BulletReaper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Alright keep crying on the internet over a problem that has nothing to do with you lmao The unemployed are wild	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:33 PM
-1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Imagine I walked by your house with a window open and took pictures of you getting dressed Are YOU stupid? Her job was to leave the food at the door and leave. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:05 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Who cares? Why was she taking pictures of a man INSIDE his own home?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 07:53 PM
21	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Your entire argument is “more gas lighting” on every comment lol wild	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 07:44 PM
10	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right White knight syndrome is a helluva drug	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 07:44 PM
1	Women don't have better emotional intelligence then men. I was honestly about to make a post about this too cause you’re are absolutely 100% correct It literally makes me cringe now whenever I see or hear a woman complain about emotional intelligence. Like if you had emotional intelligence then you would make better decisions in the dating market. It’s like how some dumb people have to constantly tell everyone how smart they are. If you have to tell people how smart you are, then you’re probably not that smart to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 11:34 PM
12	got 300 likes on a Thailand dating app with women aged 18-24. 0 Likes on Tinder in Europe. im in my 30's. lol have you actually talked to the matches in Thailand? Hate to break it to you but most of them are just on there to charge lonely men for the “GF experience” or they’re sex workers However yes if you are a European man you will easily pull in Asian countries you just need to be careful and avoid touristy areas.	/r/seduction	17/09/25 10:22 PM
2	At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women? Early 20’s and then again early 30’s	/r/seduction	05/09/25 01:22 AM
3	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Well might be time to start “testing the waters out” before you commit to a full gulp of maybe poison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 01:11 AM
8	The reality of dating for men Never once stated that in my post but how nice of you to project and bring up that statement. Never said these men are all terrible but Most men who are both attractive and financially stable are going to have plenty of options. I know plenty of men who make upwards of $200k a year or more and most are perfectly content with living the bachelors life. And why wouldn’t they? They have even more options available than the women they date or sleep with. It’s basic economics. But yes there are good …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 08:05 PM
4	CMV: Location is more important than looks or anything else when it comes to dating Living in a large city as a man blows for dating unless you’re in the elite. You can have plenty of options to choose from but that doesn’t matter if all your options are pursing the same type of people. In a smaller city yes you have less options, but you also have less competition to deal with. And at the end of the day for men it really is a competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:42 PM
18	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Only difference is women regularly find clean drinking water while men die from dehydration	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:13 PM
16	The reality of dating for men In a traditional marriage I would agree with you, for modern relationships I absolutely disagree. What is a woman bringing to the table in a relationship??? So far all I’ve seen is men getting screwed over left and right and dumping their wallets out for women who don’t care and monkey branch to the better guy as soon as they can. If modern women claim men aren’t doing enough it’s only because they continue to allow behavior from men they deem “worthy” while the men who are putting in the effort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:07 PM
8	What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman? Let’s be real, would you really date the socially awkward McDonald’s employee still living with his parents in his 20’s? Cause men would date the female version of that in a heartbeat as long as she’s at least cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 11:12 PM
2	It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years. I know plenty of socially awkward loners who are successful literally just look at any computer science major. Most of these guys are sitting in front of a computer screen all day everyday and have no social lives. Most are making above 6 figures. Some how you all seem to want to justify being a poor student in school and it shows. Unless you are trying to work in a field that requires a high degree of social competency (i.e. Law, business, finance, customer relations, communications) then no, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 04:39 PM
9	It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years. No you do not. I was a total loner in high school with no friends, in college I came out of my shell and had a very large social circle and regularly partied. Then I went back to being a loner after college but I’m still pretty successful. Making a 6 figure salary and have my own place close to the beach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 06:44 PM
2	Why not many women-only communities? Lesbian divorce rates are 3 times higher than that of gay men. Not saying it’s a fact but we can draw from this data that generally most women don’t actually get along with one another compared to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 06:41 PM
3	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior That’s prison. You on the outside fantasizing about dick. That’s gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 06:39 AM
2	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior Today OP realized he was actually a closeted homosexual his whole life. Congrats buddy. Also fyi if you really were straight and struggling with women then just fuck a hooker 😂 not that complicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 06:38 AM
0	CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about dating Why would you think a gender that is so obsessed with the way everything looks in the world wouldn’t care how you look? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 07:14 PM
