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Not really, most of my friends also have problems with sex and pleasure. When we talk about sex we usually complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:26 AM
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He did try other things but I didn’t like them to be honest. I know about clit stimulation but it never feels good because I’m never aroused and I don’t want him to touch me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:56 AM
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I tried enjoying sex. It didn’t work. I tried many things, including all the positions. There will be no divorce, I’m 30. I will be called a post wall old hag if I get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:09 AM
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It’s not my fault. I tried for years, it didn’t work. I will not masturbate AND have sex at the same time, and please him, and do everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:37 AM
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Ok? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:55 PM
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No, my life is a product of lies and brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:38 PM
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Because he was supposed to make it good. That’s what I was told before, that it will be amazing. And I found out it’s not amazing when it was too late. I should’ve explored it before, not after I’m stucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:25 PM
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At this point it’s too late. If I get divorced I will be called a post wall cat lady who destroyed her marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:51 PM
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I tried long enough. For years. After years I’m done. And I pleased him many times. Fuck, he got pleasure the first time we had sex and didn’t noticed I absolutely hated it. The point is that I wouldn’t be in this situation if I refused to listen to everyone. If I didn’t wait I would probably have a much different life. Maybe I would find out that I don’t like sex at all and wouldn’t get married? Maybe I would have view partners and find one that would please me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:46 PM
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I never said he tried or that I didn’t let him try. I said he wants me to enjoy it or to show that I enjoy it. So he wants me to moan. I did let him try at the beginning. Like I said, we tried all the positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:24 PM
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No, it’s not on me. I’m tired for being blamed fir everything. He is not a victim, he is the one who enjoyed sex and everything from the beginning. And I didn’t do anything. I didn’t stop having sex. He did. Also, I tried all the positions I could find and none of them gave me pleasure. And he never had to teach me how to please him, even though I was a virgin. I kind of figured it out. And honestly, how could I know what I like if I didn’t have sex before? And now what he does doesn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:12 PM
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Open mind will not change it. I had an open mind and tons of hopes when I was getting married. Now it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:08 PM
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Consueling will not make me enjoy sex. But no, he never mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:00 PM
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I didn’t stop having sex to be honest. He did because I don’t enjoy it and he wants me to enjoy it (or at least show that I enjoy it). And I refuse to pretend that I like it or do it by myself to make all the work for him. If we get divorced I will be damned, he will be fine. So no. He got what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:14 PM
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No , I’m not worrying that he will be unfaithful. If he will than he will destroy marriage and he doesn’t want that. I didn’t make him go celibate. He doesn’t want sex because I don’t enjoy it, and he wants to to enjoy it (or show that I enjoy it). And I refuse to pretend or moan to make it better for him when it’s not good for me. I am bitter that I married so young and that I’m in this situation. I would make a completely different decision if I could today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:01 PM
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I made a bad decision of not exploring and living my life. If I could do something for myself, that would be great. At this point I’m sick of it. I’m not going to fight anymore, he got what he wanted, a pure virgin, now he has to deal with it, I don’t care. And I’m not the only one who is miserable. My friends did the same and they are pretty much all miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:39 PM
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Maybe. But if I knew it before I wouldn’t be in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:07 PM
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Even super popular political influencers say those things. It’s far from small group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:00 PM
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To divorce maybe not, but to single women absolutely. Doesn’t matter that I would be happier alone than married, I would still be called a miserable cat lady if I was single. And I’m considered a fulfilled woman because I got married young, even though I’m bitter and unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:20 AM
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But it’s not just my environment. It’s everywhere. I get this information everyday, on every platform. I can’t simply escape it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:10 AM
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I can’t stop caring. I would not be able to cope with everyone calling me a used up cat lady. I’m not that strong. What if I go on a date with a guy and he start ranting how used up I am because I’m not a virgin and not 18? Did listening to those people destroy my life? Yes. Am I strong enough to riot and stop caring? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:41 AM
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I hope that too, but I do feel that I wasted my life. I wish I didn’t listen to this bullshit I was told my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:58 AM
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I actually have a vibrator but I don’t wanna use it. He will know if I use it (we are both home almost all the time) and will think that things are getting better and our sex life will be back. I kind of want to avoid that. Plus, I don’t feel sexy when I use toys and never managed to use them long enough to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:51 AM
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I feel like if I do it on my own (which actually never happened) he will thinks that everything is ok and will expect sex again. I kind of don’t want to do it on my own while he gets his pleasure from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:37 AM
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To be honest at this point I’m defeated and angry all the time. It shouldn’t be like this, I just kind of wasted my life. Plus, I don’t want to have to orgasm by myself while he gets his pleasure in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:24 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:00 AM
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It is a little. If it was easy I would have orgasmed years ago. And I can’t penetrate myself so I can’t figure out how to make it good on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:59 AM
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By everyone? Literally everyday I browse the internet I see men saying that women are worthless when they are not 20 yo virgins, that we are damaged goods, that divorced women are devils and so on. And it’s not one post, It’s everywhere. Even women who just post normal things but are single and over 28 get tons of comments about being expired cat lady. There are conferences when men talk about women being past their prime and expired, make fun of them. It’s everywhere. So yeah, sexless marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:17 AM
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If I get divorced I will be called a post wall old hag who destroyed her marriage over feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:56 AM
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My christian school, my family and brother, stuff I read men said on the internet and so on. I felt scared and worthless as a teenage girl and I belived about me getting old soon. I belived that if I wait with sex I will be rewarded with a beautiful sex life in my marriage, that I will enjoy it ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:55 AM
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I just learned it by accident as a kid and got stucked with it. No trauma here to be honest. I can get relax during sex, I don’t tense my muscles then. But being relaxed doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:39 AM
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Actually never, maybe I experienced something close to an orgasm because the only way I learned to masturbate was to tense my stomach muscels. But it’s not that pleasurable, sometimes painful so I rarely did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:04 AM
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Yeah, I settled down at 20 because I was brainwashed into thinking that I need to be pure, that I will die alone if I don’t, that soon I will be too old. So now I regret everything, I’m married and bitter. I never had an orgasm and will probably live in a sexless marriage because, surprise surprise, I don’t feel pleasure from sex. And nobody told me that this would happen, I was told that waiting would be worth it and make sex a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:36 AM
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I tried every position possible. It’s just not it, it will not work. If ot could work I would have already orgasmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:54 PM
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I’m mot asexual. He listens but still we haven’t figured out how to make it good for me. You can’t learn it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:41 PM
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I got married as a virgin. I never had an orgasm and don’t enjoy sex. It’s a shitty advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:37 PM
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Nah, the only people who ever supported me and were with me when I needed them were women. Most of the advice that was good for me was given to me by other women. My best friends are more attractive than me. I don’t hate them, I love them. Older women were never anything but helpful and supportive towards me as well. You know who hates women? Men. They hate women who are not submissive and traditional all the time. Even when I don’t do anything but exist in a space regarding my hobby, they hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:10 AM
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How am I supposed to enjoy Bring me the horizon live without going to a big concert? They never have small venues in my country. I would have to stop going to see my favorite artists of I only went to small events.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:27 AM
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Talking doesn’t have to work. I talked and still never orgasmed or felt pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:24 AM
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We have clits for pleasure, not vaginas. Most women don’t orgasm from penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:02 AM
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Why not? Yes, it is social. Men were insisting on having their dicks sucked and also female orgasm was historically unimportant. It changes and now women expect to be eaten out. And they are, more and more. And that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:53 PM
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Because it’s more expected. I als give head. I don’t enjoy it, I just want to please him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:46 PM
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Most women don’t suck a dick because they want to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:36 PM
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Yes, pleasing others and s serving others. And women deserve to be pleased just like men. Why would women please men if men didn’t want to do the same for us? Especially when most women don’t orgasm from penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:35 PM
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Is it really wrong according to the redpill to make something to please a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:48 AM
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So pleasing a woman is beta? Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. Men’s pleasure is not more important than women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:46 AM
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It doesn’t work like that. First, my clit is responsible for my pleasure. So penetration is useless. Second, I tried all the positions in the world. They don’t make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:18 AM
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I settled down at 19/20, didn’t have experience before that. And my husband only got faithful and pure wife, but not sexy. Because I don’t get pleasure from sex and we are heading into dead bedroom situation. So yeah, it’s not always the best option. If I could turn back time, I would not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:53 AM
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Before equality men also mocked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:07 AM
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Well, yes. Do you think that men would be happy with women who don’t like having sex with them? And do you think women would be happier with unpleasurable sex instead od being alone? I settled right after high school. I do wish I didn’t, I would prefer to be this hated lonely woman now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:33 AM
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Yeah, for me it’s the fact that I have no idea how productive can enjoy sex. I settled down early, didn’t have any sexual experience so the only sex I had was unpleasurbale sex. And it is a problem because he doesn’t like when we have sex and I don’t show any enjoyment. We will soon be in a dead bedroom situation. And from what I see, my friends who chose similar path are in the same situation as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:13 PM
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Or for not „having fun”. I settled down at 19-20. I’m facing consequences of this now. There is no one way of doing things right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:49 AM
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Most young women didn’t lust after Sean Connery when he was old, be real. He lost with younger celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:20 AM
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Yep, all of my friends who have kids stopped at one. And they wanted big families before they got pregnant. Now they say „never again”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:52 PM
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Because some of us don’t want to act awkward or just don’t want a confrontation. I gave my number to a guy I wasn’t interested in only to block him later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:46 PM
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Same with simps. Men call other men simps for agreeing with women or even for doing housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:01 AM
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Ah yes, all the awful stuff he said is satire, sure thing. Even if it was, it still made tons of men repeat these things over and over after him . And yes, if a man says that women should serve men, obey and focus on pleasing them then and calls women bitches then it’s enough of a reason to hate him and ridicule him. Doesn’t matter if he also says „women are great”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:21 PM
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Oh, how nice of him!/s Women should be protected but also cheated om, obedient and focus their lives on serving men and rejecting their own aspirations or dreams. He is promoting misogyny. Just because he said that women should be cherished, it doesn’t cancel other stuff he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:47 PM
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It’s because I want to see pussy being eaten in a cute way, and it’s hard to find it in straight porn. When I fantasize, I fantasize about my pleasure, not about a man treating me badly or a man orgasming using me. So that’s why if I choose porn, I go for lesbian.l even though I’m straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:43 PM
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I married a 100% wholesome man. He is never mean to me, he was never an asshole. I’m his princess. I’ve never been repulsed by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:26 PM
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Yes, those are the worst. Old men thinking that the Office is peak comedy, tik tok is bad because stupid boomer reasons, metallica is the best band in the world, rock is dead and „they destroyed Star Wars” are just pathetic. Like I can hear their hairline getting weaker and weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:11 PM
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Sorry, I thought I responded to someone else. No, it’s ok to give misogynistic men the same energy. They talk about taking away women’s rights and say we are inferior and they will not change their mind just because women a re nice to them. So they deserve to be ridiculed and shat on. Plus, what else should women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:22 AM
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You started it, you said men are superior to women. It’s only fair to give back the same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:31 AM
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Men aren’t superior to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:28 AM
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Just don’t have kinks. I never did anything kinky because kinks are mostly disgusting or violent. You can have a good sex life without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:45 PM
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Andrew Tate being so popular among men only shows how many men hate women. They support a guy who openly says that it’s ok to cheat on women, that women should serve men and shut up, that women are dumb, that it’s ok to lie to women and other awful things. So yeah, it is more popular but it also shows us what men really think. I’m so happy that feminism happened. Imagine being stucked with men like Tate or fresh and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:58 PM
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Society is much better as well, in general. Alcoholic husbands are not seeing as something that women have to deal with, as it often was before. Women don’t have to cater to men, we have freedom because society also is more liberal and doesn’t see beating wife as family business. Tons of things are better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:38 AM
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Didn’t women throughout the history have much less opportunities and being married to a man was one of the view ways to not starve? And you didn’t answer my question, how fair would it be if he got te for himself after work every day and I didn’t? His rest and hobbies aren’t more important than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:33 AM
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Who said he will provide all the money? I work as well and after I give birth I will be a year on maternity leave and I will get paid every month. Plus, I’m starting my own business with a big chance of providing passive income, so I will make even more money. And even if I didn’t, how would it be fair if he could rest everyday after work and I didn’t get time for myself? Working is not more important than taking care of an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:26 AM
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I don’t care about new iPhones either. I do have community. I have beautiful marrige and wonderful friends. I also have freedom to pursue my passions, my goals aren’t less important just because I’m a woman. I don’t have to cater to men, I’m my own person. I love it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:23 AM
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I think I live in the best times ever. I would never want to live in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:07 AM
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Well, I don’t. Rough sex brings me zero pleasure. I like being treated like a princess in bed. Edit: Downvote? Really? For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:03 AM
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Well, I’m definitely pushing this for my marrige. The reason for that is that I intend to also rest everyday and have time for my hobbies, just like he will have time for his hobbies. And all of this requires from him being a present and very active parent. So sometimes it will be 50/50, sometimes 10/90, sometimes 70/30. Sometimes he will be doing all the cooking and cleaning when I will be resting with a newborn, sometimes I will do all of it while he takes care of an infant. Sometimes he will …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:55 PM
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I do all of those things for my husband but I don’t see it as being submissive. He does the same for me. He is caring, loving, comforting and treats me like a princess, cooks for me, makes sure that there is food I like and cosmetics I need without me even asking. He is so loving that I love giving the same energy back. But it doesn’t make me submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:44 PM
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So when would I have time for myself and for my hobbies if I had to be with my child all the time? And why would I want that? This sounds like hell. Women are humans. We need time to rest as well, we are not meant to serve men and kids 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:31 PM
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Yes, men from my country get furious and created all kinds of disgusting names for women who married or just dated foreign men, especially if those men aren’t white. This is a very common topic that they love to discuss and they think this is the reason why polish women are disgusting traitors, stupid sluts ect. At the same time they are obsessed with Asian women and try to threaten us that they will go after them instead, as if anyone cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:43 PM
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Nothing a man can do will be equal in value to creating life in my eyes. Also, of course women shouldn’t have to do everything. I 100% agree with you. That’s why it’s my husband who cooks and cleans without asking, I also work and I will not be cooking and cleaning when we have a newborn even though I will be on a maternity leave for a year. And even though he will be working he will not be able to relax after work everyday because I will deserve time for myself as well and he will have to care …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:44 PM
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No man will ever bring more value than his wife who gave birth. So does it mean that no man is deserving of respect? I don’t see anything a man can do that is more important that creating life. It doesn’t mean that I find men useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:30 AM
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Working is not the problem here. Many men think that they deserve more time for their hobbies and free time because they work. They believe that they deserve to make all the decisions because they bring money. They see their contribution as more deserving of free time and rest. So it’s common that a woman who takes care of small kids and the house doesn’t have time for her interests or just time to rest, because her husband want to rest after work instead of caring for kids so she can relax. I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:28 AM
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Nothing is ever 50/50. But relationships can be done in a way that both parents have time for themselves and to rest everyday, so that nobody feel tired and not as themselves. My friends’ has a marrige with kids that works this way. She has a four year old, three year old and not even a one year old. She also has time to paint everyday, goes out with friends and will go back to work because she wants to. How? She never had to clean and cook after full night of carrying for crying kids. Her job i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:13 AM
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In my country it’s a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:39 AM
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That’s all married women I know, older and younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:15 PM
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That’s not true. In the past wife beating was accepted in many cultures. In Poland there is a saying that means „if a woman isn’t beaten, her liver rots”. Wife beating was normalised in many polish villages and it was usually belived that the wife was at least partially to blame. In China, women were taught that they were worthless and didn’t have any value until they had a son. Wife beating was a normal and accepted thing as a punishment. Young girls were told they they will be punished by thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:44 PM
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But I’m married and I agree with her. I hate disgusting humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:12 AM
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Yes, I think that flirting is embarrassing. I can’t even watch it in movies without cringing. I never felt comfortable when someone tried to flirt with me and I never flirt with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:51 PM
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I was exactly in this situation. We bought a different apartment that we both liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:07 PM
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I can't have sex when I’m stressed. I mena, I can but there is nothing relaxing or pleasurable about it. So sex when I’m tired, angry, sad or stressed sounds like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:17 AM
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Yes, they are easier. You don’t have to be with them 24/7, wipe their ass, bathe them, entertain them ect. You can leave them for some time, have time four yourself, go out and pretty much have a live.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:49 AM
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Someone has to do all those things around the baby when the wife is resting. The idea that I would be solely responsible for my child sounds awful. Why wouldn’t husband get to rest everyday after work but I wouldn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:43 AM
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Yeah, I tried every position possible. Nothing works. There is only so much I can try, I’m not a magician.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:01 PM
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So what’s the point of sex If we have to masturbate during it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:57 PM
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I’m not promiscous, I only had one partner and I have the same problem. My friends narried their second and first partners. They also never orgasmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:56 PM
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It’s normal for women to not orgasm from penetration. There is nothing pleasurable about it, it’s no as sensitive as your penis. When I talk with my friends about sex they all say that they never orgasmed from piv. I can’t even imagine what could make it feel better. No position makes it better, it doesn’t start to stimulate clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:54 PM
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Yeah, but sometimes we don’t know what we like. I have no idea how to male penetration enjoyable. So what am I supposed to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:40 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:44 PM
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No, it’s pretty normal for women to not be able to irgasm from penetrative sex. And men don’t focus on stimulating clit, they expect that we will orgasm from penetration. I don’t watch porn, I don’t use toys and I still never enjoyed penetrative sex. It’s the same for pretty much all of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:41 PM
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That’s what I’m talking about. We do have hobbies. It’s much more than instagram photos. Men just refuse to see that and expect women to not engage in them. All of the women I know have hobbies. I’m also in a groups and channels with thousands of women where dedicated to music production, sound design and digital painting. And these are only my hobbies, my friends do other cool things.Much more interesting than watching sport, going to the gym or playing games. Gaming is not a valid or cool hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:35 AM
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Many of us do have awesome hobbies, much more interesting than men and men hare it or they don’t even acknowledge them from my experience. My brother used to say that I’m basic becasue I don’t have any hobbies while I was spending hours on music production, digital painting and learning languages. He only played some stupid games and farted. Men don’t think women have hobbies. I heard from men many times that I only pretend that I like to do what I do to make men like me. And it’s not true, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:34 PM
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Yep, I watched my friends turning from happy, passionate people to tired and frustrated shadows of their pasts selves. Almost all of them. I watched them slowly resenting their men for keeping their past lives. Nothing I witnessed made me want to have my own kids. And I have an amazing husband who always takes care of me and does everything at home with me. It’s just too big sacrifice. I could have a child if I could be a father. But I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:14 PM
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True. Almost all of my friends say that they will never do it again after one child. Their lives got worse. They are no happy anymore, they are tired and irritated. And their relationships almost ended, one of them is getting divorced. Their husbands dosn’t want to wake ip at night or spend a every second weekend taking care of their own children so their wives could come back to their hobbies or just have time for themselves. Those same men get to rest everyday after work and go out every weeke…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:03 PM
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Or just we want to work on our aspirations, dreams and enjoy life? I’m married. I don’t „ride CC”. I still don’t want to have kids in my twenties. Maybe later, if ever. I love my life. I love my hobbies, friends, traveling, learning, staying up late and just being happy. There is more to life than having sex with strangers, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:44 PM
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There are literally redpill gurus who say that men peak over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:30 PM
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Men found Jodie Arias hot, Manson girls as hot, casey Anthony as hot. Female psychos get married in prison all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:57 AM
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For you fun means sex?? I don’t want kids in my twenties because I want to have fun. By fun I mean travelling, playing with my band, partyiny with friends, game designing, going to concerts and more. And I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:55 AM
