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| – | non western women are better than western onesThe fuck are you talking about, I'm 5 ft and a half an inch and my dad brother and uncles are all around the 6ft mark. My mom's just a couple inches taller then me, are you telling me she must have fucked a dwarf because I'm shorter then her. Other then height I still straight up look like my dad in drag, and look very similar to my paternal grandmother when she was my age because so does my dad. Genetics are often a roll of the dice dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 05:01 PM |
| 28 | women choosing terrible men/ choices with full information is one of the oldest documented patterns in human history.The moral is that both can make the same mistake, but we will always be assigned the blame. That's the lesson I've always taken from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 06:16 PM |
| 9 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.That's just kind of the point of dating dude. Chances are your not going to strike out with the perfect match on your very first date, and there's lots of things that can end up being deal breakers the more you find out about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 8 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.This seems very specific to a very specific kind of dynamic if you catch my drift. Most people have their own jobs and their own lives outside of their partners and if they live together there's shared expenses. I think what you're describing belongs to people with certain dynamics. It sounds more like you're specifically talking about relationships where one partner works and the other doesn't but again, the majority of relationships don't have that kind of dynamic, and it's up to the two indiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:51 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentYeah because someone is totally just sitting there estrogen mode in full flow when they're checking the calender to see if I can get my vacation time approved, or filing documentation for sick/injury leave, or sending random company registration/policy updates or filing union grievances. Do you even work somewhere with an HR or do you just get your information and ideas from tv/movie plot lines and red pill online content. HR incompasses a lot, and when your management fucks up annoying administ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 12:24 AM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentNot really. Its just kind of evening out the playing field and removing a subsect of men who weren't going to have sex with them anyway by keeping them occupied elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:43 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentYeah, I don't think these particular guys realize that women will still choose their own versions of robots/toys rather then have sex with men they don't want to have sex with if "Chad" or whatever doesn't want to have sex with them. Like we're already basically doing now 😂 I'd waaaaay rather use a vibrator or rose thingy then have sex with a dude I don't want to have sex with, not all, but many guys will still have sex with women they don't or wouldn't necessarily want to if the option presents… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:40 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentI mean, it really only has power if you give it that power, that's on you dude, not pussy in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:17 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentWhy ? It pays well enough, it's mostly paperwork and you won't blow your back and knees out by the time your 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:19 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentWell I mean, don't fret because she can't, idk what to tell you dude it's your money to spend however you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:19 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentThe robots aren't punishing anyone, but if you scroll up to the comment made by @caption291 they're almost taking glee in the idea of women who work HR jobs losing that position. Which I still don't really understand the connection between people having sex bots and HR workers losing their jobs. I don't work HR but like idk, most of my interactions with them revolve around being approved for time off and vacation days or like signing off on paperwork or background checks, so again I don't know h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:17 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentI don't get it, most of the women replying seem to be like "okay cool sex robots, have at it" and it seems like if you scroll through the OP's comments they're almost getting salty with people that none of the women are getting mad about it ? I'm confused, do you want women to be mad at you for wanting sexbots or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:57 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentJesus man, if they cook and clean I might get one just for that. Guessing by the state of droids being operated by Indian dudes with a VR headset though, probably gonna have to get used to eating mostly curry for a little while though, but I love Indian food so eh, still a win in my books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:47 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentSo men who work in HR or women who work blue collar jobs are off the hook or wha..? Do you people want to get your dicks wet with robots or just want to "punish women" or some shit. Some guys want to get laid but can't, a lot of women don't want to have sex with these guys and want them to leave them alone. These robots seem like a win win for everyone in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.This guy gets it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Women are more sexual than menDude how long have you played hockey lmao 😂 You can't tell me there's isn't overtly sexualized shenanigans in the locker room. Also the hazing can get to some very extreme levels with hockey, which is kinda fucked because there's a lot of non consensual shit involved with hazing. I don't know why of all the sports you'd pick it would be hockey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 04:38 PM |
| 0 | The Wade Wilson case does not show that bad boy, dark triad men can have any women they want, it actually shows that these men go after women who struggling men would never want or approach, meaning it's all about ego and validation.Not "any women" or "every woman", severely mentally ill women. Ash travino for example tried to get with him, if that's the example of the kind of women you want by all means get it dude, but don't lump us all in with her or her Ilk. Eta Sorry I think I jumped the gun on your post OP and tough you were one of the dudes you were complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 02:25 AM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.I don't think you're the example she's talking about, more so you'd fall into the category of the genuinely good guy who gets ridiculed in certain spheres for just being a decent person regardless of having some overlapping personal beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?Yeah you're probably better off staying there and coming for visits. With the costs here and job availability, even with a job that pays "decently" for around here I'm still looking into having to leave and do some remote work up north just to be able to afford living here the rest of the time 😔😔 We just can't afford to compete with people here who sold their homes in Ontario five years ago. I had a buddy of a buddy move back to Vancouver recently because the rent was cheaper/paycheck higher for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?Oh cheticamp is awesome, cape Breton as a whole is absolutely magnificent in terms of natural beauty, especially in the fall when the Cabot trail truly comes alive with all the colours of the season. