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You will always crave new pussy. You need something else to do and concentrate on your family. If you don't plan on having kids with her then I have no advice and don't know why you'd be in an ltr in the first place.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 06:22 PM
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If anxiety is the underlying problem, you have to fix anxiety. If that's not the case, you'll have to start enjoying sex more. That means to be horny and enjoying every moment of pounding that pussy and dominating her and not just doing to come.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:00 PM
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You won't find one going the trp route. You want to achieve blue pill goals using trp methods. It's about age. If you are top young alpha with conservative values, but still can't keep your testo tamed and fuck around till 20 or something, you may find a good young girl and your conservative family may help you decide to marry her. If you are older, it's a much more complicated story.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:52 PM
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I already have that, it's just an ego thing and addiction to attention. It's the loss of control (reliable setting up of dates) and positive emotions what bothers me. I get bored very fast and later on have the tendency to teach them instead of perhaps investing less no matter how they behave. And if I'm wrong, I want to know it because of self improvement purposes.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:09 PM
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I don't initiate dates and basically go cold. I wrote an example in the edit.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:42 AM
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You will put her above your mission, if you already haven't. So I am gonna assume she is max. 25 or something (if she is older, it is obvious why she suddenly changed and there is no point in your post) and that her slut years were 15-22. Even if she found religion, there is no way she changes and reconditiones herself that fast and suddenly becomes LTR material. If you emotionally invest any more in her to fullfil some void, it will fuck with your head. Invest emotionally into your mission/surv…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:51 AM
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Game is a broad subject and it depends on a lot of factors. As for your question: there is a difference between good looking guy and average or below average looking guy game. The former needs good frame and conversational skills and know how and when to escalate and of course be always aware of logistics. The latter has to know all that and still use NLP to come close. If you as a good looking guy only go for high interest girls, you will miss out on a lot of those "neutral" girls and in genera…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:02 AM
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"Getting pussy" is the part that's wrong. You are just not made/brought up etc. to have pussy. As people here would say: you are not alpha, and no amount of pick up will make you one. You are trying to become one, though. You think that's easy? What I'm trying to say is: when "getting pussy" is just the way you are, something you don't think about and just do instinctively, then it won't feel like a chore. If someone plays video games their whole life, then changes and bangs a couple of women, h…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:26 PM
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Any country, it's only a question where you are looking for women. A woman who had a strict upbringing but still felt loved and talks good about her parents/upbringing would probably be more loyal than a girl given everything. A moral compas and responsibility for the relationship are also favourable traits and they are mostly thought by religion. You need to be a man and approach a young girl in church. You also have to know how to "build" her. This will only work if she has the necessary prere…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:06 AM
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So you have a gf with orbiters and are annoyed that she has them/with their natural behaviour. Guess your next step? You expect her to still have those orbiters when you are old with grandkids? Or just when she's a milf? Or only now when she is hot? Like, how long are you going to be ok with that sort of an LTR? It's ridiculous those kind of questions pop up, but I guess it really is two steps down, one step forward.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:39 AM
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If by marrying you mean long term, like 5+ years, then it's obvious a 9 won't stay a 9, nor a 7 a 7. Some women are aging better than other and physical attraction is a prerequisite, but this shouldn't be the main factor, rather her allegiance and willfullnes to follow you in your endeavours, help you achieve your goals and take good care of your offspring. HB scale in LTR context shouldn't be looked at the same as with plates or fwbs.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:30 AM
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Hey man, no offense intended, just out of curiosity: how is it with sex? I already noticed after 30 much less desiree, weaker erections (no more long sessions) and less drive to chase women (especially if I already have one plate/fwb and with two I just altogether stop).
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:55 AM
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Ignore, do your thing & have a good time, escalate and don't go above plate with these types; they mostly make for bad fwb's. Ons or plate. If your escalation doesn't work, forget about her and try another time or just forget.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:14 PM
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Yes, but not because your ego is hurt, rather for an opportunity to establish better frame and dynamics. It's kind of a reset where you can balance your emotional investment better next time and have better frame/boundaries. But generally, a plate apologizing is already an opportunity to enforce the above. Nexting more would show that either you are being butthurt or disinterested. Rather a playful/snarky comment telling her she should make up for it.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 06:18 AM
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Ignore, comment on something else, say "good girl", act impressed (hope you aren't, though; in case you are, don't be). Whatever you want, why do you ask us what you should do? How do we know your reaction on those nudes? Personally, I find it annoying and I want to keep texting at bare minimum, have a good time when we meet and forget about her until we meet again. Unless it's a fwb, but then similiar control of emotional investment.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:06 PM
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Something that stuck with me: "money will open her legs, but it won't make her wet." With status it's similiar. She gets excited about high status, but she won't get wet off it alone when they are together. Nor will only looks do the job. A combination of muscles and that masculine energy paired with frame, game and cocky demeanor in general will do it. So what was your question again, is status better than looks for what?
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:40 PM
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In what fantasy are you living in? Have you even taken the red pill? She can be your "ltr", but you should post a question like that on some blue pill oriented forum. Having a LTR will cause you to invest emotionally and without having learned proper emotional investment balancing, you will overinvest and it will fog your mind. You should take some time to reset and understand the red pill. Among many other principles regarding the LTR dynamics, one very relevant to this post is: she should be t…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:46 AM
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You won't find "true" alpha males anymore. It's pretty much impossible in todays society because the society restricts too much and basic intellectual requirements to succeed have increased which makes it harder to succeed with a carefree mindset. Caring/worrying is instilled in todays upbringing with no counterwork for expressing masculinity. Basically, you'll find uncalibrated alphas in criminal circles and calibrated alphas in conservative masculine circles where the parents read what's going…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:57 AM
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You did right. You want a girl that you have to persuade to come to your place and game her to sex. If it's too easy, it's mostly not worth it in one way or another. I could write more, but it seems to me you have no abundance of sex and you have to work on that by improving your game and getting solid, uncomplicating plates. Sex is fun, but you don't want it occupying your mind too much, rather out of the way to focus on other shit. You don't want to go the sex addiction route.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:00 PM
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Religion, taxes, kids. For me LTR = marriage, though. I don't see a reason for getting into an LTR other than raising kids together or perhaps some business endeavor. Also, not many guys can (and should) pull younger girls in their older years and sustain that lifestyle while living their purpose. Kids is main reason, though.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:48 PM
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So you have kids with her or not? If not, why are you even in an LTR? If there is a good reason, why are you thinking about such trivial stuff, what's your mission? I think you need to figure out who you are and set your priorities right. If highschool stuff makes you unable to focus on real things and think clearly, the ltr is obviously not right for you (yet). I don't know if your father is alpha; if not, try to find an alpha in an ltr and ask yourself if he would be insecure because of a bitc…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:54 PM
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So your age is...? I don't want to comment at it as "highschool stuff, get a life, purpose and grow up" if you are like 17 and your brother 15 in which case you just get over it and learn from experience. If you are like 23+, I'm gonna assume you didn't vet properly and are emotionally more invested than her, have unresolved insecurities, no purpose and this girl is more worth to you than she should be and you are going to break up anyway.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:42 PM
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If your goal is to fuck a lot of girls, you'll have to develop balls to approach any girl any time. You will gain a lot of useful skills just out of it. Alpha wants to fuck a lot and he likes the hunt. He isn't some pretty boy waiting for girls to come talk to him. You can also do online and get laid, but then you rely on your pictures, phone and internet connection to get laid. What if you can't use that anymore? And what about all those times you missed a chance of chatting up a hottie? Not ta…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:16 PM
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It's the best way to meet women, but it isn't productive for everyone in every phase of their life. For you, I think you should manage your thoughts/emotional investment and hack your brain so that you are truly comfortable without women and focused on your job/mission and hobbies. That way, your neediness should disappear. That being said, keep gaming girls but don't make it a chore. Best way to suit the advice above is to make indirect and warm approaches while doing your everyday things (shop…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:47 AM
