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It's just the free market value of men and women. Men have no standards which leads to many of these issues. Hypergamy is a real thing too. Many women only date men who are more successful. As women start to make more money their pool will only shrink further. I envision a future where the majority of the women are sharing the same couple guys. Most guys are going to be stuck being single forever because they won't be able to provide anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:18 PM
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I've seen some female profiles of objectively below average women and they have numerous options to choose from. Yeah probably isn't the 6'4" CEO Chad, but still plenty of good options. My buddy is extremely good looking and he'll hook up with pretty ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:13 PM
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With the advent of online dating and numerous options, even the ugliest of women have access to men way out of their league. Why would a woman settle for a guy in her league? I feel most women would rather sleep around with the same couple of guys than settle. Many men give up because they don't want to settle for a woman way below their standards let alone a woman who they actually find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:28 PM
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That's only part of the story. There are also significantly more men on those apps so even those women at the bottom are still getting plenty of likes. You can go to the hinge sub and see male profiles from very successful attractive men struggling. You'll then see an average overweight woman with numerous likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:23 PM
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So what we have is now the original scenario where dating is difficult as it should be. Dating will always be difficult because men and women will always want the top 10% of options. If it's easy that means average guys are easily getting with the top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:12 PM
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Yes, but the women who are more attractive will be even harder to get because everything just got easier. Those average guys would obviously be the only ones to benefit off of this. There would also be no point in working on yourself if everything became easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:57 PM
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Depends on the culture. In some European countries they always split because the women are a little more independent over there. That's your assumption. Times have changed. How long are we going to live in the past? Women are starting to surpass men income wise. Are you going to leech off men for the rest of your life? Also, the assumption was that if a man pays for an expensive date, you should be putting out afterwards... Thankfully things change but only to suit women like yourself. That's fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:13 PM
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I disagree. Ive found no correlation between maturity and age. Many of these single older women in their 30s and 40s are extremely immature and not the brightest. Tons of trauma and baggage. There's a reason they're still single lol. It's the leftover scraps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:57 PM
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I agree, if a woman is screaming that she wants the bill split, she's not interested. A true independent woman would be glad to pay if she's interested. Paying for 1 meal isnt a big deal. A broke lazy woman who can't even pay for 1 meal isn't a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:56 PM
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If men have to pay for everything, what's the point in dating older women at all? If I'm forced to pay, I'll just use my money and get with a hotter younger woman. I'm certainly not going to pay for a date for an old woman who is far less attractive, has tons of baggage, and makes me wait for mediocre sex. The only benefit to dating an old woman is the fact that they might be more independent and can pull their weight. If I'm obligated to pay id rather just become a sugar daddy to be honest or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:54 PM
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Why is it on him to say he wants to split the bill? You should be the one saying you want him to pay before the date. If the guy wants to split the bill after the date, are you going to scream and have a tantrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:51 PM
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You literally have a post of you pursuing a 40 year old man lmfao. When I'm 40 and if I'm still single, I sure as hell won't be pursuing any woman who is in her 40s. Worked too hard in life to be dating those old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:43 PM
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No I go after attractive women who happen to be younger. Older women aren't attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:07 PM
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No kidding. Its why I'd date 20+ year olds. Thankfully I have that luxury as a man. The biggest piece of motivation in my life was when I turned on the filter to 32+ on those dating apps. When I saw those options, I knew I had to fix my life or id be screwed. Scared the shit out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:03 AM
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I think that's terrible, but I think women lying to get into a relationship is far worse. I was with my GF for years and she lied about her body count. I found out about it later on and had to dump her. She essentially wasted years from my life by doing that. I had no regrets dumping but she was absolutely devastated because everything was going well otherwise. I am still mad about it and just ghosted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:57 AM
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The problem is, many men gain success in dating when they are in their 30s but then they are trapped into a relationship by some old woman who makes their life miserable. Men need to realize that success will come with time and to not settle for the first woman who comes crawling over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:50 AM
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This presents a very obvious dilemma. If dating were easy, then every guy would be supposedly finding a partner which would mean that there would be less options out there. All of sudden it's now hard to find a woman because they are all taken. I personally don't mind dating being difficult. Id much rather pursue a younger hotter woman in her 20s than settle for some old 30+ woman. Dating for women is easy because most men don't have any standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:49 AM