1	CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women? There was no evolutionary need for men to be attractive until recent years. Men mated based off their ability to provide. Now that women can provide for themselves they don’t need providers, as such their mating strategies have changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:46 PM
9	Most men cause their dating issues The funny thing is that all these types of women you have listed also have ludicrously high standards LOL. Most single mothers are looking for a wealthy dude to take care of them or act as a support system, most obese women are looking for big tall/strong men that can handle their weight, most high n count women prefer to fuck hot dudes. What high standards do men have? I know men who will literally date or fuck any women lol. I’ve seen tons of good looking and successful dudes with average wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 06:18 AM
1	Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weight The simple solution is to stop being dependent on dating apps which is where women are filtering on that. Go outside and talk to a woman shorter than you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 05:02 PM
19	A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong way It’s simple. They want attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 07:31 PM
3	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? The concept of actually “transferring your consciousness” is purely science fiction. Even modern day computers don’t work on the premise that they transfer files between your Hard disk. When a file is transferred a copy of that file is made and moved while the original is deleted. So if technology ever advanced to the point where humans could made a perfect copy of the human consciousness, it would just be a copy at the end of the day and nothing more. As you stated the real person would probabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:24 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? So basically China will rule the earth	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:20 PM
1	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. No it sounds like you were trying really hard to be some FDS chick and then you did the complete opposite and it worked. Welcome to the real world, where men love women who put some degree of effort in and don’t play games. surprise surprise. You’re not being a “pick me girl” this is how any person should behave today if they want to be in a modern relationship. Both sides should be reciprocated and respectful with a mutual level of attraction. Your previous encounters sound like you just wanted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 04:43 PM
–	Men and women have an unforgiving view of each other Absolutely agree with you. The problem however stems from the fact that most of these people aren’t getting their needs met while complaining about it. It’s okay to be attracted a tall man or a younger attractive women or want someone wealthy etc, the issue is that most of these people aren’t getting what they want out of it and then running to the world and crying about it rather than opening up their options or working on themselves to achieve what they want. Instead we constantly hear both si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 06:06 PM
2	Is is true that being a single mother penalizes a woman more than dating than being a single father does for men? One aspect could be social proofing for the men. Similar to how when a man is in a relationship he’s seen as more attractive. If a man was married or had a child to some women they view him as more attractive because he already accomplished what many of these women are looking for. So he’s seen as more desirable now for having marriage and child raising experience. From the outside perspective of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 05:09 PM
5	Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation. Yes and your studies literally prove my point: “The least vulnerable were women who were employed before the break up and those with a tertiary education. The most vulnerable were women without a job before the break up, and older women with school-age children.” As I stated above the women struggling are ones who had no education or career or they had very young children. The old age women with school aged children is a valid excuse, but why don’t these modern age women have careers? Why don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:16 PM
2	Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation. Lol their husbands are lower income. They’re both literally drive beat up shit cars and yes, it does look like they’re living out of them. Literally the wives are driving nicer cars then the husbands 😂 Also the kids are literally teenagers soon to go off to college. I work from home and I’ve knocked on their door a couple times in the middle of the day. Both of them are always passed out sleeping. They don’t even need to take their kids to school cause it’s within walking distance. No they simpl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 05:45 PM
3	Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation. That’s probably because most of these women don’t have an education, careers, or a work ethic. I live in a fairly wealthy neighborhood and my neighbors are two unemployed divorced women. Gee I wonder how they’re paying their $6k a month rent and taking care of 3 kids for the last 2 years without ever lifting a finger Thing is eventually their money is going to dry up and I would not be surprised at all to see them getting kicked out since neither one wants to get a job	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 04:50 PM
–	Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle. You do realize we can say this about literally every religion as well right? Just because there are small percentage of psychos who do extreme things in the name of some book they read does not mean they speak for the rest of a community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 11:19 PM
5	Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries? You’re joking right? Maybe not on the site but I see plenty of female “passport bros” in India every time I visit. Indians are obsessed with Americans and Europeans. However I really don’t think you would like the vast majority of Indian men, especially on arranged marriage sites. Though my friend did find a nice Indian American guy on one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 04:34 PM
0	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” Well fact of the matter is I still see plenty of tall obese men getting dates, having sex, and having healthy children with petite young women. I don’t see a whole lot of obese women swimming in options or having a myriad of healthy kids. We can argue all day about how unfair or hypocritical it is but that’s just the way life works. I could sit around crying all day that it’s unfair I was born short and stick thin as a man but i don’t really give a shit. At least all these obese man and women ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 09:48 PM
