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Very interesting and thanks for the info. I definitely will check out the website and probably will read that book. I take probiotics and digestive enzymes to help with my digestion, but I've also noticed lately that eating whole grain breads and cereal gives me gas and loose bowels. Sorry for the shitty description. I'm almost thinking eating white flour products is better than whole grains... I really need to read up on all this.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:53 PM
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Thanks for this post. I've been hesitant to do go on a paleo diet (same thing as primal?) mainly because I crave at least some amount of bread every day. For the past year or so, I've quit white bread, but have allowed two pieces of whole grain bread in my diet. Everything else in my diet is pretty close to the primal diet on the link you provided. I also do intermittent fasting 16/8, but having a hard time doing it every day. Also, I thought eating plain baked potato with a little seasoning was…
/r/askMRP10/06/18 04:07 AM
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Everyone on this message board is consulting random people when they post questions. So, DGAF if people call you timid. When I first shaved my shit, it shocked my friends and family. Then they got used to it and now can't picture me with hair. OP I don't know your backstory, but I bet this greatly increases your SMV and your wife or GF will take notice. Just like improving your body or wardrobe.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 08:42 PM
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I'm 48 now but since I was 24 I've used my electric shaver (Norelco has been a good one) that I use on my face to shave my entire head. I do it every 3 days. I suppose I could get a closer shave with a blade and shaving cream, but that is more time consuming. Also, when I was 24 I was rapidly losing my hair and my confidence was shot. I couldn't believe how much more confident I became once I started shaving my whole head. I felt like a badass and I gained a ton of confidence with women. It's a …
/r/askMRP08/06/18 08:33 PM
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WTF happens to some of us when we get married? When I was single, I would always use the opportunity to dance at clubs. Yes, I had a little liquid courage helping me out, but I used to see all those girls dancing with each other and I was not shy about jumping in with them... or initiating a conversation with a cute girl and asking her to dance. My buddies would often laugh at me, but I was the one who ended up easily hooking up that night while they went home alone. But then I married a woman w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 05:45 PM
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You are the first person here with this take and I needed to hear that. Years ago, she did admit she never thinks about sex and even if I looked like Brad Pitt she wouldn't want to have sex... then when i said we should go to counseling or something about that, she denied that was the issue and that we just needed to make the time for sex, not when she is so tired (which is all time). That's why I threw out the idea maybe going through all this dread is a waste of time because we are heading for…
/r/askMRP13/05/17 09:27 PM
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I get that. But I'm also already out of the house a lot already either at the gym, taking one of the kids to basketball practice and hanging out watching sports or playing poker with the guys. She also does the same to me. She works pretty much 9 - 5 and sometimes goes to dinner or a movie with her girlfriends... part of the reason I get butt hurt when she denies me sex is because the opportunities seem so rare. So, it's crushing when we have the perfect opportunity alone in the house with each …
/r/askMRP13/05/17 09:16 PM
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How dare you say she's not a 7! She's beautiful, smart and sexy!! If you don't believe me, just ask all of her fat friends!!...let me think about this for a minute.... okay, you may be right... maybe more like a 5 these days... but now I have to reassess my own score...hmmm.
/r/askMRP13/05/17 09:06 PM
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Nice!
/r/askMRP13/05/17 09:01 PM
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Just re-read rule #6. Thanks. When I first discovered MRP 18 months ago, I read a bunch of Rollo's stuff and learned a ton. But I realize now I need to go back and re-read everything again as a refresher.
/r/askMRP13/05/17 08:41 PM
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I get up at 5:30am 3-4X a week to lift. I eat a very healthy high protein low carb diet with veggies in every meal. No, I haven't read everything listed on the sidebar but I've read a lot. I think that's pretty good discipline. But I get what you are saying. I need to do more. When it comes to lifting and diet, I need is a plan with rules and guidelines I can follow. I've been trying to do too much on my own memory, day by day, meal by meal, workout by workout. Since posting this, I have found w…
/r/askMRP13/05/17 08:30 PM
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I started looking at your history. Great stuff, but there are a lot of posts! I know you said read through the sidebar, but out of all the sidebar readings, or advice given to you, was there anything that stands out as the biggest life changer or something that resonated the most to keep you motivated to improve? I'm totally drinking the MRP KoolAid, but I have these moments where I lose faith in my ability to follow through with the changes I need to make.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:33 AM
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That is an old shit test. Wow, I never thought of it that way. Damn, I wish I could go back in time and kick my own ass for accepting that BS. Thanks for the rest of the advice. Seems consistent with all the other good advice I read here. I will forget about the ultimatum talk until I reach that level of dread.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:23 AM
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So, basically STFU, improve myself, Dread and GFY... what I need to hear, thanks!
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:19 AM
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Thank you. Yeah, I guess I was trying to take a shortcut to avoid 12 levels of Dread. I've had these "talks" with the wife before and they got me nowhere! Progressing through all 12 levels of Dread just seems like such a daunting task. But I also understand it's one level at a time. I'll focus on getting through level 1 before getting ahead of myself.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:15 AM
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You don't have to like everything she posts, but I agree if you do go on FB you should at least occasionally like and comment on her accomplishments. If you don't, some other dude will. It doesn't mean you're a faggot for liking her shit, it means you're paying attention to her and appreciating her... and if she isn't doing this shit (competing in physique competitions) for you, then who is she doing it for??
