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| 12 | Is it okay to ask a woman why they rejected you well after the fact so you can try to better yourself?Never ask a woman for dating advice, they don't know shit. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on my tinder pic? U.K.Do you keep creating new accounts or is this some sort of malicious trolling designed to expose that dude's pictures to the internet? I swear I see pictures of this guy every other week or so, every time with a different sort of "I'm an ugly loser" story tacked to it. edit: Found it. This was another one. The thread body got deleted but I remember from my reply that this is another one of the threads containing pictures of this guy... could a mod look into this? Is this legit? It just feels … | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateRemindMe! 2 days | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 09:55 PM |
| 5 | How to Instantly Stop Approach AnxietyThe thing with fear and anxiety is that they are oftenly irrational. Rationalising about how they are irrational and how you should just stop is such an amateur psychology. "Hey if you're depressed, JUST go out more! Socializing and the fresh air help!" "Hey if that box is too heavy for you just be stronger." "If you're ugly just look better!" Sure, that's the solution, but if it were easy to do there wouldn't be a problem in the first place. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) virgin. Only get a few tinder/bumble matches but have no game ...feel girls find me repulsive. How can I improve?I've seen at least one of these pictures before in a thread on this sub by a guy allegedly getting mobbed by some girls at the place he waits at. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) virgin. Only get a few tinder/bumble matches but have no game ...feel girls find me repulsive. How can I improve?Aren't you that waiter? | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 12:11 PM |
| 6 | What's the deal with "picking up women"? Is it a valuable skill?Could you be any more condescending? | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 08:40 AM |
| 13 | Got ditched last night> but are some girls just cold? Is this really a question? Are some people just assholes? Yes, the answer is yes. In fact, it's not so rare. Lots of twats out there. Move on. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my chance with this woman?Oh alright then. Nevermind! | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Did I miss my chance with this woman?A while ago there was a reddit thread asking about red flags for dating. "I'm too much to handle" (or a paraphrasing of that) was one of the most upvoted comments. I cannot find the thread right now but that stuck with me. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Did I miss my chance with this woman?Suit yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Did I miss my chance with this woman?> She said I couldn’t handle her That's kind of a red flag. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:27 PM |
| 56 | So my drink got spikedDon't beat em up. Talk to the club stuff and offer to identify them. Have them watched so the club stuff can see if they try that shit again, use that to file a police report and have these assholes charged. Beating them up is idiotic, as you'll just be the one getting charged with attacking them. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Where do you meet girls if you don't like clubs/bars?At clubs you will meet girls who like clubbing. If you don't like clubbing, you don't want a girl that likes clubbing. Think about what you like to do and then think about where girls who like to do the same thing would go. And then talk to them about it. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Was these girls mocking me?Who cares? Don't be so insecure. What IF they were laughing at you? You want to go to the police and file a report? Jesus, if they actually were laughing at you at worst you did something that made you deserve it and at best they're just terrible human beings who you should pay no regards to. | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Would you guys be interested in a 2018 30-day challenge thread?Sounds like a good motivation to get my ass up. | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 08:58 PM |
| -2 | What is the most effective way to handle the post-coital "what are we" line?Yea, wow, how assertive. This surely brings the conversation forward. | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I have a girlfriend but was hit on last night and froze. How do I handle it the best way?I don’t do anything beyond just playful flirting as is. Doesn't matter. It's not about you, it's about the person you say you love. She doesn't know what's going on in your head while you do this and when she finds out you're doing it behind her back she'll absolutely think she's not enough for you. If it's so important to you, talk to her about it. If you're doing it behind her back, that just means that deep inside you know that it would hurt her to find out. Don't be a prick. Don't make exc… | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:55 PM |
| 0 | I have a girlfriend but was hit on last night and froze. How do I handle it the best way?I said "unless your gf is into that sort of thing". I know some couples like it, but unless he knows for sure that his gf is okay with it he needs to expect the opposite. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 09:56 PM |
| 16 | I have a girlfriend but was hit on last night and froze. How do I handle it the best way?Just don't, ever. Unless your girlfriend is into jealousy, it's just extremely hurtful to her if she ever finds out. If you love her, don't hurt her. Easy as that. I know it's slightly sad to you, as flirting is cool for your ego, but this isn't about you, it's about the person you allegedly love. Don't do it. You'll hurt her. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 07:17 PM |