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It's so comical when women whine and complain about older men dating younger women. Or men rejecting high N count women. The quality of women who are in their 30-40s is abysmal. No way would I want to date them. If you're a guy in your 40s, don't feel bad for dating 20+ year old women. I have no problems with women dating tall, handsome, or rich men. These women shouldnt scream when men are shallow to and want hotter younger and low N count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:40 AM
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Id have to say there's some truth to this. I knew one guy who was sleeping with like 6 different women from a somewhat close social circle lol. Dating apps also confirm this. The bulk of the likes go to a few men. Even very attractive guys don't get any likes. My only friend who was successful on the apps was insanely attractive and he'd sleep with multiple women every week. Of course these women would have their egos inflated while also claiming men only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:37 AM
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That's ok, I just hope these women own up to their past and not lie about it so they can get into a relationship. The entitlement of some people is astounding. Men do this too where they feel entitled to date certain women based on attractiveness for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:23 PM
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You're not obligated to continue making mistakes and it's good she's changing. With that being said, im still entitled to not want to date a woman with a past like that. Of course I probably won't be able to find out but I have to use my best judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:14 PM
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You're definitely correct about that. Id much rather meet a woman who is compatible and grow/learn sex over time. Many guys don't think long term. They just want sex regardless but don't want to invest. I will say though that it's bizarre a woman makes a guy wait for sex yet she has slept with tons of other guys no questions asked. I don't take those women seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:30 PM
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You're correct, many of these men lack self esteem and they treat sex like an activity they enjoy. There's nothing wrong with that necessarily but they aren't going to be capable of being in a solid relationship. My buddies who have a ton of partners are constantly in and out of relationships, cheating, and are generally bad partners. And no, people don't change. The past heavily influences the future. People don't suddenly go from being numb with sex and unable to have intimacy to suddenly bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:38 PM
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Yes they are equally damaged. Like I said before though, men have to be successful to be able to get laid whereas women do not. All men who are getting laid are desirable. Even the ugliest of women can get laid whenever they want, so it provides no benefit except psychological damage. Many women don't care if a guy has slept with 1000s of women. Actually the opposite is true. Women value a man who can get with plenty of women. I'm saying if I'm older and can't find anyone I find suitable for a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:14 PM
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No one should cheat on anyone but high bodycount women are more likely to cheat and are incapable of forming a solid relationship unfortunately. I'm sure some can change but most are damaged. It's not just what society thinks on this subject. Those women are damaged psychologically. They aren't bad people, they just aren't meant for long term relationships unfortunately. Same applies to men. I don't think women who sleep around are bad people and I don't hate them. I just want to avoid them at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:56 PM
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As a woman, it's hard for you to understand how men think. I have dumped partners who would be considered perfect for this exact reason. I just don't date high bodycount women. It's not harming anyone. And yes, if it came down to it, I'd rather pay for escorts than settle for a woman who has slept around. I don't think women realize how costly a divorce is for men, how devastating being cheated on is, and those women are numb to intimacy and aren't capable of enjoying it as much anymore. I'll pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:42 PM
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There is unfortunately some truth to those sexist things those social media accounts publish. Many guys can relate to it and it's not like it's just made up stuff. It's only going to keep growing and I personally think some of it is actually good information. Obviously some is blatantly false too though. I am not seeking a virgin and I don't sleep around myself yet if I don't want a woman who has, I'm a bad person. Even if I did sleep around a lot, I still wouldn't want a woman who has. I've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:11 PM
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It's really not though. Id much prefer pay for an escort than live with some woman I can't tolerate. Most men feel the need to get into a relationship with someone they dislike because they are desperate. There's a reason why there are so many divorces. Most couples don't like each other. I see where you're coming from with your analogy, but the more women I interact with, the worse it gets especially these loud obnoxious feminist women. For full disclosure I actually support equal pay for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:55 PM
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I'm 30. I thankfully have a good career path and plenty of hobbies. Id be content paying for escorts rather than settling when it comes to dating things didn't go well. My life is actually going really well. I just have a low opinion of most women. It makes dating hard because of that. I have encountered a few really good women but it's rare. I think I've just had so many bad encounters with them that I'm a little cautious. Also, ive found most women drag my life down and make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:33 PM
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No, the older you are, less of a catch you are apart from some less common examples. And yes, I'm not the best person, never claimed that. I am a little misogynistic too but am working on fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:19 PM
