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1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat Not sure how what I said fall under that, but alright.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 05:29 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat I don't understand how people have such blind optimism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 03:39 PM
2	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat I don't think there's, anything too weird, about how I talk, aside from being soft spoken. Can't really glean much from it anyway when "hello" or even a strictly professional conversation at work gets people staring at me like I shot their dog. If for no other reason than my own bubble, I avoid getting too close to people. It feels weird to me when people get too close to talk and I don't want to subject others to that. I'm not sure. Just sounds like all of this could have been avoided if I hadn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 03:39 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat ... What am I supposed to be happy about, exactly? It's easy when you have literally any outside positivity. But if you don't have that, explain where exactly I'm supposed to conjur up this happiness you speak of?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 03:24 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat If getting groceries is social inappropriate, I'm not sure what I can do. I'll just be walking by and get looks. I'm not sure what's so hard to grasp. I'm ugly as fuck with a weird shaped head, I'm not tall, I'm skinny, and I'm really quiet..im also increasingly finding out being black is a problem, especially when I don't fit whatever fetish people have about black men, or I don't act in a stereotypical way. I don't blame anyone for it. Can't be mad at others they didn't do this. I'm just a rej…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 03:22 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat ... What does any of that have to do with women finding creative and cruel ways to tell you just how ugly you are. Being pointed at and laughed at. Or just being stared at because you're ugly as sin. Tell me how enduring that shit my entire life is supposed to help me grow? What are you even talking about? It's like you didn't read a word I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 02:57 PM
12	How easy/hard is it for you, in your opinion, to 'get'* casual sex? Casual sex? Casual conversation is out of my league, apparently, let alone sex. 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 02:22 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat I know I'm well below average in pretty much every category. Literally don't know anything good about me. Does that mean I'm just out of luck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 02:21 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat Not true at all. Trying to talk to people IRL is every bit as stacked as it is online. Even worse, I'd argue. In person I can see people actively looking at me like I'm some sort of fucking alien or something when I haven't said or done anything to them at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 02:15 PM
1	if the dating market is a table, the average men have no seat I'm wayy to ugly, short, and I'm not rich, so I know I'm not allowed to have preferences. I just want someone to actually like me, but apparently even that is asking too much. Hell, being able to say hello without a look of repulsion or disgust would be nice at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 02:14 PM
2	Do you think attraction is mostly looks? I've seen it go both ways but yeah...the number of times I've seen a woman go back to a guy that habitually cheats, or emotionally abuses her, or makes her feel like utter crap.. And that's just what I see or overhear as a socially inept wallflower.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 12:06 AM
3	Do you think attraction is mostly looks? It all starts with looks. Everything else is a pretty distant second. People will put up with a frightening amount of crap from someone if they're hot enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 12:02 AM
9	Who has more pressure? Do women have more pressure to be beautiful or do men have more pressure to be successful and why? Until that average or below average woman wants nothing to do with most men because she's too busy chasing that top 5%. Sure, most men are just fine with most women, but the opposite can't be said for women, as you have said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 05:17 PM
1	Opinion: women and men treat each other equally as bad So if you are jaded you are probably unattractive. There's no "probably" about it here. I'm ugly as shit and I have to fight to not be bitter about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 12:13 AM
2	What does the 'AF/BB' theory have to say about the 'Orgasm Gap'? Life does a pretty good job at making that clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:44 PM
3	The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me I didn't say it was universal, or that you couldn't see signs of aging. But I've seen enough attractive 30+ year old women to discount the idea of "the wall" just ruining everyone, or most women. I'm also not confining this to European women, seeing I'm not of European descent myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:38 PM
1	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life Was doing bodyweight stuff. Moved onto dumbbells in a 5 day split, but kept pull-up work. I don't do anything with a barbell nor do I try to challenge my 1RM. My BF% seems to be 12-15‰ based on pictures. I'm 5'8, 170lbs. Again, keep saying I haven't tried like you have a fucking clue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 08:05 PM
1	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life I literally told you earlier what I've been doing, yet none of that counts as effort. Not sure why I'm continuing to feed the troll, but here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 02:23 PM
1	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life You think I haven't put in effort? Eat a dick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 04:20 AM
0	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life You don't know the first thing about what I've done to improve myself. I've been working on it for fucking years. Stopped sugar. All but stopped drinking. Started eating better. Bought some dumbells and a bench and pull up bar and started working out. Started a simple skincare routine. I was always clean, but got better cologne. Started wearing better fitting clothes. I'm not rich per se but I am not in a dead end job either. Still, I'm just as much of a failure as I was 3 years ago. I'll say it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 09:20 PM
