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To be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:59 PM
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There's some things people don't deserve a second chance with. Like "being on the sex offender registry" is a completely reasonable deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:47 PM
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I feel like this sub is where grownup, disaffected red pill guys go. I've never seen Sharia takes like the OP, but it's more "my oldest foe, the obvious consequences for my actions" takes. I'm more confused why a blue pill woman spends her day hate following red pill YouTube channels. If there was ever an audience that she's not going to reach it's those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:42 PM
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But then men would miss out on 18 minutes of payment each day. Is your suggestion that men should make less for more work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:07 PM
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Longer hours =\= harder Do you see how you have to fight the strawman you've built instead of arguing against the thing I actually said? Because per-hour men and women make the same money. You want women to bring home the same paycheck despite working fewer hours. Quid pro quo, you think equality is when women are paid more per hour than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:56 PM
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I have heard of averages! Walk me through how having a child equals 90 fewer minutes of being at work per week. They're ducking out an average 18minutes earlier per day. What are they spending that time on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:48 PM
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It only takes an hour and a half per week to raise children? Stay at home moms are such whiners then. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:36 PM
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They are paid the same. Men work more hours. That's the discrepancy in their paychecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:31 PM
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Men are babied their whole lives and they can't even acknowledge it. It's hilarious You're literally pitching why women deserve to be paid more money per hour than men based solely on their having vaginas (most of the time). And men are the babies. riiiiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:26 PM
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So it's a bit of an undeniable fact that every feminist movement, regardless of the wave, campaigns for more female privilege while either quietly or loudly fights against accountability/responsibility. This was how my original comment started. True to form, this is literally what you're doing. "Women make choice. Choice doesn't have 100% positive outcomes. The percentage of the outcomes that are negative is men's fault." Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:22 PM
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So it's a bit of an undeniable fact that every feminist movement, regardless of the wave, campaigns for more female privilege while either quietly or loudly fights against accountability/responsibility. This was how my original comment started. True to form, this is literally what you're doing. "Women make choice. Choice doesn't have 100% positive outcomes. The percentage of the outcomes that are negative is men's fault." Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:21 PM
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Is this a problem of you not understanding what agency means? Women are just more responsible and take more accountability than men. This is the choice they make. The choice they made in the sentence I quoted has an outcome. The consequences of that choice is working fewer hours per week. Again, this isn't Iran. Not everything a woman does is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:14 PM
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So like women being adults who have agency in their lives is a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:10 PM
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So, while treating women like adults who have agency in their lives, why do you think women work fewer hours than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:55 PM
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So women prioritize being mothers over having a bigger paycheck. I think it got muddled when you did the feminist thing where you don't understand that women are adults who make decisions in their personal lives that have consequences. As my original comment states, feminists hate the whole "consequences and responsibilities" thing for women. It's only ever men's fault, because they're the grownups in the room I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:12 PM
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Apparently they prioritize money over spending time with their kids and make the choice to work more hours than their wives each week. Why aren't women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:47 PM
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Interesting point. So if having kids isn't a variable, and as I've explained America isn't located in the Middle East... why do you think women choose to be the primary caretakers? Surely they couldn't have been wooed by the shorter work weeks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:19 PM
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Why is less in quotes? They literally work less, according to the bureau of labor. It's the difference of like an hour and a half per week. Also this is precisely what I was talking about. 15 excuses, locked and loaded. Childless women earn more money than their male counterparts, and the CHOICE they make to have kids is theirs. This is not the Middle East. Women aren't broodmares. If your priority is money, make the decisions that maximize your income. But as my overall point explains, that doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:00 PM
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Not by women not working 'hard enough' The data point I used was hours worked. There are no data points to turn "how hard you work" into metrics. Women work fewer hours, so they get paid less. So using the transitive property in math, you think women making more per hour than men is fair. When privilege is all you're looking for, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:45 PM
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So it's a bit of an undeniable fact that every feminist movement, regardless of the wave, campaigns for more female privilege while either quietly or loudly fights against accountability/responsibility. But the thing you really have to consider is "do you blame them?" Like sure, they want a pay raise- who doesn't? And if your boss told you "if you want more money you'll have to work harder" you'd have 15 excuses locked and loaded right? That's literally the wage gap conversation whenever the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:23 PM
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I have literally never asked that person for or to do anything. That's what made it independent. There was nothing connecting the three people other than their gender. Nice womansplaining though. Girl code is women can literally do no wrong ever, ever, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:28 AM
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The more you learn more about women the more the phrase "what a waste" comes up. Imagine a person that can have "multiple orgasms" but only 8% of them masturbates more than once a week. What. The absolute. Fuck. It's like being able to fly but deciding that the best way from A to B is walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:28 PM
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Women don't like being told stuff like "you're a woman, so you should... Literally the whole point bub. "Man up" is a turn of phrase because there are XYZ things a man is supposed to do or be. Women are literally incapable of taking direction or criticism, so "woman up" never really caught on. Damn shame we never got around to getting those broads to sign that social contract. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:41 PM
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A lot of humans get told what they're supposed to do. That's just "having a job" or literally "the social contract". The only people infuriated by it have an extra X chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:58 PM
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Whyever not? Literally the last generation (millennial/zoomer) of female culture is taking any request or direction from a man as a personal attack. You've heard of the term "adulting" right? You've literally never heard a guy use that word to refer to himself or his own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:49 PM
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How many women in your life have you asked After the third woman independently told me "the thing I hate most is when someone asks me to do something I'm already doing" I stopped asking women for anything. Like it's literally been more than a year or two that I've asked a woman for help for anything. With guys it's either yes, or no with an excuse and that's it. With women it's always a whole diplomatic conversation. I don't even ask my wife if she's going to walk the dogs or do the dishes becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:47 PM
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Poe's Law in action. Blink twice if you were being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:03 PM
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I mean, what should a woman be if not responsible for herself? In the west, you're not supposed to tell a woman what she should be. That's kind of the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:41 PM
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So it's identical to the phrase man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:19 PM
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It's so interesting how there's always the confusion for "what makes a woman" and the assumption is always what makes her a good partner. So you know the phrase, "man up" right? If I told you "woman up" what did I just tell you to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:07 PM
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Being anti-feminist on this subreddit caught me more downvotes than upvotes. But go on. I'm the one talking out of my ass when you're the one insisting that mothers aren't the primary influence on how children grow and learn to think... You, specifically you, can't name a negative social construct that is women's fault. It's always either "men" or "society as a whole".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:39 PM
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You also didn't say fuck about pizza 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:36 PM
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You're right. The way kids turn out isn't at all on the mothers. Nothing is ever women's fault. Nothing. Eat pizza too fast and burn the roof of your mouth? Patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:18 PM
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Masculinity exists because when women do the things you laid out, its an achievement to be praised, but for men it's just another Tuesday. Keep track of the people around you who use the term "adulting". It's not guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:07 PM
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Porn isn't for the participants, it's for the viewer. Shower sex, for example, is definitely not the same in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:59 AM
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Honestly you're right. The women raising the mother's children, they're the ones with the real jobs. Daycare sounds rough and they certainly don't get paid enough. I heard it was only $25/hr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:32 AM
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I'm so curious why mothers would keep raising children to disrespect motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:44 AM
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eh probably wasn't that important anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:43 AM
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wtf do you mean "probably"? You wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:33 AM
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For someone who doesn't care how I feel, you sure are concerned with my whining. Golly, lady. You sure do hate men a lot. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:12 PM
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I feel like you're confused. I don't hate women, I just don't think very much of them. Like I wouldn't hire you because of all the statistics that show that women are less productive, less reliable employees. There's no hatred, only this data driven sense of superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:07 PM
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I'm saying that if we have the expectations for women that we'd have for children, we should go ahead and just treat women like children. How is this a hard concept? All that positive bias from your teachers throughout your entire education finally catching up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:54 PM
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Haha when privilege is all you know, equality sounds like sexism I guess. God if I ever get reborn, I want to give white woman in a western country. It'd be interesting to play on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:49 PM