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Dating is pretty hard for a woman if you're single in your 30s. Those single 40+ year old men aren't exactly catches lol. If you're a guy who put in the bare minimum to take care of yourself, you'll have a far easier time. And I'm sorry to keep saying it but I worked hard in life and am proud of it. I remember switching my filters a long time ago on the dating app to 32+ and it scared the shit out of me. I realized if I didn't fix my life, this is what I'd be stuck with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:08 PM
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Most of the more desirable women are taken in their 30s, that's no surprise hence why I date women in their 20s. When I'm in my 40s I'll probably find those women in their 30s a little better although I'd still try to date those in their late 20s. Dating isn't hard if you lower your standards enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:55 PM
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This is certainly a good one. There's really no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:35 PM
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This is a good reminder to not have children with a broke woman or one who wants a 'provider' which is code word for wanting to sit at home because they're too lazy to work or not smart enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:56 PM
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Males generally are warmer but a lot of these modern american females have thick layers of blubber that keeps them warm in even the most frigid temperatures
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:52 PM
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I'm attractive enough to not have to settle for some old blown out cellulite riddled wrinkly old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:46 AM
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Hey I don't mind at all what people's preferences are. I'm just staying my opinion. Most older.women are used up, wrinkly, and have too much baggage. PS I am tall and successful myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:46 AM
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Every woman has a price and can be easily bought. I could easily go out and use my money to get a girl. Women will drop to their knees and do whatever you want for enough money. They are queens slaying and getting their money!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:31 PM
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The difference is that women hate paying for their own stuff. Why pay when you can leech off a man? I see so many women whining that they want a provider. A man literally has no benefit to dating a woman beyond mediocre sex. He can't even get a free meal or a planned date. At the very worst,.women can at least have that. If men didn't have a sex drive, there would be 0 point in dating the vast majority of women. There's a reason why lesbians are constantly complaining about how dating is so diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:34 PM
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I think it's hard to compare. Most women even the ugliest can find some type of relationship. It's easy for them to be alone because they'll always have options. Men actually need to be successful in life to be successful at dating so those men who are alone and not as successful are pretty much screwed. It's hard to be alone when you know you have no other option. Fortunately as a man you can become successful in other aspects of life far easier than a woman. Whether it's athletic hobbies, care…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:46 PM
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That's interesting. I didn't really know that. This type of stuff should be taught in schools. Listening to feminists being a cuck is really damaging to men. I'm glad I was raised in a time where I could actually be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:42 PM
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Let's be real, I'm not worrying about you. You're the one who replied to my comment first lol. You're the one worrying about what I'm doing with my life. You need to stay in your own lane and finish your engineering degree rather than worrying about strangers...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:34 PM
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At the very worst, a man can at least bring money and free meals if you're dating. There's a reason you see so many women on dating apps trying to leech off men for new experiences. Women are generally lazy and can't provide for themselves. There are definitely women out there who provide tons of benefits beyond sex but they are rare. Most just provide a face caked in makeup, starfish sex, and a constant headache. Most guys are down for that but not me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:30 PM
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It really depends on the age. If they are a lot younger I'll gladly pay more of my fair share. Closer to my age is 50/50. Older woman I make pay, although it's very rare id even consider dating an older woman. Like I said before, I'm attractive enough that women aren't with me for money. I am successful myself and women at least know that. And the women I date have careers of their own and have similar low maintenance lifestyles. I could purchase myself a younger woman but I'd prefer someone mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:45 AM
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That's even worse. I'm not getting married to a woman before seeing if we're compatible sexually. I actually don't care what peoples' standards are. I just do my best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:23 AM
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Let's be real though, those skinny guys train like shit. They do the same routines every day and train to, 'slight discomfort.' Those men are just lost in modern society and are told they are garbage unless they meet certain standards. Depression, anxiety, can cause all of those symptoms too. Women are held to much lower standards obviously in society. It would be interesting to see what their levels actually are. I know guys who are jacked and the stereotypical high T male, but their T levels a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:38 AM
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I think mens' testosterone levels are decreasing primarily due to diet, being obese, micro plastics, chemicals, etc. Most men (and women )look like utter dog shit so that's probably why their levels are decreasing. There is also a socialtal pressure for men to act like cucks but obviously that's not going to decrease your testosterone levels. Most women do prefer a masculine guy though despite what society says. Obviously many women want a cuck they can leech off of too while sleeping around, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:21 AM