4	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life This might be one of the biggest piles of delusional bullshit I've read on here. Looks and physical attractiveness get your foot in the door, end of discussion. Nobody gives a shit how "emotionally available" you are if you don't interest them to begin with, and most guys can't do much to clear that bar, as you said. You can do all the, self-improvement in the world... And be maybe average. Even then, there's loads of guys that are just better without trying, and you end up alone in the end anyw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:10 PM
3	We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s life If you aren't born with inherently attractive traits that isn't an option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:07 PM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? Sure, but you probably like them. I'm just some sad random asshole on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:20 AM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? It sounds like you take any criticism of your actions as a criticism of yourself as a person? ... Because it just about always is? Seriously, what are you getting from this at this point? I was wrong there, you corrected it, I'm an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:14 AM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? Cool, you did it, I'm a dumbass. Happy now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:05 AM
2	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? Because your tone made it obvious your only intention was to just tell me I'm wrong, not actually try to debate anything. It wouldn't change anything if I did more openly say it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:58 AM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? The implication was pretty clear, I thought. Not sure what else you want, here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:54 AM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? ... A couple of posts ago where I said as much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:53 AM
1	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? I'm willing to admit I did something wrong but being patronized for it.. Yeah no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:50 AM
3	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? ... It upholds the point that more men are getting pushed out of being considered as partners. If you want to keep on that point, fine. You win the internet argument. But my core argument that the pool of men actually engaging heavily in casual dating is becoming increasingly top-heavy still stands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:42 AM
6	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? And the number of young men not having sex tripled in the same time frame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:35 AM
3	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? You asked, and I gave you the closest argument I've heard that makes any sense. I will say though, that some women do casually date guys like this not intending to compete, or at least understanding, they aren't the only ones he's having sex with. Actual poly relationships are usually an entirely different dynamic that I don't think any pill actually discusses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:19 AM
12	in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from? By "share" it does not mean polyamorous relationships, or women that manage to nail down a top guy... But there are some RP lines of thought that would argue that infidelity is almost expected in a relationship with such a man.. It's referring moreso to casual dating and sex, where a very small percentage of men are having sex with a lot of women. You can see this in action There's been a couple of studies(pre-pandemic mostly) that showed the number of sexless men rising, yet the number of women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 04:12 AM
3	57% of women have height preferences. The most obvious and also overlooked reason why this is really bad for men. Ah, true. 😅🤣	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/22 11:37 PM
17	57% of women have height preferences. The most obvious and also overlooked reason why this is really bad for men. People like to point at guys that have everything else going for them except their height (rich, attractive, charming, fit/muscular, etc) and try to claim height isn't everything. I agree, if you're otherwise desirable in every other way, sure. But for the average guy, being under 6ft makes dating very much an uphill battle. But if you're ugly and short.. Get fucked.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/22 11:30 PM
12	I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for men The rules are different when you're hot. They largely don't apply. If you're average, don't be an asshole or a creep, and you will at least get by. If you're ugly your very existence is threatening to people regardless of what you say or do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 02:01 AM
22	I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for men You forgot that being unattractive automatically makes you seem less trustworthy and more likely to have ill intentions. Whatever the opposite of the halo effect is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 01:30 AM
2	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women I have never said rules are absolute and you can find exceptions to everything. I'm also not referring to people with actual physical deformities and medical conditions because I have no experience there. Outside of that, though, Is it less due to them not actually being attractive to anybody at all or is it simply a case of them not being attracted to the people that find them attractive? It can be a bit of both in some cases but is usually more of the former. Some people can be socially inept …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 06:06 PM
2	To all the whatevermaxxing folks out there, here is how it works in the real world, you can cry about it, you can not like it, but this is how it is for the vast, vast majority of men. ... What? I'm talking about my experience as a man getting rejected by unattractive women. You seem lost. I'm well aware that I'm worthless and as a result I have effectively no standards. I'm not saying anything against the fact women get treated like crap. Men suck. My only point was "staying in my lane" doesn't help any when less attractive women also reject you, often times more harshly than other women.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/22 03:37 PM
