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| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?And how am I supposed to know what type of stuff they're into when I don't even know them? Occasionally I'll find some reason to get them to talk to me, but they end up stuttering wildly and tripping over shit/just being clumsy af. Then they seem embarrassed or something and just want to run for the hills. It's not like I make fun of them or bring attention to their clumsiness, all I do is try to flirt with them. They get all giggly and giddy so I assume they like it, but then they just don't en… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Acting like we're pranking you, being so incredibly intimidated by being approached that you can't bring yourself to say anything. I've had guys do this to me before, and then immediately follow me afterwards, as if they were interested... They just couldn't bring themselves to open their fucking mouth and speak? They just stand there stuttering, but they can follow me after?? What do they expect me to do, speak for them? And no, I'm obviously not talking about the really attractive dudes. I'm t… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I've personally experienced many men who feel entitled to my attention and approach me to strike up a conversation. When they're immediately shut down, about 50% of the time they get offended and give me a rude remark. About 25% actually get the hint right away and respectfully leave me tf alone before I have to put them in their place. The other 25% stay there until I get fed up enough that I feel forced to put them into their place! Since we're on a trend of wildly making assumptions about eve… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?If ya stopped treating us like unicorns, more of us would start approaching. 🙃 | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:56 AM |
| 0 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Or y'all could just grow some fucking balls and be cool with me approaching smfh. But nah, continue thinking I'm pranking you and end up alone. You do you man. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:23 PM |
| 0 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?It works by knowing who you are and being true to yourself, without putting anyone else down in the process. The goal should be for both parties to be equal, not one being better than the other. By feeling like you're doing them a favor, you're putting them beneath you. How would you feel if a woman approached you in that manner? Because I can tell you right now, in the past when I have approach men with the mindset of me doing them a favor by approaching them... No matter the circumstances, (th… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:59 AM |
| 0 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?If you read my comment, I said overly confident. Then I said "You can be confident without feeling like you're doing a favor by approaching me." Where you got "lacking in confidence" is beyond me bro. Literally said right there in my comment that you can be confident smfh. You really are an unwise speaker, sheesh. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?He ended up going to the same concert my friends and I were headed to! We met up there and danced, but that was it since I had a boyfriend at the time.. I always regret not getting his number haha | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 6 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I hear you, I'm just saying I can tell when dudes approach me with the mindset of "she's lucky to be approached by me" and it turns me all the way off, causing me to immediately shut it down. Just sharing my personal opinion. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Just so you know, I don't not believe you. I'm just saying, I don't see any here so why bother saying it. Also, I meant it as a compliment when I said at least you admit it. That's something I find extremely attractive in a guy! | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:38 AM |
| 0 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I do not have enough freetime for that bro 😭 sorry | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Definitely agree. Luckily I am only approaching men haha it sucks how the same methods don't work for them as they do for us. /: | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I think it will! Sometimes I'm just too forward, it seems to overwhelm them? I never meet any women that have any experience approaching men. They always tell me to just wait for them to approach me, but I don't wanna! | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:29 AM |
| -1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?"Debate mode" haha okieee broski, I haven't seen any "female redditors" like that. But I also don't spend a lot of my time on subreddits like this either, so whatever ya say man. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 6 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Thank you, that's very helpful! | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:20 AM |
| -1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?At least you admit it ;] | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Meanwhile, none of them are saying that.. 🙃 | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:58 PM |
| 8 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?What do they usually say back, and how do you get them to actually talk to you?? Almost everytime I try, they just stutter or say awkward things like "me??" and seem overly nervous? I usually just ask if they wanna get a drink with me or something. Your method sounds so much more forward though.. I thought that might scare them off lol | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Facts, I had a guy write a note on a paper and hold it up to the window while I was driving passenger down the highway, it was wild haha! I will never forget that, still went no where though. He was even cute. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:42 PM |
