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You’re an adult, you shouldn’t be mocking random people regardless. I don’t feel sorry for you. On the bright side, women are waking up and no longer seeing the cat lady story as a fuck up or caring as much about the mockery. Coming home to a clean house without some old dude nagging at you doesn’t seem so bad when you don’t have a man in your ear telling you what YOU want. I think it was brainwashing and projection the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:52 PM
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Don’t care, if they make fun of old women I will make fun of them. If you feel you’re screwed by nature you shouldn’t be throwing rocks from a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:09 PM
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Don’t blame you guys being delulu on blue pill. I don’t think I have a chance with a hot and rich celeb because I live in reality. I hate how you guys act like black pill is so mind opening when it’s literally just a basic understanding of the world with no nuance. Your personality matters. It isn’t going to get you a celeb out of your league. Some of you sound like delusional kpop fans that just learned they have no chance with their idol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:28 PM
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Exactly, women have more options. Women like both. Just not from you. If you actually went there for that, there wouldn’t be complaints about Western women’s attitudes, you’d literally just say there’s a better market. The hard truth is you want to go somewhere where your low salary is more impressive. Full stop. You’re surprised that I’m… talking about the topic? Let’s turn that thing in your head on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:07 PM
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Women who fall for the Nigerian prince scam when she’s say fat and old knowing a 22 yr old foreign kid likely wants something transactional get made fun of too. You’re not special. It’s embarrassing because someone has to literally be at their lowest point to like you. We aren’t talking about people who genuinely meet someone and falls in love. We’re talking about people who target poor countries because they’re more likely to tolerate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:37 PM
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I don’t deny that there are attractive old guys at all. But being attractive and old usually involves money and time to have procedures unless you’re genetically blessed. Not to mention the will to even care that much. Brad Pitt is still attractive, but he looks like a 40 yr old. Like you said, he’s an anomaly. Overall, I very much agree with you here. It’s possible, just unlikely.,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:35 PM
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Why did millennial women catch a random stray 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:17 PM
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You’re late. A lot of women don’t even want kids regardless. That’s an old people desire. It is 100% a win for women if they remove access. Just feel bad for the poor South Asian women being forced to deal with you lot because we won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:09 PM
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That’s oddly specific, do you have something you want to talk about :( three trucks is fryingggg me lmao. Just silly. Western women don’t pay a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:06 PM
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I wouldn’t do it for the same reason I’m saying men shouldn’t do it. I just use my brain to think instead of making dumb decisions that affect others. I could easily do the same lmao. Most women simply want to be with their kids, it’s not a matter of being unable to force someone into caring. Maybe your dad was not around, but mine took great care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:00 PM
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The most successful men are 1%. Most of you are not 1%. Your best shot is exploitation, which is disguising. You said nobody would reject him. I’m right here, and so are most women. I could get pregnant within the next month if I wanted to. You old farts have to travel across the world to find someone on bad luck you can take advantage of. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:55 PM
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I will likely be fertile until I’m 60, as every other woman in my family has been. I will NOT pop out a kid, that’s selfish considering I probably have 20 more years to live. You’re also not able to keep up with the kids because you’re OLD. You’re more likely to have serious health problems that your children have to watch you suffer through as well. There’s no pros to it over having kids before 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:52 PM
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You don’t want to engage with the truth. You exploit these women. When did I mention autism? I for one will 100% reject an old man and have already lmao. There’s a reason you have to go to other countries. No one who’s even remotely stable is willing to be with someone old on average, besides their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:47 PM
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It’s very relevant, because him being interested in his friend romantically can entirely cloud his view. He said that she views the guy as kind but he thinks the guy is a pos. Sometimes lying. His entire view hinges on her actually liking bad guys instead of the focus being on her cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:40 PM
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Also why the hell would anyone want to have a child past 45
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:36 PM
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Because they target women in bad situations who virtually have no choice LMAO. Exploiting poor women is not a flex, it’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:36 PM
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They make fun of it a lot. I’ve never seen a woman genuinely be upset at a man who was already undesirable finding love elsewhere. They get made fun of bcs they’re already doing something embarrassing and then want to talk shit about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:34 PM
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“Nuh uh”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:32 PM
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It seemed to me that she was talking about 60+ year olds. 40 isn’t that old, though 40 yr olds marrying 20 year olds are still low statistic probabilities. It is not common at all. 30 and 20 is much more realistic, though most people still marry within that 3 year age range. We weren’t really talking about problematic. 40 and 20 is weird though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:32 PM
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No one wants old seeds, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:21 PM
