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Agreed. Will work on that
/r/askMRP08/11/25 01:39 PM
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Nice one dude. She ain't a unicorn but my SMV is high enough to refrain her from doing anything remotely close to infidelity
/r/askMRP08/11/25 08:16 AM
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I accept that was a major mistake on my part. I am married to my wife.
/r/askMRP08/11/25 08:15 AM
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a lot of alpha males might have a fling with any particular woman, but might not want to invest full time in caring for that woman’s offspring. That’s where a beta male can pick up the slack, Ugh! Made me throw up! But, very much the harsh reality!
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:42 AM
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Why bother to even comment then?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:18 AM
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But the primary biological imperative of an individual is to pass on THEIR genes. Why would you sacrifice your legacy so that someone else's can?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:24 PM
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Makes sense. I never got cheated on but, I've used the "feeling low" or sorrow of getting dumped in the past as a fuel to hit deadlift and squat PRs in the gym. Even though I had broken up more than months ago, I'd stalk my ex on social media, look at her photos with her new partner and use the rage to deadlift. It helped me deadlift 6 plates. But, here I used the rage to better myself and become swole. In turn bang more chicks and become an "alpha". Why would you succumb to the fuel and go down…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:22 PM
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In general, even the blue pilled guys(who we were before indulging in red pill literature) would get a swift kick in the balls after getting cheated on. The primary reaction to that would be complete anger and sadness which when is productively utilized to hit the gym and pursue goals or destructively utilized to go down the path of drugs and alcohol. How does arousal happen?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:16 PM
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Damn! Mind blown! This makes sense biologically. But, wouldn't you rather better yourself and become the alpha amongst the tribe yourself? Shouldn't that be your primary drive?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:09 PM
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Do you consider her an LTR? do you emotionally invest in her?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:02 PM
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Sure man, trying to find out about COVID symptoms and steps to recover because I want to get the virus or "asking for a motivation".Not because I want to prevent it and/or avoid it altogether. Makes sense facepalm
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:01 PM
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I can now get a perspective as to why, it is so..
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:01 AM
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Makes a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:59 AM
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Got it
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:59 AM
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This doesn't make sense. Why would you ask a patient about the disease he's suffering with, if he doesn't even realize/know it is a disease. You're better off asking a doctor who is knowledgeable and learned about said disease. Similarly, my question was targeted towards trp vets who could shed some light in this topic. Why bother to comment if you have nothing productive or constructive to offer?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:58 AM
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We understand, deep within the core of our being, that when a woman fucks someone else for the cost of a drink but makes her real LTR boyfriend wait and earn the right to fuck her, something is wrong. We tell ourselves that this is right, however. Because "just sex" and "real love" are different, and love is supposedly more important than sex. We try to tell ourselves how lucky we are to have love, even if the sex isn't there. But it still feels wrong inside. Because those guys she fucked for th…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:13 PM
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Quick source: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_R-WhB9g9eYk/TJDSr8V_ShI/AAAAAAAAAOg/VmMGTymAVcI/s1600/teachmanl Full source: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html?m=1 Data backing it up: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:51 AM
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Because it is deep rooted in our biology. It doesn't affect the genders the same way, a woman gets damaged to a higher degree in the long run if she takes self harm route. This has been proven in several studies that you can find in the top rated and stickied posts in the original red pill subreddit. Women cannot pair bond, show empathy, be responsible, not act impulsively once they go beyond a certain threshold of damage dependingon their own individual circumstances. For men it is completely d…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:27 AM
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Not necessarily. AWALT is not for women, it's for you so that you can have outcome independence because all woman could be like that. Now, if you come across a woman who isn't like that, you could promote her to an LTR or a status that's most comfortable to you based on your prerequisites albeit still being mindful of being independent.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:57 AM
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My ex girlfriend was by the far one of the most intelligent and hard working people I've ever met. She was absolutely amazing and submissive. But, when her ex boyfriend cheated on her when she was 24, she went full hoe mode. She had random ONSs from clubs,parties and the gym whereas her notch count was 2 prior to that. I left her when I found out that this is how she coped with being hurt. Majority of the women nowadays have been getting attention 24hrs a day be it in person,social media,etc.Whe…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:57 AM
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I agree with everything you have said. Very well written and in detail. But, what about the analogy that I've mentioned in the previous comment? It's like buying a second or third hand car at full price (ie two dudes prior to me had got her for the cost of nothing while here I am investing everything by LTRing her). Of course she demonstrated and still does to this day high interest in me but having said that I would never think twice about a chick who has had 5 n count prior to me but all were …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:45 AM
