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| 7 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months? | Discussion | BudgetSeaworthiness1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 04:17 PM |
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| 1 | There is damn near no hope for the average man when dating. Change my mind.Literally the only trait you mentioned is height, one of the very few traits you actually control. Comfortably ignoring the hundred other traits that you can control. Stop blaming your failure on your height and grow a pair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 09:13 AM |
| 0 | In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this?I’m not sure how much more I can dumb down and spoonfeed my point to you so I’m not going to try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this?Not exactly. Gooran is saying it’s a plus. I’m saying that it removes a potential negative. I’m the end the result may be the same, but the logic i is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 15 | In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this?I don’t think so, I think it simply shows that he’s not a socially incompetent creep which girls desperately try to filter out on OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?More and more automation, and more and more service based industry goes against your theory. Sure, wealth comes from cumulative effort of many. But you’re missing that women still make up 50% of the workforce, and if 5% or 10% of men decide to check out will make little difference for an employer in the long run. Besides, if they plan to live they still need to produce and consume something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?In world history, the us is barely a blip on the radar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Well that too, but I was thinking more of low-confidence, introverted, depressed etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 3 | There is NO reason for your LTR to refuse to perform a sexual act with you that she performed on another man beforeSounds like you believe that sex is something one person does to another, as opposed to something you do together. Why not? If she has done it with her exes shouldn’t you have to satisfy her needs as well? Or is it only what you want to do that matters? You’d be surprised by how “ordinary” the people are who are into these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?That’s perfectly fine if you feel that way. I simply used “weak” because I couldn’t come up with a better word for people who let the above mentioned opinions and influence get to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 4 | There is NO reason for your LTR to refuse to perform a sexual act with you that she performed on another man beforeYes but it’s his choice, it would be a hell of a difference if he was ordered to clean them “because he used to do it anyways” So you’d agree to get pegged if your gf wanted to because she has done it with other guys? Is there anything you wouldn’t do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 5 | There is NO reason for your LTR to refuse to perform a sexual act with you that she performed on another man beforeAnd do you want to keep cleaning toilets the rest of your life? If you manages to get a promotion do you still expect that you’ll have t clean toilets? Do you try literally everything? Are there foods that you hate and still think “hmm, maybe this time it’ll taste different?” If you don’t want it you don’t want it. Of course you’re free to consider it a dealbreaker if your gf won’t do anal or whatever, but you’re both free to choose. Especially with sex where so much of it is about mentality. To… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 43 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?I am personally not affected because I have very strong personal ambitions and drive. However I can completely see how, no offense, “weaker” men may struggle to see a purpose to anything. Being constantly bombarded with negativity and reward less responsibilities I fully sympathize with those who just say “fuck it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 11 | There is NO reason for your LTR to refuse to perform a sexual act with you that she performed on another man beforeIf you have a job that at one point forces you to clean the toilet, does that mean that you now have to clean the toilet for every employer you ever have thereafter? I agree that if she enjoyed some things with others but not with you, you can at least raise an eyebrow. But trying something and not liking it? Are you really debating that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?This is the reason i stay single. Apart from sex and cuddles, which i can get in excess from casual relationships, extremely few women have anything to contribute to my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scaleThe irony | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckI don’t like anything stereotypically attractive I still have no trouble getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckYou really think Burning Man is representative of the average woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckGet out of your basement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suck"Rockers" barely even exist anymore, and DJs are a dime a dozen and most women couldn't give less of a fuck about them. The only women i've met who has slept with drug-dealers and junkies are trashed up junkies themselves. I feel pretty confident in saying that you've probably not met many attractive women, much less discussed their sexual past with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckNot even close. Sounds like incel fantasy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckBy “Prime” do you mean 15-17 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckAre you 12 years old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 8 | Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suckBeing yourself means you shouldn’t pretend to be something you’re not. If you absolutely fucking hate football, don’t play it just to get laid. If you don’t care about fashion, don’t buy expensive shit to get laid. But doing a bunch of pushups or wearing a clean shirt that isn’t torn, isn’t changing who you are, it’s improving who you are. Of course if your identity is to be fat and smell like shit then too bad, but the vast majority of cases people are just lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Can we please talk about how FDS is the most ABOHORRENTLY CIRCLEJERKING subreddit to existI also use it to remind myself that women can be just as cancerous as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Is doing game in school acceptable?Stay away from classmates that’s all I can say. The rest is free market. That said, if you already now think your behavior might be frowned upon or socially unacceptable maybe configure it a bit? I know people judge eachother in weird ways in school, but a good rule of thumb is that you want to be able to look back at your behavior without regret or embarrassment. | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:04 AM |
| 3 | What to do during this netflix and chill?Well, step 1: is 16 a legal age where you live? If it is, proceed, otherwise don’t. First of all, it’s definitely an indication of sex but not a guarantee and never treat it as one. At that age it’s not a long shot that she’s a virgin, and in that case sex is unlikely. Bringing some food or snacks would be a good idea, can’t say I condone wine due to her age. Something simple, that doesn’t give you a bad breath. Grapes is always a safe bet. There is no step-by-step way of doing this. Every girl … | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?I was never really bottom-tier, but compared to what I’m like now it’s night and day. Basically I believe in constant self-reflection and accumulative effort. Every time I got rejected I would think “man what did I do wrong?” Even if she might have just been a bitch, there was always a lesson for me in the failure. Never excuse a failure, always try to find even if there was just 1% I could have done differently. With regards to myself, consistent effort and time is what built me up. I stopped l… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?The exact opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?It's well-defined and can actually be measured, so yeah definitely counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?Now that's more like it. Impressive, well-defined, and more than enough to make me wonder "what the fuck have i been doing with my life?" Love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?His new reply is much more what i was looking for, so obviously it's not that hard. My point is that if you want to brag and congratulate yourself on your self-improvement there should be some actual substance behind it, not undefined nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?high value men dont shit post differing opinions. Damnit... getting in shape, did my time honorably in the marine corps, playing music still, starting my own red pill channel on YouTube All these are undefined and exactly what i'm talking about. working on starting 2 different side businesses, positive influence etc. These are also undefined. I dont need to say I'm leveling up, I just do it. This i can get behind. While maybe it's my fault for asking, since you don't feel the need to talk about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?This is the type of self-improvement bragging i can get behind. In the spirit of being the smug wanker that i am, i still have to say that "expanding a company" is far too undefined to count, and "Filing for a patent" is so far from actually getting one to count either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 6 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Let me guess, you have a super-high IQ as well? Sounds like you're low in social competence, so maybe stop self-diagnosing yourself from facebook-quizes. I mean, what kind of parallell is that? Someone works out to look and feel good, so they touch themselves infront of their mirror? | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 28 | CMV: Playing hard to get is actually a good strategy in order to get with a high value male100% agree on the “men have choices” part. Generally when women talk about choosing men, they mix up HVM and LVM. They talk about how they want a HVM and then suggest strategies to get him that only a LVM would put up with. And when women complain about not being able to find a HVM they never talk about why a HVM would choose her over his 20 other alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 18 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.I don’t know, you sounds like the type of guy that would. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Getting fit isn’t changing who you are any more than reading a informative book or trying to improve your cooking. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Playing hard to get is actually a good strategy in order to get with a high value maleTo some degree, yes. I definitely get bored if it’s too easy. But that doesn’t mean it should feel like I have to bash down a brick wall with my forehead either. That said, make sure you’re actually worth chasing. If you’re a 5/10 you’re not going to get a 8-9/10 to chase after you. Playing a little bit of hard-to-get can be fun, but you have to keep it balanced and not overestimate how much work you’re worth. That’s where most fail miserably. And no, saying that you’re a queen doesn’t make you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Conservatives Vs Liberal: You can't have both! Most confusion of gender war comes from women or men cherry pickingIt's extremely difficult to obtain both alpha and beta qualities This is such a common sentiment but I never understood why. Why can’t someone both be socially alpha and career/academically driven? There is nothing mutually exclusive about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveNo offense but the “I date short guys” girls who pop into every thread about height is pretty annoying. I’m not short but its obvious short guys have a disadvantage. Unless you’re Bi, you probably haven’t dated a lot of girls in your life so you can’t really say what dating is like for guys. And I agree to some degree, girls don’t care so much about details but they do care about the package. Some of the things OP talks about are right on track about being attractive, others are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveSure you got a genetic disadvantage but there are tons of hot small girls, not all of them filter based on height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveBecause you don't WANT to appeal to the masses of untrained fatties. That they don't train is irrelevant because what you're aiming for are the girls who do. If your aim is to be in the top 10%, then of course 90% of people will be "below" you. Which also means that, roughly, 90% of women will be unappealing to you. Stop focusing on the women who aren't interesting to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveI improved my fitness until I’m now fit enough to compete professionally at crossfit. With all due respect: 1: Do you compete at crossfit? 2: Would someone pay you to do it (Definition of "Professionally" 3: Would you win? Competing is one thing, getting paid for it and actually winning is completely different. There are a lot of fatties who compete and lose miserably. I gave up self improving not long after as the reward simply wasn’t worth the effort. So you did all of it to get laid? You don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | I don’t enjoy talking to girls.Then why did you ask? | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | I don’t enjoy talking to girls.Of course, certain adjustments are made but it's pretty hard to explain them beforehand. I've blown my chances with tons of women because i misstepped, and not only in discussions. The reason i don't have any difficulties with them now is because every time i blew it i thought "Man, where did i mess up, and how do i avoid doing it again?" | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | I don’t enjoy talking to girls.If the only way you can talk to men is vulgar and socially unacceptable then you have much bigger problems to solve before you can try to get laid. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 03:49 AM |
| 2 | I don’t enjoy talking to girls.Do you enjoy talking to men? Talk to women pretty much the same way. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Did you experience any anti-male bias during your education? Please read the full post before commenting.Yes? What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Did you experience any anti-male bias during your education? Please read the full post before commenting.Fair enough, but this teacher was also a self-proclaimed radfem and her bias was very transparent. It was not an objective analysis, it was a political statement. Also, as i said she gave credit to women for mens accomplishments, but gave men the blame for what they did when they did something wrong. Plenty of teachers have pointed out differences between men and women, and it doesn't bother me, but this was not one of them. Eh, i was like 14 at the time so my grasp of history wasn't exactly top… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Did you experience any anti-male bias during your education? Please read the full post before commenting.Absolutely. I had one history teacher openly talk about how all the bad things in history has been caused by men, and how behind every great man stands a woman. I had to write an extra essay for pointing out that hitler had 7 wives. I also saw girls start to cry during tests, upon which the teacher would go over and help them. During PE women got the same grades for far less effort. Obviously less results are one thing, but I saw a girl literally throw a spear backwards and she still got an A. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)While I cringed at anyone claiming to be the prize, you have to admit that due to the over abundance of complete morons, the guys who aren’t terrible could very well be seen as a “prize” The amount of girls who treat and talk to me as if I’m a unicorn is pretty depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)Yep I had the absolutely same experience. After trying it I have much more respect for women who complain about the lack of men, and how I king embarrassingly bad men behave. I’m also bi, so I have some experience with it on gay sites but the playing field is different so it doesn’t stand out as much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Statistics showing the type of users here on Purple PillWell yeah, do you expect me to post 500 links or something? Even if I could find them That would be ridiculous. Sure the profile isn’t great but it’s also not eyebrow-raislingly bad. I see worse every day. Not sure you can call Tinder a hookup app anymore, since OLD is IIRC the most common ways couples meet nowadays. It’s still grasping at straws to whine about it. It’s better to post genuinely bad profiles and focus on quality over quantity. The top posts can be pretty funny, but a lot of posts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 07:37 AM |