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Women also know they bring nothing to the table except sex. So it obviously frightens them when you decline the one thing they can provide. They actually have to figure out how to be useful and provide other benefits to being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:10 AM
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I'm going to be blunt and honest. I think high N count women are gross and I psychologically can't get into a LTR with them. I can't fully explain it but it's just biological. I literally cannot do it even if she were a supermodel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:08 AM
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Well it makes sense. Most women bring nothing to the table except sex. Let's be honest here. If you take away the one thing a woman can provide, of course they'll be upset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:05 AM
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Absolutely. The threshold for men to get into a relationship is significantly higher. These women think they are drowning in options when the vast majority are just wanting to pump and dump. A very small % of women are genuinely attractive especially in their 30s. Most are average and aren't anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:04 AM
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My physical activities and hobbies come first in my life. No way would I want to be weak and do those at a low level lmfao. Part of being a man is the ability to have all that extra strength. Id rather be a loner and be single for the rest of my life than not be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:01 AM
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Depends. If a man has a great career social circle, and hobbies. They'll have a ton of time to find a woman to date. Men aren't under a time constraint like women are. Your average woman has a far far worse in their 30s unless they really take care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:56 AM
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This is major cope. I know a guy who had children at 50 and they are all doing very well and insanely successful in school. The risk is a little higher but nothing to be alarmed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:54 AM
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That was awhile ago lol. She was pretty good fit everything I was looking for minus that. It is what it is. I'll find someone better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:59 PM
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Read a little closer. Most women my age look terrible. In the ideal world I'd find a woman my age who is attractive. I prefer women my age if they take care of themselves. All things considered equal, id take a woman my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:52 PM
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Yes, more experience in a man is definitely beneficial and can't hurt. For me, I am a little different than most guys in that I am extremely picky who I'll sleep with. My standards are significantly higher than most men id say. I honestly don't care how I stack up with her previous partners and just do the best I can do while communicating with her. I just find women with a high body count to be a little gross. Sorry to be blunt. I also don't trust them in long term relationships to be faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:07 PM
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Ok, I do agree with some of that and it shows that having more sexual experience or higher bodycount is a good thing for men. Like I said before, sex is really not that complicated. You could explain most of that stuff in an afternoon if someone is receptive. Most women I've met have some type of body image issue regardless of their experience. Even the most experienced women I've been with were awful at sex sometimes with extremely poor communication skills. It's a big reason why I don't like h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:48 PM
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That's interesting you bring that up. I actually want someone who is mature and an equal partner. I've found a lot of these older women to have unresolved mental health issues, baggage, trauma, etc. They are in no way prepared for a relationship. I just find younger women to be more attractive and I'd say they are equally mature, if not more so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:30 PM
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Id take inexperience over baggage any day of the week. Many of these older women are pretty childish as it is. I've never seen any correlation between age and maturity to be honest apart from the extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:12 PM
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Sex isn't rocket science contrary to what reddit thinks. Inexperience is really a non issue. Communication skills are far far more important which most people lack. Someone who is inexperienced and open to learning can pretty much master it quickly especially in a long term relationship. Everyone has their own preferences too. I never understood what, 'being good in bed' even means. If a woman is enthusiastic about being there and has good communication skills, that's all that matters. Being guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:10 PM
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Not quite 35 but my dating life is much easier in my 30s. I prefer to date younger women. The options aren't great in your 30s unfortunately. You have to still take care of yourself and be attractive though. You can be extremely successful and purchase yourself a younger woman but I wouldn't want that. Many guys do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:07 PM
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I get hit on quite a bit and told I'm attractive by women a fair amount. Had an attractive 20 year old girl ask me for my number at the grocery store the other day. Went on a date and realized she was too young for me. I personally think I underrated myself but you might be right. Maybe average-ugly guys have the biggest advantage in dating. I don't even know what redpill is but you'd think these women would have their pick of any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:38 PM
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So you're saying I could be an ugly guy who is somehow able to date young attractive women? Interesting. Desperate women? Interesting. Im at a loss for words how an attractive woman with a great career would be desperate? Maybe all the more attractive guys are choosing broke women with nothing to offer which leaves the successful attractive women with no other options except the ugly guys like myself. Sounds plausible. I'm a true anomaly to be honest. And I said it before, id rather a date a les…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:23 PM
