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Time to try out different hair do‘s! He complains about it getting in the way? Milkmaid braid! He wants your head as the focus? Big bun!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 06:48 PM
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Well, men get pampered here. Time for realising the less than pleasant truths too!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 03:07 PM
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Male hybris is so very entertaining!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 09:28 AM
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Men want to feel superior in everything and only their opinion is valid. That is the cold hard truth. Let us not kid around it!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 09:23 AM
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Show interest in her curiosity. My father patiently explained his work and workplace to me, so lively and vivid was his tale from the male dominated field I deeply respected that I devoted my academic pursuits to its history. I know that nothing made him more proud than having his little girl soak it all up and excelling in understanding the cultural and historical background of it,
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 09:17 AM
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If you have more children — never let the boys tell them the girls are less then them! Immediately punish this kind of behaviour! It will lead to nothing good and might make your girl hate men with a vengeance!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 09:14 AM
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It is about the impression. We do not value elderly so especially women feel worthless then.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 06:29 PM
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Men age as well! I am 30 and I get white streaks in my hair since I was 25. so I ue Natural hair dye to make myself look less like a zebra. My SO likes brown best but sometimes I rather use henna and go red.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:15 PM
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Once elderly people were few. Their exeptional age made them revered, knowledgable voices of wisdom. Nowadays the wisdom of old people gets mocked, called outdated etc. that increases the picture tenfold.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:12 PM
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Let us not ignore it is the conservative/right that sees women as useless, vindictive old bats from a certain age on! That is a hard truth — but we can change it!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 02:05 PM
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All these lovely generalisations… perpetuity the bad instead of the best practices…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 02:09 PM
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Sometimes I think many men see what they expect to see. And with that they set out to prove women are horrible. Because other men said so. Because that is what they always get told, what they read. It is an information bias, people tell what goes wrong, not what goes right. At least not until it is exceptional!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 02:00 PM
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I did not say that I am smarter, just more knowledgeable and educated. Each person, irrespective of gender, is gifted differently.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 04:48 PM
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Well, in the field I work getting my doctorate will be crucial.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 03:52 PM
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My degree pays our bills. Here in our country studying is quite affordable. I would not have chosen my H if he had been negative towards me making sure I am well—educated!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 02:56 PM
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Big Salad and Bread. Maybe a few boiled eggs in the salad. Too much hassle overall today so quick and easy it is. Tomorrow I will do a big pot of tomato soup.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 01:19 PM
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Being a housewife is work. Work you deserve to get a payment for. Cost and lodging but also moneys simple as that!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 01:12 PM
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They are told not to raise the children, to let them grow up without discipline. They most likely were raised this way themselves!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 10:44 AM
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It is an issue of disciplining the kids! No one likes to put the kids outside for the majority of the day when they need to run, scream, climb and find out their limits. (Boys and girls alike). Nowadays they are all holed up inside and scolded for making a noise! No one likes to be hard and some say boys need to be wild. Yes, boys are wild but that does not need to mean no discipline! No parenting, setting boundaries and enforcing basic polite behaviour! This no-discipline stance is the problem.…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 10:37 AM
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This man needs to air his anger. He is not yet ready for a relationshi!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:00 PM
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He seeks women he can mould, he does not seek a partner as that would mean his ego does not get cared for as much. And he certainly does not sound like relationship material!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 04:59 PM
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Yes. So true.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 07:24 PM
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I am 30 and my hair is turning white, genetically I get this from my fathers side. Thick, bushy hair that is a dream to style. I always used to henna my hair but since SO does not really associate red hair with positive associations I now use natural hair dye closer to my old hair Color, deep brown, deep hazelnut red brown. Dressing for his pleasure is easy, I have a very unique style and some of the dresses are his absolute favourites. So I always choose these when we go out. I would not comple…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 07:23 PM
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> How are you gonna be better for your SO so that you guys can come out stronger? I am working on myself for me. I am becoming a better person for me. I tried Pleasing him, being the very best wife I could be at the time. But it did Not make him value me as partner or reconsider his attachment issues. I sought help from professionals to guide us in becoming a better couple. Good question. What do I still respect him for? Not much as key elements of his character are now distorted. I respect him …
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/22 01:57 PM