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This is inaccurate because sex and promiscuity is different for men and women
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:42 PM
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"Had a tough breakup and wanted a slum buster" can you elaborate on this part?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:23 PM
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Girl B, of course! I do understand I have to accept the female nature. But, I look at LTRing a girl who has had 1 or more ONSs as buying a second hand car at full price. Am I incorrect in thinking this way?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:41 PM
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The glass is already broken,yes. But, I've come across women who haven't had ONSs but an absolute pain the ass in other aspects of relationship.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:38 PM
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If you present yourself as being sex positive and not judgemental of slutty behavior, women will reveal their true identities. However, if you're being seen as an LTR or any longterm investment from her end, what you said would be the end picture.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:37 PM
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Why would you be okay with them if there are little to no the red flags or vice versa?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:35 PM
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How would you define "damaged" in such a scenario?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:34 PM
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This hit home! HARD! Although, It wasn't a buddy of mine but some guy she met at a party. Also, the girl and I had sex on the day we met. But, it bothers me every now and then that she gave it away for the cost of nothing to someone else for free unlike when in an LTR wherein emotions and connection is involved. She never turns me down for sex unless literally ever. But, even the 1 time she turned down when she was genuinely tired after chores I felt so conflicted. I was having negative thoughts…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:32 PM
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I definitely agree that you shall never bend to the pussy. But you definitely need to internalize the concept of AWALT and love women as they are. Once you realize the nature, you look at them like children. Of course there's gonna be an absolute inhuman abomination every now and then but, you definitely love a slut for a slut and a housewife for a housewife while the are in their respective "phase". Enjoy the flavor but never forget to not emotional invest yourself. Have a great day!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:38 PM
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Stories such as these remind me to stay on top of my game even though my LTR worships me like I'm her god. Always gotta remember "that's how she feels NOW"
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:08 PM
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Stay strong brother! I can only imagine the trauma you had to go through but more power to you for doing the right thing and not simping even though it meant you losing the world that the kid is to you. Proud of you brother!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:50 PM
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Dude!!!!!! I'm high as a kite! This sent shivers down my spine! Goosebumps!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:06 PM
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This gave me a redpill erection! A1 brother!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:02 PM
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Yes sir
/r/askTRP19/07/20 02:58 PM
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The setting was different and I've never escalated it when I knew the chick had a boyfriend because it morally fucked with me somewhere that I wouldn't want to be someone who ruined another guys "life". I feel that we as men are in this together. However, because of the anger within me I have punished chicks brutally in her who had previously cheated in their relationships. I need to find a way to let go of this pent up anger but as for now I see women who've cheated in their past as useless fil…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 02:56 PM
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I truly wonder how hard it is getting day by day for men of high standards to find a chick LTR worthy let alone marriage.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 02:50 PM
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I understand you're hurting and I've been there too! But, trust me brother we've got it easy, read the other comments. Dudes have been to hell and back!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 02:45 PM
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LMAO, this very easily could be a good porn storyline!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:50 PM
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At least she was kind enough not to turn you into a full time cuck.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:49 PM
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Sorry to say that she already had him lined up and was just waiting for the right time to end things. Read the sidebar and other replies on this thread. Your at least took a month(that you know of) to move on. Learn and grow
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:16 PM
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Tell me you kicked her to the curb next moment you found out
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:14 PM
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Big oof
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:13 PM
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LMAO I wanted to get to know a few experiences but these are absolutely brutal! Glad to be on the "learning from others mistakes" part of the equation.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:12 PM
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Good lord! I do understand AWALT and hypergamy. But these are straight up cold! No mercy nor ethics whatsoever! Absolutely barbaric.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:10 PM
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I wonder how many guys are on the other end of such calls oblivious to everything and fantasizing about their "oneitis" while she's being plowed by a total stranger.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:05 PM
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This went from 0 to 100 pretty quickly!
