BullsYeet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Beginnings with my (37M) girlfriend (40M) still has me obsessed that she sees me as beta and this other guy as alpha. Made me wait 3 weeks, then slept with him first night. Help me get rid of that thought! My girlfriend is trans, and when we started dating she was still closeted, so she was my boyfriend. A lot of what we had in common at first was common experiences in our childhoods, but most of all she was never domineering. She generally was not possessive or controlling, she was very easygoing and confident, and it was a complete opposite demeanor from my parents. I used to always have issues with insomnia and yet whenever I came over to her place we’d cuddle and I’d fall asleep instantly. Whe…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/26 03:58 AM
5	Beginnings with my (37M) girlfriend (40M) still has me obsessed that she sees me as beta and this other guy as alpha. Made me wait 3 weeks, then slept with him first night. Help me get rid of that thought! You do two interesting things. You mention in the beginning that your wife did not pitch in for chores and caring for the child you had together. But your fixation is about sex. You are trying to use sex as some ruler to determine who much a person cares about you, and people don’t work that way. In my teen and young adult years I was controlled by abusive parents who tracked my every move through my phone. They beat and isolated me and CPS only escalated things to make my mom try to murder me. …	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/26 11:49 PM
7	Beginnings with my (37M) girlfriend (40M) still has me obsessed that she sees me as beta and this other guy as alpha. Made me wait 3 weeks, then slept with him first night. Help me get rid of that thought! Thank you for sharing your story. I am going to be very blunt though, part of the reason why you are struggling with this concept of value is because somewhere in your life you were taught not all humans have value. That is not true. Every single human being on this Earth has value. Any person who tries to convince you otherwise is a person looking to exploit others. This is one of your core operating beliefs you need to fix. My main gripe with the redpill is that most of that content is focused…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/26 08:01 PM
5	Beginnings with my (37M) girlfriend (40M) still has me obsessed that she sees me as beta and this other guy as alpha. Made me wait 3 weeks, then slept with him first night. Help me get rid of that thought! The thing is ‘redpill’ isn’t new, it’s the same patriarchal thinking men have had for centuries repackaged. It worked to an extent because you still live in a society that is patriarchal. Redpill is great if you want to feel good about yourself 100% of the time. But the reality is, no person lives a life like that. Suffering, regret, and self doubt are always a part of life. And deep down, we are wired for genuine relationships, because genuine relationships help us survive. Back then, you neede…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/26 05:10 PM
11	Beginnings with my (37M) girlfriend (40M) still has me obsessed that she sees me as beta and this other guy as alpha. Made me wait 3 weeks, then slept with him first night. Help me get rid of that thought! He’s probably an abusive/controlling person who needs to make himself a victim to justify needing control over another person. Op, You are thirty fucking seven. You need to stop with the games. Be direct with people, and take them at their word. If you cannot do that, you need therapy. Discernment is important, but that’s not the problem here. The problem is your instinct to make your love interest a villain for not immediately doing whatever is easiest for you. Love doesn’t make people bend to …	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/26 06:44 AM
6	Is this man red pilled ? I second this. In the meantime you’ll get to move on with someone new. The fact is this guy deliberately chose to sit down, learn how to emotionally abuse women, and chose to emotionally abuse you. That’s what redpill is. And the fact is, plenty of people are fucking normal and have no need to do this. I used to deal with a version of this except he was broke so he couldn’t really lead with money. But it was the same type of routine. I thought at the time ghosting was maybe cruel but the wake-up…	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/26 07:15 AM
2	Is this guy I’m talking to red pilled? Download dating apps and get over him. Don’t waste your time on him. You may miss him but in the long run you’ll see the bullet you dodged.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/26 04:20 AM
7	Red pillers are often miserable My mom tried to kill me and I had an abusive upbringing all my life till I got out and became financially independent. The first chance I got to afford therapy I sought it, and have been for years. I can’t imagine being able to afford it and not go, but my brother decides to use ChatGPT and alpha male influencers :/	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/26 03:36 AM
3	Why is it redpill guys tend to have more hookups or more causal sex partners ? A lot of emotionally immature people conveniently find god or have a great spiritual awakening, generally around that time consequences catch up to them. I think sometimes the cognitive dissonance between fucking a lot of people and thinking ‘hoes’ are the worst people around since hitler gets too great for them, so they had to pick between sex and hating women. And for some reason hating women triumphs over everything else. Basically all of these people are fucking lost and don’t know what to d…	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/26 05:16 AM