ButFirstMyCoffee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments To be fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 12:59 PM
–	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces I feel like this sub is where grownup, disaffected red pill guys go. I've never seen Sharia takes like the OP, but it's more "my oldest foe, the obvious consequences for my actions" takes. I'm more confused why a blue pill woman spends her day hate following red pill YouTube channels. If there was ever an audience that she's not going to reach it's those guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 08:42 PM
2	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. Apparently they prioritize money over spending time with their kids and make the choice to work more hours than their wives each week. Why aren't women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:47 PM
2	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. Interesting point. So if having kids isn't a variable, and as I've explained America isn't located in the Middle East... why do you think women choose to be the primary caretakers? Surely they couldn't have been wooed by the shorter work weeks, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:19 PM
3	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. Why is less in quotes? They literally work less, according to the bureau of labor. It's the difference of like an hour and a half per week. Also this is precisely what I was talking about. 15 excuses, locked and loaded. Childless women earn more money than their male counterparts, and the CHOICE they make to have kids is theirs. This is not the Middle East. Women aren't broodmares. If your priority is money, make the decisions that maximize your income. But as my overall point explains, that doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 04:00 PM
1	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. Not by women not working 'hard enough' The data point I used was hours worked. There are no data points to turn "how hard you work" into metrics. Women work fewer hours, so they get paid less. So using the transitive property in math, you think women making more per hour than men is fair. When privilege is all you're looking for, equality feels like oppression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:45 PM
1	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. So it's a bit of an undeniable fact that every feminist movement, regardless of the wave, campaigns for more female privilege while either quietly or loudly fights against accountability/responsibility. But the thing you really have to consider is "do you blame them?" Like sure, they want a pay raise- who doesn't? And if your boss told you "if you want more money you'll have to work harder" you'd have 15 excuses locked and loaded right? That's literally the wage gap conversation whenever the fac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:23 PM
0	What makes a woman a bad woman? I have literally never asked that person for or to do anything. That's what made it independent. There was nothing connecting the three people other than their gender. Nice womansplaining though. Girl code is women can literally do no wrong ever, ever, ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:28 AM
-15	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. The more you learn more about women the more the phrase "what a waste" comes up. Imagine a person that can have "multiple orgasms" but only 8% of them masturbates more than once a week. What. The absolute. Fuck. It's like being able to fly but deciding that the best way from A to B is walking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 11:28 PM
-2	What makes a woman a bad woman? A lot of humans get told what they're supposed to do. That's just "having a job" or literally "the social contract". The only people infuriated by it have an extra X chromosome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 09:58 PM
2	What makes a woman a bad woman? Whyever not? Literally the last generation (millennial/zoomer) of female culture is taking any request or direction from a man as a personal attack. You've heard of the term "adulting" right? You've literally never heard a guy use that word to refer to himself or his own life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 07:49 PM
-3	What makes a woman a bad woman? How many women in your life have you asked After the third woman independently told me "the thing I hate most is when someone asks me to do something I'm already doing" I stopped asking women for anything. Like it's literally been more than a year or two that I've asked a woman for help for anything. With guys it's either yes, or no with an excuse and that's it. With women it's always a whole diplomatic conversation. I don't even ask my wife if she's going to walk the dogs or do the dishes becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 07:47 PM
0	What makes a woman a bad woman? Poe's Law in action. Blink twice if you were being sarcastic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 07:03 PM
-3	What makes a woman a bad woman? I mean, what should a woman be if not responsible for herself? In the west, you're not supposed to tell a woman what she should be. That's kind of the point I'm making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 06:41 PM
-1	What makes a woman a bad woman? So it's identical to the phrase man up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 06:19 PM
-1	What makes a woman a bad woman? It's so interesting how there's always the confusion for "what makes a woman" and the assumption is always what makes her a good partner. So you know the phrase, "man up" right? If I told you "woman up" what did I just tell you to do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 06:07 PM
0	Masculinity is just an outright lie. Masculinity exists because when women do the things you laid out, its an achievement to be praised, but for men it's just another Tuesday. Keep track of the people around you who use the term "adulting". It's not guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 12:07 PM
–	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming You asked: "why do you expect women to pick up the slack?" And my answer to that question is that I'd rather you be quiet than pretend that we're asking you for help. Men never ask women for help. Because of the abject lack of empathy thing you've got going on there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 01:07 PM
–	Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average". I'm straight and compliments from gay dudes just hit different. I've never felt so alive being cat called by a leather daddy at 2am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:10 PM
–	Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average". Big muscles are like a thick beard. You're getting way, way more compliments from guys than from girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:08 PM
–	Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average". Fun fact: your brain can't make up faces which means everyone you dream about, you've seen irl Your brain definitely keeps track	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:04 PM
–	Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average". My wife had scar tape all over her face and when I asked she said that SkincareAddiction said some people use it for wrinkles. Eventually the conversation led to talking about some lady who spends a shit ton of money on bottles of stem cells that she rubs on her face. Men don't have that. Men have 3 in 1 body wash, shampoo, and face scrub because women don't look nearly as hard at whether we have wrinkles as they do that our watch strap matches our belt and shoes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:03 PM
–	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Probably don't ask questions that you don't want the answers for? Like how hard is it to live by the rule "don't make it worse"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 11:50 AM
5	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming I mean your silence would be preferable. All you have to do is not be shitty for 10 seconds and accept that I just answered a question that was asked and like clench every muscle in your body to try and stop from being hateful for once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 02:41 AM
9	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming I mean same response: Women are always quick to blame men's suffering on other men because they completely lack empathy. Kind of appropriate for the post topic, thanks for proving OP right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 02:37 AM
2	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Real quick, do you think America is more or less misogynist than China? As a heads up, I'm going to immediately point to the literal "female baby genocide" in China that ended like 7 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:28 AM
6	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Wait wtf, murdering my wife was an option this whole time?! I was like... medium sure that would have some dire consequences attached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:26 AM
13	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Just want to make everyone about women? Isn't that the feminist main goal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:34 PM
35	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Women are always quick to blame men's suffering on other men because they completely lack empathy. Kind of appropriate for the post topic, thanks for proving OP right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:14 PM
33	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Fun fact: women are allowed to evacuate Ukraine. Men aren't. Women and children first, men last maybe if there's extra room in the lifeboat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 10:45 PM
1	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming ...first set the bar at what counts as the generalization for men. Is "about half" fair? Like if about half of men had short hair, would you accept the assertion that men have short hair?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 10:44 PM
1	Most men won't succeed on dating apps "incels" are a western phenomenon. I mean in non-western countries, rape isn't exactly "illegal" so idk if you want to go down that road.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 07:44 PM
1	Most men won't succeed on dating apps To be fair, China calls single women in their 30's "leftover women" and it's not misogynistic. Turnabout is fair play, regardless of whether "surplus males" hurts peoples feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 07:27 PM
5	Most men won't succeed on dating apps Bro dating apps didn't exist in 2005. WTF are you on about "dying in the fields"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:13 PM
0	Most men won't succeed on dating apps Didn't incels not exist before dating apps though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 04:31 PM
1	"It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for dating But like that's the thing. You're not a bad person for having problems, and they're not a bad person for being fat, and nobody's a bad person for not wanting to hitch their wagon to those issues, but it's bad when you try and hide it in order to trick or guilt the person into a date/relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 01:33 AM
3	"It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for dating I feel like it's nuance you're not going to get in an online comments section, but it's kinda like being 400lbs. When you're on hinge, don't lie about your mental illness, but don't make it your entire personality... and don't hold it against someone if they're not into dating 400lb people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 11:21 PM
-3	Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problem Yes both men and women cheat but we can first be honest and admit that men do cheat more. Eh, depends on how old you are. Statistically speaking, in our teens and 20's women are cheating whores but as we grow up, men turn into creepy lechers in their 40s and 50s. So like "who does it more"? Depends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 09:59 PM
1	Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful. I mean it's a stupid argument that hinges completely on what each person individually considers "the bare minimum" which will be different for everyone. Like my version of "the bare minimum" is that I don't have to take care of you. You pick up after yourself, bathe, have a job so I'm not bankrolling your life, have a car so I'm not driving you everywhere... that's the bare minimum. For other people the bare minimum is different. We have no universal basis for what we're talking about, so it's s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 10:38 PM
0	If society would become less hierarchical and more connected, that would actually benefit "losers", probably even in dating, and that's not a bad thing. It's not fair to blame men for inventing communism. Men invented everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 11:37 AM
-2	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies The most sacred female privilege is to never be held accountable for her own decisions. It's literally at the core of every feminist issue- "How dare you make me deal with the consequences of my actions?!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 10:51 PM
1	If society would become less hierarchical and more connected, that would actually benefit "losers", probably even in dating, and that's not a bad thing. The ineffective school system is more of a result of overpopulation than of hierarchy. It's why California has the lowest literacy rates in the country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 10:49 PM
3	If society would become less hierarchical and more connected, that would actually benefit "losers", probably even in dating, and that's not a bad thing. How exactly would society work without hierarchy? Like walk me through how we would enforce laws?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 10:42 PM
15	Why do men not want women to accept their rejection? Men found this greatly offensive. And when I explained that she was rejected multiple times and found someone else, men were arguing HARD with me that the guy was just busy and she should have waited a few days and tried again. Maybe it's an age thing. The thing I've learned from this subreddit is that Zoomers are kind of fucked when it comes to interpersonal relationships. The thing I'll say about the guy in the OOP is that if he didn't want to go on a 6th date with her, he should have been man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 02:41 PM
1	If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awful Meeting a pretty, single girl in her 30s is kind of like seeing a 40 year old working at Burger King. I always wonder what they did to fuck up their lives so bad, but never have the audacity to come out and ask them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 02:30 PM
2	If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awful I mean that's fine. It's why we have terms like "cat lady" and "spinster" and even the Chinese "leftover woman" but there's really no parallel term for men that only describe them being single in their 30s. All the terms for men imply that they're single, but describe other things like how "neckbeard" implies they have poor hygiene, "basement dweller" implies that they're unemployed losers, and even "incel" doesn't refer to "single men in their 30s", it refers to their attitudes and has nothing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 01:57 PM
4	Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceable I do like four things exceptionally well and one of them is the thing where if a man can do it well, his woman will stay with him through hell and high water. I'm the best cook she knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 07:25 PM
5	"What could X age possibly have in common in Y age" is a ridiculous argument An 18 year old with a prefrontal cortex that is not fully developed is not going to have a healthy relationship with somebody who is 30. Raise👏 the👏 voting 👏age!👏	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 05:04 PM
7	Q4M: Would you marry outside of "The West"? Would you marry where no-fault-divorce is not enforced? This is one of the things we look back on like lead in gasoline or asbestos in ceilings. If she can't leave that isn't marriage that's trafficking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 03:06 AM
10	Finances, career and success are overrated for men ...I'm gonna need you to re-flair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 10:45 PM
8	Finances, career and success are overrated for men It boils down to being good at stuff and having your shit together. Don't be the mess someone else has to clean up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 08:58 PM
–	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are And you're not as pretty as you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:32 PM
0	Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections? peace Good fucking luck. At 7:30 this morning my wife looked up from her phone and said "Hey there's an estate sale in [town 45 minutes away] and we aren't doing anything today."	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 01:44 PM
-4	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are Because nobody likes arrogant people. This is some Principal Skinner "No the children are wrong" energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 03:19 AM
4	Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice? Imagine a world where the opposite were true. Like if some girl showed up to an Warhammer tournament with a shirt that said "I'm here to fuck one of you" and all the guys were like "SALT THE SNAIL! GET HER OUT OF HERE!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 03:01 AM
-4	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are So if someone says you look fine and you considered yourself a bombshell... that's an insult? OP is saying you aren't as pretty as you think you are. That's not an insult, that's not even calling you ugly. Hubris. No wonder everyone on Earth hates women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 02:50 AM
-1	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are Maybe women need to be taken down a peg or two? Like at a certain point we all need to look at "all criticism of any woman will immediately be disregarded as bitter incel tears" for what it is: insolence, arrogance, and audacity. Maybe gamergate WAS about corruption in journalism? Maybe She Hulk was a shit marvel series? Maybe Bella Ramsey can't act? No. It's the incels. Women are perfect, always.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 02:11 AM
0	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s If only feminists recognized this in their whining about the wage gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 02:53 AM
-1	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s You replied to my comment within 2 minutes so you absolutely didn't read it. It explicitly blames focusing on careers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:18 AM
1	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s What are you basing your metrics on for the idea that women are happier today than they were 50 years ago? I mean your mom took those little yellow pills and you're taking depression and anxiety meds. Kind of a lateral move if you ask me, and you work 50 ours a week on top of it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:13 AM
1	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s Okay, well I hope you're happy today and happy in 20 years. Sincerely, I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:13 AM
-2	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s https://neurosciencenews.com/women-happiness-psychology-23862/ It's better to admit you walked through the wrong door than to spend your whole life in the wrong room.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:12 AM
0	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s That's neat. Do you think percentage of single income households went up, down, or remained the same in the last 50 years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:10 AM
1	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s Well I mean you said Is that really more likely than we’ve built a life we genuinely enjoy living? And then in your follow up comment acted like I should've known you were talking about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 01:10 AM
-2	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s You never actually said you were happy, unless you were using the royal we. Were you using the royal we?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 12:50 AM
1	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s It's so fucked up that neither you or your grandma have a choice in the matter of "Joining the workforce" but somehow you think you're freer than she was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 12:42 AM
-4	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s How's that 50 hour work week treating you? Exactly what percentage of your paycheck goes to the women raising your kids in your place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 12:39 AM
-3	Social media addiction is the reason why more and more females are single in their 30s More likely it's because they were duped into thinking work would make them happy, so they spend the entirety of their 20s putting off their life until they give up on the capitalist lie "job satisfaction".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 12:27 AM
5	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Aww it's good to have empathy for other people, huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 08:07 PM
3	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Think of it like you have two kids. One is 15 and one is 8. They get into a fight and the 15 year old gets punished for two weeks and the 8 year old gets a 30 minute time out. Do you hate your 8 year old? No, you just expect the 15 year old to know better and you don't expect as much from the 8 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 06:12 PM
4	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? The lady who threw a temper tantrum provided the definition a little below- mi·sog·y·nist /məˈsäjənəst/ noun a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women I'm prejudiced. The assumptions I make when engaging with women are such that they have to "be handled" because they're emotional and unreliable. It's like assuming black guys have big dicks or assuming Asians are good at math. So taking not wanting to hire a woman because I think a man would be a better employee. St…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:59 PM
0	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection Can we keep this same conversation we're having to one chain? You're just continually replying the same dumb things to a bunch of my comments making my phone notify me for no reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:53 PM
1	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection Why no big & tall in Kohl's or Target or everywhere plus size clothes are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:52 PM
2	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:49 PM
1	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection I live in a high obesity area and they're fairly common around here, but I imagine places with a lower rate would see fewer of them. So then it stands to reason that your local Kohl's/Target/Walmart would recognize this profitability and capture it for themselves. But they don't. I think that all the time for some items, but department stores are generally about looking for stuff in general rather than finding a specific appliance or tool. I get that and agree, but my overall point is that if yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:28 PM