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?In your culture maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?Oh yeah I forgot they keep their last names. Honestly it just makes makes sense to me. Also visit us again anytime man, you should check out the Acadian south shore near church point if you get he chance. Absolutely stunning down there, especially if you like the ocean or church architecture. Awesome seafood and rappie pie. The French is a little different but if you know English you should be able to get by just fine. There's a lot of really great people there too and visiting just kind of lift… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?Damn which part of Canada ? In Nova Scotia here we often keep our last names but that's cause we don't necessarily get married if we have kids with someone, most I know are just good old fashioned Nova Scotia common law eh Unless you're the tax man who's asking, in that case were not even common law, just roommates or "I don't know him, he doesn't live here" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Why is slut shaming wrong?But it doesn't effect you personally if you're not going to be with them, and you're never going to be with them because your morals don't align. So why does the body count or sexuality and number of partners of a woman who you will never sleep with matter to you? They don't owe you anything so why do you expect others to change for you. You cant control everyone else, just your self, and you shouldn't want to dude. All you should care about is your own partners past partners, let other people d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 11:09 AM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I'm talking more about like it's okay to not like a fat guy but just don't like make him feel bad about being overweight and shit it's not necessary and it's rude to do, in the same vein as the topic of original discussion of slut shaming. Like you don't need to be with a promiscuous woman if that's your preference but the shaming part is unnecessary. Or like shaming people who have nothing to do you with you and never will it's strange to care that much about people your not going to date becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?But you still haven't explained how preference is shaming ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Why is slut shaming wrong?But why do you feel the impulse and urge to control people who have nothing to do with you? That's essentially what you're describing here and it's strange you have that knee jerk reaction to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:53 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Exclusion isn't shame, shaming would be like "I don't want you for X reason because that makes you X" or something, which isn't cool. Or like the people who run to tick-tock to make a story for content where they shame someone, that's not cool. But women not giving you a chance based on whatever disqualifier isn't shaming you dude, it's just personal preference at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:45 AM |
| 1 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itIts not so much that it's the only factor in attraction, but more so typically not being the gender of one's attraction usually being an inherent disqualifier. This really doesn't feel like something that should be his hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itPersonally I'm bi so I don't care but to answer your question, yes, in the example of a heterosexual or homosexual person it absolutely is probably the biggest aspect of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itYeah most heterosexual monogamous people, man or woman, would not necessarily be thrilled with their partner completely changing what made them attractive toward them, or the concept of opening their marriage. I'd probably stay with with a partner if they transitioned, but poly or open relationship ? Nah, peacing out of that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:33 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityHe was a dishwasher when we got together dude, also wrongfully terminated during the pandemic and was a student when we broke up last year, try again man. I'm not exactly making major bank either here but it's at least stable and union protected.I didn't' care about his income because neither of us were living above our means and the bills were paid. Not everything is about money if you genuinely love and enjoy spending time with the person you're with. Also fifteen an hour sounds damn near crim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:39 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityDude my ex boyfriend made way less money then me and that was never an issue for the duration of the relationship. As long as they can pay their half of bills and shit it doesn't matter if they make or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)One hundred percent agreeing with you there dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Jesus Christ that's bleak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:10 PM |
| 12 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Kitchen appliances? That's oddly... Specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Exactly, I have a lot of respect for nurses but it's something I'd personally never want to do and know I wouldn't enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:59 PM |
| 11 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Yeah.... I think this guy is just looking for discourse not an actual answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:54 PM |
| 57 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Its not really a stable job, no union or benefits or job protections, you're basically depending on others for employment and it feels like a really fickle customer base. People might stalk or harass you or your family or try to extort you. Idk why are you asking, are you trying to pimp people out or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:42 PM |
| – | Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questionedBro why would you lie like that and then link a comment proving you're lying lol Also it seems like you were the person to bring up penis sizes lol, that's like the first thing you went to in your reply with all the numbered reasons. Why would you do that? Why are peni the first thing on your brain man 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:28 PM |
| – | Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questionedI see what you did there lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsBrother did you ignore get part where I said find your niche ? There's dating apps and websites for people who like to exercise or play sports, there's career based websites who maybe people in similar fields, video game interest based dating sites, there is (or was not sure now I saw it a decade ago lol) literally a dating site out there for men and women who believe in widespread alien abductions and lizard people and listen to coast to coast and shit. You need to to find your niche dude if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsIts like he he's forgetting basic things like school, work, going outside.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsYour last point is actually a really fair point that you're making there. It's certainly a grass is greener kind of situation in both aspects and you tend to empathize with your shared experience more then the opposite which can cause inherent bias, that's been certainly applicable to my opinions at least. I guess ultimately all I can leave you and the other guys with is the point I'm trying to get across to dudes is that your hypothetical matches are out there but they could be from the large g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsPersonally I find the opposite where there's more male users per platform it can be overwhelming if you are a woman and the barrage of messages stresses you out so you just delete the apps and talk to no one and it was a waste of time to use it in the first place. That's why I don't use them personally. If I don't like something I'm not going to be a masochist and keep putting myself through the thing I don't like. I don't understand why guys who don't like them keep torturing themselves with us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsRemind me again who's being too picky on dating apps lmao 😂 (Eta) Honestly it was the little rock Lee looking dude in your pfp that made me assume mostly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:59 AM |
