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| 1 | My son 6yo got hit by a hard plastic bottom of a zip line by his half sister on purpose. That was yesterday. Should I take him to the ER or report it to CPS/DCF? last week she scratched his belly with her toe nail really badKids will be kids. You thinking of getting Cps involved shows how much you’re still at war with your x and simply need a reason to take another shot at him/her. If you want to make it harder in the long run, do it. But rationally thinking it may not be worth jr | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:51 PM |
| 12 | Finding Child Support UnfairI’m in ca, have 50/50 custody of both my children. We both work 40 hours a week and I got a better paying job AFTER our divorce. I still have to pay her hundreds a month. There is no benefit to working harder or more at this point as she’ll just take more and say it’s for the kids… yet only one of us is planning large vacations and it definitely isn’t me. This shit is so backwards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 6 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?Doctor onboarding for a large health care company in our city. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 01:34 PM |
| 6 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?I’m sorry but I literally laughed out loud on this 🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myselfYou’re stronger than you know brother. This too shall pass. Keep your head up and chest out and you’ll get through anything. What you’re feeling is temporary and not who you truly are. You’re valued, loved, amazing and will get through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 10:00 PM |
| 8 | Anyone here have a divorce without lawyers?I did. Split everything 50/50 and didn’t go after each others retirement or spousal support. I pay her child support even though I got 50/50 of the children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/25 04:17 PM |
| 4 | I feel like I'm never going to have better sex than I did with my STBXW and I'm really down about itYou’ll be fine brutha. Once you get through all the feelings that these situations bring there will be someone even more compatible. 37 and current gf is an absolute gem when we close that door. Don’t let that cloud your judgment. Woman and sex is legit everywhere. Find someone who you enjoy spending your time with, trust me when I say you’ll find a lot more comfort in that when everything is said and done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/25 11:33 PM |
| 3 | I put inheritance in joint bank account. Am I fucked?May be a crazy idea but sweet talk your way back in, spend the fucking shit out of it on nice trips and then call it off. Cuz fuck giving her half of that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Unable to Move on- Ready to DieIt’s hard to believe but it WILL get better. We all knew the children would grow up and soon venture off, that’s apart of life. That also means the kids are strong and actively trying to achieve their personal goals so good on you guys for prepping them to do that exact thing. Never lose hope. Chest up and one foot in front of an other. Even if they are small steps, eventually you’ll get exactly where you’re meant to be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Need help with alcoholism.I dug real deep and asked myself if I wanted to continue this. Never did I ever expect to be where I’m at today but staying busy was the best thing I could have done. Also simply saying “not today” helped as well. One day down, two days, three days and so forth. Now im 22 months sober and haven’t looked back. If you want it bad enough, you’ll do it. Stay strong brotha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 03:21 PM |
| 7 | AITA for buying my ex wife flowers on V-day, after the divorce?Just send me the 100 bucks you woulda spent on flowers to me. You’ll get the same reaction. Thanks. It won’t help your situation one bit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Survey: how much custody % do you have as the father?47/53 but she doesn’t want to allow me 50/50. I pay her a couple hundred a month also cover have medical, half extra curricular and half school supplies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/25 01:06 AM |
| 8 | Did you cheat on your wife leading to divorce?I did, however she did first. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and I’m not proud of what happened. With that being said I forgave with my words and not my heart and that’s what ultimately led to our downfall. We were young and both dreamed of the all American love story that we would be together for 60 plus years and tell everyone how we were each others everything’s except under it all was an unhealthy relationship, for both of us. We are currently going through with a full divorce and child supp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 7 | The Positives of Divorce?You do have a lot of life to live Brutha. That right there alone is worth holding onto and saying she may have broken or hurt me in other areas, but she WONT take this. The positives? The positive in this is that while you navigate through it the other side is truly something of beauty. It’s hard to see but there is a light at the end of this tunnel and once you bounce back, full of life, you’ll see that your beautiful journey continues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 03:45 PM |
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