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| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysYou're not going to distract me with homophobia just because you know your point is dumb. But I'm glad to see you agree: a person is not obligated to give themselves to someone else just because that person wants them. Because that would be insane! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 08:02 PM |
| – | The lie regarding nice guysLol, "supposed'. What are you, 5? You gonna tell the teacher they're doing it wrong? The fact is, many men are attracted to each other and date each other very happily, and getting rejected hurts their feelings. If you reject a gay man, you hurt his feelings. Are you guilty of something? Did you do something wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:52 PM |
| – | The lie regarding nice guysAverage looking men date all the time and women get rejected all the time. The only way you could possibly believe otherwise is if you rarely socialize and get your beliefs about the world entirely from social media and creepy forums. But, of course, you sailed straight past the point. If a gay man hit on you, are you morally obligated to say yes so you don't hurt his feelings? If you don't, are you as guilty as if you punched him in the face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:39 PM |
| – | The lie regarding nice guysYes, being asked out by someone you are not attracted to is exactly like being asked out by someone you are not attracted to. You really got me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:30 PM |
| 3 | The lie regarding nice guysI've stubbed my toe before, it hurt too, does it therefore follow that someone has done something wrong to me? Just because you feel pain does not mean you have been wronged or that you are a victim. Imagine a woman you have no interest in - better yet, a gay guy - comes onto you. You have no capacity to want to be with this person even if you tried, and you don't want to try. But saying no will hurt his feelings. So I guess you are obligated to give yourself to him. After all, if you hurt his f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:20 PM |
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