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Yeah I have wide hips but a small waist. There's literally nothing I could do to reduce my hips. It's bone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:33 AM
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Where is the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:31 AM
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You absolutely can be chubby while working out. You can't have a "fit body" with a large waist though. That's a sign of visceral fat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:20 AM
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Probably because your personality. Nobody likes bitter people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:19 AM
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But if she were a plane, would you settle for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:54 AM
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Don't feel sorry for me, I actually married the best man that has ever happened or ever will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:52 AM
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Getting in a relationship with the goal of changing the person you're with is a recipe for disaster. It's also very controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:46 AM
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A lot of men don't realize that professional men want professional women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:03 AM
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Male logic: I only notice pretty girls that go clubbing therefore all women spend all their time in clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:52 AM
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No, you just have very poor reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:08 AM
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So was Freud. Psychology is a field rife with bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:57 AM
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The comment literally says men you're not in a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:51 AM
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Generally, yes from my experience. Most guys are like the guys on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:35 AM
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So you don't see any problems with the way the data is presented? It's a yes or no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:43 PM
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So that's a no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:51 PM
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Did you even read what you keep posting or are you unable to see any glaringly obvious problems with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:36 PM
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https://www.bls.gov/news.release/archives/atus_06272017.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:23 PM
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They who? My husband never touches the mower
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:21 PM
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I didn't say you were, just that you come across as such. Very sour and unpleasant tone to your post, with outlandish conclusions and weird connections that don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:13 PM
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You come across like an insufferable jerk, so thats probably what that's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:06 PM
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Well, he says he hit on me (while I was on my phone so not trying to interact with anyone) but I don't recall that at all. What I recall is that after our first exam (we were in the same class) he said something and I noticed him for the first time, started talking to him, then offered to study together at my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:23 AM
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Yes. He's now my husband and I adore him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:46 PM
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Most men are not logical or rational. I guess you don't consider anger an emotion and think fighting is a rational response
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:40 AM
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But dating apps do debunk the notion that it's personality that's primarily holding men back in dating. Not even a little bit. How much can you tell about someone's personality on a dating app? Also, the type of person likely to use dating apps is already going to bias your sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:27 AM
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Guys that are always looking for a fight are toxic af. Avoiding conflict and de-escalating situations is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:23 AM
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why is getting sex so difficult for average men? It's not. It's difficult for losers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:04 AM
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My point is that beautiful people get perks others don't. You want to be handsome enough that women will lust after you for just existing, just like some women would want to be beautiful enough that men will just give them a lot of money. It's not going to happen for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:42 AM
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Most women will never date a man that will fly her to the Bahamas for lunch or let her buy whatever she wants either. Boohoo, life isn't fair and most people don't get to live their fantasies. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:31 AM
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All the statistics show that more and more women are earning the same or more than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:16 AM
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Idk sounds like the average 39 year old male to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:29 PM
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Again, most women thinks that their significantly more opportunities and attention they get FROM MEN is worthless, overall. Even if this is true (and I don't think it is) how does this mean that women think all men are trash? Not wanting or valuing male attention does not mean you think men are trash. I come off as bitter because I am. The difference is I think I have reasons to be (the world forces me into the role that has to prove his awesomeness and I would prefer not to be in this role) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:55 PM
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You've moved the goal posts. Do many think all men are trash, or just men that whine about not getting dates? The reason why people dislike men that "think about the world and what's expected of him compared to woman" is because they typically say things that are misogynistic and come off as bitter and hateful. There's a difference between that and discussing problems. The problem is that many men are too emotional and can't control their temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:30 PM
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Again, not most women. Do you actually talk to any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:12 PM
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Ok how about "the majority of men are trash"? Maybe not all, but most of them? Aren't literally all women on the planet believing this? No. Literally, not all women believe that. Not even most believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:04 PM
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As I said, probably because the men they're with tend to speak about them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:30 AM
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Ah yes, the men that want trad wives definitely demonstrate that they respect women. It's totally not at all that they constantly say things that show that they think women are weak, stupid objects
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:22 AM
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So basically you're agreeing with OP, that being submissive means being inferior. The want for submission is for these moments, to know that I'm trusted to make this decision (after a lot of deliberation of course) and to know that it wont end a relationship if I do decide against your wants about this choice. Why would anyone be ok with this? That's a shitty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:19 AM
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No. Only an idiot would believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:00 AM
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So well-traveled and yet you've never heard of a confirmation bias? Weird. It's almost as if traveling just made you pretentious, not smart
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:44 PM
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My husband chose to commit to me because I'm better for him than every other woman. That's what everybody is looking for, their best person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:18 PM
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No, just anticipated you finding some screed on social media and not an actual execuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 02:09 AM
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Nobody takes sedatives anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:52 PM
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And? They're willing and able to get treatment so it just makes sense that they'd be the happiest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:57 AM
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Which is what you're claiming "is" what's happening
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:38 AM
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Show me one example where a woman in a position of power said something that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:37 AM
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None of those posts support what you're saying at all. It also seems like you think openly displaying your sexist beliefs is just fine and dandy at work, but it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:39 PM
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This comment is an example of why it's pointless to argue with men because they're too emotional to understand logic. Nor do I want unsolicited fat chicks sightings, nose piercing or whatever. But I survive. An unsolicited dick pick is for women what a body positive ad is for men. Why is one a bad thing while the other one celebrated? It's like you've become so bitter and angry that you're now totally unhinged from reality. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:15 PM
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A man who complains about the women available for dating is labeled (by society at large) an incel / Tate dick-rider / etc and is roundly denied Well, this is both wrong and offensive so yeah, people should say something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:04 PM
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This is absolutely not true. All the autistic women I know are in relationships with autistic men or alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:38 PM
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Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:41 AM
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Fewer people = fewer assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:43 PM
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Unless you're going to create new people that are better than current people this will never work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:40 PM
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Overpopulation is a myth, the entire human population could fit in the continental U.S.with room to spare. We grow more food than we consume each year, by multiplier sums. We don't have a resource scarcity problem, we have a resource allocation problem( greed) . Having less people on the planet isn't going to make that problem go away. Well duh. Drop your standard of living low enough and we can have way more people. We're not going to do anything about the super rich or address climate change (…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:26 PM
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The comment I replied to said creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:11 AM
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I find the idea of assigning a human value based on superficial characteristics gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:14 AM
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Why don't you look up the link between domestic violence and age gaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:01 AM
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Nobody is talking about permissions. Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:13 PM
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How is it appropriate for a 30 year old to be dating a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:10 PM
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No, it doesn't. What a reach
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:07 PM
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And how often is it newsworthy when a man is raping his students? Oh right, never
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:50 PM
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30 year old. I guess you're unfamiliar with the patterns of domestic abuse, but acting all nice in front of people doesn't mean you're going to be all nice behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:48 PM
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No. Men have always been emotional and prone to violence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:46 PM
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So true. Men are just way too emotional and need to be handled with kid gloves lest they lose control and shoot a bunch of people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:03 AM
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Women visually wise are the best constructed creatures in history Have you ever seen a peacock?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:52 PM
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Spot on. The men of this sub are a toxic mix of insecure and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:44 AM
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Coping mechanism. "I want women, but women don't want me...must be because women are bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:35 AM
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Not concerning, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:32 AM
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women mature earlier than men This is total BS someone came up with to excuse men for their poor behavior and predatory instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:17 AM
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When it's a woman raping a student it makes the news, not when it's a man because that's just way too common. A slightly harsher sentence seems like a much better deal than your face plastered all over national news
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:11 AM
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Or I guess older women get jealous if a young woman has an older man that is attractive with status, and they will think they wish they were her, and so it's the same attitude therefore perhaps? No. Most women have tons of experience with creepy old men when they're young and remember how it feels. Older men that hit on younger women are very often aggressive and unaware of how uncomfortable or even scared the woman is, or just don't care. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:05 AM
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No. I look at things objectively, unlike the boys on this sub that are so clouded by their bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:49 AM
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Do you think this discussion is balanced?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:49 PM
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There are a bunch of parenting subs. Try one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:23 PM
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There is still a huge stigma surrounding mental health, so anyone that's open about their issues is going to turn a lot of people off. Men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:22 PM
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I feel like even talking about mental health struggles in an objective way can backfire though Nobody should be dumping their emotional baggage on someone that they don't have an established emotional bond with. So many men rush that part because they don't feel comfortable being emotionally open with their friends/family and just want to unload everything way too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:57 AM
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Do you really think this toxic sub is any place to get parenting advice? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:27 AM
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Yeah, it's easy to get a husband if you're a doormat with no standards and don't mind getting beat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:03 AM
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Yawn don't you ever get tired of playing the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:01 AM
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More like, the men that buy into that bullshit only pay attention to women that are desperate for attention. Anything to avoid facing their own demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:18 PM
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How is it egalitarian? Do men give birth now? This is news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:26 AM
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Always end up married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:46 PM
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They wouldn't prefer it when the kids are under 5. That's when it's difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:26 PM
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If you think of child care as just "work" then I hope to god you never have kids. Most parents, certainly all GOOD parents, would much rather be spending time with their kids than at work. Parents were complaining nonstop when schools closed during lockdown. Most parents would HATE spending too much time with their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:13 PM
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https://www.cnbc.com/2023/04/20/more-women-are-out-earning-their-husbands-in-the-us.html
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:45 AM
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No, it's not to be taken literally. The thing more people are saying now is "happy spouse, happy house" to express that in a marriage it's important for both partners to prioritize each other's happiness. That's what my husband and I both do, and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:27 PM
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Exactly. It would also bother me if my husband considered me so weak and incompetent that I couldn't handle a situation myself. Men are very emotional, and I wouldn't want them getting into it and having a scene turn violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:24 PM
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The only time I'd want my husband to intervene is if I am in immediate danger. If someone's bothering me they'll soon learn I can be extremely unpleasant, and if they escalate to harassment it's better to alert security or call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:19 PM
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Gestures broadly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:03 PM
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No, what you're saying is simply not true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:06 PM
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I don't know what type of men you associate with, but I know men that go for all kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:16 PM
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It literally makes no sense at all. I send posts to my husband and we laugh at how crazy the guys on here are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:15 PM
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too busy enjoying the company of their own good men to bother arguing You do realize that people often have jobs that involve dead time, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:01 AM
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Which couldn't possibly be the experience the men here have, could it? No. No man has ever met and interacted with all women. At best, it's their opinion based on their small, biased sample
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:56 AM
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No way. They lean hard in the other direction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:53 AM
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It's like watching a car wreck. Fascinating and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:52 AM
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What's your point? Lots of "never married" are in LTR and just don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:37 AM
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Even your own goddamn friends & family, people that actually know you, are falling for this bullshit?! That'd a good indication that the bullshit is the story posted here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 10:57 AM
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I'm not social, I dislike small talk, and I generally hate interacting with people I don't know but will enthusiastically engage with anyone that comes up to talk to me about my pets, my garden, or my research. I just don't like forcing conversations with strangers to avoid being seen as rude, which is what guys that cold approach usually end up doing because if you don't know someone and aren't meeting somewhere that gives you a task to complete you probably have no idea what their interests ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:26 AM
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The "problem" is obvious to anyone thats owned chickens. Men are built to fight, and whomever wins gets the women. Too many roosters is a recipe for disaster. Historically a lot more men would die earlier, and so the male:female ratio was low and favorable to men. Now that more men survive to adulthood and beyond the ratio is closer to 1:1, and men are very unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:23 AM
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No, only 100% gay men can accurately rate men!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:22 AM
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someone they enjoy being with Did you mean to write "someone with money they can spend"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:18 AM
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I think you mean "the inability to listen to anything other than 'woman bad' is why there's no hope for you guys." If you want a healthy, loving relationship the goal is not to appeal to most women but to find the ones you will get along with. If you think of women as less than the only women that will date you will be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:05 PM
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They're not opposed. You can't be yourself if you have issues that are preventing that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:29 AM
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This is how you end up in shitty relationships. If you have issues that are preventing that work on those first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:27 AM
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Nonsense. Women aren't as likely to want to fuck everybody but get just as horny as men do, if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:41 AM
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This is excellent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:11 AM
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What? This must be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:09 AM
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Stop thinking all women are the same. If you can't be yourself in a relationship it's a toxic relationship. That's the RP bullshit you need to drop. Shit like this: you basically gotta be completely aware of their nature and intentions. Yet got to not let it bother you.. when deep down it obviously does bother me. This kind of attitude will guarantee that you end up with another crazy chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:07 AM
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I guess you've never seen "cheaters"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:49 AM
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Slap a few too many mental unstable people in a group, that chases the mental stable ones away, and you left with a completely unhinged unregulated hate train. That's a very accurate description of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:47 AM
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I had sex on the first date with every guy I seriously dated, including my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:44 AM
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You have no idea if it was just a matter of time. Either way, having kids before you can afford them is one of the worst things a person can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:20 AM
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Watch what they do. Guys on here are full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:40 AM
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When people say "watch what they do" on this sub they mean "only pay attention to things that support my warped world view"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:25 AM
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I quite clearly was talking about men in their 30s and early 40s dating women in their mid-late 20s. Not women "half their age". 20 is half of 40 dude, and it's not meant to be taken literally. Secondly, how is a guy not worth dating if he's expressing his preference for dating women that are younger than him? Because he's a creep. You haven't been a young woman before and cannot understand how unwelcome that attention is. Men that target young women because they're young are looking at women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:07 PM
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Wait, if a woman doesn't marry she can't have a home? Or a community? Do you honestly think most men can build a house? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:38 AM
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It's all total bullshit. Marry young if you want to be a young divorcee. I love my husband more than everything. I'd rather be alone than with anyone else, and if I had rushed into marriage I would never have met him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:22 AM
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Most of my married friends that are happily married and financially secure met their husband while in their 30's. The men worth dating aren't chasing women half their age, and there's always a huge supply of quality men for any age. My mother met her husband when she was in her late 50s or early 60s. If your friends are struggling it's probably because they need to work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:03 AM
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They never remove comments that are insulting women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:43 AM
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If they're not hot, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:41 AM
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Not because he is a movie star but because the character I associate with him (boardwalk empire) is weirdly sexy Edit: meaning not him but the character he plays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:17 AM
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I'm going to assume you're not referring to bicycles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:14 AM
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Why do you keep posting links to your other shitty comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:13 AM
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Was that a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:07 AM
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Not routine testing. It's more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:06 AM
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It's not 30% of all men. Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:59 AM
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Simple doesn't mean cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:58 AM
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Chimeras exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:54 AM
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Your "argument" is built on a false principle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:49 PM
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Death isn't wrong. Suffering is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:55 PM
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The depraved part is how we treat animals. Abortion is not the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:28 AM
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Killing animals is also murder then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:48 AM
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Comparing a medical procedure to murder is a weird place to go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:27 AM
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Yeah, but men never had those to begin with, so why should we care? You don't take on any risks of child bearing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:18 AM
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Not that you're a bad person, but that you just don't understand how to talk to women. A charismatic guy doesn't have problems getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:51 AM
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You're in your 20s yet have so many divorced "chad" friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:41 AM
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It sucks for them but it's not a real problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:36 PM
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If you think "high value" men only care about looks and want a pushover you're wrong. They LOVE bitchy women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:22 PM
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Lmao you think most men know how to fix anything? Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:21 PM
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When? After she started screaming at him? I don't see how anyone could honestly think her reaction was not totally insane
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:03 AM
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There's no reason to assume that guy was trying to hit on her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:34 PM
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Being approached does not mean being hit on. There are plenty of reasons why someone might need to ask a question or mention that your tires are low, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:33 PM
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I thought it would be common sense not to approach a woman with a child in a parking lot. This is some serious nonsense right here. There's no reason to freak out because someone tries to talk to you in a parking lot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:31 PM
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Well yeah. Who wants to be a step parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:09 PM
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They killed the participants immediately after
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:23 AM
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My husband is way out of my league and we've been together for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:09 AM
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I've seen 5% and 1% too. It's a handy way to judge how bitter the person commenting is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:30 AM
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Did you mean "what the fuck do I care?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:33 AM
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Ok if you're a misanthrope just say that. Hating everybody is less offensive than hating a specific group
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:29 AM
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Yeah I don't see the point in buying a depreciating asset. I'd rather get like, an engagement down-payment for a condo or a few acres of land. If you're really traditional you'd be buying some cows or shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:03 AM
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Why would you dislike all men just because some of them are shitty? That's being just as bad as the assholes on here. Most of the guys on this sub are absolutely vile, pitiful, or deranged, but they're also a small subset of all men. I know plenty of lovely men, and I think my husband is the best person that ever happened. Men are people; some will be great, some will be terrible, and most will be somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:57 AM
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It's also possible that you're taking a very small, biased sample (people you know) and extrapolating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:43 AM
1