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I don't think a Christian guy should ask advice on a site that's turning into an ideology. You should read the sidebar and old posts to not get fucked over by women, have fun in your younger years, realize purpose is #1 and then finally transcend this whole "rp" thing. If you are now living your faith on one side and on the other side live for hedonism, you will inevitably experience dissonance. Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 06:49 AM
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Yeah, does he have the balls to approach girls at church and go through a bunch to find a quality one or time to join church activites? If he joins church activites just for girls, that's pretty fake. Most church girls seem to be religous but still deny the role of the woman and don't really know how to take care of the household etc., and they are even more entitled because they see themselves as more worth compared to "normal" girls. Church is great, but not for finding girls. It's just desper…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:51 AM
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Not even true. Yeah, most obese girls crave dick, that's no news. Most quality hotties will have a ton of shit tests prepared where it depends mostly on your frame (rock solid and persistent). If you want to LTR a quality hottie, though, you will in most cases have to be a quality guy. There's bums LTR-ing hotties, but in most cases those have been left with a strong imprint from their disfunctional/uncalibrated alpha and shouldn't be called quality girls anyway.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:42 AM
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You can't be in a relationship and need time for yourself right now because xyz. Maybe you even get to fuck her as a plate afterwards (not recommended, though; it will slow you down).
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:32 PM
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You are threatening the illusion of their world view. Girls make themselves delusional on purpose. Be careful about who you are sharing your thoughts with.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:46 PM
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Of course you are not driving 200 miles to see her. She's not in the hospital having your child. Write something short and to the point (leading to next meetup ofc) with a small positive note to it so she doesn't feel rejected. Afterwards completely forget about her, don't expect anything and focus on things at hand. Most importantly, bro: get some options, you shouldn't make a post about a slut or even think about it so much, it's very needy. Your focus should not be on getting your dick wet bu…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:25 PM
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Why is she your ltr? Kids or some common goals? Or you can't fuck more girls anymore? Like, if you want to give up abundance of girls, you better have a good reason for it or it will backfire. And if you have to write a post that long, there's some underlying problems, probably regarding your life and your insecurities. Fix that shit. Like, if you are getting into a ltr from a position of power, can't it be a 23 y/o instead of a 30 y/o? You don't have choosing power? Maybe work on that. Consider…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:05 PM
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You won't and shouldn't find a legitimate friendship easily. Usually there is only a couple of people you've grown up with you can still call friends, and you've known them your whole life. So you can imagine how hard it will be to form lasting friendships with strangers. By talking with a lot of people, you'll sometimes come into conversations which indicate you have a lot in common and there you can by taking initiative (or if they do) start hanging out more and see if it lasts. Gyms with simi…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 06:48 PM
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He doesn't need to catch up; he needs to get to a certain level where he can vibe while being able to take the conversation in directions he wants to. He can easily start with the gym if he is comfortable there and has a certain perceived status. At first focusing on not needing anything and just vibing with people he has whatever kind of interest in. If he does it for a while without faking it, he'll already be on a good level.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:52 PM
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It's a simple tip that will change that segment of your life if you keep at it: have a goal of improving your conversational skills. For that to happen you have to genuinely develop a love for social interactions and be interested in what people have to say and then put yourself into the picture. Don't overdo it, just have a goal to talk to more people and engage conversations in an authentic way. After a while, you'll just become social and won't ever remember your unsocial self. Tip: Don't be …
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:38 AM
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Well, if she is your fwb, obv you got invested and it will hurt dropping her while she is begging for you to come back. That's why you have more of them and divide your emotional investment properly. By doing that you also don't get butthurt and can demote to plate while giving her the chance to work for her fwb status (won't work out most of the time and it's a drama trap). LTR is obv out of question.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:44 PM
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When she acts like she wants to fuck you, don't get too excited but rather think to yourself "maybe I'll want to fuck her" while being comfortable with the idea of just leaving her. It's difficult if you don't enjoy the time with her, because you'll just spend time for the later outcome. If you genuinely enjoy the moment and are ready to leave it any moment to do other stuff, you won't be that needy. Regarding escalation and lmr/asd, simplify it: if there is desire, she'll fuck you (with or with…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:18 PM
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If you don't approach and start cold approaching, it will probably boost your testo because of the feeling of achieving something, conquering your fears and attributing to positive momentum in general. After it's become second nature, you won't see much difference. Similiar to gym and depression/anxiety disorders. It will help at the beginning, later you will have to get to the root cause of it. So yeah, get your routine, sleep, mentality and nutrition in check and go from there. If it happens t…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:05 PM
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Without reading anything you wrote: yes. And I somehow have a feeling you wouldn't have been hat shaken to have to write a post about it if you had other plates and a purpose or at least working on both of those.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:34 AM
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So out of curiousity: what's the reason for her virginity?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:56 PM
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Don't fall into the unicorn trap and don't rely 100% on the comments, choose for yourself. That being said, she might be a virgin, why not. Question is why is she? If it's because of religious reasons, then she shouldn't even have made out with you in the first place and come in the situation for sex to happen, unless she's not that serious about her faith. Or it was really an exception/weakness. Imagine a girl taking her religion seriously for 30 years and then still making out with guys or who…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:12 AM
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Great idea on your part giving up other girls and risking complacency for that one. Only thing you missed out is marrying her. So maybe try to get back together?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:54 AM
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Some very important ones: valuing your time and having a plan (both short and long term but also situational, for example on a date or any other situation you can benefit from) but not relying on it for your happines/mental health. When you genuinely value your time, you also tend to make good use of it and not spend it liberally. It's necessary to have goals but not spend time thinking about them instead of living the moments. You shouldn't be a slave to your goals or any other thing if possibl…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:15 PM
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If your goal is to fuck girls and not using abstaining for your purpose, then you should jerk off when you feel like it but still work on getting girls. You will work towards getting plates, but you won't be thirsty all the time.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:54 AM
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Yes. There's odds and there's you playing the odds. Depends on what kind of women you meet and what kind of man you are. If you are a simp marrying an epiphany whore, chances are you are getting fucked over. If you are a strong no bs dude with a purpose, have experience with women and are ready to walk away at any moment marrying a young conservative girl who clinges to you, and you put some babies in it and never get complacent, chances are you are going to be good. There's never certainty, tho…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:13 AM
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Very similiar to single moms. You can basically apply the same mindset. Why is it mostly a bad idea?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:43 AM
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Nah, I think it's rather a question of missing opportunities. There's a lot of them and I also ask myself often should I engage in texting and spend time on dates instead of just ignoring them.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:39 AM
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Imagine a car hit you 10 years ago. Would you feel better now? Imagine you know a car's going to hit you tomorrow, would you spend your time writing on trp and thinking about the lost opportunities or do something real with the time you have? Accept that it's who you were and that it had to be how it was and be glad you managed to improve. Make short and long term goals and concentrate on the now. If nothing useful comes out of thinking about the past why would you indulge in it other than being…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:31 AM
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Dude, just get over it. It's going to hurt, but you need it. Otherwise you won't grow. I don't know how you got under the impression that you are ready for an ltr with "rp" dynamics and that she is ltr material. Build frame and learn frame control and balance of emotional investment, return to your purpose, spin plates for fun and vet better next time, especially in case of an ltr.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:57 PM
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Before you were a teenager with nothing better to do than wank all day, now you have an established life with structure and routines. You have become an adult. Once a day is still okay if you keep it up, but really stay on it. Don't let the stress and commitments of your daily life rob you off your sex drive. More cares will always result with less sex drive and more stuff to do with less time to have sex and as you grow older less desire to have sex, basically prioritizing other things. You can…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:46 AM
