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| 11 | How do I reconcile being a “good girl” but with a shameful past?Hi, cherries. You'll have to forgive yourself. It would take time and special events, but that does not mean it is impossible to get over the shame, the guilt. Accept that you got into those relationships because you were craving love, closeness, affection. But, now you've changed and you are a different person and that YOU DESERVE LOVE! YOU DESERVE TO BE SOMEONE SPECIAL TO SOMEBODY ELSE! Which can be done WITHOUT sex. There are many things I wish to tell you as I can relate to your situation, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Tired of living in two places, but feel it's too early to get antsy about marriage. Advice?37... and i am assuming that he never got married or lived with a woman 24/7... I think it is a great time to learn to do it. Being married is also about learning to live with your significant other, which takes quite some time. Depending on how much time you interact/will interact with each other, I can say it may take about 1-2 years or more to completely know how to live with him/her! You seem like a great and kind-hearted woman and I think he would not think as if you are forcing it on him! … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Tired of living in two places, but feel it's too early to get antsy about marriage. Advice?Simple! Talk to him. Express your concerns as honestly and openly as you can, and find a solution together. I think you are both quite mature to have such conversation and deal with this issue together And, this is not going to be your last if ever you intend to married to each other. Just mention how bothersome it is for you to travel back and forth (which i can totally relate! It is not only tiring, but a waste of time and energy!) and ask him if it is a bother to stay over permanently. Perhap… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men I date eventually become complacent?Been in those situations. If guys tell you to love them unconditionally, they are plain lazy and you were one of their conquest. Relationships require (daily) efforts! It is like growing a plant. The day I stop watering it or taking care of it...it starts to dry up, get sick and eventually die. My husband recently told me he loves me unconditionally, but that's different because I know for a fact that every day I put efforts to maintain the relationship! I give him words of affirmation, and show… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/24 02:24 PM |
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