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I’m from Poland. Shitty feminist ideology? I grew up in a catholic household and in a country where a word feminist was a biggest insult. I grew up in a shitty traditionalist ideology. And no, it wasn’t some men. It was almost all men in these spaces. And I wouldn’t say that creating music and playing instruments is a male hobby. Same with learning languages or or digital art. And even if it was a male hobby, creating tons of therads about why men are better or that women’s brains are only wired…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:55 AM
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We were never put on pedestal. We were always told that we are less human than men, some cultures even said directly that women are useless, that we have weak minds, that we are stupid and can’t think. Even greatest philosophers and biggest church figures shat on women. We were never on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:51 AM
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No, men always resented women. I don’t remember a time when I thought that men liked us. Since I was a kid I heard that women are inferior. I couldn’t participate in a forum regarding my hobby because men were very angry about it. In my country, most popular party among young men was (and still is) full of men saying that women should submit and shouldn’t vote or have interests outside of their family. So no, it’s nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:40 AM
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But revege for what? Why would they dream about revenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:55 PM
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I have an amazing husband that loves me and adores me. I have male band members that are great. I also have men in my country who say that women are husband’s properties. The most popular party among young men in my country has members (including the founder) who say that women should not vote and only do as their husbands say. There are men who say that women need to be slapped from time to time and put in their place. They say that women’s hobbies should focus around pleasing men. We have conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:20 PM
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I didn’t say anything about other people existing. I complained about people bothering me uninvited. If a man ruins my „me time” I will be an asshole. I never invite strangers to talk to me. If a man decides to ruin my moment he needs to be ok with a harsh rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:22 PM
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Because it makes me feel awkward. It detroyed my „me time” couple of times. I never flirted on my life, I don’t invite men to talk to me, I’m married. So I will nit act nice when they bother me and destroy my alone time or stop me when I walk somwhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:01 PM
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Well, I never had a man (or a woman) breakdown crying at work. But I had many man screaming and throwing things at work out of anger. I just counted 11 men who broke down and started acting ridicoulously furious in sofferent occasions. And I’m not even couting emotional behavior of men outside of work, like my brother’s, boys’ at school or my father’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:11 PM
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Men don’t like to talk about women’s interests either, they just want to talk about their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:34 AM
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Why would I talk about my interests if I know that someone will probably no be interested in it? Most people would be bored if I started talking about this awesome DAW plugin, Pompeii or explained icelandic grammar. And no, men don’t want to listen to women talking about their interests. They only want to talk about theirs. Of course I will talk about something more universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:26 AM
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I can’t have sex when I’m stressed. I tried, It’s awful. It definitely doesn’t remove stress in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:34 PM
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But it was still clitoral stimulation that did the trick. And additional things are just cosmetic, not worth focusing on. And I know where g- spot is suppoused to be. I just don’t have it, meaning it does nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 PM
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I know myself. There are no pleasurable spots inside of my vagina. Clit is the way, it feels much better than penetration. Wven you said, that this g-spot works best if clit stimulation is involved. I bet that clit stimulation does all the work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:17 PM
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I for example don’t have a g spot. When I talk with my friends they also don’t have it. There are no spots inside of a vagina that give the same pleasure as a direct clit stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:06 PM
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That’s not true. I can’t orgasm even with myself. Nothing brings me there. And it’s normal for women to not orgasm from penetration. The organ responsible for our pleasure is on the outside, mostly. Not in the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:56 AM
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None of this happens where I live, men don’t work longer hours. They do have more time for themselves tho, they don’t have to sacrifice their hobbies and sleep to take care of children, they are not the default parent. None of the men I know work long hours to support their family but they sure expect to be able to rest every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:47 PM
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Obviously anti-lgbt and racism are another reason why religions are cancer. This is the most popular party among men, they are the third power at the moment. And yes, they are anti EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:34 PM
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Lol, men in my country literally vote for open misogynists talking about taking our rights away. Recently founder of the party who said those things and a member if it who is a candidate in upcoming elections took part in a conference where they were talking about removing women from public space and that it’s a healthy balance when a woman is a husband’s property. Misogynists influence my life every single day. Millions of men support these views. Millions of men support Andrew Tate and watch f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:37 AM
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Well yes, if a large group of men hate on women, or just treat women as inferior beings that should be submissive ( redpill dudes or polish conservatives) it’s only fair to hate them and treat them like shit. Why would I be understanding to someone who says that I shouldn’t speak without being asked? Millions of men listen to fresh and fit podcast, worship Andrew Tate or, in case of Poland, vote for a guy who says that women should serve men and have our rights taken away. So that’s why I stoppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:19 PM
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I don’t sacrifice having kids to be promiscous. None of my friends who don’t have kids do. I’m married, I’ve been only with my husband. I just like my life, I’m ambitious, I have a lot of passions and plans for myself. Like it or not, it’s women who sacrifice their lives when they get pregnant, not men. It’s women who have to wake up at night, care who sick children, spend all day with them and forget about their hobbies, plans and aspirations. Men don’t do that. Men tell women that it’s their j…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:24 AM
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Yeah, and we are doing things to make it feel good. It’s not pur fault. We shouldn’t stop ourselves from pleasure. Why would we have sex if only men felt good? It’s not women’s problem that men don’t like it when we use toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:23 PM
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It’s just easier and I can focus on my pleasure instesd of adjusting my hand which is distructing. Sex is already much better for men than it is for women. It’s ok if I try to even everything out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:03 PM
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All of them work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:32 PM
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I mean, what’s the differerence between me stimulating my clit manually or witha toy DURING SEX. Someone has to do it. And most women don’t orgasm from penetration. Clitoris is an equivalent of a penis, not vagina. And penis doesn’t really stimulate clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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The truth is that being single is better than being with a wrong man. Most men don’t make women’s lives easier. My friends say that they are single married mothers. They don’t have time for themselves while their stupid husbands rest everyday after work. One is getting divorced, the rest is considering divorce. My husband is one of view men I know who cleans and cooks without asking. It’s better to be alone than do all the childcare, cooking, cleaning and taking care of a grown man who doesn’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:42 AM
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Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. It’s clit = penis. What’s the difference between me touching my clit with my hand vs me using a small vibrator? Penetration never brought pleasure to me, and I don’t use toys but I understand why women would use them. Using my hand is uncomfortable in most positions and a man can’t use his hand in the right angle when he penetrates. Many of my friends don’t orgasm. Does who do focus on their clits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:58 AM
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My best friend who has a child and a husband also has two cats, drinks wine and is depressed. My mom who had three kids and is still with my dad has a cat and a dog, drinks beer and is depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:29 AM
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Of course it wasn’t your experience. You are a man. If I was a man I would also want kids. But I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:26 AM
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I don’t have a kid yet but some of my friends do. All of them have only one child and say that they will never do it again. They are tired, irritated, some are actually depressed (like have literal depression). When we went on vacation, they were cosnantly angry and tired, they couldn’t enjoy themselves because they had to take care od their kids. Their lives got worse after kids, not better. It definitely doesn’t look like the best thing on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:22 AM
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Well, there is a notion where I live that women don’t have any passions. Men love to talk about it at use it as a justification to see us as their servants, because we don’t have anything better to do. It’s obviously not true, all of my friends and I have different hobbies. I’m in couple of groups with thousands of memebers, only for women, where we discuss music production, game design and digital painting. And yes, I spent a lot of time talking and writing about it to men. I try to make sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:01 AM
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They don’t, they just don’t sacrifice their life and dreams to have a child. So of course men want kids, if I was a man I would want some too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:51 AM
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You perfectly summarized every redpill podcast/guru that ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:18 PM
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I never said that men do nothing. I said that they get to rest after work everyday while their wives don’t. See, when there is a small child you don’t get a time off unless someone else takes care of it. They get to decide how the money is spent, they don’t have to ask for permission to buy something or to go out. Their default is not „submit and follow”. And fine, if working is more important and means that I get more freedom and my voice is more important, I will work. And its’s completely ok …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:50 AM
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But many men don’t respect houswives. Some want one but they don’t respect them. When men want to insult women they tell them to go back to the kitchen. They say that a man should have a final say because he brings money. In general seems like working gives more freedom and rights in a relationship than not working. From my experience, women who stay at home don’t get to rest of they have small children, don’t get tome off while men can live almost as before. If men really respected housewives t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:14 AM
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There are tons of other ways to make money than being a slave to a cirporation. And even working in a corporation is better than being a submissive houswife. My husband and I both work. I also bring money so I also make financial decisions. I get to have free time everyday and don’t have to ask for money to pay for my hobbies. If we have a child I will not have to be at home 24/7, I will get to rest as well. Unlike my stay at home friends who are always frustrated, can never go out without kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:52 AM
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I told you, my brother called men I found attractive „pussies”. I would never want a man who my brother approves. Same with my father, he belives that good men are those meatballs from the gym. He thinks that men don’t have to be nice or kind to women. I’m not going to listen to someone who belives that women should submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:11 AM
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Kids don’t look like this most of the time and son’t smile most of the times. They scream, need your attrntion 24/7, get dirty and then grow up quickly to be annyoing 4 year old ir gross teenager with acne who watches disgusting porn listens to Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:42 AM
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Yes, most of my friends are in relationships. I wouldn’t trust any man in rating other men’s attractiveness. I heard men saying that the Rock is peak attractiveness or that old Brad Pitt is hotter than young Brad Pitt. My brother always called men I found attractive „pussies”. Men don’t even have good taste in men’s fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:19 AM
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I would give both of them maybe 4-5 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:15 AM
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But a man on this picture is not attractive to me for example. He has a nice face but looks boring and there is nothing sexy about him. I would give him maybe 5 out of ten. This guy is 10/10 for me. But for my best friend he is maybe 2. She says he is disgusting. https://www.tekstowo.pl/zdjecie_wykonawcy,jonne_aaron,am9ubmVfYWFyb25fM183YzVmZTk0NF8zNTcxOTk._1200_900_.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:57 PM
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How do I know if I’m 3 or 7? And men who are 10 for my friends are 1 for me for example . There is no subjective scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:36 PM
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I just chcecked. He looked much better when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:10 AM
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He has less free time than I do. So is it ok for me to expect him to do even more chores and have even less time for himself? Is this really how healthy relationship should look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:22 PM
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Ok, but with sex it's different. When you start a hobby it's usually because something is interesting, fun and fascinating. Sex isn't like that, especially at the beginning. And for many women it's not pleasurable, so it might even kill libido for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:54 AM
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Around half a year, when I travelled because of my work to Finland. I was already with my husband. I did just fine, it wasn't a struggle at all. I didn't even masturbate. I don't think about sex when I don't have it, I don't fantasize about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:47 AM
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Women's orgasm used to be unimportant, nobody cared about female pleasure. Relationship ss are better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:50 AM
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And honestly, do you really want to tell me that redpillers, after their rage phase, become those amazing men who want egalitarian relationships and belive that women should also be able to fulfill their goals and dreams? Who don't think that they should always have a final say and think that women don't need to submit to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:11 PM
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Even if they are in their rage phase, it doesn't make it any better. And honestly, Myron from fresh and fit is in a rage phase? Andrew Tate is in his red pill rage phase? Mdl is on his rage phase? 90% of redpillers on twitter are in their rage phase? On youtube, on other polish and non polish websites? All of them are raging? Or maybe this psycho Anthony Johnson, 21 Studios creator is still raging? How abou most of the men that support him and comment on his content?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:07 PM
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That's so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:30 PM
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I was told by redpillers that women don't actually have real hobbies. When I listed my hobbies that said that I was just trying to impress men and pretend that I'm "not like other girls", but men don't care about our hobbies anyway. Pretty much, they thought that I was just pretending to have hobbies. And my hobbies are pretty popular among women I know. In my game design group 90% of us are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:39 AM
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Men on redpill forums or redpill men on twitter aren't any different. They love to talk about the necessity of female obidience and claim that women who have goals other than being mothers and submissive wives were brainwashed by feminism. I sometimes tried to debate them and they would always say that I will die alone with cats, because I don't submit to my fiance and I'm ambitious, and work on my goals. Different redpillers told me many times that my fiance is either a beta male (also because …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:12 AM
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I listened to a lot of redpill podcasts and spent a lot of time on red pill subreddit and other forums. They don't want a relationship where both parties support each other. They think that a good woman should focus on supporting her man in acheiving his goals but a man shouldn't have to do it for her. His goals should be her goals but not vice versa. By secondary role I mean that he gets a final say every time, his goals are the priority, she has to submit and make him her life's priority, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:27 AM
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I wouldn't be with someone who would expect me to be submissive and who would expect me to sacrifice my goals and dreams to help him acheive his. I also couldn't be with someone who would listen to trashy men like fresh and fit who say that women should only speak when asked and submit to men. Not cheating is a bare minimum. It's not a flex, it's a basic requirement. And so what that he wouldn't leave if he expected me to play a secondary role?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:59 AM
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I feel loke I'm talking to a wall as well. Some people can be provoked by anything. By your logic, we should avoid speaking too loud, not speaking, walking by someone's house because some sick people might beat us for it. In reality, it's impossible to not look at people. Especially when they are literally in front of you. I wasn't staring at that guy. I was just looking up. For a second I looked at him, they a looked at a dog, window, other people ect. I didn't do anything wrong. He got rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:47 AM
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I was just looking up for view seconds. Then I would look somwhere else. I wasn't staring at him, I didn't call him cute, I didn't even smile. I was just minding my own buisness. So if he thought that me looking at him couple of times meant I was interested, it's on him. And it's on him that he got rejected in a really awkward way. I didn't invite him. Not my problem he thought that a neutral thing meant something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:40 PM
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Being nice to a man you like and doing things for him is not pick me behavior. Pick me is a doormat, not a normal woman in a mutually loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:04 PM
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The guy could think whatever he wanted. But then he needs to be prepared to feel stupid, awkward and be rejected or ghosted if he imagined that I was interested in him just because I looked at him. I don't assume that someone is interested in me if he looks at me. It's easy not to assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:40 AM
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So my fiance and I work the same amount of hours but I make more money and I work from home, while he has to drive to work almost an hour everyday. I finish work around 3 PM, he is home at 5 or 6 PM. So am I suppoused to wait for him to cook for us and expect him to clean more because I contribute much more financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:17 PM
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He was just there as a part of the background. I don't think too much about this kind of things, I don't consider any men I see as potential dates when I'm minding my own business. People often look at me when they seat in front of me in the bus, café or anywhere else. I don't assume that they are interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:52 PM
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Depends of the selfie. If I send a regular selfie, for example from a concert, to a man I know, it's not flirting. I send tons of things like this, nothing sexual about it. Asking a stranger when his shifts ends -probably flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:49 PM
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Couple of times men interpreted me looking at them wrong. They definitely read the Room in a different way than women. A man ruined my "me time" in a café because he thought I was interested in him. I was just reading a book and he happened to sit in the table on the other side of the room in front of me. So wherever I took a break from reading and looked up, I looked at him. But it wasn't because I thought he was hot, if the table was empty I would look in the same direction. So he stood up, sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:21 PM
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I'm 24 now and I don't think about sex when I don't have it. l could go months without it, without the need to masturbate. As a teen it was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:18 AM
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Sex is about pleasure. Penetration doesn't give me pleasure. If my man didn't eat me out every time, I wouldn't want to have sex, because penetration alone doesn't feel good and there are tons of better ways to be close to someone (hugging, watching something together, talking ect).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:14 AM
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I don't have vibrator. And I feel everything very well during penetrative sex. It's just not pleasurable. But clitoral stimilation is pleasurable. And it's normal that I don't enjoy penetration, most women prefer having their clit touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:21 PM
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No, not the US. And I still can't orgasm during sex. And I jad only one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:14 PM
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The point is that penetration is not necessary at all for pleasure, and alone doesn't do anything. And penetrative sex often makes it impossible for a man to stimulate the clit with his fingers the right way, with correct angle ect. But clitoral stimilation gives orgasm without penetration. So penetration is obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:39 PM
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Yeah, but the pleasure is still from clit not penetration. And when he touches it during penetration he can't focus to do it the right way and most positions make it hard to do it correctly. Especially doggy (the worst) or missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:57 AM
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I'm not on any drugs and I'm from Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:32 PM
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Sure, but then what's the point of penetration if I have to masturbate during it? And it still means that penetration doesn't bring me to orgasm but clitoral stimilation does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:30 PM
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It's normal to not orgasm from penetration. Most women need clitoral stimilation to orgasm. That's what it's for. Vagina is not an equivalent of penis. Clitoris is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:12 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:10 PM
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Well, for me sex is the least important thing in my life. Penetration is not pleasurable so only oral sex gives me something. If sex meant only penetration, I wouldn't be having it. I don't think about sex when I don't have it. I can go without sex for months. When I left for an intership for three months and left my fiance at home, I didn't think about sex at all. I didn't masturbate or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:14 PM
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If he had long hair, of course. I love men with long her, also when their hair is longer than mine. Double win if it's blond. If he was short, depends how he would look. My first crash was short. Narrow shoulders probably yes, since I don't like The rock's shoulders. Like I said, I like super slim men. But I admit that is a man is super, super slim it's better when his taller. Everyone looks better tall, including women. Round face, obviously. If it's pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:07 AM
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True, but I'm attracted to quite feminine looking men, like Jamie Campbell or Timothee Chalamet. I don't like men like Jason Mama or The rock. Especially the rock is asexual to me. I like slim men with long hair and pretty faces. But they just need to have a penis if they are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:37 AM
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No, I don't think so. I think that women are beautiful but I've never felt in love with one. It's not about penis, I'm not attracted to penises, they don't arouse me. It's just the fact that penis is supposued to be there, it makes a man complete to me. I would date a trans man I think, because I saw one who was one of the most attractive people I've ever seen. But I don't sesee trans men as real men or transwomen as real women. I try to, I never let them know that, but I just can't see them thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:01 AM
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I don't find Henry Cavill attractive but if I did then yes, if he lost his penis I would not want to be with him. And I don't even get aroused by naked bodies and don't feel pleasure from penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:09 AM
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Yes. I love hugging, kissing and this feeling of closeness but there are much, much better ways to have it. Most sexual positions are uncomfortable, awkward and hardly suitable for hugging. I wouldn't want to have sex regularly if it wasn't pleasurable for me. For example, penetration doesn't bring me any pleasure. So if sex meant only penetrative sex, I would not like it. But I'm being eaten out every time we have sex, so it's fine. I don't have a problem with pleasing my man without receiving …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:48 AM
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No, I didn't say that. I do care about my man's pleasure. But what arouses me in sex is the feeling and promise of pleasure, I don't get turned on by naked bodies. I never felt the need of touching someone when I was horny, I feel the need of orgasming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:18 AM
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Well, I don't get aroused by men's bowiem. What arouses me is the idea of me being pleasured by my man, of me being licked, of me being sexy. If I fantasize I don't picture any man, he is just somwhere there but I just imagine myself feeling good while he eats me out or whispers to my ear how beautiful I am. Is it narcissistic? Maybe, but it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:56 AM
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Men cry all the time about it on the internet when women say that their jokes aren't funny, and in real life. You know how many times my friends and I were called "uptight" or miserable, when we didn't laugh at offensive or unfunny jokes? Our "friend" left our friends group because we didn't laugh at his jokes when he tried impress his girlfriend. My brother says that women don't have a sense of humor because we don't laugh at his jokes. And we don't laugh because his jokes aren't funny, not bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:21 PM
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These guys who make awful jokes are ill-humored. Being annoyed at them is a natural reaction, especially when men cry that women aren't funny when we don't laugh at their bad, unfunny jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:14 AM
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No. Also, he wouldn't be perfect if he called other women "dumb hoes". He would be a piece of shit. So this would be another reason to end this relationship. Cheating is unacceptable, just like beating or humiliating. I wouldn't be with a man who would be "perfect" most of the time exept those view times when he would slap me or call me awful names. So why would I be with someone, who would cheat on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:34 PM
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Not laughing at bad unfunny jokes doesn't mean that we don't have sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:30 PM
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Not wanting to be submissive at home doesn't mean that we are corporate cogs. Being a stay at home mom often means that a woman can't fulfill her dreams and aspirations, she often doesn't have time for herself and have to focus on pleasing her man, while he gets to explore the world and fulfill his dreams. Why would I want that? Women are people who want to enjoy life and explore the world. Why are you surprised that we don't want to be stucked at home with tons if kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:24 AM
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We live in the best times ever. Society has never been better. I love the fact that I'm not submissive. I love the fact that I can do what I love, explore my passions and be successful. I love the fact that house chores are not only my responsibility and that my fiance cooks me healthy melas, takes care of laundry and cleaning, ect. And I'm not even a western woman, I live in Eastern Europe. Women aren't servants whose main purpose is supporting men's goals. We have passions and aspirations as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:09 AM
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They are all red pill and say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:54 AM
2