So you think most boys are like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:00 PM
-2

What women-only spaces are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:58 AM
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Feminism is for women Actually it's not just for women, it's for men too. Men shouldn't have to bear the entire financial burden for a family, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:47 AM
0

Actually the female mantis doesn't always eat the male. If she's well fed it's not necessary and so she won't eat him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:09 AM
-1

That's a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:59 AM
2

I also don't understand why the most desirable men chase after me. I am just an 18 year old virgin. I have long, flowing hair, with huge blue eyes and pouty lips . My breasts are large and perky, and I have a bubble butt. I am shy and obedient, and never want to have to think for myself. Do men really like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:58 AM
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....because men first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:02 AM
0

No, it doesn't unless you want to end up in some shitty, transactional relationship with a woman that has no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:50 AM
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Their truth is trash. They're all just assholes that take advantage of sad men. Well when money stops appealing to women ill worry. This is a perfect example. If you really think like this then you need therapy, not some you tuber
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:43 AM
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Basically, the manosphere harps on body count to try scare women into relationships with men like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:47 PM
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Actually, there's no real difference in metabolism until your 60s. https://health.osu.edu/wellness/aging/does-metabolism-really-slow-down-with-age#:~:text=For%20years%2C%20the%20assumption%20has,reach%20the%20age%20of%2060.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:02 PM
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If you're really that busy I don't see why you would even need to work out to maintain your physique. I stay slender without doing anything other than eating mostly vegetables, working, and taking care of my family
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:59 PM
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It's sad that you think this. You probably need to find a better social circle. I'd say most men irl have women in their life that they absolutely do love. Many of my female friends and family have wonderful, caring men that love and cherish them. I have no doubt that my husband loves me as much as I love him. I've also seen plenty of men that are horrible monsters, but they're a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:59 PM
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You made a statement that "women don't like men" which should be obviously untrue to anyone that knows any actual people. When did I say anything about "men don't like women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:20 PM
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Oh good, you understood that it was supposed to sound condescending. Weird how you still seem to struggle with the idea that the "hate" you see is a response to the extreme vitriol constantly being slung at women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:51 PM
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No honey, you're confusing women not wanting the whiny misogynists on this subreddit for women not wanting any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:46 PM
0

If you had to live in Afghanistan, would you rather be a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:36 PM
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I’m gonna need stats that this was “commonplace.” Especially in America, at any time. What? Are you really this ignorant? Are you saying you think it wasn't common to hit your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:31 PM
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The resentment comes when said male partner doesn't do their share of the housework
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:26 PM
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Dude is unhinged fr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:32 AM
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It's not at all. All that shows is that women are more likely to seek treatment. That's why men end up offing themselves more. 80% of suicides are men. You don't think that's relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:51 AM
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Because the medication helped
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:07 AM
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That just means they weren't, not that they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:39 AM
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College is the best place for that. I met my husband in multivariable calculus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:53 AM
1

Young parents complain about not being able to afford children. People that wait until they're financially stable are not the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:36 AM
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Don't approach random women. Find ways you're comfortable meeting new people. Honestly, the best way to get laid is working in a restaurant imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:25 AM
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Why do you assume that people taking antidepressants aren't happy? That's literally the point of taking them: to allow you to be happy. Many of the people I know that have been taking them for a while are very happy, which is why they don't want to discontinue the medication
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:22 AM
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Most women don't like dating apps. When I was single I tried them, and they used to be much better because people actually had to make profiles and tried harder. Then tinder happened. I had been in a relationship, then tried tinder when that didn't work out. It was terrible. No profiles, just pictures. How can you get a sense for what kind of person someone is? That's why it's just a bunch of thirsty dudes and a few women that are dtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:13 AM
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I make 92638392648192720274 a year and date only the most beautiful men and women, and also I own the world's first teacup elephant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:59 AM
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No, you just can't read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:51 AM
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If this is true then you must also believe all the women that say that men are trash. If you think all men/women are trash the problem is usually YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:09 AM
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I meant guys on this sub, which I agree are definitely a minority. I oscillate between feeling really bad for them and really disgusted by them. A lot of my friends are super awkward, nerdy guys and I wish more women would give them a chance because they're literally the best kind of guy to be with imo. But they don't ever express any of the toxicity I see on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:04 AM
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No, I actually know people in the real world. If this is your experience you need to reevaluate what you're doing with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:08 AM
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Most of the men have such terrible opinions about women it's a relief to know that they aren't able to get one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:58 AM
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The only reason you think this is a systemic issue is because you immerse yourself in the fantasy land promoted by the manosphere. Most women are not like the caricature you have in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:53 AM
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I don't and wouldn't want a husband that did because I feel it is a sign of insecurity, vanity, and/or shallowness. I think it's better for people to learn to be comfortable in their own skin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:14 PM
0

Why do you assume the people that end up lonely are childless and never married?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:24 AM
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How your partner "sees" you depends on how they feel about you. If my partner was horribly disfigured I'd still love them the same. He's got wrinkles and folds in places he didn't used to, but he's still the sexiest man alive to me and always will be unless the person he is changes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:24 AM
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Once you fall in love with a man they become that "omg he's so sexy" person to you. My husband doesn't look like he did 10 years ago, but every time I see him my heart melts. I love him for him, and so whatever he looks like is sexy to me now because he is sexy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:34 AM
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Everybody ages. Wouldn't you want your partner to love YOU, not just your current look?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:31 AM
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because when talking to men you can be as unfiltered as you want Look through the comments here and the men are all VERY thin-skinned. Also, talking about sports, video games, and anime is horrendously boring. Most men have at most a very basic understanding of anything even mildly interesting but speak as though they know everything. If you enjoy discussing games with toddlers then I guess I can see why you would think most men are excellent conversationalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:46 PM
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Probably because you're amused by even the most mundane things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:36 PM
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The men get fat regardless. Your statement was that women are more likely to get fat, but that's not supported by the data. They're more likely than unmarried women, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:36 PM
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That is not what your source says at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:04 AM
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The thing is though that most modern women don't seem to have many hobbies, interests or points of discussion other than social media and liberal talking points since both of those things are popular. ...and men do? Most men are boring and unintelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:31 AM
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Men love fighting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:52 AM
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Even if you do health is priceless. What is your body worth to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:26 AM
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That's fair. Nobody should be concerned with the sex lives of others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:03 AM
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So you admit that people were criticizing the women you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:13 AM
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Men do this though. They think getting a ton of women is how to get respect from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:11 AM
1