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:03 PM
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Straight up!
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:52 AM
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I did that just now after posting this upon proofreading it for errors Edit: thank you for the reaffirmation
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:52 AM
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Teach me your ways sensei!!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:15 PM
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I definitely resonate with your initial as well as the second response. I was rejected hard from 18 - 22 when I was chubby skinny fat. Ever since I started pursuing bodybuilding religiously and started using steroids, I've become a different human. IOIs everywhere from every direction. I've LTRd a HB9 who 28 with a notch count of 4 (verified by her entire laptop and phine WhatsApp history dating back to 2015 without her knowledge as I'm an engineer as well). I feel that such a woman is next to i…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:36 PM
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You're definitely not fun at parties! On a more serious note, I agree with what you're saying but life's to short and I wish to or at least will make an attempt to eat my cake and have it!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:48 PM
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Amen! Very well!!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:45 PM
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Right on point! Fuckin A brother!! I don't know who you are but you my man have just fuelled the fire in me! Bravo!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:45 PM
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If in case she ever busts me, I'll leave her for good. I see no point in being with someone who is aware that I've broken their trust. Everything right from shit tests to general behavior will be altered from thereafter. Better to leave it altogether then. I wish to stay with her because of the amount of progress I've made in my personal life and passion as I'm no longer vetting for an LTR and am completely satisfied with her. It's just that my supraphysiological hormone levels have made it next…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:39 AM
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Thanks for the input. Please do read my reply to the previous similar comment. That would elaborate the situation I'm in.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:58 AM
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I've read uncle Vasya's guide and slowly tried to ease her into it but she loves me so very "monogamous-ly" that she wouldn't want to share me with anyone. I tried slipping hints about this overtly and covertly but she's vehemently against even the slightest thought of me with another woman. All her friends including her own cousin sister were all over me when they met me in person. Her friends would blatantly tell her that they found me attractive when she put up stories of mine on her social m…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:56 AM
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I would never get involved with anyone who has more than one social circle common with mine. Shit's too risky man! But, now you're wiser. More power to you.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:58 AM
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This is what I fear tbh. I may cover every single track of mine but ultimately if the girl I'd be banging on the side decides to snitch on me because I wouldn't be with her long term. All hell would break loose. The last girl I banged just once(right before I met my LTR) asked if I'd be willing to marry. FFS I wouldn't even consider her a plate, let alone an LTR or marriage!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:56 AM
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Straight to the point! Thanks kind stranger!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:41 AM
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Thanks for the input. Did you do cheat instinctively or did it happen eventually with an acquaintance? How did you get caught? How do you suggest I cover my tracks from your experience and how you proceeded with it?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:40 AM
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Would you please elaborate as to how it affected you? Were you caught or are you internally guilty/conflicted?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:38 AM
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Thanks man, much appreciated! Will do
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:06 AM
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Thanks for your input, I just feel that giving into the argument and attention inspite of bad behavior on her part(she could've told like a mature adult but lashed out) would destroy my frame completely. Also, thanks to RP she viewed me as a very mature and conscious person but, this approach would contradict that? PS: Im not questioning your suggestion, I'm just clearing the doubts inside me.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:52 AM
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Yes, I do want an LTR, and I prefer having her is because finding an LTR and training her from ground up is so much work. Also, spinning plates with no connection or mutual growth is not my thing. How do you suggest I proceed salvaging the relationship?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:37 AM
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Very true. With all said and done she sees me or saw me as an alpha until this happened. I understand the whole wall nearing fact, but do I salvage this by reaching out?(which seems like further losing frame as she went as far as asking time) do I just take this as a lesson and separate and proceed spinning plates?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:25 AM
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True af! I hate this texting shit! She's smart af( a scientist actually) but when it comes to shit like this, she gets mad and defensive... That's why I was hoping to get any suggestions for witty replies to not break frame and at the same time not come off as too much of a douche
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:28 PM
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I totally understand what you're saying. I'm just trying to give a witty reply to her texts without being an absolute douche and at the same time not being too needy.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:22 PM
