I do to ultimately get to that stage? My life has drastically improved since TRP to begin with. I'm in my best shape, upper management at the start up I work at and looking do do postgraduate study next year after I finish my undergrad. But I still feel I'm missing something and I don't know what.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:56 PM
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She's definitely not worth getting with. If I wanted to, I very much would have
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:21 AM
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Like the saying goes, show don't tell.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:07 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:11 AM
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Regardless old images don't change then? I definitely feel the old me coming back when I'm with old friends so I try to avoid seeing them, especially because the disrespect levels are high.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:12 AM
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Gee I just gave it a reread and it definitely does haha. Bad move by me. I do currently have options yet I still acted like this. I thought that'd be the reason when I'd be in a new city but I don't know what brought this on. Any further ideas?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:06 PM
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Do you have a link to that post?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:52 PM
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Haha love the response. I'd say you're right, there's nothing that excites me with women but I love chasing my goals at the moment
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:56 AM
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How so?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:49 AM
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Means nothing. Appreciate the reply
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:11 AM
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Wow, what a way to literally change up the way I've thought for the past 21 years!
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:47 AM
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How do you even make a new group of friends? I have a group of friends i enjoy spitting shit with but they rarely do anything other than get wasted on the daily and i can feel it pulling me down. For context I am in my last year of uni, so I spend a lot of my time at the gym or studying alone.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:57 PM
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Definitely been a surprise when friends go from "Dude you're looking so good now from the gym!" to " Why do you want to look good? It's so vain and pointless."
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:15 PM
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From a young chap, why are these questions so important?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:18 AM
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Thing is, dick never went near her. Only met her at a couple of parties
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:42 PM
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My lord. This is what I've been missing. I thought it was a matter of gaming women not gaming life. Appreciate these wise words
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:04 AM
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At high school I boxed for 4 years and received golden gloves for my efforts - I'm in college now. In no way do I condone fighting to fill your ego, which this very much feels like. If you're being highly confrontational then you're falling into the frame of the person trying to make a scene. Standing up for yourself and your beliefs are vastly different to trying to protect an ego.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 12:33 AM
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Would you be able to elaborate? Seems really interesting
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:32 AM
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Appreciate your reply man. I've decided to delete tinder and focus on real life encounters.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:53 AM
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Damn deep by true. How can I go about improving that?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:53 AM
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Yeah seems that's the only go. I find it hard to not keep drinking till I'm too wasted so I'll have to express some self control
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:58 AM
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I don't fuck then thank fully otherwise I'd truly hate my self
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:57 AM
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As a kiwi I don't understand why Americans are able to get guns so easily. We have to get licenses, have a police check and then have our house checked to make sure we have a secure locker for the guns. Gun control in America is overdue and doesn't encroach your rights. Not to mention hunting over here is far more back to nature than in America.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:50 AM
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You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Nothing you can do man, just let the destruction run its course and be amongst the high value men that have better things to do than play games.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 10:43 PM
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This is one of those situations where it's a lot easier said than done sadly. Video games nowadays are like an addiction since gaming companies implement features into the game to make them highly addictive, just look to the gambling aspects that have become popular in games called loot boxes that don't seem to be going anywhere soon. I used to be an avid gamer, happily playing all day if I could. Walking away from gaming wasn't easy, especially when all your flat mates play and you've played fo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 09:43 PM
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Not a US guy here, I'm a kiwi man! Here's hoping they wouldn't throw it out in the court
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 09:03 AM
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So are you saying it's pretty much a given then to get a prenup? Have to point out such a good point about changing in 10 years. Me being 21 it'd be difficult to imagine, but does make being in a relationship not of interest of mine
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:54 AM
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As a young man I ask; how common is it that women get married just to divorce rape?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:46 AM
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I had this happen to me with my last plate more than once actually. I just said "If that's what you want then alright" For me it was a shit test as she was trying to see I was a beta she thought I had been. I dropped her the other day. She told me she'd wait for me no matter how long. Just my experience
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:26 AM
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Nah i havent seen her in a while. Good to know what it is, appreciate it man!