2	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” Of course, and sexual dimorphism. Women want either a big or a tall man. Men want a small, or petite women. To say that men are wrong for wanting that but women are justified is just flat out hypocrisy. As a short skinny dude I constantly get shamed for my height and weight. Both of which are out of my control since I suffer from Crohn’s which I inherited genetically. Regardless people are going to get shamed no matter what. The point is to understand why and either accept it or work on yourself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 07:51 PM
0	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” Right but there are literally tons of fertility drugs that can increase sperm production. I’m not saying fat dudes are better or anything btw, in my book anyone who’s obese should take a long look in the mirror and be ashamed instead of trying to pass it off as a “body positivity” movement. But to answer your question, yes obese women will always experience more social consequences for their obesity because there are plenty of real world consequences to being pregnant and obese. On top of that f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 07:41 PM
3	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” Having a low sperm count just means a man has to try harder. Being obese and pregnant have a very long list of complication including: miscarriages, still births, birth defects, and more. An obese man’s only problem is struggling to produce enough sperm which he can take medication to treat. Sorry to say there is no medication for reversing a miscarriage due to being obese and pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 07:26 PM
8	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” Bro my scrawny ass can’t even get a fat girl so what should I do? Fat women flat out reject me for being too skinny. Not much I can do about my crazy stomach problems. Shorter thin girls similar to me always want a big guy. Basically if you’re a short skinny dude there are no options. I know fat and obese dudes who perform better at dating simply because women want a big man. So being a fat man isn’t really a disadvantage. Being a fat women however is a disadvantage in the dating market, because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 06:53 PM
2	Do you believe the women on amiugly? Most of them are average or women who lost a lot of weight so yeah I do believe some of them. If they’re hot then something is probably very wrong with their personality or they’re just hella insecure pick me girls Edit: looks like the hot ones are mostly onlyfans creators, color me surprised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 05:33 PM
1	Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? Well that was the problem, I never gained any weight. I continually got stronger to the point that people were accusing me of taking steroids. Which is hilarious cause if I had been juicing back then I’m pretty sure I would’ve actually gained weight. Also I forgot to note those are my 3-5 rep maxes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 05:17 PM
1	Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? I’m 5’6. Yeah I had a few people telling me that too back in the day but then covid happened and I just kind of got sick of training. At least some of the beaches were still open so I could pop down for a surf. Surfing is perfect for me since I’m light enough to float on just about any size board and still strong enough to paddle myself out. The weather however can sometimes lead to dry spells. Definitely would like to get back in the gym again since I’m still paying for a membership lol but wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 10:29 PM
2	Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? I’m still undergoing a lot of testing so unfortunately my doc won’t even give me any meds to treat my symptoms. I’ve just been trying to cut back on gluten and dairy lately and praying for the best. Unfortunately even before my symptoms used to flare up constantly I was a total gym rat and consuming 4-5k calories a day. I could deadlift 4x my weight, squat 3x, and bench 2x, but my weight never increased passed 125 pounds. After a while I just kind of got sick of lifting and took up surfing full …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 06:32 PM
–	Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? I’m a fit and successful guy. I surf, play the guitar, work in tech making 6 figures. But sadly I’m short and have IBS making it next to impossible for me to gain weight. I’ve approached some of the bottom barrel women and have women flat out tell me to my face that I’m too short or too skinny, that they don’t like brown men, etc. I’m pretty much succeeding in every aspect of my life but I still get rejected even by low tier women. Nah I can see why a lot of guys are just opting out. Here in Los…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 05:51 PM
–	“NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!” Not every quiet nerd is a self proclaimed “nice guy” like Elliot rodgers lol. In fact that guy wasn’t even a quiet nerd, he was a rich good looking white dude living on the beach with a bmw. I went to school with him, never met him but I knew people who knew him. Most people claimed that guy was a psycho from the moment they met him. He wasn’t really a “nice guy” dude was just straight up crazy from the start so no one really paid attention to him or liked him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/23 04:09 PM
–	White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian men Was just about to comment this ha. No one ever sexualizes Indian men. It’s always whatever the media tells women is hot. And sadly we’re still tech support and nerdy doctors in the eyes of Hollywood. Hell I knew a 6’4 Indian doctor who was absolutely ripped and even this guy told me he would struggle from time to time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 09:01 PM
1	Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynist I knew a guy who used to be a Virgin blue pulled yuppie feminist. Now he harasses women and gets all the girls. Guy even recently beat the shit out of his ex and the girl still loves him. I’ll never understand it. I know not all women are like that but it’s insane how many women love the agro douche bag archetype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 08:47 PM
–	Question for Women - Are the Majority of Men too ugly to date or hook up with? Dude before i was in a relationship tinder was actually so easy and I’m average and short. Lately though it’s insane… I used to be able to at least get 1 or 2 dates a month and now I’m lucky if I even get a match once a month. The conclusion: get off the apps, I know it’s hard but unless you live a super interesting life and document it all over social media, or unless you’re insanely good looking the apps are a joke now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 08:01 PM