A vocal minority is not "everyone"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:44 AM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:02 AM
1

I met my husband when he was 22 and I was 32
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:07 AM
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It's not an observation, it's a judgmental screed. Are you unable to tell the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:50 AM
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This comment got me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:43 AM
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Reproducibility crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:39 AM
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Mainstream media includes Fox news and they would LOOOOOOVE to be able to report this. Also, I don't see a link in your previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:18 PM
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Either people didn't read the article at all or are dumber than I thought. The data they cite in the article does not match up at all with what the original found. They just made up numbers for liberal vs conservative. Here is the link to the survey Further, if you actually read the article they make other specious arguments, such as when they say that "Additionally, research has shown that liberals and conservatives “display different profiles of moral concerns, with liberals placing a greater …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:15 PM
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Which companies avoid hiring white men? Is there a crisis of unemployed white men now and the media is not reporting it? This is the first I'm hearing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:44 AM
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Exactly. An example is how conservatives are supposed to hate big government and love personal freedom but want to ban abortion and limit access to birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:38 AM
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I've never met a conservative with actual morals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:34 AM
0

So you're bitter because nobody wanted you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:14 AM
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Why are you so angry if you're satisfied with your love life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:05 AM
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Suuuuuure... the bitterness just came out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:59 AM
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No shared interests or sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:39 PM
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Personality. Even guys I initially thought were super hot can instantly Sahara my vagina if they're dumb or boring. I had a HUGE crush on Jon Stewart when I was in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:22 PM
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Hey hey be nice, he's just a little kid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:53 AM
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That is not a recent picture of Jon hamm. This is The image you chose is like, 7 years old. Are you intentionally being misleading?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:04 PM
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If he was actually successful with women he wouldn't be so desperate and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:54 PM
1

The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:40 PM
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7) The way they talk to you: girls that respond with happy emojies, winky faces, extra vowels in their speach, tend to be more happy to talk to you. One girl who I'm talking to, at least once per page of text is responding with a lol or lmfaooooo or equivalent. And this isn't just some airhead, but literally a nurse practitioner with a masters degree making 6 figures. It's their way of showing interest. If they sound like they are bored office meeting, they are probably bored of talking... to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:08 PM
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Then move duh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:54 PM
1

Maybe because you're bitter and angry? I wouldn't want to spend any amount of time with someone like that no matter how rich/attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:48 PM
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Ah I meant for those that are not forced or coerced. Certainly sex trafficking is orders of magnitudes worse and I should've been more clear
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:37 PM
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Would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:17 AM
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Don't know why the other person is saying DNA records aren't kept. They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:11 AM
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I don't think everyone doing sex work is forced or traumatized. I think that the prejudice against sex work is what causes the most problems. Sex workers shouldn't be ashamed of what they do any more than any other profession
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:38 AM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:53 AM
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Talking about things you don't understand is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:48 AM
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Ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:45 AM
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No, rp only looks for things that appear to back up their crackpot theories. Scientists look at the available research and build off that to prove or disprove their hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:57 AM
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Oh yes, every scientist cherry-picks evidence because the goal is to prove your hypothesis, not test the hypothesis. I guess you think all scientists are bought but that's simply not true. If it were we would still use leaded gasoline and recommend pregnant women smoke to calm their nerves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:52 AM
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They are not. Actual scientists don't go around cherry-picking data that supports their hypothesis. Well, the good ones don't anyways. That's not being a "systemic thinker" it's trying to justify preexisting beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:31 AM
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This is not common what are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:06 AM
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You're not a physicist. I am, and literally spend most of my time with physicists. I have a BS in chemistry, a BS in physics, and a PhD in physics. I have never met one as pointlessly long-winded as you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:56 PM
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Trained scientists do not think in such rigid generalisations. Lmao and now I'm 100% you've never so much as met a physicist, and have no idea what science actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:26 PM
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Trained scientists do not think in such rigid generalisations. Lmao and now I'm 100% you've never so much as met a physicist, and have no idea what science actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:26 PM
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It's not science because it doesn't meet the 5 requirements: clearly defined terminology, quantifiability, highly controlled experimental conditions, reproducibility, and predictability and testability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:59 PM
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Statistics aren't understood by most people, as you've made so clear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:40 AM
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Psychology is a field rife with problems and shouldn't be confused with real science. Anything gets published and there's a huge reproducibility crisis in the field
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:31 AM
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No way. I used to be adamant about never getting married, but when I met my husband everything changed and I have had zero interest in other men ever since. He's so perfect to me. I still have an insane sex drive but now it's focused like a laser on him and only him. The smell of his shirts after he's been wearing then all day drives me INSANE with desire. I used to hate chest hair but now go to sleep every night running my fingers through his. The right person will make anyone forget about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:23 AM
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I agree she is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:15 PM
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Men love to complain about age gap relationships where the woman is older. The difference is only men that ever complain about being shamed and usually those are pedophiles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:26 PM
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...for drugs that have failed to make it to market. Current research is focused on methods that don't have those side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:23 AM
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How much would you pay to maintain your health?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:10 AM
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but the side effects from many trials so far are things that would directly impact a man's ability to get or have sex in the first place, so they aren't generally accepted. What are you talking about? You're completely uninformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:07 AM
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Shocking how people feel so strongly about this yet so few have heard of vasalgel...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:06 AM
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Sure dude. We all believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:21 AM
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Who hurt you? I have a great relationship, but it sounds like you're so caught up in your own fantasy world that you've just completely lost touch with reality. Is it because life is just too painful?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:16 AM
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Go back and read through your own comments, dude. Then really read them, if you're capable of that kind of depth. I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:13 AM
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The fact that you think women are collectibles or property is deeply disturbing. You should seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:11 AM
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You might miss some of the scenery with your head that far up your own ass. At least it's clear why you have such a low opinion of people though. You should try to get out before you become even more jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:08 AM
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Sure go enjoy your townhouse in Kendall bro 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:04 AM
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Lmao no he just told them "guess what color is my bugatti" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:03 AM
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Trailer trash can be any color, and Hispanics can be white. You definitely sound like someone from Miami. I'm sure your car is worth SO MUCH money and people are very impressed by that when they meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:02 AM
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We also had wars constantly, a lot more famine, and people dying of dysentery. You give off the vibe of someone that has a couple trailer trash chicks simping for you because you make $90k and think you're rich
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:42 AM
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He forgot to switch to the right account before replying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:35 AM
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Imagine all the sons you get to watch fight yo through death because that's the only way men will have multiple wives. I'm imaging how terrible it would be if there were even more worthless people in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:14 AM
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Right? Men will literally risk it all for sex. Not very logical
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:37 PM
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I think it's more the opposite. He's super amazing (to me at least) though so it's hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:45 AM
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I told him we should "study" together then told him I was super wet... because I had to walk to my next class in the rain. I also paid for all our dates for the first 2 years because I had a job and he didn't. He paid for most of the next 4 years while I was in grad school if you're wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:23 AM
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I hit on my husband...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:57 AM
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Psychology is not science
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:59 AM
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Facts. My mom met the love of her life in her late 50's. They're both so happy and cute together
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:43 AM
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I make a lot more than just about everyone in the military so not sure what they would be providing other than eggplants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:58 AM
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Really significant sample size you got there buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:10 PM
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Don't forget to check out OP's post history. Really sheds some light on why he needed to rant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:12 AM
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Most men do not care. Just the ones that are salty bc they can't get a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:04 AM
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Not OP but nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:59 AM
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The problem is that too many men accept the norms and support them. When my husband felt burned out at work I supported his decision to take time off and was "the provider" during that time. I love my job and would be devastated if I had to take a leave, he hated his and felt like he needed a break. Seemed like an obvious decision, but I was worried that he would feel emasculated by not working. The only people that gave him shit for it were other men telling him I would leave him or lose respec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/22 03:11 AM
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They are though. I just disagree that it's a uniquely male phenomenon. Women that are insecure are also controlling and manipulative and not worth dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:49 AM
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I've fucked GORGEOUS men before and still think my husband is the absolute best, despite his little belly. When you love a man you don't think about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:38 AM
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Why don't you try it? You guys get so stuck on getting matches but don't seem to care at all about what happens after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:54 AM
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People having kids they can't afford in a capitalist society that makes it increasingly harder to get ahead is where generational poverty comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:47 PM
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No. You should be more concerned that you're dating an asshole that can't communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:41 AM
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I'll bet that no amount of communication would make you worth spending time with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:40 AM
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I don't think they meant outside as in "out of a building" so much as "out of your domicile"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:48 AM
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It is, but you need to be willing to give people a chance after they've earned your trust. It's not going to be helpful if you open up to EVERY woman, because some women are shitty just like some men are shitty. I wouldn't trust anyone without feeling like I've seen them demonstrate that they have good character, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:46 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:37 PM
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You've been unlucky or you think pointing out how you are causing your problems is "throwing it in your face"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:35 PM
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It's not a red flag, it just takes longer for weirdos to find each other but when they do it's happily ever after
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:03 AM
1

That is a huge red flag and those women should be avoided imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:30 AM
0

Depends on where you live. There are families that send their daughters to fat camps where they are force fed to gain weight because that's what is considered attractive in that area. Stretch marks and morbidly obese is the height of beauty in some cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:26 AM
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The whole field of psychology is rife with bad research. Even famous experiments like the Stanford prison experiment are unreproducible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:38 PM
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Most of the guys on here would rather wax their balls than admit when they're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:02 AM
2

The fattest man ever had a petite wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:05 AM
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Ok then, my comment was about adults. Didn't think that needed clarifying. It shouldn't but this sub is full of letches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:25 AM
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I'm going by the medical definition, so someone that's 5'9" would be overweight at 169 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:38 AM
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Wow, way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:29 AM
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It's easy to Google so I'm not sure why you doubt it but here you go https://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-elliot-rodger-incel-20180426-story.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:10 AM
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Not really. I joined a running club when I was training for a marathon and was surprised how many chubby people could run multiple sub 8-min miles. After I broke my foot I gained a ton of weight, and while I was losing it I was highly active but still VERY thick. I also played soccer and rugby, and played with a lot of teammates that were awesome players but not lean. It also depends on what you consider overweight so maybe your definition is more generous than mine. Then you're good. Anybody th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:03 AM
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Depends. People can be overweight and active or thin and lazy. If you're just not attracted to women of a certain size that's not something you should apologize for though. It is what it is. Just don't be a dick to overweight women (or men). I think that's what people get confused about. Nobody has to think Lizzo is sexy, but nobody should go out of their way to tell her she's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:44 AM
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People are attracted to what they're attracted to. I LOVE my husband. He went through a phase where he got a quite chubby and while I knew he wasn't as physically attractive as he was when we met I was still thirsty for him. However, when I went through my own chubby phase he was not as attracted to me. He adores me though, and I know he wouldn't leave me because of that, but his physical attraction is more physical and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I helped him lose weight bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:38 AM
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Don't bother replying to this person. He's totally unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:30 AM
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I guess you don't really understand what an ad hoc fallacy is. But I'll bite anyways Why go after a group instead of calling out the individuals? That's human nature. Look at how people reacted after 9/11. I'm not saying it's right, but can you at least acknowledge that people tend to implicate entire groups when a member does something outrageous? I actually think it's really unfortunate that the most outspoken men's rights activists are so terrible because it does turn people away from conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:49 AM
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When did I imply that? I'm simply pointing out why there's more of a stigma to those groups. The people involved with them that get the most attention are deeply alarming. If women associated with FDS started shooting up fraternities people would have the same reaction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:09 AM
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I don't see how that relates at all to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:58 AM
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I didn't say most had. I'm simply pointing out WHY there's a more negative association with them. Are you saying that such things never happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:27 AM
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RP groups are seen as terrorist groups because men that have been involved in those groups have decided to murder women. Not just Elliot Rodgers. Also, after Elliot Rodgers many of the men in those groups were celebrating what he did. I don't see why some women in an obscure forum would get the same sort of attention since one of them hasn't attempted the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:09 AM
0