2	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection That doesn't make sense though. It's profitable enough to pay rent, utilities, labor, and then turn enough of a profit to justify the store owner's full time effort... but doesn't justify a hundred square feet in a department store? Like the last time you went to a JC Penny, how much shit did you walk by and wonder "who the hell would go to a JC Penny to buy a pan that only cooks deviled eggs?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:18 PM
1	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection But if the demand isn't there, how are whole stores supported by only selling it? The rebuttal was "You’ve never seen a men’s big and tall store?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 05:12 PM
8	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? I understand you're upset but even when you get worked up, you shouldn't call people names and lash out like that. I literally said this to my 6 year old last week. It's so wild how adult women basically need to be parented in all of their interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:56 PM
2	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection So you're trying to deflect with nonsense. More women committed abortion in 2024 than 2023 and more in 2023 than any prior year in the last decade and a half. Roe v Wade was overturned in 2022. What bodily autonomy don't you have? why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact? Please justify these gender-specific scholarships. Why are women entitled to this help?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:53 PM
2	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection Hey real quick why are 60% of college students female and why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact? When privilege is all you know, equality feels like oppression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:43 PM
7	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? or is strongly prejudiced against women Having the patience I would have with my 6 year old daughter, sweetie you have to read the whole sentence to understand what they're saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:42 PM
0	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection Yeah I just made a target run last week to get a hawiian shirt and the most oversized clothes they had was XXL. I got curious and checked the pants and the biggest they had was 48's. The women in the signs over the plus sized section were all definitely way bigger than XXL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:37 PM
-4	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection So the demand is so small that a section dedicated to it in a department store couldn't be justified... but an entire standalone store exclusively selling it is profitable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:25 PM
10	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Difference is that you've talked to men in their 30s who have gone their whole lives without ever crying on company time even once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:23 PM
0	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection Oh so they need to go to a separate but equal store to get clothes that fit. Capitalism works. We did it everyone. Why no big & tall in Kohl's or Target or everywhere plus size clothes are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:10 PM
1	From an individual standpoint, there´s nothing wrong with the phrase "She´s not yours, it´s just your turn" I mean me and my wife think this way, or at least I think we do. To me "She's not mine, it's just my turn" means that my wife is free to go whenever she wants and it's on me to continually be her best option. Can my wife do better? Probably. Can my wife do so much better that she'd upend her life to get there? Probably not. The way I understand this is that you have to earn your keep when you're in a relationship and not just take them for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 04:03 PM
-1	The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projection It comes from basing my assumptions on how an adult would turn out if all of their formative years were filled with support and positive attention and help and encouragement. It's why the body positivity movement is only for women. Men don't get "plus sized" clothes lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:35 PM
9	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Maybe semantically, but 9 out of 10 women would call me misogynist for not wanting to hire a woman because I think a man would be a better employee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:26 PM
8	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? Speak to women with the patience and understanding that you would with a child and your interactions will go far more smoothly. That's not hate, but it's still technically misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:23 PM
15	Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere? So the manosphere always comes across as either really cheesy or like so bad it has to be satire. I will say that talking to women has made me as misogynist as I am. I don't "hate" women or resent them or anything and I'm married with a kid so I'm not an incel... but my expectations for the average woman are about what you'd have for a 10 year old. Funny thing is that when you think of women as helpless children, all those feminist issues start to gain validity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:09 PM
7	What does love look like to you? Love is all the little things that you do for no reason. Like my wife makes me coffee in the morning and she doesn't even like coffee or how our top shelves are bare even though I'm 6'1" because she's 5'4" and would have to go get the stepstool. Or like there's this Switch game she wanted for her birthday and I woke up early to buy it, download it, and update it so that she wouldn't have to wait to play it. Love is all about those little moments that just make you stop and smile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:33 PM
5	If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not true Nothing infuriates women more than how little it takes for a man to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:25 PM
0	Most accusations against women are from men with questionable choices and self-projection Also, specifically regarding OF you have to keep in mind that the median income for an OF model is like $200/month. I feel like the criticism is valid if "literally working at McDonalds" earns you more money for the time you invest in the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 08:24 PM
4	Even though some autistic men strongly desire to be in a romantic relationship. If they are having zero success after a decade or two they should just give up to save the hearthache. Maybe the advice should be something along the lines of "insanity is doing the same hing and expecting different outcomes". I'm a strong believer in that if the sewer monsters in Walmart can find love, anyone can. Just aim fatter or like browse by the clearance bin over in Single Mom Tinder. There are billions of people on this planet and the only reason someone is single is that their standards are too high or they're not learning from what isn't working.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 08:05 PM
1	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed Oh that. Yeah any comment that includes the word "yawn" isn't really worth engaging, so I figured I'd just be condescending.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:46 PM
3	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed It's just weird that you wouldn't break up/divorce if that's what you want. I'm mansplaining why men will cheat on their aging wives rather than get a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:24 PM
3	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed I mean you can change your income. Did you think you can't change your income?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:22 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Then when they tell someone, they get told oh that it’s worth living, you need to have hope, you’re putting too much pressure. The last thing they need to hear in that moment is having hope. They need a sign to show them that it’s a possibility. My advice, for anyone who needs to hear it, is that ending things means they win. If for no other reason, live out of spite. Every breath you take without their consent is another victory. Whenever they see you and go "oh I fucking hate that guy" you rui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:21 PM
-1	Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for women See how angry you're getting while you're agreeing with me that recalls happened? That's precisely what I'm talking about. Good talk, hope you learned something about yourself :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 03:09 PM
0	Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for women Moderna recall https://www.newsweek.com/moderna-vaccine-recall-contamination-stainless-steel-human-error-takeda-covid-1634598 AstraZenica recall https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-68977026 Pfizer recall https://content.govdelivery.com/accounts/MEHHS/bulletins/3559d26 J&J recall https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/fda-tells-johnson-johnson-toss-60-million-covid-vaccine-doses-n1270521 Bro seriously, just ignore the uncomfortable facts and continue on with your life. I promise ignorance is bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 03:01 PM
-5	Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for women Literally what I was talking about. Factually, the moderna, Astrazenica, Johnson and Johnson, and Pfizer vaccines were all recalled at some point and you freak out over that indisputable fact. Like I said, you don't want to pull at that thread. Just ignore the information of things that happened in the last three years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:54 PM
-5	Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for women You really don't understand the wide variety of things "uncomfortable truths" covers? I mean the first one that comes to mind is that all the original covid vaccines were eventually recalled, despite the experts and President insisting they were all safe and effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:50 PM
0	Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for women Do you want people to ignore truth if it’s uncomfortable? You really don't want to pull at that thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:09 PM
-2	Men love idealistically, where women love opportunistically. It's so tedious when someone makes a generalization and then someone feels the need to chime in with the sage wisdom that people are different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 01:42 PM
2	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed Well marriage is an archaic institution that treats women like they're still 1930s house slaves. Unfortunately, in the words of Johnnie Taylor, it's cheaper to keep her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 01:32 PM
4	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed So why do you think the mistress is never older than the wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 01:18 PM
5	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed And yet nothing pisses off millennial women more than mentioning the wall...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 01:02 PM
1	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it So I'm going to assume that by dodging the question twice, you're one of the "if it ever happened, my fears are validated" people. Good talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 08:08 PM
1	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it Please answer the question. What do the odds have to be for you to get "gravely injured to the point that you're too disabled to work" from a thing, for you to not worry about that thing? To me, a 1 in 10,000 chance of injury is negligible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 08:05 PM
0	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it The poitn is how negligible those odds are. Like I could go outside and walk to the store right now and get hit by a car on my way there. What are the odds of that? Are the odds high enough for me to get all bent out of shape about it? At what point does it become something that you don't have to worry about? If a 0.01% chance is too much, one in a million? One in the history of all time? From my perspective, it's just unreasonable to be afraid of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 07:55 PM
3	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. My immediate thought would be to reply "That's awesome! I'm super into fisting."	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 05:11 PM
2	The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle. What I didn’t gather from the OP is that she’s on a TV show based on something else. A video game? Yeah, and that's kind of the crux of the problem. It's an extremely popular video game that has had about 7 remasters/re-releases over the last decade or so. For context it first came out on the Playstation 3 and the current release came out for the Playstation 5. What's going on here is the standard "nerds are mad about inconsistencies in the adaptation of their beloved media and feminist are call…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:53 PM
2	The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle. So like she's so ugly that you get pulled out of the story and start to wonder about things like underlying genetic conditions. Especially when other actresses look extremely similar to the character. It's similar to casting John Wayne as Genghis Khan. The complaints are exactly the same- "What the fuck was the casting director thinking?!" The problem is the same problem as like She Hulk had- any legitimate criticism of the story gets shouted down with "Oh so you just hate women, then."	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:27 PM
12	Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes? My wife is painfully awkward sometimes. She hates being the center of attention so much that we eloped. She does that anxiety thing where she'll plan out conversations before we go see people and then on the way home I can see the wheels turning as she reviews those conversations. Different people are good at different things and we all live different lives and sometimes those lives don't lend themselves to building strong social skills. To me, those "how to talk to men/women" classes are no dif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:20 PM
2	The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle. She doesn't just live in a society where looks determine everything, she works in an industry where looks determine everything. That's kind of their entire point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:06 PM
-1	The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle. Yeah I've seen pictures of this person but didn't know the actress's name. Like people will know Wednesday from a picture but might not know the name Jenna Ortega.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:05 PM
-3	The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle. Because the majority of people complaining about her aren't complaining about her performance. They're complaining about her appearance. So full disclosure, I had to look up who that is. I haven't really watched Last of Us since the gratuitous gay sex episode back in season 1 (?) but I've seen the complaints you're talking about and it misses what they're complaining about. So the term my wife came up with to explain like Erin Moriarty and Jenna Ortega and Colin Farrell and Ryan Gosling is "prof…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:06 PM
2	The idea that society can oppress one gender and favor the other is utterly delusional and exists just as an excuse to commit cruelty Okay but why's that? We're looking for factors that aren't "this is men's fault".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:54 PM
2	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it good talk	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:30 PM
3	The idea that society can oppress one gender and favor the other is utterly delusional and exists just as an excuse to commit cruelty Hey real quick, without victim blaming men, can you explain to me why men commit suicide 4X more likely to be homeless than women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:22 PM
1	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it "You're wrong!" "Okay show me how." "Educate yourself shitlord." women ☕	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:18 PM
2	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it Okay give me the stats	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 12:32 PM
1	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it NGL you're exactly the type of person I love to point out that about half of women voted for Trump. Reality doesn't match your curated FemaleDatingStrategy experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 10:03 PM
4	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant I was thinking of fit, young people with higher estrogen and testosterone levels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:32 PM
0	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? Now google "onlyfans" (safe search on) and check out the image tab. It's safe to say the results are what the average guy considers standard-pretty. Those girls go to the gym all the time, so whatever guy they date will also go to the gym all the time. I was referring to this thing I said 4 comments ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:21 PM
0	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it So you're telling me all the women on your soccer team constantly pissed themselves? And we're supposed to take you people seriously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:00 PM
-2	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? His obliques are defined pretty well, but I wouldn't say he has defined abs on the left. lol tell me you go to the gym 3-5 times a week without telling me. I was speaking colloquially, considering lumps of muscle in his front middle as abs, even though that covers everything from his obliques to his cum gutters. But that guy is still built like a professional athlete. (Brandon Nimmo, New York Mets) Also, it depends on how you define "dad bod." It seems like everyone has a different definition fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:57 PM
-2	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? I'm a fit woman. When you google "OnlyFans" with the safe search on, do you look like the women in the image results tab? I feel kind of like Michael Scot talking to Phyllis about her friend. Are you a dress wearer or a pants wearer? Could we fit in a rowboat together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:49 PM
-1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? So yeah that's kind of the problem here. You can see his abs in both pictures. This guy didn't just start going to the gym one day. But like "dad bod" vs the guy on the left. You're picking the guy on the left. With the abs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:42 PM
0	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant Now I'm curious to see the average number of divorces per repeat offender, but I don't know how to google that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:26 PM
9	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant No that's the overall stat- 22% of first marriages fail. It's the repeat offenders who skew the statistics. Like if you've been divorced five times and we're looking at 10 total marriages that include your 5, that would make half of those marriages fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:17 PM
-2	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? I really don't want to draw a diagram but it might help. Men are attracted to fit women. Fit women are attracted to fit men. This is the thought process. All cats are mammals, but not all mammals are cats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:05 PM
1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? It's the concept of "be the guy your dream girl dreams about". If you're the type of guy who goes after Gym Stacey's, you're going to presume that she is going to go after Gym Chad's. Honestly it's not even an aesthetic thing as it is a logistics thing. To get and maintain that guy's body, he's spending all his free time at the gym and eating super healthy food. Sharing his interests and level of dedication would necessitate that she's also a fitness enthusiast. Now google "onlyfans" (safe searc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:59 PM
16	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? It's the same concept as "you're wearing that shirt so men will look at your boobs". It's not that she wants all men to stare at her boobs, it's that she wants men she finds attractive to stare at her boobs. When guys say that girls think the right picture is more attractive, what they mean is "the girls they think are attractive" will think the picture on the right is more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:50 PM
18	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant Cheating is fairly common, but cheaters of both genders are still a minority. I think it's like divorce rate statistics. Sure "half of marriages end in divorce" but only about a fifth of first-marriages end in divorce. If you're looking up stats, keep an eye out for "have you ever cheated" vs "are you currently cheating".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:23 PM
12	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant Definitely a high end gym. I go to PF specifically because everyone there is super schlubby and I like being on the fitter end of the bell curve when I work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:21 PM
3	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it I mean I'll agree that the 1970s moved way too fast and they should've fought to maintain the one-income family structure, but the implication when talking bout this "problem" is that she doesn't have a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:06 PM
2	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it But the way you frame it, she doesn't have a choice. Even just a baby who gets sick a lot (which a bunch of them do in the first couple of years) makes holding a job difficult. Like you're forced to literally endanger your job security rather than ask your husband to take a week off to care for the baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:42 PM
2	A significant amount of issues in dating arise from misandry Then he might need to change how he interacts with them or where he interacts them. He would have an easier time changing his habits then changing a group. So I know that socially, we place exactly zero expectations on women. But imagine a world where your comment was applied to women the way you'd apply it to my fictional uncle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:32 PM
1	A significant amount of issues in dating arise from misandry When trying to show someone why misandry is bad, it's helpful to swap out men and women for black people and white people. Misandry is incredibly normalized but being racist is something most people think is bad. So when you say "Women hate men because of learned experience" and I equate that to you saying "White people hate black people because of learned experience" it's me trying to show you that bigotry is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:19 PM
