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-2	FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck" It's a great story if you enjoy being manipulated by a woman. Which is not going to stop, now, incidentally.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 05:01 PM
1	Guys, I could really use some advice. I've made bad decisions over the past few years, and am trying to put myself back on the right track. You sound like a guy who chafes in large organizations, has a physical side, and values his independence (the self-sabotage indicates a desire for freedom, even though your mind has you chasing corporate jobs). So getting a trade, or just doing simple shit like handyman or landscaping, will allow you to immediately start building independence. You might be a guy with $100K of small business income doing the things that no one wants to do in a very short span of time. The addiction stuff has to g…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 03:28 PM
3	What are your thoughts in this guide on how to show accomplishments with out looking like you're trying to impress? I think the most important is #10, not oversharing. We either have 'it' or we don't. If you have any sort of public presence, the women are going to have googled the shit out of you already, and are simply looking for confirmation that you are the guy they already want to believe that you are; they're looking for congruence, rather than evidence.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 02:57 PM
3	3 Essential Classics for Men Aurelius, a Stoic, studied Epictetus his entire life. I would add Epictetus, Encheiridion, a brief and nearly perfect treatise on becoming a truly sovereign man. Aurelius' longer work is far more easily approached if the Encheiridion (sometimes titled The Handbook) is committed to memory first.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 02:53 PM
5	Wife bragging about being hit on... didn't know how to react. I would have asked if she did him in the lavatory. As a formerly married man, I don't view this episode as innocuous as the other guys. Because she's explicitly disrespecting the relationship, mentioning the obvious (she's always getting hit on, or ogled, or such, big woof), and crossing the line. So I would have pushed her way over the line and turned the table on her jealousy game. One of my girlfriends made a point last Friday of texting me from the airplane, at 9 p.m. when it landed en route…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 02:47 PM
1	Gentlemen with high paying jobs (such as doctors, lawyers, computer programmers, etc.), do you downplay your career in an initial meeting with a chick so that you can filter out the gold-diggers? One of my favorite ploys is, on a first date, drive my 24 year-old Volvo or my SuperDuty. They can see the 911 later. Unless its scorching hot out it's a better choice anyway, don't have to worry about parking it on the street, it's fun to drop off with a speechless valet. Problem is anyone you actually date will Google you, so they're going to know (I'm a ceo). But if they have a problem with my old breadbox wagon, I'm in 'danger close' mode. The more simple-minded women always ask if it's my '…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/14 01:47 PM
1	How to survive massive incoming shit test She is both toying with you and setting up what is at least an emotional cuckolding. Her behavior is either crazy or crazy and treacherous. So, no, I wouldn't go, I'd put her on probation, or I'd just drop her immediately if she still wants to go. If it were me, I'd say, Get back to me if you want to have a relationship or some such. The weekend, as planned, sounds like a nightmare. Two men competing for her attention in your competitor's environment? What could go wrong?	/r/askTRP	01/09/14 02:15 PM
1	What do you text when she just wants to be friends? Do not reply, delete all contact info, move on. Alternatively, do not reply, delete all contact info, get drunk, and move on. The only thing that will make this feel better is getting busy with other women. 1/100 times a woman might change her mind, but only if she's frozen out and has a panic attack. Then you still have the problem of her sexual ambivalence. Did I mention move on?	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/14 01:32 PM
1	Men being friends with women No need to "make something of you". Live your life. It's (occasionally) a free country. In my case all of the women who "just want to be friends" either a) want to have sex with me; or b) want me to keep them occupied (at my financial expense)while they search for someone they want to have sex with, marry, utilize for other purposes. And this is far more common than your situation. You post can be summarized: "I'm not like that." (Itself a rather feminine objection, because they're all delicate …	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 02:02 PM
1	"Alpha males don't exist in human society". Askwomen delivering godly amounts of bullshit. There's no "friendzone" because her husband is in it. And other illogical tropes. Anyway, they're not a couple, they're an arrangement and he is merely a useful mirror to the glory that is she. Plus he cleans the toilets for her, tee-hee-hee. Unless the husband is masochist/cuckold queen, or a moron, later she can write a piece about how there's no such thing as The Wall, just defective men like her ex-husband who stop cleaning her toilets once whatever meager assets (which do not include brains…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:44 PM
0	what is with all the hate on TRP? Also, because we are a secret society, and secret societies induce panic, fear and loathing from established orders. They know not if they are surrounded, or even living with, a member of the secret society. In the old days it was much harder to construct a secret society. None of us would have 'known' each other. Whoever dominated the culture or the State could identify and isolate and destroy dissidents with impunity. That's over, at least until they lock down this medium and make dissident ex…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:38 PM
1	what is with all the hate on TRP? Because it bankrupts the pretty lies on which they construct their self-esteem; because it forces them to stare at the realities that await them when they are divorced (if they are men, or just mothers/brothers of men); because it violates their politics of feminist ascendancy (and the worst feminists are men); because it asserts biology usually trumps will, and they fancy themselves unique and lasting presences, not mortal organisms dying a little more every day. In short, TRP creates existenti…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:33 PM