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Sure, training bitches (plates, fwb's, oltr's) is great, but you don't want to call your ltr (wife/potential mother of your children) a bitch, and you won't make a housewife out of a whore. You can train them (ltr prospects) when they are young and full of green flags, but you don't want to change already badly influenced girls. So in my opinion it's clearly a mistake ltr-ing a social media addict if the same thing bothers you, which it probably should anyway.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:48 PM
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Lol. If she's from work, you just act normal, give her the sneaky smile her and there and be sexy in general and let her come to you. Sometimes get close to her while being 100% aloof as though you don't want to be found out but still let her feel your presence (don't do it on purpose because of her because she might see through it). You fucked her and you got your excitment/validation which should be enough and if you genuinely don't care (which you shouldn't because it's bad business), she'll …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:33 PM
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You will hear different answers and for a reason: there's no right answer, it depends on the situation and you should always do what you want to do. So assuming you balance your emotional investment properly and don't give any attention or even thoughts for nothing, then you should stand pretty good if she put out. Meaning you got everything you wanted and then when you feel like it or have another hookup proposal (dunno, got a bottle of wine as a present, let's celebrate or whatever), you just …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:28 AM
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I love this. She's your "gf" and your plan is what exactly? Marrying, kids, starting a business or she already in your business? Like, her friends should be below you to her. Imagine an alpha dude from let's say the Balkans and his woman cooking/cleaning and having his kids beside him. Does she care about what her friends think about the man? No, she's too busy with you/your life and hangs out with the same kind of women.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:49 AM
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So you live your life for someone else? Or any other reason you care how much pussy someone else slays? You should care about your needs and achievements, stop living for validation of others.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:36 PM
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Seems she was more than a plate to you. You shouldn't care about a plate that much and especially not about an ex-plate. Practice better emotional investment managment and emotional control in general.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:05 PM
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Depends on what you have to risk. If not much, yes. Considering your history you obv can't trust him 100% so never let your guard down and think of it as gaining advantage od his idea etc. Like managing your emotional investment with a woman (always have her invested more), have the same mentality with him. If you are a pushover, you are not ready.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:31 PM
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It can be a lot of things, but considering you mentioned depression, it's probably connected with it. Fix your mentality, get more horny by removing all things fucking up your libido and adding things raising your libido. As long as you suffer from depression, it will fuck your libido up, so work on that and meanwhile: cialis. Go to the doctor and tell him it's not working in the sheets anymore and that you need something to help you. Don't get dependent on it, meaning you know you use it only u…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:06 PM
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Vet better next time. "figure herself out" = unstable. And it seems like you lost frame somewhere. Doesn't look like you are the big boss in the relationship. She can also take a break with you, but she wants and has the guts to tell you she wants to take a break without you, maybe from you, too. In todays world where almost everyone has some kind of psychological disorder, it is "normal" to move away from people. In a context of a rp relationship (ltr), where you want a stable woman by your sid…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:50 PM
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My 2 cents: porn fucked you up and you need more time to unfuck yourself. In a world where you can have any chick you want, you will still be bored after some time. Working on your purpose should be priority anyway and LTR sex won't ever be as exciting as sex with multiple partners (who wants to eat only one dish their entire life?). Building a life together (if you have a business, can you employ her?) and raising children together is what you can get out of it. If you don't want that and prior…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:39 AM
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You are new to the game, you will definitely overinvest, even if you try to fake it. Focus on your game/smv and eventually you'll care less and stop liking girls on a "personal" level that fast. Just make sure they are always in the "fun" bracket of your life (not the "social" bracket, at least not before they proved themselves over a long period of time) and after spending time with them, return to other more important stuff. This way you won't care that much and complicate things because it's …
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:28 AM
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You gonna fuck it up. Next time when you get a chance like that, just don't think about it at all and definitely don't make a thread about it. Dude, where is your emotional investment managment? You go there, relax yourself, have a good time, do some kino and escalate. That's it. Afterwards go back to your shit. By thinking about it you will be stuck in your head and obsess. Basically giving thoughts to something that's not even real. Your goal is to have fun. So concentrate only on that. You sh…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:01 PM
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How would you feel about having to eat pizza your entire life? Sure, you can spice it up, even put ananas on it, but it will still be pizza. How good would it feel to try a steak or perhaps some Asian or Mexican food after a long period of eating only pizza?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:28 PM
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You can let her play with a vibrator while you finger her or maybe fuck her on the table while she's stimulating her clit with a vibrator. Just things to try out some time. Don't focus on making her cum, though.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:06 PM
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Does it bother you? If yes, deal with it however you can. If no, then there's no specific reply needed, you say whatever you want to say. You are probably insecure because of it and for good reason, and you are asking people here to give you fake answers so you can hide your insecurity.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:25 AM
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Reminds me of the episode in Entourage where Ari's wife goes back to acting. Funny shit. And yeah, your reaction is pure jealousy/insecurity. But what do you really expect when you ltr an actress? You trying to change her?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:05 AM
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Exactly, you have a goal to work on: it's to fuck on the first date. The key is to still have outcome independence. You escalate, but you don't really care. If she doesn't want, you realize she doesn't desire you as much as the other guys and you continue improving and go to the next one. When you eventually get good and get some plates, you won't really care much about fucking on the first date. Sometimes you won't even want to do it. Some of them will get back to you and sometimes you can fuck…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 07:08 AM
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I'll tell you why: because you are a fake. You were probably blue pill raised. Now all of a sudden you want to be rp. Is that even possible? If yes, how? Have you asked yourself that question? Get out of the disney fantasy. When I look at my father, uncles and most Croatian relatives (especially those grown up in Bosnia), they don't love their women really. They raised families with them and don't cheat (most of them at least), but they still see them as tools. So that shit was pretty natural to…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:49 AM
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So you don't have any other girls? Even if you get that girl or two, you just wanna be with them for the rest of your college years? Go outside of your campus, go to bars and make connections with other students where there's more girls. Don't limit yourself on just your college. You don't want to fight with 10 different guys for 1 girl. Talk to them while talking to a bunch of other girls somewhere else. Don't ignore them, but also don't make them special or invest too many thoughts. You can't …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:53 PM
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Why are you writing this post then? You are already developing oneitis just because she's hot. You fucked her, be satisfied and go about your shit. If she calls you again, then if you have time think about whether or not you want to fuck her again. It's mega unproductive to get emotionally invested there and waste any thoughts on it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 02:16 PM
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Let's say it like this: if you are having sex with plates/fwb's you probably won't be lonely, and you probably will already have a good social life. Does it fix your psychological issues? No, it can make them easier for a period of time, though.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:59 PM
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I hope you are emotionally disengaging, lining up potential plates and brushing up your game. Your ltr doesn't function properly, you need a new chapter.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:26 PM
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I have and I replied to him. Now I'm replying to your comment about "good women" and "decline of the west".
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:49 PM
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Amazing post. We should stop using trp as means to complacency only to get redpilled again. Mission/purpose is a must and should be above women. It's always mentioned, but it is really being ignored.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:09 PM
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Why was she a good girl? You didn't even know her... There's girls from catholic families who meet their "soulmates" at like 16, move with them at 19 and then they live a couple of years together and then pressure the guy into marrying or not. Why are those good girls? A real catholic women wouldn't live with a guy without marrying him (most still would, though). So this has nothing to do with decline of the west nor does she deserve a better man. They were both young and stupid.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:44 AM
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Man, you have a long self improvment journey ahead of you. Read No more Mr. Nice Guy. Right now you are going on a journey to fuck girls for validation and I have a feeling you are going to suck at it and you are going to wish that you had never left your ltr and think about it the whole time which is going to hinder you even more. The good thing is: you are young and may actually have needed that journey and the ltr would not have made you happy because the dynamics wouldn't be as you would wan…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:03 PM
2