4	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it That's such a weird random brag. But again, the iconic duo is more of a rule than a guideline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:13 PM
3	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it So I think you're unreasonable... because I'm poor. Nah... boys are just better at math apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:08 PM
2	A significant amount of issues in dating arise from misandry Do you- Are you aware that my uncle is fictional and was just an allegory for your comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:04 PM
2	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it Are you just bad at math? If there was a button that you could push and it had 7,000 to 1 odds of whether you'd be handed a hundred dollars or get bit by a cobra, apparently only women would be too scared to push that button.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:02 PM
4	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it And women have zero say in who stays home with the baby. There's that iconic duo again. Honestly, if you told me that there was a group of people who didn't have the wherewithal to have any agency in their lives, I'd probably ask why they're trusted to vote in national elections.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:00 PM
8	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it That's fine I know the answer. In 2023, one hundredth of one percent of women who gave birth died. That's the reason your response is "It doesn't matter". Women and being unreasonable perma-victims. Name a more iconic duo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:54 PM
0	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it How many women are crippled each year from childbirth and are unable to work? Please present the figure as a percentage of the 3,600,000 births in an average year in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:40 PM
1	A significant amount of issues in dating arise from misandry My uncle says this same thing about how many black people he used to interact with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:35 PM
2	Q4W - Canadian politics edition: Will you be mad if Pierre Pollievre wins? He gambled and lost on "I'm not Trudeau" because Carney is also not Trudeau lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:09 AM
3	Q4W - Canadian politics edition: Will you be mad if Pierre Pollievre wins? When your life sucks, you vote for the guy promising to change it, not the guy who promises you the status quo. Simple as.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:28 AM
4	Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences? First of all, how old are you and how long have you been married? What would be obvious to any married adult is that after 5pm it goes from "her job" to "our job".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 03:22 PM
2	Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences? The problem is that the majority of people on this subreddit either aren't married, are super young, or both. Every adult in any of these threads responds the same: We split chores pretty evenly, not 50/50 but pretty close. If one works and the other doesn't it's fair to expect the unemployed partner to treat homemaking like their full time job. (Full time jobs end at 5pm.) Sometimes my spouse that I spend the vast, vast majority of my waking life with does annoying things. I swear, this subredd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 02:36 PM
1	"If she wanted to, she would": Men should be socialized to start off distrusting all women, similarly to how women are socialized to start off distrusting all men. And here my dad told me the worst she could say was "no".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:06 PM
–	How often do you find yourself initiating intimacy with your partner? And when either of you isn’t feeling it, how do you handle that? If you don't understand the difference between sexual intimacy and hugs, you really have to stop going to kids birthday parties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:55 AM
–	How often do you find yourself initiating intimacy with your partner? And when either of you isn’t feeling it, how do you handle that? I'm not sure why this is a difficult concept. If your wife gained a bunch of weight and her naked body is now physically repulsive to you, it makes sense that you couldn't stomach having sex with her more often than for her birthday and your anniversary. This does not extend to hugs. How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:48 AM
–	How often do you find yourself initiating intimacy with your partner? And when either of you isn’t feeling it, how do you handle that? You can be affectionate with someone you don't find attractive. Like you hug your grandma and don't think she's hot. Right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:32 AM
1	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Can you walk me through how someone isn't mentally fit to be in an adult relationship with an adult but still deserves to be trusted with the responsibility of voting in elections for people who will run our cities, states, and country?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 09:53 PM
4	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Literally used "the r word" once in this thread, but I mean if your kink is being offended sometimes you gotta make shit up. I won't yuck in your yum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:58 PM
3	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest New information changes behavior. For example, if you actually look at feminist issues and really unpack their reasoning... it justifies the condescending, patronizing kind of misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:29 PM
2	How often do you find yourself initiating intimacy with your partner? And when either of you isn’t feeling it, how do you handle that? There's a ton of non-health reasons this could be the case though. Maybe you have kids and are just tired? Maybe your hormone levels changed once you hit 40? Maybe you gained a bunch of weight and are no longer within the archetype that they initially found attractive? Couples in their 20s and 30s have way more sex than people in their 50s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:12 PM
6	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? It's nicer than calling her retarded for the undeveloped brain thing. Not entirely sure you can call her mentally sound and still claim he preyed upon her. I guess the take is that women consider themselves Schrodinger's Victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 04:50 PM
9	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest Women aren't men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 12:30 PM
1	Men not going to college As a woman, you're biased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 12:30 AM
2	Sizes and Orgasms haha I literally cited a meme as evidence though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:27 PM
3	Sizes and Orgasms Oh so before he was Steve in the Minecraft movie, Jack Black had a band called Tenacious D that did comedy skits for some of the tracks and one was where he explained cock pushups to his friend Kyle. It was even in the movie. This one's on me, I keep forgetting that not everybody was a teenage boy in 2006 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0365830/	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:14 PM
5	Sizes and Orgasms Bro sometimes you need to just let people be silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:12 PM
3	Sizes and Orgasms "I can only do the one pushup, but one's all you need." -Jack Black	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:07 PM
8	Sizes and Orgasms There's a meme I can't find where the girl asks how big his dick is and he says 8" and he asks how big her vagina is and she gets mad. Especially on Reddit, if you're critical of a woman's anatomy, you're in for a bad time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:06 PM
9	Q4M: would you date a slob? "How a man does anything is how he does everything." The kind of woman that lives in the apartment OP described doesn't wipe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:04 PM
9	Sizes and Orgasms Not true! When I learned the location of the secret rebel base I was finally able to believe that it was a good size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:02 PM
10	Sizes and Orgasms It is such a taboo to talk about the size of a vagina that I think the zoomers in the crowd could stand to hear it a couple more times. Say it with me kids- "Wow that's a huge hallway!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:00 PM
1	Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months? So here's how you can tell that you're either ugly or hot: When you walk by strangers on the street, do they look at you twice? You never know if they're saving one for the bank or if they had to make sure you were that ugly, but most people are average-ish looking and nobody does a doubletake for what they see every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:55 PM
1	Men not going to college Nope just married for longer than most redditors have been alive. In that time I've felt every feeling at my wife and lots of times more than one feeling at once. You ever been scare-roused? It's pretty confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:51 PM
2	Men not going to college So the cornerstone of any successful relationship is open and constant communication. Do you think I secretly feel these things? Do you think she's unaware of how huge an ask a $500k house is? The closest to bitter I am is that she, as with all women, is a terrible gift giver so instead of buying each other gifts, we pick a local charity and donate & volunteer a weekend or two each year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:47 PM
3	Men not going to college It was kinda-sorta the other way around ten years ago. I had the low paying but fulfilling job and she made more than me (not six figures but more-enough that my sister mentioned it). Eventually I found my current job and couldn't turn down the money and because I make twice as much as we were making combined, it was my idea for her to quit her soul sucking job and jump into the author/writer thing with both feet. She's not loafing around, she's got two published books and has been exhibited in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:22 PM
5	Men not going to college I'm a professional and my wife is an artist. I make literally 20X what she makes and sometimes it's a burden. She's definitely cooler than me but she wants to save for a house which is basically just asking me to buy her a house and birthdays and Christmases were a little weird for a while because she's essentially buying me a gift with my own money. I am happy that her career is fulfilling and at least one of us has job satisfaction, but life would be infinitely easier if she was making half wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 07:26 PM
1	Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it. So OP is talking about a hungry homeless guy and you're talking about a girl looking in her fridge deciding none of the food is appealing. You people really are from Venus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 03:51 PM
2	Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it. My point is that you're not talking about the same thing OP is talking about. As originally stated, you can't understand a scenario where a woman wants sex and can't get it. You aren't comparing apples to apples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 03:43 PM
2	Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it. That’s because any woman can get random sex if she wants to Can you just real quick read me the post title?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 03:18 PM
0	Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it. We need to teach women what shame is. A guy is shamed for his inability to get sex. This is something he's failed at which makes him a loser. What you've just described is a person who succeeds at getting sex, but is a discerning customer. What you should be talking about is the fem-cels on subreddits like NotHowGirlsWork or FemaleDatingStrategy, but because it isn't traditionally shameful for women to be unable to get sex, you default to women who decline sex. It's like someone complaining abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:21 PM
6	Questions for redpillers What self interests as a man do you have that feminism opposes? It's not that they want to end the tyranny, they want to become the tyrants. That's why there's so much pushback- the vast majority of people don't equate feminism with equality, they equate it with female superiority. Also guys don't like to be blamed for the oppression they missed out on. They didn't do anything wrong, so why are they being punished?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:00 PM
2	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else I would like you to revisit the part of my comment where I said that women don't listen. It's got to be a genetic thing, like how women's brains are 15% smaller than men's. There's just no room for any empathy, let alone sympathy lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 10:07 PM
4	Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days? I highly recommend "The Anxious Generation". We're starting to see the devastating outcomes of raising kids on iPads. https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=all&geo=US&q=%2Fm%2F01_4_n&hl=en If you look closely, these problems are zoomer problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 08:03 PM
1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Wife comes to you and asks “why did you marry me?” Because I find most people tedious and I actually enjoy spending time with her. I usually find myself politely waiting for people to be done talking at me, but I look forward to hearing what she's saying. She's actually asked me and this was my answer. How many men have you asked "Why did you marry your wife?" Can't be very many. You know who’s nice? Every other person on the planet. This is so naive that I'm encouraged to remind you that you're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 07:10 PM
0	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else In your own words, how is a woman supposed to treat men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:36 PM
2	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Yes, she figured out the cheat code that the best way to land a man is to be nice to him. Can I complain about her? Endlessly. But because at the core of our relationship is "we like each other enough to want to be actively nice" none of her frustrating insanity really maters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:35 PM
2	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Being at peace is not the same as being incurious. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=The%20nothing%20box	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:29 PM
1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else But like there's a chasm between "be nice" and "don't be a bitch". Like you're not a bitch if you expect me to pay for our date, but it's nice when you pretend to reach for the check.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:27 PM
3	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table I don't speak about women the way a Son of the South speaks about black people though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:24 PM
0	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else But let’s not pretend that “being nice” is all that a man actually wants in his relationship. My bad, I forgot that this alien concept had to be mansplained. "Being nice" to your man covers a whole lot more than just compliments. For example, my wife doesn't like coffee but she always makes me a cup in the morning. That's very nice of her. What's interesting is that OP, much like the animal looking at itself in a puddle, saw the answer but had no earthly idea what she was looking at- Some men (e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:23 PM
5	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table I'm sorry that you've lived a life with experiences that filled you with such hatred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:50 PM
5	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Just doubling down on the white supremacist talking points 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:45 PM
8	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table My racist uncle also uses crime statistics to justify his bigotry. You two might get along. I absolutely love that your immediate response is a white supremacist talking point LMAO	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:42 PM
0	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else The problem is that society has some very clear guidelines on "how a man is supposed to treat women" but the reverse has been systematically destroyed over the last 40-ish years. If you want to piss off a zoomer, ask her how a woman is supposed to treat a man. She immediately goes into fight or flight mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:41 PM
–	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Wait now tell me how all women don't hate men to some degree or other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:35 PM
1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Haha "perfectly decent" is such a weird way to phrase that. Go to any of those ask men threads where the question is "what is hard about being a guy" and the answer is, almost unanimously, nobody cares. Last week there was this post about a guy who lost his kid to cancer and almost all of the interactions were about if his wife was okay or if his kids are okay. Only his close male friends asked if he was okay. Even his mom only asked about his wife. It's worth the downvotes from angry women for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:18 PM
1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else It comes from being around a lot of women and listening to the "jokes" guys around me say. The default is for women to not be nice to men (which is different than women being mean to men).	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:14 PM
2	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else OP was talking about one person, I'm talking about the gender in general Also you're assuming the ex wife was nice to him. She could've been beating him for all we know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 03:59 PM
1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Because that's literally just how women are. You can either be with someone who says "I love you too" more than they say "I love you" or not be with anyone at all. (Until they finally make the gay pill)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 03:55 PM
3	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Men are simple, it's just that women don't listen. You people literally can't fathom it. It's like how a guy can sit and do nothing and be happy or how we can literally not be thinking about anything at all. You're just not built to get it. You intuit something is there, like an animal seeing its reflection. Like you aren't nice to random guys too often because of the danger that they'll become enamored with you. Maybe if I frame it from the misandrist perspective you'll understand? Have you tol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 03:53 PM
0	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else "Women don't listen" is his fault. Maybe we should be yelling louder and using smaller words? Guys want a girl who is nice to them. Think they'll understand it now that I rephrased it monosyllablicly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 03:43 PM
-1	Men are not "simple creatures", they have complex needs like everyone else Some men (especially of the manosphere variety) will tell you that men are simple creatures, they just want a chick who is hot and submissive and not a single mom. The thing women cannot fathom is that we just want someone who is nice to us. It is wild how a woman can go months without giving her husband an unprompted compliment and see nothing wrong with it. It's not that guys will fondly think back on that one complement they got ten years ago, married guys will do it too. Men are simple, it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 03:11 PM
27	Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women. Feminism has a branding problem. According to nearly every survey, the vast majority of people (in countries an average American can find on a map) both support gender equality and say that they aren't feminist. The problem is that feminism only exists to perpetuate feminism. It's why whenever I mention these two facts, the guaranteed reply is "Here's why you're actually a feminist even though you just said you aren't a feminist." If feminists cared more about equality than their brand, they'd s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 02:00 PM
3	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? So are statistical generalizations worthless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 12:28 AM
-2	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women Men and women are valued differently. Men are more praised for their utility, which they have more of as they age. It's why so many age gaps go "younger woman, older man".	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:10 PM
6	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women The moms I work with are very candid about it. It fucks up your teeth, your skin, your bones and nails and after you give birth you pee when you sneeze. Babies evolved way faster than women were able to keep up with. It fucks up your whole body and that's before you're sleep deprived for years on end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 03:38 AM
17	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women I think it's just different as we grow up. Like when my wife was 20 she was pretty and now she's beautiful and I sincerely believe that when she's old and wrinkley, I'm still going to pinch her cute butt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 03:36 AM
-8	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women But that's kind of my point. It's not a wall, but girls are generally their most attractive selves in their mid 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:17 AM
-6	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women Are they hot or are they "hot for 40 years old"? We're they hotter 20 years ago?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 01:04 AM
-2	For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman? It's definitely two different things. The second wife is always younger than the first wife, but like you said- only a loser would step out on his marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 12:22 AM
35	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women I'm definitely biased for my wife. My attraction is deeply rooted in "that's the woman I'm spending my life with".	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 12:21 AM
-4	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women It always comes as a bit of a shock when my 40 year old coworkers show me pictures of their kids back when they were babies and the 25 year old women in the photos are stunning by comparison. Maybe it's just that your body falls apart after you have kids? Like there was that before/after video that one girl made where she was very pretty when she just found out she was pregnant and her after-clip was just oof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 12:19 AM