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I mean when it's an advantage without any responsibility, it's privilege. Like how men gifted women suffrage without tying it to the selective service. Kinda weird how it's only ever women's rights that come with no strings attached. Probably that "acknowledgement that they can't face consequences for their own actions" thing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:30 PM
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Come to think of it... every feminist issue boils down to "women are children who shouldn't be expected to make decisions or face consequences". Kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:21 PM
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Men aren't given the safety net of post-conception birth control. We trust them with the responsibility to face the consequences of they're irresponsible. Women can't be trusted with that responsibility. Therefore the ones we trust can also be trusted with suffrage. It's a complicated "one step thought process" so you might want to go get a man to explain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:47 PM
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Men are told that if they didn't want to be fathers, they shouldn't have had sex. That's where the fuck they are ;) If you didn't want to be a mother, you shouldn't have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:09 PM
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For the same crimes, women are sentenced to 40% of the jailtime as men. For the same crimes, white men are sentenced to 40% of the jailtime as black men. ...looks like I just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:46 PM
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I'm so confused. Do you think I'm saying she's not racist? I'm using her as an example of what happens when you're labeled as a racist. She posted "My family is in danger" to her GoFundMe and people donated a million dollars because her family is absolutely in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:44 PM
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I don't think you understand the exercise. My litmus test for misogyny/misandry is "make it about a black guy and see if you'd be uncomfortable saying it to a black person." The point isn't to justify the racism, it's to check and see if changing "men" to "black men" is racist. You can't convince a woman to not be misandrist, it's their core trait which they build the rest of their personality on. If we were to flip it, you'd be the type to call a black person the hard R without batting an eye. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:05 PM
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Yes, because exposing people to their cognitive dissonance literally activates parts of the brain near the pain centers. This isn't for extremists. You're never going to convince a racist to not be racist. This is for those moderates who will sigh deeply if a black person sits next to them in the theater. They're not too far gone yet and the best route is to nudge rather than shove.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:43 PM
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It's like the saying, "not all men, but always a man." I heard a similar saying, "not all black men, but always a black man". That always felt racist to me though. What are your thoughts? Does it still hold true?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:40 PM
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I don't understand your comment, reddit glitched and one of the words doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:33 PM
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That's kind of the point. Westerners are very uncomfortable with racism against black people, to the point where a lady said the n word on a tiktok and a week later her GoFundMe with the tagline "my family is in danger" made like a million dollars because everyone intuitively understands the consequences of being thought of as racist. Like we don't even say "you people" where a black person can hear because for reasons nobody explains that's a racist thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:32 PM
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I feel like the number is still pretty low if you personally kept screenshots as proof. Like America has a third of a billion people in it. It would have to be at least 100,000 people for me to be surprised. Like trans people are 0.2% of the overall population, but on the scale of the entire country, that's enough people to fill a small city.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:53 PM
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Are they white supremacist or are they part of groups that you call white supremacist because they're conservative or MAGA or whatever? Because like... my mind immediately goes to that Jolly Boy Jason Torretto or whatever his name is. (Now that I write it down I think that's Vin Diesel's character in Fast & Furious, but I refuse to google it)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:49 PM
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I've been banned from every feminist website on the internet. Long story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:46 PM
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Please don't tee me up like that. I'm like 90% sure I'll catch a ban if I say the "never relax" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:44 PM
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I'm not sure how that doesn't work both ways? Like the presumption is that those white guys aren't racist, so wouldn't their wives also not be racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:43 PM
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I am totally open to being wrong so if you have additional information I'm all ears. But it confirms my bias that all women hate all men, so it's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:40 PM
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Except "nobody" noticed. Like the general feeling is that the 4B movement ended. The direct implication is that nobody was going after the women that have taken themselves off the market. It's like if you threw out half of your parents' "large basket of random keys". Those keys definitely went to something, and I'm sure your dad will be mad you threw the keys out just in case... but if you didn't tell him, he'd never notice because each of those keys was forgotten about years ago. So like you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:37 PM
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I asked ChatGPT and it gave me a bunch of studies with the summary that women have lower explicit racial biases than men but when it's implicit racial biases there isn't much difference. Women just hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:27 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1kms5g1/4b_movement_after_trumps_victory_did_not_last/msfsfjx/ This lady in this tread thinks you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:40 PM
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If women could be trusted with the responsibility of using the 15 pre-conception forms of birth control, I'd be more comfortable trusting them with the responsibility of voting for the leaders of my country. If women want to be treated like helpless children, we should treat them like helpless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:39 PM
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I feel like this isn't the flex you think it is. OP (and most people, I'd wager) think the 4B movement came and went without much trouble and your comment implies that a bunch of women you know have taken themselves off the market... and nobody noticed. It was kind of the meme in the first place. "The American women joining the 4B movement are the ones you wouldn't want to sleep with anyway."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:37 PM
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My litmus test for misogyny/misandry is "make it about a black guy and see if you'd be uncomfortable saying it to a black person." For example: I was walking home last night and saw some guy walking towards me from the other direction so I crossed the street. You can never tell which men are dangerous until it's too late. A woman would 100% tell a man that story and see exactly nothing wrong with it. I was walking home last night and saw some black guy walking towards me from the other direction…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:29 PM
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Why would I do that? Is it so alien to you that someone asked a question, I answered the question, and that would be the end of the interaction? You're the one who hopped in with the obligatory misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:22 PM
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You asked: "why do you expect women to pick up the slack?" And my answer to that question is that I'd rather you be quiet than pretend that we're asking you for help. Men never ask women for help. Because of the abject lack of empathy thing you've got going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:07 PM
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I'm straight and compliments from gay dudes just hit different. I've never felt so alive being cat called by a leather daddy at 2am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:10 PM
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Big muscles are like a thick beard. You're getting way, way more compliments from guys than from girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:08 PM
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Fun fact: your brain can't make up faces which means everyone you dream about, you've seen irl Your brain definitely keeps track
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:04 PM
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My wife had scar tape all over her face and when I asked she said that SkincareAddiction said some people use it for wrinkles. Eventually the conversation led to talking about some lady who spends a shit ton of money on bottles of stem cells that she rubs on her face. Men don't have that. Men have 3 in 1 body wash, shampoo, and face scrub because women don't look nearly as hard at whether we have wrinkles as they do that our watch strap matches our belt and shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:03 PM
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Probably don't ask questions that you don't want the answers for? Like how hard is it to live by the rule "don't make it worse"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:50 AM
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I mean your silence would be preferable. Just don't make it worse. How is that such a big ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:41 AM
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I mean same response: Women are always quick to blame men's suffering on other men because they completely lack empathy. Kind of appropriate for the post topic, thanks for proving OP right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:37 AM
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Nah, I'm pretty traditional. Back before I got married I was a serial long-term dater. My relationships went 1 year, 3 years, 5, years and now I'll have been married 14 years in July.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:22 AM
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I think that's this sub's way of saying a low body count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:00 AM
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Real quick, do you think America is more or less misogynist than China? As a heads up, I'm going to immediately point to the literal "female baby genocide" in China that ended like 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:28 AM
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Wait wtf, murdering my wife was an option this whole time?! I was like... medium sure that would have some dire consequences attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:26 AM
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The reason I'd prefer a non-promiscuous/low n woman is because of the mental health and physical health implications of promiscuity. Promise me she's got a clean bill of mental/physical health and I really wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:25 AM
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Just want to make everyone about women? Isn't that the feminist main goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:34 PM
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Women are always quick to blame men's suffering on other men because they completely lack empathy. Kind of appropriate for the post topic, thanks for proving OP right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:14 PM
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Fun fact: women are allowed to evacuate Ukraine. Men aren't. Women and children first, men last maybe if there's extra room in the lifeboat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:45 PM
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...first set the bar at what counts as the generalization for men. Is "about half" fair? Like if about half of men had short hair, would you accept the assertion that men have short hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:44 PM
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I think the miscommunication is that, to me, if you meet a guy and are like "I want to be friends with this guy before we date" it's like chatting on tinder after you match. But if you meet someone and then become friends and then you're like "I think we should touch our faces together", that's what I would consider being friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:26 PM
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idk when I think of someone who is my friend, the relationship is more than just a few months. Especially if the end goal is to decide whether to date. It's more of pre-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:11 PM