Just out of curiosity: why wouldn't you want to marry? What was the point of such a long monogamous ltr if you don't want to marry her and have kids or have some other common goals (helping you grow an empire or w/e)?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:27 PM
4

Don't get pulled back in. No point in arguing because she will never understand what you mean and try to defend herself. So basically, if you write something, do it with zero emotional investment. The fact you wrote this post already indicates a lot of investment on your part. You know your reasons, don't let her change your mind.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 06:26 PM
15

Either I'm going to be in the moment and give them my full attention when approaching/gaming/fucking or hanging out with them or I am going to keep them out of my mind (completely out of thoughts/focused on something else). Makes things less complicated and lets you better control your emotional investment. Basically after you fuck a chick and leave her, she doesn't exist until you see her again (texting 90% logistics). Or after you see a hot chick, either approach or not, but don't let yourself…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:28 PM
3

Well, you can blame your oneitis on covid, but the fact is you are still putting the pussy on pedestal and indulge in external validation seeking behaviour. I just hope if there was no covid and you had plates spinning, that you wouldn't make her your ltr. If I see a super hot bitch, I just want to fuck her and enjoy the sex as much as possible. If I turn her into a plate, great, if not, who cares. And her hotness is definitely not a reason to make her a fwb... and you ltr'd her. If a girl is su…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:09 AM
2

Okay, sure, sounds cool. Was just asking out of curiosity when was the "poon slaying" period you were referring to. I assume right after the divorce or soon after.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:44 AM
1

Replace self pitty with self compasion. Start working on healthy positive thoughts as a priority. Work on self respect. Basically have the inside of your mind a happy/good place to be. Why would you want your mind to sabotage you if you are already disciplined and have a self improving/high achieving mentality?
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:40 AM
3

What do you mean in your "poon slaying years"? If you left your ltr at 33 and now you are 39, aren't you still you in your poon slaying years? Or were there a couple of years inbetween where you wanted to recreate early twenties?
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:23 AM
2

Possibly unresolved issues. You should either find a decent psychotherapist or try doing it yourself which may take years.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:43 PM
2

Ignore/pay no mind. So did you try to fuck her or what? She's at most plate material and you should have gone for ons there instead of waiting and then thinking about her and then even writing a post. Investment over the roof.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:35 PM
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You know any young women nowdays who had to work from young age, in their free time take care of the household and help their mothers prepare lunch and so on? Or any who had to escape war with their families? No, now you just have spoiled brats who have nothing to offer than their pussy. Some of them make fun partners and you can turn them into fwb with caution if you feel like it. On the other hand, men turned just the same, incels with no fucking purpose. We live in a degenerate world where th…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:31 AM
1

Yeah. They don't care about natural alpha/made alpha, though. They care about congruency. If you are alpha without putting an act, you're good. If you are trying to be alpha, you are not alpha, at least not yet.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:47 PM
1

You become a real man when you take responsibility for your life, your needs, and needs of those who depend on you. When you cut the distractions, know what you want and live your purpose.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:39 AM
5

Huh boy, knowing she isn't a unicorn won't free you from oneitis. Having options, a social life, putting yourself and your purpose above women, and in general satisfaction with your own life will.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:28 AM
1

Be more assertive and dominant. But don't overdo the dominance because it's a form of compensation, rather start to think like a dominant man and behave like you even have to balance it out by providing comfort. Basically, more dominant on the inside then it comes off on the outside, rather than not being dominant in your thinking but trying to come off as dominant. Congruency. You should establish the frame at first second and always have outcome independence while being above her. That way she…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:06 PM
2

Depends on the tone. She may be trying to turn you into a beta. If you are ok with the dynamics you have, you can easily brush it off by not taking it seriously like a shit test (although it probably isn't one, again depending on the tone). If you are not providing enough comfort and it makes her dissatisfied, you need to provide a bit more comfort. The trick is to not give away any power and do it calculated on your terms. Of course, if it's worth to you and you want to take it to fwb or even l…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:57 PM
1

Why do you care? Can you still talk with girls/people with that different vibe? Yes, you can, you have to just accept it and dgaf. Don't try to please people and think about what they think; care about what you think. You always work on improving your mood and do whatever you can and when you have that different vibe, you just accept it and own it. Don't force high energy unnecessary if that's not who you are just to please people.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:46 PM
2

To have pump and dump as your goal is a good mindset, and if that was your only goal, well done. If you feel like the girl has plate/fwb potential and you enjoy the date with her, you should make a natural transition to sex, only keeping in mind to time the escalation with the logistics and have her want it the same or even more as you. The key there is outcome independence on your part (for real, not faked). There has to be a balanced dose of comfort without you trying to fake it or changing yo…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:36 PM
1

You need abundance with dating hoes, then maybe you can make one your gf, but even then ignoring red flags is a bad idea. Now you are stuck with a hoe and have zero other options. Have fun and learn something from it.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:51 PM
4

You watching porn? There is no wanting to bang if you don't talk, get that kind of thinking out of your head. It's a combination of laziness and low energy. You shouldn't allow yourself to think about fucking a girl or thinking of her at all. Anxiety or not, you see and approach if she's hot/seems interesting. If not, don't waste thoughts on that shit. Condition yourself to do that and you'll start liking the process/hunt.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:04 PM
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Easier said than done, but make goals and chase them (some of them being new plates). Consider every thought about her a distraction because that's really what it is. You don't need closure, you need some new achievements. So either forget and conquer new shit or dwell and waste time/energy and get nothing real out of it. If she tries to explain herself, just say: "No need to do that, it's over." and if she tries it again "Sorry, no time for that".
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:34 PM
2

It's not a science of any sort. It's something you hear/read, see in real life examples and then experience yourself. It also has exceptions and should always be used as a tool and not a substitution of ones intellect.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:14 PM
2

