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Try it with a slight smirk. Makes the ginas tingle. Practice in the mirror. Check out portraits of Bruce Willis and Daniel Craig.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:08 PM
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In a sippy cup
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:57 PM
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Yep Target, Whole Foods, tj maxx, any mall that’s still open
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:53 PM
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I’ve been self employed most of my career. While I’m not trained in sales, a large portion of my career involves negotiating deals; sometimes with multiple parties involved. This applies whether you are selling a product or services. Here are some things I’ve learned. Trust - People want to trust you. Work on building trust with the people you’ll be negotiating with. Find some common ground, some way for them to identify with you. Let them win - Understand that people feel better about a deal wh…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:43 PM
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Abundance Mentality. You need it.
/r/askMRP20/08/19 12:47 AM
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Title says it all
/r/askMRP15/08/19 12:41 PM
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Yes. Part of being a grown ass man is acknowledging your mistakes, learning from them and apologizing to those you’ve hurt IF YOU THINK YOU SHOULD. Now I’ll be honest, I’ve almost entirely eliminated the word sorry from my vocabulary. But, I will say “yep, I screwed up. I’ll handle it.” and that’s it. I don’t discuss it further. It’s called owning your shit. As far as I’m concerned, mistakes are what you make of them. So take the chance to evaluate what you did wrong when you fuck up, learn from…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:43 PM
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Why would you let a woman’s emotions affect you? Be an oak. If you made a mistake, own it, apologize if you should, and move on. If you have strong frame and high smv, a woman will follow your lead, and even work to add positive value to your life.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:38 PM
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I am not catholic. However, I am married, and I’ll share my point of view from that perspective. I did not find the red pill until I had been married over a decade. Turning around a marriage defined in blue pill behavior was a major obstacle, but, it was a result of a ton of hard work fixing myself. It seems to me that defining your boundaries and setting terms early on would be much simpler; provided you enforce those boundaries. I am a different and better man than I was before, and I enjoy be…
/r/askMRP24/07/19 07:06 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:45 PM
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Gas= petroleum product, other “petrol” products = petroleum product. Is there a point to your comment, cupcake?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:40 PM
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This is incorrect. Thousands of products are manufactured from petroleum. Plastics and lubricants, two components of ANY car would be two of those.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:45 PM
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You haven’t read the side bar yet. If you had, you wouldn’t be asking this question. If you had, you’d go through a little thing called the anger phase, where you’d be pissed at your wife and you wouldn’t lay there like a dry vagina; you’d just fuck her instead. Start with Rational Male. You don’t understand hypergamy or the female imperative yet.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 12:51 PM
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Look man, S L O W D O W N. Focus on fixing you. It’s a long road, it’s gonna take time and consistency. Read, comprehend and apply the concepts in the sidebar. Practice STFU. Keep your mouth shut. Hell, you can even completely ignore her when she’s testing you. Learn to how smirk as a response. Lots of tools for you in the sidebar. Amused mastery helped me deal with the anger phase. Look up the most responsible teenager in the house. Once you internalize that concept, you’ll start to see her act…
/r/askMRP22/07/19 01:45 PM
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You’re going to read STFU around here a lot. Every time you start to explain yourself or justify your decision (DEER), STFU instead. When you get to the point that you can AA or pressure flip instinctively, then you’ll find you have to use STFU less and less.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 01:15 PM
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This is full of covert contracts. You’re trying to be alpha so she’ll have sex with you. Just work on yourself, you’ve got a lot of reading to do. Start with NMMNG. Edit: and for fuck’s sake stop DEERing.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:17 PM
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Skittles
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:14 PM
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Look man, you’re going to get the same advice here from anyone that’s done the work. Stop being a bitch and read the sidebar. Then read it again and again. It’s gonna take time and work and then some more. You’re wife knows you are faking it. She can smell that shit a mile away. Stop keeping score, stop with the “power plays”, just work on yourself. Right now you don’t even recognize a shit test or comfort test. STFU is for exactly that, when you don’t know the proper way to respond - do that, d…
/r/askMRP13/07/19 01:31 PM
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Dropping her is a bandaid solution. You are your own problem. Fix yourself. Everything you need to begin and accomplish that is —> Except the hard work. That part is up to you. You may know what TRP is, but you aren’t yet RP.
