Bumble_bee_yourself Archive

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2	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? You don't understand FDS at all. The whole point of FDS is to find a partner who wants to be with you FOR REASONS OTHER THAN SEX. It is NOT to use access to sex to manipulate. If men think that all they need from a woman is sex, they are missing out on...literally everything else. Shared connection, loyalty, adventures, comradery, partnership, emotional fulfillment, affection, validation, family, deep intimacy, etc... If all a man wants is sex, then he should remain single and either try to hone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:22 PM
2	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? You're delusional. If you have to manipulate her, then it isn't real and will never be real and it will fall apart and be miserable. Just be yourself and look for a partner who is also being herself....if it clicks without manipulation, then you are more likely to have long term success. If you are worried about cheating, then choose someone with ethics and put in effort to make sure the relationship is healthy and that your partner feels content and valued within the relationship. It isn't rock…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 05:57 PM
3	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? It would be fun to discuss social trends, the inherent value of men versus women, and how dating strategies can be healthy. But here's the thing: your strategy is manipulative and deceptive in order to gain access to sex. You have blatantly declared that you would enjoy playing a game with women that you know are looking for committed long term relationships. You are highly unethical. You are either sociopathic, psychopathic, or a narcissist. I don't care which, it's all bad news. I hope FDSers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 03:18 PM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Let me predict your future: You choose a younger target. She is inexperienced and at first, your "training" is effective. She matures. She starts to notice that she's unhappy. She begins to realize that you keep putting your happiness first, always, and hers never seems to matter like yours does. Years into it, she's tired of looking at your ugly legs during 69, and tired of never getting foreplay, and tired of unfulfilling sex with you. Perhaps you're starting to get ED since you are older than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:54 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? You think you're the coach to your future life mate? 😂 WTF kind of nonsense is that? Are you planning on marrying a child or someone with special needs for some creepy reason? Good grief. People like you are why FDS exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:17 AM
4	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Purposefully manipulating women who have different goals than your goals is disgusting, not respectful. FDS women are not supposed to be lying or manipulating. They are supposed to be screening carefully and removing men who don't fit their ideal. People keep talking about the hypocrisy of FDSers having a dating pool, but men spin plates.....that they have sex with. The whole point of an FDSer cutting out men who are spinning plates is to make sure that he is chasing her and only her, as evidenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 05:51 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? So....people can't be child free?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 05:45 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Are you teachable? 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 05:41 AM
64	Does anyone have any articles pushing back against sex positivity? The key is 100% valuing the self. In general, someone who values themselves does not want casual sex where their needs are not being met, either sexually or within the context of intimacy and relationships, or worse, where they are endangered. Risks of casual sex for women: 1) unfulfilling sex 2) dangerous sex 3) ghosting 4) booty calls and only booty calls 5) unreciprocated emotional feelings 6) unplanned pregnancies (even today) 7) STIs Sex positivity in its current flavor is a scam and the on…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 08:41 PM
24	How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”? Weaponized incompetence and DARVO You ask him to make that minor repair. Days and then weeks go by. You ask about it again, trying not to nag. He still doesn't do it. Months have gone by. You ask one final time. It doesn't get repaired. Finally, you cave and you fix it. "I said I was going to fix it. You don't neeeeed me."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 03:18 PM
47	'Treat the symptoms and ignore the problem'. A conversation with a 'feminist' man, who proudly consumes Porn The nExt used to tell me he was more of a feminist than me. 🚩 Spoiler: he does not even qualify as an ally. He is a sexual predator/user/abuser.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 11:47 AM
19	This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science) This is so nasty. So in their thoughts, women are just sexual toys and they are entitled to try out all the varieties available for that toy line. On one hand you could say this dehumanizes women, on the other: isn't the real problem that those types of men aren't acting human? They dehumanize themselves. The thought of treating other people like replaceable objects instead of as sentient beings with thoughts and feelings and deserving of baseline levels of respect and decency is vomit-inducing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 04:53 PM
65	All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victim 100% anything that happened was instigated by him to begin with and whatever she responded with was either reactive abuse or self-defense. The guy is such a narcissist that all of this happened, she disappears, and he thinks he can just go home and not say anything.... and his parents are enabling and protecting his murderous ass. That sounds exactly like one of the types of families a narcissist would spawn from. What do you want to bet that he is either going to have some bullshit story that t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 04:46 PM
12	All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victim This is so sad. PSA: If you are ever involved with an abusive man, do NOT, I repeat, do NOT travel anywhere with him. Do not go camping with him. Do not go on a road trip with him. Do not go near bodies of water with him. Do not go to another country with him. Sometimes, avoiding those situations where you are literally isolated from all help is still not enough to protect you, but for the love of yourself and all who love you, please do not tempt fate. I get it. When you're in it and trying to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 04:35 PM
32	The novelty variant of the "Blood in the water" test: "Nobody has ever done ... to me" Think of something you are proud of about yourself AND that others have also expressed admiration of. Make it something about that topic, but in a very general way, so that any potential toxic dates are given enough rope to tie their own knots and you know they are being a jerk if they try to use it to neg you. Practice your delivery so that it comes naturally. 🙌 HVPeople build you up. They don't tear you down. They offer balanced and constructive criticism when specifically requested to do so, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 03:59 AM
33	Can we make ‘Weaponized Incompetence’ a flair? A dangerous hurricane is on its way and hubby pretends he can’t do something as simple as buy nonperishables from the store for his family Incompetence is such a turn-off.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 10:40 PM