2	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? He just told you the burden is on the men to invite, plan, and pay majority of the time which is not equal. And I told him that if he works hard on himself, the girls he goes on dates will be motivated to invite, plan, and pay for follow-up dates. You can be honest. Are you the friend who always texts first? Do you get more "I love you" or more "I love you too"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:15 PM
1	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? Awesome! So if the rule is "the person whose idea the date is should pay" then when she says "we should go on another date" it would follow that the onus is on her to pay. Good talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:53 PM
0	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? The argument isn't "whoever suggests the FIRST date pays" the argument is that whoever suggests the date pays. Sure, the majority of first dates are his idea because the pressure is on the guy to initiate. But the rest of the dates are a 50/50 split between who says "that was fun, we should do this again".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:42 PM
1	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? You said "large majority" not just "majority". Are you modifying your opinion in order to be technically correct? I'll agree with the logic behind "the average number of testicles a man is less than 2" but I won't agree that the average number of testicles a man has is less than 1. Also commas are used to break between ideas not for when you pause the cadence of your speech. That's just me being pedantic though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:21 PM
-1	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? The logic follows- The person whose idea the date is should pay. Normally, first dates are the guy's suggestion and the rest of the dates are a mix between the guy's and the girl's suggestion. By saying that the set up "you pay for the first one and I'll get the next one" will heavily weight you paying for dates, you have lots of first ones but not many next ones. This isn't putting words in your mouth, this is called active listening. I'm reading what you're telling me and taking a beat to unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:12 PM
-9	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? "You pay for the first one and I'll consider maybe paying for the second one" still ends up with the guy paying a large majority of the time. So we circle back to my first comment. You should work on yourself enough to get to the point where a girl says "this was fun, we should go out again". The thing I just quoted is you just saying that you go out on lots of first dates, but not many second dates. You need to ruminate on why that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:05 PM
-6	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? I'm saying that it is common for the guy to ask the girl out on the first date. It's 50/50 on whose idea the following dates are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:02 PM
-5	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? Spoken like a guy who's never been on a second date. You should work on yourself enough to get to the point where a girl says "this was fun, we should go out again".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:58 PM
5	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them It's not macro, it's micro. My wife gave me the ick the other day by mispronouncing the word pâté as p'tay instead of pah-tay. After much soul searching and long hours talking to my priest, we aren't getting divorced over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 02:34 PM
4	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them The way ick's have been explained to me is that it's something that in the moment is awkward or off-putting. It's not that deep. You can get the ick from a guy trying to push a pull door for just a second too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 02:27 PM
10	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them "Tom why the fuck did you just throw that chair?!" "IM JUST SO PROUD OF FATTY LUMPKIN!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 02:25 PM
2	How offended do you feel when you see sexualized images of men? Not everyone can dodge learning homophobia in their formative years I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:10 AM
2	How offended do you feel when you see sexualized images of men? Six years ago a leather daddy shouted across the street at me saying I was hot and asked to suck my dick. That's the most sexual attention I've ever received and I felt so pretty. Fix your Kinsey score.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 02:54 AM
2	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. In another subreddit there was a post of a video of some Japanese girl laughing at a white guys joke and I made a comment about how white women couldn't hope to compete with this "being nice to men" technology and of course it's sitting at 20 downvotes in under 15 minutes. I'm not complaining because it's as useful as complaining about the weather, the only thing white women hate more than men is when you notice that white women hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 07:10 AM
3	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. I think the concept of dei is fucked because like it's LITERALLY tokenism and every last justification is racist (but not the kind you're used to) and it's like "you can't just be cool and also hire a black person, you have to form a whole internal committee of specifically blonde white women and one minority employee" who fall hiring a black person inclusivity. I have had minority bosses and it was zero issue until HR trained everyone to be painfully aware that my manager was culturally differe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 06:36 AM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous I urge you to watch the video I used as an example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 04:11 AM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous It does. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289616303324 And you know why I'm right? Because if I ask "The median number of partners a woman has in her life is 4, how many times the median are you?" you get defensive. I don't care about your body count, I care about the gut reaction to the question. Like this girl. Do you see how she shuts down and goes into fight or flight mode, repeating the same phrase over and over and over again? That behavior is why we all know somethin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:55 AM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous So to clarify, the analogy didn't help then? Also your rebuttal is like telling me that functional alcoholics don't count because it doesn't interfere with their lives. No matter what we're measuring, if you are two standard deviations from the mean, that's abnormal. Can we at least agree on that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:38 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Statistically women who don't have kids out-earn men by the time they're in their late 20s. https://abcnews.go.com/WN/reverse-gender-gap-study-young-childless-women-earn/story?id=11538401 By the time they hit menopause, according to Google, over 80% of women have had at least one kid. Please read up more on topics you're interested in. It will help me respect women more if I learn something by talking to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:35 AM
–	Men care about body count because they're jealous Hyper-sexuality is a symptom of a whole range of mental illnesses. The median number of sexual partners for a woman 25-49 is (depending on the study) between 4 and 6. Let's talk about it like food. If the median calories women consume in a day is 1,500, and you're eating 10,000 calories each day... you might want to look into whether you have an eating disorder. Does that analogy make sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:25 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere So for example the wage gap and how it's largely due to women taking a break from their career to have kids. That's a choice she makes with consequences. Nobody's forcing her to be a mom, but the reaction is like "well what else is she supposed to do?" It's like that. I treat women like adults who are accountable to the consequences of their decisions, but many women (you) are horrified by the concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:09 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Can you flair up so I know whether to respect you or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:37 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere My expectations of women are pretty low. I don't hate women, I just understand that society has set them up as these children who can't be held accountable to the consequences for their decisions. Like name any feminist stance and I'll explain why it treats women like children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:37 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere I have been told by supervisors, girlfriends, and female friends the thing a racist tells a black guy as a "compliment": "You're one of the good ones."	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:30 AM
6	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? It's like asking "are you hungry or just bored?" but with depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:19 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Why do you think my marriage is shitty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:15 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Like, it's fine to have dating struggles and vent about being ghosted or be upset when you're cheated on, broken up with etc. That you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 12:27 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere I'm married to a woman I've been with for 15 years. Not every misogynist is an incel. Try again, this time without assuming a woman's only value is sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 12:18 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Yeah sure, I'm not here to tell you not to be hateful. What's interesting is that I have never made that claim and get denial in response. 100% of the time I get justification. It is what it is. I'm not going to change a gender-wide phenomenon. It's as useless as trying to change all men so that a blackout drunk woman is safe walking home alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 12:16 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Women DO hate men. Misandry is just so normalized that you don't even realize it when you're doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 12:00 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere They do make it hard to not be misogynist...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 11:59 PM
1	One of feminism’s biggest weaknesses is the reluctance to hold toxic voices accountable because doing so might 'validate the enemy' I sometimes feel like feminists infight more than they fight patriarchy. Because it's easier to fight a person than an idea. A little while back I saw some studies that showed something like 90% of people support gender equality but like 80-95% of people self identify as "not feminist" (depending on the country, 4% of Germans are feminists). I've never seen a feminist take this information in as good news instead of immediately doing damage control for their brand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:05 PM
5	One of feminism’s biggest weaknesses is the reluctance to hold toxic voices accountable because doing so might 'validate the enemy' "The only people who hate women more than men is other women."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:02 PM
5	Men should stop lying about having low standards Yes, most guys would want the bare minimum lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 03:21 PM
4	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Are you horny or are you just empty and need the dopamine hit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 03:00 PM
1	Q4M: Why do guys approach women they cannot afford? mmm... pretty sure "basement dwelling neckbeard" is a pretty standard insult. Where's the basement, addings0? Whose basement do you live in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 02:43 PM
7	Q4M: Why do guys approach women they cannot afford? For the most part, yes. The caveat is that a man's status and income are the equivalent of a woman's looks. Men are mostly valued for their utility. Why do you think the go-to insult for a guy is that he's an adult who can't get sex because he lives in his parents' basement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 01:19 PM
3	Q4M: Why do guys approach women they cannot afford? Riley Freeman, red pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 01:17 PM
1	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Oh! This is a teachable moment. The seagull lady is following me around Reddit calling me names and I don't like it. I can either blame her and curse my bad luck or take action and solve the problem myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 04:40 PM
9	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Most people are ugly. We really, really need to remember this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 03:40 PM
1	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men I think I lost the faith when my 24 year old coworker told me she was surprised and confused that one of our clients was blind. Like she didn't understand how blind people could have jobs and apparently never met a blind person before that interaction. I'm cool with zoomers and Gen X, but we're at completely different stages in our lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 03:24 PM
2	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy I'm sorry that you're offended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:55 PM
1	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy So I made a joke about mis-attributing a quote and you think I have an incel hero. Canadians are weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:42 PM
0	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Thomas Crooks was the guy who shot Trump in the head last July.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:39 PM
3	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Thomas Crooks was the guy who shot Trump in the head last July.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:39 PM
6	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Over 50% of Gen Z men admit that they've never approached a woman, which means there's another percentage on top of that who lie and say they did. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. -Thomas Crooks	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:47 PM
–	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career "Igotstandardsbro.com" is definitely where you get all your information from. It's why you're so smart for a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:42 PM
–	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career And I proved to you that 70k is the top 45% for people. You're really smart for a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:40 PM
–	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career And I'm saying that $70k is not impressive for anyone. You're really smart for a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:39 PM
1	CMV: Rejecting men because they doesn't earn enough is not "shallow" It's not a big deal when a woman makes $70k You're trying to brag about having a 100 IQ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:35 PM
–	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career Holy shit you had that locked and loaded you absolute psycho. That comment was from almost 3 weeks ago lol Yes I stand by it. If you're interested in me for my money, that's absolutely fair. What do you bring to the table to justify your expectations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:33 PM
6	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Weird and my b https://torontosun.com/life/relationships/generational-age-gaps-can-be-positive-in-dating-study-finds Idk why it copied that page	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 11:51 AM
–	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Well the article says 10+ year age gap. I keep thinking gen z is 25. Shut up and get off my lawn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 04:38 AM
21	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Allegedly about 40% of Gen z women are dating men in their 30s. Now, they're fine to look at but I work with gen z women and I honestly don't know what we would possibly talk about. https://torontosun.com/life/relationships/generational-age-gaps-can-be-positive-in-dating-study-finds	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 04:12 AM
5	“Decentering” is really just “centering” resentment of the other gender You ever lose something and search the house top to bottom and just can't, for the life of you, find it and then like two weeks later you open the freezer for a toaster strudel and BAM there's your book? It's like that, but for bitches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:36 AM
1	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? So I understand that it's a cost/benefit analysis, but you're describing shitty friends. With my female friends, I've paid for stuff or they've paid for stuff or we crowdsourced the group for money to pay for stuff. Don't be friends with people who treat you shitty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:40 PM
2	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? To be fair, I absolutely cannot treat my female friends the same way I treat my male friends. With my male friends I'm completely unfiltered but with my female friends there's always a general necessity to be diplomatic during every interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:38 PM
27	A case study on why dating is absolutely horrible for men and all men should go MGTOW There are exactly zero unbiased posts on those subreddits. Those stories (which are typically creative writing exercises) are so skewed that OP could say "AIO, my husband slapped me in the mouth" and I'd be willing to hear his side. Zero people on reddit, myself included, deserve any amount of respect or benefit of the doubt, especially in those rant subreddits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 04:12 AM
0	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Then I have no earthly idea why you felt the need to bring it up. Pity party? Men bad? The fact remains, if you want a condom he's legally obligated to wear a condom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 08:59 PM
-1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Yeah it’s illegal, but that doesn’t amount to much. Where we disagree is that you don't think it matters that rape is a crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 08:44 PM
0	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Okay so we're agreed. If you say condom and I say no condom and have sex with you anyway, it's a Class A felony. Good talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 08:25 PM
1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Speeding is still a crime even if you don't get pulled over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 07:59 PM
1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Female birth control is covered by health insurance, male birth control could be too. Health insurance doesn't mean pharma-corps don't get paid. It's common enough for men to bring it up here on the regular. I couldn't give you an exact percentage. You don't need to shit test me to see if I "really care". I have literally never seen a guy bring up how scared he is of getting raped and the woman sues him for child support. That's not a thing. You're making things up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:42 PM
1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? It's not legal. He's spending life in prison for murdering a baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:04 PM
0	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Can you list a few or even one reason why it's not a good idea to advocate for better male contraceptive options? Pharmaceutical corporations will hurt you for money, they develop unnecessary drugs all the time for money, and again, as a layman I can tell you what's in a condom and exactly how it works but you can't tell me what's in a [male] birth control pill and exactly how it works. How common is it for women to rape men and get pregnant by it? I want to gauge how seriously to take your hypo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:00 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Honestly I think it's a "black Snape" problem. Who is this for? If a guy is afraid of being baby trapped, he's wearing a condom anyway. It's birth control you can see working, and again you'll need it to protect you from STDs. If it's just an added layer, it's a nice-to-have product instead of a need-to-have product.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:56 PM
6	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Also the "trust me bro" works both ways. 100% of women will assume he's lying about being on the pill and make him wear a condom anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:46 PM
3	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? So the target demographic for this market is "rapists who want to be considerate enough to not get you pregnant". Who are you selling this to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:37 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? My experience is that men will lie, and lie, and lie (not to mention beg plead and threaten) to avoid using condoms. "Sex requires mutual consent. If one person is like "put on this clown makeup" and the other party is like "nah" but proceeds to have sex with the first person, that's a Class A felony."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:34 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Okay so I refer you back to the "Class A felony" point. Like if you're tricking me into sex that I wouldn't want if I wasn't being tricked, that's rape. It's the same thing as whatever you call it when the guy takes the condom off in the middle of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:25 PM
4	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? If you really want me to, I'll let you know... uh... big girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:21 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? You'd make a terrible prosecutor. The burden of proof would be that he wanted her to die, when it was pretty open and shut that he wanted the baby to die. It is weird that they didn't catch him on battery, but like "what's a misdemeanor when he caught a life sentence for murdering an unborn baby" right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:19 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? lol I read about that guy for so long before I heard his voice and he did not disappoint. He sounds like Lil Giddeon. I don't know what I was expecting, but that wasn't it. Wanna change that law? Absolutely not, it's my go-to for proof that abortion is murder. That dude's life sentence is a sacrifice I'm willing to make if it means winning internet arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:16 PM