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Nobody wants your geriatric seed 😭 my mom is 56 and her doctor said she’s still fertile. She simply acts her age and isn’t trying to have anymore babies, something you all could learn from lmaoo. The thought of a 50+ yr old man even talking to me about having his kids sounds stupid. And also for the guy who replied to me asking who even makes fun of old women, exhibit A in record time!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:36 AM
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Translation: you’re biased when someone agrees with you lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:47 AM
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The craziest part of this statement is that YOU asserted that finances correlated with being able to leave freely 💀 not to mention I said nothing about being entitled to money regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:30 AM
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You asserted divorce is a deterrent(reasonable), so are we sure they are wanting these divorces? If they make most of the money on average they have that freedom already. The group of concern would be men in marriages where they make less and feel like they can’t leave a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:23 AM
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Let’s use our noggin! Was I saying you said nothing or commenting on the difference in how you addressed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:20 AM
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You ask really good questions- as a side note. But yeah, it does depend on what she means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:03 AM
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Like I said in another comment, this delusion is mostly online. Let’s not pretend like “the wall” wasn’t huge on the internet for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:01 AM
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I wonder if you realize within this claim lies the notion that financial freedom allows women to more freely leave men they don’t want to be with. I also wonder if you genuinely expect me to see that as a negative thing. I wish this freedom on all women. Everyone even. I can empathize with societal pressures, but this is a non issue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:59 AM
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Yeah, that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:52 AM
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I’m obviously referring to the dynamic itself, younger women with old men. Sometimes a woman can genuinely be attracted to an old man but that is not the norm by far. The average man does not have status, influence, or power. They’re middle class. You’re pointing at the 1% like that’s applicable to the gen pop. They are not desirable, sorry to break it to ya. If it’s a long running joke that you have to take one for the team and date an old rich man, why the hell would we want an average old man…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:45 AM
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This might be better under the debate tag tbh. I agree with you. Even though we’ve moved into two income families for the most part, society still expects the man to at least be the main breadwinner. So if that doesn’t happen sometimes they can become insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:38 AM
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I personally didn’t know this. So maybe they didn’t either. In real life men are definitely getting with women who find them attractive. I wonder if this is just a Reddit guy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:25 AM
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I promise you no one is losing sleep over a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:23 AM
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She’s not attracted to HIM. She’d usually much rather he croak and leave her an inheritance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:22 AM
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I just came from another post you were in and you were notttt this mad about the guy using anecdotes lol. She struck a nerve big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:19 AM
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According to other Redditors in this thread that’s not possible, all men know they can’t be desired truly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:18 AM
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It’s not actually a thing, statistics wise. Most people marry within a few years of their own age. Women do prefer older guys on average by a couple years but not OLD guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:15 AM
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Explain how it was bad faith outside of her just disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:13 AM
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Because these men will make fun of older women and literally say they are their most desirable at 40. When at the end of the day the woman was actually desired at one point at least and he apparently can only be desired for his pockets. That’s sadder than any “cat lady”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:11 AM
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What’s wrong with mixtape rappers? Bro can’t have a hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:55 AM
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You don’t know what you’re talking about. The dark triad thing is entertainment. When you boot up Netflix are you watching an action movie that shows the logistics guy that plays it safe at his job or some guy dodging bullets and jumping on top of moving cars? Do you want to actually try that? No, if you’re sane-it’s entertainment from a life that isn’t yours. An attractive guy from a bad background who overcomes it and shoots his mafia boss to protect you is just more interesting than you and D…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:52 AM
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Oh brother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:38 AM
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I’ve never seen a friend be this invested. They sound like me trying to get closure after my ex cheated LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:32 AM
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Because he said he’s date them if they were gay. Notoriously something people say when they have a crush on their straight friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:31 AM
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No she didn’t. I kinda thought it as well with how he was describing him and saying he’d be with him if they were gay. I didn’t say anything because I knew you guys were going to use the “ur calling people gay as an insult” line inappropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:30 AM