Fresh and fit and 21 studios, Pearl Davis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:57 PM
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We don't listen to him meaning we don't respect his opinion and don't try to become valuable to men like him. Doesn't matterif I'm not the audience. I can stil criticize him and revue his message.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:53 PM
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Tate doesn't state any facts. And of course women don't listen to him, why would we? If we became women he sees as valuable we would be cheated on, we would have to forget about our passions and dreams, and we would only stay at home and serve men. There is nothing in it for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:01 AM
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For me partying is literally just dancing, having drinks and having fum with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:14 AM
1

Male.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 10:25 PM
1

Sex is not just penetration. Most of my sex life focuses on oral sex and me being eaten out.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:57 AM
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But I don't fall in love with women and I don't want to touch a woman. I just like the view on naked women. Like it's arousing to see a woman being eaten out because I can also put myself in her position. I'm aroused by my own naked body as well. I'm not aroused by a naked men, but I do fall in love with men and I do want to touch men. But I don't fantasize about naked men because my fantasies focus on my pleasure, or female pleasure in general.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:55 AM
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Because men aren't arousing like that. I don't see anything hot about imagining an attractive man naked. For examples, I'm aroused by the idea of me getting pleasure or a woman's body being pleased. Not by the idea of having attractive men around or men being pleased. But I don't want to fuck a woman or touch vaginas.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:18 AM
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I partially agree but when I see a naked woman, I get aroused by the view of vagina. I don't imagine myself in it, I just think that the idea of a naked woman having her pussy eaten is hot. But I wouldn't want to be in her place, touch her or eat that pussy. Just the whole situation is arousing.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:14 AM
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Well, I rarely watch porn but if I do, I'm aroused by a woman. And I'm straight.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:10 AM
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Same. I'm a straight woman. Naked men don't arouse me, there is nothing arousing about penis. Naked women do arouse me, but I don't want to fuck a woman. I like watching men eating women out, the act itself is hot to me and the idea of stimulated female genitalis is hot as well.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:09 AM
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Most women can't orgasm from penetration. Clitoris is an organ that gives us pleasure. Clit is an equivalent of a penis, not vagina.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:05 AM
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Some of us don't have g spot. I have no pleasurable spots in my vagina so penis, no matter how big, couldn't satisfy me.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 10:06 PM
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But sometimes we don't know what we like. I have no idea how to orgasm. I literally have no clue, and I've been sexually active for couple of years now. So how could I tell him what works for mem
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 10:01 PM
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For entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:52 PM
2

So what submission to a man would look like? Would my words, aspirations and voice be as important as his?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:46 PM
2