| 6 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsNot that lady but I've personally only found relationships off the apps because I don't like them and don't use them, and would rather meet someone organically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsIts only an Insult if being autistic is insulting to you, I'm just saying, game recognize game. You just gotta find your niche group or activity, and use your natural advantages to your advantage to impress a potential partner. Think of it like nerdy peacocking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsThe private jet taking you from a two to an eight bit was what you call a joke dude. My point that you completely missed was what good does having matches with people from multiple cities around the country actually do if you don't have a private jet, or at least the ability to like actually go to said multiple cities whenever. Like unless you travel cross country regularly what good does it do. Also you ignored everything I said in the next two paragraphs so I'm not going to bother reading your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsMaybe you can find an equally autistic girl out there off the apps who shares one of the same niche interests as you and you can impress her with how much info you've memorized in that shared subject of interest and communicate through mutual obsessions. It works for some people, just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsBy listing himself on the app, 8 can find 9s in multiple cities across the country Does this hypothetical fantasy man of yours also own a private jet or something? Cause (unfortunately, I don't make the rules here) owning a private jet will take any 2 to an 8 as quick as it takes to fly cross country. But for real how's that supposed to help get you get laid when someone is hundreds or thousands of km away. Also all this 9 and 10 and 2 talk is feeling a lot more like math and less like raw chari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 10 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsI'm starting to question your credentials in your flair, I'm thinking you don't have many thots to manipulate at all ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 6 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsIf the hypothetical man in your fantasy you just wrote is really an 8, trust me, he doesn't need apps to get laid lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsNever understood the whole complaining about dating apps, from either gender ? If you don't like the app in particular find a different one, something more niche if you must use them, OR even better, just don't use them if you don't like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedAnd it's not like they would know unless you advertise it, and make being a virgin your biggest personal grievance to air out to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formThat was true back in the day too though for most women other then then he wealthy or upper middle classes. Whether it was farm work for rural or industrial work in cities and townships. There's always been women working making things, selling things, providing services. The only real differences were basically now they're recognized as full people in regards to legal rights to voice an opinion, own property, not have to have permissions granted from a father or husband for access to basic servi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formI still don't see how it affects them at all but if the idea alone of women's rights is effecting them negatively, what does that speak about their intentions towards women in their lives? or those close to them.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formI don't actually understand how it's making men more radical. That seems like that's something of their own volition doesn't it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formI mean you also don't need a family if you don't want one outside of existing relatives, also if you know you don't want to have kids. I think that's kind of one of the points of feminism, you don't have to have to do any of that stuff like kids or marriage or you can engage in the lifestyle of your choosing including having kids and being a home maker, but you're not being forced to either role is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:48 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Oh man, you're really gonna have an aneurysm when you learn the truth about Willem Dafoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?You know what they say about the road to hell and all the good intentions that it's paved along the way with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?In this hypothetical they said you would also be 35 so in theory you would have lost your years of potentially looking your best too, so it's not really a fair equivalence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Women support patriarchyWouldn't the home of the feminists be Europe, countries like England and France since that's where a lot of the originating movements started and where a lot of the original pre-war and early feminist ideology literature comes from ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 11:38 AM |
| 19 | There are more genuine blindside divorces than many women want to admit"I don't why she divorced me man, it was completely outta nowhere" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:43 AM |
| 14 | There are more genuine blindside divorces than many women want to admitThey literally didn't say man or woman, they said person so that could be either or. You're the one projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:16 AM |
| 16 | There are more genuine blindside divorces than many women want to admitI'm guessing you don't do dishes often if you think it only takes two minutes of time and energy to do the dishes. Or do you only cook off of plates/mocrowave or something ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:14 AM |
| 4 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyYeah that's actually just as gross as the Thailand travel shit ngl Also idk maybe I hold women to a higher standard of common sense but it's like, it feels grosser cause woman to woman they should know better, ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers.If you were to strip these wealthy men of all that money and technology and reduce circumstances to the point of leaving only the man underneath the cloak of wealth, what do you have other then a burden ? You speak like money removes you of all risks. Say your rich husband's private plane drops from the sky and your trapped in the wilderness where the only value cash has is to burn for warmth? Could he still provide, or protect, could they even survive ? Doubt it. In a survival situation a docto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers.You say elite men, but realistically any system of polygamy usually tends to fall into more patriarchal societies where generationally speaking, nepotistic traditions and pushing the strong, young and capable men (you know the ones that are a threat to the old ones in power, see flds) out, tends to actually ruin that concept after so many generations. Here me out, you say elite men but you're actually speaking about generationally wealthy men. The propping up of these multiple generations of wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers.No, there is a huge difference between polyandry, polygamy, and polyamory. The fact that you don't know that leads me to believe this whole post is you talking out of your ass over a subject that you know very little about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers.This should be the top comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.You're like, not born pre-2000's are you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 10:32 AM |
| 9 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.You think the ratio of abusive men is 1 in 20 000 ? Seriously ? I've lived in small towns with much smaller populations then that, and more women beaters and child molesters then you could shake a stick at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't HandsomeGeomaxxing sounds like code for basically being a passport bro creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalitiesWe have hobbies and interests, they just dismiss everything as unimportant if it doesn't personally matter to them. And if it's unimportant, then it might as well not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:24 AM |