Somehow difficult to believe you have 2 other plates you are regularly fucking. First, you shouldn't care. Second, have fun. If there is not enough desire from her side, and thereby no sex, you just do other things and maybe give her one more chance if you find the time. Just don't get emotionally invested in a girl you didn't even fuck, like you are doing now by writing this post.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:48 PM
1

The question is why? You say everything's fine. If you find out she's cheating, you drop her. If you find it disrespecting, you change the way you handle yourself, but you shouldn't find it disrespecting if you are secure about it and comfortable with yourself. If you adress it, you'll come off as insecure which probably is true. The fact is: I'd hate it if a women behaved like this, but that's what you have to deal with if your "gf" has male friends and is close with her male colleagues. If tha…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:01 PM
1

So the dynamic between you and your gf is perfectly fine, just the way you like/want it, and it still bothers you? Why?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 11:16 AM
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You have ego/insecurity problems. Are you even satisfied with yourself? If not, fix what needs to be fixed. Sex great? She bringing value to your life? Plan on marrying her? You asking stuff, but we don't even know if the basics are all right.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:35 AM
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Seeing a question like this makes me think you have to work on your mentality. Beta trying to be alpha = fake. Meaning if you think like a beta but try to follow rp to seem like an alpha. Alpha inside acting decent outside = real but manipulative. Basically you know you just want to fuck and realize bitches ain't shit, but you're still acting like a decent human being to not scare her away and seem "nice", but from the way you look and your body language, it's obvious you are an alpha and it wil…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:40 AM
1

I know and I agree. As I've said have a friend doing that, but he's simply starting with "hi 🙂 how are you?" and most girls I match with don't respond to that I assume. I'm also debating whether or not to start, but I usually have a 3-4 lines conversation that's already automated and made to set up quick dates. Problem is: with most of them I don't want to waste time taking a walk or have drinks with, but I also don't want to text a lot because it's really even less fun for me, but if I had some…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:21 PM
1

Gym is really a good way to put you on the right track, but it won't fix the problem, rather be a push. It will also help with anxiety. Most men nowdays are raised in a way to have no self respect. You really have to start looking for what you want and doing it for you. The key is to value everything you do unattached to what others think of it or how they value it. Basically what you think about something matters more than what others think. Only this realization will put you in a mindset to be…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:34 AM
1

It's of course easier said than done, but you should stop basing your self worth on her/others. Meaning you know what you want and go for it and do it for you. Basically it only matters how you will feel about achieving/doing something. IG is ok if it helps your business and/or is a constant pussy supply, but if you are doing it for validation, it slows your progress in achieving the above.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:11 AM
1

I have a friend who does that. So you text about sex with them, right?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:26 AM
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It was early in the night, I also mentioned that. The question was exactly that, does anyone have experience with taking them home before the party even started and how they do it? I think I should just find a way to escalate quicker and go from there.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:24 AM
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Firstly, you shouldn't be wasting thoughts on girls you didn't even fuck. Secondly, you can just ping them from time to time and see if you can get them to meet you so you can work your game and fuck them. Thirdly, you don't talk with them about anything over text, only so much to get a date and logistics. Your goal should always be to set up some fun in real life.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:12 PM
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"Seems like you are bored. I am going to join you." if there's more of them, you actually need balls, but the line above works if you are confident, dgaf and have a cocky tone. you can also be mega ballsy and just offer your hand to the one you're interested in
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:03 PM
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Dude, she is in love... for now. Just have fun for the time being and don't neglect other girls. Let her subtly know and understand that you don't look for a relationship... with one girl.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:33 PM
1

Dude, if you can get laid, all good. It was a solution for a problem for someone wanting to fake abundance and lead the dynamics on his terms without accepting less.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:26 PM
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Good reply, but there is also a different solution to the problem if he wants to stick with his guns. The solution requires getting rid of his needines with either nlp, hypnosis or some other mental way or just jerking off/prostitutes. With that in check, he needs to have a game plan with the primary goal of getting better at game instead of getting sex. Basically, he is focusing on getting better and is nexting every girl who isn't 100% turned on and has a desire to fuck him. Focus on other shi…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:03 PM
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You have to stop taking women seriously. Even if she is your ltr and you plan on having kids with her. The vetting has to be done in a way you are sure you will always be above her and if that isn't the case anymore, it's probably your fault. So cut that thinking out and find a purpose for yourself in this world.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:35 PM
1

You're too big all of a sudden? Haha. Got stale, bro. She got too comfortable, no tingles.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:11 PM
1

"You missed your chance." She wouldn't even write that if the guy was playful, outcome independant, not giving a fuck and not taking her seriously. Instead, he has no other prospects to divide his emotional investment amongst and wants sex so much that he uncontrollably makes out with her several times like a 15 year old. Why would she want him if she can get him so easily? How is he the prize?
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:23 PM
5

Neediness and scarcity.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:53 PM
1

You go to the doctor and say you can't get it up anymore, is there something he can help you with and go from there.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:21 AM
1

The fact you have to write a post on this obvious thing means the breakup is going to be hard on you. Come back stronger, dude. Fix yourself, start gaming girls on the side without emotions and achieve some real things. Not for validation but for you. Don't ever again get in an ltr until the dynamics are completely in your favour, you have the control and know how to gauge your and her emotional investment. Don't forget to block that one and avoid all contact. Just know it's necessity and everyt…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:48 AM
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You should drop her and build a dynamic where a girl has to ask herself if you are cheating. You gave over too much control/power and invested too much emotionally. Get a mission and abundance.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:23 PM
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"I've been thinking about this a lot and it's fucking up my days, please give me your takes and ideas." What? You are 17 and instead of working and living life, some theory is making you depressed. Go in the world and make your own judgement. Look at trp as a lens, a set of tools and not philosophy. If you are a strong/ruthless man, whose not taking any bs, you won't get fucked by a woman or at least leave if the bs is too much. You should learn how to play them and not take them seriously. Don'…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:43 PM
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It depends on the woman, the relationship and religion. Roughly speaking, think it would be safe to say >95% would cheat in most cases and like 0.1% would never cheat. It's similiar like how most woman would cheat on you with their "brad pitt" no matter what. The 1 in 1000 that won't you have to have left a huge imprint on combined with their religious beliefs, strong upbringing and so on.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:55 AM
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It's exactly what you wrote. Ideally you shouldn't be that phased because it's normal for you to see girls like that. If not, then fake it/act like it is. Don't put her on a pedestal, be playful and have outcome independence.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:20 AM
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Started lifting yesterday by pushing my weight from the ground, when will girl start approaching me? Today a hb3 cashier stared at my hands. Thinking about plating her.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:15 AM
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It's better that way. Learning from experience sticks better.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:26 PM
3

Do you enjoy hanging out with her in a bitchy mood? If no, cut it; if you feel like staying and think you can still fuck her and escalate, try it, but it probably won't work. In most cases staying won't be benefecial so better to leave it on your terms and eventually open for another date (only home date) and go do something of more use or more fun.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:38 AM
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Asking people on the forum if you should fuck... If you are scared, no. If you are horny and have spare time, why not? /topic Now do something useful.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:45 PM
1