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Interesting. I'm kind of old fashioned so a few months of getting to know someone before you start dating doesn't really have the same vibe as 'we were friends first' but I guess people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:59 PM
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I'm trying to figure out how not dating strangers works. Are you just labeling the courtship process as friendship or like are you using a friend or relative as a matchmaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:52 PM
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So where I stand: "Abortion has not been banned, as evidenced by there being more abortion today than 10 years ago." Your explanation is literally "because more people know what abortion is". I think this is just a lesson for me to let people be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:46 PM
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"incels" are a western phenomenon. I mean in non-western countries, rape isn't exactly "illegal" so idk if you want to go down that road.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:44 PM
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I don't know, it's your version of reality that we're trying to muddle through. Do you want to ask me what my point is again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:38 PM
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For the fourth time, the point is that abortion wasn't banned. For the fourth time, the evidence is that there's more abortion after your alleged ban than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:32 PM
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To be fair, China calls single women in their 30's "leftover women" and it's not misogynistic. Turnabout is fair play, regardless of whether "surplus males" hurts peoples feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:27 PM
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So despite abortion being banned in a quarter of the country, there's more abortion now than any of the previous 17 years because "more people know what abortion is"? Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:18 PM
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So let's say you're right. Why do you think a dozen states could ban abortion, but at the same time, the overall number of abortions is higher than it's been since the Bush years?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:08 PM
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That's even more impressive then, how there were more abortions committed after "the ban" than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:49 PM
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Abortion is not banned, as evidenced by the million abortions last year and the ~40,000 abortions last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:25 PM
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You said In the year following the overturn of Roe v. Wade in 2022, 210 pregnant women in a dozen states were criminally charged for conduct associated with their pregnancy, pregnancy loss or birth. In 2022 there were over 600,000 abortions. 210 is "three hundredths of one percent" of abortions. To me, looking at anything, I'd say it's a fair guess to think 0.03% of the time people are doing it illegally. Context matters, friend-o.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:58 PM
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You gave me information with no context. It's on you to prove to me that 210 arrests in the US in a year is abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:32 PM
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Pick a year between 2010 and 2020. How many women were criminally charged for "conduct associated with their pregnancy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:18 PM
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Bro dating apps didn't exist in 2005. WTF are you on about "dying in the fields"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:13 PM
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Didn't incels not exist before dating apps though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:31 PM
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Aren't you the people who claim "you can't ban abortion, you'll only ban safe abortion"? Also I'm waiting for your 2010-2020 stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:00 PM
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In the year following the overturn of Roe v. Wade in 2022, 210 pregnant women in a dozen states were criminally charged for conduct associated with their pregnancy, pregnancy loss or birth. Pick a year between 2010 and 2020. How many women were criminally charged for conduct associated with their pregnancy? I've seen the articles you're talking about- those are women who straight up throw their babies in trash cans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:53 PM
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There were more abortions in 2023 after Roe v Wade was overturned than there were in any of the 15 years before Roe v Wade was overturned. You straight up believe disinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:35 PM
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That has nothing to do with what anyone's talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:28 PM
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bodily autonomy Yeah the other guy tried that one. There were more abortions after "the ban" than before the ban. Women set the record for abortions in 2023 and then again in 2024. the treatment of rape and sexual abuse victims During her book tour, some lady accused a sitting President of raping her 30 years ago and half the country just immediately believed her. What's the problem? Is "he's either found guilty or he got away with it" not good enough for you? the abuse of prisoners Your third b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:06 AM
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In states with abortion bans, women are at risk of criminal charges for seeking an abortion. Yeah that's why I led with there were more abortions after "the ban" than before. I literally explained that 2023 had more abortions than any year since 2007 and 2024 had more abortions than 2023. What ban? it's a myth. You just straight up believe disinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:52 AM
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My original point is that they're non-issues and that feminists aren't oppressed, they're just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:35 AM
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ask at which point would it be an issue in your opinion? The reason it's not an issue is because in the most recent year available (2023) American women committed the most abortions of any year since 2007 (16 years) and the data we have for 2024 suggests it's going to beat 2023. equality of opportunity has to include -> parental leave, flexible hours, daycare, abortion etc... Which opportunity do men have that women don't? Flexible work hours? Buddy, that's one of the reasons for the wage gap- w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:28 AM
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Women commit about a million abortions per year. Like I said, screeching at non-problems. I have no idea how to interpret "upbringing of children" as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:19 AM
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I've always seen men criticize slutty women from a "you have agency and you're making an adult decision like an adult" perspective though. Like even the lock and key thing, you are still in charge there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:53 AM
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I’ve been told because I liked casual sex before I settled down I was “being used.” Who told you that? What gender was the person who most recently told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:36 AM
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But like that's the thing. You're not a bad person for having problems, and they're not a bad person for being fat, and nobody's a bad person for not wanting to hitch their wagon to those issues, but it's bad when you try and hide it in order to trick or guilt the person into a date/relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:33 AM
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A better rebuttal would be to name like... two or three valid 2025 feminist issues, though whenever I ask, the feminist always starts naming injustices from 3rd world shitholes. Not to mansplain how to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:29 AM
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I think he's confusing the waves. Feminism was suuuuuper important up through the 80s, but 4th wave is just screeching at non-problems. Look at everything Outside_Memory5703 named. All of that is from 50+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:58 AM
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"Comparison is the thief of joy." You people always go straight for the 6th when you really should be worrying about the 10th.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:32 AM
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I feel like it's nuance you're not going to get in an online comments section, but it's kinda like being 400lbs. When you're on hinge, don't lie about your mental illness, but don't make it your entire personality... and don't hold it against someone if they're not into dating 400lb people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:21 PM
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So lets leave religious values in church. Awesome. Which of the 10 commandments do you think we don't need? First one, probably (assuming you're an atheist) and I'm guessing the 2nd one also... but... any other ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:42 PM
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The thing that will kill dating apps is the dead internet. Like your comment sounds super authentic, but you're a 6 year old account with 500 karma, just like the ones you can buy in bulk for $50. When you're pretty sure the person on the other end of the dating app is either a scammer or a bot, why would you keep it installed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:00 PM
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Yes both men and women cheat but we can first be honest and admit that men do cheat more. Eh, depends on how old you are. Statistically speaking, in our teens and 20's women are cheating whores but as we grow up, men turn into creepy lechers in their 40s and 50s. So like "who does it more"? Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:59 PM
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I mean it's a stupid argument that hinges completely on what each person individually considers "the bare minimum" which will be different for everyone. Like my version of "the bare minimum" is that I don't have to take care of you. You pick up after yourself, bathe, have a job so I'm not bankrolling your life, have a car so I'm not driving you everywhere... that's the bare minimum. For other people the bare minimum is different. We have no universal basis for what we're talking about, so it's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:38 PM
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A lot of it boils down to the fact that we judge others for their actions and we judge ourselves for our intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:25 PM
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The thing that makes it engagement bait is that he takes an accurate, measurable fact (women are sentenced to about 40% of the jailtime as men when charged with the same crimes) and then layers it with absolute insanity so that instead of the brief "Here's another way that female privilege parallels white privilege" post, he divides the teams into "I'm not defending baby murderers, women are treated better!" and "Yes I hate men, but that doesn't mean I want women to get away with baby murder!" I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:48 PM
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It's not fair to blame men for inventing communism. Men invented everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:37 AM
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The most sacred female privilege is to never be held accountable for her own decisions. It's literally at the core of every feminist issue- "How dare you make me deal with the consequences of my actions?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:51 PM
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The ineffective school system is more of a result of overpopulation than of hierarchy. It's why California has the lowest literacy rates in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:49 PM
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How exactly would society work without hierarchy? Like walk me through how we would enforce laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:42 PM
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Hanlon's razor states, "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity." Why would anyone assume there's some sinister motivation when it makes infinitely more sense that women are just terrible at giving advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:39 PM
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Men found this greatly offensive. And when I explained that she was rejected multiple times and found someone else, men were arguing HARD with me that the guy was just busy and she should have waited a few days and tried again. Maybe it's an age thing. The thing I've learned from this subreddit is that Zoomers are kind of fucked when it comes to interpersonal relationships. The thing I'll say about the guy in the OOP is that if he didn't want to go on a 6th date with her, he should have been man…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:41 PM