1	To all the whatevermaxxing folks out there, here is how it works in the real world, you can cry about it, you can not like it, but this is how it is for the vast, vast majority of men. ... What? I'm talking about my experience as a man getting rejected by unattractive women. You seem lost. I'm well aware that I'm worthless and as a result I have effectively no standards. I'm not saying anything against the fact women get treated like crap. Men suck. My only point was "staying in my lane" doesn't help any when less attractive women also reject you, often times more harshly than other women.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/22 03:36 PM
2	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women None of that conflicts with what I'm saying. Very low-value men and women tend to struggle with the realization thay that's where they are as far as a sexual/relationship partner, to the point that it can lead to depression and other issues that, unfortunately, can only drive it even lower in the eyes of some people. I agree, you run into issues when people either don't believe their true value, or are deluded into thinking they are higher than they are, thus the scenario I portrayed ends up pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 03:29 PM
2	To all the whatevermaxxing folks out there, here is how it works in the real world, you can cry about it, you can not like it, but this is how it is for the vast, vast majority of men. .... Did you miss the part where I said even unattractive women will reject you just as easily as someone with more options? In my experience the meanest and most cruel rejections come from women I didn't find particularly attractive at all. Someone attractive, decent chance they just say no or they're not interested and I just thank them and move on. That isn't what happens at all with less attractive women, in my experience.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/22 03:12 PM
4	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women There isn't someone for everybody. That math doesn't check out. Also, it's very possible to be just undesirable, and guy especially have to struggle to meet rising standards that at some point, simply become behind the ability of some men to meet, to even be regarded by below average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 02:44 AM
28	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women I think below a certain point, men are not wanted regardless of what kind of women you're talking about. I don't think men have a floor as far as who can be an option; a lonely enough or low-value man will probably try it with just about any woman that showed interest. Sure, those men may not seek those women but I doubt they'd reject them either. On the other end, though, I think as a man you have to at least be at some minimum level to even be considered by the vast majority of women.. Enough …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 11:56 PM
11	To all the whatevermaxxing folks out there, here is how it works in the real world, you can cry about it, you can not like it, but this is how it is for the vast, vast majority of men. The problem with relying on money is that you attract people that have no actual interest in you. They just want your money or whatever status being with you can offer them. The dynamic is completely different. Can it get you random sex? Sure, probably. But you are highly unlikely to find a healthy relationship going that route.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/22 06:29 PM
8	To all the whatevermaxxing folks out there, here is how it works in the real world, you can cry about it, you can not like it, but this is how it is for the vast, vast majority of men. Sure, if your face is as least slightly below average or better and/or you're tall. If you're just fucking ugly, no amount of whateverthefuck-maxxing is going to overcome it.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/22 06:26 PM
1	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky The occasional looks back or pointing that tends to follow makes me believe otherwise. Doesn't always happen and I can acknowledge its coincidence at times but others, I'm definitely being fucked with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 01:12 PM
1	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky Working out and eating better are the most recent changes. Everything else has been going on for at least 2+ years to some degree. Well, the weird looks and stares I get when I'm out just minding my own business then? Or I walk by a group of women and they start giggling and laughing as I leave? I don't understand how this is such a struggle for you to grasp, you seem competent and intelligent	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:37 PM
1	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky Being called ugly all my life, and having eyes and a mirror myself, is a pretty good evaluation, if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:27 PM
0	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky I literally just told you in an earlier post what I've been doing...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:23 PM
0	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky Or maybe I know what I am, and I get reminded of it very regularly, and have been getting those reminders in some really creative and curke ways at times, basically every time I try to "put myself out there". Also, the fact you felt the need to compare me to some insane murderer... Just further proves my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:19 PM
1	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky Just how delusional are you? That's how life is. Some guys just aren't going to be enough pretty much regardless of what they do. Taking care of my skin as best I can. Taking care of my teeth. Dressing better. Wearing cologne. I'm not rich but I'm not in a dead-end job either. Been working out consistently for a year now with weights and was doing soem calisthenics for a couple of years before that. I see how I look, and I see the results. I'm still ugly, I'm still short, I'm still invisible. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 11:52 AM