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My bank account is irrelevant because I don't let anyone know what's in it. The point is that I don't have to use my.money to get with younger women like many older guys. I'm just going based off what people have told me and my results with dating. I used to think I was average due to low confidence but turns out I'm actually pretty far above average. Those women who are confident and successful enough to go 50:50 are definitely above average. I could easily find myself some young broke woman, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:03 PM
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Women don't like when men have preferences that don't suit them. There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:52 PM
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So you're saying you're worried about taking advantage of a 20+ year old man who can go to war? Interesting. Most younger men view older women as easy no strings attached sex. No younger man would seriously consider those women as relationship material lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:50 PM
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While we are on this topic, you say inexperience is a problem, yet if a man says he doesn't want a woman with a sky high bodycount, he's a bad person? This proves that men and women value sexual history differently. A higher bodycount is a good thing for a man as you stated and it's definitely a negative for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:48 PM
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How about all these feminists applauding 18 yearolds to make an onlyfans or travel to Dubai to get shat on? Go lady boss queen slay!! Being a sex worker is empowering! Yet if an older man wants to get into a relationship with a younger woman, these women scream at the top of their lungs... It's common sense, old women are jealous and women in general hate when something doesn't suit them in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:45 PM
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Old women are grasping at straws trying to portray these men as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:43 PM
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That would be fine with me. If you're that good to steal my wife, you deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:36 PM
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My parents have pretty good skin and they're getting pretty old. I have no ED because I'm healthy. This is TMI but I've gotten to the point where I've literally made my dick larger. Even if an older guy does develop ED, you can just take a pill. The difference between that journey is I'll be 70 in phenomenal shape and everyone else will be horrendously obese waddling around. It's not the end result but the pathway to it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:31 PM
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Most young beautiful women aren't settling for average guys. They're out traveling and sleeping around with numerous guys way out of their league. We also hear daily that women make their own money and don't need a man for money. Truth is, many women hate working and would rather sit at home and rely on a man. This is why many average older guys can still pull younger women. Most men are also waking up to the reality that working hard early on and then settling for some average looking woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:28 PM
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I don't date 18 year olds and I'm thankful to have no wrinkles because of my genetics and extensive skin care regimen. My skin looks better than most 20 year olds. While they were out partying and drinking alcohol I was focusing on those things. Don't get me wrong, I like going out, but its all in sma moderation. It's not my fault those women look like trash in their 30s Am I a vain person? Probably. I put a lot of value in how I look so I'm certainly not settling for some old cellulite rriddled…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:17 PM
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Ok perfect, it's also awesome that I don't want to be with some old wrinkly woman. I worked hard in life so I don't have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:08 PM
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I'm currently single and I don't use my money to impress women. I have a good stable career and live a minimalist lifestyle. I'm significantly more attractive than most men my age and even younger, I'm tall, and I'm way more fit than most men in general. I have the perfect physique and I spend a lot of time improving my looks. Id never date a woman who doesn't go 50:50. I don't date broke lazy women. Id much rather take a less attractive ambitious woman than a lazy supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:07 PM
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Like I said before, men and women have different priorities. What's your opinion on women who date guys so they can retire and access his bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:05 PM
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One of the most depressing things I've experienced was when I turned my filter to 32+ on those dating apps. That was one of the biggest motivations to really improve my life, become successful, and have a serious glow up. I've done pretty well thankfully and it's paying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:58 PM
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Just being honest here. You can focus on the politically correct pick me types in the reddit echochamber. Unfortunately the truth can sometimes be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:56 PM
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If we're on this topic, women should also date, 'ethically' and state that they are only looking to date a guy because he has money and they are too lazy to work and make their own. Id absolutely never date a woman who only wanted me for money. Id rather be single and sleep around. It's extremely easy to pick out those women too. They're usually broke in their 30s with no direction in life. My ideal partner is someone who I'm attracted to with similar goals in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:55 PM
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What about people who whine about others who edit? Clearly it's triggering lots of people lol. I came to stir the hornets nest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:47 PM
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If a woman is smart enough to be a doctor, then Id Guess she wouldn't choose some competitive specialty knowing there is a requirement to be working a certain amount of hours yearly. Not sure she'd throw her whole career away to sit at home but many women do do that. Not having to work and sit around is pretty appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:31 PM