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Meeting a pretty, single girl in her 30s is kind of like seeing a 40 year old working at Burger King. I always wonder what they did to fuck up their lives so bad, but never have the audacity to come out and ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:30 PM
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I mean that's fine. It's why we have terms like "cat lady" and "spinster" and even the Chinese "leftover woman" but there's really no parallel term for men that only describe them being single in their 30s. All the terms for men imply that they're single, but describe other things like how "neckbeard" implies they have poor hygiene, "basement dweller" implies that they're unemployed losers, and even "incel" doesn't refer to "single men in their 30s", it refers to their attitudes and has nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:57 PM
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Okay if we're taking you seriously, I don't know you. You could be a meek little country mouse who acts tough online to feel big. The above comment was a joke because someone who literally tagged themselves as having anxiety claimed to be bold. So like what are we basing your stubborn decisiveness on in a way where it's not just saying you're X?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:39 AM
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No just one that didn't say woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:30 AM
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I've never met you in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:34 PM
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Nothing a woman hates more than when men generalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:34 PM
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https://youtu.be/sLlsgBLevpg?si=Jt4c3gViD-DDzjk4&t=24
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:53 PM
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It's frustrating to not get jokes, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:48 PM
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Yeah, that's what not-misandrists will mean when they say "boys will be boys". Those are the best subreddits - /r/WhyWomenLiveLonger and /r/holdmybeer are just full of men and boys who are absolutely idiots, but they're decisive idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:47 PM
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Women hate when you're condescending to them, it's important to mask that as you treat them like children who can't control their feelings. That's probably what's going on with your interpersonal relationships there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:42 PM
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Okay so it's really important that we keep in mind that you picked the professions. Those professions are not in void of women who perform well. All 3-ish professions you picked are overwhelmingly male dominated. There is, in fact, a void of women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:41 PM
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You can tell it's a personal opinion because I use the word "my" four times in the comment and list several people I know. Your flair is literally "overwhelmed millennial female woman". Can someone whose flair doesn't confirm my bias please come over to rebut my bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:34 PM
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Which professions did you have in mind when you wrote that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:33 PM
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You think indecision leads to chaos and fire. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:04 PM
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I've honestly never met a decisive woman in my life. Not my wife. Not my sisters or mom. Not my coworkers. Women will come to you with problems that they don't want solved. But if you call them insane they get mad. Just like an insane person would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:56 PM
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I do like four things exceptionally well and one of them is the thing where if a man can do it well, his woman will stay with him through hell and high water. I'm the best cook she knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:25 PM
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An 18 year old with a prefrontal cortex that is not fully developed is not going to have a healthy relationship with somebody who is 30. Raise👏 the👏 voting 👏age!👏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:04 PM
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Diet culture and body consciousness for women has been the norm in Western culture for decades, if not centuries, and the movement is connected to that specific context. It hasn't been the norm in a very long time. Fun Fact: High Fructose Corn Syrup was approved by the FDA in 1983.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:39 PM
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it’s plus sized women wanting to feel... beautiful They're not though. Soap companies are trying to gaslight us into believing they are. If you want men’s plus size movements, men have to start that. I don't because it's insanely irresponsible. Did you know that when you cross over from overweight to obese, your risk of cancer goes up by 30%?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:25 PM
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No but like there are social movements trying to normalize men lowering their standards. All of it is one directional. There's no "body positivity movement" for men. He's not plus sized, he's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:21 PM
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Would you marry where no-fault-divorce is not enforced? This is one of the things we look back on like lead in gasoline or asbestos in ceilings. If she can't leave that isn't marriage that's trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:06 AM
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...I'm gonna need you to re-flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 10:45 PM
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It boils down to being good at stuff and having your shit together. Don't be the mess someone else has to clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:58 PM
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lol I read your post backwards and absolutely agreed. Like how in every social experiment when they have a man hitting his girlfriend, people immediately rush over and intervene, but when it's woman hitting her boyfriend, nobody does shit and the response is some version of "I wonder what he did to deserve it". If you're saying that lesbians have the highest rates because women will report DV more than anyone else, I'd agree with you. But society has been built around protecting and supporting w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:55 PM
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And you're not as pretty as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:32 PM
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Q4M: Why do (some of) you think that society just happens to cater to women's needs now, and ignores men's needs? I'm sorry you're offended by my answering OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:52 PM
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There's no fighting to be done. Women won the culture war, it's over. Fighting for equal rights for men is sexist and barbaric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:37 PM
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So the problem with millennial and zoomer women is that they were raised by women who actually had to fight against inequality and they have the wartime mentality but now it's peacetime and they have nowhere to direct their fury. The Greatest Generation of women fought for suffrage a hundred years ago. The Boomers fought for the right to work white collar jobs just like men. Gen X fought for the sexual revolution, no-fault divorce, and to open their own damn bank accounts and credit cards. Mille…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:34 PM
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This isn't a women's issue, it's stupid to expect them to fix it. Okay hold on to this opinion when you're asking why more men don't support women's issues. "Why should I give up my privilege?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:49 PM
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I mean the statistic to point to is that women make up 60% of college students and yet for reasons only women can explain, women-exclusive scholarships are necessary. It's like talking to a millionaire about how unfair the estate tax is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:40 PM
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peace Good fucking luck. At 7:30 this morning my wife looked up from her phone and said "Hey there's an estate sale in [town 45 minutes away] and we aren't doing anything today."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:44 PM
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Because nobody likes arrogant people. This is some Principal Skinner "No the children are wrong" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:19 AM
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Imagine a world where the opposite were true. Like if some girl showed up to an Warhammer tournament with a shirt that said "I'm here to fuck one of you" and all the guys were like "SALT THE SNAIL! GET HER OUT OF HERE!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:01 AM
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So if someone says you look fine and you considered yourself a bombshell... that's an insult? OP is saying you aren't as pretty as you think you are. That's not an insult, that's not even calling you ugly. Hubris. No wonder everyone on Earth hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:50 AM
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Maybe women need to be taken down a peg or two? Like at a certain point we all need to look at "all criticism of any woman will immediately be disregarded as bitter incel tears" for what it is: insolence, arrogance, and audacity. Maybe gamergate WAS about corruption in journalism? Maybe She Hulk was a shit marvel series? Maybe Bella Ramsey can't act? No. It's the incels. Women are perfect, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:11 AM
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If only feminists recognized this in their whining about the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:53 AM
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You replied to my comment within 2 minutes so you absolutely didn't read it. It explicitly blames focusing on careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:18 AM
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What are you basing your metrics on for the idea that women are happier today than they were 50 years ago? I mean your mom took those little yellow pills and you're taking depression and anxiety meds. Kind of a lateral move if you ask me, and you work 50 ours a week on top of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:13 AM
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Okay, well I hope you're happy today and happy in 20 years. Sincerely, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:13 AM
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https://neurosciencenews.com/women-happiness-psychology-23862/ It's better to admit you walked through the wrong door than to spend your whole life in the wrong room.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:12 AM
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That's neat. Do you think percentage of single income households went up, down, or remained the same in the last 50 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:10 AM
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Well I mean you said Is that really more likely than we’ve built a life we genuinely enjoy living? And then in your follow up comment acted like I should've known you were talking about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:10 AM
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You never actually said you were happy, unless you were using the royal we. Were you using the royal we?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:50 AM
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It's so fucked up that neither you or your grandma have a choice in the matter of "Joining the workforce" but somehow you think you're freer than she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:42 AM
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How's that 50 hour work week treating you? Exactly what percentage of your paycheck goes to the women raising your kids in your place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:39 AM
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More likely it's because they were duped into thinking work would make them happy, so they spend the entirety of their 20s putting off their life until they give up on the capitalist lie "job satisfaction".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:27 AM
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Aww it's good to have empathy for other people, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:07 PM
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Okay. So since the strongest women can't lift more than the strongest man, a woman can't do other jobs as well? Focus. You asked Name another context when saying "I judge this human off of prejudice and stereotypes and believe they are inferior" isn't hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:43 PM
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Women aren't kids though... they are humans. Kids are humans. Name another context when saying "I judge this human off of prejudice and stereotypes and believe they are inferior" isn't hatred. It is important to segregate the Olympics into the two categories "Open" and "Women's" because almost unilaterally, women are athletically inferior to men. Let's just go with the idea that you think a woman can't throw a ball as far as a man. Does that mean you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:20 PM