Missionary because of hugging and kissing. I don't really like piv sex, so any other position is just a no for me. Doggy is the worst, my pleasure is not existent in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:37 AM
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I respect my man, it doesn't mean that his goals or ambitions are more important than mine, or that he should always have the final voice. Being submissive is at my expense. I don't subscribe to this trad movement. My relationship is egalitarn because I don't see men as superior to women. So we both serve each other, we both make decisions and his voice is not more important than mine. If getting married meant that I had to be a little, quiet servant to please my man it would not be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:29 AM
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So why did men jump on saying that Sophie Turner hit the wall and is disgusting now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:33 AM
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I have many małe friends, work with men and spent time with my man's and my brother friends. They gossip, make fun of people that are not around, talk about sex or stupid footbal games. That's pretty much it. Oh, sometimes they also quote cringy comedians from my country or exchange the office quotes. Now, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:47 PM
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No. I just never felt arousal or ready fot sex when I looked and someone. I see that someone is attractive, it just doesn't turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:41 PM
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I never lusted after anyone. I could not be in a relationship if lusting after someone was a requirement. For me love is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:09 PM
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Oh, so now it's ok if a wife trashes her husband? I thought redpill said that if a woman talks shit to or about her man, she needs to be kicked out and no high value man would stay with her. And Beyonce did that to makr miliona in front of the whole world, while people were singing with her. Huh, intetesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:01 AM
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The point is that she is the Star, she made him her bitch and trashed him on her album, and on her world tour, where other people where cheering her and singing along. She knew exactly what she was doing. And she could have tons of better men if she wanted to. She is Beyonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:08 PM
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Instead she made an album trashing him and made even more money. She made him her bitch. Now she is on a world tour while he follows her and takes care of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:37 PM
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But not being with a man you describe as "high value" would be benefitial. I've heard many times redpillers describing a high value man, fresh and fit loves this topic. Being with someone like this sounds like a nightmare, seems like my life would become much worse. I would be cheated on, I would be controlled, I would have to stay quiet and speak only when asked, I would have to be his servant and forget about my passions and aspirations. So this "high value man" would not add any value yo my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:03 PM
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I don't consider women to be better. I never said that. I'm just saying that men aren't better than women, they are not superhumans. So giving them authority over my life is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:27 PM
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I just don't put men on a pedestal. Because I live in the real world. Men are only humans, with many faults, who don't have a knowledge things and who are not superior to me. I don't see why would I give any man, a human with many flaws, authority to make all the important decisions that affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:05 PM
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And still, all of them are incompetent and ignorant. There is no point of giving men the power to make all the major decisions that affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:14 PM
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The point is that he doesn't get a final say just because he is a man. Could be that this year he is more submissive. It's a much better way than a man having his way every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:09 PM
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Every single man in this world is ignorant and incompetent at something. At many things in fact. Men are not superior creatures with this great wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:58 PM
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It's not like this in my relationship. We literally turn turns if we want different things. If we didn't then I would be spending all my vacation the way I don't like, because my fiance has completed different idea about vacationing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:51 PM
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Yeah, and it doesn't make those men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:23 PM
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Most of the men I know spend money o beer, nights out or stupid video games. I still don't think that this is universal to all men. I'm friends with many women almost all of them habe awesome hobbies. I'm in a group for female music producers, we gathered over 20 000 women in just couple of months. I'm also in a group with digital painters with thousands of people, most of them are women. Horse riding is also a very popular female hobby which men in my country hate and write Constant rants about…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:01 PM
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So what if they don't include cars or boats? If they include instruments, horses, digital painting, DAWs or other things, they are not "people" hobbies. There are tons of hobbies that don't focus on people and that are much more interesting than cars or boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:33 AM
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Lol of course she does. She could have a new, fantastic man in seconds. She doesn't need him, she is Beyonce, a multimilionair artist. She would be just fine without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:05 PM
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She took him back because she saw opportunity for using this situation for her career. She literally trashed him in her next album and showed him his place. Millions of people paid to listen to it. Now he follows her on her tour and takes care of their kids while she performs. And it's not like she wouldn't find another, better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:29 PM
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I'm from Eastern Europe. And it's not easy peasy. In my country women are expected to do majority of childcare and to forget about time for their hobbies, development or just time to rest. At the same time it's "normal" that men get to rest everyday, go out without a child and don't have to think about childcare and chores during vacation, holidays and so on. That's why my friends who have kids are depressed and say that life is truly over after kids. One will probably divorce her husband as soo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:58 PM
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I do get it. But you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:27 PM
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Well, I'm still in my early twenties, I'm getting married soon and I still will not agree on more than one child, and no Szonert-Binienda than in my 30s. People don't want to have many kids because let's be honest, it's a nightmare. Especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:20 PM
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If a man dates a younger, successfull and attractive woman he dates up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:00 PM
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Yes, we do care about looks. And I don't see old men as superior. Non of the women I know thinhs that they are cool and better. Order men equalls less hair, cringy taste in music and movies, problems with digestions, health and erection and other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:55 PM
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Just because women don't like repairing things in their garages doesn't mean that they don't like other cool stuff, that's what I'm saying. It is typical for women having hobbies and spending money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:52 PM
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Girls also like toys. I spend tons of money on my instruments, DAWs, interfaces, midi controlers ect. Tons of women do the same. Many women in my country are obsessed with horses and horseback riding, and spend tons of money on it. Men hate it and call them slurs, saying that a woman shouldn't have expensive or time consumimg hobbies. Luckily, nobody listens to those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:14 PM
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And she was one of the most famous music stars. Plus even then she was much more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:07 PM
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Being order doesn't make him more valuable, quite the opposite. Plus, he is ugly and she is much better and famous artist than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:43 PM
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See, now I have life beside work. I do what I like for a living and I can focus on my other passions after work. I have time for my life and can just enjoy it. If I had a child or, even worse, became a stay at home mother, I wouldn't have time for myself, my life would be over, I would be tired and frustrated. Having kids seems like the end of life if you are a woman. I could have a kids if I could do as much as fathers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:12 AM
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Jay Z is Below Beyonce tho. She makes better music, she is much more attractive than he is and basically she married down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:05 AM
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I'm also from Eastern Europe and women in my country, including me, are running away from traditional gender roles and conservatism. Men cry that we are feminazis, vote for guys who say that our rights should be taken away and call us many disgusting names.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:42 PM
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Tons of them. Tons of twitts and houndreds of responses cheering her death. They've been doing it for a week now. Women tell them that they suck but they don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:23 AM
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Even recently on twitter. Men in my country where cheering on a death and rape of polish woman in Greece. And she didn't even cheat on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:49 AM
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Yes they would. Polish men cheered on a polish woman being mourdered by other immigrants. She didn't even cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:39 AM
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I've seen it many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:37 AM
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Yes there are. Polish twitter is full of them. And it doesn't have to be cheating. Recently polish men where cheering a death of a polish woman who was raped and mourdered in Greece. They said she asked for it and deserved it, amd called her tons of disgusting slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:37 AM
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Well, my pride is in my accomplishments and I'm a woman. I started to feel good about myself when I started acheiving my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:11 AM
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It happens all the time, while men get to keep their positions and status when they act like pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:25 PM
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I only had one partner and it's extremely hard to orgasm for me. Penetration doesn't feel good at all, only oral works sometimes. And it's not like I orgasm from it, sometimes it just feels nice. Most of my friends had only one-two partners, two were virgins when they got married. Most of them say that sex is overrated, all of them agree with me that penetration feels like nothing. We laugh that it's like jumping on a candy bar. Nothing nice, quite cringy but guys are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:38 PM
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I definitely prefer to work on an app for 5 hours from my laptop and get paid good money, and then be able to do whatever I want and focus on my hobbies than to be submissive to my man 24/7, ask him for permission to buy a new hardware or do literally anything for myself. I also love the fact that housework is not only my responsibility and I don't have to think about making a dinner everyday. I love that my voice is as important as his and I also decide where we live, where we go on vacation ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:44 AM
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Yeah, but some of US don't know how to reject someone. I never rejected a guy openly. I usually give my number and then block him when he texts, when I'm alone and it's not awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:03 PM
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I don't fetishize it. Many women don't as well. There are also other popular romcoms about gentle, good and hot men falling in love with main character. So why does 50 shades of gray describe what women want but tons of other love stories that women love don't? Also, 50 shades of gray is literally about an extremely hot guy focused on pleasing an averege girl and changing his life for her. He is an equivalent of beta by redpill standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:38 PM
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Because it's about young, very handsome millionaire who falls in love with a very averege girl and changes himself for her, to make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:58 PM
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Nope, I'm a woman and I don't like that. It sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:57 PM
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There is no women are women are wonderful effect. There is "women are lesser people" effect. Women are seen as stupid creatures driven by emotions who need to be controlled for their own good. In the past it was even worse. In my country it's ok to call women stupid and say that they need to be controlled by their husbands. In fact it's so ok, that men vote for other men who say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:45 AM
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It doesn't exist until he wants it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:46 PM
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Just like men call women who aren't agreeing with them lonely cat ladies or roasties. You know how many times I was called a bitter,l onely cat lady? Tons. I'm getting married soon, I don't have a cat, I'm not bitter or lonely. My only fault is that I argue with men who say that my rights should be taken away or that I should submit and follow men's lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:02 AM
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Yep, boys from my class were calling us dicksuckers. We all were virginis. One years, after some of my friends and I posted pictures from vacation we spent together (in the mountains skiing), they started saying that we went there to get fucked and said it to people from others classes as well. It was obviously a lie, but they didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:55 AM
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Why would we do it? Nothing will change your mind and I'm tired of being told that Im Inferior, stupid and should submit. I just collect screenshots, so whenever a man says that men don't hate women and don't see them as subhuman, I just show them my collection. It always shuts those guys up.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:49 PM
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Facts don't care about your feelings. Most women don't orgasm orgasm from penetration. Dude, you are talking about imaginary Chads or giant dildos that women keep next to their bed. You showed your ignorance couple of times already. You are simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:22 PM
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First, it's so funny that you think that it's common for women to have giant didlos. Most popular sex toys are clit stimulators. Even fallus-shaped vibrators are used to massage clit. So yes, most women focus on clit. Some women like penetration as additional sittimulation but it's direct clitoral stimulation that does the work. Vagina is not an equivalent of penis, clitoris is. Vagina doesn't have that many nerve endings, clitiris does. So head of a penis=clitoris. You wouldn't be happy if wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:01 PM
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Women mostly masturbate by stimulating their clit. Penis doesn't stimulate clit. And it's a common knowledge that most women don't orgasm from penetration. You are so ignorant that it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:33 AM
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Sex is often not enjoyable, especially penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:01 AM
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Yeah. Today I watched a "lecture" on a youtube channel of a magazine that supports one of the most conservative parties in my country. This guy said pretty much the same thing as op. He also said that to fix this awful situation women need to stop doing what they want to do and realize that men are the prize and that they should be thankful for being able to give birth to men's children. These guys are clowns. No point of taking them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:59 AM
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I don't like older men. And women give 50% of dna material. There is no need to for a son. If men want to have more kids they need to step up. I told my fiance that I will give birth only if he will be changing diapers, waking up at night and taking care of our child so I get some time to rest and for my hobbies. From what I see, men don't want to do that. My friends who gave birth once say that they will not agree on any more children. Why? Because their husbands get to relax everyday after wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:45 AM
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We live in the best times ever. I would never want to live in the 1950s or 1800s as a woman. And why would I want kids if men in my country say that kids belong to their father and have his name? Why would I want kids if men say that birth and pregnancy are nothing and women are hysterical? Why would I want to have kids if it means that I have to forget about time for myself, my aspirations and dreams, while men don't have to sacrifce almost anything and get to rest everyday after work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:40 AM
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Lol, no. Picking up women is not work especially compared to being pregnant and giving birth. Sex is not work especially compared to being pregnant and giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:41 AM
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It's not 50/50. Men just move their hips and ejaculate. Women do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:44 AM
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Men just move their hips couple of times. 99% percent of the credit for creating life should go to women. That's why if I ever have a child it will have my name, not my husband's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:57 AM
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Sure. I would have a child if I could be a father. But being a mother sucks so I'm not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:45 AM
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Women like sex that feels good. We don't feel good by default just because we have a dick inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:32 AM
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I appreciate my fiance. I don't appreciate men from my former church or from my school or my family. The reason is simple: they were extremely misogynystic towards me and growing up I felt I was inferior to men simply because of the things they told me. Most of them support the most misogynystic polititians in my country and openly say that they agree with them. They criticized my hobbies as not girly and uninportant and made fun of my plans for the future. My brother got a lot of support while …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:57 PM
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I didn't know what I liked sexually. I still don't really know, I only do "basic stuff". I only know what I don't want to do sexually, without even having to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:35 AM
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I'm not married yet but I'm getting married in a month. I'm here for the same reason I'm on transgender subs, fat people subs, other redpill subs and twitter accounts. Out of curiosity and to kill time. I don't take red pill seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:38 AM
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I don't know, in my country men complain about women clothes all the time They say that mom jeans are awful, that 90s hair styles are awful ect. Still, majority of young women wear those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:35 AM
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Some womem do dress formie men, many don't. I don't wear my vintage clothes, designer flares or colorful makeup for men. Because they don't like those things. I know because they told me that, for example, my pants are ridicolous and ugly. Or that I dress like their grandma. Tons of men say they hate heavy makeup. And I love experimenting with makeup. So I definitely don't dress for men. Just like many women I meet don't dress for men. I dress for myself and for other women to compliment me, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:55 AM
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Yes. Once I was literally told by two guys that they will stop discussing a topic with me because I was a woman. That wss only because I was right, they were wrong and I proved it to them Also, men don't respect women in general. Men adore fresh and fit who say that women shouldn't speak without being asked first. Tons if men think that women don't have any interests and can't have knowledge about anything important. When I defend myself and list my hobbies I'm being told that I will die alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:49 AM
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As long as there are red pill conventions and forums, and podcasts talking about how women have to submit, how women have to serve men and how women's rights should be taken away, or how we should be ok with cheating, I will never, ever have a problem with subs like 2x, fds or whatever. They deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:49 PM
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First, why do you think that it's fair that hotelu women date ugly men? It would be better id hot women dated hot men, right? And I'm from Eastern Europe. We do care more and more each year. Women now realise that we don't have to settle for ugly men or be obidient wives, so it's luckily getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:25 AM
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So? He still would be past his prime. Old men are old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:35 PM
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I'm just saying that he would be post wall himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:00 PM
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Ok, a maybe would be happy having much younger wife but I wouldn't be happy having much older husband. So what if he thought I was attractive? We wouldn't have sex because I wouldn't be attracted to a 40 yo as a twenty-something. I'm 24 now and I don't think that old men are hot. So what's in it for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:38 PM
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But wouldn't be giving your best to those young women. Men in their 40s or 50s aren't in their prime. I don't know what such a man would have to give me that would be worth giving him my best. Probably tons of money and not having to have sex with him, and possibility to date other, hotter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:32 PM
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Sperm is not more alive than egg. And read how conception happens, the newest studies. You showed that you don't have enough information. An egg is not a passive thing. Men don't create life. Men give only sperm, which is half of the dna. Women provide the other half and grow a whole human inside of them, and can feed them with their own body. Men's role in creating life is almost zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:28 PM
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Eggs don't swoim but they "choose" sperm that gets to sonnect with it. Sperm doesn't breath. Read about it And again, women have a much bigger part in creating life than men. Men's part is almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:35 PM
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So feminists are right when they say "all men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:10 AM
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I have the same with red pill subs, red pill podcasts and conventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:54 AM
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Not more than an egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:43 AM
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And other men would not. They would be "in their emotions" crying about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:59 AM
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Maybe. But I'm done. I'm not going to be nice when I see tons of men saying that I'm inferior and that my rights should be taken away. Men have podcasts where they say that women should not speak without being asked (fresh and fit). They have conventions where that say that women should go back to the kitchen and treat men like kings. I have men beliving those things in the politics of my country. So I don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:35 AM
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You are not generators of life. Women give half of dna material, plus sperm is passive, it's egg that does most of the work. Also, women literally grow a human inside of them. Men just move their hips couple of times. But thanks for your response. It shows why traditional genders roles are bad for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:32 AM
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He started it. Don't want tit for tat? Don't provoke. It's like with misandry. I will not be fighting it when I see misogyny, even in my government and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:39 PM
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Women grow humans inside of their body. Men are not superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:11 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:14 PM
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You can easily do it when there are two resposnible adults. I agree that it's much harder when there are more children, but I guess that if someone wants a big family then they know that a big career or free time is not an option anyway. Most people are ok with max two kids. I wouldn't have more than one even as a sahm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:34 AM
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Because they don't have supportive partners who would sacrifice their free time couple of times a week so their wives can enjoy some time off. One of my friends is a stay at home mom of two small kids. She doesn't have time at all because she has to take care of a three yo and a 9 mo kid. She is exhausted, depressed and often says that she hates her life. Her husband gets to rest every single day after work and goes out almost every weekend. Even on her birthday she had to put kids to sleep and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:13 AM
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Well, I don't do the things my grandmother had to do. I don't have to cook because my fiance cooks 99% of a time. I do only 50% of cleaning and sometimes even less. I don't have to remember about every housechore because my fiance remembers about them as well. I don't spend hours in the kitchen like my grandma did, cooking and cleaning. I can go out and I don't have to ask for permission do do things. And I don't have to ask for money like my grandma had to, I also will not have to beg my fiance…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:01 AM
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Well, yes, because for many women having kids means not being able to do anything for themselves for years. Kids aren't fun. And many women have to di everything around them. So of course we delay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:15 AM
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I know women who have it all. They just didn't want to have many kids and refused to do majority of housework and childcare. My friend agreed to have a child but her husband had to take parental leave as well. Now she has career, time for herself and a family. I almost have it all, but I'm still young so I probably will have it all. But I don't want to have kids now and in the future I will never agree on more than one. Also, I'm getting married in a month but it has never been my goal, so I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:00 AM