1	When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to women Well at the end of the day that is because “it is your choice” because that is the only factor within your control. If I had the option to buy a reliable Toyota Camry or an expensive sports car that I know is going to require expensive repairs along with it, and I still chose to go with the sports car then guess what? That was MY CHOICE. If later down the line I complain “wow this sports car sucks it’s always broken and needs repair” well everyone is going to tell me to stfu cause at the end of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 06:28 PM
6	CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they age It depends. To some extent it’s harder due to lack of time if you’re successful and yes your options do slightly diminish unless you want to be that creepy guy in his 30’s/40’s dating a college girl (unless you’re Leo I guess). From my perspective getting dates was easier when I was younger, but finding a serious partner was harder. Today at 30 years old I find getting a date to be much more difficult, but the probability of forming a relationship from these dates has gotten much easier now that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 05:54 PM
8	The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime. And yet there are loads of site’s dedicated to finding out if women are all dating the same guy… lol Also idk how many times I have to say this but any source of data based off word of mouth, I.e. asking people directly or surveys, is going to be false. Men are going to exaggerate their encounters and women are going to down play them. Your sources are not plausible to drawn any conclusions from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 05:49 PM
0	CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect. Well the sad hard truth is that it takes most men a lot of work to glow up to the point that they no longer become invisible to women where as women are born with value. When a woman is in her late teens/ early 20’s she’s in the prime of her life and validates that as an excuse to be super picky and do whatever she wants. But most men don’t reach their primes until their late 20’s or 30’s. Why shouldn’t we act the same way when we’re in our primes? Why should we be the mature ones who settle dow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 05:42 PM
2	Can women be creepy? Absolutely. When I was in college we had this neighbor who had a huge crush on one of our friends. She would literally pop by randomly every day to ask if he was around and it was so creepy like she was stalking him. They finally met and he rejected her and told her he wasn’t interested in her. The behavior didn’t end there sadly. She continued to drop by our apartment randomly asking if her crush was coming by even after he rejected her to her face. Even after we MOVED AWAY she found out where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 05:31 PM
–	A lot of men are jealous of women And men are still expected to spend many hours of their entire lives working and studying and going to nice schools so they can afford to have their own place, own car, etc. you think that’s cheap? The expectations go both ways, this isn’t the 70’s where only 15% of my income is going to rent lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 05:28 PM
0	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy I literally do not know a single man who wants an anorexic stick thin girl unless they’re some Patrick Bateman psycho. This is literally a stigma created by women like the Barbie theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 05:25 PM
–	CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time. Not many men pre internet age were randomly walking up to women at the grocery store and asking for their numbers lol. Don’t believe everything you see in movies. Most relationships back then formed through social events or a friend introducing them. Or if they were foreign, they may have been arranged. Cold approaching didn’t really become a common thing until the PUA scene started to become popular in the 90’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 05:15 PM
2	If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks? You should obviously go to school get a job and find a stable career If you’re really that attractive you can still enjoy the sugaring life and have an education. I know literally tons of women who have done this, one is even in medical school now and is dating a doctor. Also hate to break it to you but your looks aren’t going to last forever. Even the top 1% on OF will eventually hit the wall (whatever age that may be for them) and find themselves quickly broke and void of any support other tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 08:14 PM
7	Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive? There is literally no response to this lol. Everything men do for their appearance is to maximize their attraction and looks, or, they don’t care about their appearance at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 08:14 PM
11	TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds true Agreed. Back in my college days many of the women in our social circle were rampant cheaters. Whenever we’d call them out they’d make up some bullshit excuse: “oh it was a one time thing so it’s not cheating” “He wore a condom so it didn’t count” “It was just oral sex in a bathroom stall, that’s not cheating!!” “We just kissed!!! I’m not a cheater” “He was from out of town/ country so it’s not a big deal” Ironically most of these women are married now but hey that’s not my business. That’s not t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 07:26 PM
1	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Nah he has no shame. I’ve seen him pull married women at work, at the grocery stores, even once at a gas station he got a phone number and she had a ring on. He is an extremely good looking guy however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 04:56 PM
169	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? I know a “red pill” guy like this in real life. I thought he was joking at first until I went to the bars with him. Sure enough, every time I went out with him he’d bring a married woman back home with him. It was his kink to get married woman to cheat. Another time I was hanging out with a buddy who isn’t red pill. He hooked up with a married woman who had 2 young kids. Even called her kids and husband from his place to let them know she was staying at a friends place. Another good looking frie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:38 PM