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Think of it like you have two kids. One is 15 and one is 8. They get into a fight and the 15 year old gets punished for two weeks and the 8 year old gets a 30 minute time out. Do you hate your 8 year old? No, you just expect the 15 year old to know better and you don't expect as much from the 8 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:12 PM
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The lady who threw a temper tantrum provided the definition a little below- mi·sog·y·nist /məˈsäjənəst/ noun a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women I'm prejudiced. The assumptions I make when engaging with women are such that they have to "be handled" because they're emotional and unreliable. It's like assuming black guys have big dicks or assuming Asians are good at math. So taking not wanting to hire a woman because I think a man would be a better employee. St…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:59 PM
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Can we keep this same conversation we're having to one chain? You're just continually replying the same dumb things to a bunch of my comments making my phone notify me for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:53 PM
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Why no big & tall in Kohl's or Target or everywhere plus size clothes are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:52 PM
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why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:49 PM
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I live in a high obesity area and they're fairly common around here, but I imagine places with a lower rate would see fewer of them. So then it stands to reason that your local Kohl's/Target/Walmart would recognize this profitability and capture it for themselves. But they don't. I think that all the time for some items, but department stores are generally about looking for stuff in general rather than finding a specific appliance or tool. I get that and agree, but my overall point is that if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:28 PM
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That doesn't make sense though. It's profitable enough to pay rent, utilities, labor, and then turn enough of a profit to justify the store owner's full time effort... but doesn't justify a hundred square feet in a department store? Like the last time you went to a JC Penny, how much shit did you walk by and wonder "who the hell would go to a JC Penny to buy a pan that only cooks deviled eggs?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:18 PM
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But if the demand isn't there, how are whole stores supported by only selling it? The rebuttal was "You’ve never seen a men’s big and tall store?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:12 PM
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I've been married for 15 years and my wife is the most wonderful infuriating person I know and despite all the things I wish she did better, she's the only person who holds me accountable. At work, my friends, even my family- that's just me being me haha. But my wife is always on me to be nicer to people, to be more outgoing, to try new things. What my wife offers me is a better version of me. Unfortunately she's one in a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:08 PM
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A while back someone explained it as "women are human beings, men are human doings." It's also why women get so pissed off when men are content to just sit quietly for a little while. They should be doing something for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:05 PM
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Okay so I'm not going to talk to you until you can be more mature. Go think about what you did and why it was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:59 PM
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I understand you're upset but even when you get worked up, you shouldn't call people names and lash out like that. I literally said this to my 6 year old last week. It's so wild how adult women basically need to be parented in all of their interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:56 PM
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So you're trying to deflect with nonsense. More women committed abortion in 2024 than 2023 and more in 2023 than any prior year in the last decade and a half. Roe v Wade was overturned in 2022. What bodily autonomy don't you have? why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact? Please justify these gender-specific scholarships. Why are women entitled to this help?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:53 PM
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I don't know how to further help you beyond quoting the relevant part of your definition. I can only explain it to you, I can't make you understand. But don't take it so hard, that's pretty typical for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:46 PM
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Hey real quick why are 60% of college students female and why do we need to keep handing out women-only scholarships after reading that fact? When privilege is all you know, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:43 PM
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or is strongly prejudiced against women Having the patience I would have with my 6 year old daughter, sweetie you have to read the whole sentence to understand what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:42 PM
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Yeah I just made a target run last week to get a hawiian shirt and the most oversized clothes they had was XXL. I got curious and checked the pants and the biggest they had was 48's. The women in the signs over the plus sized section were all definitely way bigger than XXL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:37 PM
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So the demand is so small that a section dedicated to it in a department store couldn't be justified... but an entire standalone store exclusively selling it is profitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:25 PM
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Difference is that you've talked to men in their 30s who have gone their whole lives without ever crying on company time even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:23 PM
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Oh so they need to go to a separate but equal store to get clothes that fit. Capitalism works. We did it everyone. Why no big & tall in Kohl's or Target or everywhere plus size clothes are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:10 PM
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I mean me and my wife think this way, or at least I think we do. To me "She's not mine, it's just my turn" means that my wife is free to go whenever she wants and it's on me to continually be her best option. Can my wife do better? Probably. Can my wife do so much better that she'd upend her life to get there? Probably not. The way I understand this is that you have to earn your keep when you're in a relationship and not just take them for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:03 PM
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It comes from basing my assumptions on how an adult would turn out if all of their formative years were filled with support and positive attention and help and encouragement. It's why the body positivity movement is only for women. Men don't get "plus sized" clothes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:35 PM
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Maybe semantically, but 9 out of 10 women would call me misogynist for not wanting to hire a woman because I think a man would be a better employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:26 PM
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Speak to women with the patience and understanding that you would with a child and your interactions will go far more smoothly. That's not hate, but it's still technically misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:23 PM
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So the manosphere always comes across as either really cheesy or like so bad it has to be satire. I will say that talking to women has made me as misogynist as I am. I don't "hate" women or resent them or anything and I'm married with a kid so I'm not an incel... but my expectations for the average woman are about what you'd have for a 10 year old. Funny thing is that when you think of women as helpless children, all those feminist issues start to gain validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:09 PM
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they take 12 inch dildos in porn Kind of reminds me of this story https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/woman-goes-viral-after-xrated-item-spotted-on-the-shelf-during-bbc-wales-report/news-story/13d7fca4561fc4472b8ec2ac0a02e5c4 I wonder how big the average woman's dildo is. I assume somewhere around 8-10 inches, right? Like not a monster you could club a baby seal with, but something that you'd remark "wow that's a big dick"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:54 AM
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Love is all the little things that you do for no reason. Like my wife makes me coffee in the morning and she doesn't even like coffee or how our top shelves are bare even though I'm 6'1" because she's 5'4" and would have to go get the stepstool. Or like there's this Switch game she wanted for her birthday and I woke up early to buy it, download it, and update it so that she wouldn't have to wait to play it. Love is all about those little moments that just make you stop and smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:33 PM
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Nothing infuriates women more than how little it takes for a man to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:25 PM
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So the reason you're upset is because the facts that I said hurt your cognitive dissonance with the strawman you built and named implications. Gotcha. So like I was saying, people get mad at facts sometimes and choose to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:56 PM
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What I said: The Vaccines were each recalled. What happened: The vaccines were each recalled. Literally the whole point is that you will hate this truth so much that you'll choose to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:24 PM
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Also, specifically regarding OF you have to keep in mind that the median income for an OF model is like $200/month. I feel like the criticism is valid if "literally working at McDonalds" earns you more money for the time you invest in the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:24 PM
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Maybe the advice should be something along the lines of "insanity is doing the same hing and expecting different outcomes". I'm a strong believer in that if the sewer monsters in Walmart can find love, anyone can. Just aim fatter or like browse by the clearance bin over in Single Mom Tinder. There are billions of people on this planet and the only reason someone is single is that their standards are too high or they're not learning from what isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:05 PM
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Let's just both agree that this conversation was about 6 replies too long and part as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:57 PM
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No I'm being sincere. I said that I didn't ask, I told my wife we were getting married and you thought that this was a plausible situation that not only would a human being do but another human being would agree to. I feel the need to clarify that my first comment was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:48 PM
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So I'm not trying to be mean here, I'm honestly asking. Are you neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:56 PM
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It is logistically impossible and I don't know why you thought I was being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:37 PM
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Oh that. Yeah any comment that includes the word "yawn" isn't really worth engaging, so I figured I'd just be condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:46 PM
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It's just weird that you wouldn't break up/divorce if that's what you want. I'm mansplaining why men will cheat on their aging wives rather than get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:24 PM
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I mean you can change your income. Did you think you can't change your income?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:22 PM
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Then when they tell someone, they get told oh that it’s worth living, you need to have hope, you’re putting too much pressure. The last thing they need to hear in that moment is having hope. They need a sign to show them that it’s a possibility. My advice, for anyone who needs to hear it, is that ending things means they win. If for no other reason, live out of spite. Every breath you take without their consent is another victory. Whenever they see you and go "oh I fucking hate that guy" you rui…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:21 PM
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No really. It went "Get in the car babe." "Where are we going?" "Don't worry about it." And then BAM. Hundreds of our friends and family were waiting for her at the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:33 PM