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Most women can't orgasm with men. Penetrative sex does nothing to me and I don't even have any toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:15 AM
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Ok, but then I would never orgasm. The only way for me to feel pleasure is through clitoral stimulation. If I waited to be fucked (penetrated) I would still be horny. But I could wait for pussy eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:13 AM
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Not always. I didn't turn down men I didn't like, because I didn't know how. I didn't have sex with them but I did give them my number and even had a coffee with one of them, only to block them as soon as I was alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:09 PM
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Why? I also work and I don't want to be a stay at home wife. I defnitiely prefer to pay rent than do all or majority of the hosework. My fiance and I both work, we both pay rent and we split chores equally. It means that I often come back to a hot dinner or don't have to remember about laundry everytime, because he does it as well. It's a perfect deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:24 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:11 PM
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I don't have a phobia of masturbation and I don't have problems with orgasming. I just orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation so penetration doesn't do anything for me. I never felt any pleasure from it, I never felt the need to be penetrated either. Clitoris is enough and, tbh, I don't feel the need to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:06 PM
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Well, it can be tricky. I don't think I have g spot but I also don't even try to orgasm from penetration or inside stuimulation in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 AM
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Why would I try to orgazm without having my pussy touched? What's the point? Women don't try to make men cum without touching their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:47 AM
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I generally agree but... You do know that women don't pee out of their vaginas, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:42 AM
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Was was recorded was enough to get a divorce. I never talked to my man like that, he never talked to me like that. It's possible to not be a total piece of shit, there is no excuse for that. Also, Crowder didn't need this surgery right away and he decided to have it just before his wife was about to give birth and when it was clear that she would need his help soon. He is a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:26 AM
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I still can't believe how fresh and fit managed to convince people that they are high value men. Especially the fat dude, he looks like a blob fish and even I, a non native english speaker can hear that's he can't pronounce words right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:07 AM
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How? I still would have to do everything. And how would that be beneficial to me anyway? Would I be able to focus on my hobbies? Have time for myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:19 PM
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The rest also doesn't even out daily houschores. Mowing a lawn or killing a spider (wtf) or hanging a Picture doesn't equall cooking a meal every day. It's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:18 PM
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Yard work is traditionally feminine, at least where I live. I had to mow our lawn together with my mother, carry and organize wood,and pretty much everything else in the garden was considered women's job. Yard work was a normal chore for my friends (all girls) who lived at home. I don't know a single man who knows anything about bike care. Buying a car is not a chore, it's one time thing. I bought my own car. I would rather do that again than cook a dinner 7 days a week. Buying a hardware or pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:03 AM
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So what's the benefit for me in being a traditional woman if it means that I have to be submissive, give birth, take care of all the houswork and kids, AND work? What's in it for me? Also, I think that me giving birth is enough of a reason to not be submissive. Making money is not more important than that. The only way I could see being traditional woman as something beneficial would be if I would get time and money to relax and rest aftet doing chores, not having to do all thr houswork, submit …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:49 AM
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But even thought women could study at the beginning of the century, they often couldn't practice. Read about polish women trying to become surgeons and doctors in general, and how much professors didn't want them to work like that and throw obstacles towards them. Could they study? Some yes. Could they make money after that? Often no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:43 AM
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This is ridiculous. Mena aren't in their prime around 50.There is no way you belive that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:05 AM
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Would a man in this scenario also have only essential needs fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:47 PM
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What? Both alpha and doormat are shitty options. My fiance does chores and he is attractive. He served me homemade dinner 20 minutes ago. Doing chores doesn't make you submissive. I do chores and I'm not submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:01 PM
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My man is not chubby or submissive and he does house chores daily. I'm not chubby and submissive and I do those things as well. Of course we want an attractive partner. Attractive partners can do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:51 AM
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So? It's not suppused to, it's just a chore. I do tons of things that don't give my man erection. Not everything is about attraction and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:49 AM
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Yep. I'm just not staying with a man who thinks I could be a cheating whore. I would do the test to prove him wrong and then I would leave him. I wouldn't have a problem with it being a routine test without having to ask for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:43 AM
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These are only your projections.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:13 AM
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I was beggining my mom to divorce my dad. Mostly because he named called her. I said I wouldn't resist. I would do the test as soon as possible. And then I would leave my man for thinking I'm a cheating whore. Would you stay with a woman who didn't trust you and said you had to prove you aren't a cheating piece of shit without you giving her any reasons to think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:06 AM
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I would say "it's because you father didn't trust me and accused me of being a whore". I wouldn't cry if my mother left my father after he called her that. A man can't show that he thinks his wife can be a cheating whore and then expect her to care for him and build life with him. How could I be with a guy like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:39 AM
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That we should test all men from the area in case of rape. You know, all men could be rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:14 AM
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Of course he should. Amd I wouldn't have anything against a man who wants to do the test if he suspects that the child isn't his. But I wouldn't stay with my man if he accused me of something so horrible without me giving him any reasons for it. I would do the test and then I would leave. I could not be with someone who thinks I could be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:20 AM
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So it's ok to accuse men all men of being rapists? Fine. Because, you know, rape happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:01 AM
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Would you be happy to have your and all the men's dna from the are where rape happened tested? You know, just in case. Because you might be a rapist, every man can, right? So it's ok to assume that you could rape and test you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:56 AM
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He is. If my fiance asked me to do the test I would do it. And then I would leave him. I'm not staying with someone who thinks I'm a whore. Or, if we want to assume that all women are cheaters, we should assume that all men are rapists and have a database of their dna, so when a woman is raped it's easier to find a rapist. Or when a woman is raped, we should test all men from the area it happened. You know, we can never be sure. All men could rape. How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:50 AM
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It doesn't surprise me. I was told that I don't really have hobbies, I just pretend to have them to find a man. Some men think that our lives are only focused on being with them and their brains stop working when women do anything other than pleasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:35 PM
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I can. I remember a guy who wrote that he wants his woman to be completely focused on him, that her goal should be pleasing him. When asked to say more he said that he wants to be "main character", and she is suppoused to serve him. Also there were tons of posts implying that women don't have real intrests, no hobbies, that women's opinions aren't important and that we should just shut up and follow men's lead. Also, the biggest trash on youtube, fresh and fit, said that a good woman speakes onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:26 PM
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I'm just killing time. For the same reason I watch and make fun of fresh and fit, or read fat logic sub. To kill time when I'm in a train for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:17 PM
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In my relationship we do ask each other when we want something but it's a mutual thing. He asks me as well. It's not only me who has to ask for permission, he has to ask me as well when he wants to buy something. I was talking about a situation when only woman has to ask her husband for permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:11 PM
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I don't know, I should ask my friends husband (I hope soon ex-husband). She used to make more money but now they have two small children and she is a sahm. It was his idea. He doesn't want her to go out with her friends, she never has time for herself. He never stays with children because he needs to rest, he doesn't care that she never has time for herself. I had ti lie to him about an emergency so she could go out for a day, no regrets. She has to ask for money and he doesn't want to give it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:19 AM
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Depends. Do I get to have hobbies outside of the home? Do I get to make decisions as well? Do I have money to spend without asking for permission? If no then obviously I'm subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:10 AM
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It's the same thing, especially when I see conservative or red pill descriptions of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:11 AM
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If a man is a cheater he deserves the worst. It's ok to mock him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:24 AM
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24 is young enough. But I wouldn't want to do it even if I was older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:49 AM
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No. I know two many awful relationships that my friends ended because they were with single fathers. I wouldn't want to take care of his kids or include it in our vacation or holiday plans. I don't want to pay his child support. After marrige my money would become our money, I don't want to spend it on his child. I don't want to take care of it in the evening or during our weeekends and this is what single fathers expect. Those fuckers think that their new partner should play a mommy role so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:02 PM
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Posts like this make me happy that feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:42 PM
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I'm not in the kitchen and I'm getting married. My fiance cooks most of our meals. My friends aren't submissive, they are ambitious AND they are married or getting married soon. If having a husband meant that I had to submit and stay in the kitchen I just wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:23 AM
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I'm just saying that old men are the worst deal. Most young people want to enjoy life, not seat at home with a tired husband on friday night or hang out with their old friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:12 AM
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All old men are like that. I prefer my fiance, who is my age and will not try to impregnate me, and will have energy to party and do fun stuff every week, not once a month or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:29 AM
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Why would I want an older man who will not want to try that many new things, will want to settle quickly instead of travelling for example, will not have fun friends (fun for me to talk to), will have his own habbits and probably thinks The Office is funny? And is balding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:48 AM
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Fathers age is respnsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:37 AM
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Not at all. I only dress like 1950s american wife because I like vintage clothes and dresses in generał but that's it Being traditionally feminine was never natural to me. I'm not submissive or passive, I'm ambitious, laugh loudly, love to move around ect. I'm nurtuting but my fiance is more nurturing. We never cared about gender roles, he naturally took over cooking, it just happened without us discussing it. We just do things, no one is the leader. We just try to keep things fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:43 PM
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"Without being cringe" - yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:02 AM
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Men tell women to pick better men when women share stories about abusive relationships So it's only fair if we do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:56 AM
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We will stop gaslighting men when men stop gaslighting us. We will stop saying "pick better women" when men stop saying "pick better men".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:54 AM
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I'm from Eastern Europe. We are not submissive servants, we don't dream about serving our men. We have aspirations, dreams, we work and study. Men here complain that we aren't traditional, that we are all whores ect. Obviously, we don't care. My point is that we won't serve and submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:17 PM
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Today on twitter for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:27 AM
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No, I'm Polish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:42 PM
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Yes, I grew up in a really religious environment and with a super misogynistic brother who was listening to an extremly misogynistic politician. I had to do everything in our house, including cleaning my brother's room, working in the garden, cooking and cleaning up. My brother never had to do anything but studying. He got money for every hobby he had (usually something stupid like games or Magic cards). He got new consoles almost everytime he asked for them. I never got money for my hobbies, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:19 PM
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I'm doing pretty good but yes, listening to men saying those things and getting a lot of support for it does something to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:47 PM
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Yes it did. Men saying that women are inferior, that we should submit to them, that we shouldn't have hobbies other than caring for others and cooking, and that our rights should be taken away made me stop liking and men as a whole. I can't like them if millions of them vote for misogynists saying these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:56 PM
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Of course not just absolute incels say those things. There is a literal convention, 21 studios, where they say it. In my country the most popular party among young men is full of dudes sayinh just that. POLITICAL PARTY. Other guys who say that women are inferior and should be controlled by men, and that women destroy our country, are invited to big conservative platforms. They all have huge following, even boys call them based.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:47 PM
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Why would I give a fuck about men who say that women should submit to men, speak only when asked and accept being cheated on? Of course I will not care about them if they don't care about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:57 PM
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You can't be in your prime if you are not in your biological prime. Men aren't in their prime when they are 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:29 AM
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Classic redpiller, every woman who doesn't want to be a servant is a cat lady to you. I'm getting married, I will be fine. You are delusional. Men aren't the center of the world, so even if they want women to be submissive it doesn't matter. Why would I want to be submissive anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:14 PM
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A conservative guy is low value to me. A guy who expects me to serve him, submit to him and forget about my aspirations is low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:13 AM
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Well, many of them say that eating pussy is beta behavior and that women orgasm from penetration. So yes, they suck in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:10 AM
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Yeah, I'm not submissive and I love the fact that women embrace not submitting. Men aren't leaders and aren't better, more worthy humans. Also, I can give birth, nothing more badass than creating a human, so why would I submit if I have the most important role? None of my friends is submitting either and we are all in relationships, I'm getting married soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:08 AM
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Source: whole internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:44 AM
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Of course you will ignore everything she said. Are you also against men warning each other about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:24 AM
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There are whole accounts on twitter run by men who do this. But they not only do it for men's safety, they show private accounts of women to call them whores, even women they don't know. They write whole posts saying why this or that woman is a slut, subhuman or how she deserves to be used. Similar threads were posted on polish version of reddit, with thousands of posts. So no, I don't care about some women's facebook groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:12 AM
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They are in polish but I guess you can translate: https://mobile.twitter.com/Una37718883/status/1634978488557121536 This is mostu recent one, there were much worse and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:03 PM
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These are also just conservative men who say those things. And it's hard to ignore them when they appear everywhere, and when some of them are active in one of the most popular parties among men in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:56 AM
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Well, yes. Just yesterday I saw a big thread on twitter where red pill men were saying that women don't really deserve free time without their kids and husband (meaning time for their hobbies or to rest) if they are stay at home mothers, because they don't bring money. Of course, husbands deserve to rest everyday. They also said that women don't contribute anything to society and in the past only men Built civilization. So they don't see women doing traditional tasks as something important or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:17 AM
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Of course you can't know a person after just one date. And I would never have sex before being in a relationship first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:14 PM
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Its a good advice because this way the guy will not get sex, which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:09 PM
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I was raised to always serve everyone, to never disagree with people older than me or my brothers, and I was told to never disagree or to never be annoyed with my future husband. I was told that my hobbies were a waste of time and money and that my purpose was different, while my brothers and boys from my circle could do whatever they wanted. My brothers threw often tantrums and were always excused while I was punished every time I raised my voice. Boys in church could have fun and play soccer w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:52 PM
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Dude, I grew up in a conservative, christian environment. I know how they talked about women and what they expected from us. I was deep into that shit for years. Also, I followed to many redpill gurus to think that they don't view women the way I described. If feminists say what I said, they are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:31 PM
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But conservative men treat women as less then humans with their own thoughts. Even the say they talk about us is dehumanazing. Many of them say that women don't have their own opinions and shouldn't have aspirations other than submitting to men, that women should always smile and be quiet. It's not treating us like humans but like a farm animal who is suppoused to serve them and not cause too much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:37 PM
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Because being a human means that's you have your inner thoughts, dreams, opinions, flaws and are not meant to just serve and submit. It means that I will cause problems to others sometimes, that I will not do everything my man wants me to do. I will get angry, I will be loud, I will have my opinions, I will need time for myself and I will not be able to fulfill my man's every need. Men who say that women need to be quiet and subservient describe ideal women as robots, who always smile and live o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:32 PM
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Agreed. I'm a woman. I'm not a delicate flower, I'm not quiet and submissive, my goal is not to please everyone around me. I'm a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 AM
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Just one thing. I'm from Eastern Europe. Please stop talking about women here as if we were submissive and dreamed about serving our man. We don't. We are not your traditional wet dream, we are ambitious, we work, study, have aspirations other than being subservient wives. Men here complain that we are destroyed by feminism, which brings us huge satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:01 AM
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I make my own money. And why would I want an older man who doesn't have time to do fun things, when I can be with a man my age who wants to enjoy life and has time and energy for me? What could I do with an older guy? Watch the office or star wars and pretend it's any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:54 PM
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I know whatever I see. 30 something dudes aren't cute, don't have great hair and a good style. Older guys think that a suit and shirt is peak fashion. Also, why would I want a guy who works 12 hours shifts? When would he have time for me, or to have fun and leave everything, and travel? Or party with my friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:27 PM
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Depending on the age. I had to google Channing Tatum, most of the guys you mentioned are old celebrities who are not that relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:15 AM
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Then your don't know much. I'm always attracted to men's face first and I love pretty faces. I don't know a single rapper who is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:26 AM
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Yes, they are hot. They are both hotter than any old celebrity now. Especially Timothee, Tom Holland a little less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:24 AM
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Dude, when I was 18 I was extremely attracted to hit boys my age. Now I'm attracted to my 23 yo fiance. We didn't dream about 30 yo with balding heads, loans to pay and not enough time and energy to stay up couple of days in a row to travel through three countries just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:21 AM
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Those idiots organize meetings for other men or are active in political parties, are invited on popular platforms and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:21 PM
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First, I'm not talking only about voting rights. I'm talking about men saying that women shouldn't be able to study or that studying should be more difficult for women than for men, that women should be under the rule of their husbands ect. But also, why wouldn't women vote if we give birth, which is the most important thing a human could do? More women have kids than men fight in wars, why shouldn't we have a say in how our society, the society that we live and contribute to, works?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:19 PM
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Also, Anthony Johnson, the guy who organizes manosphere events likes to say that women are for breeding, not leading, that our rights to vote should be taken away, that we should submit. You have those idiots too. And men pay to see their lectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:18 AM
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On polish red pill twitter accounts for example. There are barely any muslims in Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:16 AM
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Men just say that women shouldn't have rights, that we should submit, that we are bad if we have aspirations and dreams other than serving men, that we are inferior, that we are bitches and sluts, that we don't have any inner thoughts, or hobbies, that rape isn't that bad and more. Recently a guy who organizes manosphere events in my country and is invited by big conservative online platforms said that it's based, that a 13 yo girl was kidnapped, raped and forced to marry her abuser. He also ope…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:08 AM
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I have the same thing, we have a group where we share accounts, Faces and posts of redpill men. Someone recently started doing this on twitter. I'm not gonna lie, red pill in general made me and my friends huge feminists. We kicked out a guy from our friends group who supported men who say red pill-like things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:02 AM
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I don't live in the US. Also, your description of the house party sounds very similar to a party in the club. And alcohol is never free, you still have to bring it. Nobody I know would buy alcohol for 10,15 or 20 guests. It's a normal thing to buy your own drinks when someone invites you. Also, nobody I know would organize such a big party in their apartment. We never had big house parties even when we lived with our parents, and most of US lived in big houses. My parents never invited more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:58 AM
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I'm never the center of attention. I just like being in a cool place, I like loud music, I like dancing and changing places. I don't might strangers next to me. I also like meeting other friends accidently on my way to other places. I just like being out, not staying in an apartment. I don't like hosting parties and don't like parties in other people's apartments where the atmosphere is just not the same. I get bored when the party is on the couch and there is less people, the mood goes down qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:47 PM
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But I don't really like house paties. And usually I meet with much larger group of people. If I meet with just one person I prefer to have coffee. I like the atmosphere of pubs, loud music, changing places, everything. I don't see why is it bad. I'm not an introvert who would rather sit at home or meet with just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:36 AM
2

