BumptyNumpty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	As a Man, the saying that "todays women are delusional in terms off standards" is not true. In the first time in 2000 Years, women can choose a Partner based on attraction and love only. This is a good thing. Delusional standards just refers to woman wanting men that fit into a much smaller percentage of the population than the woman does. Let's say she wants a not obese (57% of US men) 6'0+ (14.5% of US men) man making over $100K a year (17% of US men). Is she 5'8", not obese, and making $80K+? Probably not. This is the natural result of sexual dynamics (men are hornier so they pursue women and are attracted to more women), much larger dating pools (dating apps), and unrealistic expectations (social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 09:46 PM
–	Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare] More like good luck convincing any women to stay in a relationship with a guy who is happy doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 05:52 PM
3	Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationships women acting like this is some super easy task I think because the default is just "men help women". One of the most useful pieces of advice from the red pill is to examine each of your relationships after removing gender and attraction. It is amazing how much men do for women simply because doing something for an attractive woman makes them feel good. How many times has OP's friend gone out of her way to help him? Likely not nearly as many times (if any) as OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 08:45 AM
–	The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this? That is an extremely optimistic view of what is obviously just people trying to become influencers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 08:33 AM
5	Do you consider a woman having tons of sex with you every single day a way to deter cheating? I guess I'm saying that her first husband is not a top 20% guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 07:17 PM
1	"Gold digging" has been completely replaced by sugaring I'm sure plenty of gold digging goes on, sugar babying is just way more "out in the open" because there are dating sites and stuff specifically for it. Gold digging is just dating / marrying a rich person specifically for their money without admitting it, so of course it seems like there is less of it happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:53 PM
0	Question: Why the “freshly 18” double standard? It always comes back to power dynamics. An older dude flirting with a younger girl, it is assumed that the dude has all the power so they are taking advantage of the girl. When the girl starts an OnlyFans, she is making the decision herself (even if it is uninformed or naïve) so she has the power and it is ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:51 PM
3	We talk about women selecting toxic men a lot, but we hardly seem to glance at the thought of men actively selecting toxic women men actively selecting toxic women I think this really is just due to gender dating dynamics. The average women, at any time, has a lot of options when it comes to men they could go out on a date with. The majority of men have very few options, so "who they tend to choose" isn't as examined closely because the choice is "single or this woman" rather than "this woman or the 20 other woman I could go on a date with".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:48 PM
0	What would porn made for the female gaze look like? Every "female gaze" explanation I've seen is just a woman gushing about how attractive some male celebrity is. "Oh the way he plays with his hair is female gaze" instead of "he is an attractive celebrity, I will find nearly everything he does attractive". While I do see some level of merit in "female vs male gaze" I think it is largely overblown. Buff guys in movies go shirtless and women enjoy it despite "going topless" being a stereotypical "male gaze" action. It isn't like men aren't attracte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:43 PM
5	Do you consider a woman having tons of sex with you every single day a way to deter cheating? That doesn't make too much sense. The top 20% of guys have so many options they don't feel the need to commit in the first place. Commitment is required before you can even cheat on someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:38 PM
1	If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman? Yeah I didn't want to make my comment too long but that's been my experience as well. The things I have the most fun doing with my guy friends are stuff that no girl I know is interested in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:01 AM
4	If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman? This may seem "harsh" but I believe that straight men and women cannot be great friends without some level of attraction from at least one party. Men and women tend to have different interests. Even if they have similar interests, they have different life experiences that lead to differences in ability or small differences within those interests (ex: both like gaming but different genres). This means the chances of finding a person of the opposite gender you can be good friends with are very low…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 10:38 PM
1	Women don’t respect the average man? Average men are not disrespected, they are just ignored. The average man doesn't even exist in the average women's eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 10:24 PM
2	Anyone notice how sexist the Fauxmoi and other women dominated gossip subs are That's because misogyny is quickly banned or deleted while nothing is ever done to stop misandry.	/r/MensRights	23/10/23 10:15 PM
1	The whole concept of toxic masculinity is based on the false premise that men are acting toxic to impress other men. We don't want to impress men, we want to impress women, and women like it when men behave this way. Toxic masculinity is the feminist idea that men are the cause of the only problem men face in current society. Lmao look at what Bing chat says when I asked it to reword my original sentence: link	/r/MensRights	23/10/23 10:02 PM
1	White men are actively discriminated against in the job market right now Goddamn can I relate to this. The degree of incompetence and cliqueness from the female managers I've had to interact with is insane. All they did was fulfill the 2 criteria of "female" and "had been at the company for a couple years". I wish I had that opportunity. I'll note however that this is not a projection onto all women, just a comment on a system that allows for a higher chance of incompetence in positions of power. I've just been unfortunate enough to run into multiple sexist women man…	/r/MensRights	23/10/23 09:58 PM
1	White men are actively discriminated against in the job market right now I can definitely concur with this given my experiences. Almost every interview I've ever had was with a woman interviewer, and despite having been complimented on my interviewing skills multiple times, I can always tell it would be so much easier if I was a woman too. I even have friends (women in tech) who were directly told that they were hired because they were also a woman and just "so much nicer" than the guys that were interviewed. They are still very competent people and perform well in t…	/r/MensRights	23/10/23 09:50 PM
1	White men are actively discriminated against in the job market right now I've definitely experienced this before with female interviewers. Insane questions like "explain this gap in your resume" for the month right after I graduated college or the interviewer clearly not wanting to be talking to me. Considering about 95% of my interviews don't involve a single male besides myself, it's pretty tough.	/r/MensRights	23/10/23 09:46 PM