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Man finds out people get cheated on by bad people: 😱😱 No but seriously, you guys will go on about how looks are everything and personality doesn’t really matter, then when something else happens that sucks you pivot to it being a negative personality that’s attractive. This is why anecdotes are useless. It’s usually way more complicated the way things happen. This could all boil down to her being a bad person and self sabotaging because she had it too good. Or the guy could not be as bad as you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:52 PM
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I didn’t go on a bunch of dates tbh, I have a hard time talking to people so my criteria was if I was able to talk to them naturally and they seemed like a good person. I’m not good at non negotiables because I’m a people pleaser irl. I was also always scared because I felt like the people I could talk to naturally was limited so making rules outside of textbook stuff would push them away and I’d end up alone(ironic). I’ll try reading some of that stuff though. I do work on myself (as a side not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:44 AM
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I gave up already. It’s because of the three reasons I put above, it makes me undatable. People like me a lot when they first meet me, it’s when they know me more. Complaints have been that I sleep too much(I have a condition), never want to be around them(social situations are too taxing and I don’t understand how to talk to people unless there’s a prompt), I’m scared to do anything really like holding hands bcs I think I’ll make a mistake, I have bpd which is self explanatory, etc. when I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:17 AM
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You literally ignored his entire first point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:25 PM
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Well at least it’s not just me then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:49 AM
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Bullshit. I’ve never met a guy that accepted me being autistic, mentally ill, and chronically ill enough to form an actual relationship. I’ll say it’s not as bad as my male counterparts because people can be attracted and interested in me, but when they get to know me it never lasts. I’ve always been alone with random spurts of someone being interested and giving up. I’m not mad at anyone for considering it too much, but there is more to being alone than being too ugly to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:56 PM
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You’re going to ask them to go 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:56 AM
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Oh, woe is me. Poor little guy being bullied by the bad women when he did nothing :( No, but seriously, most of it is because of people like you who make posts like this and then hide your hands. You’re getting shit talked because you talk shit, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:15 AM
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How do you explain the level of male sadness and anger in a system literally based around productivity then? Shouldn’t they be happier than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:30 PM
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Better for your boss? Sure. That is not a proper outlet, as evident. I’d argue it makes the problem worse because you put the state of your mental health into how productive you are. I’ve seen this time and time again. We need to let men know that they are not only valued if they can produce something and actually follow through with actions that prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:08 PM
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For the second part, I’ve accepted that’s life and I simply cannot be myself or say what’s on my mind because I will be punished if it goes past a certain extent. Maybe unpopular opinion, but it is like a little game where you start off with certain attributes. I can’t look at what an 8 gets away with it apply it to myself. And sometimes even an 8 wouldn’t get away with saying some of the things I’m thinking. It’s not fair at all, but you have to put on the mask and deal with it tbh. I’ve notice…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:54 PM
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I’m autistic and I’ve had this convo with an autistic guy because he didn’t understand where he was going wrong. Some guys will say insane stuff and then wonder why people don’t want to be around. I do the same, but most of it was ground out of me as a teen. I don’t know if guys don’t go through that or they just refuse to comply? I still have moments where it shows I’m wearing a mask, but people look over it because they know I’m trying. Social skills are being able to avoid saying things that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:10 PM
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Why do you guys act like bp is some magically place no one knows about? I for one never said women don’t want rich guys who look good etc. that’s common sense. Just like your dream girl probably has a nice body. That doesn’t mean that’s all you’re open to. It’s fantasy. And you’re not being 100% truthful. In many of these books the guy isn’t mean to her, he treats her like a special baby and is hateful to everyone else. Or someone she loves betrays her and he swoops in. That’s why I could never …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:00 PM
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“People like you” I’m sorry, do you know me? Have you attempted to give me a source? Didn’t think so. I have accepted sources before obviously and changed my stance/yielded if the evidence supports something else. The issue with a lot of people is thinking you have to accept ANY source bcs it’s a source. No. I will read it and verify it says what you are arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:49 PM
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What was the thought process of going through and finding other comments to reply to? Genuinely. But anyways, what you quoted actually isn’t fact and I’ll obviously say so unlike others cough cough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:12 AM
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You cannot be this mad, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:09 AM
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I’ll tell you what, I link the thread so you can come to your own conclusion if you link the threads I asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:07 AM
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So now you have to explain why some anecdotes are acceptable and others aren’t. There is bias against everyone as humans are doing the studies, that’s the whole point of doing complete research. If the bias is extreme, that should be easy to point out and have a source dismissed in argument. I’m at work, I literally cannot reread over everything I send. Incel does not mean villain. You guys aren’t the only ones who pay into taxes either. It has nothing to do with my worldview, you were hypocriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:06 AM