4	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? You're aware that the man was convicted by the Unborn Victims of Violence Act and not the "don't poison your girlfriend" act right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:14 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? The girlfriend didn't die though? He's in prison for murdering an unborn baby. The injustice of removing a parasite clump of cells that isn't a human being carrying a life sentence. Can you believe that bullshit?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:06 PM
7	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? The only men who give a shit about the “unfairness” of abortion are men on the spectrum fixated on the childish concept of fair. Hey it's murder when we do it! Doesn't seem very "fair".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:03 PM
6	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Look at how much of your rebuttal is "crazy and evil women exist" and then bow before the superiority of the condom! Just be thankful we aren't still using lemons and crocodile shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:57 PM
0	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? So just to clarify, when a condom fails, you can see it happen and take appropriate next steps. There's no "three weeks later she might notice her period is late" to wait for, it's just "oh shit it broke, go get the orange juice." Score another point for condoms being the pinnacle of human engineering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:48 PM
6	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? I'm not entirely sure you want to brag about the confidence you have in children putting condoms on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:42 PM
1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? I'm terrified at the dry sex you're having.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:41 PM
6	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? How did you learn the proper way to put a condom on? You learned it from somewhere right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:36 PM
2	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Do condoms come shorter than 1ft long? Like the way they're designed, they can hold about a liter of water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:35 PM
9	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Eh... you'd be surprised at how many guys don't know that they need to pinch the top and roll down leaving a little space at the tip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:34 PM
13	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Condoms only work if you have the right size, the right fit, put them on correctly and use enough lubrication to avoid friction tears. Size and fit are the same thing. Just don't delude yourself that you need a monster condom for your magnum dong and you're fine SFW. Also "educating people on how to actually use them" applies to every contraception. Like even with a vasectomy, you aren't shooting blanks until you ejaculate like 50 times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:27 PM
27	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? The men complaining about this go on and on about how it's unfair to men that women have all the say in whether or not a child is born but ignore the fact that women are expected to bear nearly the full responsibility of contraception. Sex requires mutual consent. If one person is like "put on this clown makeup" and the other party is like "nah" but proceeds to have sex with the first person, that's a Class A felony. So it could be argued that condoms aren't just male-contraception, but let's ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:14 PM
–	Women hide under the ideals of masculinity to avoid approaching men socially They give lip service against inequality that favors them but you'll never see a feminist protest to put women on the draft.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:19 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. OP was trying to deflect from the fact that 80% of rapists were raised by single mothers. I asked if she thought it was nurture like my assertion or nature like her assertion and if she thinks black men are genetically predisposed to rape white women or if it might not be genetic after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:46 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors. OP is talking about me pointing out that 80% of rapists were raised by single mothers and as a rebuttal, she said 90% of rapists are men and I asked if she thought it was nature vs nurture and if she would extend her assertion to how often rapists are black men. OP declined to reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:44 PM
1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? It's like me saying I want to take you to a concert and then we get there and I ask where your ticket is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:39 PM
2	Love exists more when you’re a teenager. Ever since I was a kid, this was the kind of love I wanted. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4ftmOI5NnI Max and Valerie are relationship goals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 05:24 PM
-1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. So to clarify, you probably wouldn't count as "these types of people".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:01 PM
7	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Every now and then with these types of people I'll link a random study and say it backs up my claim knowing 100% that they won't even click the link.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:57 PM
1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? On our first date I paid for everything specifically because the plans were my idea. Though to be fair, I simp for my wife. It's doesn't have to be society-big. Every interaction is just two people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:39 PM
3	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Having reasonable takes while still finding ways to be misogynistic is what makes me purple pilled, ma'am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:37 PM
-1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Sorry I didn't see your pill so I didn't know I had to point out that if she had asked him on a date, she would be expected to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:23 PM
-1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? He offered to take her on a date. She's right, if she's paying he didn't take her anywhere, she took herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:58 PM
3	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Okay so anyone filming themselves crying is absolutely 🎣 BUT. If I tell you "hey I want to take you to a baseball game" and when we meet at the stadium and ask where your ticket is, that's bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:56 PM
3	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? I'll defend the thot. Whoever suggested the date should pay. She's not wrong, if he said he wanted to take her out, the implication is that he's treating her to whatever. What if this was a Friends situation where he took her to a restaurant that was out of her budget? I wouldn't go nuts on the menu but a $60 expense that I wasn't expecting would put me in a bad mood. And to clarify, Manners dictates that she must "reach" for the bill when he pays and show no outward expectation that he will pay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:53 PM
2	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? But I'm paying. That's payment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:47 PM
2	There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etc Women are right to keep fighting for rights they already have because we see all the time, when you give the government an inch they take a mile. Men are wrong for wanting trad-wives. Life is much easier when your significant other is independent and especially when she makes her own money. Encouraging little girls left right and center isn't bad in itself, the issue is that we should also start to encourage little boys to "be whatever they want to be" when they grow up. Life is complicated. It'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 10:16 PM
1	Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know it I'm not saying they don't, I'm saying that it's probably closer to half like Gen Z men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 10:12 PM
-1	There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etc So I like to think I have some red pill takes and some blue pill takes. No such thing as a strong women. Did you ever notice that women call themselves strong and independent when they perform the basic functions of an adult? Like "I don't need a man to pay my bills." haha grats I guess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 09:43 PM
0	There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etc The problem is that I don't entirely hate the dynamic. Women are coddled and supported throughout their entire upbringing and most of their adult lives. 65% of college students are women and yet we still have women-only scholarships and programs trying to cram girls into university. The drawback is that they're not very independent or self confident. Despite me being in statistically more danger than a woman when we go out at night by ourselves... she's scared and I'm not. When I come across a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 09:23 PM
0	There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etc So as a Purple Pill guy, I'm of the opinion that men have ABC privileges over women and women have XYZ privileges over men. It's like Dungeons and Dragons races. Dwarves have +2 to constitution because they're stout and -2 to charisma because they're dicks and Elves have +2 to Wisdom because they're old AF and -2 to Constitution because they're frail. Which race is superior? The answer is "it depends what we're talking about".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 08:57 PM
7	There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etc The whole blue pill / red pill metaphor is basically the question "do you accept society for what it is or do you dream of what society could be?" Like blue pill women are standard feminists because most of society is geared toward women and that's how they want to keep it. Red pill ranges somewhere between "this is stupid" and "I'm angry that this is stupid" and virtually all of their opinions are rooted in some form of counter-culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 08:33 PM
4	Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know it So what he said- they've all said they do approach and make the first moves And all = 100% Which is why I specified that I'd even accept all to mean the vast majority, so the bar has fairly been set at 90% If you drop much lower than that you can't really fairly say all. So what he said: It’s been asked to women here before and they’ve all said they do approach and make first moves and what you interpret that to mean Just that women do approach men they want to date. these are not the same state…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 02:41 PM
2	Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know it We are, and I don't believe that one side has a 100% rate while the other side has a 50% rate. Even colloquially meaning "the vast majority" I wouldn't believe. If you have any stats that show like 90% or more I'd love to see them, but I understand if you just saw a headline a while back about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 01:26 PM
8	Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know it they've all said they do approach and make the first moves Studies have shown that half of Gen Z men have never approached a woman in their life. I don't believe your claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 01:11 PM
6	Why do many men shame women for being with men then say men are high value? So the implication of your "sanitizing the can" is that all remnants of the trauma I inflicted are gone forever on a molecular level. Is that ever the case for abuse victims? Ever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 08:46 PM
4	Why do many men shame women for being with men then say men are high value? one was licked but then cleaned/sanitized no. That's not the scenario. I was holding two cans, I licked the bottom of one, and I held both cans out for you to pick one from	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 08:23 PM
2	Why do many men shame women for being with men then say men are high value? Is the value of the soda that I licked less than the value of the soda I didn't lick? Like I said, you'd reach for the unlicked soda every time. If the unlicked soda was $1, how much would the licked soda have to be for you to reach for that one instead? And again, the liquid inside each can is identical... but because of my actions against the can that we both agree won't actually affect you, the licked can has less value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 08:17 PM
1	Why do many men shame women for being with men then say men are high value? She isn't a bad person, but I wouldn't want to be with someone if their last (years long) relationship was abusive. It's like if I presented you with two cans of soda and licked the bottom of one. No part of you will come into contact with my saliva, all of the soda is unblemished and equally delicious... but you will ABSOLUTELY reach for the unlicked can, every single time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 07:33 PM
2	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Yeah, you thought she was an attractive woman. Don't claim you don't think 14 year olds are hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 04:15 AM
4	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? That's literally your argument. "If you thought she was an attractive woman, it's not XYZ".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 03:32 AM
5	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Giving "but your honor, she said she was 18" vibes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 03:05 AM
1	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Aim fatter. 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:26 AM
2	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? If you ever need a pick me up, go visit a Walmart. If those fuckin chud monsters walking around with their chud monster wives can find love, there's hope for us all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:06 AM
2	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Jesus said to treat others the way you'd want to be treated. I have a lot of strong opinions about transgenderism, but they've got enough problems without me piling it on. If it was me, I'd want people to be similarly kind. I won't lie and call them pretty, I won't "woman*" people about it, but there's plenty of other people who are way more deserving of a bad day than a standard transgender person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:05 AM
1	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Well I'm sure you've got a wonderful set of humor and a perfectly average penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:00 AM
1	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Unsarcastically, this is the same reason I didn't want to get LASIK until it was around for like 20 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 02:00 AM
4	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? That would be me You don't have to clarify, this is reddit. The assumption is that everyone besides me is ugly. My mom says I'm handsome and she isn't a liar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 01:57 AM
9	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? It is a kindness that costs you nothing. Just because I wouldn't have sex with a transgender person doesn't mean I should be mean to them on top of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 01:55 AM
7	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Man or woman those are some of the worst fake tits I've ever seen on a person 😬	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 01:54 AM
3	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? It's rude to assume your girlfriend is into anal. A faux pas, even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 01:52 AM
7	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Discussion about what? Also statistically, 97% of straight men answer no to OP's question and 91% of gay men answer no. What exactly is extreme? I don't get that part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:35 PM
5	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? Ya know? I never thought about it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:32 PM
6	Would you date a trans woman that passes well? He's a dude with tits. You think he loves himself?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:31 PM
1	Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him? Hey do you think the Pepe Sylvia joke was Charlie's dyslexia misreading "Pennsylvania" on all the envelopes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:29 PM
–	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles Not really. At best you were burying the lead. At worst, there's a lot of different worst options. "I have PTSD flashbacks when I interact with men" is different than "I'm nonsexual and don't like when boys in my class flirt with me, I'm there to learn!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:21 PM
–	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles Do you see how "being raped" is different than "getting flirted with in class"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:18 PM
1	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles I'm hit on by gay dudes way more often than by women. You ever have a guy shout at you from across the street to let him suck your dick? I have and it made me feel so fuckin handsome, let me tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 09:37 PM
2	Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him? I've never met a girl who was into feet. I'm not into feet, but it's one of those things only guys are into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 09:33 PM
0	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles Bro just telling you- you will never gain sympathy or even have a man be able to understand why "all this romantic attention" is a problem. You're still a kid but exactly zero of those guys who are hitting on you have ever been hit on and depending on your major, likely none of them will ever be hit on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:20 PM
2	gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender roles It took me too long to realize that "underwater basket weaving" means that you're soaking the basket as you're weaving it to keep the material pliant and bendable so that when it dries it's sturdy. There are no SCUBA masks required in these classes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:08 PM
7	Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him? Yeah but what if you're into feet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 07:10 PM
25	Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him? Imagine finding out that you aren't sexually compatible after you get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 06:30 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 You have no metrics to back this up. You just decided to believe what you read on some protest sign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:45 PM
1	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women Wait are the men coercing women or are they deceiving them? You can't keep your story straight. Be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:14 PM
1	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women Most people constantly pretend that they're something they're not. The point you don't understand ☝️ I don't know how to better explain the concept of "everyone is on their best behavior on a first date."	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:04 PM
-1	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women Is it normal to wear cologne on dates or is that lying about how I smell?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:46 PM
-1	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women why are women complaining that some men are perfectly ok with “pretending to be what she wants to get into her pants" Most people constantly pretend that they're something they're not. For example your mom only vacuums the house when company is coming over so thar she can pretend that she's a clean person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:26 PM
5	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women Hypersexuality is a symptom of a lot of mental illnesses. So it might be a cart and horse issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:24 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 I'm just trying to make sense of the logic that the government banned abortion and now there's record breaking amounts of abortion. Seems... paradoxical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:21 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 "Women are committing abortion like it's going out of style" is definitely something we can both agree on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:11 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Nobody restricted it, it was deregulated. It is genuinely insane that you were just told that women are committing abortion in record numbers and first you thought it was banned and now you think it's restricted. If metrics and data can't convince you it isn't, nothing can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:06 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 I mean when you increase abortions by 80,000 abortions per year... yes, there will be an uptick of "that one story from two years ago that is your only example". You have more abortions. We're ankle deep in mashed up fetuses. Why are you upset? You won.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 08:15 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 (They didn't ban anything, as evidenced by the record breaking abortions)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:39 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Without being sarcastic or insulting or using circular logic, please answer the question you just asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:14 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Super fun fact: more women have committed abortion each year after Roe v Wade was overturned than in any of the prior 15 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:13 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 "You grifting little shit, you only ran that 5K fundraiser for MS research because your mom has MS."	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:12 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Hey did you ever notice how that literally, not figuratively, only ever goes one way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:11 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Full disclosure, I may have suggested that if we treated incels like human beings there would be fewer school shootings. Personally I still think my logic is airtight, but I had like 200 downvotes and someone reported me for "promoting hate".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:09 AM
