BurnerAcctBasketball Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Legal downsides to being a jerk to my cheating SBTXW once the divorce is final?	BurnerAcctBasketball	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/23 09:22 PM
9	Mediated Settlement Agreement to final divorce decree (Texas)	BurnerAcctBasketball	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 04:53 AM
6	STBXW spending $20,000 on furniture for new place right before settlement	BurnerAcctBasketball	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 10:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Boob job Ha. Two weeks after my STBXW (41F) signed our divorce settlement, she went out and spent $1,000 on Botox in a single sitting. I just thought it was pathetic. It totally validated for me that she had become a trashy, insecure tramp. Be glad you are done with her, OP. Not your monkey, not your circus.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 02:22 AM
5	Higher earner afraid of losing big in divorce I know you say it's over, but I cannot emphasize this enough: do not cheat on your spouse. Get a divorce first, then do whatever you want. If you cheat, in addition to doing something truly terrible to another human being (even one you may no longer have feelings for), you lose all moral high ground for the rest of your life when it comes to the divorce, including with your kids. It ain't worth it.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 11:37 PM
2	Mediated Settlement Agreement to final divorce decree (Texas) Thanks. Ugh. I don't want to fight over stupid crap anymore. I thought I was done. Question: once the MSA was in place, did you at least feel better because that was binding, and you could always go back to that? It was a huge deal for me to finally get a signed MSA governing property division, custody, etc. Among other things, it means my STBXW isn't entitled to any more of my income going forward; the property was divided as of the MSA date.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 05:34 PM
3	Separation Recommendations I am just now coming out of your exact same situation: 2 young kids, wife raised the idea of divorce, turns out she was having an affair, we've lived in new-construction house for two years, we have ultra-low interest rate, wife wanted to do "nesting," and there was no way I was letting her keep the house (which she couldn't afford on her own anyway; I make a lot of money, and she's a SAHM). Everything everyone else has written is 100% true. Nesting is bonkers. You will drive each other crazy, P…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 04:37 AM
3	Navigating a Challenging Marriage with a Child Involved I'm not trying to be flip, but your questions arise in every divorce involving kids, and they are the biggest questions out there and not easily reducible to a couple paragraphs. On how to decide whether divorce was the right choice: my wife's view was "children in two happy households are better off than in one unhappy household," and she was the driver for the divorce. My view was, "Yes, but children in one happy household are better off than children in two happy households," and I was the dr…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 04:15 AM
3	STBXW spending $20,000 on furniture for new place right before settlement Not in my state. It goes up to the date of the divorce decree, or the mediated settlement agreement. It's not upon filing.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 11:37 PM