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That's dumb. Money buys goods and services legally, and it's not tied to your bodily autonomy. You can spend money without degrading your physical health. If you have sex with hundreds of people, you're likely gonna get some health problems -male or female. Money as value vs your body as value is not a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:15 PM
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Means you have good (male) friends. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:32 PM
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I mean women in general? Probably not. If she's a friend its most likely better tho. Most parents I know default response is "Suck it up" "It was worse in my day" as nice responses or even straight up start screaming and shit at the worst :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:14 PM
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They weren't always married??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:30 AM
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There's a difference between being coveted and being valued. Men who have been raped know this, but other than that, this distinction of perception doesn't seem to register in the common man. There is no class to teach women how to properly protect themselves as something that is "coveted" and some get broken and used like objects. The desire to use them should not be confused with value. It can be turned into value, but that takes a skillset that has to be acquired. And it's a secret, unspoken …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:15 AM
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It's interchangeable, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:04 PM
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Put bluntly? Some of the weakest of the human men, taking advantage of the rest of them especially young men, to get ahead. It's a product to swindle people. They don't have their audience's best interest in mind. There are some peppered truths in there, but that's how it always is in a swindle. Otherwise it wouldn't be sellable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:57 PM
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If they are staying actual friends with you, its because they respect you and want to be actual friends with you, there's just no attraction present. That can happen to anybody. Its not anyone's fault. If they didnt respect you they would just say to fuck off. And if they are just using you, thats something you have to be aware of (such as giving free car rides, buying food, etc). In which case that isnt real friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:06 PM
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yep sure :>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:03 PM
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If you have any specific questions Id be willing to talk and give a perspective if you want to dm me. I identify as bigender and observing the human animal and both genders is a pastime of mine, plus you seen respectable (looking at your responses here)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:43 PM
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To be someones friend is literally getting something out of it, you could be a lonely bitch with no female friends at all instead. Men with female friends meet more women, imagine that. They are also less lonely and have more developed social skills. Literally getting ahead in life! If some guy fucks you in your ass, THEY are getting something out of it, youre hoping for something more but they only see you as a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:10 PM
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If anything I have time and time again seen the "homies" and the "families" failing miserably to emotionally support. edit: in fact a good portion of the time those 2 groups are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:02 PM
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Im loling at this cause like...yeah thats the endgame duh. Thats the whole point. So her example is still valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:53 PM
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Theres like, a ramp of emotional honesty to be followed. Never say your mental illnesses or any negatively on a first date for instance, youre trying to showcase your good side because thats what a potential gf/bf is buying in for. If you show negatively too soon before the positive, there's no reason to commit. They dont "know" your good side. Only the "bad", and yes the average person of either gender doesnt want to make their life harsher by taking on burdens. Theres more to this too, like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:50 PM
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Oh my bad. My brain got scrambled from the other convos I was having. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13r60qr/why_do_men_react_so_aggressively_when_you_reject/ This is more applicable, and this is a reaction that women encounter a lot when they try to stay friends. Most men also don't stick around staying as friends, for good reasons. But when it does happen, they can get together, and that usually takes a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:40 AM
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To be fuck-zoned doesn't require any friendship beforehand. Most of the times they are not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:17 AM
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We are talking about women who aren't dating as the original topic??? You mentioned people who ARE dating. I think your comprehension is low, so hard to continue this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:44 AM
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You're writing as if ALL men are these paragons of honor and wisdom. Like. Common now. Also women mostly like/love their boyfriends, that's ridiculous to assume they ALL have negative views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:23 PM
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Well maybe you need a dominatrix loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:20 PM
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I agree with you fully. And thank you :> it was made on a whim of brainstorming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:18 PM