1	People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing today Man my neighbors at my parents house were literally just waiters/ waitresses. They had no college education and I think one of them didn’t even have high school. For reference my parents house is now worth close to a million dollars. The people who used to live there were taking loans left and right and when the 2008 financial crisis happened they were kicked out of their home. But still it shows just how fortunate the boomer generation was. They were able to buy homes on basically minimum wage …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:15 PM
2	Do older women have less value in the dating market than younger ones ? 2 years makes a huge difference for women and 2 inches can makes a huge difference for a man. Ironic	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 11:01 PM
1	Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their lives I definitely would consider an unemployed women to a be loser that I wouldn’t want to date. I’m not interested in being a woman’s father/atm. That’s being said however what you’re asking for will never happen. There will always be men simping for these women regardless of how big of a loser they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 07:38 PM
2	The existence of a concept such as "Madonna/whore complex" shows that society demonizes male sexuality. Yes welcome to the 21st century. Men will always experience a higher consequence for their actions then women. Even the judicial system gives women breaks for the same crimes committed by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 11:15 PM
31	Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a man Yes but the more “masculine” a man is society today deems him as toxic. The internet and media have brainwashed men into believing that being an alpha male is toxic. Yet these are the men who always get the girls. Sadly far too many young men have become highly submissive due to the vilification of masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 10:51 PM
1	Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractive Lol I’ve literally found women on tinder who are handicapped/ disabled who have unrealistic standards. Like how you gonna be in a wheel chair and demanding dudes over 6ft 😂😂😂 https://imgur.com/a/ccFKN6r	/r/seduction	26/10/22 04:38 PM
1	A high number of past sexual partners is unattractive to both men and women. Women are just more forgiving of it. The reason women are more forgiving to high n counts is due to social proofing. Women don’t want to be with a sexless Virgin. If a man has plenty of other women interested in him he’s demonstrating a high value and showing social proofing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 04:17 PM
14	The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits. Dude I was just thinking this today holy shit. This guy I know literally beat his ex up and now she wants him back even more. Also when he first broke up with her he flat out told her she isn’t hot enough for him and some how she wants him even more? And this isn’t the first time I’ve seen this type of behavior from women. It’s just so mind boggling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 05:20 AM
2	How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait? You can absolutely be picky and have a high n Count. I know plenty of girls who have a very specific “type” they will date and they refuse to date anyone else. These men are generally attractive and successful and usually not interested in a relationship. So they just end up fucking these girls and moving on. Why is it these type of men are less likely to want relationships? Pretty easy. Most men have zero power in the sexual market place when they start dating unless they were already born with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 08:15 PM
3	Something that I have noticed on breakups. This girls whole post history is depressing lmao. Like get over it. Wether they’re attractive or not getting dumped by someone you care about sucks regardless. If anything getting broken up by a beautiful women sucks more cause you know she has a mile long list of suitors waiting to wife her up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:49 AM
1	The age of consent should be changed to 25. The brain does not fully develop until then and so anyone over the age of 25 who dates 18-24 years old are preying on children. So basically you want to be treated like a child until you’re 25….. lmao ok good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 08:18 PM
2	Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity? Because it’s easy for women to get sex. I know plenty of women who aren’t even attractive and get laid at least once a week with a different dude. For a man to achieve this he has to have all his shit together. He has to be good looking, smart, successful, charismatic, good social skills, etc. it takes a lot of work for even the highest value men to have sex on a regular basis with multiple women. As a women all you need to do is wait for a man to approach you and decide if you like him enough t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:28 PM
3	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Women complaining about how they’re sick of being judged for their looks while they proceed to judge men based off their height and income. (And looks as well)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:45 AM
1	Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like? I recently changed professions from chemist to engineer. Definitely notice more matches and messages then before. Annoyingly though my profession is in software engineering so some girls immediately think “computer geek” even though I’m highly athletic and surf.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 07:17 PM
1	Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex? Sex is a strong motivator. Men tend to have more open tastes because they want to have sex with lots of women. Women don’t feel this desire as much as men so they tend to cling to a specific type because they feel that is the only type they will satisfy all their needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 11:05 PM
1	How do you stop putting hot girls on a pedestal? By realizing that most of them aren’t really that hot under the pounds of makeup and multiple Instagram filters they use. Most of these women are honest to god fake, they will literally look like an entirely different person once the mask comes off. After all a while you start to realize that a pretty face really isn’t worth much.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 08:11 PM
2	Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison? Lmao it’s like the tall standard. Women who claim to have dated a guy who’s 6’5 and now can no longer date any man beneath that. It’s really just an excuse to be picky. Once she gets older she will start to realize how ludicrous it is to have such a narrow minded “type” for attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 07:47 PM