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He changed from the man I respected to this puppet on strings. Either he realises that or he looses me and the support of those around.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 11:33 PM
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I put forth the ultimatum either he strongly Encourages his brother to move out and radically reduces contact within the month or I am out. He was promising the clouds again so I agreed to continue marriage counseling with the goal of moving forth. My line in the sand is drawn.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 10:37 PM
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A few minutes ago his brother again called into question my character in a terrible manner. SO tried to placate me with empty words and promises he has given me countless times before I took sex of the table for SO (we wanted to go swimming this evening and after that sexy time at the garden home) and set an ultimatum. Either he reconsiders his boundary issues and puts US before his brothers antics or I am out.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 06:28 PM
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My bad. Found the guidelines. Everything was well until his brother started becoming a problem. SO is very attached to him. The root of the problem is that communication is not his strong point. And I can not do lack of communication when things are difficult. His attachment to his brother is off the scale and the pandemic made it worse. Then M started to besmirch my character and reputation. In front of his parents. With SO not caring. I countered the accusations with grace and secured their pa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 06:06 PM
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Close to 8 years. We waited with marriage for financial reasons as he would have been eligible to receive a stipend for university if he so chose. Same with me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 05:52 PM
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We live in MY flat and HE took in his brother. At the moment I live in the Schrebergarten of my parents as I can not stand his brother. He is very concerned with public appearance, so no, I am not making things up. I find it highly insulting that you basically call me nuts! SO was raised in a family where his mother held the reins and oversaw household. She intercepted the money before it was spend by her Husband. SO wanted to do things the opposite in our relationship. His brother sees me as a …
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 05:26 PM
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Yes, we did exchange arguments but not in an aggressive or rowing way. I am currently building back my work life I had startet to limit in anticipation of getting pregnant. I also live at my parents garden house. I am so glad to have that option and I realised that SO and I moved in together too soon, I was never really living alone before. (I shared a flat with my two cousins) So now I am glad to have the option of living alone.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 11:37 AM
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He was not able / willing to believe that it happened. I do not see him caring for US - it is always less important than his FOO. But when MY Aunt and Uncle were directly affected by the flood last summer he made a fuss when I went helping.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 11:31 AM
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His brother called me a gold digger and cheater. In front of our families - at my Mothers Birthday! My SO was not yet there as he had to work late and the Highway is clogged After 15:00. The same brother that expected us to take him in indefinitely for reasons I was not told. (Wonder if SO was told the truth) SO always loved his brother and he has huge respect for him (do not know why, nothing special there) and when he began searching our finances after the disaster he was very very very surpri…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/22 12:31 PM
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I answer your questions later, I am at work
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 11:54 AM
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I was just about to make it when things started to turn sour. But as the Power wills it - we might emerge stronger and better. So maybe in good time I will try again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 10:58 PM
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Is there a rallying point for helping the Ukraine - Refugees nearby? I volunteered for a few hours yesterday and I found very fulfilling plus I got to practice my very very rusty and incomplete Russian I was forced to learn in school.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 02:17 PM
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Women ought to act like Queens not spoilt princesses.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 10:34 AM
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More along the lines of dating advice and in German is “Die Macht der Weiblichkeit”. A mix of novel and how-to love and get your man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 12:51 PM
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Do you homeschool alone or does your SO participate? Is there any other person who would be more qualified/knowledgeable in certain subjects that could do school while you get a breather?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 03:27 PM
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There are already two old apple trees that survived the storm. But I want to add at least one from another, later sort. Boskop or an older variant. I am so excited for the pear tree my parents planted 3 years ago, it has big potential!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 07:07 PM
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I fear the Ukraine will capitulate soon. Then Russian forces will take over. Maybe then it is over. For now at least…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:09 PM
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I have immature hyacinth knolls which are quite cheap to get. Hyacinths do have a strong scent - some people do not like this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 04:21 PM
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Are you unable to accept a woman might be more intelligent and smart?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:05 PM
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I.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:04 PM
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My SO and IKEA - an ongoing battle. He would rather buy from another very very low price often considered proletarian store just to avoid it. He ends up reinforcing and improving furniture anyways…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 12:25 PM