| 4 | I actually lost my virginity through tinder. It’s easier than I thought> Of course I came early, not just because I’m a virgin but because I was nervous about doing it in a public place. Don't scare other guys like that. It works entirely differently for everyone. I was nervous the first time as well but I have never come early. In fact I'd reckon nervousness could have a whole lot of other effects than coming early, like not geting it up. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlI wish OKCupid weren't basically dead here... There were like 20 people active in the last year, lol. Well don't go there to date, go there to check out the questions and see if it can inspire you! That said, combine your first list with the second and you got 6 items. Try to find these out about a girl and don't compromise. Now we got something to talk about (figuring out if they match) and don't come across as needy affection depraved losers anymore. \o/ | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlFun story, the info in question is not shown to me when I use the new reddit look. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlTry flirting and walking away. Later you can get their number. Wait what? How am I gonna get the number when I walk away? Sorry if I'm being daft | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlI can't, really. Unless I'm intoxicated or know the person. What are light things to say? Just spitball a little for me please. It would help tremendously. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlThat's incredibly soothing to hear. So what do I say after "Hi!" ? What do you say? I'm a terrible small talker (if I'm not drunk or don't know the person). Would appreciate like the first 2 things to say after that. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlThe other people's replies I got addressed it quite well. My plight it that the media shoving down feminist propaganda about how everything men do is sexist makes me entirely incapable of figuring out how to actually act in an acceptable way that doesn't make me a rapist. So to say. Also how do I start a conversation with someone who I know absolutely nothing about except that they look good? I'm horrible at small talk and I feel like "Hey you look great" translates directly into "I'm shallow"… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlyou find something to start talking about How do I make coffee? Well easy, you just start making coffee And forget any feminist shit the media throws down your throat because it doesn't represent reality. Even better, read The Rational Male. More mindblowing than any other sexuality book I've come across. Thank you, I will. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:24 PM |
| 2 | This is the best time to approach a girlAnd so what if you hit on a girl and she’s not feeling it? All she had to say is “No, thank you.” and off you go your separate ways. Less than five seconds. I mean you're probably right. I just really don't want to be that asshole talked about on twitter for harassing girls who just want to read a book in the park you know? Thanks for the reply. I have a problem with overthinking and radical feminists whining about absolutely everything men do has left me questinioning if there is even any desir… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlI mean that's a start? I honestly need to do the same thing for myself but for myself. I feel like a women's voice is actually kind of important to me.. the way she talks and how it sounds. I love communicating and a screechy voice or someone who blabbers really really quickly would be a real turn off to me :-/ (I also generally have problems understanding people who talk really quickly) I also want someone who likes to read, something about women who read is immensely sexy even if I don't read … | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlSeriously every time I talk about it I get shut down hard with downvotes and dumb comments and basically 0 people offering any help to my plight. I may be a little sensitive when it comes to this. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:48 PM |
| -1 | This is the best time to approach a girlExcuse me? I'm asking a legitimate question here, why are you downvoting and attacking me? The fuck is wrong | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 4 | This is the best time to approach a girlWork on your posture and smile. Groom yourself and wear fitting clothes (I TOTALLY get that wide clothes are awesome to wear, but they look shitty and you also prefer women who wear attractive clothes). And work out. At least a little. Do something for your body. It increases your self respect and that will instantly show. You don't have to hit the Gym 24/7 and become Arnold Schwarzenegger, just make sure that you're reasonably fit. Do a couple push-ups and sit ups every morning, go for a 20 m… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 06:43 PM |
| -7 | This is the best time to approach a girlSo walk up to somebody that I know nothing about other than that I find her physically attractive. What do I say? "Hi! I'm shallow and would like to have sex with you"? Because underlyingly, deep down we know that is what's going on and feminists tweeting male hate have brainwashed me into thinking that women instantly think this when you approach them without proper reason. I am getting downvoted why? Is it because it's not allowed to mention how e.g. the video of the woman getting hit on w… | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 06:38 PM |
| 10 | How to never run out of things to saySure but "just do it" doesn't help me when I'm sitting there like "...." Just do WHAT? I'm pretty sure people like me need a list of topics prepared in their head so that they always have something to fall back on and never need to think about it on the fly. I never have that problem when I'm comfy with someone, it's just the stress of talking to strangers that makes me overthink. | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 10 | How to never run out of things to sayFunny how that works, innit? | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How to never run out of things to sayThank you for the suggestion! I bookmarked it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 10 | How to never run out of things to sayBLANK mind. Hahaha. I guess it's hard to understand for people who don't have that problem. That said I just went on a date and it went awesomely. Not a single second of awkward silence cause I felt kind of relaxed around her. Or maybe I'm afraid of something that has been a problem of the past for me but is no longer. | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 08:57 PM |
| 128 | How to never run out of things to sayActually my mind literally goes blank when I need to say something without having a topic at hand. I can talk endlessly about many topics, but come up to me and say "Say something funny" or "Tell me a story" and my mind goes blank. It's not that I judge what's on my mind, it's that my mind goes entirely empty whenever I'm in a situation where I need to be spontaneous. I can be totally spontaneous and charming and eloquent and all those good things when it comes naturally. Put me in a position … | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 04:52 PM |
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