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LMAO and ignore rest of the texts altogether?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:21 PM
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LMFAO! LTR's sister
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:41 AM
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This I agree, I've developed oneitis for her because she's done so much for me( changed her career path for me, rescheduled work to make time for me, doesn't let me pay for dates or trips, showers me with gifts while I've never gifted her except for her birthday) and in this day and age finding a HB8 with a low n count(4) who does all this is literally next to impossible.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:40 AM
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Isn't acknowledging bad behavior and giving attention against the red pill?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:33 AM
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I get your point, but I'm a semi pro bodybuilder and have girls throw themselves at me daily, even my LTR's friends and own sister hit on me. My LTR feels that I'm literally drowning in pussy and doing her a favor by being with her. My question here is not about maintaining abundance in LTR, it's about the desire dynamic Rollo states. When my LTR sees me as a Chad and AF why would she shit test me or try to beta fy me every now and then?( I want this shit testing to end is all)
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:32 AM
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She's my LTR bro and we're exclusive to each other
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:16 AM
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Understood! The reason I'm getting furious and butthurt is because of Rollo tomassi's YouTube video desire dynamic. He says that when a woman wants to fuck someone she's gonna make it happen and fuck his brains out but when a woman sees a guy as boyfriend material or LTR she's gonna make shit tests and what not to gain his attention and/or fuck him( I've never let her weaponize sex and always had her give me sex on a plate).
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:39 AM
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Thanks for the reply man, to be precise,the conversation happened when I was on my way home from hers and I dropped her at work. Before I dropped her she said that she's hurt the fact that I'd be willing to leave her inspite her having done so much for me( I've never bought her a gift except for her birthday, she showered me with all kinds of gifts, cooks for me, gifted my sister and always showed up when I was free and not the other way around... She went as far as postponing her academic plans…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:52 PM
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Just like I have questioned every other comment on this thread, will I be able to ever accept it and move on for she has every single attribute of a unicorn except for the ONS. Equal amount of me wants to be with her and also break it off. I can't deny the fact that I've developed oneitis for her as in today's scenario it's virtually impossible to find an upwards of HB9 DTF 24/7 without a wild past.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:30 AM
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How much I wish this was the case. I've even had opportunity to have a threesome ONS but could not do it because it felt more like a glorified masturbation as I wasn't into either of the females nor did I know them prior to that particular party.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:44 AM
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Thanks man you perfectly put into words how my thoughts have been ever since I've known about her past. Have you had any experience with such an issue? How did it end up?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:39 AM
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I believe that this is the reason more than any other. She's been nothing but faithful and literally possesses every unicorn quality, is there anyway for me to get over this?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:28 AM
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I've been with 3 women before her although not ONS. I've got more than a few HB8s DTF. On top of all this, the current LTR has all the makings of a unicorn except for the fact that she's had two ONS prior to meeting me. Is there anyway to get over the past and be with her the way I was before I knew all this?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:25 AM
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So you mean to say that no matter how many girls I fuck I wouldn't be able to come to terms with a girl who has sexual partners outside LTR?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:23 AM
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Thanks for handing my ass back to me man, the fact that I'm getting worked up over 4 is fuckin pathetic now that I see it from a different perspective.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:20 AM
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Thank you for your detailed reply. By far the most comprehensive answer! I wish people on trp were more like you instead of such intense hatred. Yes, I'm from a metropolitan city as such. She's a wonderful girl and as a matter of fact I've acted like a fucking ass to her multiple times and despite her higher SMV and unicorn qualities, I've always had the upper hand in the relationship. I always lead and take action in the relationship. I'm being very open and vulnerable here but I don't let the …
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:03 AM
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I don't care if she fucked more guys, the fact that she had sex outside LTR, in fact I wouldn't even give a fuck about fWbs, the whole idea that she gave herself up to a ONS where the guy had to put minimal to no effort is what bothers me.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:38 AM
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I live in India and we both are hindus
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:36 AM
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I have no wish to go on sexcapades. I've got a passion and wish to pursue it to the fullest.My question is whether this fuckin amazing relationship that I've got be ruined by me dwelling on her past? Do I need to give it time for me to overcome these intrusive thoughts or should I break up and seek someone else with similar morals or the last resort where I raise my n count such that a girl's past no longer bothers me?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:35 AM
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