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I purposely said that because I know it doesn’t hold up. What I left out is the fact that I have two friends and sisters who were raised like me, so that is obviously a poor sample. When someone brings up an anecdote, you have no way of accounting for people leaving vital information out or flat out lying. I disagree, women accept the brunt of accountability through social and financial consequence from what I’ve seen. I understand it, and agree that women have an easier time dating. I asked my …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:59 AM
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What groups? Any org to help women? I didn’t mock your friend. I even tried not to comment on the situation much out of respect. Damned if you do or don’t. That’s the thing, I fully accept that my experiences may be a small bit of the bigger picture. So while I feel pushed to largely dislike men as a collective, I could be entirely wrong in the grand scheme. For example, what if my location is effecting my view? See how you automatically take his side with no background? That’s what thinking wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:43 AM
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You’re good bro. The sources part was just part of the debate and had no ill will, the only part I meant to be rude was in response to the mad thing but we are good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:33 AM
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I know about incels, and from what I’ve gathered once you get to know them a lot of it is self inflicted or has something to do with autism. One of my good friends is an incel as well, we’ve had literal fallouts because of the things he’s co-signed on .org or putting me in group chats knowing his friends would say horrible things. Incels aren’t some group that hasn’t been contacted by society. You’re bad faithed because you routinely say I said things I didn’t because it proves your point. Are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:31 AM
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Hostile environment?? My brother in Christ what is hostile here. They shouldn’t give af about men, they should be caring about the population as a whole. There are 0 stakes. I’m literally writing this stuff without spellchecking in between reading documents. It’s not that serious. You can honestly just stop here if you’re that serious, I actually think I align with misandry so you’re wasting your time. I have the opposing view though anecdotal evidence of how men are but I doing argue those poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:22 AM
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You 100% do referee. Remember when I said I don’t know any promiscuous women and you called me a liar indirectly? It’s not about what you find sufficient. People will continue to ask for sources on these things and you can either suck it up and ignore or pony up. My lived experience (though actually true) was a test to see how fast you would desert your anecdote argument. You failed. The point of a study isn’t usually to humanize anyone in a feel good way. It’s for results. The wage gap is real,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 AM
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The only reason I’m even saying anything to you is because YOU sent “hoes mad” to me. I think I told you that you needed sources and left it at that before. I have way less sex than you most likely because I’m autistic and I haven’t went crazy. That’s why I don’t understand men who say they act out because of isolation. Sure I can get a partner theoretically whenever, but I have no real success because of autism and mental illnesses. You don’t see me making posts antagonizing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:05 AM
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It follows logically. You cannot make a claim like that about a broad group and expect people to take it at face value. If you don’t understand why trust me bro doesn’t work for a survey of half the population, you’re a lost cause. You are very bad faithed, don’t delude yourself. I trust my eyes in regards to personal experiences, I do not extend that observation to whole populations. Probably because you jumped from simply stating something you observed to making broader claim. No. I’m talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:59 AM
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That would still have nothing to do with this conversation. Lowkey yeah, after I actually read the post itself that’s not a good example. But you have other issues, like thinking going 10 months without sex is a long time. Also you’re one to talk about something being unscientific lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:48 AM
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Me being black wouldn’t really have anything to do with the conversation. It wouldn’t make sense rather than being below the belt. It makes sense for this to be brought up because there’s likely a larger issue at play here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:29 AM
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You’re being bad faithed once again. Why would you need a study for that? There is no claim other than what happened. More anecdotes with no claim attached, no need for proof. Not sure why you’re telling me who you dated. I already said it exists multiple times. You’re just ignoring it to the point that it’s funny. Like actually. I’ve noticed some patterns that you won’t like. What happens when we both “notice” opposing things? You’re the one who said you had shit to do, not me. All you’re going…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:27 AM
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I saw the post about your scars situation, you’re literally mad and ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:20 AM
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Where did I claim to be a victim? I’d love to see it. We’ve already been over this, no one cares what you take seriously. They have to respect you enough for that. But regardless, testimonies have their place. It’s simply not applicable here. What’s obscene is you making up shit and then arguing it. Anecdotes can be used as evidence, but this is not a case where that is appropriate. Point blank. You’re about to bring up another anecdote that you’re gonna get pissy about when I ask for more infor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:19 AM
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You just have to trust me bro, it’s my lived experience. Why are you denying it? I LITERALLY SAID SHE WAS PROMISCUOUS. I’m going to assuming you are just skimming and getting mad lmaooo. ​ https://preview.redd.it/clfe5exjxx9h1.jpeg?width=432&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5679594bf50e8702fa22318f921962604ce87875
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:12 AM
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I meant to post that to someone else but you have NO room to call anyone else mad lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:11 AM