Good move, bad move writing this post, though. These kind of spoiled brats should be fucked and forgotten about and after they get to you fucked again with zero thought (really, literally think about other shit until your dick is inside her) and emotional investment. Sometimes they learn subconciously from your actions but you still should never relax and go above fwb even if they act good suddenly. Just: take a serious look at her, smile a bit and say "okay", go out and seriously, don't waste a…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:05 PM
1

You need better game with stronger frame/dgaf mentality because there's going to be more shit tests. Other than that, difference is maintaining skills. The most important thing, if you don't have it, you can fuck off: entitlement. Do you feel entitled to them? Seems to me you are going to feel entitled after you get to 10% bf which is BS and the opposite of dgaf and knowing you deserve them. Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:50 AM
1

More like 50+, 2000 wasn't much different.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:33 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to others and start doing things FOR YOU.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:19 PM
1

You have a purpose? It's very difficult for everyone in the family involved if a man who doesn't know what he wants has to lead. You need to be satisfied with yourself and have consistent frame.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:46 PM
1

Did I miss a sentence in your post where you mention your gym goals? No comment. Set goals, be consistent and achieve them. If you really have to take time off, do some other fitness stuff and get back on to those goals with 100% motivation. Basically if a bouncing ass walks by while you're sitting at the bench, you don't even take a look, let alone let the thoughts distract you.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:12 AM
2

You shouldn't quit girls and go drastic measures out of frustration, because the frustration doesn't come from your situation, but rather your way of dealing with the situation. You are a healthy dude who just has to change a couple of circumstances. What you should do is start working on a badboy mindset. Living with your parents and doing programming will definitely work against that and create dissonance, I hope you realize that? So will you do something about that? Maybe accept your situatio…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:14 AM
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You'll have to do expand your social circle and do a lot of social circle game and basically meet everyone because the pool won't be as big as in the city. Basically more focus on socializing as opposed to approaching here and there when you feel like it. Probably gonna be days where you won't even see a chick, even in the supermarket.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:01 AM
1

If it's half an hour ride there and back, not really. Unless you have a lot of free time and enjoy the drive. It could work with a motorcycle where you want to drive anyway and go meet a girl on the way, and you can park almost anywhere. Much less emotional investment from the get go + you are doing your hobby. Car and public not quite...
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:55 AM
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1) Look and smirk. Have fun with it, if you feel like looking, look, smile and dgaf. You are entitled to them and you hope they have perky nipples. 2) Self confidence, need for validation. Would that be with a group of friends who can't wait for you to come and greet you friendly upon coming? No. How about two randoms girls on a beach? Yes. You shouldn't care what they think, you should care what you think and self amuse always. Put more worth on your amusement. You have to get more satisfied wi…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:00 PM
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Strong. I hope you really are not afraid of losing her and aren't just using rp tactics. It's a great move if you know what you want and it fits your personality, but it's over the top if you are doing this out of frustration of her not being a good girl. What you would do is hard on setting boundaries and it could backfire, but if it does, you'll learn something for your next ltr. Sometimes it's just too late and unproper vetting prior to ltr.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:47 PM
1

If you leave nearby, stop focusing on kissing her. You do it for your fun/moment not because sex. If she is in your frame and your perceived value is higher, you can just use plausible deniability to take her home. As for pussy moistening and sexual tension, you need to be cocky and unphased, have more outcome independence/dgaf and stronger frame. You won't get her wet by showing her you want sex more than her.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:34 PM
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If you are already on the date? Million ways, for example: talk about wine at some point, like a good wine you bought, your fathers wine or something, and spontaneously say you are really in the mood for a glass or two of that wine right now. And then like it just came to your mind, ask her would she want to try it. You are eager to try and it's good plausible deniability for them to do you a favour. When you come in, just open it, smell it, make her stand up to smell it and just kiss her there …
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:27 PM
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Good move. Next level: what would you have done if she had stayed but still acted bitchy/pissed off and changed her mood on purpose (basically feeling not valued and demanding change in dynamics)?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:14 PM
3

I have a feeling you have FOMO. Maybe it's just a feeling, but considering how you write, I'd say you feel like making the most out of your SMV and having sex with a lot of women so you can say you experienced it and don't regret later you didn't. You have a huge cognitive dissonance my friend and this thing won't satisfy you. Come to terms with who you are and find purpose. In Balkan countries, I'd say in Albania/Macedonia the trend is the biggest, there are high libido guys fucking multiple wo…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:23 AM
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You have to learn to be in the moment. When you are with a girl, don't think much or care what she thinks. Basically you prefer having a good time over sex or anything in that moment. You are there and you are enjoying yourself and that is EVERYTHING. You are giving priority to your peace and amusement over anything. So if you are there and having a good time and you feel like kissing (after establishing some kino of course), you just kiss and don't think about the reaction or shit. Then again o…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:24 PM
1

I'm raised Christian and try to practice my religion, but I go the wrong course too often. TRP doesn't have to do anything with religion, it's just showing you the true nature of women and tips how to not get screwed by them. People here are making too much of it and dig into deeper subjects and connect it to trp, it's going to be it's downfall. Stop overcomplicating trp and mixing it with morals.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:10 PM
1

The most complete popular person I can think of would be Jocko Willink, so I guess his podcasts would include only a small amount of bullshit and wouldn't make you beta hearing them over a long period of time. It's still difficult for me to justify hearing a podcast instead of doing something or while doing and not being fully there in the moment. Although I doubt there's any real rp "youtubers" out there, I'd love if someone could recommend one worth listening to.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:45 PM
2

So you think it's better to lean on scarcity than chase abundance? There is no better strategy, you do what you want. If you text her right away, you are needy as fuck. If you do shit and forget about her and do something with other girls and text her a few days later, it's obviously better. But for you the question shouldn't be what works better on girls or an individual girl, but what works better for you. You should really develop a mentality so it's natural for you and not follow a strategy.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:17 PM
1

Don't just follow any rule. If you have to write this post and think so much about it, you lost the battle. No problem, you'll win the next one, just prepare for the war: mentality/frame check. You just cannot/shouldn't care that much and you shouldn't fake it. YOU HAVE TO BE BUSY. For example: fucked a girl the same night after a short walk. During the "date" I didn't even care if I fuck, but afterwards my ego was satisfied gotta be honest. Next day was busy and day afterwards I felt like hitti…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:05 PM
1

Tease and be cocky, have fun. Just make it a goal to have fun and be sexual (not in words but in demeanor/suggestiveness). From there you'll lay grounds for better/easier game.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:08 PM
1

It's normal. Props for doing it. Goal is to make her feel tingles and make an emotional impact. Read and practice, but don't make it such a big deal that it occupies your thoughts to the point of making a post about it. Have a mission that doesn't allow you to even think about shit like that. You have to get in the right mentality, without it, you will be getting more of those. When you get it, your results will start to skyrocket. It should be leisure and fun, so outcome independence is real.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:22 PM
1

Depends what you want. If you want a housewife and kids, there's going to be different things to screen for than in a model level girl you'd like to ltr just for the sake of it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:14 PM
2

You have four things: validation problem, fear of rejection, lack of mission, weak game (probably because of your looks and thing #2). If you feel like fucking, extend that hand to any hottie that crosses your path at the right moment (no gym/work/social, only randoms) and let the sex drive, testo and looks work. It's simple pickup. GLL does a good job of it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:03 PM
2