| 2 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.I'm picturing some dude smugly smiling and leaning down saying everything you just said in this comment, but to a very sad, small, disappointed child wearing a birthday cone looking down dejected on their birthday. Father of the year lmao 🤣😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 11:56 PM |
| 3 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Lmaoooo Maybe you went to housewife school if you were of a class of individual that could afford to send your kids to school let alone a specific specialized school over a public religious one. If you're grandmas parents could afford to send her there then obviously they didn't need to send her out to work. And that is not the way things worked for most people at the time, a lot had to either work at home with their fathers and brothers or work outside of the home in some capacity. School was v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 11:45 PM |
| – | Individualism is overpushed and it hurts the dating scene too.Bruh I can't tell if you're a Thelemite, a Schizo, or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:32 PM |
| 9 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themAlso way for OP to make a dig at his cousins wife as if being a receptionist at a law firm is a not a valid or respectable job. He should bring this exact scenario up at his next family get together and see what the room has to say 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:44 PM |
| – | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?Dude I send particulary unhinged or like, idk, some of the ones that are actually so dumb it's kinda humourous they thought was a good idea to post as screenshots in the ol' group chat. Just to laugh or "ugh😑" more then anything Keep doing it lol 😂 The fact that because of this very thread I now know it's making some dudes here salty sustains me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:26 AM |
| – | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?Hey man, why can't the normies read it too, it's being posted publicly so it's not like people didn't want it to be read. Maybe they weren't expecting as big an audience lmao but still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:19 AM |
| – | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?135 how is that physically possible, my bf is 5'11 and 140-150 and he's literally skin and bones ? Are you like, dead bro ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:15 AM |
| 5 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlMy brother did when he was 19 or so, she’s ten years older. I think the only thing that made it work was that she was kinda immature for her age but your starting to see some issues with that now that he’s getting into his older twenties, and I wonder how it’ll play out when he’s in his thirties and she’s in his forties. It might balance and even out eventually, but if the older person stays more immature as the younger person matures that can cause conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 11:59 AM |
| 13 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlI think even the language used in your title exemplifies why thirty year old dudes want to date 20 yr olds, and why they shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 11:55 AM |
| 3 | (Some**) Women have a hard time understanding analogiesThis is not a woman thing, this is a dumb person thing. What you’re trying to say is you think women are dumb, which is fine, but just say it don’t dance around. Also 99% chance she was fucking with you after you were being annoying, but who knows maybe it truly did go over her head, but trust me that’s not a gendered feature. Go find any young guy or old guy on the street and ask start asking them about metaphors and literary comparisons or allusions. Some guys sure will understand what you’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.Literally and if they dated more they’d probably see that a lot of women do Dutch. Like even in my 9+ yr relationship, it still goes back and forth who pays for stuff or we split/both go in the costs of more expensive things like vacations. It’s just you don’t keep track of it after a certain amount of time same as household costs. I know roughly I’ve been paying for more date stuff the past little bit but that’s because my partner is a full time student again so who the person making more money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 17 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.I think you’re really blowing the amount of women who actually have this perception, kind of out of proportion… Do you live in a culture where women legally can’t work or something? Cause most do where I live you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Can someone be a feminist while thinking men have non-fabricated, deterministic struggles?⬆️⬆️⬆️ all of this!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenHe’s a human trafficker so that’s one thing… Honestly that seems kind of fair giving pimping is pretty much a crime in most places, and so many other people consider it to be such a greasy profession that it’s weird that so many dudes will go out of their way to still to the mental gymnastics of calling him a “good guy”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenWomen having different preferences ?? But that would mean maybe there’s something wrong with the op on an individual level if absolutely no one prefers them 🫢🫢 No no no, all women on earth must be a monolith, that’s clearly the obvious answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:04 PM |
| 13 | Grandparent Love Was Survival Not ChoiceI want to point out one thing is regards to your last point, much like with the higher rates of suicide amongst men in the same demographic, I’d say being on anti-depressants is probably the better option. There’s also the element of women being more willing to actually reach out and seek the services available before it reaches the point of committing suicide like many of the male counterparts in the same age demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Grandparent Love Was Survival Not ChoiceYeah I honestly don’t know the point that guys trying to make either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:17 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedThat’s actually a fair point, I don’t know why this guy thinks girls don’t play video games. We have for decades at this point. I think the only difference is less girls use voice chat for the obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 07:28 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedThe whole waving your boobs in front of your boyfriend while he’s gaming and he’s ignoring you thing is literally just a meme or plot point for silly comics lol The second they’re out the pause button is pressed, one can ignore a lot while gaming lol but that uh, that usually works 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 01:33 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedAre you like, actually kinda slow or something ? Or maybe like a time traveler from the 80’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Why wouldn't you date a police officer/cop?I saw that thread but didn’t make a post for it, but you’re 100% correct. There’s no one in my friend group including myself, who would ever date a cop. 40%, nuff said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD: What subtle traits on a man make you feel less safe around him?I’d take that or something relatively down to earth over someone who wears suits everyday. The current top comment by toasterchild hits the nail directly on the head in regards to that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD: What subtle traits on a man make you feel less safe around him?Yeah see, that’s where my wires must have goten crossed because I’m a sucker for crazy eyes 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 01:21 PM |
| 9 | OF must be banned completelyUsing you’re own logic If you’re an American, your mom has two only fans account too. Now do you see how ridiculous you sound ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Would you date an alien?I feel like comparable biology and potential spreading of disease is definitely something to be considered. Nobody wants to get like earth antibiotic-resistant syphilis from the andromeda system, or the alien species is like koalas with 90% of the population having gonorrhoea from the seventh nebula or some shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women usually judge women and men sexually more harshly than guys do ?my dear 🤮🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 02:42 PM |