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Simping isn't a spectrum. It's the male version of a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:26 PM
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I didn't ask my wife to marry me. I told my wife we were getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:25 PM
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mass recalls because the vaccine doesn’t work Not what I said. See how you're revising your personal experience in order to cope with this new information that you hate? That's exactly what I was talking about. Please enjoy the rest of your unexamined life. Neither of us benefit from further conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:15 PM
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See how angry you're getting while you're agreeing with me that recalls happened? That's precisely what I'm talking about. Good talk, hope you learned something about yourself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:09 PM
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Moderna recall https://www.newsweek.com/moderna-vaccine-recall-contamination-stainless-steel-human-error-takeda-covid-1634598 AstraZenica recall https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-68977026 Pfizer recall https://content.govdelivery.com/accounts/MEHHS/bulletins/3559d26 J&J recall https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/fda-tells-johnson-johnson-toss-60-million-covid-vaccine-doses-n1270521 Bro seriously, just ignore the uncomfortable facts and continue on with your life. I promise ignorance is bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:01 PM
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Literally what I was talking about. Factually, the moderna, Astrazenica, Johnson and Johnson, and Pfizer vaccines were all recalled at some point and you freak out over that indisputable fact. Like I said, you don't want to pull at that thread. Just ignore the information of things that happened in the last three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:54 PM
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You really don't understand the wide variety of things "uncomfortable truths" covers? I mean the first one that comes to mind is that all the original covid vaccines were eventually recalled, despite the experts and President insisting they were all safe and effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:50 PM
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Maybe nobody likes pedants
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:46 PM
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Do you want people to ignore truth if it’s uncomfortable? You really don't want to pull at that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:09 PM
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It's so tedious when someone makes a generalization and then someone feels the need to chime in with the sage wisdom that people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:42 PM
2

Well marriage is an archaic institution that treats women like they're still 1930s house slaves. Unfortunately, in the words of Johnnie Taylor, it's cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:32 PM
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So why do you think the mistress is never older than the wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:18 PM
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And yet nothing pisses off millennial women more than mentioning the wall...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:02 PM
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What you guys call simps (guys who are kind, generous in bed, and willing to commit to relationships and share what they have) are what normal people call good husbands. What you girls call domestic abusers (guys who cook, clean, and tell the best dad jokes) are what normal people call good husbands. Do you see why it matters to listen to people when they explain to you what words mean? A simp is a pathetic sycophant. I think you people call the girl version a "pick me".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:58 PM
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So I'm going to assume that by dodging the question twice, you're one of the "if it ever happened, my fears are validated" people. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:08 PM
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Please answer the question. What do the odds have to be for you to get "gravely injured to the point that you're too disabled to work" from a thing, for you to not worry about that thing? To me, a 1 in 10,000 chance of injury is negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:05 PM
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The poitn is how negligible those odds are. Like I could go outside and walk to the store right now and get hit by a car on my way there. What are the odds of that? Are the odds high enough for me to get all bent out of shape about it? At what point does it become something that you don't have to worry about? If a 0.01% chance is too much, one in a million? One in the history of all time? From my perspective, it's just unreasonable to be afraid of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:55 PM
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My immediate thought would be to reply "That's awesome! I'm super into fisting."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:11 PM
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What I didn’t gather from the OP is that she’s on a TV show based on something else. A video game? Yeah, and that's kind of the crux of the problem. It's an extremely popular video game that has had about 7 remasters/re-releases over the last decade or so. For context it first came out on the Playstation 3 and the current release came out for the Playstation 5. What's going on here is the standard "nerds are mad about inconsistencies in the adaptation of their beloved media and feminist are call…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:53 PM
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So like she's so ugly that you get pulled out of the story and start to wonder about things like underlying genetic conditions. Especially when other actresses look extremely similar to the character. It's similar to casting John Wayne as Genghis Khan. The complaints are exactly the same- "What the fuck was the casting director thinking?!" The problem is the same problem as like She Hulk had- any legitimate criticism of the story gets shouted down with "Oh so you just hate women, then."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:27 PM
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My wife is painfully awkward sometimes. She hates being the center of attention so much that we eloped. She does that anxiety thing where she'll plan out conversations before we go see people and then on the way home I can see the wheels turning as she reviews those conversations. Different people are good at different things and we all live different lives and sometimes those lives don't lend themselves to building strong social skills. To me, those "how to talk to men/women" classes are no dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:20 PM
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She doesn't just live in a society where looks determine everything, she works in an industry where looks determine everything. That's kind of their entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:06 PM
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Yeah I've seen pictures of this person but didn't know the actress's name. Like people will know Wednesday from a picture but might not know the name Jenna Ortega.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:05 PM
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Because the majority of people complaining about her aren't complaining about her performance. They're complaining about her appearance. So full disclosure, I had to look up who that is. I haven't really watched Last of Us since the gratuitous gay sex episode back in season 1 (?) but I've seen the complaints you're talking about and it misses what they're complaining about. So the term my wife came up with to explain like Erin Moriarty and Jenna Ortega and Colin Farrell and Ryan Gosling is "prof…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:06 PM
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Okay but why's that? We're looking for factors that aren't "this is men's fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:54 PM
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good talk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:30 PM
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Hey real quick, without victim blaming men, can you explain to me why men commit suicide 4X more likely to be homeless than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:22 PM
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"You're wrong!" "Okay show me how." "Educate yourself shitlord." women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:18 PM
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Okay give me the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:32 PM
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Yeah my wife wants to go out and do shit so much that there have been full blown negotiations for my in-days and her out-days on the weekend. Sundays are for me. I wake up early and watch the sun rise. It's so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:12 PM
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NGL you're exactly the type of person I love to point out that about half of women voted for Trump. Reality doesn't match your curated FemaleDatingStrategy experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:03 PM
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I just told her about the comment you told me to show her and she says she feels blessed that she's among the lucky few billion women who survived pregnancy. God is great. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:59 PM
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Alternatively, this move has literally never failed to work on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:10 PM
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No, you're right. But you pointing it out made me go "that girl gyms".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:08 PM
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I was saying that you are clearly a gym enthusiast by correcting me on my usage of the term "abs" when the correct muscle group was "obliques". But again, "Guys think fit girls go for the athletic look" is absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:57 PM
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I was thinking of fit, young people with higher estrogen and testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:32 PM
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Now google "onlyfans" (safe search on) and check out the image tab. It's safe to say the results are what the average guy considers standard-pretty. Those girls go to the gym all the time, so whatever guy they date will also go to the gym all the time. I was referring to this thing I said 4 comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:21 PM
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Yeah, holy shit. I know a few of those weird poly people and even they keep it to just 2 or 3 people at a time. I have a hard time believing women would even enjoy a gangbang. Not "the idea of a gangbang" but "the harsh reality of a gangbang".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:18 PM
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So you're telling me all the women on your soccer team constantly pissed themselves? And we're supposed to take you people seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:00 PM
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His obliques are defined pretty well, but I wouldn't say he has defined abs on the left. lol tell me you go to the gym 3-5 times a week without telling me. I was speaking colloquially, considering lumps of muscle in his front middle as abs, even though that covers everything from his obliques to his cum gutters. But that guy is still built like a professional athlete. (Brandon Nimmo, New York Mets) Also, it depends on how you define "dad bod." It seems like everyone has a different definition fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:57 PM
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Yes, and that's what made me curious about your opinions of like black people and Indian people. Which third world country are you from and which first world country do you currently live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:50 PM
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I'm a fit woman. When you google "OnlyFans" with the safe search on, do you look like the women in the image results tab? I feel kind of like Michael Scot talking to Phyllis about her friend. Are you a dress wearer or a pants wearer? Could we fit in a rowboat together?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:49 PM
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So yeah that's kind of the problem here. You can see his abs in both pictures. This guy didn't just start going to the gym one day. But like "dad bod" vs the guy on the left. You're picking the guy on the left. With the abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:42 PM
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Now I'm curious to see the average number of divorces per repeat offender, but I don't know how to google that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:26 PM
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No that's the overall stat- 22% of first marriages fail. It's the repeat offenders who skew the statistics. Like if you've been divorced five times and we're looking at 10 total marriages that include your 5, that would make half of those marriages fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:17 PM