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I don’t have to prove anything to you, it’s my anecdotal experience. We’ve already established that’s the best source of information and I don’t need anything else, I’m GOOD bro. Why would I need to provide a source for a claim I never made? You’re doing anything to get out of researching lmaooo. There it is again. Over exaggerating like a mf lmao. You can’t control it. The crazy part is you said you had shit to do but yet you’re still here. Let’s get to work and get off Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:10 AM
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You just have to trust me bro, it’s my lived experience. Why are you denying it? I LITERALLY SAID SHE WAS PROMISCUOUS. I’m going to assuming you are just skimming and getting mad lmaooo. https://preview.redd.it/p0o9tuq5wx9h1.jpeg?width=432&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5e6f5c7829d0facd8f54952ada57acb4aa044790
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:04 AM
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Why did you quote me with the clown emoji at the end? I genuinely don’t get what you’re mocking there. Opinions don’t need studies, especially if it’s framed as a personal experience only. Ergo me seeing OP should reframe if he doesn’t want people asking for sources. The conclusion from this is you don’t like her and think she’s promiscuous. She did sex work publicly. There are no broad claims that need verifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:46 AM
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Because it’s absurd. It’s like me saying some guy said 6000 cals actually helps you lose weight. You have no reason to believe someone would say something like that. You’re literally over exaggerating what’s been asked of you. I’ve notice you do that. Another reason I believe you’re overstating. I literally just asked you to link the threads. You’re literally skipping over me saying you need to vet your sources for whatever reason. And you shouldn’t just depend on what someone else concluded, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:42 AM
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Lowkey this is actually interesting. But anyways, I think I need to specify what I meant. I don’t doubt that people CAN be bought out. Like I said, you have to vet your sources for that. I’m questioning rather the debates actually went the way you’re saying they did and if anyone is citing something that legitimately says smoking doesn’t have negative effects with a straight face. That seems far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:30 AM
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You told me that sources mean nothing to you, I’m just letting you know you don’t have to waste your time telling me that. I quite literally said earlier that any study can be faulty, and it is your job to fully read and verify. Stop with the victim complex. I have come across studies I wanted to use in arguments and found them unsatisfactory by the time I fully vetted them. That is a part of research. I’m not disagreeing on a bias for circumcision(it’s the one thing I actually agree with so far…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:23 AM
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Orrr if you make bold claims like that you need to be able to back them. It’s like me saying every guy has had at least 10 partners bcs every guy I know in real life has. I wouldn’t make that claim, and if I did I would research it first to see if there’s an average that supports my argument at least. Else I fall into a loop where men are regularly saying they have less than 10 partners and having to debate whose experience is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:01 AM
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I don’t have to, you said my anecdotal evidence is enough. I disagree and had another experience so you’re wrong. Nothing else needed! That’s actually pretty easy, I should’ve started doing this a while ago! Dm me the evidence for the smoking and aids arguments you had. I think you’re probably overstating some part of the situation. Mia Khalifa is one person, idk if you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:55 AM
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/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:39 AM
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No one cares about what anything means to you, that’s the thing. I don’t respect people with this mind frame in the first place. You just want a way to spout bullshit without having to do research or admit that there’s no way to know it’s true. Funding =\= bias in all cases by the way. There’s a study going around that alludes to prayer being useless. Guess who funded it? A religious organization. Link the threads for the aids and smoking arguments, I’d like to see if that’s what they actually s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:39 AM
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"Hey man I think smoking is bad for you, my grandfather, uncle, and father all died coughing up blood. " Vs "What are you, a moronic bigot? Look at these studies, even the surgeon general says its good for you." This is a perfect example of how bad faithed you are LMAO. A study can be biased. That is not your get out of jail free card to use your anecdotal evidence as proof. That bs argument won’t work here. I’ve had a person bring a peer reviewed article where the author made a conclusion that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:28 AM
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You cannot be a real human being
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:19 AM
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You guys = red pill holyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:59 AM
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No, they say that they have issues expressing emotions in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:08 AM
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Use your context clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:05 AM
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Why are you adding 30 when OP is talking about 20s? Is it because you know she’s right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:58 PM
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You don’t need a Harvard degree to do research bud. Or you at the very least need to reframe your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:55 PM
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Thats the point? Do you actually not know why having a large pool of data vs “trust your eyes” is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:53 PM
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There is evidence out there for gender arguments. You guys just make claims you can’t back up and frame them as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:51 PM
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No it doesn’t. You guys just refuse any evidence that is contrary to your beliefs. I’ve seen a red pill guy here claim a study HE brought was biased because I read it and it concluded the opposite of what he thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:49 PM