| 9 | People who hate the opposite gender: what can they do to earn your "forgiveness"? What would it take for you to stop hating them?"Men needs to have a healthier view on sex, and if you don't agree it's only because you can't get laid" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Statistics showing the type of users here on Purple PillJust a simple search for "Translation" in the title https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/f71gpy/translation_im_33_and_have_run_through_a_bunch_of/ And then we have things like this one, on the frontpage: https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/gl39gn/never_ceases_to_amaze_me/ Literally her only crime is being pregnant. While a big No for me as well, i don't get what it has to do with the sub. But i have to be fair, the quality does appear to have increased sinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Statistics showing the type of users here on Purple PillI’d say less than 10% of the profiles posted are justified. The remaining 90% is nothing but bitterness and massive overexaggerations with no connection in reality whatsoever. That and some sort of absolute obsession with female purity makes it incel central. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:04 PM |
| 13 | Statistics showing the type of users here on Purple PillProfile: “I’m looking for a serious relationship” WAATGM: “Translation: I’ve fucked to 5000 men and have 8 children and now I want you to pay for everything” They are incels because they try so Fucking hard To read into things that aren’t there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Statistics showing the type of users here on Purple PillNot really missing anything. That sub has really gone off the deep end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 05:53 AM |
| 0 | What have we learned about women now that they have economic, social and sexual freedom?Lots of men crying and whining just because women finally have the same set of choices that they enjoyed in the whole of history. It's despicable. Which rights is it that men in general have had during the whole of history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Men don't approach anymore ..."I tried once and got rejected, guys don't want to be approached" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 03:02 PM |
| 3 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceLiterally everything you said can be repeated with switched places on "man" and "woman" 4 bucks is a polite gesture from the woman. It's not about the money etc. And you still haven't told me which effort that the woman put in that the man doesn't? But yeah, in the end the issue is that you'd probably never want to date someone who thinks like me and i would never want to date someone like you. So we can debate this for weeks, since our values are simply the complete opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:58 PM |
| 8 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceWomen generally look for men who would be good providers. And you think a cup of coffee represents that? Tons of women also look for men who treat them as equals. No, i'm not interested in how much she makes, but it's all about signalling for me. Is she entitled? Does she expect me to pay for everything? Does she have individuality and integrity? Paying for your own coffee all indicates that to me. It's a small but important gesture. I have personally experienced no correlation between paying fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 05:33 PM |
| 5 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceApparently not paying for your coffee means he's going to be a deadbeat who doesn't make any effort, so you kindof disqualify yourself from complaining about that parrallell. But tell me then, what effort do women put into the first date, that men do not? Oh and i've told all my life that women doesn't put on makeup and nice clothes for mens sake, so yeah that's a pretty frail bridge to walk out on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend”Don’t forget, what you consider “self improvement” is what I call low-quality entertainment at best. That’s how low in the hierarchy you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend”What responsibility? Is it my responsibility to go trawling through the manosphere for some information that I hardly give two shits about to begin with? Go read some actual science and learn to prioritize. Jesus, what an absolute joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 11:43 AM |
| 0 | Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend”If that isn’t the most pretentious comment I’ve read this week. Trying to talk like some cringeworthy self-improvement guru kind of gets defeated by how you’re doing it on PPD. Because I read this sub for fun, not to deep dive into several pages of text regarding infidelity? If I wanted to read a scientific paper I would read about something actually relevant and informative. The fact that you consider reading research papers on infidelity to be “self improvement” is hilariously pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 11:25 AM |
| 4 | The Hypocrisy of FDSNot sure that calling each other “queens” is much better, but that’s a comparison between two turds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 08:39 AM |