/r/askMRP13/07/19 04:09 AM
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Haven’t read your background, but it’s obvious you’ve got the cart before the horse. You have to be interesting before she wants to spend time with you. Go do some interesting shit on your own or with friends. She has to miss you before she wants to spend time with you. Spend some time away, let her hamster start to wonder where you are, what you’re doing and who it’s with. On leading - own your shit first. Prove that you’re a grown ass man who takes care of himself, his responsibilities; then y…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 06:44 PM
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Not even a question. Just be done with her. That’s the easy part. The real work is going to be fixing yourself. If you don’t do that, you’ll end up right back here again with some other woman.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:14 PM
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Lock the bedroom door and go to town. There’s so many options, just be bold and do it, it’s fun and it excites a woman. Bedroom, bathroom, laundry room, kitchen in the middle of the night or early morning, garage, outside. Go for a drive in the car, truck, suv, whatever. Have her come meet you during your lunch break. Parking garage, back roads, the options are literally limited only by your aversion to risk and your imagination.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 04:30 PM
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Yes. Read it, it won’t disappoint.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:37 AM
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Was going to say this. Raise your value OP and explore the brat hypothesis. Brats love to challenge, but they do it because they want to be overpowered. You have to MAKE them submit.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:35 PM
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You have to quit being a “nice guy” and take care of yourself. You can’t help others if you don’t take care of yourself first. If you can’t even do that, how do you expect anyone else to respect you? To really improve the lives of others, you have to become the best version of yourself FIRST, then you will actually be of some value that you can give back. As for the kids, they’re a lot tougher than people in general give them credit for. Don’t pander to their whims and they will learn to be inde…
/r/askMRP19/06/19 06:32 PM
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Who cares what she thinks. Talk about trust.. Trust yourself. Trust yourself to be a man. Trust yourself to live large, live your dreams, make mistakes and be cool with it. Live the kind of life other people wish they did.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 12:03 AM
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If you want to be tattooed, then do it. Otherwise don’t. I am, got mine post RP. Here’s the funny truth : after I swallowed the pill, wife says one night “I never liked tattoos before, but I really like yours” Women are like water, they take the shape of the vessel you put them in.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:41 PM
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Does your mom count? Seriously though, would fucking any 4 make you a better man? If no, then don’t.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:39 PM
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True. I see this with my son. He’s young enough to have been exposed to very little BP conditioning. Little guy is RP AF compared to a lot of adult men I see everyday. I’d assume most boys are like this.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:36 PM
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Agree with this. No need to explain yourself to the security guard. That’s what caused her response. Now, had you responded with “Got it.” and she still behaved that way, telling her “Shut up” or “Don’t be a bitch” and holding frame would have been in order.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:28 PM
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This. Women are like water, taking the shape of the container they are in. One of the reasons a careerist woman acts with such independence is because she has no man with frame leading her, yet. Once she does, she will relax, become very submissive and refocus her energy on more womanly pursuits. Aside from that, you must find your own purpose. You cannot look to women for happiness.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:41 PM
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Have an upvote
/r/askMRP14/03/19 09:38 PM
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OYS #2 - 18 months in, married 13 years, 3 kids, 1 on the way. SQ 165, DL 165, BP 170, OP 95, Row 135 Previously deloaded on squats and DL due to injuries, been working numbers back up. Current BW 163, 5’-9. Reading. Completed NMMNG, Rational Male, MMSLP, SGM, BoP, WISNIFG, 90% of sidebar. Currently reading the prince, MAP and The laws of human nature. PERSONAL I’m gonna be a little bitch here. Go ahead and roast me. Gotta admit I’ve been struggling the last few months. Depressed, anxious, not s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:02 AM
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The truth is you won’t quit until you decide you are completely done with it. Period. A lot of the tips and other helpful ways that paths previous commenter suggested will be helpful as well.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:52 PM
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You have zero fucking frame. You clearly don’t STFU either, as you’re DEERing all over the place. Your lifts suck too. Look man, you’ve got to be your own mental point of origin. Stop doing things for everyone else and work on improving yourself. Read the sidebar, hit the gym, eat right and track your macros. Choose to improve yourself in some way every damn day. As for your wife, quit worrying about her. I’ve seen it here 1000 times- the stay plan is the same as the go plan.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:24 AM