Do whatever you want, just make sure it stays that way. Fact you wrote this post points to too much emotional investment (the situation is occupying your thoughts).
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:57 PM
2

Whatever you want and however you respond, let this one thought guide you: emotional detachment and later control of emotional attachment. Don't let anything from her occupy more of your mind than you allow it. Basically have her very low on your list of priorities.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:39 AM
1

Girl you've been seeing? Plate, fwb? So in your frame it is ok to talk with her about her job and be her friend? Then yes, do a bit of comfort. It is not ok? Don't do it. It is ok, but you want to change your frame so she doesn't get the impression that you are someone who wants to talk about that stuff with her? Then change your believes/mentality/attitude and most importantly: always know what you want and don't ler her change you. Dude, we can't know what you want, how is your frame and what …
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:27 AM
1

Do the first and ignore if she doesn't put out fast and just approach and text more girls until you get better at creating attraction/being desireable. Don't even consider LTR until you are banging several plates and have an all green flag/zero red flag girl bring immense additional non-sexual value to your life and you find it a smart move in general to go to ltr. But you are not ready to think about it yet. Hint: when you are banging several plates, you won't care that much if you fuck a girl …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:25 PM
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"Me too. Coming over tonight?" Some variation of that. If no, soft next; if yes, fuck. Don't go above plate with that one. Keep it at bare minimum of non-sexual attention.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:28 AM
1

You can use NLP or similiar to live a "happy" life to realize on your death bed you were faking it all along. There's needs and you shouldn't ignore them, but if you are a type of person seeking answers (which 99% of people on this reddit are, otherwise they wouldn't be here), nothing of this world will give you fullfilment. Cut distractions off, have an open mind, simplify your life and when you lived life truly through your own lens (not influnced by nlp, new age and similiar) and seek the tru…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:21 AM
1

Superior frame/entitlement paired with dgaf/outcome independence. It's natural for them to approach and fuck hot girls and they don't think much about it. They are "born" for it and enjoy the process.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:45 AM
2

Religious and good parenting is good; religious and bad parenting is bad because she will revolt at some time for sure. If she's letting you finger her, you know it's the latter. So personally, I don't know why you are this invested to make a post about it. Either ignore, escalate and eventually fuck her and go along with the hassle, or just leave it. There's plenty other girls to game/fuck.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:30 PM
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Tinder? If yes, she's a robot, you don't care how you look like (have persistence), write when you can and set up dates how it suits you. Zero.Emotional.Investment. Just get her in person. If it's cold approach, depends how it went. If it's low interest, concentrate on your game and better prospects. You want a girl you already have met to have high interest.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah, if you have an ability to shutdown your brain and don't let the few hours you play make any change to your progress, alpha thinking, manliness etc. and have some kind of superpower where you don't need sleep or can stop time for a few hours, I guess one could find an excuse. Otherwise I think most other things you can think of, even staring at the wall (serious), would be more beneficial to you on your "rp" journey.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:12 PM
1

PU is part of red pill since it teaches you how to game women. PUA is someone who games women as a mission and it usually transitions into some kind of life coaching. Mostly empty stuff.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:14 AM
1

I prefer meeting up for a walk or drinks to check her out, but if she is not that hot or old or seems like a mega slut, I just try the home method and if it doesn't work out, I decide if it's convenient to meet.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 10:39 AM
1

If you are horny but not fucking, you'll either have to hack your mind with self talk or masturbate/fuck whores. In any way, you get off. When you are with a girl, have a good time, escalate and take her to location to fuck. Afterwards stop thinking about it until the moment comes again and go from there.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:42 PM
2

Obviously the math might be off and I don't know outside of Europe (mostly Croatia and Germany), but now just German statistics cca: non-church goers, like 99% are no marriage material, church goers like 75% are no marriage material and the rest has hope. Like approximately every fourth Croatian girl you meet in a church has actually potential for a ltr. I've met quite a bit of German girls and never met one that has potential for ltr. There was one Vietnamese German from a traditional Viatnemes…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:37 PM
1

If you truly changed like you are saying, you would fuck without much thinking and wouldn't write this post, or you wouldn't because you are fucking other plates and don't have time, but might give her a chance if she is persistent. If you are not plating, get on it, or you might develop oneitis for her again.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:26 PM
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I never understood why rp men go in LTR's if they don't plan on having kids with them. Of course you can use the time better, but if you have kids together, you should spend time together raising kids and ocassional vacation, dinner and so on but still more focus on your mission etc. You just won't have as much time for hobbies and fitness. If you have an LTR just because you are lazy, it won't last, and it's scarcity mindset. Spending time with her will keep you away from your hobbies and missi…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:13 PM
1

I know what you mean. I am rather debating whether to invest (if you can call it investing) the extra cash in a fast car or move to have access to more girls. I still drive to the city but meeting girls stopped being spontaneous and logistics have become more of a problem.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:11 PM
2

Mentality/frame fix. You have to really live in your frame. You know what you want. Let's say you are doing a typical first date where you take a walk (possibly near your or her house). In the back of your mind, you are thinking about the more important stuff you are doing later, and since you are there with this girl, you might even enjoy the moment. Tease, dominate, do and behave like you want, be sexual, escalate. Don't compromise, always polarize. Kiss her. Don't be invested in the sleeping …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:22 PM
1

If you just want her as a plate, you shouldn't care about losing her because you have other plates, right? If you don't care about anything but fucking (so no fwb option), you shouldn't compromise even if it's your only plate but rather work on new plates. Because if you give in, she'll pull you in and fuck up your mentality and you won't be able to level up your game to get more plates. As mentioned, if you already have more plates, and you don't want to promote this one, let it drop or give so…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:48 PM
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You'll find a way and then you'll get some success and maybe ignore the real problem before it inevitably becomes obvious. For whatever reason (psychological, stress, just a pussy mentality etc...) you have weak frame. When you chat her up and have a good time in the conversation and for some reason you or her have to go and you think "hmm, she's not too bad, gonna give her a chance to meet me later, I may want to fuck her some time", it shouldn't be difficult to say: "you seem fun/interesting (…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:55 PM
1

Hmm, pretty sure I know your problem: too many distractions. You think too much and your thoughts are sabotaging you. Try to simplify your life and start doing difficult manly things. Make a man out of yourself and then you'll feel like one. You are probably trying the fake it till you make it hypnosis, but it won't work with many distractions. Try to accept the hardship of life, clear your thoughts, drop all the distractions and hit the gym hardcore. When you finally think and feel like an alph…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:45 PM
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I try to time it to always be at their place during their period and we put a dark colored towel under. If you're in LTR, you can still go down on her if you find it exciting for a change, but if it's a plate or fwb you shouldn't go down on her anyway. Period sex is exciting and mixes things up a bit. If you don't like period sex, then I have zero advice. I guess do something else and treat her the same. Let her treasure the time with you.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:26 PM
1

Focus on your mission. Don't ignore B. Seems like you have problems which make B uncomfortable and more like a pressure. B should be fun and something to take your mind off while you are pursuing your goals.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:20 AM
4

