Bulleveland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why do men “neg” women? Negging doesn't work by lowering self esteem, it works by quickly filtering for women that already have self-esteem issues and are more likely to have sex to feel validated. It doesn't work on the majority of women and that's kind of the point. It's kind of similar to why scam emails are often poorly written and obvious scams to most people - they only want the most gullible people to call back because they're the most likely to pay into the scam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 03:26 PM
–	Being single and paying for it is far better than being a simp these days. Yes but they're both awful compared to being in a relationship with a woman that actually likes you. At least you get what you pay for with a prosti	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 02:22 PM
8	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes NEETs are a separate category and its understandable for nobody to want to date them. Boring nerds should excel in education and have stable careers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 05:10 PM
9	CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average Men I think OP has a point about hobby groups being a poor avenue to meet potential partners, unless that group has a large number of regular participants. I'll always stand by expanding your social circle though - even if direct matchmaking is uncommon, it still gives you access to meeting women with established social trust, which is a huge benefit to getting dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 07:47 PM
5	Why are women like this? Agreed, and I think in the context of "person tries thing 9 times, and has the same problem every time", then the response should really be on the solutions side as opposed to soothing side. At a certain point you're just encouraging future failure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 09:37 PM
6	The primary way to fix a good portion of dating issues in the next 30 years is to increase public transportation, third spaces, decrease cost of production and increase wages. A friend of mine is part of a local music collective that puts on free monthly concerts in the park with a mix of live bands and DJs. Virtually nobody under the age of 30 bothers showing up - it's mostly Millenials and Gen X. Gen Z just straight up doesn't put as much effort into group socialization	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:36 PM
8	When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ? Your experiences generally track with mine as a guy in his mid 30s, but it really seems like the younger generation is stunted in their social development. High schoolers now are entering fewer relationships and spending way less time socializing (in person), and they go into young adulthood without having the experiences that would lead them move past superficial judgements of compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 10:52 PM
9	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) This is hugely dependent on the setting and its general audience. But for generic advice to apply to the default for America, with its deep seated anti-intellectual culture, avoiding intellectual discussions most of the time is good advice for dating. You need to go out of your way to museum or university events (or similar) to find a population of people that might be more receptive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 02:42 PM
19	63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the most Shy/introverted women will get approached regardless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/23 02:13 PM