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Same with races. Apart from very few exceptions, males from many minorities are considered unnatractive: mexican, chinese, filipino, thai, Indian; whereas for each of those countries you can find a good chunk of women who are considered "hot" or "cute" in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:54 PM
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This is what I call a popcorn-worthy disscussion, very entertaining. Thank you for keeping civility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:08 PM
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On dating apps that is definitely the case. Outside the internet it is a bit more difficult to gather evidence, but I think several observations point to that being the case: Humans have more female than male ancestors, which suggest unequal access to partners for men. Polygamous societies have been the norm throughout history, pointing the same way. Women prefer men that earn more than them. If women and men earn the same on average, then that would imply unequal access among men. Women prefer …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:26 AM
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Do you think that east Asia (SK, Japan, Singapore) is the Paradise of feminism? Because they're the most radical place in various of your metrics (work, sexlessness, loneliness). I think that the ability for woman to work creates this, you don't need cultural feminism, just as these countries in Asia don't have It.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:34 PM
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I see, thanks for the thorough response. I get some of what you're saying. By the way you describe it, they seem to be more egalitarian and in some sense less toxic that the conventional heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:37 AM
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The playing games is a difficult part for me. I try not to play them either and it has not brought me much success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:58 PM
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There are two points here. So it is not your experience that in heterosexual relationships men mostly do the paying, the courtshiping, and the driving? I still would like to know how you view how those tasks I have claimed are generally done by men (because that has been my personal experience, my family's and my friend's), are done in lesbian relationships. I'm willing to hear opinions contrary to mine, as long as you're willing to give them. Sorry for my English not being pristine, my mother t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:53 PM
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Mine is a completely autistic view of the world of human affairs, for sure. I think that if one has a brain one can somewhat escape all of these clichés, I try to do so myself in dating (with not much success, to be honest). I do think that overall is a good description of how people in general behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:24 PM
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I would like you to get into more detail about how women stop behaving like heterosexual women (expecting men to do all the courting, expecting men to pay for stuff, expecting men to be technicians and plumbers, expecting men to be chauffeurs, expecting men to be bodyguards, etc) when they become lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:17 PM
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Sure, you won't get a mathematically pristine law where you crank some numbers and get a perfect description of how the dating world will turn out (ala Newton's laws). Nevertheless, I do think there are regularities in the world of dating, I see it as a branch of economics. Just as in the world of employees and employers, there is a value in the market (whether you have a bachelors, masters or phd, your past experience, etc) and you negotiate on the basis of that value the best job you can get, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:09 PM
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Yes, I think you're pointing to something fundamental here. The question is, I think, whether one is willing to go all the way in trying to understand how the world works or not. My approach to life has always been to try to objectively understand how things REALLY are independently of whether it is considered hurtful, or sad, or pollitically incorrect. If I ask the question "how the world of dating works, what laws it goes by?" then I'm going to reach conclusions which divide people into groups…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:35 PM
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Great, good to know your experience. By what you mention, as long as people are reciprocal I think you can make It work. I also understand what are the good aspects of dating a woman vs a man, so I get that. My experience with woman unfortunately has been very unilateral, I have not received much attention or effort from women I like, so I guess I have a rather skewed perspective of how to make relationships work with them (basically, as long as I expect reciprocation and fair treatment, I'll be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:04 PM
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Nerdy comment, but I have found it a quite common methodological error here. People think that because there is variability in how people behave it then means that you cannot say something conclusive of the group as a whole. You can't say women look for money because there are women that date bums, you can't say all men are thirsty because you know a couple of men who are low libido. The thing is, even though there is variability in how people behave, there are still behaviours that are way comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:51 PM
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I always wonder why lesbians don't immediately break up. All the relationships I had with women have ocurred because I put all of the effort in to make things happen, so I don't how it works for them. My guess Is that in many relationships they both do the "expecting" part and would think them not being very stable. I would love to know real stats on the topic to know whether that is the case. Also, who fixes all of the stuff, who deals with the tech, who negotiates stuff, who pays for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:30 PM
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Congratulations on finding a long lasting relationship you feel good about. I wish I was in the same position as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:22 PM
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You dated a homeless woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:13 AM
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Don't you find the stats shown in the data subreddit quite shocking? I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:01 AM
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First of all, I never claimed to have "hard data from dating sites". Second, there is plenty of evidence that men do terribly on dating apps. r/TinderData provides ample proof that men do considerable worse than women on dating apps, the difference in distribution is pretty remarkable. P.S. Please remember that the purpose of discussion is to provide data and theoretical arguments that move us closer to "truth". I'm more than willing to go through any point or argument in favour of some opinion.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:29 AM
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More female gene variety than male in the human genome? More males reporting sexlesness than females on polls? My relationship with my mother is not perfect but we get along. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:15 AM
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I'm male, 26, I don't live in the US so that may explain the difference too. It seems reasonable to think that the women who do use them won't be very open about it.That thing about dating wealthy men seems like a very harsh example of sex being commodified nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:04 PM
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Really? Very interesting. I don't know anyone who uses those sites. Can you go into more detail about how they use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:59 PM
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I agree with you. All of those could be explanations as to why that happens to me. Maybe it is a mix of them now wanting a relationship for whatever reason and me showing a bit too much attachment. You seem to have diagnosed my situation in a very clear way. It is good to keep those things in mind to be able to become better and avoid unnecessary suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:06 PM
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Yes, in some way or another I think I've not been successful for being too nice. Maybe it is another reason; I've never been told why of course, so that's my best guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:30 PM
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I've always tried to ve a source of kind emotions, feelings and acts to the women I liked in my life. They consider me good looking and I've been nice and caring even after having one night stands with them. I've had nothing but cold rejection afterwards. Since looks are not the problem (because one night stands) my best theory of why this happens is that I'm "too nice". I have seriously considered that being colder, shittier, and dissmisive of them would help me in dating, who knows. Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:49 PM
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Sure, It would be interesting to hear your opinion ok the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:31 PM
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That was a very poetic way to put It, I felt very identified by It. I wonder whether women feel that way about sex, I've always put them on this huge pedestal that I think that for them its just a way to give the man what they asked for and not such an extremely big deal. It would be interesting to hear from them on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:46 AM
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That was a very poetic way to put It, I felt very identified with It. I wonder whether women feel that way about sex, I've always put them on this huge pedestal that I think that for them its just a way to give the man what they asked for and not such an extremely big deal. It would be interesting to hear from them on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:45 AM
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I'm a geek, love science, philosophy, and talking about dense technical subjects. Even though I would consider myself relatively good looking, I have never been attractive to women and never had much romantic success. Girls like me initially but eventually my nerdy personality turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:07 PM
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I couldnt say It better, right on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:10 AM
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Who TF wants to have kids? Worst decision ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:22 PM
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Take Trump. He's the biggest dickhead you can think of with women but he receives plenty of attention and has never been alone in his whole life because he's a millonaire. Women don't like to admit it, but a bunch of them prefer an asshole high status male than a nice low status one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:14 PM
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I "shouldn't" be doing anything. I have no kids and I have no intention of creating another labor slave that will also contribute to climate change and suffer its consecuences. I prefer to spend my late nights drinking beers and smoking joints than to create another suffering being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:00 PM
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The comparison between the glam rocker and the jazz musician is very insightful, you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:33 PM
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Why eye opening?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:25 PM
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Jordan Peterson is Red Pilled AF and he is probably the most popular public intellectual. He is particularly popular with young males, so yeah ...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:36 PM
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