Wait until you hear about taxes and torts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:48 AM
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You should probably look up what gaslighting is 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:42 AM
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Is your Google broken? This is so well known it's shocking you aren't aware
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:26 AM
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20
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:23 AM
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You mean driving several hours each way, then returning after the mandatory waiting period, paying hundreds of dollars for the procedure alone (not including transportation and hotel), and you have to hurry because if you're lucky you'll have a couple weeks but might not even find out you're pregnant before it's too late
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:58 PM
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I wouldn't trust anything from YouTube. For every guy paying what you think is too much there are hundreds not paying enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:45 PM
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A man's career is boosted when he gets married and has kids, while a woman's career suffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:43 PM
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This definitely happened
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:09 AM
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And become a dad at that age? Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:46 AM
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My mom married a great guy she met when she was in her late 50's
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:37 AM
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It's not a source of mental anguish for most women. It is for most of the men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:04 PM
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But if someone wants to do sex work they should be allowed to without breaking the law
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:00 PM
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Chocolate is made using child slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:58 AM
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That's a coincidence. I wonder if I've ever met you at a conference 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:19 PM
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I've mapped potential energy surfaces for cruise missile fuel, created a program to analyze signals from cosmic rays, developed a method for ultra trace determinations for analytes in complex biological matrices, and currently work on developing phage therapy. Given that I'm probably half your age and went to school later in life I'd say I'm pretty accomplished. I'd like to point out that even the links you provided mention that those using condoms didn't show the same effect, so what was your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:14 PM
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Stay retired because clearly you don't remember how to do research
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:05 AM
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Antibiotics don't discriminate, so if you've ever taken antibiotics you've killed your good bacteria
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:04 AM
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Sure, whatever makes you feel better about your inadequacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:44 AM
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You're wrong. I've dated plenty of men that admired strong, smart, capable, intelligent, ambitious women. That's literally why my husband married me. You just lack confidence so need someone to make you feel strong and smart because you know deep down you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:26 AM
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men like display of weakness in women because it makes a man feel needed and masculine. openly displaying weakness is a necessity for me to have any romantic interest in a woman. being hard is just off putting. women benefit from open weakness and get punished for repressing it. Interest from you sounds like a punishment to me, not a benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:30 AM
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Actually, there are infinite significant figures for exact digits, but I agree this is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:50 AM
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Men and women with higher intelligence are more likely to be promiscuous freaks. I have a PhD in physics and can vouch for that, as will my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:43 AM
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Everybody that is sexually active should be regularly tested for STDs. You should also be aware that herpes is not tested for unless specifically asked because it's so common. You should also be aware that somewhere around 70% of people have "oral herpes" but that it's possible to get it on your genitals, and that herpes is fatal to monkeys which is why you shouldn't have a pet monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:39 AM
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My husband knows I'm well past 50 dudes and dgaf. Neither did any of the other men that proposed to me. The only men I've met that actually care about n count were unsuccessful in life and in love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:47 AM
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The kinds of men that want to believe in trp are highly unstable and will eventually go all Elliot Rogers. Oh wait, that's already happened Most guys will eventually find love and completely disregard this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:19 PM
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The real reason these guys are frustrated and so desperate to believe all this bullshit is because they can't accept that the only reason they're unlovable is because they have shitty, toxic personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:12 PM
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There are tons of them. Go to a city
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:43 AM
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The reason why people cry about falling birth rates is because they need more wage slaves. It's easier to exploit people when there's an infinite pool of people desperate for work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:30 AM
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Some people love any children they could have enough to realize it's purely selfish to have them and they're better off not being born. Climate change is just getting started. Further, you're insinuating that people that foster or adopt are not "real" parents and that's just total bullshit. You should be responsible BEFORE you have kids. It's not their job to help you grow up. People with this mindset are why there's so many shitty parents everywhere. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:28 AM
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The thing that's really fucking everything up is having way too many people on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:06 AM
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You forgot that pregnancy also leaches calcium from your body, causing tooth loss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:02 AM
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Good luck! Homebodies tend to find each other eventually, just takes longer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:06 AM
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Are they all just sitting at home on netflix avoiding men!? Before I met my husband, yeah. Then I met my husband and sit at home on Netflix with him. It's very cozy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:33 AM
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So when you hear something from a ton of males you believe it's true but if a ton of women tell you something it's bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:00 AM
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Also, many women would overlook a physical flaw for a man that's awesome in so many other ways. Those that won't aren't worth the time so fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:37 AM
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Abortion is an issue of bodily autonomy. None of those arguments apply against abortion because the problem is not that women don't want to have a child but that women should be able to make medical decisions for themselves. The reality is that there's no way to remove the financial burden from men without absolving them from all responsibilities at the expense of women and children. Since there isn't easy access to abortion that would basically saddle women with all of the burden of an unwanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:21 AM
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I don't see how the best interest of a child + taxpayers should be sacrificed for the interest of an individual who was aware of the consequences beforehand. If you don't want kids get a vasectomy, use condoms, screen potential sex partners more carefully. It's not fair that some men will have to become fathers when they don't want to but there aren't really any good alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:33 AM
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It's not major whatsboutism. Nothing will ever be truly "fair" because it's not possible for it to be equal. We don't have the technology to eliminate the risks women endure when they give birth and are nowhere near the point where they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:27 AM
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Ok I see you weren't trying to make that point, lol my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:10 AM
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My point was it’s a dumb fucking argument to argue we should all be grateful to [gender whatever] for all the “good” they do that benefits society ( That assumes one thinks society is good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:07 AM
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Are you grateful for women who give birth and thus sustain our society, democracy, growth? Cuz it sure as shit sounds like you’re complaining about them. Sounds like you're also saying women are responsible for all the shitty people too...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:02 AM
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The issue at play is how to deal with the inherent unfairness at play Like how men's health is not affected by pregnancy while it's a huge risk to a woman's health?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:58 AM
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If your cohabited partner is down as your next of kin they can make medical decisions for you. The problem is that it's so much more difficult to do, which is a point advocates for gay marriage were trying to make when there was more opposition against it. There is also things to consider like inheritance, communal property, etc. The benefit to NOT being married is that you're is that you're also not liable for any of their shit legally, so there's that. I feel so so so lucky to have met my husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:50 AM
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The problem with cohabitation is that it doesn't have the built-in protections marriage does. Even during our worst fights I would trust my husband to make any medical decisions for me more than anyone else. What we should do is de-emphasize romantic pairings and make some sort of legal institution that functions like a marriage without the romantic implications. I had a terrible upbringing, and I never thought I would ever trust a man the way I currently do. I NEVER thought I would get married,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:01 AM
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Because that would go over too many heads here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:41 AM
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I adore my husband. He's my favorite person to spend time with. I have no interest at all in other men but if I did I would talk about it with him. I think if I'm catching feelings for someone else it means there's something we need to work on at home, and any problems are our problems. We're a team. I don't NEED my husband, but I'm much happier with him than without him. We're always laughing and talking together, and it's just fun to hang out. He's the person I trust most and I love him. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:20 AM
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So then maybe more men need to learn to be happy with themselves? Being alone is better than being with someone that doesn't actually love you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:59 AM
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I never went clubbing/partying at that age either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:26 PM
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Most /= all. I disagree that most men would cheat on their spouse, but that's an assumption. It's also still not bigotry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:37 PM
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That's not bigotry. It's like saying most women prefer tall guys. Nowhere does it say "all men are like this"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:27 PM
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What bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:25 PM
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I prefer hanging out, eating pizza, and watching movies over going anywhere that requires fancy clothes. If he also prefers the same it means we're a better match than he was with the other women. Why would that be a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:53 PM
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You can make up whatever you want if you use cherry-picked data and jump to the conclusion you want lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:31 AM
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Not sure why you felt this comment was necessary or relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:25 AM
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I'm a millennial and I foster
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:37 AM
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The same man who treats me like a precious diamond treats a woman he deems unattractive like a gargoyle who doesn't deserve basic respect Yeah this is not all men, and I wish you met those that don't objectify all women. Men are more likely to go out of their way for beautiful women, but in my experience most do not treat women they find unattractive any worse than they would a random dude. Most of the men I know are also unlikely to go too far out of their way for a woman no matter how gorgeous…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:23 AM
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If you think that men care so little about women shows that you've met some really shitty men and generalized that to the whole group. Good men exist, and in this context I would say that majority of men actually care very deeply about whether they've satisfied the women they're sleeping with regardless of the brevity of their interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:54 AM
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Every guy I've had sex with put in their best effort towards making sure I enjoyed it just as much as they did. I feel sad for you if that hasn't been your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:37 AM
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Those things are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:31 AM
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Your comment history shows the story of a sad, lonely man looking desperately for ways to paint himself as a victim. I pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:15 AM
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I was more attracted to him because other women desired him. This is so weird to me. Tbf, I'm weird so I'm not judging, I just don't understand why the opinions of others would matter in what you are attracted to. But again, I'm weird so that's probably normal. I've seen this happen with my husband as well. Other women seem much more drawn to him since we've moved in together. He thinks it's my pheromones all over him but I think that's nonsense and he's just happier so he smiles more. He has th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:39 AM
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Idk I think proctologists should spend a non-zerp amount of time thinking about other people's assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:28 AM
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I know, I feel so lucky to have him. We're both weird in the same ways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:15 AM
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Some men do. My husband does, and that's why I'm still so smitten with him. Every day he tells me how much he loves me. It's such a small thing that makes such a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:52 AM
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Same for me. Every time I've broken up with someone it takes months or even years before I felt ready to date again. I think the difference is that men are more likely to feel incomplete without a woman, and women are more likely to focus on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:49 AM
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That's completely bullshit. Men that think like this just don't pay any attention to their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:42 AM
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That's because men don't break up, they just stop putting forth any effort and act like jerks until you're forced to break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:40 AM
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Because I suspect the one who felt (rightly or not) “broken up” with probably has a harder time moving on, even if they were unhappy too. Not for me. Of the guys I dated the one that broke up with me was by FAR the easiest to get over. You don't have to make the decision, just focus on letting go and moving on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:38 AM
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Why would any woman want to marry a man that thinks her value decreases with age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:40 PM
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That's not ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:33 PM
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How is that ironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:03 PM
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You always have a choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:54 AM
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Also, it's not like all men are going to end up on the front lines anyway. Plenty of men aren't eligible yet they're not salty about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:22 AM
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For some, but why would anyone want to date those women? They're shallow and should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:33 AM
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I don't think that's true. There are confident virgins and insecure fuck boys. I think it's just social conditioning mixed with insecurity and low intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:52 PM
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The guys on here think psychology is science (probably because they're not scientists lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:49 PM
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Same. Met my husband after years of being a hoe. I never hid it and never had a shortage of guys trying to wife me up. I really don't believe any quality men care about N count. From my experience they're more concerned with what's in your github repository
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:46 PM
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Observation bias. Most of the reasons I've seen discussed (not on the internet) are social, such as pressure from other men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/22 01:10 PM
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Hahahahahaha Joe Rogan as a source 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:05 PM
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Fair is subjective. Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:02 PM
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Wow, what a great story. Too bad none of that is accurate. Most mothers have to work, especially divorced mothers. Few women get alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:54 AM
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I knew he was a virgin. I hadn't taken anyone's virginity before and it intrigued me. First time was terrible, but he learned very quickly and was good by like, the third time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:09 AM
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That's not what was asked. OP asked when it would be considered weird, not what age would be considered a deal breaker. I took a man's virginity when he was 35 Edit: this also isn't a question for women so why do you assume all the answers are from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:17 AM
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They're not replicated because they're not making the same claims. But think about it, if someone lies would you trust them? The whole field is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:15 PM
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The entire field is rife with problems. https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/11/psychologys-replication-crisis-real/576223/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:05 PM
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Why do you think I'm angry? Why would I be? Also, you forgot the "nananana boo boo"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:05 PM
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No, but I can see why you're single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:52 PM
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If you're bald - you're bald. There is no cure. That's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:28 PM
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I'd be ecstatic for John Oliver but think Conor McGregor and Ezekiel Elliot are gross 🤮 Men on here just want to believe that all women are the same and that's the problem. You end up trying to be what you think most women want and end up repelling all. If you're weird you won't attract most people, but when you find someone that's weird in the same ways you'll live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:16 PM
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For a writer your ability to parse words is shockingly bad. Men here think more about Chad in one day than I have in my life To use your example, a fan would certainly think about Stephen King many times over a lifetime. So either writers have more hours in a day or women just aren't fans of Stephen King.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:06 PM
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No, society is telling them not to be predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:10 AM
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men care about women. If that's the case then why did they have to progress? If men cared about women why was it legal to beat your wife? Why were women not allowed to open a bank account or access credit? Why were women harassed for trying to get an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:02 AM
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Yes, but height in and of itself won't make someone attractive. Attraction is the sum total of a variety of factors, each of which is weighted differently by an individual. Hence, it's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:11 PM
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...which means it's subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:12 PM
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They are not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:02 PM
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Point is looks ARE subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:02 PM
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who went to prison for battering an old man almost to death he's one of the ugliest men I have ever seen I wish I could send a photo Are you sure you want to do that, buddy? Especially after saying why you want to post a photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:00 PM
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Generally guys put in more work in relationships imo Wow which country is that?! In the US it's completely the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:58 AM
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Most people on here think psychology or sociology is science
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:30 AM
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I think tall men usually look weird because their proportions are off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:27 AM
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Some people are different and won't click with most, if any, of the people they encounter. That doesn't in any way mean others are "out of their league" or that there's anything wrong with them. Maybe the person that is better to be with than being alone doesn't exist for them. Why should that mean anything about their value as a person? Being alone can be difficult because societal expectations that if you're alone it's because something is wrong with you, but that attitude should change. Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:27 PM
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I hope you are happy and enjoying life. Having a great partner is great, having a shitty partner is the worst, but loving yourself is the key to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:16 PM
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If they're demented they're not themselves, so you're not proving anything even if we assume that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:36 AM
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Same for me. Honesty is the quality I admire most in my husband, though the field is rife with contenders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:35 AM
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Get it girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:49 PM
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If you think psychology has any good papers, I don't think you know about the replication crisis and other problems in that field.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:12 PM
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For the most part Andrew tate and his followers are desperate to believe that nonsense. Doesn't mean it's true though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:25 AM
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Most robust research you've found is a preprint that hasn't been peer reviewed and has 0 citations. Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:34 AM
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Only 2 people but still found out you have a duck exhibitionist fetish? That's impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:30 AM
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Sometimes you are your own dream person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:00 AM
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In that case good for you! I think it's better to be single than unhappily partnered
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:53 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4611001/ My point was just that pregnancy causes damage to a body, not about the pain of it. But it's also painful, and there's only so much medicine can do to alleviate that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:49 AM
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😂😂😂 awwwww I think you sound pretty great actually. Hope you find what you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:38 AM
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Why does human birth suck compare to other animals? I didn't say that, but part of the reason childbirth is so dangerous is because of the size of human baby skulls. Incontinence is unable to hold your bathroom stuff normally. Prolapse is when organs fall from where they should be. Can make pregnancy less painful? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:37 AM
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To be fair, plenty of men are abused also and when men are sexually abused they also have to deal with a LOT more stigma and shame. I think most of what the guys on here think is completely insane, but it's not helpful to bring up that sometimes women are abused when nobody is saying that it never happens. Also, the definition of abuse has become so broad you could mean "some creep stared at me on the bus and I felt uncomfortable" or something serious like child molestation. Most of the women I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:30 AM
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Not really. Some fair better than others, but pregnancy will wreck a body. Calcium is leached out of the body and can cause tooth loss, stretch marks, incontinence, increased risk of prolapse later in life...and that's if there's no major complications
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:16 AM
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You don't need to give birth to have that experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:12 AM
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If we are not the very best we won't get that job. From my experience the very best never gets the job, the person who says they're the best the loudest/related to the boss usually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:10 AM
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I, myself, am someone who I don't think would be a good partner for anyone. No, you just have to find someone who's weird in the same ways you are. Might take a while but it's not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:38 PM
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That's not an attack. OP's post history reveals relevant information about why he felt compelled to post something that is so clearly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:30 PM
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You yourself say you have serious depression/ADHD issues and live with your mom. Is that why you feel compelled to make up stories about fake women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:15 AM
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Oh but he's self-made billionaire and has his pick of all these eager young women and her father was just so impressed he had to get involved. Just ignore that part and focus on the fact that he's not like some 40 year old hag that is basically invisible to men because she's just so old and will now die alone if one doesn't pity her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:09 AM
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You mistake that look. It's pity or disgust, not envy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:02 AM
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I was ready to happily settle into spinsterhood when I met my husband. If (God forbid) something happened to him I can't imagine finding someone as perfect for me as he is so I'd probably just start raising ostriches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:57 AM
1