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I am the more academically inclined. And I am also regarded as quite intelligent and smart by many. My SO is very much a jack of many trades when it comes to handywork and manual labour. His ability and willingness to deal with other peoples opinions and knowledge to make informed and consensual decisions is something I deeply cherish. Just manuals - those he never reads and each time it escalates and he vows to read them in the future… ;) He is most likely a person with ADS and has a hard time …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 12:23 PM
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I am so grateful for my parents Schrebergarten and I have begun using my quarantine time to ready the plant beds. My SO will buy a few new fruit trees and a whole lot of seeds today. I can not wait! I also plan on attending peace gatherings once negative.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 09:27 AM
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What he says is irrelevant, facts! A HVM is subjective and in my eyes a person who is unable and unwilling to commit to a partner is very very low.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:34 PM
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He sounds like a selfish person, out for his own good only. And that is ok - but you deserve better! His selfishness needs to be addressed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 01:13 PM
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Yes, I am very cautious. My Aunt suffered greatly in her marriage and the consequences are felt still. So yes, I have a big expectation on honesty and fidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 10:27 PM
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It takes a village to raise a child. That proverb has a good bit of truth in it. And being lovingly watched over by professionals for a few hours a day will not hurt either. With the pandemic raging and distancing enforced it does children good to at least have that option.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 04:00 PM
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I did not mean talking, I meant flirting, showing blatant interest and not making it clear that one is not interested. Huge Red Flags to me. It is about committing to make it work - on the basis of possible failure without a Band-Aid.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:58 PM
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He stops talking to other women because it feels more fulfilling to focus his time on you. I disagree here. That is the very baseline! That is the minimum a man should offer. A cheater is NEVER a good man! Relationships break - but a man that does not actively STOP this behaviour once interested in a woman and a Mutual ground is found is just pathetic!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:25 PM
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One. The man was not a good one and it just did not work out. Interestingly we matched relatively well economically and in our academic background.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:12 PM
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Our neighbours would probably not raise a fuss but my reputation as a quiet, low-stress renter would suffer for sure. And with prices shooting through the roof that is essential! So far M has not yet told us what is going on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:07 PM
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It is MY name on the contract of the flat. That means I am responsible in the eye of law and landlord. Maximum person count is 2 adults. Since I am currently + 🦠 I am unable to meet the brother in person again. I have asked him and he gave flimsy excuses that do NOT warrant him living with us at all much less without firm ending date. If SO is unable to stand up to his brother in such a situation it is a worrying sign once we do actively try for a baby. Will he let others run over us then too? O…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 05:44 PM
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Is there public adult education? Workshops, Seminaries, language modules? I did a course on Indian Cooking and currently I Attempt to get the “Town Sightseeing leader Certificate” I also did Water Gymnastics some years ago….
/r/RedPillWives21/02/22 02:59 PM
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Verflixt und Zugenäht. (Way softer then damn) is my go to curse for such cases.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 02:49 PM
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I was just tested positive for the virus so for the next two weeks I am staying at the garden house. I feel fine though. Yes, I fear something serious is going on. Tomorrow I will call M and demand an explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/22 10:40 PM
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It is my name on the contract - my flat that SO and I pay for each month. Our landlady is great. I rented from her for my whole adult life so far, first a ver very tiny flat later this one. So I should have been the first one informed about any “agreement”.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/22 11:23 AM
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Ich habe damit keine Probleme - nur der Sturm macht mir Sorge. Aber ok, was kommt kommt.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 09:29 PM
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He and his brother are very very close. Always defended each other. We have quite the healthy sex life - but I know I will not be able to with M there. Normally SO is very good at standing up for himself and he is quite eager to protect our relationship. But his behaviour right now makes no sense. And I have the feeling I am not being told the whole story.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 09:28 PM
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I am going to stay in my parents garden house (Schrebergarten) tonight and then I will hopefully have a clear head tomorrow. I know that my parents would be alright to have M stay at the Schrebergarten for a few nights but it is normally not permitted to live in such premises…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 08:43 PM
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Cranberries are great against UTI problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 08:15 PM
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Siberian/Norwegian Forest Cat Mix. No one knows exactly as these fur balls are former strays from Poland.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 10:41 AM
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Well, unfortunately men too can be energy vampires and some are wired to volunteer their woman’s time quite liberally. And every woman needs to be smart with money.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 01:02 PM
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Boundaries are healthy. He is not wanting to commit by getting engaged which is not binding anyways. She should be smart and retain a good amount of money and job perspective until after getting married!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 09:58 AM