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Ugly Winnie the Pooh sounds kinda endearing tbh lol. Rather than masculine, being comfortable being yourself could be your aim, and creating a "comfortable" environment. The older you get the more and more this strategy works. Be dependable. Be present. Offer stability. I mean ultimately women are the one's who carry yes, but there are plenty of skinny fragile men who are fathers, and it's been that way forever. If it wasn't, more men would be muscle easier. We can observe that with the African …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13tcjim/i_got_ghosted_by_a_guy_i_slept_with_and_i_feel/ This seems more common from what I observe. Btw. Fuck-zoning is not the same as friend-zoned necessarily. Usually, the woman or man who is fuck zoned is not a friend. Otherwise it would just be FWB. Not fuck-zoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:36 PM
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PS there are plenty of women that like sissy men, if that's what you consider yourself to be. You've gotta play on your strengths. Fact of the matter is less masculine men EXIST because some woman fucked his non-masculine ancestor and birthed his kids. Otherwise humanity would be like kangaroos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:56 PM
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That's the way most people do, and the best strat. Some people's brains are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:54 PM
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That's a nice observation, that it would be considered successful to become FWB for the guy, because that is part of the problem in a good portion of those situations. She is looking for a real relationship, and he is just after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:54 PM
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I find it interesting that a lot of guys are like "she's getting sex! So she is getting value!!" lol. Like the concept of reluctantly giving sex in the hopes of love isn't a concept to the average man I guess. Maybe that's why some guys think rape isn't that bad :/ There's an idea of sex always being good, always being value, always being black or white, when that is not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:50 PM
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fuck zoned means you're a living breathing hole/pole and nothing else. You are dangled along with the hopes of love, the hopes of a relationship. But he/she will never love you. It does happen to men too albiet rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:45 PM
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Have literally never seen this happen. Sex is the "end" goal. When you already have the prize, there is no reason to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:44 PM
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If a guy is fucked in the face, he needs to aim for the "stability/provider" role. There will always be women vying for that. Especially later in life. He might not get sex in his 20s, but 30s+ he could win out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:40 PM
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This is a correct assessment. There is a timing at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:32 PM
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If ANYONE is just using you, you're at least partially to blame/fault. You have to have boundaries. Ultimately you're the one letting yourself be used. If you know you're being used, you have to walk away and seek relationships where you're treated correctly. That goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:27 PM
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We have to keep in mind with the invention of the automobile, people walk less in general. For a long time in human history both sexes had moderate fitness from simply walking everywhere. That contributed to rise of skinny fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:20 PM
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This reminds me of when they pooled women in Korea about musculature, and they basically said the same thing. They like "fit" but once a guy becomes very very musculature, it both is scary and reminds them of their dads moreso. Those responses stood out to me. I can see how it's a scary thing for younger women especially too. It's "new" after all, coming out of high school no other of their peers were likely that built.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:17 PM
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When whales or elephants save other animals including humans, that is not perpetrating their own species. Its also very low-science brain to assume you understand the qualia of everyone's experiences, especially entirely different species. We all have different physicality and chemical mixes affecting things. I personally help others cause its the right thing to do. Id say in my case its a form of love but really if I had to describe it, it would be justice. Now that Im older I realize giving so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:27 PM
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Altruism is a natural instinct, evolved in the wild. It is related to love and we see it in whales and elephants. Love exists because it helps overall survival, but humans are multifaceted creatures and live in harsh times. Most units are isolated as opposed to forming tribes. If you were happy, you wouldnt even be looking down this path of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:43 PM
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-America has 50 states -Lists one city and one state as an example Anyways, please educate yourself: https://youtu.be/oHlpmxLTxpw https://youtu.be/SfsCniN7Nsc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:16 PM
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Oh I see, Im also a creative introverted type so I understand. Yes disparity in skill could breed frustration. I believe part of that is usually solved by making weaker players "reserves" but them abusing you is still not excused either way. It is good to keep one's fitness up, non-competitive fitness activities like weight lifting tend to promote a more supportive environment from what Ive observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:13 PM
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Would you say the same of the men that play Smash and WoW and watch anime? :[ Because I have experience Convention Funk firsthand. I'd rather smell a fish market. and that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:38 AM