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I don’t think women are having anymore casual sex than men their age. Where are you getting that from? And also, where are you getting this from? “but often react strongly and volatile when rejected.” Most women I’ve seen take rejection on the chin and assume the guy is just out of their league. I’ve been rejected before and I was sad for like an hour then switched to “it is what it is.” Never had an aggressive reaction. You guys do that and I don’t understand what you gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:47 PM
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I could tell you lost the plot, LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:17 AM
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You’re the only delusional one here. The whole point is debates, OP posted this question so that he can understand another pov and debate. Anyone can comment under any comment to debate. That does not change the fact that most of the initial comments will be about WHAT OP ASKED. How is this a hard concept? Going back to the religious analogy, most of their answers would be Christian but anyone can debate that answer if it’s on a platform like this. You’re trying to redirect the convo to a “hive …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:24 PM
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Big roundabout way to say “nuh uh, you” lmao. Say that is the case, and I wanted to see a circle jerk. I would be well within my rights because that’s what the question basically ASKED. You’re triggered by it because apparently you’ve already seen the answer when op is having his debates to the question HE asked. Ask your own question if the question and answers are unsatisfactory to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:53 PM
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Actually, fair when I read it in context with your other reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:52 PM
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You find “they don’t see the value in it” more interesting than someone going into why they don’t see the value? Lol. Bad analogy. If you asked what’s the best religion according to this church and got the same answer of say, “Christian” you’d be dumb to go “why am I not getting a different answer?? Where are the challengers??” Same logic applies here. OP is specifically asking women who don’t want kids why they don’t want them. What’s there to challenge? You can’t ask a group why they personall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:50 PM
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It’s in the context of why SHE doesn’t have kids. It not being inherent to motherhood is irrelevant if this is the situations many find themselves in anyway. She can skip the lottery bs and having people be condescending about choosing better if she sticks to her gut and forgoes kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:41 PM
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Intent doesn’t matter, responses like these ensure people will rarely give real answers. That’s why your post seems bad faithed to me, but you probably legit don’t know. Women do not say it out loud because saying you regret having kids is heavily frowned upon, but they may hint at it or actually tell you in private. Like I said in my own response, part of the reason I don’t want kids is because I saw my mom almost k herself from the pressure as well as ruining her body. But if YOU ask her, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:35 PM
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Doesn’t Elon have like 20 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:29 PM
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You don’t find it ironic that the only answer you value is from someone else’s perspective? And that if the answer is always the same, maybe the answer is obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:29 PM
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She can skip all of this by not having any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:26 PM
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This is why people don’t want to answer these questions and be real irl- you guys shame them for honest answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:25 PM
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I’m not taking a chance at ending up a single mother or having to work and do child care. I’ve seen women crying in their car because they’re just expected to make it happen-I refuse to even chance it. Even with my mom, she def loves us but we wrecked her body and she had a horrible time financially. I know her life would’ve been better without us even if she loves us now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:24 PM
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????? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:36 AM
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“They don’t mean what they said cause then my fee fees will be hurt and I’ll have to admit I didn’t read the study”. And btw, if I create a graph to show the difference in an iq of 100 to 101 I can make 100.5 look like a huge jump until you realize it’s a .5 difference LMAO. Just like idkkkk the study you linked said. Almost like they knew some of you would create graphs out of context so that data can be misrepresented for anyone who didn’t read the study. Even on said graphs if you look at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:09 PM
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You are literally disagreeing with the conclusion of a scientific study YOU linked, LOL you are really a specimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:52 PM
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Thanks! Did you read it? I did, lol. “We would caution against adopting such a dramatic interpretation of the pervasive gender differences in personality that we report in this study. All of the mean differences we found (and all of the differences that have been found in the past – e.g., Feingold, 1994; Costa et al., 2001) are small to moderate. This means that the distributions of traits for men and women are largely overlapping.” It was about a .30 difference LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:12 PM
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Nice, provide the studies! Self reports and particularly the neuroticism, very interested to see. If you don’t respond within two days I’ll assume you lied and regularly pull stuff out of your ass. Scientific evidence, not random articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:44 PM
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What did that add to your point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:57 AM
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“Let’s be honest what I want to be true is true”, great argument LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:57 AM
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Use your noggin, I’m obviously talking about them fully doing all of the housework. Bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:15 PM