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I see it quite pessimistic, engagement is already before marriage so why not get engaged and move together then marry? He is not ready to fully commit!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 09:54 AM
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Hard disagree. You are basically handing those &# #+s+ who get pets irresponsibly a good excuse. Pets are there for 10 - 20 years. They need love and attention and most of all commitment to their care. Shelters are growing full because people discard them. Children are something else entirely. They are becoming fellow humans.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 09:24 AM
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I would refuse a prenup that says anything other than 50/50!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:15 AM
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I will get the state pay “Kindergeld” as my compensation, 18 years 200€ per month, and it will be my nest egg in case things go sour. Additionally I work part time.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:14 AM
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A chocoalate bar, an old, vintage looking classic book and a soft blanket. Then leave the house for a few hours or do something you enjoy while he gets to read.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 09:52 AM
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I would stop. If my SO does not appreciate and disrespects me and my time it would not be worth it. Does he disrespect you like this frequently?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 09:50 AM
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Ok. Well, it is certainly more interesting then Effi Briest which we had to read at school, the boys were bored half a chapter in… same theme of story but so boring…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 09:32 PM
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Why should I care for what men read? I like to read what I like to read and yes, classics are classics for a reason!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 06:31 PM
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Their loss! In Germany it is considered one of the books cultured/academically inclined people are supposed to have read for quality!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 04:31 PM
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Can we, for a Moment appreciate the language? Even if we do not read the original, the translations show so much decision making in how to word things, the author is so very very skilled!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 12:32 PM
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It is extremely well written and deep. Maybe the English language is not able to properly show it, the German language is slightly closer in word choices. And , it also depends on the translator!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 12:28 PM
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I was told that no one and nothing would help me if things go south with my SO. If I turned into a SAH I would get no support whatsoever. I study a topic where jobs are hard to get, but if you put in your all it is so rewarding. So I always stay on top of things and keep my CV appealing. I also have a account SO will pay into monthly, once we have children I will keep the money from the state and use it as a emergency fund. Without those precautions I would never have agreed to sacrifice money f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 04:01 PM
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My dear SO used to have Friday Meetings at work. They always ran way overtime and they prepared themselves something to eat (12 people one kitchenette 😂) so I use this day as the self care day. I aim for having nothing urgent to do that day and use it to go swimming, reading the one book a week I just need to read, taking a bath, cooking things SO does not love etc.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 11:05 AM
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When I am in the fall und winter stage I feel of course a bit heavy, emotional and thin skinned but I also get so much more done at home and convincing discussions are also more successful in the later part of my cycle. Boundaries are way firmer and I am much less prone to let others walk all over me. Dark chocolate is my go-to treat. A smart person is, in my opinion, the one that does reflection, meditation, and self improvement on those days.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 07:18 PM
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I changed my comment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 07:13 PM
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There are 4 Phases. And there are positive and negative aspects to all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 03:08 PM
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That role does not make me important, it is just a necessary thing I was asked to fill. I like it because it fits me. I always aim to provide him with respect and play up his importance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 08:43 AM
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I wish you all the best. Tip for storing left over food, get the very best of boxes! Even if they are quite pricy, quality is by far superior.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 10:54 PM
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I got my booster shot yesterday. I felt great and still do but I am super tired and lack motivation. I put my alarm to 7:00 which is early for me at the moment. Winter is always hard - I need light to wake up. Also our neighbours frequently ignore their alcohol tolerance threshold and start to make a ruckus at night or in the wee hours of morning. Right now SO is on the phone calling the police. Again.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 10:52 PM
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I recommend soft shawls, look at what Color’s suit you and go for those! I wear an oversized winter jacket that has a felt like texture. In grey. I look very good in it. I am not a big fan of mittens instead I wear gloves that leave the finger tips open. I plan on felting me a few gauntlets as well. (Super easy but a biz messy) I also invested in good tights, a few sizes bigger for durability.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 09:08 PM
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Yes. Especially since SO is now able to spend more time in the relative safety of our home! We are currently talking about trying for a little one - he is eager to move into a more suitable flat first. (We have enough space but the layout is wonky)
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 08:55 PM
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Leo Tolstoy's wife was his best helper, she always stood by him and was a writer herself!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 09:28 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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