Do you follow the news?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:32 AM
3

What? You don't make any sense. Are you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:42 AM
0

Texas. We don't have equal rights. If you want to cry about the potential to be drafted why not just move to a country without a draft? Most men are ineligible to be drafted anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:26 AM
1

There are in many countries/states
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:16 AM
3

I disagree with this. My friend is 47 and has started dating after her husband passed. She has a new guy every weekend. I'm almost 40 and happily married, but guys still hit on me all the time and I never wear make up or pretty clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:14 PM
1

You're only listening to some women. I once broke my foot and gained quite a bit of weight while healing. It's like I became invisible. The difference 25 lbs made was crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:10 PM
2

You know you can Google words to find the definition for them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:06 PM
-1

Idk most liberal man who have options do care You're right. You don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:04 PM
2

At some point most adults will stop caring about that, that’s my assumption at least Adults will. Not the boys on here though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:02 PM
2

That attitude is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:15 PM
5

Successful men want successful women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:38 PM
3

Being aware of that realizing this is good and shows that you're maturing emotionally. I used to feel like I got too attached in relationships, then over-corrected and did the whole "I'm just going to use men" thing for a bit but found that to be deeply unsatisfying and unnatural. Once I learned to be happy staying single I met my husband, and it's been happily ever after. This has been a pattern for several people I've known. It's like some people are just too eager to find love and need to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:35 PM
6

This is just nonsense. If it were true most men wouldn't end up getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:20 PM
6

As long as a man finds you physically attractive (which is a lot easier to do than a woman) they have no issues dating women who are less rich, less popular and of a lower status than them This is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:19 PM
6

This is such nonsense. Women love "subpar" men all the time. If you're not conventionally attractive or have some unfortunate deformity it's just going to take you longer to find your person. TRP just teaches men a bunch of nonsense that convinces them to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:17 PM
-1

This is why you will die sad and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:14 PM
1

You can DEFINITELY tell if someone's a virgin. Also, Women are used to having bad sex with men who don't care about their pleasure. Wtf? Not from my experience. Most men would do whatever it takes to make sure the woman thoroughly enjoys herself and would feel terrible if she didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:13 AM
2

I did that when I was 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:09 AM
0

I have repeatedly stated that I am not commenting on that particular statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:58 PM
2

Clearly you're not a scientist, and you're probably also unfamiliar with the reproducibility crisis with psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:10 PM
2

Evidence, but not scientific evidence. That's just a statistic from a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:38 PM
2

Evolution, yes. Evolutionary psychology, no. There's no quantifiability, no way to control experimental conditions, it doesn't generate reliable predictions, and no testability. The theories may or may not have merit, but they can't be verified.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:24 PM
1

Not science dude. I'm not saying anything about whether or not the evidence is valid, just that it's not science. Psychology is not a science. It's objective and lacks rigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:01 PM
-3

Not to mention the scientific evidence that the more people you sleep with the more likely it is you cheat. Psychology is NOT science. There is no scientific evidence for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:09 AM
6

Interesting how you deleted your previous comment 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:37 AM
1

You can break up without having a relationship turn toxic, dude. If you don't know people with healthy relationships you're probably a toxic person yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:43 AM
1

It's a well-known fact and easy to Google https://ifstudies.org/blog/number-8-in-2018-promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy#:~:text=Both%20men%20and%20women%20in,their%20less%20sexually%20adventurous%20peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:41 AM
-5

Now, people act as if these concepts are common sense and we've known about them all along. The only people that believe this nonsense have never actually been in a healthy relationship or associate with people that have healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:49 AM
-1

...and lower intelligence. Forgot that one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:41 AM
-1

Some people end up alone. Sucks for them, but it's not a new phenomenon. It's what nature intended
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:29 AM
-7

Red pillers are just sad, lonely men yelling into the void. Nobody cares about your fake problems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:22 AM
17

Dude nobody cares what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:59 AM
1

Intelligence is highly correlated with deviant sexual behaviors. These guys just want young and dumb because they're easier to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:25 AM
10

No. It means there wasn't enough evidence to say you're guilty https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/not_guilty#:~:text=As%20a%20verdict%2C%20not%20guilty,did%20not%20meet%20the%20burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:31 PM
6

Not guilty does not mean innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:13 PM
13

Men have no trouble expressing their emotions when the emotion is anger. Anger is the only "manly" emotion allowed and it's easy to turn sadness into anger. That's why so many end up with anger issues. I agree, we really need to teach more men to cry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:50 PM
1

Sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:09 AM
10

Don't worry. Apparently we can't run because we're all post-wall land whales with 1000 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:11 AM
1

Margot Robbie is a 6 at best dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:00 AM
1

Projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:30 PM
1

Why do you think women should want to be with an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:57 AM
0

women don't line up for me. I think we can all see why...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:59 AM
1

Thanks, I put a lot of effort into crafting that reply
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:22 AM
2

I'd prefer to just meet up rather than chat endlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:30 AM
5

No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:19 AM
6

So basically a standard full time job. The same hours a woman with a full time job would've worked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:18 AM
5

How many hours did you work last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:14 AM
5

No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:13 AM
4

No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:10 AM
0

Also what do you mean by progressive "right" mens movements? "Right" in this sense means wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:08 AM
2

Not these men LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:06 AM
3

Or you end up like Korea or Japan with a 0.80 birth rate Hopefully. That would certainly help stall the climate wars
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:11 PM
1

I know tons of men who were socialized from a young age, who were raised by loving, nurturing parents, and have a solid number of friends, who struggle with dating. No, you don't. If this is true you have unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:22 PM
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You're so wrong. Some short guys don't cry about being short all the time and can be a lot of fun, others can't get over it and get treated with disdain for that reason. When will you people realize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:11 PM
1

Lmao no. Successful men want successful women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:57 AM
3

Exactly. My husband had a lot of issues thanks to his toxic af family, as did I due to mine. Some people are just assholes spreading their assholery like covid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:37 AM
2

Do you think OP has options? That's cute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:39 AM
1

I used to work with the ultra wealthy (lots of old money and sports stars) and it's rare to see huge age gaps. It happens, but it's looked down upon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:06 AM
1

I am conventionally attractive and a total nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:18 AM
1

Quants don't make nearly as much as you think they do, if you're a decent programmer you'd be better off getting a job as a software engineer. Especially if you're as mediocre as you come across
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:17 AM
1

Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:12 AM
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No, I have a PhD in physics with a minor in chemistry. My husband only has a BS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:25 AM
3

Not likely, but nothing will likely make that happen for you if you're not super hot, or fun, or funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:19 AM
18

Bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:08 AM
14

You seem very resistant to the idea of fixing your most unattractive quality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:01 AM
8

No, most of the guys I dated before were all STEM nerds as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:59 AM
12

I earn more than he does so...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:49 AM
2

Early 30's. I was a returning student
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:49 AM
1

Sounds like you just socialize with shitty, vapid people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:48 AM
1

I guess it depends on your major and where you went to school. In both undergrad and grad school the guys (and girls) in my classes didn't focus much on appearance. The few guys that weren't unkept did very well with the ladies. Like, my husband had massively dry skin and didn't understand that basketball shorts should only be worn by guys that are over 6'6" when I first met him. (Or that showers should be a daily occurrence in summer, and there should be 2 eyebrows...) A year after we met I pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:40 AM
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Your attitude is probably the biggest impediment. Are you looking for a lady STEM nerd? Ever hit up the star parties the ASTRO club throws? Go to conferences? Join the math club? Join the women in STEM groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:34 AM
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Plenty of women love STEM nerds. I married one and I adore him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:31 AM
3

That's not true. I'm neurodivergent and am now happily married to a fellow weirdo. I think it might be harder to find someone, but easier to stay happily paired up with your partner once you find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:42 PM
5

I'm telling you what I've seen myself. All the single women are always out and about, meeting up with friends and being social. About half the married ones seem happy, and most complain about their husbands. The former stay at home moms with living husbands usually seem the most miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:33 PM
1

Thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:54 PM
2

Meeting young is the worst way. You have no idea how you're going to change and what's out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:44 PM
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I guess you live somewhere despondent? The older single women I've met all seem happier than everybody else. For the married ones it's 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:24 PM
3

Creepy guys, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:13 AM
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What is your deal? What point are you trying to prove? If a woman doesn't want to get married then NO MAN will satisfy your conditions. Yet you seem to be completely unable to accept this as an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:11 AM
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But how many nuts asked you to eat them???!!!!! Clearly you are deficient because if the right nut wanted YOU then you wouldn't have a nut allergy!!! Haha! Gotem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:06 AM
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Men just approaching might be (at best) flattering but I never wanted to actually go out with them. All they know about me is that they find me physically attractive, and I never saw the appeal of going out with a man I know nothing about regardless of how handsome he might be. At worst, I would feel threatened because enough men get angry when a woman rejects their advances
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:56 AM
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No, it makes sense. It's good you're trying to get better. I hope things work out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:35 PM
2

You seem very unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:21 PM
2

STDs are not even close to the biggest concern regarding antibiotic resistance. Conservatives are so uninformed it's amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:00 AM
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You should be more worried about you. You sound very unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:53 AM
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Because it's not worth replying to someone so clearly unstable. Social science is NOT real science
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:50 AM
1

Majority of low-quality men care about n count. Secure, successful men don't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:32 AM
1

This is definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:16 AM
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I tried OLD off and on for several years, but never met anyone I clicked with. I met my husband in calc 3 and never thought he would be more than fun, NSA sex. 10 years later I can't believe how lucky I am to have found a man so amazing. We came from very different backgrounds; one of the reasons I'm drawn to this sub is because I'm trying to understand where he got some of what I consider bat-shit crazy ideas he had when we first met. But something just draws us to one another. He is hands-down…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:10 AM
-1

I'm not complaining that the intensity of my sex drive is making me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:15 AM
-5

Castrated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:17 AM
-3

If it's that terrible why don't more men get themselves fixed? Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:55 AM
1

There's no loss of metabolism until around 60
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:27 AM
2

Same. I've also been super attracted to "ugly" guys because they were able to crack me up. I honestly can't even tell if my husband is conventionally attractive anymore because I love him so much he's always a stunner to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:51 PM
1

Right? Women are more likely to choose guys they want to date while men are more likely to choose women they want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:27 PM
2

So, a woman of normal stature is an idiot because she won’t consider dating a guy who is 5’4? Yes. I'm 5'7" and dated men shorter than I am. Short guys can get it no cap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:19 PM
-2

Then I'm not sure why you mentioned that. You need help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:20 AM
-1

The only thing you can say about you wife is she's a good mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:13 AM
-1

Ew gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:09 AM
1

My husband is a decade younger than I and I adore him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:39 AM
0

I don't think anyone would miss these sad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:38 AM
-1

And clearly, men in their 30's are not bitter, angry, and thisclose to shooting a bunch of random people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:27 AM
1

The understood rule is that 80% of women are attracted to the top 20% of men The understood rule is that 99% of people make up statistics or repeat whatever they want to believe is true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:17 AM
0

Women that have low standards and no ambition get married young and usually either end up miserable or are too stupid to want anything other than what they have. The wall is just another misogynist revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:13 AM
0

That's a summary of this whole sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:24 PM
1

Nobody cares if someone isn't getting any. It's a you problem, not a societal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:41 AM
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Nobody is entitled to "get" anybody is the point. You get what you get and you don't get upset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:58 AM
2

The issue is that it then becomes "my body, my choice for the consequences you will also have to live with" and surely you could understand how that's also not entirely fair, right? What I find bizarre is how many men know that this is the reality and still don't take any precautions, but that's not what I think you're referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:56 AM
-1

I personally feel that if this is the case then the father should not have to pay child support. However, since it's possible to be pregnant and not know it (there's literally a whole show about that) and for other reasons that would make the reality of such a system problematic I wouldn't want to rush into changing anything. I also feel like abortion should be easily accessible and free though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:53 AM
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That's what's wrong with it, though. That implies that there's a way women SHOULD act/look/be that is different from men and I disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:41 AM
2

Absent fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:29 PM
2

Sexually, they are out of their league What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:29 PM
2

No, they're not going for guys that are out of their league. They're going for unemployed degenerates that aren't even attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:26 AM
1

I think the rule should be if you're able to try to drive you're able to be held accountable for your choices, the exception being if you were drugged without your knowledge. Women are not children and if you choose to get drunk you choose the consequences of the decisions you make whilst drunk. If you're so gone that you're not able to make decisions that's a different story, but if you're taking stimulants while drinking that becomes sooooo risky because they will mask the depressive effects o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:06 AM
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Women that are used are not usually being used by "high value men" (that term is entirely subjective btw) but often are just women with low self-esteem, which is the demographic the men on this sub are enamored with. I know plenty of women that should be able to get a great guy that are just magnetically drawn to degenerate assholes. It seems much more rare to find quality men with sub-par women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:56 AM
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I taught my husband how to change a tire, build a chicken coop, lay tile, and snake a drain. I still can't get him to properly fold a t shirt or do the dishes though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:02 AM
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Hmmm... wonder why my handsome and successful husband chose me even though I'm a bitchy, post-wall research scientist then? Most successful men want successful women. Very few go for a young girl that doesn't know or do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:50 PM
2

Helicopter parenting is also not good parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:31 PM
1

I've done both, and it's very different. When you get home from working in an office you may feel tired, but if you start doing stuff it goes away and you can get a second wind. When you get home from a job that involves physical labor you're just dead and your body aches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:30 PM
1

They get dusty af. Wash your curtains!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:45 AM
1

If you're trying to compare how exhausting a job is there's a world of difference between 8 hours at a desk job vs 8 hours of something like a restaurant server or construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:42 AM
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..I know tons of stay at home parents that barely have to do anything That's how you end up with stupid kids. You need to interact with babies constantly. In the wild humans would be living in groups, with people constantly nearby to help watch the baby. When the kids are older they need to be doing activities much of the time, not just playing and rarely should they be in front of the TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:25 AM
3

Depends. Most people are terrible parents because being a good parent takes a lot more time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:12 AM
1

I LOVE my job, and my husband used to hate his so he quit and took some time off before finding his current job. He didn't clean shit around the house and it was annoying AF. We had a talk about it and he made more of an effort after that, which I appreciated. But he wasn't taught to do chores growing up, so he just doesn't have the habit and won't just do it on his own. What helped was doing chores together, which actually turns them into a fun bonding activity. We still do chores together now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:10 AM
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So many men eager to answer for women. Shocking. To answer OP, I don't care because I have zero issues with approaching men. I asked out my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:57 AM
2

The copium is strong here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:56 AM
3

I love my husband because he's him. That's literally the only reason you should love anyone. Because they're like my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:10 PM
2

You're not familiar with data analysis so I'm sure it looks fine to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:33 PM
2

It's so poorly presented that you can interpret whatever you want. That's not "perfectly fine" in science, where you actually have information you want people to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:52 PM
2

Ugh I shudder to think what my PI would've done if I had dared to present any data this way.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:44 AM
1

No, I'm just interpreting what you literally said and you're just like "fuck it, this is a hill I want to die on"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:38 AM
1

Oh, you mean the crime RATE, not crime itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:59 AM
0

This is a common fallacy that convinces people that crime is always bad when it's not. I'm just saying that this sentence makes no sense. When is crime good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:27 PM
0

When is crime good?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:38 AM
3

Tldr: some of the men on here are completely insane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:37 AM
7

"Women" don't think that, some celebrity reporter did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:16 AM
-2

If there's anything I want to do I'd just do it. I don't need my husband for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:52 AM
-1

I don't like going to fancy places so why would I feel anything other than happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:42 AM
1

I don't think people should settle. A quality man is the one that makes you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:51 AM
1

No, most quality men really don't care. Not all men are sad, bitter, and jaded. Enjoy being lonely dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:40 AM
1

Some guys are just sad, bitter, angry dudes because they don't have a woman. They tend to be the ones crying the most about the mythical Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:22 AM
2

