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Budman17r/r/seduction02/11/12 07:49 AM
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You're not wrong you're just an ass hole. Edit:Grammer.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 07:04 PM
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See to me I would have taken a lot of that as indicators of interest and would have liked it. I like women who can sport dresses
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 03:02 PM
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not necessarily my point, being in my late 20's I've found that a lot of women have an extreme amount of issues (along side my own from my divorce I won't deny). Its quite crazy.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 08:37 PM
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What about single dad's how the hell are we supposed to date then. Single dad of 2 u have custody I currently have a live in gf with her own kids
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 02:14 AM
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I have to ask or comment, Why would that even be a thought in anyone's head. The statement he said, "This is your only chance with me," Does not lead on or be dishonest. To sleep with someone on the first date, and expect a relationship is a tad, let's say Presuming. Unless he was promising a relationship (which from what I read didn't) why would intent be needed. She chose to sleep with him with no intent in mind other than sleeping with him. TLDR: Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction31/03/14 12:41 AM
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Personally I've combatted this well by still escalating and touching and other things. But if there. Is no Sex I'm fine with that it becomes a game where we see who can turn on the other most. Doesn't last but two dates normally
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 10:15 PM
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As a single father, Fuck her.
/r/MensRights20/01/14 02:21 PM
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well after my divorce, I went through this, and I still do. Especially with my current girlfriend. I've caught myself thinking things that aren't true, and not placing enough emphasis on the things that are. I'll potentially elaborate on it some more.
/r/seduction19/01/14 07:21 PM
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Honestly, I've had this feeling, personally I've gone in to believing its the Grass is greener phenomena. Focus on the person you're with, and until you can't handle or dislike the person then change it. If things are going well, why change? Focus on what you have, not on what you could have.
/r/seduction18/01/14 11:28 PM
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In most animals or anything of the matter the men have to "woo" the women. Its not any different. Secondly, while I state this to women friends, I've never uttered it to a girl I was dating, ever.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:12 PM
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See I don't argue against someone who chooses to remain single and sleep around with other single or poly amorous people. That's fine. I am against deceit. If you don't want to be in a committed relationship that's fine, just don't agree to be in one.
/r/seduction04/03/13 07:32 PM
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Ok, yes a typo. It is the woman's fault for cheating, she should have ended it. (I reread it you are right). The desire to cheat I can not hold someone accountable for that, the going through it is hers. Sometimes you can't be everything for someone, and sometimes people are inherently screwed up. <<<Before we get started on that, let me explain. People sometimes do not realize what they want or who they are. Personally my ex wife, didn't want a family, or kids not really so this is why she did …
/r/seduction04/03/13 07:30 PM
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While I understand you shouldn't be complacent in a relationship, I personally feel that it isn't right for someone to swoop in in a moment of vulnerability. Certainly it is the woman's fault for wanting to cheat and having the desire to do so. At the same principle it is sadly exceptionally easy to manipulate people... In fact as another poster had mentioned its easier to get someone that is in a relationship then someone who is single.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:28 PM
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So because I chose a word cheat which is commonly used when someone is lyig and deceitful in a relationship you say that specific word tells you that I devalue women as people? People always have a right to make their own decisions. It is when they lie and are deceitful in life and actions that it has wronged the other. It is simply harder to end a relationship then it is to find another partner while with another. Semantics my friend you're fighting a battle over a singular word.
/r/seduction04/03/13 01:41 PM
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Quite honestly I'm not sure how you're relating my statements to that. How exactly by not wanting someone to cheat and keep truthful am I being possessive. I've had breakups where the woman just wasn't feeling it or I wasn't feeling it. We wished each other luck and went on our way. I am not guaranteed to be with someone, nor am I guaranteed to have a truthful relationship. I'm personally wondering why you are making an ad hominem argument (attacking me instead of the argument at hand).
/r/seduction04/03/13 12:45 PM
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I don't think they're property at all, having been cheated on, and screwed over by many others. I personally don't want to be the one to assist in it. People are free to do as they please, but when it comes to lying and deceit ya, I will not EVER condone that. Every time I've broken up with someone I did not have a backup plan like some people do. You sir, assumed a lot of my nature by a comment of honor and code. People are not property, but people should still have honor and ethics.
