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Men's RightsBuddhaFett/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:00 PM
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Glad to see some guys here read their history. Two often ignored points...first, there were geocentric tables and formulas to predict the location of the planets and such that actually worked. The math, tortured though it was, worked fine with a geocentric view of the universe. Second, heliocentrism wasn't definitively proven until the 17th century. It took 200 years to put this to rest and demonstrate this was how the universe was physically ordered.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 05:55 PM
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No I didn't and I'm not sure there's much out there. Here's what I've done: 1) Fired my wife for drinking on the job. Made sure she only saw the kids once a week for dinner and every other weekend. 2) Spent time in Al-Anon and therapy trying to recover myself. 3) Lift, get hobbies and build a life for myself so my kids see how a healthy(-ish) adult acts. 4) Get kids in therapy. Some of them needed it desperately and some are still in. It's a process. 5) After my kids turn 18 I sit them down and …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 12:05 AM
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That's all solid advice for people who have their shit together emotionally. If you're involved with a BPD, you by definition do not have your shit together. You are either co-dependent or have been gaslit so hard you can't tell which way is up.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 06:07 PM
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If the BPD in your life has substance abuse issues (and they most always do...self-medication FTW), find a local Al-Anon group. There's almost always folks there that have a partner of family member with the same issues and they do a great job teaching you emotional maintenance, coping strategies and the like. Al-Anon was great for learning how to shut down circular arguments and detach from wife wife...what TRP would call keeping frame. You might have to shop around to find a good group but it'…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:49 PM
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I was married to a BPD for 20 years before I finally had enough and divorced her. Raised 5 kids and the amount of time I have to spend helping them adjust to life is amazing. I lived through the seduction, the mirroring, the splitting...all of it, and 3 years later I'm still trying to get my head straight. The way I approach dating, see relationships, all of it requires constant attention and management or I find myself with the wrong kind of woman. Hard next on any of the signs of PD and be car…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:47 PM
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It requires very difficult therapy. The big problem is, the way a BPD perceives the world, everything is everyone else's fault. They don't perceive that there is anything wrong with them so they will rarely seek help.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:38 PM
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Nah, I just did what had to be done. As for what other people think, they don't have to know. Don't tell 'em. It's not their business. If they find out smile and say "The meds stop the voices. The voices don't like you". Give 'em a wink and go on with life. Hang in there, man. You'll beat this.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:49 PM
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I dealt with depression when one of my kids passed away. This wasn't the whiny little I'm-so-sad-depresion. This was honest to God, I-don't-like-anything-when-does-life-end depression. Get a therapist. Get a doc. Get on meds. Interview these people and tell them exactly what you are grappling with. You want someone who will help you find the right combination of meds and exercises and who will wean you off the meds when the time is right. Some docs will keep stuffing you full of pills, but I spe…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:29 AM
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Here's an good article disputing that number: http://bayesianbodybuilding.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:14 PM
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I've considered it. I'll see if I can distill my experience into some useful posts
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 05:04 AM
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I interviewed three or four different lawyers. My family was helping pay for the divorce since my finances were such a mess. First guy told me my family should help me find an apartment...this was the top lawyer in my area and really dealt with the rich guys who are getting divorce raped for millions. Second guy told me to spend my time provoking my wife to get her to fly off the handle. Ended up going with a third guy. One thing I learned to look for...find a guy who has practiced in your count…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 04:49 AM
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Translate that hope into action. You don't have to be an asshole about negotiations and things and you don't have to treat her like an enemy, but you should treat her like an adversary.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 04:33 AM
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I think I spent between 7-10k. More than I wanted but less than most...whole thing was over in 9 months and most of that was waiting.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 04:31 AM
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I got divorced in Illinois, so hopefully I can offer some pertinent advice. I got divorced in a county west of the PEople's republic of Chicago, so depending on where you live, YMMV. My situation was a little different...I was making over $100k/yr and wife was a SAHM. By the end though I was the one taking the kids clothes shopping, putting dinner in the crockpot every morning, helping them with homework and chores, and I ended up getting residential custody. I kept my house, my kids and her dog…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:48 PM
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Someone else said it here...got to marriendmansexlife.com and get on the forums. Before you tell her anything, get there and talk to them first.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 11:29 PM
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My ex was an alcoholic and I'll can tell you, they don't have relationships...they take hostages. The longer it goes on the worse it gets. If you've dealt with an alcoholic before, I'd really recommend getting involved in AlAnon. It's a companion program to AA for the friends and families of alcoholics. Those of us who have lived with a drinker have a really, and I mean really, hard time setting and enforcing boundaries. AlAnon helps you learn to to do just that and I can't recommend the program…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 03:50 PM
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I dashed my message off too quickly...I meant Rosin's article. Reverse the genders of the author and the subjects, and the resulting shitstorm would be of epic proportions.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:43 PM
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Fixed. No Idea how I managed to do that...thanks for the heads up
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:08 PM
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Pro tip...make sure you move out from under the shower head. Water is a coolant, not a lubricant.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 04:15 AM
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It's not quite prostitution. You pay hookers to leave. Here you're paying the girl to show up.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:29 AM
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Reading what they write about TRP and RPW...it's like listening to Jack Chick explain Catholicism. They are seriously parodies of themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 10:40 PM
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Chesterton called tradition "the democracy of the dead". Sad that we so lightly unburden ourselves of the wisdom of our forbears.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 09:29 PM
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This. If the woman has a legitimate issue that you can exploit, play offense. My ex was an alcoholic. If I had waited to bring that up after she had filed, it would have looked like I was trying to attack her character. Instead I went in from the position of trying to protect my children and it really helped strengthen my case.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 03:55 AM
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I was married 20 years, and the most beta of husbands. For the last 7 years, the marriage was going downhill, things were falling apart not just between her and I but our entire home life with the kids. Good friends helped me put it together...I was married to an alcoholic. My first intro to RP concepts was, surprisingly enough, through Al Anon. I started going to meetings and learned how to set boundaries, focus on keeping myself healthy, my happiness was my business, improve myself mentally an…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 03:51 AM
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I know my case is not the norm, but I'm in the divorce-aint-so-bad camp. Kept my kids, kept my house and I only pay out about 10% of my income in alimony. Because I have the kids I don't have time to spin plates, but I'm dating a woman 8 years younger than me, applying red pill knowledge and having a blast.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:51 PM
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