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MCT is right. I know, because that was me six months ago. Similar situation, doubts about stupid shit that may or may not have happened in the past. Truth is, you’ll never know. Stay or go, either way, you have to put it behind you and move forward. Dwelling on it will just consume you. You should have better ways to spend your limited amount of time than worrying about shit that doesn’t matter anymore.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 11:20 PM
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This, and when they look up at you for approval while they’re sucking your dick.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:14 PM
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Ok boys and girls, don’t forget to wash your hands.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 04:38 AM
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When you boil it down, yes. Go read here: https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:45 AM
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I found RP in my early forties, swallowed the pill 15 months ago. I’d like to say my mind was blown when I discovered it, but the reality is that the nagging feeling of woman’s true nature was just behind a closed curtain in my BP days was always there; I just chose to ignore it. I could blame it on BP conditioning, of which there was plenty, but the signs were there. I’ve had plenty of ups and downs along the way. Posted some truly faggot shit, victim pukes, etc., and made some great progress. …
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:39 PM
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You’re stuck in the anger phase. Ask me how I know. Lifting is key, but it’s only one of the keys. Read the sidebar (yes all of it), STFU and work on yourself. MRP is about improving the man. You’ll only get out of it what you put into it. Post in OYS with more detail, stats etc. You’ll get good feedback about what you’re doing right and wrong. I neglected this and could have progressed much faster had I done it.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 03:30 PM
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Nice job. It doesn’t happen on its own, I have to make a conscious effort each day to maintain frame, lead, etc. Basically be proactive. What I have realized though, the more I do this, as each day passes, I start to internalize small pieces of the puzzle. Those small actions become second nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 03:14 PM
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Thanks Judge. I have no illusions I still have much to improve. Letting go of the anger was difficult for me. Ultimately I grew sick of it and realized it just didn’t matter anymore. What does matter is each day moving forward. I could dwell on it and get nowhere, or I could work on myself. Lifts are just okay right now. I have started SL5x5 and made excellent progress until I injured myself in other sports. I deloaded and am concentrating on getting form correct. Posted about this in this week’…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 03:11 PM
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I’ve read it. I did miss listing that. Also left out some other details, but the post was long enough already.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 09:51 PM
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Thanks. I’ve put a lot of time in to get to a point where I realize it’s about improving myself; the rest will follow. I do know now, that I could have progressed faster had I posted OYS earlier and consistently.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 06:15 PM
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OYS #1 - 15 months in, married 13 years, 3 kids SQ 125, DL 135, BP 165, OP 95, Row 125 Deloaded on squats and DL due to injuries. Current BW 161, 5’-9. Reading. Completed NMMNG, Rational Male, MMSLP, SGM, BoP, 90% of sidebar BACKGROUND As a single man, I had okay success with women. I am good looking and do fine socially. But in all honesty, I was definitely a beta white knight. I first learned of TRP when I stumbled across Rollo’s website. My mind was blown. Post after post, I kept reading, wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 06:26 AM
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The Chateau Heartiste blog frequently cites and links to many papers written that prove TRP principles.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:47 PM
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“My gf likes to talk, here’s her number.” or “That’s what your sister said before I took her back to my place.” Point is, it’s a test. Are you gonna be her friend or her chad?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:43 PM
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Tell her she can only order off the dollar menu.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:38 PM
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I used to experience the same craving. A lot of guys here will tell you to quit being a bitch, or you’re just a pussy. The thing is though, they’re right. What that really means, when you break it down, is that you need to start living for yourself. TRP is about making yourself a better man. One of the results of that is you become more attractive to women. When that happens, they will want to be a part of your life, and will be affectionate to you. As others have already commented here, the key…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:51 PM
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If you want a tattoo, get tattooed. Don’t do it for anyone else.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:16 PM
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Don’t know, don’t care. I’m already prepared to go if it comes to that. Gonna focus on me.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 09:59 AM
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Solid response. Thanks
/r/askMRP03/08/18 09:47 AM
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Gotta agree with you here. To me that’s just saying it’s okay.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:46 AM
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Been trying to look for the loyalty. I see it too. Thanks.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:45 AM
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What? I should just decide if I want to leave or not?