I'm in a party phase right now. And I'm in a relationship, getting married. It means that I party with my friends, travel alone or with my man, go to concerts and other cool events, and just enjoy my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:35 PM
4

Why not? It's fun. I go to concerts and pubs all the time, and I'm in relationship, never had casual sex. I love hanging out with my friends and I don't like house parties or just chilling at home on the weekends. Why would it change just because I'm in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:33 PM
11

Since when yard work or home maintenance is men's work? I had to do all of this with my mom. My grandmother did this as well. And I did have a present father, my parents weren't divorced. Plus, I would rather do all of the things you listed than having to do 100% of traditionally feminine tasks like cooking or cleaning and caring for small kids. Because preparing food, cleaning the kitchen and the house, and taking care for the kids is a daily task that requires much more work overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:57 PM
1

Posts like yours are exactly why I'm happy that feminism happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:07 AM
2

How isn't it equal? Bo both take care of housework and we both have time for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:14 PM
4

So why do red pill men call men who want equal partnerships simps? I was told my fiance is a simp because he often cooks and is ok with me being ambitious and spending time on my hobbies. I'm also not submissive and that was enough to call him that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:03 PM
5

Heidi is now married to a german rock star who is almost 20 years younger than her. And good for her that she divorced a cheating piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:55 PM
0

I wouldn't eat anything Americans make. Especially if it's fatty Meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:04 PM
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No. My "misandry" is a result of men telling me to serve them, going back to the kitchen, calling women bitches, saying we are inferior and should make them sandwiches. Misogystic men caused it. I was even called man hater when I wrote that I will noy submit and serve men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:04 AM
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I behave like this and I'm a woman. Apparently men like it too. It's not Tate method, it's being confident and showing why my proposition is fun. I usually behave like this when I want to do something fun with othet people. Thanks to me we travelled to Berlin with myślę friends the same day I proposed it, had many fun nights out and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:40 PM
1

Because a vibrator vibrating on my clit is nice. An ugly man inside of me is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:50 AM
1

So would I be able to not have sex with him? I mean, he should prioritize me being a good mother over sex, amd sexual satisfaction, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:41 AM
1

Vegetable?! And yes, the idea of stimulating my clit with a vibrator is much better than the idea of having an unattractive man inside of me and orgasming thanks to me. The latter is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:40 AM
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No, millions of men are more attractive than me and they are still not better than me. And no, men aren't better at life, leading or family planning. Also, men don't get pregnant. So still, submitting to faulty humans (which all men are) is ridicolous. I can listen to a man sometimes, when I know he has a bigger knowledge about something, but not all the time. I justin can't see men as superior. Because they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:23 PM
2

That's dependent. Whyte did he do that? Was he afraid that this is the only way to keep her? Did he have low self esteem? Was he super young and didn't know any better? Was he manipulated and coerced? Wat was the woman like? If yes then I wouldn't have any problem with that. People grow, learn and change. I used to be a huge doormat. I allowed people to use me, lost a lot of money. I don't give any money to my new friends anymore. Should they be mad at me that I don't let them use me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:34 AM
1

But it doesn't matter if other women find him attractive. He still iść notatki superior, I don't see any man as superior. He is not better than me. No man is. He can be better at something, but not at everything. That's why the idea of submitting to my man, or any man, is ridicolous. Why would I submit to someone who is not better than me and has flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:28 AM
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So men can't control themselves. Got it. Another good reason to not submit to them and to not follow their lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:42 AM
1

Of course it should be the end of a relationship. If my man doesn't want to be divorced, he s houldn't cheat. It's that simple. I'm not staying with a cheater. And if
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:39 AM
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I'm not a woman over 30 yet but I don't have wild sexual fantasies. I don't really fantasise about sex at all. I also don't really think about sex when I don't have it, I was never really sexual. I don't think it will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:50 AM
5

My fiance and I live on a property we bought together and paid equal amount of money. It's the same for all of the couples I know, none of my friends live on a place that a man bought alone. So how men in this sitiation will compensate the baby sitiation that a mother is in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:24 AM
2

Ah, I get it. Well, it doesn't matter. It would make me miserable so I would never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:14 PM
1

Because she was raised super catholic and thought that divorce is the biggest sin ever. Men dream about submitting and centering their lives around their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:01 PM
12

Clitoris is responsible for my orgasm, not vagina. Dick can't stimulate my clit the way it should. Expecting me to orgasm from penetration is like expecting men to orgasm only from having their balls touched. Sometimes might happen but most of the time impossible and is much less satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:36 AM
3

I'm not single but I know that having a man doesn't guarantee happiness. My grandmother is much happier now, after my grandfather died. He didn't allow her to meet her friends or to paint, he expected her to serve him all the time, he wouldn't even make himself tee. My mother isn't happy in her marriage. She is only happy when we travel together and my father is not around. He makes comments about her in front of other people, mocks her, expects her to do everything at home while she works at he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:19 AM
1

That's why being traditional is not worth it. I wouldn't every stay with a cheater, doesn't matter if he did it once or many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:23 AM
4

I'm a woman and I also don't get it. And I hate surprises, I need to plan and prepare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:07 AM
3

Cherry picking? I just gave view examples There are millions of men like this. Also, millions of men support fresh and fit, Andrew tate or Sneako.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:28 AM
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I was just reading twitter threads where men were talking about enslaving women, creating female-only schools were women would be learning how to serve their husbands, talking about how women should be treated as husbands property, that women should never talk over men, that women destroy Poland and more. Some of these guys are active in politics, one dude is a journalist, another one organizes meetings for men. These are not justin ince npc. They were also saying that Talibans are based because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:27 AM
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We see it as an insult because it's often used against us. When men want to offend us they tell us to go back to the kitchen. Cnservative men and men in the manosphere (21 Studios for example) say that women are for breeding, not leading, and that we should be controlled and pregnant. Men don't think that women deserve free time when they "only" sit at home with babies. I heard men saying that it's men who create life and that women are only a tool in the process. Pregnancy wasn't seen as someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:29 PM
2

They do it all the time. Today some guy shared on twitter a tiktok of a woman who was talking about having standards and not agreeing to accepted bare minimum. He turned this video into her being bitter and post wall (she is in her 20s and attractive, even other men admitted it) and said that this is how stupid polish women end up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:28 PM
1

No, we didn't. And nothing justifies discussing taking away our rights or saying we should be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:56 AM
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Women took part and created mamy things as well, which is also impressive considering they did not have the same rights as men and were held back. And now women and slowly catching up to men anyway. Feminism teaches me that I'm not inferior to men and that I don't have to serve them instead of working on my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:52 AM
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No, thanks to feminism I can actually work on my goals and don't have to submit to men. I can actually do what I want. I grew up in traditional house, living in a traditional society would be a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:44 PM
1

Huh? Rap music has always been misogynystic. And I'm from Poland, all of the popular rap music is made by white people here. But obviously black people can be misogynystic and trash, just like white people. Look at fresh and fit. Or Andrew tate, he is half black.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:37 AM
1

We started it? What about men telling us to go back to the kitchen, expecting us to submit and serve them, making misogynystic rap music from it's beginning? Also, in my country there we no talk shows like you mentioned and men still are misogynystic and praise scumbags like Sneako. We have polititians who tell us to resign from working on our ambitions and submit to men. They also say that we are stupid and are influenced by sperm of our husbands and that our rights should be taken away. And me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:26 PM
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So you are ignroing all of those times she rightfully went after all of those specific men because of a one clip that is not even thay bad? Because it's not. Men have tons of podcasts where they literally tell women to shit up, submit, call them bitches, criticize them for wrong hobbies and aspirations other than being submissive wifes, say that our freedom destroy countries and that we should be put into our place... And this is the worst you could find? Her making fun of men dancing while men …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:57 PM
0

I don't see it, the video I get is with girls in the gym doing back flips.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:34 PM
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All I see in your link are girls doing some exercices. Where is she bashing anyone? She is not even there, there are no men either in the video. Men generalize women all the time. And praise men who call women bitches, say we need to be controlled or have our rights taken away. Why should women change when men behave like this? Why should I be mad at women like Drew, when millions if men support Sneako or Andrew Tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:06 PM
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Yes she does. Today, after reading this topic, I went to her tik tok to watch her again. All of the men she trashed, trashed women or her first. Millions of men watch those manosphere guys and agree with them, call them based and correct. So I will never have a problem with Drew. If millions of men are ok with discussing taking away our rights, calling us bitches, saying it's ok for men to cheat, then I will not have a problem with millions of women giving the same energy back. Tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:36 PM
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Drew Awfulo trashes men who trashed women first. Why is that bad? Do you think that women should not respond? Also, men have whole podcasts and conventions where they discuss taking away women rights, controlling us, saying we should submit and they trash us for doing anything other than being submissive and traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:13 AM
3

Sure. It also works with sex. If a woman wants to have less sex, she shouldn't have to have it more often just because her partner has bigger libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:07 AM
1

It's doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:49 AM
2

We are calling out redpillers on this. And manosphere says that we are sneaky bitches, who wants to keep men "blue pilled" when we get angry at them for discussing taking away our rights, or for saying that we are inferior, or that we should be controlled. And if men don't get angry at guys behaving like this, I will never have a problem with women trashing men. Fair is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:53 PM
1

If you want to paint it that way, go for it. What do you think we should do? Sit and get trashed? Ignore men discussing taking away our rights, calling us whores, saying that we need to submit and be controlled? I used to be pro men. Couple of years ago I wouldn't call myself a feminist, always tried to ignore some sexist situations. Then I discovered red pill. When you see so many men hating on you, wanting to keep you submissive and controlled, shitting on you for having wrong hobbies and ambi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:55 PM
2

I don't have respect for men who beat each other up, who destroy things,you get the idea. I see them as emotional idiots who let their anger overpower them. When my brother started a fight with my cousin because of some dumb shit, and later bled through his noes, I told him he was an idiot and refused to come to his place and take care of him. You play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. So no, I wouldn't lose respect if he wasn't the one who started this fight. If he did start it and win, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:50 PM
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No, I'm just saying that men who cry about women doing this don't care when men do it. I'm not going to cry about it when manosphere gurus are still praised by millions of men. Tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:05 PM
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And men were still praising him and saying how amazing he is for what he does for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:23 PM
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They will ignore it, they cry about how misandrist Twoxchomosomes is but don't give a shit about all of those red pill platforms that dehimanize women. It's only bad if it affects them apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:12 AM
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But men literally do it too. The whole manosphere is full of men trashing women, sharing their profiles to trash them, have whole podcasts discussing how women are trash if they don't submit to husbands and that it's ok for men to cheat. They adore Andrew Tate who says that women are a property and should shut up and do as they are told. They call women bitches and ridicule they for having aspirations other than be submissive wifes. They create conventions where they discuss those things as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:07 AM
2

In Poland for example we had men taking pictures of women they didn't know, sharing them in their groups and then rating them and saying what they would do to them. Spoiler: they had disgusting ideas. There was also in my country a group for men in relationships where they would just shit on their partners. That was the only purpose of that grouop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:49 PM
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They do. Then do it all the time. They criticize women for everything, even for studying or having "wrong hobbies. They even had a group in my country posting pictures of women, taken in public and dicussing how they would abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:24 PM
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Men do have such groups. They are called differently but they do. It's only a problem when women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:21 PM
2

Attacks on men never stop!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:19 PM
3

Of course we do. Maybe not as often, but it's still popular in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:32 AM
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Those groups are often helpfull. In my country we have a group where women warn each other about creepy and bad men. The most common one are men who lie about their age, relationship status, post old pictures (one guys posted pictures of his son), and they are all called out. There was a success story when a woman almost went on a date with someone similar to American red pill coaches. Thanks to the group she ghosted him. From the screenshots she sent us he was super nice at the Beginning, so sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:30 AM
2

What? I have Two different groups of friends, I with them at least once a week. But they are not interested in my hobbies and some things I like to talk about, so that's why I go to forums. And forums are super popular among women btw. It was like this since I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:24 AM
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Men adore other men who hate on women. They defend men who call us bitches and worse, they support men who say that our rights should be taken away and that's we should be submissive and controlled. So why would I ignore a woman just because she was mean to a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:05 AM
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Yeah, I don't have a G spot. And if I do, it does nothing. I can't even find it during masturbation. I have clit. Clit is responsible for my orgasm, this is what I focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:12 AM
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But pur pleasure centre Ia mostly outside of vagina. Why would I try so hard to have orgasm from penetration when there is a much easier and better way, which is clit stimulation? I will never orgasm from penetrative sex, just like most women. Instead of trying to change that I can just do what actually works. And clitoris is an equivalent of penis, not vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:09 AM
5

It's what normally happens. Even men admit that they deserve rest more if they work outside the house and that they deserve to make decisions if they make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:45 PM
2

Including majority of child care? And her having more time for herself than you? Her hobbies being a priority, not yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:30 PM
1

But first, being a grandpa-father is far from ideal and second, father's age matters for child developememt. Older guy's sperm increases chances of autism for example. It's obvious that younger father is better than old one in every single way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:32 PM
1