3	Field Report: Fucked on the first date, tried to make me jealous 3 days later, it backfired. Be reticent and for god's sake never argue or implore in a texting medium. There's no upside in endless texting over sensitive subjects.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:24 PM
5	I'm looking for alternative advice on something my future wife said to me "jokingly"... She just announced her awareness that she holds all the cards in marriage, that it amuses her, and that you are already working for her. You're out of your mind if you think she isn't chortling about this subject with her girlfriends, and if you think she believes she has something to lose by belittling you with this so-called humor.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:20 PM
2	Keep your mouth shut - a word of warning On anything related to RP, with anyone outside the secret society, my rule is "show, never tell." People are conditioned to lose their shit if you discuss RP concepts. And they gravitate to men who do not talk about RP concepts, but simply live and demonstrate them.	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/14 01:15 PM
2	Am I in any kind of legal trouble? Well, you found out why she's running around and lying to both him and you. The husband's an idiot, texting married chicks while they tell you how wet they are is not a crime, and his stalking you is passive-aggressive rage that he is probably afraid to apply to his randy wife. Save the exchanges with the wife that show everything was two-way and consensual. Then get clear of this woman and her nut-job, balls-broken husband.	/r/askTRP	30/08/14 02:28 PM
1	Trying to avoid BB in LTR If marriage is important to you, you need to reconcile yourself to two realities: a. she will take half or 60% of what you have in divorce (you will pay her expenses if she divorces you). b. she will be awarded control of your children by the court, and you may get lucky and be some sort of uncle to them. Or she will go full-on parental alienation, accuse you of abuse, and have the courts remove you from their lives except as an ATM machine. Again, this only happens to 50% of American men, so lu…	/r/askTRP	30/08/14 02:20 PM
1	Is this RP behavior or not? As a formerly married man, who thought blue pilling to the max would calm down a hypergamous wife: No, and start thinking about a life preserver when you find yourself swimming (absent any jealousy, of course) in the divorce Lake of Fire. I'm not advocating jealousy, which is weakness, but "Sure, if she wants to" is a meager thread on which to hang a marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 07:06 PM
1	How to deal with the man your girlfriend cheated with At son#1's graduation lunch, the ex- brought her new husband. He's classic beta bux, a dull real estate lawyer with a very good W-2. In appearance he's an 85% scale model of me. I was in a good mood, she and I were yakking it up nonstop, she simply wouldn't stop talking to me and even her mother (who hated me for 20 years) was laughing at my comments. Our two children were staring at each other with wide eyes, practically mouthing "What the fuck's up with Mom?" Her new husband sat surly and sile…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 07:02 PM
2	Nice Guys 101: Why they are Unattractive. Also, all that 'pleasing' bullshit made life very stressful, because my work required a certain unemotional, if not ruthless, rigor. I achieved that, when necessary, but the internal stress of not pleasing people (I worked in commercial and government intelligence as a software ceo) tore me the fuck up. I never did learn to stop 'pleasing' women until a couple of years ago. And I've never been as popular with them as now. It's made me a better parent too, I think, though my children are at prese…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 01:45 PM
1	Nice Guys 101: Why they are Unattractive. I believe in manners but a RP truth for me was that often in public (with men, women or staff) my "good manners" betrayed an impulse to please people. I get a lot more respect now that I use manners to effect efficient comms, not please people. Doing well, not being 'nice', in most situations, earns a guy way more respect than being the nicest guy on the planet. I realized, iow, that I spent a good part of my life in an adolescent frame seeking approval and emotional safety in my personal and pr…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 01:40 PM
2	How Oneitis will destroy a part of you I was married for 20 years and dropped when I started my first company: she had a total security/BB meltdown, blew up the family, and of course cost herself a boatload of money. I had no idea how to handle it and only recently (2 years or so) discovered TRP. Anyway she was my college sweetheart and ... you know the rest about the oneitis cancer. Recently I looked at her FB page where she has about 500 pictures of herself looking good. Maybe 5 of them included her new BB dweeb husband. She was a …	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 01:24 PM
1	FR - Lost my frame to a degree...slipped into Blue Pill on recent girl, learn from my mistake You describe texting her so much she must have thought you were a girl. What's the point, especially when you practically proposed to her? When you see her at the restaurant be sure to give her a "hey how are you?" with a smile -- before ignoring her totally. Otherwise her contempt will rise further, and you will be in her "another butthurt man" category.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 01:11 PM
3	FR - You gotta fight, for your right, to not date! Meltdowns at the office are a waste of time -- at best. She is highly sexed, most of her guys must be supplicatory, your rage and indifference are a novelty and hence a new challenge. IOW, she's a weirdo (not that you're coming off as Captain Cool) and she wants you for her next notch. If you go over there tonight I'd be in a better frame of mind or things could spin completely out of control, and not in a safe way for you.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 12:53 PM
3	Shit Test Texts (STT or ST) One of my girls practices what I call "Good Catholic Girl" game. That is, she presents herself as a chaste, upstanding, modest suburban sort, who would never ever ever do the sorts of things she started doing to me on the second date. (She's a fire-kitten in the sack, and she wants it all the time, except when she's acting like her GCG.) So she texts me a dreamy, chaste love-haiku every night before she sleeps. I appreciate that but this week I got tired of sending her dreamy, lovey-dovey texts …	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 12:40 PM