1	Why do girls still want to be friends after rejecting you? I have become good friends with several women who I dated and rejected me. And in turn they introduce me to their single friends and tell them how great I am. Not everyone is going to like you and attraction may come and go. Just live in the moment and enjoy whatever relationship you form with people, wether it’s platonic or not. If you don’t want to be friends with her then don’t, no one is forcing you. I thought I could remain friends with my ex but ended up not working out so I let her go.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 05:17 AM
7	The root of a lot of misogyny is western society putting pressure on men to have sex as fast as they can. Was about to come and comment this. Even in some parts of India women are still basically sold off to men for ‘marriage’ and women are treated horribly even if they were the victims of sexual abuse. A lot of Women in America just love to complain. They have no idea what women in other parts of the world are experiencing and putting up with each day but apparently because a small handful of sexless losers decided to go on a shooting spree women defaulted that all men and misogyny are entirely to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 07:40 PM
3	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Because most people regardless of gender go stupid over someone attractive. The sad truth however is that there are far fewer attractive men in this world then women. And this has nothing to do with “men don’t try”. It’s purely biology. Men weren’t designed to be beautiful by evolution. We were designed to be providers. Women on the other hand evolutionary were designed to be attractive since men have always been visual creatures. Women fight over the top 20% of men because truth is only about 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:35 PM
1	Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less. Dude just look at her profile she’s a complete clown. All her posts complain about “incels” yet she actively posts nude pictures of her obese body and asks men to masturbate to her. She doesn’t want equality, she wants incels to worship her lmao. She’s definitely delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 10:30 PM
2	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? I’m 5’7. Most of the women I’ve dated have either been my height or shorter. Last girl I was in a relationship with was 5’3. It’s definitely harder but not impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 12:48 AM
2	Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from men I think if you actually asked trans people you may get a better idea. Ask the women who transitioned to men how their dating life changed now that they were perceived as men and ask the men who transitioned to women if they liked the attention they started to receive. Would be interesting to see the data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 06:19 PM
11	Q4ALL: How often do you see women who sleep with one guy fast and make others wait? Happened to me once with a girl I was super into in college. She made me take her out on all these dates and made up all these rules and after like 5 dates she ended up sleeping with (and dated) my buddy she just met at MY party cause he was hot and really tall lmao. I’m not even mad about it though, really showed her character and taught me to stay away from women like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 10:11 PM
2	What do you consider a high N-count? I’m 30M, I’ve been with 20-25 women and I personally don’t care about a girls n count as long as it isn’t something crazy like hundreds of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 10:04 PM
4	Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options. Strangely there are a lot of women I’ve met who have “education requirements” which to me is just bizarre. I’ve seen womens profiles state that their partner has to have a masters/PhD if they too have a masters/PhD. Seems a bit elitist if you ask me. I know plenty of guys with phds making pennies and plenty of guys with just a bachelors degree pulling in over 6 figures. At the end of the day however yes, an education does open up a lot of doors so to speak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 10:55 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? Yeah no doubt there are a lot of opportunities out here, much easier to meet people, but also lots of competition for men. Tons of male models and trust fund kids. Man I haven’t even told you the story about my old roommate the trust fund kid. Dude was in his 30’s, jobless, no career, but somehow was constantly dating the most beautiful women in LA. Guy was even openly cheating on all of them… I think it was 8 women? And some of them still wanted to keep seeing him just cause he was rich and tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 06:23 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? I live in LA. Lots of shallow people here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 06:09 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? That group of women I know are pretty much perpetually single. They dated a few dudes that qualified as their “type” when they were younger and now refuse to date any other type of guy in their 30’s. Those are the type of scenarios in which I would say someone’s standards are too high. These ladies have been single for ages aside from a few one night stands because they have unrealistic height standards. The girl who is a midget refuses to date any guy who isn’t at least 6’2, in the military, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 06:04 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? Ive met many women in my time who have also verbally stated they can only date men over 6ft tall. I’m friends with at least 5 women like this, one of them is literally considered a midget too and she refuses to date men under 6ft. So yeah, they definitely are out there and not just on the apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 05:55 PM
1	Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally? Most likely family influence. I grew up in a family which household chores were split up equally amongst everyone, including me once I was of age. It taught me the importance of doing chores and taking care of a household. Some people however, especially men, most likely grew up in a household in which their moms did everything. They didn’t experience it so it’s a bizarre concept to them most likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 05:29 PM