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-someone with 0 experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:13 PM
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It’s literally just a luck game like with any personality type. Spray and pray method?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:28 PM
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The femcel one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:27 PM
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This is why you get zero play lmaoo, cornball <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:01 PM
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Read his recent comments, he admitted that the wives get home at 4 and start helping. So his point in replying to you disagreeing was to waste time and play around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:57 PM
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LOL, do try to sneak past the wives helping part lmao. Bingooo, exactly what she said. SAHD hardly ever do everything truly by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:56 PM
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Organization means jack shit when there are things that have to be done at a certain time or when kids make messes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:54 PM
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He proved your point without realizing it LOL. Done at 11am is insane .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:35 PM
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Done at 11 am? Either they’re lying to you or bad at being sahd like the other person said. Kids routinely make messes throughout the day that can only be stopped by borderline punishing them for being kids. And you’re cooking dinner everyday at 11am? What happened to a hot and fresh meal? Bathing the kids and putting them to bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:34 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with this mindset as long as you aren’t forcing it on someone. If they agree I personally think it’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:29 PM
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Why ask us? Most of us disagree with this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:27 PM
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Why would we need to? We up, rip bozo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:22 PM
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This would make sense if bluepill men didn’t say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:16 PM
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Hook and line LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:15 AM
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Guarantee it wasn’t “hate all white people with me 😡😡” it was likely a fundamental mismatch in morals or values. Which is exactly why you won’t give the actual example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:15 AM
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The politics thing may be stupid to you, but good thing it’s not your choice? Even when being friends with these types, they refuse to change their view (their right) or stop bringing it up, but how is it not my right to not want to be around you? Are you owed companionship? As long as they’re not witch hunting you there should be no issue. Also, when people say the “just want the bare minimum” it’s just a phrase expressing that they’re having a hard time finding guys that fit that. No shit no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:13 AM
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I literally don’t care what kind of relationships people seek out, as long as they don’t shame people for not fitting into that box or take out not being able to find that dynamic on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:39 AM
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If I’m in the hospital for the flu and the nurse goes, “you have the flu, BUT there’s a 98% survival rate” when no one had mentioned anything about passing I’d be like “…okay” LOL. Thanks for that analogy actually, that’s a great way to see how adding the disclaimer works as a reassurance statement for yourself. You THINK someone could look at the stats and come to a conclusion you don’t like so you address that possibility without prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:24 PM
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You acknowledge it but quickly put a disclaimer after to clean up pr. Nobody has said anything about how severe the issue is, but you’re already arguing it’s not as bad as we think. That’s because you’re uncomfortable with the stat on its own. So we come full circle, stats can be uncomfortable for anyone- including you. Just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:13 PM
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“Male violence statistics are real but significantly overstated relative to actual encounter risk.” Everything after the “but” is you trying to make yourself more comfortable with uncomfortable statistics. This might be the funniest interaction I’ve had on here today lol, you really don’t see how ironic this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:05 PM
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You just did it in your post by downplaying violence stats because it doesn’t make you feel good, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:53 PM
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Sigh. This is kinda a dead horse and an excuse to put men’s bad behavior on women. As someone who goes for the boring guy, they almost always switch up once they have you comfortable. At least girls who date exciting guys can expect shady stuff to happen, for boring guys it’s always left field and devastating as fuck when the mask slips. Wouldn’t wish the heartbreak of wondering where tf your partner went and who this guy is on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:57 AM
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1000% They are always getting mad at women for lying but when they tell the truth they throw a fit. She’s either lying to make herself seem like a good person or “proving their point” if she’s truthful. But when they are truthful they expect everyone to swallow it. It’s my stance that we all start being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:44 AM
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Maybe I’m reading your screenshot wrong? When I click that link it takes me to a blank page
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:39 AM
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Even though this isn’t what I asked for, you do realize that this proves women are convicted for rape at higher rates right….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:37 AM
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The cases are hard to prove in general and men under report. I’d also be interested in knowing if you have stats on conviction rates for male vs women in these specific cases or if you’re just saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:27 AM