/r/askMRP07/05/17 02:43 AM
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Ketchup was great when I was 5. Mustard kicks Ketcup and Mayo's ass every day now. And who the fuck puts ketchup on a sandwhich? Burgers, yes. Sandwhich, no. Seriously, I side with the wife in their little spat. If I prepared a nice meal and my wife busted out a ketchup bottle, I'm pissed... That said, do WTF you want and don't make excuses for why you want it.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 02:39 AM
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I'm cracking up picturing him busting out a ketchup bottle as he goes down on her! Her: Honey WTF are you doing? Him: It fucking needs ketchup!
/r/askMRP12/02/17 02:31 AM
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True but you missed the point. By planning ahead and arriving early, there is no rushing involved... and you appear to OYS. And WGAS about everyone else showing up late. And OP made a great point about putting away your cell phone. Recently at my son's basketball game, i my son's teammate make an incredible play and I looked over to that kid's parents to see their reaction -- they were BOTH on their cell phones and didn't even see it!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 04:24 AM
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Thank you for this advice. I've been married 19 years and only even attempted something like this once, 9 years ago when we were celebrating our 10th anniversary. Looking back, I made a huge mistake of trying to do too much at once. I told her I was planning a surprise vacation. Bring a bathing suit and be prepared for romance and adventure. She had no idea I booked a bed & breakfast weekend, with rose pedals on the floor, romantic restaurant for dinner and kayaking in the ocean at sunset before…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/16 04:32 AM
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Glad you picked up on that! It didn't even occur to me I was self-sabotaging my own joke! Fuck, I wonder how often I do that. I need to be a lot more aware now when I say stuff like that.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:00 AM
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Everything you said makes sense. After reading all these comments I'm realizing there is just too much back story I would have to write about to give everyone the full picture. I feel like I just made it seem like I am this goofy, immature guy whose wife doesn't isn't happy with his immature behavior. I think I was just wanting to write about something different than most of the vomit most guys spew on this site and I thought -- AHA, my wife gets annoyed when I goof around with our boys. But it'…
/r/askMRP22/08/16 04:48 AM
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Thanks. That seems to be the common them in these responses I'm seeing. I think I need to do a better job recognizing when being funny is playing well to my wife and when it's too much and I'm being annoying... which is rare. Usually, when she is stressed out about something.
/r/askMRP20/08/16 12:04 AM
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To be honest, I'm not sure. Probably most of the time the former. But it's when I'm goofing around with my kids that that my wife goes from being amused to being annoyed. Not all the time. Just once in a while. And that's when I realize my immaturity is not turning her on.
/r/askMRP20/08/16 12:01 AM
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Thanks for posting that as I've never seen it. I run my own business and I've been super conservative in my decision making lately because I've been scared to make a mistake that will set back my business. I've been wrestling with an opportunity the past week and need to make a decision by tomorrow. Fuck it, I'm taking the calculated risk and going for it!! It's funny because I logged on to this site just now for a little motivation in my marriage and yet it's the business part of my life I real…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:54 AM
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Exactly. I came here from deadbedrooms. At first I was like YES people here are suffering from lack of sex with their wife just like me... until I realized it was depressing as fuk and nobody took any ownership of their own shit. Now I'm here and have no desire to go back to that board. I've started thinking about everyone I know and realized all the people who are successful in life never complain (even though they have had bad stuff happen to them) and those that always seem down and out compl…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/16 03:04 AM
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I would describe my lifting and diet in a very similar manner. I've cut way back on carbs, high protein diet etc., but eating out or as a guest at other people's homes I usually say fuck it and eat everything offered to me. One thing I never used to do but suddenly do all time since I recently discovered MRP is ordering half-portions when eating out. Portions at restaurants are sometimes huge, so I've learned to only order the half-sandwich or just share a meal with my wife and then get a side s…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:31 PM
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I'm currently not trying to post much as I'm a noob just trying to STFU, read up and LIFT... but I think I can help in this area. I was cursed with early male pattern baldness AND a freaking hairy body, including my back which used to look like a fur coat. First think I did in my early 20's was wax my back. Bad choice. It hurts (think Steve Carrell in 40 Year Old Virgin) and it grows back weeks later. Then I tried electrolysis. I liked it at first because it was not as painful, but it got expens…
/r/askMRP28/06/16 01:30 AM
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I found physical therapy did the trick to get me back in the gym after being afraid of aggravating chronic neck, back and shoulder issues. I learned how to properly stretch and do some strength training with bands, pulleys and dumbells. I work at a desk with a laptop computer all day, so it took a physical therapist to clue me in all the things I was doing wrong that affected my posture etc. I didn't fix myself overnight and I'm still dealing with some issues, but I am a lot better than I was ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 04:19 AM
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Good post! What do you recommend to a guy who is not handy but wants to start doing things around the house to show some manliness? Keep in mind in the past I've tried things only to screw them up or get so stuck that I have to hire someone to finish the job, thus backfiring on me as I get no credit for even trying.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 10:12 PM
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