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Dude I don't know anything about you. I don't know where you came from or where you currently live or even if you moved to a first or second world country. For example, I'm from America. I currently live in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:13 PM
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I really don't want to draw a diagram but it might help. Men are attracted to fit women. Fit women are attracted to fit men. This is the thought process. All cats are mammals, but not all mammals are cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:05 PM
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I'm morbidly curious about your opinions of minorities, but don't want you to get in trouble with the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:04 PM
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It's the concept of "be the guy your dream girl dreams about". If you're the type of guy who goes after Gym Stacey's, you're going to presume that she is going to go after Gym Chad's. Honestly it's not even an aesthetic thing as it is a logistics thing. To get and maintain that guy's body, he's spending all his free time at the gym and eating super healthy food. Sharing his interests and level of dedication would necessitate that she's also a fitness enthusiast. Now google "onlyfans" (safe searc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:59 PM
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It's the same concept as "you're wearing that shirt so men will look at your boobs". It's not that she wants all men to stare at her boobs, it's that she wants men she finds attractive to stare at her boobs. When guys say that girls think the right picture is more attractive, what they mean is "the girls they think are attractive" will think the picture on the right is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:50 PM
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Cheating is fairly common, but cheaters of both genders are still a minority. I think it's like divorce rate statistics. Sure "half of marriages end in divorce" but only about a fifth of first-marriages end in divorce. If you're looking up stats, keep an eye out for "have you ever cheated" vs "are you currently cheating".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:23 PM
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Definitely a high end gym. I go to PF specifically because everyone there is super schlubby and I like being on the fitter end of the bell curve when I work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:21 PM
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I mean I'll agree that the 1970s moved way too fast and they should've fought to maintain the one-income family structure, but the implication when talking bout this "problem" is that she doesn't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:06 PM
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Zoomers have some absolutely atrocious takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:47 PM
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But the way you frame it, she doesn't have a choice. Even just a baby who gets sick a lot (which a bunch of them do in the first couple of years) makes holding a job difficult. Like you're forced to literally endanger your job security rather than ask your husband to take a week off to care for the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:42 PM
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Oh my god it makes so much sense now, why wars are always fought by poor people! They're just not scared to die! women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:40 PM
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I don’t know anyone who would disagree with this. In your earlier comments, you said poor people would disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:37 PM
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Then he might need to change how he interacts with them or where he interacts them. He would have an easier time changing his habits then changing a group. So I know that socially, we place exactly zero expectations on women. But imagine a world where your comment was applied to women the way you'd apply it to my fictional uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:32 PM
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No I'm married and have a kid. My wife was the lucky 99.99% of women who weren't crippled by childbirth. You go to therapy, I bet. How old are you? Is the reason you're afraid of having a baby is because it's written into your life plan to have a geriatric pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:30 PM
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But you don't have a family. You have a boyfriend. Also it's a common sign of an anxiety disorder to imagine up nearly impossible scenarios and make backup plans for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:23 PM
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When trying to show someone why misandry is bad, it's helpful to swap out men and women for black people and white people. Misandry is incredibly normalized but being racist is something most people think is bad. So when you say "Women hate men because of learned experience" and I equate that to you saying "White people hate black people because of learned experience" it's me trying to show you that bigotry is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:19 PM
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I mean your fear is that having a baby will make you permanently disabled. Which, again, 0.01% chance. ...somehow you think "being permanently disabled" is something that only negatively affects the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:16 PM
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That's such a weird random brag. But again, the iconic duo is more of a rule than a guideline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:13 PM
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So I think you're unreasonable... because I'm poor. Nah... boys are just better at math apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:08 PM
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Do you- Are you aware that my uncle is fictional and was just an allegory for your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:04 PM
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Are you just bad at math? If there was a button that you could push and it had 7,000 to 1 odds of whether you'd be handed a hundred dollars or get bit by a cobra, apparently only women would be too scared to push that button.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:02 PM
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And women have zero say in who stays home with the baby. There's that iconic duo again. Honestly, if you told me that there was a group of people who didn't have the wherewithal to have any agency in their lives, I'd probably ask why they're trusted to vote in national elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:00 PM
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That's fine I know the answer. In 2023, one hundredth of one percent of women who gave birth died. That's the reason your response is "It doesn't matter". Women and being unreasonable perma-victims. Name a more iconic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:54 PM
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How many women are crippled each year from childbirth and are unable to work? Please present the figure as a percentage of the 3,600,000 births in an average year in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:40 PM
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My uncle says this same thing about how many black people he used to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:35 PM
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He gambled and lost on "I'm not Trudeau" because Carney is also not Trudeau lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:09 AM
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When your life sucks, you vote for the guy promising to change it, not the guy who promises you the status quo. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:28 AM
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First of all, how old are you and how long have you been married? What would be obvious to any married adult is that after 5pm it goes from "her job" to "our job".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:22 PM
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The problem is that the majority of people on this subreddit either aren't married, are super young, or both. Every adult in any of these threads responds the same: We split chores pretty evenly, not 50/50 but pretty close. If one works and the other doesn't it's fair to expect the unemployed partner to treat homemaking like their full time job. (Full time jobs end at 5pm.) Sometimes my spouse that I spend the vast, vast majority of my waking life with does annoying things. I swear, this subredd…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:36 PM
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And here my dad told me the worst she could say was "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:06 PM
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If you don't understand the difference between sexual intimacy and hugs, you really have to stop going to kids birthday parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:55 AM
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I'm not sure why this is a difficult concept. If your wife gained a bunch of weight and her naked body is now physically repulsive to you, it makes sense that you couldn't stomach having sex with her more often than for her birthday and your anniversary. This does not extend to hugs. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:48 AM
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You can be affectionate with someone you don't find attractive. Like you hug your grandma and don't think she's hot. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:32 AM
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Can you walk me through how someone isn't mentally fit to be in an adult relationship with an adult but still deserves to be trusted with the responsibility of voting in elections for people who will run our cities, states, and country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:53 PM
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Literally used "the r word" once in this thread, but I mean if your kink is being offended sometimes you gotta make shit up. I won't yuck in your yum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:58 PM
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New information changes behavior. For example, if you actually look at feminist issues and really unpack their reasoning... it justifies the condescending, patronizing kind of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:29 PM
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There's a ton of non-health reasons this could be the case though. Maybe you have kids and are just tired? Maybe your hormone levels changed once you hit 40? Maybe you gained a bunch of weight and are no longer within the archetype that they initially found attractive? Couples in their 20s and 30s have way more sex than people in their 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:12 PM
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It's nicer than calling her retarded for the undeveloped brain thing. Not entirely sure you can call her mentally sound and still claim he preyed upon her. I guess the take is that women consider themselves Schrodinger's Victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:50 PM
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Women aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:30 PM
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So I guess to clarify, women are bad at getting gifts for men. Something about not understanding utility or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:24 AM
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As a woman, you're biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:30 AM
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So what I was asking was in the more general sense. Not how should you treat your man, how should you treat men. As a man, I've been raised to treat women like I would treat my sisters. I treat older women like my older sister and younger women like my kid sisters. The catch is that women don't have "that". They weren't raised to treat men any kind of way (except in countries where it's a human rights violation) and the crazy lady on the other thread shifted the question from "how should women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:12 PM
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haha that's my bad! So you replied to a comment I made 6 hours ago and I thought you were this extremely angry lady telling me that I hate my wife because I think being the sole income earner is a burden sometimes. That's on me. I need to do better at keeping track of usernames. I truly apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:02 PM
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You're actually coming across as active aggressive. Are you not trying to be belligerent? Like this is neutral you? You've called me bitter and accused me of secretly hating my wife. That's not aggressive in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:00 PM
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You aren't even skimming at this point. What I said That was one of your examples of why I'm so angry This is me admitting I'm angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:59 PM
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So that was my point, that you think I'm bitter about. Asking a random woman, "she has no idea how a woman is supposed to treat a man" so you default to "how people are supposed to treat people." Socially, men are taught that the right way to treat a woman is to be a protector and a provider and our love languages are typically acts of service. This is different than the way a man is socialized to treat other men. You're so busy trying to project this bitterness on me that you're just kind of sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:55 PM