| -8 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Ew, definitely hate when overly cocky guys like that approach me.. You can be confident without feeling like you're doing a favor by approaching me. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys need a woman’s POV? I’m willing to answer questions but be niceBro I've had dudes straight up see me walk by outside and run out to ask me out.. It all just depends on the situation. If I'm being completely honest, I think it depends on their intention when they approach. If I'm being approached out of nowhere and have no context with this person whatsoever, it feels very weird for them to be hitting on me in any manner other than wanting to fuck. They have no idea the type of person I am (unless they've been stalking me, in which case... Yikes ), so anythi… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys need a woman’s POV? I’m willing to answer questions but be niceMy grandma always says if she ever gets into another relationship, she would only want a young man because she her first 2 husbands died lol so I'd say definitely possible 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.First, you stop assuming that they're not very logical.. Then you learn how to listen to and learn from them. If you can read their body language well enough, you might be able to know them better than they know themselves. But you'll never get anywhere with them by assuming they're not very logical. That's how you get played by them, just sayin'. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Advice on age gapMost valid comment I've seen on this sub so far. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude.I salute you for being able to learn that on your own! My parents also did not teach me that I should not put up with men treating me as prey. I was taught to take it as a compliment. 🤢 It disgusts me how normalized these behaviors are. Props to both of us for breaking out of the norm and learning through experience! Thank you for going out of your way to share this perspective with your fellow men. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude.Please tell this to all the guys that never stop staring at me in public 😭 they legit make me feel like they want to hunt me down and mount my head onto their wall so they can stare at me for the rest of their lives. 😳 | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Women stare while men tend to peekWhy do dudes never stop staring at me then. They're not interested, they just want to gawk at my fine ass?? Ew, make them stop please 😭 | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Meanwhile there's multiple comments from nasty trash human beings like you, giving him props for being a vile piece of shit. 🙃 But let's just continue normalizing this toxic behavior instead! Yay let's all be rapists! 😒 | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.You're fr telling people you don't even know that they need to "see therapy"?? Um that is SO INCREDIBLY TOXIC. Do you even know this woman? You're making assumptions left and right about her, yet claiming she's making too many assumptions about men in general?! Dude. Take like 100 steps back, and CHECK YOSELF. Sheesh. This is embarrassing, I hope you are really just a troll. 🤢🤮 | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I call BULLSHIT! You literally said in your post "She was resistant but didn't say anything." And that when she asked to take things slow, you didn't respond. Yet you somehow found the time to ask for consent while she was dry humping you on your bed...? Riiiiight. 🙄 You sound like those gross people that act like they can't be racist just because they know black people 😂 just stop dude, this is disgusting. It just gets worse the more you try to excuse your toxic behavior. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.It's not the asking of too many questions or making of too many assumptions about each individual woman that has you doomed... It's the general assumptions about all women - We can be even more logical than some men, clearly. 🙃 Every woman is different, we are not games you can purchase at a store. You cannot Google the cheats to win the game. Once you learn that, then you will be able to start learning how to tell what each individual woman is into. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seemDown to fuck | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seemIt's all pretty shitty tbh and thank you, it has taken me a lot of courage to get where I'm at. I only ended up doing the whole one night stand thing for about a year when I was 18, after getting tired of dudes repeatedly fucking me over when I wanted a relationship. I thought that might be the answer, definitely was not.. however, neither is not "looking" for someone. Even when I try to ask a dude out just to hangout/be friends, it's always assumed I'm DTF. Then when they find out I just think … | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seem"We know girls that look for relationships." Lmfao you mean you make assumptions about women that ask men out? Yeah, I see that. And why is it then, that they beg me to date them after I have a one night stand? Y'all would rather turn a hoe into a housewife than give a woman showing interest in you a chance? That sounds pretty pathetic tbh. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 12:00 PM |
| -8 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seemHa, this is my experience with men. When I use them for sex, they beg me to give them a chance as something more than just that. (What happened to their concept of not turning a hoe into a housewife? LMFAO) Yet, when I'm truly interested in a dude and go outta my way to flirt with them, and ask them out.. they act confused and ask weird questions such as "why do you like Me " and then end up not talking to me as much, or just straight up going out of their way to sabotage our relationship. Then … | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?Because I am a woman, and I would not be turned on by a man doing what you're suggesting lol that's why I'm replying to you, not OP. Depends what type of woman you're trying to attract. If you're only interested in a "girly girl", then this would most likely work. To each their own. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?Didn't realize I said I didn't want a masculine man lmfao I meant "also" meaning as well as being masculine. Try being both, highly recommend it over just one way or the other. Also not sure about the weird comment about submitting.. Maybe you have just not met the right masculine woman to submit to? 😂 I don't "try" or just "think" that I'm masculine or dominant. I am lol people tell me that all of the time, don't even have to try. Men and women are not meant to be all masculine or all feminine.… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?I may not be like most women, but I would disagree and say you should also learn to be comfortable doing the opposite of these things as well. Learn how to be feminine, and allow her to be masculine too. Let her guide you, and take control of situations when she knows what's best. You're not going to be able to always be in charge and know everything in every situation. No one's perfect. You want to show her that yes, you will have her back, but you know when to take a step to the side and let h… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 7 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Ew, this mindset is what makes you feel better? There's your problem bro. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:00 AM |
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