So? My mom had my sister at 42, my friends mom was 42, many women in myślę family were over 40 and had Their first child. Does it meandra that women's fertility doesn't decline? Does it's mean that the risk of birth defects isn't higher? No. Then Why would Your anecdotal evidence matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:06 PM
5

I've seen many women being unhappy as mother of three kids or as being just wives. Some turned from being happy, thriving girls into bitter wives who never have time for themselves and had to sacrifice their dreams for their husband's sake. My grandmother told me that she wishes she was born in our times. She advised me to follow my path and to not play the "submissive kitten" role just because men want me to. Because men will always care more about their aspirations and dreams than their wives …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:37 PM
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I know, right? We can't possibly have aspirations, do what we like or just work to have money to do what we like (like literally having hobbies). No, we are brainwashed because we don't submit and support men in their aspirations. Because our aspirations shouldn't matter for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:54 AM
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No it's not just me, me, me. It's "also me". Or would you accept relationship when you don't get to fulfill your aspirations, where you have to serve and obey, and when don't get time for your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:58 AM
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Well, if being a sahm gave me time for my hobbies, possibility to fulfill my aspirations and goals, and if I could decide how I spend my money, and If I didn't have to be submissive, and didn't have to agree on every weird sex act that my breadwinner would want to try out of feer of him taking away money and food from me, then maybe it would be as good as being in an equal relationship and making my own money. But traditional relationships don't look like this. In traditional relationships men's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:52 AM
0

I'm in a happu relationship, gettin married and I still enjoy this sub. If you think this sub is toxic, I hope that you also despise redpill and Men's rights subs on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:58 AM
1

From me experience men do twoje things far more often. Husbands making fun of their wives during social events, or ridiculing what they said was a normal part of my growing up. My mom didn't want to invite people to our house because of this and my dad would get pissed and say she is overreacting. I also saw redpill twitter accounts saying that men should make fun of their women (to establish dominance or some other stupid shit), but women can never make fun of their men. Boyfriends ridiculing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:55 AM
4

We don't have mandatory army service. And if I'm wrong, we should change that's and getta rid of it it's simple. And what about other things? Misogyny in the Government or other popular political parties? p0lka thing? The fact that men in Poland agree and support politicians who say that women should obey and be disciplined? Or abortion ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:39 AM
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Who? Who forces you to die? Old men also vote for Czarnek. And young men vote for Konfederacja. Even worse shit, just with a little better economical ideas. Retirement age was equal until conservative pis came back again. It should be changed, it's a bądź deal for Women to have lower retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:20 AM
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Lol, no it's not. Konfederacja, Church, Czarnek, Kaczyński, men using p0lka slur, abortion ban and tons of other things. We are literally being told to get pregnant and go back to the kitchen by people in our government. Just because it's getting better and women are not traditional anymore (thank god) it's doesn't mean it's pussy whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:05 AM
2

Clit is not directly stimulated during penetration. So penetrative sex is not really pleasurable, it's easier to just do it yourself quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:16 AM
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Yes? I always make sure that I leave the toilet clean, my man does the same. I never saw his poop, I never saw poop stains when I also lived with my friends because all of them cleaned after themseves. It's an obvious rule, we didn't discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:54 PM
1

I got my man who is hot. That's enough for me. I don't care about other men. Fit 20 yo will always be better than fit 40 yo. 40 yo men get this boxy, wide figure when they exercise. I know what I see in my gym. Are these guys fit? Probably. Are they attractive? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:28 PM
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I I'm ina relationship with such man. He doesn't chase other women. And even if I only had a choice between someone hot and fun my age who would be cheating on me and ab old fart, I would chose to stary single. Being single is better than having some old dude using me laughing at the Office jokes, balding, having leatherly skin and fighting his fear of dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah, when I'm 45 I will probably look different at 45 yo men because I will also be older. But now, when I have whole life to live, no. If I can have someone my age, hot and up to date, I'm not going to take someone old who thinks that the Office or bing bang theory is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:10 PM
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Even if you don't do it, most old guys do. And you are still much older anyway and on the decline. Like I said in other comment, you can't beat dying. A 30 something or 40 yo guy would not be as fun as younger guy. There is no way he would understand and enjoy current culture the way younger people do. He would be "in my days" at least sometimes. And no, no 40 or 45 year old dude is better than a 35 yo attractive woman (or man). I never met an old guy who would be hot and had options other than …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:42 AM
1

Nah, it would not be the same. You can't beat death. And having and old husband would suck, even if he somehow managed to look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:32 AM
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I don't think that there is a shortage of men. Them just criticize any woman who dates foreign men, especially if she dates non-white men. There are even awful rap songs crying about it. Pretty much every woman who is not traditional (which is most women in my country), who moves abroad or who dates foreign men and brings them to our country is called awful names by those losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:00 AM
1

It's Easter Europe. I don't know what UAE is. We are not poor country that look like American stereotype btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:09 AM
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Yeah, but older guy will also have less time of good look, stamina, health and life. 32 yo guy will be 40 sooner than 23 yo fuy, 40 yo men and already old and declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:04 AM
3

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:01 AM
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No. I wouldn't even have to consider it because I never saw older guy who would be more attractive than guys my age irl. And older guys never get current culture, they are always like "it used to be better, modern everything sucks" while they are old Star wars fans and listen to AC/DC or some cringy rap, can't dress fashionably and would want to settle down soon. I want to have fun with my partner, travel the world and experience things for the first time. Not settle down with some tired dude or…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:01 AM
3

I don't know. In my country it's men who complain that women travel abroad, date foreign men or don't date at all. And I live in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:50 AM
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I have the same lifestyle, nothing special about those guys. Plus, I was in Thiland many times. Most of the time I saw old men obviously paying younger women to spend time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:49 AM
7

Well, job title and status isn't arousing for me either and I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:45 AM
4

What does she do that makes her worse? How is she worse than Tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 PM
6

How Drew Afullo is similar to Andrew Tate? She just ridicules specyfic men who first ridicule women. She calls them out by name. How is that the same as Tate calling women property or bitches and worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:02 AM
1

He still didn't become better. He was better 30 years ago. And sorry, no man is in his prime at 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:52 AM
5

Of course they would give a shit. I saw too many angry men on twitter and youtube under posts and videos with older women with younger husbands to belive that men wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:10 PM
21

George Clooney didn't get better with age. He just aged pretty well but he is not hotter or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:48 PM
3

No, they are old stars that were in their peak a long time ago. Brad Pitt aged soo much and looks much worse than he used to when he was young. Tons of young actors took old actor's place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:20 AM
4

Maybe for other 50 yo, but it's just maybe. Nobody else thinks that 50 yo men are in their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:19 AM
2

No, it definitely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:14 AM
1

You think it would be fun having to masturbate during sex? You would be ok with having to masturbate during Intimate moments to feel pleasure? You would settle for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:01 AM
1

But what's the point of sex if I have to do everything on my own anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:33 PM
1

So? What's in it's for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:31 PM
1

No it doesn't. Vagina is not the source of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:26 PM
10

They will ignore you. They think that penetration gives women as much pleasure as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:57 PM
2

It's not Afghanistan but it's not great if even politicians say that women should submit, focus on making kids. Or they write books where they say that it's ok to hit your wife to dominate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:23 PM
7

Sure buddy. What else your red pill gurus told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:09 AM
13

Yes, I'm sure all women spend ten years on tinder only to use poor innocent men later in life. You guys love to make up things and then get mad about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:57 AM
11

Billions of men can find good women. Women aren't monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:32 AM
3

Again, no man in smarter than me in every aspect and no man will outsmart me every time. And no, two years mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:57 PM
10

I have found such a man. And i'm still my own person and I wouldn't sacrifice everything for him. I wouldn't sacrifice everything for my motherlode, sibling or eventual children. If he expected me to skip a good concert and a good time without a reason, only to make him happy, if he would sacrifice my happiness for no good reason, then he would not be worth loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:47 PM
6

Triggered much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:42 PM
16

Buy relationships aren't only about men and their fulfillment. They are also about women, justin as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:40 PM
8

Yes, that's how you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:38 PM
19

If he expected me to not enjoy some good music only because it would make him happy that would mean that he is a shitty person and not worth making him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:36 PM
22

Nah, this idea sounds awful. Men are not gods or superior human beings. I'm not giving full control over my life to a faulty human, no matter how loving and responsible he is. Modern ways definitely are better. Even considering your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:34 PM
13

This sounds like a nightmare. And is a great reason why listening to red pill wishes about how women should behave is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:31 PM
9

If've never met a man who would be superior to me in everything you listed. And no man is smarter than me in every way. I know a lot of things that many men don't know. And a guy two years older than me is not superior. A guy 10,15 or 20 years older would be inferior to me as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:27 PM
25

So submission sounds like a nightmare. Your example shows that it's not worth to be submissive. Losing out on seeing my favorite band without a good reason? What else? Not being able to buy myself a new guitar and engaging in my hobbies if a hobby doesn't like it? Could I forbid him to go for a beer with his friends? Or buy a new car? What would be the point of being in a relationship If it would stop me from doing the things I love? It sounds like a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:21 PM
7

Clubbing? I'm not married and I don't go clubbing either. I meant wine with friends, night with besties in a pub with good pizza and beer, coffee with a good book in a nice cafe or a concert. Also don't forget about time for hobbies during the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:42 PM
4

Not true. Two of my friends married nice guys. They married guys who bragged about preparing lunches for their wives nad seemed like great partners in general. Cleaned, cooked, everything. But when they had kids, suddenly these guys didn't want to give up their free evenings so their wives can relax. They weren't ready to have sleepless nights, stay with crying kids on Saturday night so their wives can go out. See, it's different when you don't have kids. Because is you are childless you know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:15 PM
8

I also have old men at my gym. Some of them do work out hard but it still doesn't help, they still have big bellies even if they have big arms as well. And also older men who work out get this boxy figure that is not attractive. They get wide, not lean and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:05 PM
1

You don't have to work for a company. I don't. My mother doesn't. There are millions of options to do cool stuff, make money and enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:20 AM
4

Husbands also very often don't care about their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:55 PM
17

In my country the she would be entitled to a long, paid leave after giving birth. Not everyone lives in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:53 PM
1

It's also the case with old fathers but for some reason men here forget about this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:56 PM
1

Votes formie free? Women grow whole human beings inside of them, feed them and raise them. Of course we deserve rights to vote to decide about the future of our countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:45 PM
7

I'm also from Poland and I feel the same. I'm not staying for korwinists and other men saying that I should submit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:38 AM
2

Do you also disagree that water is wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:38 PM
0

No, now it's much better, at least in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:12 AM
2

We live in the best times for society. We don't haven hard times. I would never want to live 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:56 AM
2

No. If my brother had a say in my partner, he would never approve my man who is sweet, kind, cooks, cleans and treats me like a princess. He would approve some Andre tate wanna be dude who would try to put me in my place. My father never helped my mom even thought my mom worked full time and made more than him for many years. So also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:36 PM
0

Better than me? There is no man better than me at everything. I will always know things he doesn't know and be able to do things he can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:07 PM
12

Or women who worked as servants 16 hours a day, which was the most popular job for women in Victorian England. Or women who did tons of other hard work while having kids and caring for their family, and still having less rights and freedom than their husbands. I swear, these guys think women were just relaxing all day long untill evil feminists came.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:40 PM
6

Which women? I didn't study, read and learn to make myself more attractive to men. It never even crossed my mind when I was deciding what to do in life.. Not everything we do is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:36 PM
6

We are not that different. Women don't live here only to serve their family. Belive it or not, we also dream about success and doing great things. I don't care if men like meak and submissive women who don't do anything other than pleasing them. I'm not like that's, it's not natural to me. I'm not going to mold myself to fit this fantasy because it would only harm me. I still found my man while being outspoken and ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:13 PM
20

I agree. I got a lot of attention when I was 16,17 or 18. But it was mostly from much older men who were disgusting to me. I didn't want a 30 yo boyfriend. Even 20 something was too old. Now I'm 23 and while I'm not looking, I finally see the change and get attention from men around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:03 PM
2

50 shades of greay is a movie about super hot, young Millionaire who gets crazy about this one, average girl and changes himself to be with her. Even this "bdsm" is actually just focusing on her to please her. Yes, the book is trash and badly written but my point is, it's not what red pill men thing it is. Also, many other books for women became successfull without any bdsm in it, but somehow your don't mention them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:19 AM
1

No, I'm just developing like a normal human being. In my culture people don't get married as almost kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:10 AM
1

I mean, sure. The worst thing I saw during my travells were regular men getting wild and stoned daily, and taking other drugs. It was super common, even in Vietnam. But I don't assume that all travelling men are trashy junkies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:42 PM
1

It is just a symbol, you can live with your partner without marrige. I didn't want to move in with a man and have house responsibilities at 19. I moved with him not even a year ago, before that's I wanted to live with myślę besties and it ramen and smoothies, without caring about cooking or cleaning up Jesus, what do you not understand? If he was a bad decision I could easily leave after marrige. Marriage doesn't stop me from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:27 PM
2

Expensive? Most of the times it were the cheapest hostels I could find, I only stay in better hotels when I want to relax. I'm from Europe and sure, some people fuck around but many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:23 PM
1

I travelled a lot on my own, stayed in hostels or voulunteered. Never kissed another guy, and I've met tons of people. Maybe twice I met people who were hooking up. I also travelled with mamy women, some I didn't know untill the trip (we met each other on facebook group for travellers). They never even kissed anyone during those travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:09 AM
2

No, men can't understand that women don't do everything to get their attention. They really think that we onlu think about attracting them. I was told by men that I'm learning programming only because I wanted to impress other guys in the group. They didn't understand that I do it for myself. It's not worth listening to men. Just do what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:02 AM
1

What trust has to do with it? I just didn't want to be a wife at 19, to anyone. Why is it so hard to understand that I didn't want to be all grown up and responsible right after high school? And yes, it's is a good argument. You are saying I'm not fully commited because I didn't wanted to get married at such a young age, while you think it's ok to have multiple women atak the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:04 AM
1

If he wasn't fat and bald, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:17 AM
1

Anal?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:04 AM
9

How is this less damaging? He hurt me deeply and somehow I'm suppoused to be ok with it because "hE cAn stIlL hAave LOVe fOr mE"? Of he loved me, he wouldn't hurt me in the worst way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:54 AM
1

Lol, ok, you are muslim, this explains everything. You are ok with having multiple wifes and you are saying that's I'm not fully commited? You don't need marrige to commit. Marrige is just a symbol. The difference is that now we have enough money to make a wedding party that we dreamed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:20 AM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:05 AM
1

For me 40 is old, it's just a little younger than my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:18 PM
1

Same here. I meant that even older men who go to the gym and are fit aren't hot. Older me, when they lift, gain this boxy, wide, big body, they are never lean. And even if they were their faces still look 40, especially when they have bad hair. That's why they grow beird, to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:16 PM
5

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:01 AM
37

Everyone who goes out knows that men don't get hoter when they get old. I have many men in their 40s at my gym. Are they fit? Sure. Are they hot? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:32 PM
1

It's not hard to get divorced on my country. It's would be the same. I just didn't want to be a married at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:28 PM
1

Really? I could live with my besties, just like we wanted since we were kids? I could eat ramen everyday instead of cooking? I knew I was going to marry him. I didn't want to be married at 19. Which part is hard for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:47 PM
1