1	Women who wants/have kids, are you worried about your sons suffering from loneliness epidemic in the future and what steps are you going to take so that he gets a healthy dating life? This is pretty spot on, but I'd nitpick and say that you're explaining "I'm not responsible for my kids being able to get dates, but I'm responsible for my kids developing all the skills that will enable them to get dates". It's kind of just saying "yeah" but with extra steps. Like you're not responsible for your daughters' driving, but you're responsible for teaching your daughters how to drive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 05:44 PM
-1	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. Oh I was being hyperbolic and sarcastic. Only "certain people" think men are inherently predators and those aren't people you need to take seriously. Women who think this way could go fuck themselves, same as any other bigot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 11:57 PM
2	If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes? The reason I'm excited for my 40s is because my 30s were better than my 20s which were better than my teens. Life gets so much better when you just go with the flow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 08:15 PM
1	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. I've been with my mostly-normal wife for 14 years, if that's what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 07:41 PM
0	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. But men are predators who don't actually care whether the woman consents to interacting with him. It's why ComicCon NEEDS to plaster those "costumes aren't consent" posters everywhere and why colleges NEED to "teach men not to rape". Where have you been? This advice is just agreeing with women with a "no, not like that!" reaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 06:52 PM
0	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else I don't agree with OP but I've always understood it as the female orgasm is a vestigial quirk of how we form in the womb. Like male nipples. There's really no evolutionary reason for a female orgasm, but there's no harm in it so it wasn't bred out of us through the ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 05:03 PM
1	What sort of first dates/outings do you prefer ? I've had a first dates at a 24 hour diner My first date with my wife started with going to a Harry Potter movie at 8pm, staying out all night driving around talking, and then going to a diner at 4am for breakfast. GOD I miss when businesses were open 24 hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 05:01 PM
9	If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes? Everyone's prime is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 03:03 PM
15	If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes? A long time ago a person's "prime" just meant the best years of their life. Before pickup artists and incels existed, in the dark histories of the 1900s... it literally just meant that you were in the springtime of your life. The most possibility, the prettiest you're going to be, joints that didn't ache in the morning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 02:07 PM
-2	What guys really want It's just a woman laughing at a man's joke and being nice to him. That's literally all men want from a woman, and from conversations on Reddit this is asking for the moon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 02:46 AM
1	What women really want How do you embed a gif right in the comment? I never figured it out and still hyperlink text to imgur like a grandpa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 09:36 PM
1	What women really want Same for #3. A man can do laundry every month and be fine but if you want it done every week then it’s now wrong. He was never struggling or incompetent yet still did not pass your bar. This is mostly a clean as you go habit, especially when you're doing laundry for two or more people. Also the presumption is that you have a washer and drier in your home, so like the washing machine becomes the hamper and it takes 3 seconds to set the wash going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 09:27 PM
0	What women really want Nice sleuthing, you could just ask. My account is 2 months old because I got doxed and someone made a death threat so I rotate through accounts every few months. Your intense (definitely not psychotic) investigation tells me it might be time to start a new one. Glad I didn't make the mistake of commenting on my hometown's subreddit this time. The avatar is just the first random choice. I use the old UI so I'm not very good at the new interface 90% of Reddit is anti-Trump hysteria. Calling it stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 08:56 PM
14	What women really want Always ask yourself "Why is OP's account 3 years old but only has activity stretching back two weeks?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 06:08 PM
3	Do you ever have the urge to push back against hatred directed at men who think their position in dating suck? I have met more women in my life that gave me the racist "you're one of the good ones" than women who didn't treat all men like Asians treat black people or think of all men the way 4chan thinks of Jews.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:29 PM
1	How true is it that girls will avoid guys they like and act outgoing with guys they don't like? Nothing is so emasculating as being one of the girls at work 🥲	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 12:51 PM
–	Do you ever have the urge to push back against hatred directed at men who think their position in dating suck? As a rule, women hate men. That's why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 12:49 PM
1	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Most analogies really only work from one angle. It's wild how feminists never understand what an analogy is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 11:22 PM
1	Saying paraplegic people have difficulty walking is ableist You can't just make up terms and bend them to your will. ...did you just wake up from a 12 year coma? That's exactly what "people who unsarcastically use the term abelist" do. There's even a term for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 07:49 PM
1	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? People who brush off your feelings and tell you to "stop whining" aren't your friends. You shouldn't be friends with those people regardless of their gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:35 PM
3	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? There's space enough in the world to have many common third spaces that are coed, and some that are single gender. I wish that were true, but further down the comment chain I point out that feminists have even gone so far as to invade the boy scouts. It's cool that you allow your husband to hang out with men unchaperoned, but I think your misunderstanding is that you don't get what I mean by a third place. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:25 PM
2	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? So this is weird for me to have to break down but theoretically, being her actual friend- Means that in her mind you're a good dude. People who are friends have overlapping interests, so her friends will have similar interests to you. It generally gives people the warm fuzzies to help their friends out. This would be one more wedding she gets to be the maid of honor at. I'm confused as to why you wouldn't think a person would see two single people in their separate friend groups that might hit i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:18 PM
1	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Women are not allowed to be in public unless accompanied by a man= Sharia. How was this not the obvious parallel I was making?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:07 PM
5	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? I mean if you look at it from the perspective of networking, it's not such an insane take. Like I'm not using my work friends workplace proximity acquaintances. But I got my last two jobs from a casual acquaintance's recommendation. If you see it as "a strategy" that's fucked up red pill shit. But if you don't close people off, there is the potential for your friend to tell her friend "you know who I think you'd hit it off with?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:06 PM
4	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? That's nice. There used to be men's third-places, but nothing upsets a feminist quite like a man's happiness...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 03:49 PM
3	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Maybe when women stop invading men's spaces men can have activities to themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 03:44 PM
0	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? Some day I'll figure out an effective way to argue against Feminist-Sharia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 03:22 PM
4	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? You could just say "yeah". We didn't ban smoking, you could just smoke in your house!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 02:56 PM
4	Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men? So Plan A is still to destroy every woman-free third place that men might have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 02:49 PM
2	Autistic women are not "better at masking" So women are... biologically compelled to go to therapy more often than men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 02:06 PM
1	Autistic women are not "better at masking" I'm saying women are better at dealing with their mental illness / neurodivergence /whatever it's called today, damn kids not because of privilege, but because they go to the doctor and get diagnosed and treated for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 01:43 PM
2	Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor. Or move to a state that isn't friendly to alimony https://lawofficeofaishahmccoy.com/what-states-do-not-enforce-alimony/ The hard part is tricking your wife into thinking Mississippi is a good place to move to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 01:42 PM
3	Autistic women are not "better at masking" Women live longer because men don't go to the doctor. The reason autistic women have an easier time of it is because they're more likely to get diagnosed and receive treatment/therapy for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 01:39 PM
5	How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label? But that's stupid and wouldn't stick cause the actual definition This applies to so many buzzwords. Incel... racist... nazi... woke... shit even the word "literally" has been changed from "literally" to "literally" and "no, not literally". You just have to make your peace with linguistic drift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 01:28 PM
24	Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableist This is exactly it. All of my painfully single friends throughout my life have had one trait in common. They're fucking awkward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 04:38 AM
3	CMV: Rejecting men because they doesn't earn enough is not "shallow" Just like anything else, the severity is what makes the difference. It's absolutely reasonable to expect your man to have a job. It's absolutely reasonable to expect your man to be able to support himself. But the further away from your own income you get, the more you have to bring to the table in return. The only thing that makes it unreasonable is not being able to answer the question "What makes you worthy of my six figure salary?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 07:28 PM
29	Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men? Yes. Every time I point out how every woman hates men to some degree or other, women never reply "no we don't". It's always just them defending their hatred. We notice you crossing the street to avoid us. We notice that men will make eye contact with other men and give nods while women will pretend that the middle distance is extremely interesting. We notice that guys will brush past us to get by but women will reroute in order to avoid our cooties. Some guys are bothered by it, some guys aren't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 07:04 PM
6	Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job? The worst part of marriage is that she likes chewy bacon and I like crispy bacon. I've been considering divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 05:09 PM
5	Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job? Thank you so much for reminding me that it's my turn to make breakfast 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 03:29 PM
–	The average woman today is more privileged than the average man. "Why are you being so uppity? There's your water fountain over there!" It's literally normalized discrimination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 12:39 AM
–	The average woman today is more privileged than the average man. or that there aren’t scholarships men can apply for? https://scholarships360.org/scholarships/top-scholarships-for-women/ There are like... six privileges women have over men and how do you not know about this one?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 11:57 PM
–	The average woman today is more privileged than the average man. Please tell me how much student debt you graduated with due to all of those scholarships I wasn't allowed to apply to. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 11:38 PM
–	The average woman today is more privileged than the average man. Is there... any kind of finish line for when women are done needing all the help that they certainly don't "need" because they're fierce and could've done it on their own if they wanted to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 11:29 PM
–	The average woman today is more privileged than the average man. Women make up the majority of college students by a bit of a margin. Yet we still have programs encouraging and funding girls to go to college. Seems like privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 10:26 PM
–	The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies. No I'm sincerely saying I thought sugar babies were a group of women who exchanged goods and services for money. Also obligatory Riley Freeman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cfCI07zVRg	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 08:34 PM
–	The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies. I might be old and not understand what a sugar baby is, but don't you just give her lots of money and she does sex things for you? Or like an escort situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 08:19 PM
–	The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies. Walk me through how that's not just prostitution with extra steps	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 08:06 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. And they never realize they sound exactly like a KKK member talking about "you know whats". I guarantee you've said "you're one of the good ones" to your boyfriend/husband the way Uncle Cleetus would tell my cousin's black boyfriend. Would you say around men... you "never relax"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 07:18 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. I said it to the other one and I'll say it again- The fact that women just hate men is endlessly fascinating to me. Like sure men won't respect women and they'll objectify them and whatever... but women hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 06:43 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. Is "uwu men would rather talk to a tree than a woman" supposed to be some kind of gotcha? No it's telling women the same thing the bear told men. "I'm not comfortable being vulnerable around you" But when you're the target of the comparison, you get super defensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 06:40 PM
–	Q4M: would you date a sex offender? So I might just have the crime statistics stuck in my brain (women are sentenced to 40% of the jailtime as men when convicted of the same crimes) so I'm having trouble thinking of sex offenses women would be convicted of that aren't really that bad, but like if we're just making up a person, I would date someone who got drunk and got caught for public urination at a playground at 2am when they were 19. There's really not much else, but I'm interested in your hypothetical scenario where I wouldn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 04:44 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. No I'm just a guy who understands the OP and literally started this conversation The first (massive) hurdle to any question you ask women is the ordeal of trying to get them to understand a male perspective. . And from a male perspective, ma'am, that's a spot on analysis of what happens whenever a guy complains a little about his life. This whole conversation started off with me explaining that men see women as unsympathetic and women cannot fathom themselves being unsympathetic. Again, this is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 04:13 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. In the tl;dr version I asked, why do you think women have zero sympathy for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 04:09 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. The question is biased because you don't think you're unsympathetic to men. It's like all those posts about "why don't feminists care about men?" and you have women lying about how helping women really helps men too. It's like how my wife is a loud talker and when it's late and we're walking around town and I can hear her voice echo off the houses... I can't just be like "Hey be quiet, it's late". OP's post is - You are this way. Why are you this way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 04:04 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. No I totally get the whole reasoning behind why guys can't understand the problem with being cat-called. But like "living at home in your 30s" is such a red flag to me, a guy who is also in his 30s. There's a whole bunch of valid reasons you still live at home ranging from cultural to like a sick parent or whatever. But if I went on a date with a woman and she was like "Come back to my place, my parents are asleep by now" my brain would just go "I'm going to be taking care of this person for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 04:02 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. The first (massive) hurdle to any question you ask women is the ordeal of trying to get them to understand a male perspective. The tl;dr for this OP is "why do women have zero sympathy for men?" And from a male perspective, ma'am, that's a spot on analysis of what happens whenever a guy complains a little about his life. When asked, "Would you rather randomly come across a bear or a man in the woods" every woman chooses bear. When asked, "Would you rather share your feelings with a tree or a wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 03:57 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. I'm in my 30s, still live with my parents, and I STILL can enter relationships with men I'm attracted to at any time I see fit. This is the most wild thing in the world to me. She's either lying through her teeth or too gorgeous to make eye contact with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 03:48 PM
3	Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault. I mean the first google link says 80% https://post.ca.gov/portals/0/post_docs/publications/Building%20a%20Career%20Pipeline%20Documents/safe_harbor.pdf This part was particularly interesting- 70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies and teen substance abusers come from single mother homes	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:43 PM
0	Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault. The vast majority of poor kids have two parents. Also look at actually-poor, non-American countries. Median household income for Malaysia is about $700. Why haven't they turned into Mad Max style savages?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:30 PM
7	Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault. How can something that isn't there make you any kind of way? The fact that women just hate men is endlessly fascinating to me. Like sure men won't respect women and they'll objectify them and whatever... but women hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:21 PM
2	Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault. Male privilege. Boys are accustomed to feeling superior to girls, men accustomed to feeling superior to women. 85% of violent rapists were raised by single mothers. Bad dogs aren't born, they're made. Look for variables, not constants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 02:07 PM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? "Always start with foreplay" is life changing advice that you need to pass on to every man you ever talk to. This is the fire of Prometheus. If she comes before the sex, worst case scenario is she came, more likely scenario she tells her friends you gave her multiple orgasms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 10:21 PM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? I don't know Bro this is a time where a woman is telling you a thing and you need to listen to it. Foreplay is a near-guarantee of orgasm. My wife thinks I'm way better at sex than I am specifically because I don't sleep on the foreplay. A-B test the theory if you don't believe it though. Keep a journal like Trish from Mallrats did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 10:09 PM
2	CMV: Families are happier with the modern wife/mom than the traditional type Oh because I think families are happiest when the mother feels successful and fulfilled in her goals. Was confusing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 03:06 PM
12	CMV: Families are happier with the modern wife/mom than the traditional type There's a hidden bias in there though. For a SAHM to exist, the dad has to just be crushing it financially which implies a whole bunch of things going on in the background like college education, work ethic, and not seeing your dad for literally most of your childhood. It's not just "happy wife, happy life" expanded to the family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 03:00 PM
–	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. I mean if we're talking should's, people should love each other forever and not get divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 02:57 PM
–	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. I feel like you're really hung up on the semantics of it. You can run for president. There's no laws written to stop you. You will absolutely not be president if you aren't a wealthy guy with massive connections to corporate power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 02:26 PM
1	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. "If you didn't want to be a parent, you shouldn't have had sex."	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 04:41 PM
3	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. More sleight of hand: Me: "Men have zero control over the pregnancy, and therefore no responsibility." You: "Since men have no direct control over the pregnancy itself, that takes away their responsibility for the child." But I might be getting ahead of myself. Are you Pro-life and of the opinion that once there's a heartbeat, it's a child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:50 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. If you have no control over a thing, you have no responsibility for that thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:40 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. https://www.wspa.com/news/woman-travels-country-paying-drug-addicts-to-get-vasectomies-tubes-tied/ Hero?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:26 PM
