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Attraction is usually not 100% based on physical looks, so yes
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:06 AM
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Don’t listen to this guy he doesn’t know how the brain works
/r/seduction22/06/20 08:12 AM
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Parts of your brain. He means calibrate your emotions and be smart
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:51 PM
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Just banter with her, nothing too serious. If you’re still young I take it back, maybe it would be wise to stay connected via text every day. Just avoid the “I’m bored” “good morning/good night” “what’s up” texts and you should be good. I can’t tell you what to say because I don’t know your situation. Best of luck!
/r/seduction30/04/20 11:38 PM
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Tease her. Qualify her. Talk about sexual topics. Good morning/good night texts are stupid. Use your texts to build rapport or ask her out. Nothing else in the initial stages of meeting someone. Daily conversations won’t get you anywhere unless you have been seeing her for a while and she makes it known she likes you. Attraction is built in person.
/r/seduction30/04/20 11:05 PM
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Yes but tread carefully. This might be because you two are in the honeymoon phase. I had this with a lady once and ended up getting friend zoned as I wasn’t flirty enough. Keep things fresh and interesting, and leave her wanting more sometimes.
/r/seduction30/04/20 11:01 PM
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One hour isn’t a long time. She may be shy, busy or be thinking of something to say. In general, if she matches your time to text back, she’s into you. She’s investing in your perception of her which is a good sign. Be careful not to become her texting buddy.
/r/seduction30/04/20 10:56 PM
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Another day and another post with faux neuroscience in this sub. The RAS alone is primitive and doesn’t have the higher level processing capabilities described here.
/r/seduction04/09/19 04:22 AM
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Maybe you need to be a bit more direct with your intentions toward a girl? Are you taking these girls who slide into your DMs on dates? I double majored in CS as well and found that a lot of the girls I knew weren’t the type of girls I wanted a relationship with. You might just need to find a way to meet your type of girls. Don’t feel the need to lower your standards just because you’re not getting any action. It’s hard to find attractive girls that have morals, ambitions, and take care of thems…
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:53 PM
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Sounds like you’re on the right track in life but the only thing you’re lacking is female attention, which causes your self esteem issues. You mentioned you’re in school. Do you run social circle game? It seems to me like you just need to put yourself out more and meet people organically. The issue isn’t about you as a person- it’s about you not being in the right place to meet women that you click with. Being Indian has nothing to do with your success. In fact girls love well kept brown guys. A…
/r/seduction11/08/19 10:24 AM
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You have your whole life ahead of you! Everyone makes mistakes like this but that’s how we learn right?
/r/seduction31/07/19 08:02 AM
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Right. I’ve made the same mistake by offering a bed or the couch. She may have taken it to avoid you thinking she’s a slut. If you feel entitled enough to want a girl to express her intentions that’s on you. Soon you’ll realize that it’s easier to just go for what you want at first and let her become more comfortable expressing her desire over time. You have to put in the initial work for it to pay off.
/r/seduction31/07/19 07:32 AM
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I read your whole post. Some girls are shy and prefer to be led. Maybe she was a virgin. What gives? She’s probably thinking “I didn’t say no to this guy and he still didn’t try to fuck me even though I literally flew to stay in his house and slept in his bed. What a pussy.” The fact is... her flying over to you screams “make a move”
/r/seduction31/07/19 07:17 AM
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Should have made a move. She was too shy to reciprocate touch because you never took things further. But she was obviously into you if she came to your place. Stop making excuses for yourself.
/r/seduction30/07/19 10:56 PM
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This. Just go meet her. One month is plenty of time for her to lose interest. Don’t let your ego get in the way like everyone else that’s saying to move on.
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:07 AM
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I understand the principle (that emotional appeal gets you lays) you’re trying to convey but the science you’re using isn’t accurate. There’s no such thing as limbic logic, paleo logic, or neo logic. Women don’t inherently have neocortices that are against sex. Please don’t spread misinformation. The neurobiology of sex doesn’t work like that. It is in your best interests to make sure her “neocortex” agrees with her limbic expression.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:07 PM
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I’m not really sure where you got this from but it’s not completely accurate. The three “minds” don’t exist. There’s only one “mind”. The neocortex is actually more involved in emotional expression, especially when it comes to conscious action (like seduction). The limbic system provides a more primitive, unrefined response. As your game gets better, it’s a largely a result of your cortex, not limbic system. Putting it in your words, you will likely never get a girl to sleep with you if you rely…
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:58 AM
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It’s pretty helpful if you’re new. A lot of the tips you can pick up from his older videos on YouTube though.
