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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSingle women: please show me the specific words I need to write/say to you for you to want to go on a date with me. "You should write something authentic and original" doesn't cut it. All I need is one example of what I could say that would make you feel the feeling of wanting to go on a date with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is why: oh, oh, how many women have you asked out in the last year? None? Well, there you go, you're not even trying. Just keep at it, it's a numbers game. is stupid: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/15obvih/asked_out_a_woman_and_she_looked_horrified_while/ Yes, I could ask more women out, but since I already know they're going to reject me, all I'd really be doing is making them feel uncomfortable, and risk ostracizing myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Incel men who work: how are your interactions with female colleagues?I work great with them. I doubt any will end up as close friends, but I'm open to it. I can easily turn off the "trying to date her" thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Incels who have never been with a woman...That's because you didn't realize they were trolling you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I have to "condition myself" to be attracted to someone, it will never, ever be the same as someone I'm viscerally, intuitively attracted to. Well, not with a defeatist attitude like that. This is getting repetitive. I see no need to respond to the rest of your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust condition yourself to enjoy things that are taxing. Yes, really. It isn't too much different than learning how to get over a phobia, like fear of flying. Men in heterosexual relationships do not expect to be pegged. some do some don't know that they'd like it some consider it a "if we aren't doing this in the relationship, then I'll want to be with someone else who does want to do it with me" some men don't expect other kinds of sex What you're advocating for is some sort of en masse Stockh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's complicated, and a reddit comment is not a very good format for explaining how it to do it. In should it would be somewhat like therapy. There are books out there that go into a lot more detail. I'd suggest you read those if you want to know more. Also, can you honestly tell me what kind of explanation would satisfy you? Many people will never be satisfied, no matter how well something is explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadConditioning is conditioning, regardless of what you're conditioning yourself to. Don't be ridiculous, parenting is way more taxing. You can't compare that to learning to enjoy more out of life. If women can condition ourselves to be attracted to things we aren't, then so can men. I agree. Also, men have already done a lot of work on that stuff, so it makes sense for women to start doing their fair share of work too. They're the ones who would benefit the most, so it's a no-brainer decision. A m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMarGot RoBbiE Is MiD A few stupid people as the exception was assumed. "average woman" is a thin virgin 20 y/o woman Not at all, you can listen to them and often they'll say they just want someone comparable to them. On top of that, there's the OKCupid post where men rated female attractiveness on a more or less bell curve, and for women it was skewed. The study is a bit old these days, but I'd say it's still relevant. Same with all the fatshaming. If you are really desperate, don't spend that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSince attraction can be conditioned, and you can only condition yourself, just condition yourself to love being a parent. Being a parent isn't comparable to attraction to more men. It's far easier to condition yourself than it is to tell someone else to condition themselves Of course! I'm proposing that women be the ones to condition themselves. so it still makes more rational, logical sense to tell me to condition themselves to love single moms; old women; fat women; etc. No, it doesn't make ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are the ones unhappy about it, they should change. How are you defining "unhappy"? Maybe women don't want to publicly admit to being "unhappy," but it's pretty obvious that a lot of them are less than thrilled to be single for their whole life. Plus, I already gave meh guys a shot, they’re no better What if there was something you could do to change it so that you'll be head over heels for these guys, and that overall - considering the effort - it's worth it? That's what I'm proposing. Who w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat for? They're fine with being single, quite often it isn't their preferences, but just a lack of desire to include another person into their life. So that they'd have much more joy in their life. What if we could do something to increase their desire for another person, the kind of person they have available to them? They end up with a life filled with more joy, so what's not to love about that? When you're used to living on your own and you generally like your life, adjusting it for someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Who I am and how I present myself is fundamentally unattractive to women...and that's their fault!! What exactly are you trying to say? If you're already doing everything reasonably possible to maximize your attractiveness, then yes, that is a reasonable opinion. More to the point: it isn't about deciding who should be blamed. It's really about "okay, we have this problem, so what's the best way to fix it?" You're talking as if I'm suggesting we put some kind of extra burden on women. No, not a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOr we can condition men to find single moms attractive instead and kill two birds with one stone 🤷🏿 Ah, see, the thing is that men were already attractive enough to single mothers. Attraction was never the sticking point with the single mom issue. The problem was/is how having a child from a previous relationship creates serious lifestyle compatibility problems: the man would be ecstatic to be in a relationship with her if things like - e.g. putting her child before her partner - didn't practica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy don't you do that with men instead? Because men are already willing to be with a large range of different kinds of people. It's the women rejecting these men, not the other way around. If anything, we'd be helping out women more than men because, from the woman's perspective, she'll have a much easier time finding the man of her dreams. As it stands, the man of her dreams isn't available. By redefining what "man of my dreams" means to her - to correspond to the kinds of men who are available… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadand they stay single by their own volition. The idea is that she'd work on changing her preferences so that she'd get more out of dating so that she'll be more likely to choose to get into a relationship rather than remain single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFools errand to create a forum, a community where you're forcing everyone to have the exact same opinion. Oh no, he's not going to like it when he discovers r/PurplePillDebate, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNVyXjGPI9M&t=122s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat are you really expecting here? I could write a 500 page text book, but you wouldn't read it. I could write three paragraphs, but you'd find some irrelevant detail to nit pick. So, what do you want? If you want thorough you'll have to pay me. The most effective way to explain it would be for us to do it to you, but I doubt you'd be up for that. So, I'm sorry you aren't willing to do the work yourself. Maybe you should work on your entitlement, it's a very unattractive characteristic you seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadconditioning, it isn't that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe only solution is to modify the preferences of women so that they'll be attracted to average men. It can be done, but it takes work. Why should they? Because once they've done it suddenly they'll find that there are tons of very attractive - in the largest sense - men around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?Many did but it didn't change anything. That's why height is such a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I can't do this anymore.Is the problem the community, or is the problem your inability to satisfy one of the most important desires a person can have? Love and sex are a lot more important than a lot of people want to admit. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 12:24 AM |
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