1	What standards do women have that are “too high”? I think the only physical standard that is too high for many women is height. I know not all women say this, but many have it as literally the first thing on their bio: “swipe left if you’re under 6ft tall” I mean idk about the world, but in America only about 15% of men are over 6ft. And that doesn’t include if they’re gay/straight, in the same age range as you, already in a relationship, etc. in actuality you’ve effective eliminated over 90% of potential partners just because you want a man ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 08:42 PM
1	Q4W. How hard do you think it is for men to date in modern dating between 1-10? Why? I’m literally still hearing nothing but excuses. Success doesn’t come to those who don’t improve themselves. If you aren’t happy with your outcomes, then you needs to work on yourself. No one ever solved any of their problems from just complaining on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 04:59 PM
1	Q4W. How hard do you think it is for men to date in modern dating between 1-10? Why? And there in lies YOUR problem. Who cares? Rejection is not the end of the world and if you’re over analyzing things then you’re setting yourself up for failure. The key is to not give a shit and get off Reddit debating about what you should’ve said or done on your last date to get laid. Just go out and have a good time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 04:28 PM
1	Q4W. How hard do you think it is for men to date in modern dating between 1-10? Why? Exactly this. Men who constantly complain about women having all the matches on OLD need to get off the couch. Women will always have an abundance of options this is just basic biology. If OLD isn’t working for you then time to get off the apps and actually start approaching women no matter how many rejections it takes. But the sad truth is most guys on here will get rejected once or twice and just give up and play video games for the rest of their life. It’s like shit bro women love guys who ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 04:02 PM
11	Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among women The other issue is that what qualities may make a man physically and sexually attractive may not be emotionally attractive and vice versa. It’s kind of a paradox. Women want emotional connection and intimacy but the men who express these qualities are rarely alpha males with chiseled bodies, huge cocks, and high incomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:46 PM
2	If women want equal roles in marriage they should take on equal roles in dating I think also a lot of women don’t really know what they’re doing with makeup (no offense) but not every girl is a makeup artist and that’s OK. There are many women I’ve seen who simply just go way too overboard when really all they needed was the bare minimum to look pretty. If a person is spending over an hour to get ready chances are they’re doing too much. Like a guy renting and wearing a tuxedo on the first date, it’s just way too much effort for a first date. That’s just my opinion though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 05:51 PM
1	If women want equal roles in marriage they should take on equal roles in dating I agree with you to an extent but the same thing could be said of men. We may not spend time getting ready but we are expected to put time into our careers in order to raise our SMV to even be qualified. For most men this takes a lot of time, most don’t reach this point until their 30’s. And in terms of cost we are expected to have a nice car and our own place and dress well, some guys may even need to invest in a personal trainer to get in shape. So it’s not as if we aren’t spending money and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 05:13 PM
2	Women would not give so much importance to getting old if male attention was not a priority for them I think the reason these women freak out is more due to envy. They envy that these young women are finding men that they can settle down with while they couldn’t. They envy the women who didn’t sacrifice their careers for romance and who found great partners. The simple truth however is that this is what most successful hard working men want, they want an energetic youthful fun girl who has plenty of free time. Not someone who’s buried in their career and may be carrying emotional baggage or alr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 04:07 PM
3	A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating apps You’ve just described 70% of the women I’m friends with. One girl I used to live with did this rampantly. Always picked the one dude out of all the dates she had just because he was hot, wealthy, and had a nice car. No matter how many times we tried to explain to her that these guys were just trying to hit it and quit it she just wouldn’t learn. I avoid women like her.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 05:44 PM
2	Men are basically treated as an employee in relation to women, most of the time. Truthfully there just really isn’t any benefit to being in a committed relationship as a man today. In the past the benefit was mutual. Men provided resources, women provided care. Men worked and payed for everything, while women cared for their partner and children. Today that is no longer the dynamic. Women now expect to still be given the same benefits of a traditional relationship, but now due to having their own careers and an abundance of options from OLD they no longer require the resourc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 03:27 PM
127	Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down. I was a drug dealer and cocaine addict in college and got laid left and right. But now that I have a 9-5, make 6 figures, and don’t abuse drugs, I struggle to date. It’s wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 07:44 PM
0	Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs. It is not that difficult to find a simple low paying job that offers health insurance. Some companies now a days even offer benefits to part time employees. Also idk about other places but in California if you have a low income you can get marketplace health insurance for dirt cheap. I was literally only paying $1 a month for blue cross blue shield when I was unemployed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 08:38 PM
8	Most men present themselves poorly in public. And yet when I dress well I get asked if I’m gay….	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 04:07 PM
1	Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts? I have honestly never cared. Usually women ask me and I just throw out a guess since I don’t even keep track myself. Who cares? As long as they’re clean that’s all that matters to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 08:35 PM