| 0 | Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend”Is there any similar study made about men? I can’t be arsed to read through all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:55 AM |
| 6 | The Hypocrisy of FDSTo me FDS and TRP are the same. Built on a not-retarded ideology that in practice none of them actually adhere to, but immediately refer to when criticized. Maybe it’s because I’m a guy but I feel that TRP is at least somewhat more connected to reality than FDS because they don’t refer to each other as alphas by default vs FDS “queens”, but it’s marginal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:50 AM |
| 10 | The Hypocrisy of FDSYour actual value is decided by the people who are willing to date and commit to you, the market value. If you can’t get a HVM to commit, you’re not a HVW. The exact same applies for men struggling with women. I can claim that my product is amazing, but if nobody is actually willing to buy it then I need to raise quality or lower price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:14 AM |
| 7 | The Hypocrisy of FDSMaximizing self-esteem without anything to back it up is just maximizing arrogance though. Waking around telling everyone that you’re a queens you’re a prize, you deserve the best doesn’t actually justify selectivity in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 5 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceThat still doesn’t address the core issue at all. You don’t seem to realize that a date goes both ways. A woman is deciding if the guy is worth her time, but the guy is deciding if she is worth his effort. Why would I want to put effort on someone who considers contributing 50% unfair? HVM have alternatives, so why should I choose the one who contribute the least? And before the ad-hominem, I paid for almost everything with my ex because I was employed and she was a student. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 06:23 AM |
| 8 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceA guy who wants you to pay for your own coffee on date 1 is the same guy whose wife is posting 10 years later about how he makes 4x the income, but demands she pay half the rent and childcare Ironically, as a guy i see it as the exact reverse. A woman who can't even bother to pay for herself on the first date isn't going to carry her weight in a relationship either. I always give women the benefit of the doubt the first time, but after that i start counting it against her very fast. A guy who wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 05:58 AM |
| -3 | Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend”Most people don't commit to the person who they have the best sex with, so it's a pretty natural thing to think, isn't it? Pretty long way from actually thinking enough about to talk openly with her friends about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Sluts mean more to men than non-sluts ever will.I think LVM values sex far more than HVM. The guys you see who obsess over getting laid and do everything they can to get their dock wet are LVM. HVM get laid as a consequence of their lifestyle, LVM choose their lifestyle to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people here so mean towards incels?Because they are really, really annoying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | The difference between people's opinions on fat men and fat womenCompelling argument. I’m convinced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 5 | How do you sick fucks even have casual sex?Slap her titties around, stick it inside her and pee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 0 | The difference between people's opinions on fat men and fat womenWhen the issue is presented as “it’s much better for women” and I disagree, then it’s kind of hard not to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The difference between people's opinions on fat men and fat womenThere is a balance between being completely closed off and stoic and demanding that the world treats you as a princess. Men and women should meet in the middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 01:32 PM |
| 8 | The difference between people's opinions on fat men and fat womenWe need less body positivity, not more. Women should learn from men in this regard not the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Why the fuck are there so many black women on this sub?I thought it was because far more black men date white women than black women/white men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | I LOVE the PurgeI’ve literally only met one woman in my life who was actually good at it, and without sounding like a twat the sample size is pretty big. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Why is FDS obsessed with Incels and unattractive men?Same reason MGTOW does nothing but whine about women. It’s basically just a sub for venting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Female relationshipcels are similar to male incelsGreat, that’s all that matters really, no sarcasm. Congrats for finding someone you’re really happy with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Female relationshipcels are similar to male incelsYou’re completely missing the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Female relationshipcels are similar to male incelsPretty my much all those traits are entirely subjective. They don’t actually say anything about him, apart from the salary and that was “decent-ish” I’ve seen those descriptions used for slobs as well, depending on the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Female relationshipcels are similar to male incelsWell, as long as you think that, good for you. Doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a HVM, but that’s irrelevant really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?FDS could get banned tomorrow and be forgotten before Monday. I guess it falls within what’s expected of FDS when you’re obsessed with how much you matter to some random sub, filled with random people who you will never meet. This sub talked so much about incels that they had to put in a ban on new topics. That the bar you’re competing for and bragging about. Congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?1: it’s purge week 2: people post new threads here like every 5 minutes. For a bunch of “queens” (lol) to obsess over how many threads you get per day is comical. 