BunnyOk9 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Reframing his intense work habits as self-care This is such a helpful (and productive) way of thinking about this topic. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/22 03:22 AM
0	being fat makes me hate taking care of myself or being social, what can i do to improve? 1,200 calories is NOT enough. Calorie restricting to that level will just lead to a very slow metabolism because your body will think you are starving and hold onto whatever fat it has. You lose muscle faster than fat in that case. It will also lead to binge eating. Calorie counting and awareness has its place but 1200 is unsustainable and ineffective for most people!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/22 08:56 AM
19	The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this. I didn't say can't attract any good men, but as you get older you're going to be less likely to attract the men who are excited about having a family. For some women that isn't important, but for most it is Anecdote isn't data, one or two instances don't disprove how things usually go. If you were a man who wanted a family and looked at two women, one with 10 years left of fertility left and the other with possibly only 2-3, and with all else equal, which would you pick? Men don't value money an…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/22 11:08 PM
27	The Wall really matters if you're a woman like this. There is some wisdom here, I do see what you mean, but a major element I would say is missing here is the fact that for most women children are a nonnegotiable need in their life. For someone who would be ok without children (ie open to 1-2 but doesn't NEED them) then it is ok to wait until 35-40 to settle down and date throughout their 30s. Also, the men they attract in those ages are probably not dead-set on kids either However, the majority of women do want kids. And the type of men these wom…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/22 10:47 PM
-2	How many men have you dated that actually wanted to pay and not split? Agreed. At the start it's important for the man to pay because it is a good way to tell how traditional he will be, but later on I don't mind splitting expenses more when we're doing stuff all the time	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/22 09:20 PM
12	Should I “stay in touch?” A 27 y.o man knows by 4 months of interacting with you if he is interested in something serious with you or not. And if he was interested, he would not let you go as easily as saying he'd be happy for you if you met someone else. Rather, he would be trying to lock you down -- a ski season is not very long for distance, and you could easily date when he got back. A man can simultaneously enjoy your company and want to keep his options open	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/21 12:16 AM
1	Ideas for small gifts for a baby? Babies love mirrors! They're also good for their development: https://babysparks.com/2019/03/04/why-mirrors-are-good-for-your-babys-development/	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 10:20 AM
1	How do I stop worrying about better girls taking away future prospects for marriage? One thing to keep in mind is that while young women are often pretty mature around your age, young men take longer. Most men aren't very marriageable at 18ish, but as time goes on they will mature, establish themselves in careers, gain more confidence, etc. So if you don't see many good marriage candidates in your peers right now then you don't need to worry. Also, keep in mind that age gaps shrink as you get a little older. 18 and 23 might seem strange right now, but when you're 24, 24 and 29 i…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/21 06:15 AM
15	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. I'm sorry, and I don't mean at all to come across as rude, but that is a little ridiculous. If a child is born to slightly older parents, it isn't going to wish it hadn't been born. It's going to be happy it has two loving parents and a warm, loving home. Kids in 20s is better in many ways, but late is far better than never. Many many women have 2 kids between 35 and 40. The risks are indeed higher, but still very low Of course this is assuming you two would like kids, and just think you are too…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/21 09:30 PM
62	My husband wants me to be a SAHM and us to become more traditional RPW is a toolbox to improve yourself and your relationships, not a strict set of rules. You can pick up some actions and mindsets more than others and it will still improve your relationships. If the idea of a RP relationship is enticing to him, then that's great and you two should communicate what you think those changes might look like. It's important to meet each other's needs. Something like the man feeling emasculated will deteriorate a marriage over time. But, at the same time, your curren…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/10/21 06:51 PM
24	Thoughts on living together before marriage? There are a couple reasons to be cautious about cohabitation. The first is inertia. Basically, it makes it much more difficult to break up. If at some point in the future you're on the fence about staying together or not, you're much more likely to stay together, for better or worse, when breaking up would mean breaking a lease, dividing up your stuff, etc., the whole ordeal. This puts you at higher risk of ending up with someone you otherwise would not have chosen to. If you aren't sure enough …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/21 08:40 AM