/r/seduction04/03/13 03:55 AM
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Personally, I've been cheated on multiple times now. Yea a lot of people don't have this honor code. I'm with you brother, if someone is with someone they're off limits, if anything I talk them back into the rship.
/r/seduction03/03/13 11:29 PM
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Completely agree with this too. Having a SET parenting PLAN, as a fall back to so that you both know when you have your child, and when you don't. Otherwise this can become problematic depending on the parties involved.
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:59 PM
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Well first off, Keep your boundaries of the people your dating, and your kids. Some people will not understand your need to keep them separate from your kids. (Most will understand). Find a babysitter, and utilize them. Go out and have fun, and still take care of your children. 1-2 nights out a week WILL not harm them especially if you go out after they are asleep. I have an At LEAST 3 month before they're formally introduced, and I keep my hands off when they're around even then (Aka no holding…
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:57 PM
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Well what exactly do you mean being screwed over by her? What are your feelings about being screwed over, or what are you worried about?
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:52 PM
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I've not read all of the comments, but I will go with this. Go on as normal, A relationship MAY or MAY not happen, but YOU already HAVE SOME type of relationship. Invite her out, Invite her to dinner, Make out with her, go to 2nd base sober, offer to do more. Don't bring up a relationship except after a few months. No need to rush it. Let me put it this way, You get the opportunity to hang out with, her do stuff you never thought you could do with her, be physical with her, and intimate with her…
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:28 PM
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I'm a divorced single dad of 2 (With custody). This stuff is about inner game mostly, and ways to attract women. If you think having kids is a bad thing, it will be, if you think differently it won't be. For example, I'm a single dad of 2. I'm one of the few fathers that literally take care of their kids 24/7. How many men can you think of that do that? Not only am I responsible, working, and caring for my children I still have time for that special someone. I rock, I rock hard, there's no reaso…
/r/seduction24/11/12 07:35 PM
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Thank you sir, you can even have more fun with it. I've thought up the scenario's: Walk up to a person, and say me and my friends are having a discussion, they're all saying the flap goes over, and I disagree I need a third person (after you lead them back to the table).
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:41 PM
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Put the phone number in facebook, SOOO many people can be found that way.
/r/seduction05/11/12 11:13 PM
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Why thank you!
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:45 PM
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Talk about Toilet paper rolls and how they are properly done, ask her, and Tell her the Appropriate way is flap over the top, The right way, and go into that. I'm not kidding you'd be surprised the responses you get from that.
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:02 PM
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Ohhhhhhhhhh, My bad like my first actual post.
/r/seduction03/11/12 01:10 PM
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Do you mind explaining how I'm doing it wrong. I was just worried about asking for numbers while my kids were present, and wanted info on that.
/r/seduction02/11/12 04:39 PM
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Technically it is a numbers game and a confidence game. If you talk to 100 girls, Chances are 1 or 2 of them are going to like the way you look, and find you gorgeous.
/r/seduction01/11/12 12:50 AM
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First off, I think it all depends. Quite honestly your survey is on Reddit. People will respond differently here. I spent 4 hours in a bar earlier, (Mostly regulars I could tell). There is complete differences in personality. Most of the redditors wouldn't be out on the floor and would be looking for conversation (as per the comments). Your survey isn't broad enough and doesn't offer the appropriate atmosphere. You would be better to walk up to people in the CLUB, and ask. You'd have a better re…
/r/seduction01/11/12 12:47 AM
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I personally think she's cute.
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:26 PM
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Well there was one time I did this. The girl I was on a date with was into stuff like Palm reading. I said, You know I'm a palm reader, she puts her hands out, I hold them. I say this line (move the finder down) means, she flinches cause it tickles. I said this line, shows you have a long life, and great health ahead of you, and then on the other hand I said this line, says I know nothing about palm reading and I just wanted to hold your hand. Worked fantastically.
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:25 PM
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http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html it was in the faQ on the right
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:33 PM
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