| – | PPD women are introverted outliers and because a lot of gender rhetoric doesn’t apply them, they don't think it exist.Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 12:56 PM |
| – | PPD women are introverted outliers and because a lot of gender rhetoric doesn’t apply them, they don't think it exist.I think they weren’t saying that women don’t watch porn, rather they were saying most women haven’t been in a porno or made porn for commercial consumption. I can’t really say much about nudes since most chicks I know have taken a nude selfie, but that being said it’s pretty much only dudes who’ve shared around private pictures without consent to other dudes so that’s a thing which kinda sucks. Makes people not even want to trust their partners with letting them take pictures or videos cause you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 12:49 PM |
| – | PPD women are introverted outliers and because a lot of gender rhetoric doesn’t apply them, they don't think it exist.How does that make you any better then if you’re so promiscuous you’d bang someone without even knowing if they were married first ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 12:37 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.Could one not say maybe that similar train of thought, that whole concept of not wanting your equals might be partially fuelling the whole concept of the male loneliness epidemic as well or even the topic of the original debate at hand. These guys want these hot chicks who they probably don’t actually want to get with long term or even are rather equally opinionated on values or long-term goals, but because of looks based attraction they desire these women, and are getting angry when they don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 03:55 PM |
| 5 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.My point is it’s the exact same for women who aren’t hot or fit into conventional feminine roles dude ?? It goes both ways, literally you’re complaining like it’s only men dealing with that but it’s not. A lot of fellows will just invalidate ugly or unattractive women’s stories that are basically word for word the same experiences ugly or unattractive dudes have. But like you’re saying it’s somehow different if it’s a dude ? I’m missing something here because it’s not a gender exclusive experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 03:40 PM |
| 6 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.Yes dudes care about height and weight, more so the weight then the height but it’s ridiculous to assume otherwise, and yes dudes judge on preoccupation. I’m a five foot tall janitor who at 140 is overweight for my height, that sound like your dream girl big boy? please don’t try to tell me that dudes or people in general do not pre-judge that lmao 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:47 PM |
| 17 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Don’t forget “gen Z girls” are all still like 25 and younger right now. With time and age the desire to drink and party or clubbing naturally goes down, same as younger guys too. I’m 28 and that was the same argument for millennial women ten years ago too. I wouldn’t get with any dude under or around 25 and expect him to like, idk, not play video games or drink or do the shit that people his own age are want to do you know, that’s just a fucking pointless endeavour in futility lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 06:59 PM |
| 23 | The biggest issue in gender is simply that men die faster single.Maybe they just don’t what their husband or boyfriends to die ?? What is up with the fucking nefarious 4-D chess double think motives with some of the people on this sub, “oh she doesn’t want me to die so she can extract my maximum value and drain me of my life essence like a capri sun killing me slowly over time before she tosses me aside, now a husk of a broken man, that is the only logical reason” Or again hear me out, maybe the hypothetical woman doesn’t want her husband to die. Sometimes th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:19 PM |
| -3 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsYou saying those men are achieving dating with 0 efforts, is really actually diminishing the actual work and effort that these guys are putting in. Just because you put in zero effort and see zero results doesn’t mean that other men are putting in zero effort too, especially if they’re married or in relationship, they had to put some kind of effort in whether physically or personality wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?Here’s your gold medal for placing first in mental gymnastics 🥇 For the feat of managing to still finding a way to blame women for this by “treating men badly” resulting in images/narratives like this being created and pushed. It’s actually quite impressive 👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?He’s just moving goal posts to weird parameters at this point 😭😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 40 | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?He looks more proportionally wide in the first pic, the second one his new body type makes him look like he’s got a big-ass head on a little action figure body. The first pic it makes him somehow look taller in a full body shot, like his his silhouette is more padded if that makes sense. The first guy also kinda looks like he can kick his own ass in the second photo which might not matter to some but idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?It literally not a trend though. In fact what your claiming “may” be what “some” (emphasis on some) people are into but I assure you, they are the excepting not the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:56 AM |
| 4 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?“Trust me you silly woman, I know better about the organ you have and that I do not possess” That’s you, that’s how you sound lol 😂😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?Hitting the cervix hurts dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:48 AM |
| 10 | If marrying is so dangerous, why do men still marry in 2025? For any PPD married men here: why did you marry?I think that logic only works if you get with someone who unemployed. If both of y’all are poor as fuck the courts aren’t going to make either pay alimony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceOh man that sucks to hear and I’m sorry your going through that right now Not trying discredit what you said or what you’re going through at all though, but a lot of that also depends on genetics and family history. I can kind of relate to you though since I’m pretty much thirty, parents are just about to hit their fifties and my dads already had a pacemaker defibrillator since his early forties. Some of my older family members were basically dropping back in the day in their thirties and fortie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceThere’s an almost twenty year age gap between the ages I suggested were too young and the age that you have said is too old. Sir you’re trying to make my argument bad faith by exaggerating what I’ve said to the extreme rather then putting on your thinking hat and using some reading comprehension skills. I never wrote that it’s a good idea to wait till 37, just that younger is not always better. I’m not sure where you got the impression that I was talking about people almost 40 when all I said wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:32 AM |
| 15 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceNah son, you clearly haven’t been raised by parents too young and way too unprepared. I very many times as a kid wished my parents were a bit older and had their shit together like a lot of the other kids parents when they had us, but their goal was to start a family as fast as possible after high-school. Trust me the grass always seems greener, clearly there’s setbacks for older parents but your claims about it people never wishing for that are false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.Lmao I don’t know 🤣 Isn’t soaking specifically like, Mormon coded lingo lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 06:52 PM |