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:44 AM
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Thanks. I hear you. I’ve definitely caught myself punishing her.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:44 AM
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Yeah, this thought occurred to me. I just need to get over it and move one way or the other.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:43 AM
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If I knew for certain, I think it would be over. I wouldn’t feel like I could trust her again. To me, moving the goal posts would just be saying “that’s okay honey, I forgive you, just don’t let it happen again”. Saying that, though, I remember that per TRP we can’t trust them anyway, right? So then it doesn’t matter if she did or didn’t; I should just shit or get off the pot.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:42 AM
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You’re right, I can’t do anything about it. Having fun and enjoying life is where I need to shift my focus.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:34 AM
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Even though your advice ended up being the same, thanks for the response. I needed to hear that, and I think deep down I knew I was just pedestalizing different pussy. I DO need to chill the fuck out. I’ll continue to fuck her however I want, and bide my time. If the opportunity presents itself to fuck other women, then I’m going to move on it. And yeah, a name for it would be good.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:46 PM
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Appreciate the advice. I can see the logic behind the plan. I’ll be sure to check my form. This seems like the kind of plan I was trying to get to. I dropped a lot of the isolation exercises 12 weeks ago; just stuck with bench, squat, DL, row, OP and pull-ups. Added weight each time I exercised, and made the most progress with my lifts so far. But, after reading from the SL site last night I can see I wasn’t going to accomplish more with the way I had it split up. Just wasn’t hitting all the mus…
/r/askMRP01/08/18 11:50 PM
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Checked out the site last night. Thanks for the advice. I’m probably going to start this program. It recommends I drop my weights by quite a lot, when I first start, to work on form. Is that really what everyone does?
/r/askMRP01/08/18 04:23 PM
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Yeah thanks bro
/r/askMRP31/07/18 01:03 PM
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Yep, forgot to write my height - 5’9”. I could have been more clear. I’ve put on 20lbs over 4 years. However, I’ve seen the most gains in my lifts in the last year where I’ve been consistent about eating the right macros, eating enough food, and tracking my lifts. When I started going to the gym, I weighed 145, could bench maybe 105. I know I’ve got a lot of room for improvement, but I’m also pleased with my progress.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 12:51 PM
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Lots of great suggestions here. When I swallowed the pill, I realized I had given up a lot of my past hobbies and friends. Pick a couple of things you always wanted to do and go try them; activities where other people will be involved if possible. You’ll make new friends, discover their hobbies and your options will grow exponentially. Don’t be afraid to try things you’re not familiar with either.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:31 AM
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Got it, thanks.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 01:35 AM
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I tried a few different programs for the first few years in the gym. Hired a trainer for a while too. The last few months I’ve made the most progress on my lifts - sticking to compound exercises; chest/tri’s, back/biceps and two leg days per week. Tracked all my lifts and went up in weight on most lifts each week. Definitely a hard gainer. Still pushing it, and adding in some isolation exercises on for some weak muscle areas.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 12:29 AM
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“And as a result, you'll discover that you're still putting pussy on a pedestal, its just not your wife's. “ Yes, probably so.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:00 PM
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I experienced the anger and resentment you’re speaking of. That phase will pass, almost to a point of amusement. I had to realize it was my fault, my behavior in the past, that was the reason she was interested in me. I wasn’t being attractive. Keep moving forward and give her time to catch up. For me there was a long lag time.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:49 PM
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Yes, that’s correct. Are you asking how I got to the point I was okay with nuking everything, and now uncertain? The answer is I was encouraged that she was so willing to try to save the marriage, I thought it was what I wanted. Now I gotta decide if it really is or not.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:25 PM
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I agree. I’ve found some other interests to pursue, areas of improvement for myself, and there’s always lifting and better nutrition. I guess I feel like I’m shorting myself if I don’t follow my biological desire to fuck other women. I guess it boils down to I’m still trying to shed some of my blue pill conditioning about cheating. I grasp the concept, but struggling to work through it.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:20 PM
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I know I would never marry again. I don’t understand your question re: DL10
/r/askMRP30/07/18 07:55 PM
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Yes, just physically speaking. Great point. Probably both. I was very angry and resentful for quite a while when I first found TRP, but thought I was past that quite some time ago. I also get a lot of interest from hotter, younger women now. And yes, 13 years of the same pussy - we’ll variety is the spice of life.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 07:24 PM
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Yep, I’m fighting the social conditioning I believed for so long. Gotta figure what I want for myself.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 07:14 PM
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You bet, I’m working on those.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 07:12 PM
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Yes, this. It is possible, even to bring back a married sex life from almost dead. I used to get starfish obligation sex (married 13 years), but found TRP almost a year ago. I got serious about improving myself, and eventually she started noticing. The biggest change came once she understood I was willing to walk away from it all. Now she initiates all the time, everything is on the table. She wants to fuck all the time, has multiple orgasms and squirts. I do what I want with her and have fun. I…
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