3: Talking about FDS is absolutely on-topic for this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?Maybe I should have been clearer: why any man actually worth having would want them. Or any average man really. And the idea that an actually HVM would want them is comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?I think you vastly overestimate how much anyone actually cares about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?Hot people in general are a minority. Hot people who post on Reddit even less so. Hot people Posting on Reddit about how their dating life sucks? Lol. FDS are basically female incels. Just like incels they sometimes get the occasional thing right, but they are so rabid and pathetic that it’s comical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 08:38 PM |
| -1 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?Not really, I’ve met tons of 9/10 women who haven’t had any trouble landing a top tier boyfriend simply by being themselves. They didn’t play any games or develop some manipulative “strategy” I have however met tons of women like the ones on FDS and it’s always been painfully obvious why no man wants them. Basically, FDS are fugly women trying to LARP as hot ones. Kind of like how TRP are betas trying to role play chads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?If were going to seriouspost during a Purge, I just want to point out that actually attractive women don’t need to play games to make men jump through hoops for them. It’s only the fuglies that need to do that in order to try to artificially inflate their value. And ironically, when fuglies try to filter out the fuckboys by playing games, they just filter out all the attractive guys instead who aren’t going to put in a bunch of extra work for a below average woman. Or, as in purge-speak: Lol, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 10 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?I completely agree. As a FDS woman, I’m absolutely terrified of all the hot chads who post on Braincels :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 6 | The high value women of FDSaverage Lol Americans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 10:37 AM |
| 1 | What's worse, being horny for a minor that looks like an adult or being horny for an adult that looks like a minor?I mean have you checked the average life-span of a fly? Buzz buzz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | What's worse, being horny for a minor that looks like an adult or being horny for an adult that looks like a minor?As someone who lives life in the fast lane, sometimes you just gotta stop and smell the dogshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | 4th Reminder: If every woman you know is a gold-digging dysfunctional skank, you're the problem.Fuck you too, buddy <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:53 AM |
| 10 | 4th Reminder: If every woman you know is a gold-digging dysfunctional skank, you're the problem.That’s a completely unfair accusation. I hate everyone equally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men can sleep with women they aren’t even attracted to?I've definitely done it. It was more of a "Eh, why not?" I have seriously raised my standards in later years though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 5 | What is your opinion on women who hardly ever, or never put effort into their appearance?I don’t really have an opinion on it. Its her choice, and as long as she doesn’t expect anything from me or society I couldn’t care less. Just don’t smell bad please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women?Not sure if it’s a man thing or a people thing. Anecdotally, one major reason my last relationship ended was because I felt like a parent and had to take care of everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Do nice girls finish single?I dont see what that has to do with women being single, at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Do nice girls finish single?Yes you broke up with them, and how long did they stay single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Do nice girls finish single?I don’t follow. Which legislature are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Do nice girls finish single?You’re free to express yourself and people are free to think that you’re a waste of oxygen and ridicule you for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Do nice girls finish single?Fair enough, but if you aim too high above your league you forfeit your right to whine about the outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 17 | Do nice girls finish single?Lower your demands or raise what you have to offer. The same rules apply to men and women in thy sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 12:01 PM |
| 17 | Discussion: Would women appreciate it if men looked at them less?On average, yeah. As for myself personally, i'm pretty much always taking the initiative, male or female, anyways so i can't tell. But yes, people care way less about men than women, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 03:02 PM |