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You never brought up situations when both are extremely drunk… In my personal opinion neither party or both are victims. I’m specifically talking about situations when on person is taken advantage of. I’d also like to know how many people have been jailed when both were drunk? I’ve never actually seen it outside of TV. I’ll look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:28 AM
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That’s besides the point. Women will date the dudes they find ugly via the same study he’s taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:04 AM
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But there’s also a defense and offense layer to it. First time(probably controversial), I think it can be an honest mistake. If you are repeatedly forcing yourself on people while being blacked out you deserve prison time. On the other hand, you could literally just leave the blacked out person alone in a defense situation and nothing would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:52 AM
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Well obviously, but people act like they don’t understand that when it comes to parties and drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:51 AM
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You can tell when someone is drunk out of their mind. Unconscious, fading in and out of consciousness, not able to form a sentence, constantly saying random things that don’t make sense. Someone can say before they get drunk(usually to their partner) that they consent beforehand. But if you’re at a random party and the person isn’t making sense and falling all over the place you 100% know better unless you’re in that state too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:47 AM
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Probably a mix. If men aren’t reporting it, there’s no way society can know it’s a huge issue as well. Most of these movements come from victims speaking out and facing the shame that comes with ppl blaming them. If this happens to male at high rates and they aren’t saying anything the group of us who think you can’t consent would absolutely support a male speaker. The people who are unlikely to support are not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:56 AM
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This isn’t a gender issue. If someone is black out drunk they cannot consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:53 AM
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It’s called the spray and pray method because you guys don’t get many matches. Surely you’re not using that as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:01 AM
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If you’re citing that 2009 study, you need to read it first. Women consider more men below average, but when it came down to matching they were more willing to date those same men. At them same time, men rate on a bell curve but 2/3 of those men go after the top 1/3 of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:00 AM
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100%. They will get mad that you have a bare minimum but consider their bare minimums intuitive so it didn’t count. They can make fun of women all day but if you say you don’t want an ugly guy you’re “proving their point” that you never disagreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:42 PM
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I didn’t say anything about feminist. This is an issue of risk vs reward assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:54 AM
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I didn’t say anything about feminist. This is an issue of risk vs reward assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:53 AM
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This is just cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:44 AM
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Sounds like a good solution for both parties then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:42 AM
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Eh. I think if people are saying it’s because they aren’t being catered to I’d think they mean that. I have no doubt that there are women who genuinely don’t care about it as well, but a lot/most is a big step. As someone who absolutely cares about it there is for sure an aspect of the gap that’s simply men deciding everything is done when they’re finished.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:36 AM
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What do you mean what can we do? What many are already doing and giving up on sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:31 AM
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No luck needed! You specifically took out the part where I was laughing. You’re so mad lmaoooo Shaming = acknowledging what op said is true but you getting personally upset because a stranger doesn’t think it’s important. That’s simply the answer to OPs question. I’m telling him that a lot of us know it real and see it as a non issue. He wouldn’t have posted it if he didn’t want realistic answers. Max sensitivity on someone else’s behalf. Also smarty pants, if you don’t put a flair you get an al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:58 AM
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“Don’t want to acknowledge it” MF CLOSE YOUR SCRIPT AND RESPOND LIKE A HUMAN BEING 😭 my first post was acknowledging. You’re upsety because I don’t care that it exists. I entirely depends. If someone mentions ICE or something, that has a tangible affect on someone and you’re debating something serious. You not being able to get girls is a non issue. I don’t care about “fixing” it. I’m answering OPs question so he isn’t mistaken and think there’s like some bird box blindfold he needs to remove fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:53 AM
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There’s another half to that you’re missing. The phrase means to intentionally avoid something bcs you’re afraid to acknowledge it. I just don’t care because it’s not important. Saying someone has their head in the sand bcs they don’t care about something YOU specifically care about is self absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:17 AM
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I could be alone for the rest of my life and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:30 PM
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No I wouldn’t. And even if I did, it’d just be based off of emotion. We aren’t owed partners either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:20 PM
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“Putting your head in the sand”, you’re just following a script at this point. I literally said it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:16 PM
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I think it exists but at the same time I don’t care or think it’s serious. No one is owed a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:12 AM
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