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:22 AM
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So in my case where I told her I didn't want sex and then when her friends asked me if we slept together and I said I didn't want to I actually made her not want it as a means to not face rejection and because I took away her ability to lie to herself? Does that mean saying you're not interested in sex is the biggest pussy dryer out?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:16 AM
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I did this to a girl I liked from uni. Safe to say she's not interested anymore. You live and learn aye
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:33 AM
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When I was a kid and very blue pill I thought it was a great idea. After hearing about a friend who had a girl live with him for 2 years then bleed him for half of his things I know see the reality
/r/askTRP20/01/18 03:49 AM
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Gee it's like you took the words from my exs mouth. I was a great boyfriend buying us trips to other countries and looking after her during her tumor ordeal. Until we split where I became a shit boyfriend who did nothing for her. Funny that
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:24 PM
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I live in new Zealand, so living with a partner for 2 years in a serious relationship is legally considered marriage, so they can take half of your things without the hassle of a divorce
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:21 PM
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Haha too true. Worded the wrong way
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:20 PM
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I was a boxer back at high school being 6"1 and weighing 61kg. I had the mantra of being unable to gain weight as well, until I took lifting serious and began counting my calories. I got up to 82kg. I've been shredding for a few weeks and am now 75kg. Saying you can't gain weight is an excuse for not putting in the had yards
/r/askTRP24/12/17 08:16 AM
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Im going to look into reading this book. Thank you for that
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:59 AM
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Good bye everyone
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:58 AM
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You're right. Post deleted
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:11 PM
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Going great, currently in my best shape on a cut and eating nothing but clean
/r/askTRP25/11/17 08:40 AM
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Ah this seems way better than what I've been doing. Cheers for the help
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:05 AM
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The girls only 18 and I'm 21. Normally this works but oh well nexted her ass since she doesn't seem that interested off of that reply
/r/askTRP20/11/17 03:39 AM
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Sweet cheers dude
/r/askTRP20/11/17 03:26 AM
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Just say hey and move on, or say nothing at all. The less you say the better though in this case
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:04 AM
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Ah the classic "I love you but I'm just not in love with you" debacle. Thank you ex for introducing me to trp and truly not giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:02 AM
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I hadn't cried for 7 years as I had sworn off of it and I felt strong! But when my ex came over and dumped me out of the blue I became shattered. As I covered my face with the blanket to hide my tears she pulled the damn blanket down, when I asked her why she just replied with "I want to see you crying". Women love it when they see a man who had once acted alpha then crumble by her hand.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 09:03 AM
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Someone had stated that you should tell them of only the cool / exciting that you did with your day for example I would say for my day that i hit the gym and saw an old good friend of mine and then had work waterblasting a crane. You'd spruce it up a bit more than that but I wouldn't let her know that I spent hours watching TV and making food. Keep it succinct yet exciting
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:09 AM
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Why's mate guarding so bad anyway?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:44 AM
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Some of them are good friends but others clearly take advantage of me where they can
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:09 AM
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How would you do something like that?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:46 PM
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You're 21 i wouldnt be stressing about it. If i were you i would be focusing on improving yourself and socializing as much as possible to have the opportunity to meet a potential partner. I can tell you from a fellow 21 year old that as soon as a girl i am with tells me that shes with me to marry me and we havent been together for at least a year i see it as a red flag. Looking for a husband is much worse than meeting someone who compliments your lifestyle. Btw, my mum didnt get married until sh…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:10 AM
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I have to point out that you've had two comments saying no then argued the point when they didn't say what you wanted to hear. You should be careful you're not falling into confirmation bias where you ask a 'question' but in reality you're just looking for others to agree with what you already think. Case in point being your reply to someone saying "Yes"
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:48 AM
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Sorry what does AA and neg stand for?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:19 AM
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Thanks heaps for the wisdom brother! Ill drop things while I'm ahead
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:31 AM
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It was through Facebook and I had already opened it by accident I don't have any intention to talk to her, just annoying since we have papers together. What do you mean by unless she invests in me?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:27 PM
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Nah nothing like that. But I was being too eager to see her, and when she had to reschedule and said we should do Monday I came back and said that I was having drinks at mine if she wanted to come over as well. Day after that she sent the text. Guess I was showing a lot of neediness
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:26 PM
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Nothing like that. But being overly eager to see her, and when we had a date set to meet up on Monday I also suggested her to come over on Saturday for drinks at mine. I guess they would come under neediness
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:22 PM
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Damn the burn is real. But I appreciate the effort you put in to your comment.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:49 AM
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Thank you man! I have started lifting since my break up and have seen awesome results and constantly get compliments, but i feel like i thought it would solve everything but it hasnt. Ive just finished uni for the year and am going home to work in a few days so i will use the time at work to figure out things i have always wanted to do. Appreciate all the advice
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:50 AM
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Great, thank you so much for the help! Time to start doing more and saying less
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:31 AM
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I think you're right. But how do i get to a point of outcome dependency? And get rid of the fear of losing them?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:04 AM
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