No, I just didn't want to be a wife at 19. I didn't want to have this big responsibility at a young age. I didn't want to wonder what we should eat the next day. Marrige is a responsibility. You can't just spend all week reading, playing in a band, working. You have to sacrifice more time to your house and your partner. I just didn't want to get married at such a young age. Just like I don't want to have kids now. I know that he will be a great father and he will support me, and that I will have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:08 AM
0

Where am I treated favorably? When I want to acheive something that's is not related to fucking? I do have it good because of my own hard work. Nobody gives me anything for free, quite the opposite. I have to work hard to acheive what I want and to be successfull. I have to show everyday that I'm competent and worth something. I have to listen that I should give birth soon and serve my man, I was told my whole life that my aspirations are not important. But you can keep pretending that men have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:50 PM
1

I don't know, I don't talk to people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:56 PM
0

How did my sexuality help me become quite successfull professionally if I only worked remotely? I have to work hard to get things that I want. People don't take my seriously because I'm a woman. Men speak over me. I was told I can't be a real programmist because I'm a woman. Getting sex is not my goal, some men wanting to fuck me is not a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:54 PM
0

So what advantage do I have? Is it easier for me to become successfull than it is for men? What do I have that men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:21 PM
0

I'm notatki super beautiful, I'm average. And I do put my youth to use, I work on myself and my future, I learn and work a lot. Still, I don't get anything because of my charm. I don't think I have charm, I'm just a regular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:53 PM
1

For us it's "playfully" calling us names, joking that we belong in the kitchen and making "funny" comments about us not being real programmists or doctors. Also not taking us seriously and only considering our other male friends opinion as valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:43 PM
1

If a guy says I'm wrong and calls me a little dumbass and then I show him, in front of everyone, that's he is actually wrong and call him a "big dumbass" it's not oversteping. He started it, my response is fair. Or when a guy teases me about my looks and makes comments on my nose, it's only fair if I make fun of his balding head. But for some reason they don't like it when I give them the taste of their own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:40 PM
3

I can't get anything thanks for my charm and I'm not treated as royality. Where do you guys get those ridiculous ideas from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:25 AM
2

Nope, I'm pretty normal. My friends kicked out a guy from our group who was teasing us as well. Especially since it's men who are hypersensitive. They love to tease us but when we response back they get mad, especially when we response in front of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:04 AM
1

No, I just didn't want to get married at 19. Just like I don't want to have kids at 23. I wanted to travel with my band, I wanted to start working on my future career, I didn't want to plan a wedding. I wanted to eat whatever and focus on studying and making money, I didn't want to plan dinner for the next day. I trusted him as much as I trust him now. Again, I just didn't want to be married at 19. Also, being married is not my life goal, I'm not going to be a submissive wife, so it's obvious I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:59 AM
2

When someone teases me I do think he is an asshole and doesn't like me. I cut contact with people who did that. I don't even hang out with my brother anymore who used to tease me, we just see each other during family events. I don't tease anyone, I expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:17 PM
1

He was. I just didn't want to be married and be a wife at 19. What's so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:31 AM
2

Where do you live? All of the young women I know work hard, study, volunteer, some open their buisnesses. We don't even have time to party. I do explore myself by working, travelling i learning. Not partying. I can't remember how wine tastes. None of us wastes time in clubs or whatever. And what hormon changes do you have in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:37 PM
1

If I could still do mobile apps and work in being successfull, and If I didn't have to be submissive, sure. Who wouldn't want to have all the money and time to pursue their dreams? Every man would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:39 PM
1

If it's a big decision, of course I'm making a choice with him. It's my life as well, I'm not submitting my life to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:49 AM
1

Because I didn't want to get married and be a wife at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:40 PM
5

If so, good. Society is better now than it was in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:41 PM
1

I was run threw by my man, sure xD That's why it's not worth listening to redpill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:40 PM
1

Since when he was monogamous? This dude said that it's ok for men to cheat. Ans juat because there are some women listening to him it's doesn't mean it's suddenly a good thing. Something doesn't stop being sexist just because view women agree with it. And he died alone. He was a looser at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:58 AM
3

Yep. My man split schores with me without any talking from my side, he loves to surprise me with good food, he shows affection all the time and never withdraws attention, doesn't nag me and was extremely nice nad shower that he cared from the beginning. He argued with Andre Tate fans who were talking shit about women There is no way he follows red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:50 AM
2

No, we are just young and got engaged recently. I wouldn't get married as a teenager, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:11 PM
3

Why would I want to be married at 19? And not every 19 yo is a drug addict. Ans if he is, he will be trash at 30 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:09 PM
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Of course 19 yo. My fiance is my age. We were both 18 and broke when we met and we stopped being broke just recently. I could be with some older dude but it would be a worse deal. My man is fun, relevant, we grew together, did stupid things together, travel together and explore life. I don't have to settle down and become a stable mother at 23 just because my man is older and balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:06 PM
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Dude, I'm from Poland. Men here complain that we are not conservative. Because we are not. And feminism is strong here, men cry that we are not traditional all the time. Stop with this "Eastern European women are submissive and want traditional relationship". No we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:54 AM
1

Having a job means that I get to decide how I spend my own money. I don't have to ask my fiance if I can buy a new guitar. I contribute financially as much as he does,so it's not like he deserves more or pensji more. I also get to have free days because he also cooks and cleans, and does my laundry, just like I do those things for him. I saw too many situations where men thought that they deserved to have more free time than their wifes or who belived that their opinions and decisions are more i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:49 PM
1

Most men don't do it and even if they did it still sounds like a bad deal. I want to acheive my goals, work on my dreams, not just stay at home and serve my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:52 PM
3

No it doesn't. Literally my government is full of men crying that women aren't traditional enough. Men vote for a party filled with dudes saying that women's rights should be taken away and that we should submit to them. They cry that our society is being destroyed because we don't submit to them and have our own aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:50 PM
1

Since when men do all that? I put the roof over my head, I pay for my Vacation, food, I renovated my apartment with my friends. My man does the same things, we literally split chores and expenses evenly. I don't know a single relationship where man would be a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:39 PM
3

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:26 AM
16

Well, I'm a woman and I also can go through anything and be happy. It's just that society doesn't like it. Being a woman sucks because my surroundings (mostly men) hate the idea of me not being an NPC who makes their life easier. But I ignored all of this and now my life experience is pretty similar to yours, minus safety but I learned to deal with that as well. Also, I'm being criticized by traditional groups (which means most of my country) for doing things like travelling, having passions and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:53 AM
5

My fiance is like this and he never struggled. I never even have to prepare food because he does it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:55 AM
1

We live in the jest times so far for society. I would never want to live 50 or 200 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:29 AM
0

That's why listening to men is not worth it. Because they say shit like this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:27 AM
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But I want to do all of that. I always had aspirations that i want to fulfill. I don't want to just serve all my life and stay home. Yes, IDGAF about gender roles. My finace cooks 90% of the time, I make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:21 AM
1

I'm not ready to be a mother now. And I definitely want to do things I dreamed of first before starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:19 AM
3

Do you keep the same energy when you see men calling other men "simps" or "white knights"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:38 PM
6

All the older guys I know (I mean all of them) want peace, chill at home and make fun of us travelling, partying, hiking and so on. They don't understand modern music and culture and criticize everything that wasn't there when they were young. Oh, and they think that the Office is funny. They even complain when our work events are more interesting than having view biers in a pub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:04 PM
9

I don't want to have old husband. I want to enjoy life, see and experience stuff with my partner. Not being stucked with some mid 30s dude who had seen it all and wants to chill at home after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:35 PM
2

It would mean that I was never attracted to anyone in my entre life. I never felt desire towards a man just because he was good looking. I don't get aroused by body parts or nice face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:04 AM
1

Of course they can. I used to be crazy over this guy I met. He was beautiful, funny, tall, 100% my type. We started dating and then he insisted that I give him a blow job. I was a virgin. He was pushing my head down, said many disgusting things. He became disgusting in my eyes despite being really attractive in general. Like, I was so creeped out I destroyed a present he gave me for my birthday and blocked him everywhere and told everyone what he tried me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:53 PM
1

Yep, recently I had to change my driving teacher because he thought it was propriate to hit on me. Dude is like 40-50. I called the school and told them about the harrasment. He still doesn't understans what he did wrong because he was trying to "have a conversation" with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:42 PM
7

Of course they did see it as lesser. The extreme case is China where they told women that they are useless tree branches unless they give birth to a son. Now men tell women to make them a sandwich and go back to the kitchen when they want to offend us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:11 AM
10

None of my grandmothers ever told me that, they both worked and are still proud about their acheivements
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:08 AM
10

Young men also see traditional femininity as something inferior. When guys want to offend us they tell us to go back to the kitchen, or to make them a sandwich. Or they call us dishwashers. They also say that women don't deserve voting rights because they never had any real responsibilities like going to war. Like giving birth and raising children aren't extremely important and and aren't a big responsibility. They don't see it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:06 AM
10

I never rejected traditional femininity. I'm just not like that. Being traditionally feminine has never been natural to me. I'm not meek and submissive,I never dreamed about being a sahm. I'm an ambitious extrovert. I'm loud and I'm success oriented. But I'm also nurturing and kind, but not a people pleaser. This is what's natural to me. I never rejected anything. Femininity can mean different thing for different women today, because today women aren't forced to fit one apecific type of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:00 AM
3

It's better because it easily focuses on the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:33 AM
6

Whyte do mem act as if decline in gender relationship in South Korea started with feminism? Feminism was a response to an awful misogyny in SK culture. They brought "women have to listen, submit and do as they are told" to a whole new level. Them should have thought about society before they put women in inferior place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:52 AM
9

Women always worked if they weren't rich. In 18th or 19th century millions of women had jobs. At the same time they couldn't pursue better careers. Maria Skłodowska-Curie had to leave Poland to study, medical professionals in Poland hated the idea of women becoming doctors and did everything to stop them. Women also had to take care of the house, birth children and care for them, grow food and submit to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:39 AM
4

Most of the couples I know are The same age, but I know Two relationships with older wifes. One is 9 years older, another is four years older. The first one met three years ago, when she was 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:41 AM
1

I'll withold some sex acts forever, I'll never try anal. It's not a punishment, I just don't want to be degraded or in pain. Jesus, women aren't some evil creatures wanting to make men sad. We can do oraz notatki don't something because we think it's awful, disgusting or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:36 AM
1

Dude, we are literally on a forum created to discuss manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:57 PM
1

Yep. I never dated old men, no one from my friends dates men. It's not because we are afraid of stigma. We justin have much better options than 40 year old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:43 AM
2

Well, tell it to men as well who scream and write awful comments under tik toks or youtube videos with older woman-younger man relationship. Or men crying "beta" under videos of relationships with men taking care of their kids or cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:36 AM
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Manosphere is imaginery for you? Red pill coaches and millions of mendes engaging in it is imaginery? Manosphere was what brought me to feminism. Real men from the manosphere was what made me interested in feminism. But misogynystic men are in my government at this very moment, even if the don't call themse"red pill". We have politicians who said that's husbands should spank their wives if the are not submissive. We have a guy who said that Women's rights are a mistake, that women are too dumb a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:35 AM
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Which president? Definitely not mine. My whole government is pro-men and women are the cause of all evil. And no, I'm not scared to talk. I'm just giving examples of men hating on women for years. Including men in power. Are you scared to talk about it? Because so far you never addressed howhateful manosphere is, you are ignoring it screaming "bbbbut some feminists do it's tooo!!! And men have it worse!". No they don't. Not in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:50 AM
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Not enough apparently since they have growing supportem and audience. Also, the only reason they distanced themselves was probably the fact that the owner is a whining manchild who offends and degrades even his own people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:38 AM
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Dare to speak About politicians laughing About rape and saying that's that it's not that serious anyway? Ano no, it's notatki imaginami manosphere. It's real shit written, said and repeated by men. I didn't make any of this up. Are there fucked up feminists? Of course. But men started it. So as long as there are men shouting that we should take away Women's rights, that women should submit and serve men, that women should be property again, that it's men who should decide how many times his wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:36 AM
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I don't know how it is in the us. Does "women are inferior" count? Or "women should submit to men and do as they are told" count? Or "women shouldn't study because of their inferiority" count? What about "women don't have personalities, they don't really think" followed and liked by thousands of men? And what about "make women properties again"? And how many women lying about being raped are there compared to real rape cases? How about never ending chain of sexual assults? 21 studios was only an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:10 PM
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21 studios literally having hats with "make women property again" written on them. Wykop.pl for example - a polish site similar to reddit. Reddit red pill spaces. Red pill guru's like coach red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:35 PM
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I started becomimg a feminist when I discovered red pill spaces. Before I was just living my life. I never wanted to be traditionally feminine, I was never a conservative. But I also didn't care about feminism. But reading and watching red pill stuff showed me that nothing has changed in a way men see us, that men are still hateful towards us and don't really want us to be our own person. Many didn't even think we should have space for our interests. I saw tons of posts saying that the only inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:05 AM
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The first one obviously. I wouldn't want to be married to some piece of shit of a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:51 PM
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The west is the best place to live. And we live in the best times so far. It's gotten better in general, not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:52 AM
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I never felt resentment from older women, only support. I do feel resentment from older men, when I say I don't want to date them or when I succeed. Whole 21studios is one big festival of bitter men resenting and being jelous of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:43 PM
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Yes. I saw too many stories like this. First, men never saw women's role as equally important. When they want to offend us, they tell us to make them a sandwich, go back to the kitchen or call us dishwashers. Why would I want that? Also, being a sahm means never having time off. Weekends? She still needs to make food and take care of kids because it's her role, while husband can relax. Vacation? Holidays? Same thing. Also, no one considers the fact that a mother can have hobbies, some passions t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:47 PM
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Then he can by a dildo and fuck himself with it, nothing is stoping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:53 PM
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What? I ment it's liberating to not do painful or degrading things to avoid being called a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:39 AM
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I mean, it kinds is liberating, especially when you grow up in a culture where Men's sexual needs are priority and you are being told that you are a prude if you don't agree on anal or other degrading things. I will never do anal, I will never agree on pain or degradation. Do you know how many times I was shamed for that? Or heard that my man suffers because of it? Even here on reddit men said that I must be an awful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:52 AM
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Men's cheating is as bad. I don't care why he cheated, I don't care if he was in love or not. If he cheats he hurts me deeply and he knows it , and he shows me disrespect. He also gives me a sign that's he is ok with risking having a child with another woman, which is not acceptable. Of course women should leave men who are pieces of shit and destroy their families by cheating. Why would I stay with a trash of a man who cheats? Don't want to destroy your family? Don't cheat, it's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:00 AM
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No, many women aren't meak and submissive. Maybe one of many of my friends is "traditionally feminine". The rest is ambitious, outspoken, loud and so on. And we are from a Poland,a country that is seen as traditional by Americans, especially by redpillers (from what I saw on reddit and twitter).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:12 AM
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Well, I'm not meak, calm or nurturing by nature. Traditional femininity isn't natural to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:30 PM
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Dude, you can't honestly belive that 50 yo is better than 25 yo guy, especially for a relationship. He does look old and 50 is age when the decline has already started looong time ago. He will be 60 soon and is pretty close to death. And maybe there are young people who want to date much older, but objectively, 50 yo man is far from his prime. Younger people dating 50 years olds date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:23 PM
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I mean, they do. I look around, old men aged very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:24 PM
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