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That's actually a really good question. I primarily choose my partner based on their lifestyle and how they take care of themselves. Those women who aged well and are a catch, are obviously taken when they hit their 30s. Don't get me wrong, id absolutely date a woman who took care of themselves and looked good who is in their 30s, but it's very rare. Most single women in their 30s and 40s don't look good at all. Many women do look worse when they age, but that's not necessarily the biggest issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:25 PM
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Obviously there's no way to verify it. You just have to be creative to have it surface. As a guy you also have to not settle which is a big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:19 PM
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It's a known fact that many women would rather sit at home than work. Medical schools are becoming more and more dominated by women so it'll be interesting to see what happens when those boomer docs retire and all those female docs decide to sit at home and live off another man. I actually think that's a smart idea by Japan to limit women in certain hyper competitive niche specialties, OR they can have a requirement of practicing a certain amount of hours yearly as part of their license. That wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:59 PM
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If me wanting to date younger women makes me trash, then so be it. I'm just being honest in my response. Women absolutely do not have an advantage when it comes to dating all the time. I hope men also realize this and don't settle when they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:54 PM
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So women should be encouraged to lie so they can get what they want? Interesting. Men really need to be careful about who they are selecting as a partner. There's no way of verifying it, but you can do things to prevent yourself from being stuck with a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:53 PM
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I actually just dumped my long term girlfriend after finding out her real number lol. Of course they can lie. I make it very known at the start of a relationship I don't date those types of women or I'm very subtle and they can reveal their past on their own Wait a second??? I thought you said bodycount doesn't matter. Why do women feel the need to lie about it then? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:33 PM
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I just prefer to date younger women because they're more attractive lol... Not a big deal. I take care of myself and am certainly above average so I can do it more easily. Id like to date a woman my age, but I'm not attracted to any of them. How do you feel about women choosing guys who make more money, are more successful, taller, high social status, athletic, etc.? Men and women value different things sorry to burst your bubble. Women do have a much easier time dating as you stated, except whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:29 PM
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Yeah there's nothing wrong with being promiscuous but I actively avoid them in any serious relationship. Men are promiscuous partly because they are successful. Same doesn't apply to women. A successful man with options isn't going to settle for a promiscuous woman if they want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:16 PM
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It says I have options. Most men would prefer to date younger. Beauty is one of the biggest assets women bring into a relationship. As time goes on, that goes down quite a bit, so it's no surprise older women will have more trouble. If you're a guy and you're somewhat successful and take care of yourself, you can afford to date younger. I date women 8-9 years younger than me. If I'm 40 I'd date 30-32 year olds. Early 30s would be early to mid 20s, etc. I'm going to be blunt, the reason I refuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:13 PM
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You really don't need to explain yourself why you avoid promiscuous people. It's a personal preference and it's your choice. I refuse to date women past a certain number of previous partners. I'm not harming them by rejecting them. Those promiscuous women can get with guys who sleep around a ton too. They'd be perfect together. These women shouldn't expect to get with a successful man who is stable and looking for a compatible partner with similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:09 PM
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You're correct. Women just get upset that a man has this preference because many women love to sleep around and they don't want it to be judged later on. They want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:06 PM
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Ok, why dont women date guys who are shorter or less rich? Men and women value different things. No guy wants a high bodycount woman. As a woman's body count goes up, she is less desirable. Men are the opposite to a certain extent. There is no amount of mental gymnastics that'll change that. It's what every guy thinks. It's not a double standard because a woman's body count is far different than a man's. Comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:04 PM
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That's a terrible strategy. Not sure what woman is dumb enough to go through an MD program just to get with a doctor. Caking their faces in makeup and not being obese is usually enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:58 PM
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The only caveat is when women hit their early 30s. That group complains the loudest about not being able to find a man. As someone in my 30s I date plenty of women in their 20s and I don't even consider those women in their 30s. If I'm single in my 40s, I'll consider dating those women in their 30s. Dating is significantly easier for women in their 20s, but men really shine in their 30s-40s. Edit: no surprise at the downvotes. Women can't handle not having an advantage in every way when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:55 PM
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Wait a second! You're insecure! It's none of your business! That's what men are told when they have these preferences. I don't date high bodycount women and they get extremely angry at it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:43 PM
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