BurgandyBurgerBugle Archive

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1	I decided to write out my entire seduction process. This is my game. Any thoughts or advice? It's easy to lead if you take control of each individual conversation. Again, it's still a numbers game, and you have to be okay with going home alone. Escalation is pretty easy, actually, by allowing you to come back to the conversation with a little more flirtation on physical contact each time. This also gives you the opportunity to gauge her reaction to striking up another conversation. The important thing is not making long enough absences where you're forgotten, and not being so completely…	/r/seduction	25/05/14 01:09 AM
2	Daytime approaches for most women is close to 0. They also do not warm up to cold approaches. What is a social engineering tactic that capitalizes on the opportunity by creating 'warm cold approaches'? Walking up to a woman and hitting on her is saying, "I would like to sleep with you because you're attractive. Here is what I look like. Wanna do this?" It's not effective in most situations. You need to feel comfortable approaching on neutral (but charming) ground, and start conversations about something other than HER. This should allow her to feel more comfortable with you, and make it seem like the attraction is more natural and spontaneous than you seeing her and preying upon her.	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:36 PM
1	I have a big problem with avoidance. How can I start improving? Multiple short, charming interactions are worth more to you than one long conversation. In one long conversation, you can make bad jokes, run out of things to talk about. 3 or 4 120 second conversations of playful, funny or charming small talk, a few times throughout your night will establish familiarity and comfort. At this point, you should hopefully be more comfortable in a longer conversation.	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:34 PM
2	I think I'm really funny, but no one else does. What do I do about this? You have to learn to adapt, brother. If you think you're funny but no one else does, then you aren't funny. That's like me saying, "I know I'm strong, because I'm really confident in my muscles, but I can't actually lift anything heavier than 50 pounds." If you can't lift, you aren't strong. If you can't make them laugh, you aren't funny. Being funny isn't about making yourself laugh, it's about reading a person and understanding their sense of humor.	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:32 PM
2	I can't run my game in front of other guys. What should I do? Do you do it in front of other guys? It's not as hard as it sounds. Trust me. First of all, if she's not with any of the guys already then they aren't competition. If anything was going to happen between them, it would be happening. But you're right, a guy can spot a guy's pick-up attempts from a mile away. this is where playing your hand close to your chest is to your advantage. Find something to engage the whole group in. Let it feel like you are naturally drawn to your "target" more than the rest of them, but never stop engaging…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:28 PM
1	I decided to write out my entire seduction process. This is my game. Any thoughts or advice? I refer you to this comment I left on another thread.	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:20 PM
1	How do I go about picking up girls older than me? 5 years older to be exact? Do not pursue a relationship with a 25 year old. Would you date a 15 year old?	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:17 PM
3	Coming off a long-term relationship. How do I do this? The two biggest things you need to know: 1) Talking to women is not the same as hitting on women. Learn how to talk to them, not just how to hit on them. You should never hit on a woman you haven't talked to like a human being yet. Women do not go home with strangers who hit on them during their first conversation. The most successful men don't use pick-up lines, don't "neg," and don't play games. The most successful men talk to people, make funny comments, build rapport, and then make it seem a…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:12 PM
2	Can you help me understand what I'm doing wrong? Women stop responding to me after a few dates.... It's hard to tell, man. I only have the info you're giving me, I don't know you. You're pretty much telling me, "I'm acting perfectly, and these women seem into me, what am I doing wrong?" That's obviously not true, or they'd want a third, fourth, fifth date. You're fucking up somewhere in your blind spot. And since I can't read the texts you've sent, or hear the conversations you've had, I don't know where you're fucking up.	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:07 PM
1	I am feel like I'm making progress when I talk to a girl one on one but when we are in a group I feel like I'm not able to keep her attention/create attraction. Should I just try and isolate her every time or should I not worry so much about keeping her attention all the time? I love when I see girls out in groups. If you can be charming to the entire group, while still only focusing flirtation on one of the girls, you can win them all over and get the girls to do your closing for you. Compliment her friends. Find ways to insinuate that they are an intelligent group of girls, or funny. They hear their beautiful all the time. You see the way she's dressed? They know they're hot. They want to hear the compliments they don't usually hear. Bonus points because you don't c…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:04 PM
1	Problem in 'one-liner' situations Multiple, short, charming encounters are worth infinitely more to having her feel comfortable with you than any single conversation will. Keep it funny, light, and platonic the first couple times you chat. She is approached every few minutes. You don't want to be another aggressive face. Find something to strike up a short, funny or charming conversation about, get a couple laughs, and get the fuck out of the convo. Lather, rinse, repeat. Once comfort and familiarity are established, you can wor…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 11:00 PM
2	How do i Overcome the fear of approaching by myself ? Here's your problem. You're seeing the approach as an opportunity to hit on and work your way up to sleeping with a woman. That's nerve wracking! With that perspective, you're basically saying "I think you're attractive, here's what I look like, want to get out of here?" That makes you incredibly vulnerable, and of course will cause anxiety. You need to focus on how to start conversations with strangers. I suggest trying by starting conversations with same gender strangers. This will help you le…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 10:55 PM
1	Walking the line between too subtle and creepy? RU5k0 is right. Comfort is big. You know what makes most women uncomfortable? Being approached by strangers and hit on. The trick is, and always has been, to treat the woman you're interested in as a human being. She is a person trying to have fun with her friends, you are a person trying to have fun with your friends. Do not excessively compliment, do not jump into anything too early. Early conversation should be friendly and neutral, and not consist of you trying to pick her up. You need to ge…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 10:50 PM
1	Trick for #close/date tip for picking up waiters I want you to know that you're coming off very immature here. SmellyJelly is correct. Bartenders and waiters, especially attractive ones, flirt for tips. They can't be rude, or they don't make money. Do not mistaken their job personality for being interested in you. Now, regardless of whether or not that's true, of course you have the right to hit on whoever you want. That doesn't mean that some situations work to your advantage, and some make the odds steeped against you. Service workers are a …	/r/seduction	24/05/14 10:43 PM
6	Every conversation I have the mindset 'I need to impress you'. I know this is bad so how do I make them want to impress me? Let me ask you something. If you were shopping for a car, and you walked into the dealership and said, "I'm looking for a car to drive off the lot today" or better yet, "I'm desperate, and I need a car. I'm without transport, and I need a way to get around," what is the salesman going to do? He's going to jerk you around, and get the highest price from you. You need him, so he's going to do what he can to get as much from you as possible He has the upper hand. If you walk into a dealership and t…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 10:07 PM