1	Men are generally much uglier than women because they don't take care of their appearance and then they complain about women being picky And then you do make an effort to do all of that shit, for months, and years, and you're still, at best, invisible, if not still just looked at like you're some form of alien because you're still short, still ugly, still have a fucked up facial structure and a small frame that won't hold a lot of muscle, and you don't have the personality/behavior people expect from you because of your skin color. You have a LOT less control over your attractiveness than you're trying to portray, and even if a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 11:40 AM
8	Getting women to be initially interested in you almost entirely depends on whether they perceive you as above or below their league. I don't think the issue is so much that guys don't know this, at least on some subconscious level.. It's moreso that most guys are seen as miles below the league of most women. Standards for physical attractiveness, wealth and financial status have by and large been elevated well beyond what most guys can achieve. I can't make myself 6 feet. I have a small frame so I'll never be all that muscular. Can't do much about my fucked facial structure. While I can try to change my financial situation, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 05:55 AM
3	According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men. That shit doesn't work at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 05:17 AM
3	do any of the users have incels is or looksmaxx org accounts? I don't even know what those are.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/22 11:23 PM
2	If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to go I'd wager that number is a lot higher than 20%. Can't do much about being 5'8 and looking like a troll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 01:36 PM
4	If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to go I didn't know this needed to be said. If you're not some combination of tall/attractive/muscular/rich, you're all but invisible to the very vast majority of women, especially online or in a club/party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 01:35 PM
1	Why shouldn't women be picky? There it is again. Seems to be all you know how to do.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/10/22 01:43 AM
1	Why shouldn't women be picky? I get the feeling that was an attempt at an insult.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/10/22 01:25 AM
1	Why shouldn't women be picky? ... When she mentioned being picky. The obvious implication here is she is referring to one reason why women pick desirable aka attractive men for dates, and that being unattractive automatically makes you more dangerous to others. I didn't say anything about not being careful in general. It's the implication that unattractive men are automatically seen as more likely to be harmful or dangerous to be around.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/22 09:14 PM
1	age and location of users? 31M VA	/r/AllPillDebate	30/09/22 10:54 PM
2	Women: why do you think being a male virgin is a redflag? ....ouch.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/09/22 10:50 PM
1	Guys do you shame, harass, or assault women who are promiscuous? They're still people at the end of the day so I treat them with the same respect I would anyone else. Oftentimes I won't get anything resembling respect back from them because I'm the polar opposite of what they tend to like, though. Not sure if I'd date one. Never have it much thought as a filtering option because I don't have options to filter to begin with.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/09/22 10:48 PM
10	"Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts." I don't know why people keep spouting that same bullshit lie time and again. Looks are everything. Literally everything in life becomes easier if you're attractive. You're more likely to be successful. Happier. More confident. More dating options and a higher chance of finding a solid partner for a relationship. Better social interactions can lead to all kinds of opportunities, both professionally and socially. Being ugly is playing the game of life on hard mode.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/09/22 12:07 AM
2	POV: you've been treating her like a queen for 23 years. I'm not denying I have hardly any social skills. But the number of times I've seen things happen like this firsthand.. Or happened to be a fly on the wall while people talk about their relationships makes it really seem like this is almost commonplace. But none of that matters anyway since I'm not gonna find anyone that actually likes me in order for it to get that far. 😅	/r/AllPillDebate	03/09/22 12:49 PM
22	POV: you've been treating her like a queen for 23 years. A part of me wants so badly to be in a relationship.. And to build something with someone.. But you see stuff like this so much to the point it makes you wonder why bother if nobody else cared about being in a relationship and taking it seriously anyway? And you get shit on and called all kinds of names for wanting to commit to someone and wanting the same from them. Honestly I don't know why I haven't just given up yet.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/09/22 11:08 PM
2	How is your experience with lifting weights in the gym? Did it actually help with women? No. Not more confident, not more attention, nothing at all. Then again I'm not the stereotypical 6' plus massively muscular black man I'm expected to be to get any kind of attention, nor am I a "thug" or hood or anything like that.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/22 12:20 AM
1	Is there anything more to relationships other than physical attraction? Physical attraction opens the door to something more. Now, in some cases, personality and such can help someone seem more attractive to a certain person(and assuming they weren't completely put off initially), but still, no relationship lasts without physical attraction. Looking at older couples or the few stable relationships I've seen around me, eventually a deeper connection forms and love comes out of that. It takes time to get to that point but it's possible.. But again, physical attraction…	/r/AllPillDebate	25/08/22 11:54 PM
18	Why shouldn't women be picky? All I've gathered from this is if you're ugly, short, not a hunk and otherwise unattractive, you're apparently a murderer/rapist, or assumed to be. This has got to be the most toxic shit I've ever heard. You can have standards, go right ahead. But using that as an excuse to gaslight the vast majority of men because they aren't seen as attractive, and implying that attractive men cant be violent criminals.. This is fucking wild.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/08/22 11:47 PM