/r/seduction19/06/19 06:35 AM
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This article makes no sense. High levels of serotonin decrease sexual desire. Women actually have higher basal serotonin levels than men. Men just make more because they have less serotonin “carriers”. The link between serotonin and dopamine is not that simple either. There’s a reason neuroscience is it’s own field, and most people don’t understand that there’s a big interplay between all the neurotransmitters in the brain, not just one or two, driving motivation/sex. This article is pure ignora…
/r/seduction01/06/19 09:04 PM
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Yeah bro grow out your hair on top and trim the sides up a bit, style a clean quiff. It should help shape your face. You could grow out a beard too to give you a tougher edge. Hit the gym and fill up your shirt. not even the hottest guys are born looking good. You have to do something for it. I don’t think looks are the issue here. You need to work on your personality and get rid of your cynical outlook on life and people around you. Be the fucking guy that gives value to other people. A chick i…
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:56 AM
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No women aren’t these shallow pieces of ass that this sub portrays them to be. Mature, quality women want a quality guy who is confident in himself. They want to be in a relationship where you make them feel good. A ton of hot guys are arrogant shits that think they’re entitled to get in a women’s pants and ghost them afterward. Make her feel good and she will do anything for you.
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:31 AM
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I suggest visiting a mental health professional. As per your post history you seem to be having a rough time. Everyone is not out to get you as you think. Besides that, you’re not that bad looking. You just need a clean up and a change in attitude. Smile more and do good in the world. You’ll feel better about yourself and girls will come to you naturally. Trust me college chicks don’t care that much about looks.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:44 PM
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What’s with Austin buying the most condoms? Does being liberal have something to do with it? Or is it because it has a college and primarily younger people?
/r/seduction16/03/19 08:47 AM
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Have you been getting enough sleep? You might be more mentally tired after working out
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:57 PM
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The difference between you and a “chad” is that the latter loves all women despite their quirks and emotional ways
/r/seduction05/03/19 06:45 AM
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This. High social standing in school will make you more likely to get laid. Girls will want to get to know you just because people talk about you, which makes your job exponentially easier.
/r/seduction05/03/19 04:21 AM
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Yes in that case I think it’s a great way. Talk to guys too, you never know when you’ll make some new friends
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:41 PM
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I just want to say, don’t let womanizing take over your life. You’re still young and have great things ahead of you. Don’t let a few rejections make you compensate and want to fill your life with women/become an asshole player.
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:10 PM
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I don’t think it works like that when you’re 16 and not completely emotionally mature yet. Ghosting will ruin your chances and get you a bad rep, esp if you have mutual friends.
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:51 AM
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He’s right. But I think you still have a good chance. Y’all are young and she might be feeling vulnerable and shy about you finally knowing she likes you (which is why your friend found out first). She wants you to make a move. And soon.
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:50 AM
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Honestly then it was probably just nerves. Don’t worry, unless you have ED they should wear off as you become more comfortable. Also, foreplay is as necessary for you as it is for her!
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:39 PM
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Your body is getting used to something new and doesn’t know what it needs to do. Lay off on the masturbation for a week before you next have sex and quit watching porn. Once you gain your confidence back and help your brain associate erections with women instead of erections with porn, you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:28 PM
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I'd recommend joining clubs that fit your interests. You're bound to find attractive girls, so use mutual interest to start conversation. Cold approach in uni is still a bit weird and you might get a bad rep.
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:27 AM
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You're assuming she stopped watching your story because you weren't watching hers. If she is still interested, she will reach out eventually. Just move on for now.
/r/seduction20/08/18 08:42 PM
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Second this. A bit expensive but it makes the girls linger...
/r/seduction18/08/18 09:09 PM
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Try to incorporate something that makes her remember your previous convo. Maybe something you laughed over. Saying hey is lazy.
/r/seduction18/08/18 06:44 PM
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Just wanted to add, it's fine if you don't get a girlfriend. These are the years where you learn how to socialize, and getting a girlfriend will reduce the flirtatious interactions you can have with other girls.
/r/seduction05/08/18 01:38 AM
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Next afternoon is usually a good time. Just say you had a good time and would like to see her again
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:16 AM
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$40 to bang a chick? That's dedication
/r/seduction31/07/18 10:00 PM
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It looks like she's really into you but doesn't know how she feels about having a relationship (dating, etc.) since she's so young. Maybe she doesn't want to get into one if she's going off to college soon? A girl I knew (18) told her friends how big of a crush she had on me but when I asked her out she always made excuses. I later found out she didn't want to let herself get attached since she was moving to California the next month. Either way, I'd back off immediately. Don't give her the same…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:25 PM
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His hair is pretty dope. I personally don't have a fade or tight sides because of my ears and head shape as well. If you think it looks good, rock it! Nothing more attractive than confidence and remember, we tend to be more critical of our hair/featured than others
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:39 AM
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I'm pretty sure Einstein had a gene disorder that made his hair uncombable. The current style trend is tight/faded sides with a textured/wavy top. Round haircuts like Fellaini tend to ruin your head shape. I'd recommend sticking to something that complements your jawline!