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I appreciate that you put this down. Yes alot of women also aren't taught how to be a romantic partner either, but media does at least put in ideas about sex and pleasing sexually, which is unfortunately a lot of what women end up having to do. Anyways this is the reason many go-getter high achievement strong women end up having problems finding a mate I think. They have been socialized to be strong towards their goals, not at the art of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:21 AM
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I agree this happens, and I also agree they aren't socialized to be good partners. You can't be having so many stories of "stinky men, doesn't wash/shower, I had to teach my boyfriend how to clean himself, bf doesn't know how to wipe, bf thinks cleaning his butt is gay" posts, which is the number one basic thing, and not think there isn't an entire socialization problem. (it's not even just socialization but also basic body care). It's particularly more dangerous for those with internal organs i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:14 AM
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I think in America it is particularly bad. We don't even have walkable cities, so many kids are isolated until they can get a car, which impacts kids independence. I guess this would depend on the country tho. Also that's horrible wtf. Why would they even do that. Hope you're safe now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:08 AM
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I have seen at least some men have sentiments like this so I don't think your observation is wrong. We can even attribute some psychological aspects to it, after all, even men were kids once and want mom's approval. (same with women). There are a lot of unfortunate reasons men become isolated, Part of it is the way current society is structured. If we had more close-knit communities. Trust could form more often with men, and they would get more attention. Not necessarily sexual, but still a "hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:39 AM
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This, I'd also like to add I recently found a better wording for "You need to have confidence!!" <- too broad of advice and tbh everyone can struggle with self-esteem issues time to time. Instead it's better to be "Secure with the idea of any x relationship not working out" So date with a girl? May not work out? It's fine. Believing and knowing you'll be fine and there are other fish in the sea. This is the true magic words. It makes everything comfortable, which helps attraction form in the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:26 AM
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In that case, it's just the mechanism of which birth is. It takes 8-9 months of carrying a baby. She also needs recovery time of about a month or 2, maybe 3 even, or else she may die. In that meantime a woman cannot get additionally pregnant. So. If you had a small community of people, you could see how that could be a limited resource. Lets say an example scenario where there is only about 3 able to carry child women compared to 20 men, by the Mechanism of which child carrying takes so long, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:59 PM
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Capitalism 60+ hr workweeks and non-legalized brothels doesn't help. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:53 PM
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Also was thinking about this a bit more and it reminded me of a co-worker of mine that everyone found to be an okay person, but eventually he had to quit because of a drinking problem. It's true noone knew before it came to light, but he was still in an unhealthy state on the inside. And that is still correct to say. You're also correct in that we can't assume how people act towards others in the real world entirely by their Reddit posts, and that also doesn't mean what they say on here is healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:51 PM
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Well it still says alot about the logic going on in a guy's head that thinks this way and devotes time to negatively, as opposed to looking for ways to improve hinself, which is the same for women btw. Also very different from having a kink because one is a hobby/a way to gain satisfaction. Unless its satisfying to hate on women? I guess it is for some men. But that's still weird. Same with those women with a kink like that. Weird comparison cause it subtly suggests this is like a kink to be neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:41 PM
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I knew a 5'3 guy that was handsome and he got laid all the time. He got a girl pregnant tho so...greatly affected his life path there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:36 PM
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This and also the general population of women, less of them look at porn (of any type) as a whole than men do. From what I've seen they prefer novels and fanfiction. This smaller sample size would skew the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:01 PM
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Genghis Khan outlier fudged the statistics imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:24 AM
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Why be on this thread and complain then, it suggests you aren't happy. Happy people don't waste energy hating on things or people, they are out and about living and creating instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:23 AM
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You do know beauty trends are a thing right? I assume you also know being fat is considered attractive when there is food scarcity. That's a notable example. Try to do your own research.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:53 AM
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I think more men need to realize not all sex is good sex. It could even mess you up for life. Plus I've seen autistic guys get women. Much more than the guys who complain all the time anyways lol. You could also just say there is a population of guys that will stick their dick in anything. By proxy of that they will target vulnerable women. However there are less women with that instinct both because culture does not push it and biologically women have more to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:32 AM
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