| 18 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.Most of the women that I know are still virgins are also straight up religious and they’re not losing their virginity till they get married, but they’re also not going to necessarily marry the first guy that comes along that wants to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Men are menNgl, That’s actually a pretty fair and nuanced take 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Men are menOkay so that does sometimes and it sucks and can be super traumatic, but honey this is not all men. And if it’s men that you’re attracted to you can’t paint them all in one brushstroke because your basically denying yourself on a fear basis at this point. I know sometimes it feels safer for our emotions and feeling to put up walls as a form of protection, but you can’t live in fear because that’s no way to live at all. And you don’t want to go you’re whole life denying yourself. But don’t get me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:13 PM |
| 7 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27Dude you’re just a shitty friend lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | One of the worst marriage-related decisions a man can make is marry a woman under 27Addressing your last sentence, Well I mean, if you’re dating a younger dude chances are you’re probably not really looking for that dude to “take care of you” so to speak or be like some kind of replacement figure that you can kind of hoist some kind of emotional burden, leadership/decision making burden(for clarification you’re never wrong when someone else is calling the shots/making big decisions,and you always have someone to blame other then yourself when things do go wrong) or financial bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:38 PM |
| – | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).I think when you’re in a debate about the validity of a particular scenario, I.e. large age gap relations and the pros and cons/ I think that’s the one time you’re actually allowed to call into question and debate how valid the points of the other truly are. (Eta) It’s a debate, albeit a silly one on a silly website, but are these things I would say to someone’s face in regards to one’s relationship? no that’s super rude, and your right it’s rude to personally invalidate an individuals relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Well as long as they all at least team up one night and decide to kill and eat me before I’m your age, old timer. You know that’s not too bad actually, cheaper then a casket at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Dude it’s just a joke lol You ever hear of forty over forty? (Eta: And to answer your question no there’s not a lot of dudes getting it up for me. I’ve been with only one dude, the same dude since I was 20 lol and he was 23 and I’ve had no issues so far. I got to enjoy him when he was younger and I get to enjoy the 30+ old man version lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).She can just find a new “rock climbing buddy” in ten to fifteen years when op can’t get up, sorry I mean “climb” up anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).I genuinely don’t think that a lot of these older in the comments realize the second they DM a waaay younger chick, majority of them are literally screen-shotting it for the group chat like “omg guys plz fucking read this 😂😂” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).When you’re 19 forty feels like a lot older and so much farther away then it actually is. Yesterday I tried to explain to a seven year old that a year is actually not really a long time, but try explaining that to someone who for a year that’s 1/7 of their entire sentient existence and expect them not to feel like a year is a really really long time. Think about that for a sec too, because a 19 year old is closer in age to a 7 year old then a forty year old and time just still feels a bit longer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).God I hope I have better things to do then still be picking fights on Reddit (or whatever the equivalent is) when I’m your age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Idk man I remember being like in middle school having crushes on you know, other middle schoolers. That’s obviously not the case now though because typically most people change and grow as they age and so does their preferences and what they are attracted to. I mean if your going by when is one individual at they’re peak attractiveness yeah, it’s going to be your mid-early twenties. But as far as what one is attracted to usually tends to change with you, I would never date a thirty year old in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Until she is old enough to better and by that point it doesn’t count because we’re all apparently jaded and bitter 🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).forty years old I was a 10 probably an 8 now (I’ll even use a reference that’s old enough for you to still get) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).How does that disprove the correlation between age gaps being bad ? If anything they’re supplying their own anecdotal experience to demonstrate how they can in fact have negative consequences directly related to the difference of age ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Honestly any forty year old who’s been with someone for less then then a year and is planning to be constantly on the move/uproot their lives with that person to live the van life is incredibly questionable and makes me wonder if buddy might be going through a mid-life crises. Just because that’s a pretty big decision to make with someone you can’t possibly have lived with long enough to know if you can even handle being that close in such small quarters with no space or free time from another h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Dude I’m sorry, but you’ve only been with your girlfriend for a year and you’re acting like an expert already when these kinds of relationships are hardly sustainable outside casual dating. Get back to us on your feelings about the relationship itself after five years, how’s they dynamic holding up after ten? These relationships kinda only work in theory for a lot of guys, but idk only kind of works out well for the woman in that position the earlier you/the man dies so it can be her turn to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menYeah it seems like materialistic ideals are kind of a bigger problem for a lot of the younger generation all around, and it seems like maybe a lot of people are almost placing too much value, whether in their self or others on how much wealth or expensive things they can accumulate. It could just be a sign of the harder economic times being reflected back, and I hate to sound like “old lady yells at frog” but I think a lot really does have to do with social media twisting expectations. But then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menThat’s so weird man, like what a way to use one’s own time 😒😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Why men are usually against decentering relationshipsBasically 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:59 PM |
| 37 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menI know the reverse exists where plenty of older dudes want to get with younger women, but I don’t know any examples of any young women 18-25 who actually want to date/hookup with older dudes, except for one. And she had a looooot of issues and a loooooot of material expectations from her romantic partners and younger age appropriate men couldn’t exactly meet that in a small town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.Wait are you telling me he stayed with the same chick after he she lied to him about being on the pill in order to have a kid the first time around and just assumed she wasn’t going to do it again, or at least gave her the chance to do it again. That’s unbelievable. That’s even more amazing, unless he’s truly misrepresenting how the actual events went down to make himself look better I seriously can’t believe he let the same woman do that twice. And before you go again making any more faulty com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.Either two women were not indicated to be his wife in either example, who are you playing, and if you think I look through everyone’s profile before I reply to a comment you’re crazy. We both know it was most likely a hit it and quit it “but I don’t like how the condom feels” scenario and dudes lucky all he got was two