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:44 AM
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I used to go for boba or ice cream. It's cheap and easy, plus if you go in close to closing time, you can always ask if they want to chill at your apartment for a bit.
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:29 AM
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I've had this happen to me as well and can't explain it. I'm assuming the girl is really shy or completely uninterested.
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:37 AM
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You can't get caught looking at a girls tits and expect to get a number just like that. Flirt with her first and just ask straight up
/r/seduction02/07/18 02:46 AM
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Own it. I usually give a smile and say "just appreciating" if the girl seems receptive. The key is to make it lighthearted, as if you've done nothing wrong.
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:53 AM
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9 ball right?
/r/seduction30/06/18 11:31 PM
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I'd do that once to get her attention without being creepy. But the next time it happens, keep eye contact. She will probably look away after a few seconds. After class (or when you get a chance) I'd go up to her and talk to her.
/r/seduction10/06/18 03:44 PM
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Preferably something genuine that you like about her. For example, if she has nice hair, you could say "I love the way your hair flows when you run" etc. Fake/planned compliments have a tendency of coming off a bit creepy.
/r/seduction10/06/18 08:08 AM
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Good content man, keep it up. Sometimes I don't have the confidence to approach girls that are with people or in groups and this definitely gives me some motivation to try it out.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:47 PM
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I don't think he means it that way
/r/seduction22/05/18 11:06 PM
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Damn never thought being that direct could work. I might try it. Were y'all close friends (no flirting before this)?
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:17 AM
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Has this worked for you?
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:10 AM
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I guess you have a point
/r/seduction09/05/18 09:01 PM
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Thanks for psychoanalyzing my comment. I'm sorry if it bothered you that much
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:49 PM
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I was being purely objective. Don't really know how else to put realty.
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:50 PM
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Yeah you're right. I hadn't thought of that. I was considered one of the most attractive for my ethnicity among my class so it was quite easy for me to be direct and see results. On the other hand, as long as you don't do it in a creepy way (and don't call everyone cool/cute), it could work. Maybe it would be a better idea to get a group hangout going so you can get to know her better. It might help you lead into a one on one date. When I think back on high school, that's where most of my dates …
/r/seduction09/05/18 07:18 AM
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The next time you see her say something like "hey I think you're pretty cool, we should get boba this Friday". You can text her something similar if you can't bring yourself to say it to her. Just get your point across. On the date kino/flirt with her a lot. Talk about your project or whatever and end on a high note. A lot of guys in high school are clueless/to immature to take girls on proper dates so you'd already be ahead of the curve while doing this.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:14 AM
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Boba is a good alternative if you know a place with good ambiance. They usually have couches which makes for easy kino too.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:48 AM
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Hanging out with her gives you social proof (shows that girls are interested in you, not just as friends)
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:23 PM
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Not true. I've had some great reactions tickling girls the first time I touched them. Obviously, make sure they're in a receptive mood first.
/r/seduction09/01/18 09:46 AM
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I think I know what you mean because I've been in this EXACT situation (didn't ask her to prom though). Once you showed her interest she took a step back because she wanted YOU to make a move. Confidence is attractive, especially coming from a usually reserved guy. If you see her every day, start flirting with and talking to her a bit more. Sneak in some touches, maybe to her arm. Tickle her. Now that you know she's crushing on you, use it to your advantage. Treat her like any other of your guy …
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:49 AM
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Sorry I meant friend. For instagram it's follow. As long as the girl is alerted to your existence it shouldn't be seen as creepy at all.
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:29 AM
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Just follow them. No one thinks that much into it.
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:17 AM
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Depends. I aim for anywhere from 5 minutes to 2 hours depending on the situation (but mix it up). Responding too quickly can make you seem clingy or as if you have nothing to do other than wait for her texts. Ideally, your day should be busy enough to the point where responding every few hours should seem natural. You should never be waiting for her to text you. That's just being needy. If you have nothing going on, go work out or meditate. 10 minutes is a good response time, but play it by how …
/r/seduction16/12/17 12:00 AM
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Although you did "mess up" with the long messages etc. as the other comments mention, I'd safely assume you did nothing wrong. The girl is probably looking for validation and flirting for fun. If she was serious she would have responded. Just drop it.
/r/seduction11/12/17 02:53 AM
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You'll definitely have the best luck in downtown Dallas (bars, nightclubs) but the night scene is much better than the day scene imo
/r/seduction04/12/17 10:11 PM
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