3	Education is the best dating strategy If you’re in Cali of course you need more than just the salary. You’re competing with trust fund kids and models and celebrities. I had a buddy who lived in Venice with this trust fund kid, dude was a butt ugly lookin meth head but he was insanely loaded and a “tortured artist” so women would swoon over him like crazy. He even openly admitted he gave all these girls STD’s and was cheating on all of them but they still kept coming back for him. And these were well to do women, like absolute dimes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 06:46 PM
2	How To Have Sex When You Live With Your Parents Cheap motels and Airbnb’s	/r/seduction	26/09/21 01:58 AM
1	22M virgin contemplating suicide. I’m a short underweight & unemployed 30 year old brown dude living at home with his parents. If I can get dates, so can you.	/r/seduction	14/08/21 04:30 PM
1	Poor timing lol Oh my bad I misread it. But ya I personally keep my phone notifications on sleep whenever I’m out of the house to avoid situations like that haha	/r/seduction	13/08/21 07:21 PM
12	Poor timing lol Sounds like she’s still interested. But future pro tip, turn off dating app notifications. Just leave the apps on your Home Screen so you can see if you have a new message or match.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 07:17 PM
2	Every girls is rejecting me for no reason I don’t know why people focus so much on approach. It’s clearly something you’re doing wrong. If you’re going out and having a good time and socializing with everyone you meet then women will approach YOU. Stop focusing too much on approaching random women and trying to get their numbers, it comes off creepy in most situations. It should be organic. Edit: I’m not saying don’t approach at all, just saying you shouldn’t be making that high of an effort and running up to every girl you see to get h…	/r/seduction	13/08/21 03:14 AM
3	“Don’t shit where you eat” is the stupidest advice I’ve ever heard in my life. When you make a six figure salary you will think differently.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 12:55 AM
2	“Don’t shit where you eat” is the stupidest advice I’ve ever heard in my life. I’m pretty sure this guy is fake lol. Look at his profile. He talks about losing his virginity to an escort and banging hundreds of women all within the span of like 2 years during a pandemic. Oh and he’s also apparently fucking his cousin on the reg ☠️	/r/seduction	04/08/21 11:25 PM
1	“Don’t shit where you eat” is the stupidest advice I’ve ever heard in my life. This guys literally talks about fucking one of his cousins in another post ☠️ How scarce are single women in your life that you need to sleep with your coworkers, bosses, and family members? You take shitting where you eat to the next level. You’re having massive diarrhea where you dine. If you have a shit job and don’t care then go for it. But some of us actually work in professional industries and make good money. All it takes is one complaint to wind up on the unemployment line or lose a lice…	/r/seduction	04/08/21 10:59 PM
5	Mentally I feel like a creepy old guy finding 20-somethings attractive. Society tells me that I should find more age-appropriate attraction and that I am a "creep" for seeing younger women as attractive. How do I get over these society-imposed beliefs? By leaving the house and talking to any cute girl I see. Dating apps also help but you need to have good pictures. My pictures are all of me doing my hobbies, so women tend to reach out to me first to ask about those. You don’t need a desirable life style bro. My most recent ex was a doctor dating my unemployed ass	/r/seduction	04/08/21 06:29 PM
11	Mentally I feel like a creepy old guy finding 20-somethings attractive. Society tells me that I should find more age-appropriate attraction and that I am a "creep" for seeing younger women as attractive. How do I get over these society-imposed beliefs? If you need to work on yourself man then do that. But just an FYI, you shouldn’t let these things stop you. I’m a 29 year old unemployed loser living at home with his parents and I can get dates easily. I’m not that good looking, I’m pretty short (5’7), I only weigh 110 pounds, and I’m also slightly balding. Don’t let life get you down Man. Confidence is the most powerful asset a man can have. Find hobbies that you’re passionate about (preferably ones women find attractive) and focus on those. F…	/r/seduction	04/08/21 05:38 PM
7	How MUCH Does Height Matter? Of course height matters. Just like to a man, a woman’s looks matter. Yeah it sucks we have no control over it but so what? The average women is like 5’4. If she says she only dates guys over 6ft then guess what? She’s a shallow pos and I wouldn’t want to date her anyways. Take it as dodging a bullet when a girl rejects you simply for your height. There are plenty of good women out there who don’t care. I’ve dated and slept with plenty of women taller than me.	/r/seduction	03/08/21 06:20 PM
3	Friday Date Night Gone Wrong Jesus this whole subreddit has turned into a bunch of clowns. You guys put way too much effort into this shit and sound like a bunch of douchebags. She wanted drinks and you took her out for dinner and now you’re asking all this extremely douchey shit just cause you paid and didn’t get laid. It’s not complicated. Go out, have fun, hook up. You don’t need amazing game or have to play douchey games with a women to get them into your bed lmao holy crap what is wrong with people today? If she’s not …	/r/seduction	03/08/21 03:00 AM
1	I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that? Lol I can’t help you with that. Hit the gym, find cool hobbies, and just work on yourself. If you have so many matches then why are you acting desperate? Just chill. I’m a 30 year old loser living at home with his parents, I have no job currently, I’m not rich or tall or that attractive, I only weigh like 115 pounds since all I do is surf, and women are constantly blowing me up to come chill at their place. Just work on yourself and being a fun chill person to be around. The women will come.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 07:52 PM
2	I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that? Idk when I was a 20 year old kid I was banging 40 year old milfs and cougars. Sounds more like you just need to get your shit together.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 07:29 PM
65	Is online dating a waste of time for guys? It’s a waste of time if you dedicate all your time and resources to it when you have nothing else…. Online dating should only be a supplement. Everything else should come first. Working on yourself, building a social circle, finding attractive hobbies and learning how to casually flirt with any women you meet, learning to be more approachable. These should always be the main focus. Online dating should basically just be a casual side hustle you use to supplement your game and dating life. That’s…	/r/seduction	02/08/21 05:25 PM