0	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Yeah, "find yourself"... "quit the bottle"... fuck struggling people, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:23 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Do you really think your sleight of hand works when it's written down? I'm talking about pregnancy, not impregnation. Me: men and women are both responsible for the sex. You: Men have as much control over impregnation as women do. Literally the same thing and not at all the point I'm making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:22 PM
1	Women ARE wonderful Because it's hyper-effective and the ruling aristocrats have spent hundreds of years and trillions of dollars perfecting it. It's why Congress has a 13% approval rating but your Congressman has like a 70% approval rating. Or like how we all agree that corporations will hurt people for profit until someone says the word vaccine. And it's worth the downvotes: Occupy Wall Street brought the rabble together as we were heading into an election year and the end of that movement lines up precisely with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:19 PM
-3	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. No, men and women are both responsible for the sex. Men have zero control over the pregnancy, and therefore no responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:07 PM
5	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. These conversations always get so pro-life. So we're agreed on "If they didn't want to be a parent, they shouldn't have had sex" except you're using the double standards of quibbling over pronouns?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:03 PM
6	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. No they don't. A timeline: Abstinence The Pill Condoms Plan B Abortion Adoption Men have "control" of one of these things, and only in one direction. If a woman wants a condom and man doesn't but has sex anyway, that's a Class A Felony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:00 PM
1	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Is anything a woman's fault or do they just have no agency or responsibility?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:58 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. What a pro-life thing to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:56 PM
2	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Since when does "let me see my kid" count as the courts favoring anyone? Parents give up custody for all kinds of reasons. Maybe you're a fuckup and need to get your shit together, and after you got your life straightened out you want to see your kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:55 PM
1	Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it. haha have you never heard that phrase before? https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/the+odds+are+good%2c+but+the+goods+are+odd	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:52 PM
4	Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it. He's talking about that calculator thing where it shows population segments and like "I'm looking for a guy in finance, trust fund, 6'5" blue eyes" doesn't exist. If you don't mind the irregular bin, the odds are good but the goods are odd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:05 PM
3	Who makes for better partners, men or women? Gay literally means happy. https://m.youtube.com/shorts/OubN_CUX-Yo	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 01:03 PM
4	With marriage and fertility rates declining, why aren't we seeing more of a push for matriarchy I thought a vote for a third party was a vote for Trump? Did those DNC commercials lie to me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 05:02 AM
2	If feminism is targeted at true equality between men and women, why aren’t more western women targeting regressive societies? Dude the answer is the old saying "PETA throws red paint on fur instead of leather because old ladies won't kick your ass, but bikers will." It's the difference between a feminist and a women's rights activist- The Pussy Hat protests in 2017 were sound and fury signifying nothing and Pussy Riot are fucking ballers because Putin throws them in jail for protesting and they don't stop. https://www.vice.com/en/article/pussy-riot-member-details-horrific-abuse-in-russian-womens-prison/	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:23 AM
6	With marriage and fertility rates declining, why aren't we seeing more of a push for matriarchy America is a democratic republic, which means the people vote for a person to represent them. Voter turnout in 2024 was 51% women, 49% men. You-know-who won the popular vote, including 52% of white women. When you were younger, did you ever imagine the face of the matriarchy would have an orange spray tan?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 01:12 AM
4	Most male posts on this sub read: I don't want to be a man, why should I have to be? Obligatory Mulan. To me the issue is that there used to be a very clear, specific picture of what a man was supposed to be and in the last 25 or 30 years there has been a concentrated effort to dismantle it. The oldest example I can think of is "don't tell boys to man up" with the problem that nobody really thought of what you're telling him to do when you say that. Essentially it's saying "rise above your fear and do this difficult thing" which is pretty much the crux of what being a man means …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 09:31 PM
3	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? "Drawing parallels to explain bigotry is bad" too complicated for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 02:17 AM
5	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? haha sweet attempt at racism bro, but I'm American.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 01:43 AM
4	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? Women are statistically unlikely to be harmed by men Neat! Glad we agree on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 01:02 AM
3	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? The danger men pose to women is greatly exaggerated by bigots. The danger black people pose is greatly exaggerated by bigots. Do you see how I'm using allegory as a teaching tool?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 12:36 AM
7	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? It's a parallel used to explain bigotry to bigots who don't understand the problem because their bigotry is normalized. Statistically you're in much more danger from a black guy than a white guy. To be clear, bigotry is bad and the danger that you're in has been greatly exaggerated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 11:49 PM
10	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? Basically the only people he would be angrier than if my cousin brought home a "one of those" is another woman, because of domestic violence statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 09:53 PM
15	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? Yeah that's what my uncle says. That guy has interracial crime statistics printed out in his back pocket like a jehova witness with their tiny Bibles. You are both right in your identical reasoning for your discrimination. Why are you fighting me I'm saying you're right!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 09:38 PM
10	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? That's the neat part! Most male violence targets other males! You're so smart, just like Uncle Jerry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 09:35 PM
2	Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young? But that's the problem isn't it? Sure you could find a guy to marry you at 35... but all the good ones were snatched up in their mid 20s. People think it's so sweet when I say that if my wife left me I probably wouldn't date again... but the reason I wouldn't is because I know what's out there. And it is grim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 09:13 PM
5	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? My uncle also uses crime statistics as his reasoning for why he refuses to let his daughter date "one of those you-know-whats" and we all say he's being racist, but I guess he's just being smart like you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 08:54 PM
12	Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media? and honestly I'm not ready to be 30 As a 38 year old reading your comment. You are a boy. Your whole life is ahead of you, your back and knees don't hurt yet and if they did doctors would give a shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 08:08 PM
25	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? OP I see you mentioned Steven Gress but not Michelle Brandes and I think that says a lot about the topic as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 07:45 PM
2	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. I mean it's like in Spiderverse where Peter tells Miles "this is where he says "you've got 24 hours"" and then kingpin says "you've got 24 hours". I literally explained what you people do when someone mentions a guys problem and you did it. Caps lock rant and all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 07:23 PM
6	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. You cannot see how we are trying to help you? Um You can’t constantly talk about suicide rates AND DO NOTHING ABOUT IT FOR YOURSELVES! This you, bro?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 03:58 PM
5	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Thanks. “You as a human being doesn’t matter to them”. Please prove this statement The statement has been proven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 03:40 PM
11	There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than women And unlike getting fat, you're allowed to ask them to fix the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 02:43 PM
6	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Talk about suicide rates and you're guaranteed to get a whataboutism to how hard women have it. Talk about murder rates and you'll get a whataboutism to how murderers are typically men. "Prove society doesn't care about men" is a bit of an odd ask because it's just so ingrained into society that men are completely on their own that your request is kind of like "prove the sun is bright". What's weird is when guys are sad sacks about it. Men are disposable. That's why all the Ukrainians that aren'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:58 PM
7	Men need more than women to "choose better" No I mean like how guys go years and years between receiving compliments. Rules 0 and 1 always apply to everyone, but like guys don't care about her job status or what car she drives or who she voted for - if she's proactively nice to him, he'll be infatuated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:49 PM
7	Men need more than women to "choose better" It's so depressing talking to guys about their feelings. Like all a girl has to do to hook a guy is compliment him in passing and he immediately starts fantasizing about the rest of their lives together. The vast majority of men just have the one standard - "Be nice to me sometimes" with the optional "don't make my life harder than it already is".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:24 PM
9	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. The other person replying to me can't quite get there. The thought experiment "why are you still single at 30" to see if you come up with reasons that are your fault or reasons that are not your fault seem to have set her off. My assertion is that men blame themselves and women arrogantly blame everyone but themselves. It's like fat acceptance - it only exists for women. I'll agree that mental illness is definitely an exception, the rule stands. It's not "her" fault she's single at 30... men are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 03:07 AM
5	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. Alright	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 03:04 AM
4	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. Why are you single at 30 isn't a loaded question, it's a pretty standard question as you get older and are single. Have you never been to a wedding with a wine aunt or a Funcle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:42 AM
8	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. As the other guys in this thread have been saying, "he's intimidated by a strong, successful woman" is a cope. Whether it's getting dumped or getting rejected, the problem isn't you- it's the other guy. If I asked you "Why are you single at 30?" would you list your own flaws or would you list reasons that aren't your fault? Like go on those ask men/women subreddits and the dating advice for guys is to improve themselves and the dating advice for women is find better men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:37 AM
7	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. I speak candidly when anonymous on the internet, yes. Wait are you the same person online as you are irl? Interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:33 AM
10	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. The difference is that a man is expected to earn more and there's a built in graciousness to it that women might lack. Like I make $150k and my wife makes $3k as an artist and I've never given her a hard time about it, and have only built her up to other people for having such a cool job even though it would help our bills so much if she even picked up a Walmart job. My sister and sister in law on the other hand proudly talk about how they're their husbands' sugar mamas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:09 AM
8	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. I've never known anyone who has gotten dumped and had the reaction that "I'm the problem". It's like a woman getting dumped for a younger, prettier woman and going "Yeah I have gained about 30lbs". Doesn't happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:06 AM
2	Masculinity - a scam Okay let's shift topics away from my original comment. If it was a scam, why has every culture practiced it since the beginning of humanity? Like from the 300 bc Olympics to the 2024 Olympics, masculinity is pretty unilaterally seen as positive. If it's so bad, why is everyone on board?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:30 PM
2	Masculinity - a scam My point was in my original comment. Did you forget what I put?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:27 PM
5	Are women who live in developed countries more picky and more careful about casual sex and dating and marriages than women from poorer countries? I never understood dudes who choose to have green card marriages. Like wouldn't she secretly hate you and start cheating on you almost immediately after the plane landed in America?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:26 PM
-1	Are women who live in developed countries more picky and more careful about casual sex and dating and marriages than women from poorer countries? This kind of frames "bitter weekend dads who hate their ex wives for having to pay 40% of their paychecks for alimony and child support... but still pay 40% or their paychecks for alimony and child support" differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:25 PM
8	Are women who live in developed countries more picky and more careful about casual sex and dating and marriages than women from poorer countries? I think Louis CK had a bit about something like this where if you lived in a rural village in the 1500s, everyone was ugly and the one pretty girl got married off to a Barron hundreds of miles away when she was 13. I think OP is saying that stuff like tinder widens women's options and lets them be choosier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:22 PM
2	Masculinity - a scam Sure I just need to to explain to me what an incel is without talking about women or emasculated men. I don't know what you think an incel is before you answer this, so I can't explain your question until I get a frame of reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:19 PM
1	Masculinity - a scam Most domestic violence is between lesbians though so that's not really tied to masculinity, workplace deaths aren't a crime, neither are heart attacks... Why is it difficult for you to stay on topic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:17 PM
3	Masculinity - a scam People do not realise how much crimes some men committed due to feeling emasculated. Sure I just need to to explain to me what an incel is without talking about women or emasculated men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:13 PM
4	Masculinity - a scam We're talking about flowers, how dare you mention marigolds! If my example made you uncomfortable, maybe examine your support of OP's opinion a little more critically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:10 PM
3	Masculinity - a scam Pretty sure women are 51% of society. And I'd even weight it a little more since they primarily raise kids, what with filling the vast majority of caregiver roles from babysitting to daycare to grade school teachers....	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:08 PM
5	Masculinity - a scam I quoted the part of the post I was replying to, AssPlay69420.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:03 PM
6	Masculinity - a scam People do not realise how much crimes some men committed due to feeling emasculated. If I had a nickel for every "incels wouldn't shoot up schools if girls were nicer to them" post I've seen on reddit...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 02:59 PM
1	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. My wife didn't play Pokemon until crystal when you could choose your gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 02:45 PM
1	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? It's so weird meeting the strawman. You have no idea how many times I'm told you don't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 08:19 PM
1	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Now do race. Which race is the majority of rapists?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 08:02 PM
-1	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. It's one of those things where "anyone can ride the hot pink barbie bike" but we all know it was made for girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 02:19 PM
0	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. Are you just purposely ignoring what I'm saying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 02:13 PM
3	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? How many farts in jars do you think a random, mildly attractive man could sell to horny broads?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 02:11 PM
4	Majority of "misandrists" are men. We're a little better than animals though. Like we invented consent and as I'm writing this comment I'm watching a squirrel running for her life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 01:56 PM
1	Women do you want your partners to do this ? What is the sidewalk rule? Is that where you move slightly to the side when someone is walking towards you or like crossing the street to avoid women at night or like are some people walking in the gutter to let m'lady have the entire sidewalk?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 01:54 PM
4	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? If 10-15% of men were pedophiles, would you prefer a male babysitter or a female babysitter or would you not care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 01:05 PM
-4	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. That's neat, nobody said it was free money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 02:16 AM
-1	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. And how many of those women were SAHMs or worked part-time to take on most of the childcare? Alimony mostly goes to women because WOMEN are largely sacrificing their careers and future earnings for the benefit of the family. . No, it's for the person who lost their career to stay home. Pick a lane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 01:43 AM
3	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? According to surveys something like 10-15% of men are into feet and they sell dirty panties in vending machines. And again, that girl made $15k selling farts. Guys are gross, it's the rule not the exception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 12:57 AM
4	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. Okay so we agree it's for women. Go fight with the people who say it isnt	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 11:43 PM
5	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. Alimony isn’t based on gender. 97% of alimony payments are awarded to the ex-wife and 3% are awarded to the ex-husband. It's one of those things where "anyone can ride the hot pink barbie bike" but we all know it was made for girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 08:36 PM
5	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. If you're old enough and plugged in enough you'd remember that Gamer Gate was about corruption in video game journalism and how the fifth estate used its power to gaslight millions of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 07:15 PM
2	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? Relevant quote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 07:01 PM
6	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. I mean with that mindset, what's the point of laws at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 06:16 PM
25	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? That is I how I view male sexuality in the absence of decorum and restraint. With those elements present, I see no issues. More and more I've been seeing people talk about "men are as gross as their girlfriends let them be" and I feel like that concept explains a lot about men and women. A recent tweet I saw pointed out that despite women often claiming they're as horny as men, no women are into feet or men's dirty underwear. "In the absence of decorum" I sincerely believe the upper limit of wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 06:06 PM
3	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. Murders just be illegal to do to everyone and now it's a privilege for it to be illegal to kill you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 05:41 PM
4	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. Oh neat! I was just saying how literally the only gender specific gyms are women-only, so I'm excited to hear which ones are men-only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 05:19 PM
1	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. Where? Because not even bathrooms are guy-only spaces anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 05:12 PM
-6	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. I can only explain it to you, I can't make you understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 04:25 PM
0	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. But you need to share the space with other women, because they have as much right as you do to be there. I refer you back to that time I said "The annoyance is that women constantly invade male spaces" 20 years ago video games, D&D, comic books, and sports were "for guys". Not even Warhammer is immune. That shit was expressly made for guys, but now that Amazon is making a Warhammer show, we have forced diversity that breaks canon. Pretty sure there's plenty of sports and gyms full of dudes. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 04:21 PM