Why do sensitive? Did I hit a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:12 AM
1

Plenty of men want to marry whores. Women don't want to marry inferior men either though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:45 PM
1

Inferior men shouldn't get access to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:26 PM
1

What a load of crap. Have you seen fox news?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:58 AM
1

Not the point. Are these all "red flags" is the question. The answer is (as usual) that it depends. I would consider "religious" a red flag because that usually indicates that such a person is likely to have a very different outlook and be incompatible. Why date someone you won't get along with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:18 AM
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You're completely unaware of all the literature regarding the risks of advanced paternal age and yet are trying to frame yourself as some sort of expert? There's TONS of papers on this subject. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30655635/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25462195/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11172821/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:56 PM
2

You're pretentious and ignorant, why would I possibly respect you? And you basically just reiterated my point, which is that the reason downs is more related to maternal age is because it's possible to fertilize a defective egg but defective sperm have trouble making it to any egg. Why is that so difficult for you to understand? And there's been plenty of research since the early aughts showing that old fathers have higher probabilities of having children with problems, including downs. There's …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:56 AM
1

Peep his profile and you'll see this guy is willing to go full handmaids tale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:39 AM
1

Overpopulation + climate change will cause the apocalypse, not some men not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:37 AM
4

They're all just being dramatic. Plenty of my friends are in their 20's and dating guys that are not tall, rich, or (imo) handsome. They're all dating guys that they click with and who make them laugh. The real problem is that the guys here take everything way too seriously and that spills over into their interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:20 AM
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Men must have a purpose and a role to play, Men want to fight. The problems you complain about would be more easily solved if we just started more wars. More war = fewer men = those that survive get all the women. Everybody wins
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:09 AM
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It's perfectly reasonable to not want children with just anyone, but to say you couldn't care less because you provide yourself with all of the value you could possibly need just reaks of arrogance and pretentiousness Wow, ironic. There are way too many people in the world. Don't pretend like having kids is anything but selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:02 AM
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If you dont know what polyploid means you could've just Googled it. I'm not sure why you think it has nothing to do with sperm though, other than abnormal sperm aren't likely to compete for the egg. Also, I didn't say anything about ability to conceive, just that there's a higher chance of abnormalities from old sperm. I really hope you're not a doctor because your medical knowledge is booty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:22 AM
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The reason why downs is related to maternal age is because sperm that are polyploid have a lot more trouble getting to the egg, whereas the egg just needs to grab a sperm. But there's a host of problems related to paternal age, are you really unaware of that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:33 PM
1

I used to ride my bike further than that to get to work. Either way, it's not IMPOSSIBLE to walk, just highly unpleasant. Did you try thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:29 PM
1

How could that be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:11 AM
4

If you don't want a disabled child, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:53 AM
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I asked my now husband if he wanted to study with me. Then asked if he was dtf. Eventually asked if he wanted to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:24 AM
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I am interesting and successful. Your post history says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:44 PM
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Small pub open late night (5 am) in south Miami. Regulars during the day or on week nights. We'd get a ton of in the biz people that would hang out after work, some college kids, and young professionals. We'd get packed on the weekends and holidays but it was usually pretty slow on weeknights unless there was a game or something. Most people just hang out with friends. There's definitely a type of guy that will hit on anyone, and he usually gets labeled as a creep. Usually groups of guys interac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:41 PM
2

I worked in bars in Miami for 11 years and it's generally just the 7+ that get hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:04 PM
2

What? Happens all the time. Rarely get hit on though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:02 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:57 PM
1

Women tend to be attracted to men similar to their fathers, men tend to be attracted to women similar to their fathers. Didn't you just say your dad was dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:41 AM
1

Wow you created a whole straw army. Do you even know any feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:36 AM
2

This is so sad. You must have been badly hurt to end up this bitter. Hope you end up ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:28 AM
1

Yes. HVM don't need a group to complain with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:20 AM
1

All women are not gold diggers. In fact, most women are not gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:19 AM
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That's actually my story. My wife and I had these great intentions of maintaining a casual relationship, failed at remaining casual, been married for a lifetime now. Lol same with my husband and me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:23 AM
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Then don't be rich, and marry a woman that is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:57 PM
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Companionship. If you're not best friends as well as lovers then don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:35 PM
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Honestly I don't personally know any woman that has married a guy she's not attracted to. I'm sure that happens, but not at all common where I've lived (US east coast)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:34 PM
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The definition of "better" changes as you mature. You might think the best guy is rich, handsome, and hung when you're 20 but then realize that it's actually funny, confident, and intelligent when you're 30. I'm hust guessing though because I think my husband is perfect other than his poor decision to shave the beard into a mustache. But it's not like now I'm fantasizing about all the mustache-less men I've dated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:52 PM
1

If you don't have a great personality being attractive is vital
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:56 AM
1

My husband has an extremely good-looking friend that's bald. Dude looks like Mr. Clean and I'd be super bout it if I were single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:54 AM
1

Sounds like you're arguing that we need less men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:42 PM
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Sure 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:09 PM
2

Yes, that was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:26 PM
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Before Grad school I moved in with my bf (now husband) and since I wasn't really working (just tutoring) I did all the housework. Once school started I expected him to step up and split the housework, and he acted as though loading the dishwasher occasionally should cover it. His mom was a SAHM and he never had any chores or anything so it was like trying to teach him how to speak Latin. Eventually he got it and now he's awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:16 PM
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By the time you want another man, you’d be too old. What? My mom got remarried in her late 50's to the most amazing man. Plenty of people get together later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:59 AM
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I have backyard chickens and bunnies, as well as dogs that need to be walked twice a day. Plenty of other people around me also have dogs and chickens. It is totally normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:56 AM
0

Have you tried it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:54 AM
2

Very easy if you just put them in front of the TV
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:51 AM
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It's crazy how far some of these guys will reach to try to prove some point about women being deficient in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:49 AM
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She said something to the effect of "don't bother, it's fine," and my response was "I'm a man, I fix things." That earned me a very unfriendly eyeroll. This is super cringe because it's rude to just mess around with someone's stuff like that and the comment implies that women can't fix things. I can fix my own car, I can build my own chicken coop, I can electroporate my own bacteria. You should learn about benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:31 AM
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Common interests is something that would initially make one person more attractive than another. For example, if you LOVE camping wouldn't you be more eager to meet a woman that also loved camping?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:00 AM
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No, the point is that they had a common interest. Like, if someone wanted to set me up with a guy and they mentioned that he studied biochem or physics I'd be super interested. Might even shave all the parts for that date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:55 PM
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I'm different than most, but I love a younger man. My husband is 10 years younger than I and I adore him. Younger guys have more stamina and are open-minded in a way older men rarely are. The oldest I'd consider now would be 40, but I really can't imagine dating a man that age because they usually have a divorce and some kids and I don't want to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:56 PM
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You always have the best comments I love it 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:59 PM
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Ok so the previous comment made me look at your profile and I would agree that you're a handsome fella. Listen to other posters about spending more time socializing around females
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:48 PM
2

Why would you take that personally? Money and height are not personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:28 PM
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Yeah my husband is 10 years younger than I and I ADORE THAT MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:35 PM
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No, I'd expect him to know how to help me cancel my cards since I never have cash and not to escalate the situation and get shot. Besides, what's the guy going to do with some napkins, a bouncy ball, extra socks, old receipts, tampons, half-empty chapstick, magnifying glass, half a pack of gum, water gun (empty), a random collection of seeds, mostly empty hand sanitizer, old af condom, 3 pennies, dead lighter, expired coupons, hair tie, and some dead batteries?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:24 PM
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College students can't afford that. It's more likely that the data is skewed by more college students BEING sex workers, not paying to see them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:53 PM
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Not a pushover. Fun, occasionally in a way that might get you a misdemeanor but never a felony
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:51 PM
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They do about as often as women get men out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:22 PM
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That's gotta be a troll, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:14 PM
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I've seen a loooot of couples where the guy is average/slightly above, earns more, stays fit, and his gf/wife is an excuse of a human being physically and mentally. If you think all these men are attractive and not the women are you sure you're not just gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:38 AM
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Actually spending time with your best friends is very fulfilling. A man never replaces the role of the best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:36 AM
5

No. Charming is what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:34 AM
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No, you're just trying to get a discount on a bang maid. You don't respect women as equal. Otherwise, why do you think she can't handle financial responsibility? So she can't get away easily? Red flags everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:32 AM
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Yeah a lot of girls say they want 50/50 but in reality don't really want that.. Besides we have all seen that 50/50 doesn't work This is nonsense. If you're having problems with women it might be because you say the things you've been posting out loud in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:27 AM
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I just think reality would hit her and she'll realize that yeah it's not 100% but she's still better off than most women today Any woman dating a guy that unironically thinks like this is NOT better off than most women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:24 AM
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I was answering your question about the time frame
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:01 AM
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No, 8-15 years ago. Been with my husband since 2014, and he's another super hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:49 AM
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No, I'm not the most attractive but I've been proposed to by men that were tall, handsome, and financially secure. From my experience men don't just care about looks, they want a feisty bitch that's fun more than a super model
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:27 AM
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You're totally selling it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:32 AM
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I'm not upset. I pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:30 AM
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It's the closest you can get to living the life you fantasize about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:18 AM
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Don't worry, he's probably just fantasizing. He's clearly talking out of his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:13 AM
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Telling people they might regret not having kids is insulting, and one would think that a 26-year-old would know that. As a woman that was repeatedly denied a bisalp until I eventually gave up, it's sad to see that same attitude being carried by younger generations. Especially now. I feel sorry for you because you might be quite sad with such a bleak view of the world Since you're a fan of the "studies" I'll just leave this here. Seeing things as they are isn't pleasant, but I think it's better …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:07 PM
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Can't have a rational discussion with someone that thinks it's possible to regret not having kids without considering that it's also possible to regret having kids, and that's arguably much worse. Most people don't change their mind; they cave to societal expectations or just "get pregnant" Further, my original comment was glib and mostly based on the fact that the world is going to shit and only getting worse. If you don't want kids now what would make you want them later? So you have one more …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:19 PM
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I'm going to guess you have a ton of kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:32 PM
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It's common knowledge most people are idiots Https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25131282/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:18 PM
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No, if you're intelligent you're less likely to want kids as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:50 AM
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Get a flock of chickens and you'll start to understand what the real problem is. Can't have too many roosters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:36 AM
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Um, in the US they're doing just that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:34 AM
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I think most guys would be more upset about their wife dating than some extra lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:56 PM
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I will never date another doctor, and not just because I'm happily married. They're the most arrogant people on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:46 AM
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I collect men's tears to water my garden, does that count as a hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:47 AM
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It does to them. You know what's never attractive? Being a downer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:28 AM
2

Weird. I'm post wall and just got hit on by some 29 year old dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah but apparently all the women are like that/s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:44 PM
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Yeah we were all young once. After the age of 25 though... idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:43 PM
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Well, I didn't worry about that because I always dated guys that didn't judge me for it. In fact, I've never seriously dated any guy I didn't fuck on a first date. The guys that would judge you for it aren't worth dating. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:18 PM
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That's because you're a QUEEN ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:44 AM
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I think it's more like if she thinks her personality is enough to make a man want to stay with her she won't feel the need to play games
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:43 AM
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That's what weak women do. The type that feel like they need to trick a man into staying with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:42 AM
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Yeah any guy I've dated I've fucked on a first date. Never had a guy on the side. That's what you do if you can't be alone and NEED someone. It's pathetic and I don't do pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:41 AM
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True he did love the hoes. Unlike Mobb Deep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:59 PM
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Lmao!!! I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:41 PM
2