unwanted pregnancies with habits like that. And if either one was his wife why the hell didn’t he have a vasectomy, that’s usually the conversation to have when you’re marrieds an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Dude stop, you know what she’s saying. You know the difference between strangers and acquaintances, and you know a smile can be just being polite or an ice breaker to start a conversation, not in invitation to go full speed sperg-out and start immediately throwing out the bad pickup lines. Not unconvinced that you’re not just trying to rage b8 tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:57 PM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?This ^ And the other comment by the same user sums it up perfectly for pretty much everyone I know, including myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.She didn’t stealth him, stealthing involves the act of secretly removing the condom without the knowledge of the other individual. From the description of the events given it appears he was not mislead about the removal before completion, in fact it even goes further to clarify they had a discussion regarding consensually ejaculating inside the woman. While yes this was also under the premise of taking plan b in the morning after internal ejaculation, the problem comes because these idiots were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.Honestly I can’t believe you actually fell for it twice and didn’t learn from the first time ? Like I know dudes who don’t want kids and they make sure they do everything right from their side to entail that. If you didn’t want kids you wouldn’t have them, or you didn’t actually “not want children” as much as you thought you did based on the choices you made, else you wouldn’t have 1 let alone 2 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:26 PM |
| 2 | On a Redpill logic, aren't single mothers good for a majority of men?I don’t think they are saying it’s about it better or worse at all, just different things work for different people. There’s people who are not really looking for such a big lifestyle change when entering into a relationship off the get go or just have a set amount of kids they plan to have and don’t want to be a parent just yet, then dating a single mom/dad just isn’t going to work for them. For example I know I only want one or two kids if I have kids so hypothetically speaking, I don’t think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating?Right ? Like they forget it isn’t already a thing their neighbouring countries have* already been doing for a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?whoever suggested the date should pay You know that’s actually a pretty fair rule to go by too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:32 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?Jumping on to this to say I always assumed gentlemen was more of a nature or personality kind of thing, like polite, gentle old soul who’s often inserting themselves into helpful situations like holding a door for a stranger or helping an old person carry something heavy. Like a mix between genteel and Eagle Scout if that makes sense. I think the word this lady is looking for sugar daddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 11:11 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menHoly shit, high school ??! 10 percent 5 of forty top girls, What are you talking about ?? Also you’re still a kid, Jesus this is not what you should be worrying about. Stop trying to apply these adult metrics being thrown out by the red pill to both yourself, teenage boys and other teenage girls. Why aren’t they sleeping with you? Because the majority probably are not sleeping with anyone because y’all are all still in high-school for crying out loud. Stop trying to grow up so fast and run headf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:24 AM |
| -1 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.Evidence is “ just trust me me bro, I totally know what I’m talking about here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Jesus Christ that’s fucking horrifying. That last sentence is definitely going to be bouncing around in my head the next time I think I might want to compliment a dude, which even then is usually just compliments on fashion choices rather then physical, but still, fuck man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:04 AM |
| 12 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments.They like to remind women of that a loooot, (“it’s just biology and facts” “muh symmetry”) but boy they sure don’t like it when it applies to them too.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:44 AM |
| 12 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.The majority of same sex instances of rape in prisons actually involves coercive and manipulative sex acts, quid pro quo and use of sex acts to enforce hierarchies. Violent rape does occur, but it’s usually not as straightforward as that. It’s still rape though and once or multiple times it’s pretty bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:48 PM |
| 31 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Have you ever been “pushed to sex” before by another dude ? I don’t think you would be answering that so confidently if you ever have been. Besides I thought the whole point of fearing the false accusation is partially because one might go to prison and become victims of rape themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:57 PM |
| 9 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Not to mention most studies I’ve seen cited typically come up with a number between 2.1% and 5.5% of the total of all rape accusations are found to be false rape accusations, (in which cases the victim is allowed to seek retributional Justice which can be either suing for damages in civil court, but there have been instances of criminal charges being placed and even some people serving an upwards of 8 years for a false report). But then compare that 2.1-5.5 to the amount of rape cases brought fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:53 PM |
| 58 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Damn, we really do have different definitions of imminent danger don’t we. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Lmao that would make sense It’s not the lack of abortion access that keeps them from being deadbeats, just good old fashion catholic guilt. Also lots of present fathers might as well be deadbeats for the effort and prioritization they put into the role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Dude, if you live somewhere that’s playing catch-up with the rest of the world so badly you only just legalized it in 2018, I’m going to go ahead and guess there was some societal, possibly religious based social pressure at hand in regards to the lack of deadbeats. Which country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Women on this sub, would you date someone who had a perineal urethrostomy?I guess I think I was assuming if you were at the point of being in an established relationship with someone with this condition, that some kind of testing or conversation or about whether someone has an std or anything would have already happened by that point. I just assumed the person was asking if you would be in a relationship with someone with that when they said dating. I mean in that regard std’s are always a risk I guess 🤷♀️ but I’ve been in a relationship for 8 years at this point and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Women on this sub, would you date someone who had a perineal urethrostomy?Sounds like cheap and easy free birth control, that’s a plus in my books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:59 PM |
| 12 | When a conventionally unattractive woman low-key brags about her hedonistic sex life, how to rationalize it?Some dudes will fuck anything, point blank. If you fucked dudes you’d probably have no problem getting laid either. It’s not cathartic but it’s the truth. (Edited to add first word) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality.Depends on where the lunch lands too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them?Well clearly they’re not still too hung up on it if it still hasn’t been much of a popular topic in at least two weeks. Do you think maybe some people were just discussing the concept and talking about it rather then immediately committing to 4B and you might be jumping the gun a bit here ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.I’m 28 so, I’m sure there’s lots of guys my age who’ve done the casual thing instead of relationships ,or* didn’t really have time outside of work/school to get to that level with anyone, not to mention the pandemic really did a number on the ability or desire to socialize so that’s a thing. If someone hasn’t been in a relationship that’s definitely not a deal breaker imo for dudes under thirty, now the further you get from that thirty point and there’s definitely going to be some reservations..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:14 PM |