| 13 | Discussion: Would women appreciate it if men looked at them less?I'd say non-attractive women are approached about as much as your average man, possibly a bit more. It's not that men aren't willing to talk to unattractive women. But when you're used to getting a lot of attention, then an average amount of attention suddenly seems lackluster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 45 | Discussion: Would women appreciate it if men looked at them less?It’s a pretty well known case that a lot of women complain about feeling invisible when they become older. Some types of attention is definitely unwanted and I doubt they miss it. Other types of attention I think they would be surprised at how dependent they are of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 34 | New study links number of sexual partners to an increased chance of cancer”Those who had more sexual partners were younger, more likely to smoke, drink frequently, and do more vigorous physical activity each week, the researchers said.” Apart from HPV, which is undeniably related, there are a lot of correlation-causation questions to unpack here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:18 AM |
| 24 | Men have a greater chance of pulling a woman in person rather than over social media apps making it pointless to even use themYou’re not supposed to wait for her to reply. You send away a text and then go about your day until she replies. Of course if you’re at the point where you’re trying to set up a date and she still takes days to reply, do not bother. Yes, women you meet in person are far easier( and more fun) to connect with, which is why OLD shouldn’t replace it. It should simply serve as a complement to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:35 AM |
| 3 | The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For GrantedI’d say yes and no. Depends on what you mean by equals. I treat women like Normal people, with flaws and strengths, not more not less. But I also know that some things I can talk to guys about but not girls, that there can be sexual tension in a way that I don have with guys, that they have different sets of issues etc. Acknowledge that there are difference but still treat them as equals. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: How much is your self worth tied to how sexually attractive men/women find you?Don’t you think there is a pretty big correlation-causation factor here? Are people happy and productive because they are attractive, or are they attractive because they are happy and productive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever feel pity for people when it comes to dating?If you (man or woman) can’t find someone who wants to commit to you, it’s because you don’t have anything worth committing to, IMO. If you have a consistent problems with dating, the fault lies on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.Personally I enjoy dating in general. I’d say the vast majority of guys aren’t so swamped with dates that they need to optimize the process. Personally I have more prospects than I can follow up on but I’ve still never considered a date a waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.Yep. I think some guys are porn damaged, some guys get off to it and some guys just don’t know how to interpret “be upfront and honest.” Maybe it’s the same reason why people in general act like massive cunts online. I’m not sure exactly why it’s this way, but it really makes me sympathize with why women rate men low on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 10:41 AM |
| 7 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.Also don’t forget “genuine” You are who you are, do what you want to do etc. it’s a pretty big factor that is hard to fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 05:53 AM |
| 12 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.Maybe i'm not part of the "Most" group here, but i am always pretty open about my intentions. Very rarely it stops me from getting laid. What matters is how you let her know. The amount of guys who have the social grace of a stampeding elephant is embarrassing. The key is to let women play their game, and play along. Few women will tell you to just come over and bang her, even if that's what they want. Even women who you are FWBs with. Its the same mentality why so many women who put "No hookups… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)What FDS advocates is far from an "equal" relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | How Many Men Here Are Actually Red Pill?Honestly, after seeing a thread this week where Redpillers were piling onto anybody claiming they were actually attractive and successful with women, and saying that nobody like that goes on reddit, i'd say its very few. I've had the same experience. I have no problem getting women, to put it lightly, and i have nothing but negative experiences trying to give/request advice or talk to redpillers. So yeah, as much as i wish it wasn't this way, i'm pretty sure that 95% of the "redpillers" are LARP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)I do pretty much all of those. Career, looks, physique, money, effort into dates etc. and im having a lot of fun and success on the dating market. I wouldn't touch a FDS member with a 10 foot pole. From what i've seen, they are neither socially competent nor attractive enough to even pass the swiping-phase. They are comedic relief and remind me to pay attention to red flags because some women are secretly psychos, nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:40 PM |
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