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Bus1nessn00b/r/seduction19/01/22 09:44 PM
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As far as I can see you aren’t toxic, you just give them less attention. Some say the less attention you give the more they chase you. Not exactly. You can rationalize this, giving less attention when she backs away, but, is not ideal. Ideal you have a wonderful life, successful professional, very rich social life, amazing hobbies… options, etc This way you will only give her the attention she worked for. Basically if she treats you the way you need to be treated, you give her the pleasure of yo…
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:33 PM
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OP, even in RL they always chase the good looking men 😉
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:11 PM
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People that create this rules, usually have a bad vibe on approaching. To approach you need to be presentable (higiene , grooming, decent dressed, etc) and don’t be extremely ugly. After that is 70% body language and 30% tonality. Other way to say it is confidence. No rules! Note: if you are good looking you can get way with pretty much anything! Also, good looking guys don’t need to approach, women come to them
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:57 PM
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100% true!!! I’m a 3 in looks and I have very good looking male friends 7s, 8s and 9’s. They don’t have to work for women, they just use dating apps and they date on average 3 women at the same time. The number yearly should be around 30-50 women a year. Me, I get 1-2 a year, if I get lucky. How this dynamic works in person? Same thing at the starting point, they always get hit by women in the club or pub. They chase them without them saying a word. Me, I never go chased by a women before saying…
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:10 PM
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You are doing great! Don’t stop approaching and don’t stop improving. Repetition is the mother of skill 😉
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:32 AM
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I’m on this process for 6 years and also healing emotionally at the same time. It’s not easy, it takes resilience and patience
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:02 PM
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You aren’t old, you have like 28. I’m 31 and yesterday I went to approach women on the streets of Toronto. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:04 PM
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Doesn’t matter, it proves you can do it.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:48 PM
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You have to push yourself out of the hole you are right now. Go step by step, maybe go to the gym or whatever you like to do. Find out. There will be a few days on the journey you will feel the same way you are feeling today. Get back up and do it! You only leave once, it’s better to enjoy it! For some of us takes a lot of work, but, is totally worth it.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:47 PM
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I had a great time, did 2 approaches. One we spoke for a while and we trade numbers. The other freaked out when I tap her back to talk whit her. I missed a lot of opportunities, but, I guess I should be focus one the positive aspects today 🙂
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:59 PM
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I guess you are like that because you feel lonely. I was like that a few years ago and I’m still working on it. I found self development, now I have a few friends and time to time people invite me to go out. I’m still learning to connect with people, is a process, it takes time
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:31 PM
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Hey there, I have the same problem as you have. You need to learn connect with people. I advice you to get Charisma University program. You can check their videos for free in Charisma in Command on YouTube first. Besides that you seem to do pretty well on clod approach. That’s the part I personally struggle the most. I have a lot of fear… but, today I’m going downtown Toronto to see how it goes.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:26 PM
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Just set a date! If she’s flanky or say’s no she isn’t interested
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:55 PM
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I’m doing it today
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:03 PM
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Yes, but, if you are interested we can be wingman too
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:25 AM
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I perfectly understand what you say and makes a lot of sense what you say. But, my main goal isn’t pick up a girl on the spot is just to learn the skill, like I said in a club with a lot of people Will feel even more uncomfortable
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:56 PM
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I don’t know if you know about that, but, before covid there where this pick up communities like “RSD” and they use to do that
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:17 PM
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Thank you for the info. My question is: is that weird to talk with a stranger on the street? Apparently was used a lot before covid
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:03 PM
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Thank you for your answer. The goal is to approach women that are alone in the street. The way I feel will be even more scary in these places.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:57 PM
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