2	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. It's like you guys are mad you have to share your toys with your sister lol The annoyance is that women constantly invade male spaces and what remaining male spaces there are get stigmatized and removed. We have no "third place" anymore. There's nowhere for guys to exist with each other and just "be guys". You put it perfectly. "You have to share your toys with your sister" and our sister doesn't have to share her toys with us. When inclusion only works in one direction, it's inequality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 04:08 PM
4	Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights. Holy shit is it legal to kill women now? My wife's about to get A LOT nicer, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 04:04 PM
1	The Sexual Diversity Movement is a Cultural Invasion I mean nobody's ever been able to solve for the paradox. I'm not interested in the morality of whatever, but if something is a social construct, you can't have been born that way. It's like the bible or general relativity. When you try and connect everything together it doesn't make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 03:13 PM
3	Men: What do you bring to the table? That and Indian and Japanese and I barbecue when the weather is nice. On Tuesday I made gumbo and a king cake for Mardi Gras!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 01:55 AM
13	Men: What do you bring to the table? So to me there's three levels of cooking- basic, mid, and hobby. When I say learn to cook I mean get to the point where you're out at dinner and she's thinking "he could have made this better". And to answer your question, she has a husband, two kids, works full time, and apparently does all the cooking at home Literally just means "has a full time job and cooks". He has a wife and he has two kids and we can safely assume he also works full time. As a married guy the best way I can explain it is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 12:00 AM
41	Men: What do you bring to the table? I cook. I'm thoughtful. My mom says I'm handsome. My mom says I'm funny. I have a stable job that pays enough to support a family of 4. I'm responsible enough to maintain the things I own and keep a schedule. I cook. Seriously, fellas. Feed women. They can't yell at you if their mouth is full of delicious chicken parm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 10:56 PM
11	Why do girls invest so much into their looks, but hate to be complimented about it? I think the thing guys don't really understand is that "girls are dressing up to get compliments and attention... just not from guys that look like you." Also protip to make any compliment platonic- finish it with a bro. "Hey I like your hair, bro" sends the message that I see you, but I don't want to be seen with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 10:53 PM
2	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Correction. Apparently 550,000 women are raped in Texas each year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 10:36 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? https://calmatters.org/commentary/2023/09/california-poverty-rate/ it has the highest poverty rate when adjusting for the cost of living though, that's my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:23 PM
1	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? If that were true, incels would be out on the street with bats and bricks knowing they'll get away with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:14 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? I feel like the "good job opportunities" and the "fifth largest economy in the world" stuff are very misleading because of the cost of living If the median rent is literally 2X in California compared to Nebraska, what's the point of those good job opportunities? I was talking to someone in some other thread and they were like "$80k isn't a lot, you'll still need roommates" and holy shit I'm supporting a family of 4 on my $90k job down here in Texas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:03 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? A Californian from San Francisco I talked to earlier this week said that there are 4 seasons in California : Fire, Flood, Riots, and Earthquakes. I had no idea they had floods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 06:21 PM
1	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Call me naive, but I just don't think there are 900,000 rapes in the US each year. Seems high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:59 PM
0	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? I mean Reddit is an American company and so is whatever browser you're using right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:54 PM
5	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? I don't think that's the case. Whenever they want to inflate those numbers they just add another order of magnitude to "unreported" cases. https://www.yahoo.com/news/texans-had-26-000-rape-230143010.html Between June 2022 and January 2024 there were supposedly 26,000 rape related pregnancies in Texas. In the span of a year and a half... 26,000 rape related pregnancies. If you go into the statistics of getting pregnant, it's about a 1 in 10 chance for each sexual encounter so ballpark there were …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:51 PM
0	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? 96% of men who stand trial for rape are found guilty. Try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:37 PM
0	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Because I'm American and this is reddit. It's kind of our thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:36 PM
3	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? 🤷 Well then it's justified to never call a female teacher a rapist I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:36 PM
3	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? I'm specifically taking about America.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:30 PM
2	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Okay I'm not talking about how common it is. When a woman rapes a child, the news says she has sex with them. When a man rapes a child, the news calls him a rapist. Do you understand what I'm saying to you or should I simplify?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:28 PM
5	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? Telling of... Double standards? https://nypost.com/2024/05/20/us-news/married-teacher-who-was-surprised-by-students-on-gma-sentenced-for-having-sex-with-student/ "Sentenced for having sex with a student". When dudes get sentenced with that it's called rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:21 PM
6	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? If he was looking for statistics on female rapists, he'd have asked redpill guys 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:19 PM
3	Q4BP: When was the first US case of a woman charged with rape of her cohabiting husband? It's semantic but it wasn't "men can't be rape victims" it was "women can't be rapists".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:18 PM
10	CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you are It's just so weird to me because if the PuA stuff would work on a woman, they're in a place in their lives where basically anything would work on them... so it's just kind of you purposely striking out with women who don't cry in the shower every morning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 09:37 PM
31	CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you are Every time I hear about that pickup artist stuff, it always sounds like they're targeting either teenage girls or women with very low self esteem which is fucked up on both counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 09:13 PM
9	At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag? Being a 29 year old guy on his first date is no different than being in a job interview after a long break from work. "Can you explain this gap in your resume?" There's probably a good reason, but just don't freak out when you're answering it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 05:59 PM
2	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life 🙄 it's a joke, son. Humor is the cornerstone of any relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 07:46 AM
9	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life Isn't this... just being in a relationship? Like I do shit for my wife all the time with the sullen implication "please don't leave me" lingering in the background.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 10:00 PM
0	If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30? Honestly my 20s were better than my teens and my 30s are better than my 20s. Men don't have things like "the wall" to worry about and we can have kids well into our 40s with no problem. Also dating-wise, men in their 30s have their shit together way more often than men in their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 08:54 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful Men who use it should be avoided This is you telling people what to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 08:17 PM
2	Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade? It's so unfair that there's "standard pretty" for girls but for men it's all over the place. Forearms? Veiny hands? Seriously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 06:25 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful I put myself into the calculator and found out that 0.07% of men are like me. Should I tell my wife she should divorce me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 06:17 PM
1	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? Nobody who self identifies as a nice guy or a good woman have an accurate view of themselves. At the same time, the whole friendzone thing literally just describes a woman who is a bad friend and because the tribe is so tight knit, they pounce on any guy who complains about their friend completely disregarding their feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 06:02 PM
10	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? It's a dead subreddit now but FDS definitely had a reputation for being a bunch of angry female incels. It's so weird when a subreddit gets huge like that (260k subscribers still) just gets completely abandoned. No posts/comments for like a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:59 PM
–	Men should love sex-workers and sluts, and we need to portray women like that in more of a wholesome light in media. The probability of mental illness, physical/emotional trauma, substance abuse, and human trafficking. It's pretty straightforward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:50 PM
1	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards I literally started out by explaining that a woman couldn't fathom being friends with a man who treats her like one of the guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:46 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful I mean that's what statistics are. I put myself into the female delusion calculator (my age in the middle of the range because you can't just put your own age) and I'm 3.8% of men because I'm married, but if I got divorced tomorrow, I'm 0.74% of men. There's just a lot of variables.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 04:44 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful It's not even saying "this man wouldn't be interested in you". It's "this man does not statically exist " 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 04:21 PM
–	CMV: That dating standards calculator is harmful Statistics are misogyny I guess. Be mad if you want, but every standard you have cuts a portion of the dating pool out. You're free to have whatever standards, but like "I only date guys over 6 feet tall" literally cuts 94% of the dating pool out of your available options. At a certain point, "this man does not statically exist" becomes a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 04:19 PM
3	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" Alpha bros embarrass us all. They're literally my example of "heterosexuals throwing their sexuality in your face" lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 02:11 AM
5	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" I think what's fair to say is that women who are worth your time don't want that and women who aren't worth your time are. No offense to your sister.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 02:01 AM
3	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" This would only make dating easier or less bad for women if we wanted lots of attention from desperate men we’re not attracted to. So like... that's a thing though. #NotAllWomen but like... #ManyWomen Are simps not a thing anymore? Am I old?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 01:47 AM
-1	Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child? 300,000 people die each year from medical errors. Talk to any nurse and they'll warn you about hospitals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 11:14 PM
-1	Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child? My wife and I have heard too many horror stories about baby switching at hospitals. I don't think she'd cheat, but I'd probably get a paternity test at some point soon after we get home. It goes from "haha oops" to "my life is ruined" in the span of a few months I'd think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 09:55 PM
1	Men of PPD, if you only had two choices, would you rather date a woman from today (modern woman) or a woman from the 1950s (traditional woman, minus the racism)? Explain your reasoning. I'm kind of confused how it would work if I picked the 1950s mom. Would I travel back in time or would our marriage be me teaching her about supermarkets and seatbelts and not to be afraid of all the airplanes in the sky? This woman wouldn't know what plastic is and that shit is literally in my blood and brain. The reality is that Mary Tyler Moore never existed in real life. We're being nostalgic for a time that never existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 09:11 PM
1	What is the desired financial status women want? I believe you, but don't know where Richmond is and that's why when I say NYC I specify Queens or Brooklyn or one of the other burroughs. You're still literally in NYC but the buildings aren't 100 stories tall	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 08:55 PM
1	What is the desired financial status women want? It's all about zoning. You can build apartment buildings in Brooklyn that can fit thousands of people in a city block but Californians (San Francisco for example) keep voting against re-zoning to trade out single family homes for high density housing. So according to Zillow, median San Francisco rent is $3,200, median rent in LA is $3000 and median rent in Staten Island is $1,700.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 08:50 PM
14	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Maybe women shouldn't be allowed to be dicks? That solves the empathy myth. Hold them accountable for their actions for once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 08:34 PM
1	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards Short kings exist. Huge broads exist. You're not even disagreeing with me you're explaining why women don't really want men to treat them like their male friends despite claiming they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 05:20 PM
1	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards Well that's kind of OP's problem. Go look at reddit posts on men/women subreddits about "I can't get dates". Men get told to work on themselves and become more appealing to women and women get told that they're perfect, don't change. Imagine a world where your fat friend complains about being single and you can just tell her "you should probably lose some weight" and she takes it how your guy friend would take it. It's why men and women struggle to be friends. You can't treat female friends the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 04:11 PM
3	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards Because women are that meme "I don't want a solution I want to be mad". https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&pp=ygUXaXQncyBub3QgYWJvdXQgdGhlIG5haWw%3D	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 04:04 PM
30	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Dating apps are literally designed to reject men into paying for the premium features. Like if you ever see those flowchart posts on rTinder, guys have like a 1-2% match rate and women constantly have a +50% match rate. I think if you're in your mid 20s/30s and you've never dated it's unusual. Not bad, but not really normal. His date was definitely kind of a dick about it and probably should have been like "oh why not?" because there are hundreds of absolutely valid reasons to never have dated a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:44 PM
13	CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material wait Thank you for this comment, I'm so old fashioned I honestly thought OP meant you should make him wait before making the relationship exclusive. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:37 PM
0	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards What personal, your comment loops back around on itself and directly applies to the post. You could be less crass and actually pay attention to what interests men or you can roll with the femcel "all women care about is money" parallel. Bro just be nice to a guy every now and then. How many threads are there about "the last comment I received from a girl was six years ago"	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 02:13 PM
4	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards Secondly, to hear it from many men, all we need to bring to the table are fertile pussies. To be clear, you're single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 05:13 AM
1	What is the desired financial status women want? For a 1 bedroom, Zillow has some stuff in Queens for $1500 and in Brooklyn for $1700. The neighborhoods are pretty decent especially the ones near Williamsburg. $70k budgets out to 1900/mo rent but I'm cheap and would never go that high. But seriously, why do people live in California on purpose	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:57 AM
0	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards To be fair we give that advice to other guys too. But like it's generally "aim fatter".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:44 AM
10	Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standards Men: "Hey maybe have realistic standards compared to what you bring to the table?" You: "Stop shaming me, get the fuck out of here you homeless lunatic! CAW CAW!" (In this scenario you're also a magpie)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:43 AM
4	What is the desired financial status women want? Men's standards are so low compared to women. It's literally just "occasionally be nice to us". Modern dating is such a hellscape, I'm terrified for gen z.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:31 AM
6	What is the desired financial status women want? Why do people live in California? Like I've never heard anything good about it. Rent is Canadian, worst homelessness problem, fires, murders, lowest literacy rates in the nation... What makes it worth it now? All the tech jobs are remote. Live in NYC for half the price and ten times the culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:29 AM
3	Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men? Women have been infantalized to death in the last 20 years. Nowadays there are signs on campuses that say "Mike and Judy were drunk and had sex, that means Mike raped Judy." I'm paraphrasing but a sign with that messaging went viral on reddit a few years back. And yes it's dumb as fuck. Exhibit A: explain what beer goggles are without it sounding rapey	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 01:06 PM
5	Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men? You must be a millennial. Because that's just a paragraph explanation of what no means no... uh... means. Nowadays there are signs on campuses that say "Mike and Judy were drunk and had sex, that means Mike raped Judy." I'm paraphrasing but a sign with that messaging went viral on reddit a few years back. And yes it's dumb as fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 01:03 PM
1	Guys seem to be upset that most men cant get away with being deeply flawed individuals. The fact is that women lead charmed lives where your feelings and well-being matter. Your life is so alien to men that we don't understand the problem with getting cat called because we're over here clinging to four compliments in our lifetimes. Every millennial 40 year old man is like "I wear blue shirts because back in high school a girl said I looked good in blue". https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.html I read this and thoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:19 PM
4	Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men? As a millennial I was taught "no means no" and now zoomers are saying that's not good enough anymore. It feels like we're deliberately being made to be scared of each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:03 PM
3	To have is to owe OP I don't want this to sound shitty, but have you never heard of the social contract? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_contract	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 11:18 AM
12	Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men? That's kind of what made it all so surreal. Even family guy made jokes about it way before Harvey Weinstein was accused. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-06qtIfXqs&pp=ygUXZmFtaWx5IGd1eSBtaW5uaWUgbW91c2U%3D This was uploaded to YouTube NINE YEARS before Harvey Weinstein was outed as a rapist. I sincerely thought it was something we all already knew was going on but apparently not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 10:07 AM
13	Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men? I'll die on this hill, he was accurately describing groupie culture and he was 100% right. Groupies absolutely act like cult members and even B list celebrities like Daniel Tosh and Jason Mews made videos being gross and disrespectful while still having women want to sleep with them. Jason used the pickup line "girl let me get up in those guts" and it failed like three times and then some girl was down to party. That's absolutely insane. Lemmy and Gene Simmons have body counts in the thousands. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 10:02 AM
11	Why Are Attractive Men Assumed to Be Worse Partners? They have more options. Same as anyone else. That's literally the whole reason. Typically the dynamic is that if he wanted to cheat he would have to go out and try and try for weeks or months and if she wanted to cheat she would just have to stop saying no. Without that in her back pocket, there's a massive power imbalance in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 08:46 PM
-2	Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms??? I think you're confused because it's not "women think men are obligated to" so much as it is "single moms think men are obligated to".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 08:31 PM
22	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. How exactly does a girl/girl relationship function? I have never seen a woman get angrier than when she's told no or to do something she doesn't explicitly want to do. Like there was a post on AITAH yesterday where a girl was like "I wanted to shave my head and my boyfriend begged me not to so I compromised with a super short pixie and am going to shave my head anyway" and the entire thread was like "what a bastard".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 07:45 PM