| 6 | How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form?So answering the question for women, personally in a hypothetical situation if someone pulled that out at any point I would automatically assume that the dude is either a creep who’s planning to do something weird after the contract has been signed; or so unaware of situational awareness and social curs that they’re probably not going to be ready to engage in a sexual relationship. Or at the very least are probably not* the type of person I think I would want to deal with in exchange for any kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:45 AM |
| 9 | How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form?If rape was never meant to be an actual element of this story, then you wouldn’t need a form in the first place if a hypothetical rape could never in fact take place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What motivates you to be monogamous vs ENM?🥹🥹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 03:24 PM |
| 4 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?That’s bs man, it might be both people doing the reproductive act but honestly dudes are the only ones who have control over whether they get a chick pregnant or not, and that’s by not dumping your loads anywhere you can. Seriously, don’t want a baby ? Then condom or pull out, you can’t guarantee she’s on the pill and you can’t guarantee that there is going to be some kind of fuck up with the medication/implant, but what you can guarantee is she physically not able to even get pregnant until you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all around⬆️⬆️This is the best answer I’ve seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:46 AM |
| 13 | The Age Gap "Issue" Is a Modern InventionOh, so OP’s now taking it to the “I don’t want people to judge me when I say I want to fuck teenagers” level. There it is. I knew it’d be somewhere, just not in the first comment chain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Yes, and no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Yeah but you and your circle is incredibly anecdotal, whereas I could do the same and mention that I don’t think the largest age gap between any of my peers is greater then 5 years, and some are the uno-reverse where the woman is a year or two older. (Age group ranges between mid twenties to mid thirties, the age gaps actually seem to be more prevalent with the older examples on the scale) So both of us are right in a way because I think distinct culture and geographic location and what’s consid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Okay I feel you with that, especially on a hot summer day which encourages more opportunity for shirtlessness lol Too bad I’ve got too many cooking related control issues to give it up, like “gtfo before you accidentally ruin my perfect medium rare” 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?You don’t like grilling as a cook ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:37 PM |
| 11 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Bro I think you just helped me find my flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:25 PM |
| – | Red Pillers need to stop acting like men should lead in marriages because they're so much better at handling things because many of us have concrete irl examples that show the oppositeI’ve straight up heard a few other women say this,usually followed by some kind of “real men take charge/are the deciders” kind of rhetoric. Not a lot obviously, like literally a just few out of the hundreds or probably thousands of women I’ve met and have exchanged words/conversation with. To be fair though every single one of them was kind of a dumb-dumb. Like the kind of classic dumb where they can’t actually recognize recognize their own shortcomings and almost like celebrate their own ignor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 03:02 PM |
| – | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsI’ve been in a relationship for 8 years but I definitely think you’re onto something here. Like it would definitely suck if we broke up and I would be sad for about the loss for a long while, but I also know I would be okay alone or single because I do have 3 amazing friends and family who I know will help me through it (one friend is his cousin tho so that might be awkward for a while lol). Never got into hookup culture and I don’t really ever want to now especially at this age, so I think I’d … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.Are you like, actually legit retarded or something ? Like not tryna get banned here, just don’t want to go off on you for being, like socially retarded, in case you’ve actually got something going on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:34 AM |
| 1 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.Yeah but “woman with a past” seems to be very subjective with a lot of these dudes. I’ve seen online open uncensored opinions, ranging from a woman “with a past” is someone who’s “consented to having had a train run on her”, to a woman who has “dared to gander upon the clothed form of another male in public without the accompaniment of a familial male escort… and I heard you could see her ankles!”. Some dude are out here like “she’s had sex at least once before so why won’t she immediately drop … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:56 PM |
| 0 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.when a man is known for successful hook ups, that’s when women want to hook up too. Pretty bold statement to make. That’s if she is even someone who wants to do hookups in the first place, and that’s a big if at that, given the context of the original post literally is talking about people being more direct when pursuing hookups when dating for the people trying to avoid them. Im not saying it’s impossible, but realistically you’re talking about maybe a small subsection of women here 1.) activel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:42 PM |
| 5 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.Seeking hookups is like Boomhauer logic though, you’re going to have to go through a lot of women saying no for sure, but it’s not personal and eventually someone is going to say yes. And then the cycle repeats itself with a hell of a lot more no’s and then again, someone is inevitably going to say “yeah sure”. The dude who hooks up with a lot of women has had just as many if not more rejections then receptions of advances, it’s a numbers game and probably he just asks more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:28 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Listen dude, I’m a woman myself too and I don’t like it when people like the other person I replied to, excuse shitty behaviour as “just how women communicate”, because it’s not dude. That’s just mental illness because I guarantee you most women who just want casual sex are pretty upfront about it pretty quick (maybe it’s because we have an easier time finding partners who want to engage with that if we put it out there, I guess but that’s not the point of what I’m saying here), obviously there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:27 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?It’s head games is what is 😵💫😵💫 Shes-a-carnival is literally advising people to play head games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:48 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?That just sounds like… really bad emotional regulation problems and really bad lack of communication. Like speaking as someone who’s both of those things and trying to work on it, game recognize game. People don’t have to promote negative traits in others to just to justify their own behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:47 PM |
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