Not 100% true. It still depends on the quality/level of responsibility for the relationship of the woman. Certain type of girls will still do things out of spite to get back at the guy they were alpha widowed by if the guy hurt them, made a mistake, showed weakness, got complacent or similiar.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:28 PM
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Women let to live free by their true nature, of course it's not right. Imagine letting criminals live their true nature free. No one is free, and there should be boundaries. Discipline is true freedom and woman don't have it unless society ingrains rensponsibility in them through religion or similiar means. It's the decline, though. Accept and adapt or try to change it.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:23 PM
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open for anything, let's see what comes out of it
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:14 AM
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1# Don't be so invested. You are there, but only because you want to and you are looking forward to return to your hobbies/mission/some other girl you are fucking or dating. But you decided to give her the time of the day. 2# Be in your frame. Be "above" her. Dominate her. Let her enter your frame. 3# Always lead, be assertive and do what you want. She follows. Seems like you are her plate and she is calling the shots and you want her more than she does you. It's obvious she felt guilty/was out …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:55 PM
1

Why are guys here asking so many questions about plates they've been seeing for more than 2 months? Do you approach girls regularly and work on yourself? Like, it's obvious after a couple of months if it has fwb potential or not and if not, she shouldn't even be on your mind. Hanging on to one plate and especially if it's the only plate will lead to oneitis. Like, can't you get the same sex from other plates? You should be promoting them or getting bored of them and not try to develop tactics to…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:57 PM
1

What has asktrp come to that people are discussing philosophy/theology? Why don't you go to a forum dedicated to those things if you want to waste time doing something that will do you more harm than good (time invested in reflection/worry/rumination instead of action, leading to depression) if you don't want to pursue it as a profession (where you'd probably get depressed but at least get something out of it)? Quit everything, read nmmng and get in touch with your needs and do what you were mad…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:32 PM
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Why do you ask this, you jelaous? You like girls mentioning other guys? If yes, whatever; if no, punish. We can't decide what you want. This is no fwb/ltr consideration.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:56 AM
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I do care about her decision, I want to fuck her. Basically the only thing I want plus a fun date, but I don't want to overly think about it. That's why I said emotionless, machiavellianism. You are not invested in the shit you write and don't care if you seem like you care or not. Just get her on a date to feel your presence and it's a different ball game, you can then do your thing. The line is throwing a bit of guilt combined with an ultimatum where if she says no, she knows you are gone.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:44 AM
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Don't lose frame, even while texting. You need more connection/investment/fun feeling on her side to get her on a date. You have to know what you want and keep emotional detachment, even if you text a lot. Don't try to act cool, use machiavellianism. I'd either call her or write something like "that's going to be us getting to know each other :)" and under that "unless you don't want to". Maybe not exact words, but I usually do that with girls still in the interaction but avoiding dates ("ok, ma…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:09 PM
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Hello Mr. Robot. See you in a couple of months when you realize you're neither transhuman nor AI, but rather a Homo Sapiens with the need for socializing/human touch. Work your things out, but don't let it become an escape mechanism.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:07 AM
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Depends on upbringing and mental health (if that term even applies to women). The more damaged the girl, combined with shitty/spoiling/unstructured and in general weak (especially from the side of mother not teaching her neat household keeping and father not being a rock) ubringing, the more she'll go for the unstable guy, in this case the uncalibrated aggressive alpha dude, which doesn't mean girls on different side on the spectrum won't fuck him or get attracted to him. Most of them will under…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:26 AM
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If a girl texts you after she ghosted you, you have to have almost zero emotional investment. Meaning you don't care one bit and answer just to see if she wants something. Sometimes they want to meet again. Then you can write a bit more (but still zero complication, straight forward, no emotion). Other than that 1-2 word responses. She can have more attention if she makes up for the ghost. Why would you otherwise waste time on a failed prospect with so many prospects out there?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:52 PM
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From your post, I think it's pretty clear what you have. You are an undisciplined person. You can only do fun stuff, things you are passionate about and do stuff when you are motivated. Couple that with weed and laziness will go through the roof. The fix: you will need to recondition/discipline yourself! Set goals and go through withdrawal. Hack your mind so you never go back to your old ways when stress comes around, because you'll need just a little to fall again. Cut everything out you know d…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:55 AM
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Hey, I don't think your post fits in this thread and as a reply to that comment. It's probably written out of frustration. Trp nowdays wants to explain everything, while people in all other kinds of fields of expertise (philosophy, theology, psychology etc.) would just crush their brains in any kind of discussion based on the fields mentioned. Don't try to make this into a pseudo science. This is a sexual strategy "forum".
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:16 PM
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seems like your girl is a liberal. why would a masculine rp man on a mission want to marry a liberal?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:10 PM
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Fix your frame. "I stayed cool and i gave no fuck (i showed that i dont care)" this right there proves you did care.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:16 PM
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Nope, don't ever compare men and women. And besides that, woman can always get laid and in this day and age, they slut it up without feeling bad. Incel version of a girl is a huge chick not willing to lose weight.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:19 PM
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White people won't keep putting up babies. Today a let's say typical German girl would rather raise a dog together than have a kid. Which sometimes changes when she's 30+, and that's not biologically optimal. Times will drastically change with coming of ai and other new technologies. If we become indifferent to everything and love for mankind is gone, you can bet mankind is going to disappear in no time.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:50 AM
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If you really do have other plates lined up, then B with some kind of "it's not you, it's me" variation. You lost frame, she lost competition anxiety = loss of attraction. You always need to try more to get her in the mood and you don't feel like a man. You lost your way and became soft, but it's salvageable if you detach and work your shit out and looking for other plates can be done in the meantime in case it doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:39 AM
1

drinks near your or her place a walk close to your or her place if you strictly don't want to fuck on first dates even if she begs you for it, then wherever you please, but keep it short, just to see if you like her your or her place if you want to risk it and can pull it off via texting
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:11 PM
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If a sister has to ask that, it's already a bad sign. I wouldn't even talk about it with her (and you shouldn't have this kind of worries on your mind) and tell her something in a funny laid back manner, not trying to discuss anything. You shouldn't try to be right. If you are "above it" and joke around (not complete a&a), she'll know you are right. As of plate, depends on the plate. This one usually comes from plates heading to fwb or already fwb's and even in that case, you should be above it …
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:20 PM
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Wasting time? So you are saying you go to these dates just to get in their pants and don't even enjoy the dates? Or are you saying you are thinking what kind of girl she is before you even fucked her a couple of times? Just relax and start taking what's yours. You don't look for an ltr and your goal with dating randoms should be to have fun on dates and make them wet (create desire) and then fuck if you like them. You'll have time for thinking about ltr-ing when you have a girl pushing for it, a…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:04 PM
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the question is really, do you want to deal with (basically "overpowering it") or resolve it (a psychiatrist)? dealing with it will be very difficult in hard times and will always come back under stress. resolving it will take longer, but it will be gone. if you deal with it, stress will make it a focus some day again, and if you resolve it, there's going to be something else to focus on and deal with. overcoming this thing on your own will take radical changes in life and mindset and sticking w…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:23 AM
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if an ex-plate reaches to you, and you have zero investment and have no problem with her staying ex-plate unless she makes up good for it, as it should be, you should definitely have all the power. so you want to use that power to have drinks with her and her bestie??? zero emotional investing and short texting. invite her over. either she's in or out. done, easy.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:56 PM
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women (at least a good percentage of them) enjoy giving head, but men enjoy it more, yes.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:58 PM
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