Have you checked out biophysics? It's a taco shop
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:20 PM
1

I don't see the issue with being shorter. I've dated guys shorter than I am before and they're amongst the best I had
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:58 AM
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Idk, I think my husband is way too good for me and I just got lucky because most women are terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:50 AM
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What makes someone better than average, though? I was shocked to find out my husband wasn't drowning in pussy because to me he is absolute perfection. Clearly different people have different ideas about ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:40 AM
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He studied CS but we met whilst taking a class that was a pre req for both. (Calc 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:36 AM
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It's got to be an interesting job though, right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:35 AM
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If you think he's so fine you can go date him. But he does look older than 22
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:16 AM
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That's not common, you and your buddy are just not attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:14 AM
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stop using lazy excuses like 'I don't know what to say if a boy says I'm pretty' I didn't say I don't know what to say, I said it's a turn off and I think it's a super boring opener. When I was dating I had no problem messaging first, and that's why I dislike people that don't put a bio. The bio gives you something to start with, and my bio was always full of stuff to mention. I don't enjoy spending time with a boring guy no matter how hot he might be. I also hated trying to talk to someone onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:13 AM
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My husband was CS...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:05 AM
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No, but I wouldn't swipe on him either and I don't see why you would say he's a top guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:04 AM
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Then what is YOUR point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:14 AM
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Go back to school for a physics degree. That's where the autists find love. My best friend is engaged to one and I'm pretty sure my husband is on the spectrum (or just socially retarded)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:40 AM
1

So maybe looks aren't everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:49 PM
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That's sort of how I met my husband. I asked him if he wanted to study, then after studying asked if he wanted to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:21 PM
1

Being a writer isn't an interesting job. Interesting job would be something like wine making, farming, science, mortician, bomb squad, or magician
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:19 PM
1

A man once copied my bio word for word, just changed the pronouns. This was on ok cupid around 12 years ago but still
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:17 PM
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A lot of men think it's flattering to gush about how "gorgeous" you are and how exactly is a girl supposed to respond to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:15 PM
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Not very rare, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:58 PM
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That's the men's fault. Don't buy tinder gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:57 PM
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The reality is that an average horny woman just has to make an online profile, or dress up and go to a bar and wait. That’s it. She will get hit on by tons of men interested in casual sex. Nope. At least, 10 years ago this is not how it worked. The only guys that would hit on me were creeps, usually older. I met most of my lovers through friends or work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:56 PM
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But men have NO OPTIONS and must scavenge for whatever they can get!!! Alphawidows!!! Hypergamy!! AFBB AFBB AFBB!!!! ARGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:51 PM
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What makes him top 15%? Is he funny? Intelligent? He's certainly not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:47 PM
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Lol its fine! I also made a mistake so they cancel! 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:50 PM
1

Ah, in my defense saying "that I've seen" implies that you've seen them, not just read about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:48 PM
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They are but they suck. They can be uncomfortable, they break/slip, they're expensive, and you need to have them on hand when the time comes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:37 PM
2

Trials take a looooooooong time and I think there's also a lack of financial incentive since female bc is much more profitable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:34 PM
1

Why would it have to be hormonal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:32 PM
2

I guess you've never heard of vasagel? Which is weird, since you claim to be working in the field
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:31 PM
3

Even without mistakes it's not 100% so never hurts to use back ups
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:29 PM
2

You can still use condoms regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:22 PM
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Depends. Guys that bulk up eat so much protein their semen ends up tasting as though something died in their dick. It's also just not attractive to me. I prefer men that play sports so have a natural build.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:28 PM
1

Electrician vs electrical engineer is very different. Either way, I don't think those jobs are undesirable given that they pay well and have great job security
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:04 PM
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Because anyone can do them with just a bit of practice. Not so with many tech jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:49 PM
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If it takes you more than 5 times you might want to consider that you should read a book to teach you how to communicate better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:14 PM
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I actually did take a man's virginity as an older woman. It was awkward but he was so sweet and enthusiastic that overall I'd say it was a pleasant experience. It was really fun to watch him evolve into a talented lover! I was very concerned about saying or doing something that would destroy his confidence and ruin his boners for the rest of his life though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:10 PM
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No, that it's not great imo. I orgasm easily and anything over 10-15 minutes is not my cup of tea. I have zero issues just explaining what I like and expect my lovers to do the same. I've been married for quite some time and so this hasn't been something I've had to deal with for a while, but if I were dating again and some guy thought he knew what I would like I'd actually be very put off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:07 PM
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...or sons either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:26 AM
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Next time remember to keep the dysfunctional friends!!! Normal happy people are boring anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:11 AM
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Think about this: most of the time, people in happy relationships tend to hang out with other people in happy relationships. Over time, this becomes their social circle and identity, so when things start going south they don't feel comfortable opening up to other "happy relationship" people until it's too much to hide the unhappiness. Eventually things fall apart, but now at least half of that couple can no longer be a part of the "happy relationship" group. The now divorced person ends up spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:04 AM
1

Sounds like you want to be negative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah but like everything the signs were there way before the fall. If you don't brush your teeth and floss, or don't catch the cavity when it's small, or don't get the root canal when it's gotten bigger, eventually the tooth dies and needs to be pulled. We brush every day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:48 AM
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Sure, I don't think anything would change much. Don't see what your point is...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:42 AM
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You can't even understand that what you posted ad a fact disproves what you're saying 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:13 AM
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which if he's still making her tingle after years and years and kids then it's probably an extremely toxic relationship That's a toxic way to look at life. I am still deeply in love with my husband, more so than ever. We've been together almost 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:11 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:12 PM
5

I would say so but that's subjective. Shouldn't every person find their Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:07 PM
5

I appreciate it when a guy brings it up so I know not to keep wasting time on him. Insecure guys are the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:24 AM
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It's totally baloney. I've dated "chads" before but none of them can compare to my husband, who is literally the most perfect man that has ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:23 AM
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Aw, dude that sucks. Some people just find it harder to pair up. OLD is better for older people but not good at all for college students imo. The best thing to do is the most difficult, and that's to learn how to tell if a girl is into you before you make an obvious move. Good thing is that in college there's always reason to interact with people that doesn't have to be obvious that you're making a move. Just stop making it obvious and keep putting yourself out there. Once you get signs of recip…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:13 AM
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it’s acknowledging that every woman has at least 10 guys trying to get with her. That's just not true IRL. Most men don't really try and even if they did many of them wouldn't be compatible. Most of my girl friends in college started off single, then around junior year most of those ended up dating someone either in the same major or adjacent. I can only think of 2 women that dated more than 1 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:07 AM
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Have you tried not being a thirsty mcThirsty? Also, if you've asked out that many girls and they have all rejected you then you should probably consider that maybe the problem isn't all women, it's YOU. Reading TRP nonsense can really poison your mind and many women will quickly pick up on it and stay far, far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:59 AM
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Bold of you to assume these guys have a social life...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:52 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:55 AM
1

You're living in a fantasy world, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:54 AM
1

I wonder why you don't have more success with women. You seem like a delightful person to spend time with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:13 AM
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When I was OLD I wouldn't swipe on guys that didn't have anything interesting in their profiles or had things that indicated we wouldn't be compatible. Guys just swipe on whomever they think might possibly be attractive, and rarely if ever read the profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:51 PM
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This is so ridiculous. My sister and I both made more than our partners when we met them. I am earning less right now because I am getting my PhD but my sister still out-earns her husband. My brother is engaged to a woman that earns more than he does. I adore my husband because he makes me laugh. All the people I know that are happily married say the same thing. Of the women I know that married much richer men, all I can say is they're mostly boring but pretty and I can't imagine it's that diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:11 PM
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I paid for all the dates when I first met my now husband. I made more than he did, so it just made sense. He's the funniest guy I've ever met and I really enjoyed spending time with him. Before him I dated a surgeon, whom I left because he was boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:26 PM
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The men tend to chase after the gold diggers, hence why they think AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:24 PM
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Because if you don't trust your partner to not cheat on you, you shouldn't be together. Also, you can't break up a happy home. If you can take my man go ahead I don't want him anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:55 PM
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....and men don't? SOME people can't be honest with themselves, some of which are women and some of which are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:03 PM
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I didn't say it was wrong. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:00 AM
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which is kind of the point of life. That's sad. There's so much more to life. I could live happily ever after with just my garden, pets, and lab.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:53 AM
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Men on this sub about to start complaining that the pedophiles only went after the baby Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:11 AM
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I met my husband when I was 32 and he was 22...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:06 AM
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My mother remarried at 58 to a wonderful, very successful man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:05 AM
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Notice he's only arguing with women that say they'd rather be invisible...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:59 AM
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That's not really the point. My opinion is going to be based on my experience, which is not going to reflect any sort of legitimate data set. But since you asked, I have never heard of such a thing. The closest would be considering if there was anyone else I'd date when a relationship was going south, but I just realized that wanting someone else meant that relationship had run its course and it was time to end it. Nobody I know has a "back up" or at least has never mentioned it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:53 PM
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Then we concur
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:36 PM
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My point is that these studies are trash for the reasons you claim to be aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:36 PM
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Sort of like TRP lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:34 PM
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Basically, that they do shit "research" (as a scientist I hate even calling it that). They'll take a survey of a few people and rush to publish. You can Google "reproducibility crisis" for a more indepth explanation. Also, there's a bunch of ways to guage how reliable a source is, but it's a lot to type out. At the very least you'd want to know the impact factor of whatever journal you're referencing, but that's just one of many criteria to consider. When I'm doing research I also look at how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:33 PM
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I don't know, I think I'm a solid 5/10 but my husband is at least a 9/10. Possibly 12/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:13 PM
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Ssshhhhhhhh I sent it to my husband to boost his self-esteem because he always thinks I'm just gassing him up when I tell him he is the most perfect man that has ever happened. But he literally is the most perfect man that has ever happened and I adore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:06 PM
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Have you heard of the term "sampling bias"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:02 PM
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So you agree with the women from FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:01 PM
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I'm very interested in whether people just find anything that supports what they want to believe vs actually care about what's true. If you're interested in why I doubt the efficacy of these "studies" Google "reproducibility crisis" and "sokal papers"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:00 PM
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Don't trust those "studies". They're very problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:56 PM
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Timing. If I'm working in the wet lab, taking samples to/from the freezer, autoclaving, using the nanosight, writing, or doing data analysis I won't be on my phone. If I'm imaging on the confocal I'm probably on my phone while I wait between images. But also, I'm married so not really an issue since my husband knows my schedule and has the number for the phone in the lab if it's an emergency
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:03 PM
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I work ~75 hrs a week most weeks. In my lab there are several different areas without cell service.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:54 PM
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For real I've been proposed to several times, and I was an epic whore. Eventually married an incredibly sexy and successful man. Turns out lots of guys want milky cows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:30 AM
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Yeah poor people want lots of kids, and I'm sure nobody is broadcasting something that would make them a social pariah. Edited for clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:25 AM
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Yeah they're all the states where nobody wants to live
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:23 AM
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r/justneckbeardthings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:16 AM
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Why don't you try it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:24 AM
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