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I have no idea what gotcha you are trying for. The thing you quoted. I said that society goes to great lengths to teach men the right way to treat women, but over the past 40 or 50 years there seems to have been an erasure of teaching women the right way to treat men. That was one of your examples of why I'm so angry, so I was hoping you had an answer. You really need to read whole comments and not just skim for gotchas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:46 PM
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Not "your man". How is a woman supposed to treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:39 PM
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women don’t ever think about treating a man right How should a woman treat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:30 PM
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haha I literally cited a meme as evidence though!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:27 PM
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Okay so one last time, Being the sole income earner is a burden sometimes. My wife is not a burden. At a certain point, you're just projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:24 PM
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Oh so before he was Steve in the Minecraft movie, Jack Black had a band called Tenacious D that did comedy skits for some of the tracks and one was where he explained cock pushups to his friend Kyle. It was even in the movie. This one's on me, I keep forgetting that not everybody was a teenage boy in 2006 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0365830/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:14 PM
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Bro sometimes you need to just let people be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:12 PM
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So I feel like you misunderstood what I said. I didn't call my wife a burden, I said that being the sole income earner is a burden. Please tell me you understand how that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:11 PM
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"I can only do the one pushup, but one's all you need." -Jack Black
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:07 PM
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There's a meme I can't find where the girl asks how big his dick is and he says 8" and he asks how big her vagina is and she gets mad. Especially on Reddit, if you're critical of a woman's anatomy, you're in for a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:06 PM
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"How a man does anything is how he does everything." The kind of woman that lives in the apartment OP described doesn't wipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:04 PM
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Not true! When I learned the location of the secret rebel base I was finally able to believe that it was a good size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:02 PM
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It is such a taboo to talk about the size of a vagina that I think the zoomers in the crowd could stand to hear it a couple more times. Say it with me kids- "Wow that's a huge hallway!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:00 PM
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So you don't think it's a burden to be the sole income earner for a family? That's the definition of a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:56 PM
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So here's how you can tell that you're either ugly or hot: When you walk by strangers on the street, do they look at you twice? You never know if they're saving one for the bank or if they had to make sure you were that ugly, but most people are average-ish looking and nobody does a doubletake for what they see every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:55 PM
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Nope just married for longer than most redditors have been alive. In that time I've felt every feeling at my wife and lots of times more than one feeling at once. You ever been scare-roused? It's pretty confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:51 PM
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So the cornerstone of any successful relationship is open and constant communication. Do you think I secretly feel these things? Do you think she's unaware of how huge an ask a $500k house is? The closest to bitter I am is that she, as with all women, is a terrible gift giver so instead of buying each other gifts, we pick a local charity and donate & volunteer a weekend or two each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:47 PM
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It was kinda-sorta the other way around ten years ago. I had the low paying but fulfilling job and she made more than me (not six figures but more-enough that my sister mentioned it). Eventually I found my current job and couldn't turn down the money and because I make twice as much as we were making combined, it was my idea for her to quit her soul sucking job and jump into the author/writer thing with both feet. She's not loafing around, she's got two published books and has been exhibited in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:22 PM
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I'm a professional and my wife is an artist. I make literally 20X what she makes and sometimes it's a burden. She's definitely cooler than me but she wants to save for a house which is basically just asking me to buy her a house and birthdays and Christmases were a little weird for a while because she's essentially buying me a gift with my own money. I am happy that her career is fulfilling and at least one of us has job satisfaction, but life would be infinitely easier if she was making half wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:26 PM
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So OP is talking about a hungry homeless guy and you're talking about a girl looking in her fridge deciding none of the food is appealing. You people really are from Venus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:51 PM
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My point is that you're not talking about the same thing OP is talking about. As originally stated, you can't understand a scenario where a woman wants sex and can't get it. You aren't comparing apples to apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:43 PM
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I mean let's talk about you- What is the correct way for a woman to treat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:21 PM
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That’s because any woman can get random sex if she wants to Can you just real quick read me the post title?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:18 PM
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I live in Texas. I've literally never met a woman who thought there was a right and wrong way to treat a man and I have never met anyone who knew a woman who thought there was a right and wrong way to treat a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:42 PM
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We need to teach women what shame is. A guy is shamed for his inability to get sex. This is something he's failed at which makes him a loser. What you've just described is a person who succeeds at getting sex, but is a discerning customer. What you should be talking about is the fem-cels on subreddits like NotHowGirlsWork or FemaleDatingStrategy, but because it isn't traditionally shameful for women to be unable to get sex, you default to women who decline sex. It's like someone complaining abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:21 PM
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What self interests as a man do you have that feminism opposes? It's not that they want to end the tyranny, they want to become the tyrants. That's why there's so much pushback- the vast majority of people don't equate feminism with equality, they equate it with female superiority. Also guys don't like to be blamed for the oppression they missed out on. They didn't do anything wrong, so why are they being punished?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:00 PM
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Yeah, but socially there is a right and wrong way for a man to treat a woman but there's no right or wrong way for a woman to treat a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:17 PM
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To clarify, that guy just asked "If I'm nice, aren't I entitled to respect?" and your answer was no. Is it baseline that people don't have to show other people basic respect or is it just women that don't have to show people basic respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:14 PM
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Yeah agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:34 PM
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All men want is a woman who's nice to them. I guess if inference isn't your jam, the implication is that everything else is secondary and negotiable. This is not an insult: are you neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:55 AM
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It is impossible for anything to have only one characteristic. Congratulations, you got me. Things that exist have more than one trait. You win. Yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:41 AM
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It's wild that she's not allowed to have any secondary traits otherwise you win the argument. ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:26 AM
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The thing women cannot fathom is that we just want someone who is nice to us. I mean I don't know what I expected, I started out by saying that you couldn't fathom it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:55 AM
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I would like you to revisit the part of my comment where I said that women don't listen. It's got to be a genetic thing, like how women's brains are 15% smaller than men's. There's just no room for any empathy, let alone sympathy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:07 PM
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You're right, case closed. My wife has other attributes. She's also 5'6" tall. Is that also a thing men want? Would I have married her if she was 5'5" or 5'7"? Probably not! If you ever find yourself wondering why men don't take women seriously, save this conversation for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:49 PM
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You're so desperate to not have to be nice to men. As a man, I'm capable of actively listening and you haven't actually asked me to describe her. Would you like other traits of my wife that pale in comparison to "what kind of person she is"? She's funny, she's clever, she's terrifying and exciting. She's a bleeding heart liberal because she doesn't care how the world is, only how it should be. She's determined and infuriating because I don't value anyone's opinion quite like hers. And you know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:29 PM
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I'm talking about me. I have described me. I have said one thing about my wife, it's that she makes me coffee in the morning and that it is very nice of her. women don't listen I'll die on this hill. Continue not listening- it's your turn to talk, your wait is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:11 PM
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Because I find most people tedious and I actually enjoy spending time with her. I usually find myself politely waiting for people to be done talking at me, but I look forward to hearing what she's saying. These are my opinions and my feelings, not a description of her. As stated in my original comment - Men are simple, it's just that women don't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:05 PM
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That's so abstract. You're reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:43 PM
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I highly recommend "The Anxious Generation". We're starting to see the devastating outcomes of raising kids on iPads. https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=all&geo=US&q=%2Fm%2F01_4_n&hl=en If you look closely, these problems are zoomer problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:03 PM
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I can only explain it to you. I don't expect you to understand. Loops back into why I'm smug.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:39 PM
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Interactions like this is what keeps me smug.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:35 PM
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This has never been the deal. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_Means_No I keep forgetting zoomers don't inherently remember how things used to be. Nah. Having kids isn't voluntary? Exactly where do you live?! The only way it would make sense for you to be smug that society treats women like children would be if you benefit from it. I do. Part of being a kid is being scared of shadows. So while I'm statistically in more danger, I'm not afraid to be outside after dark. Mom told you to be home by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:30 PM
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What did I say about my wife other than she's nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:20 PM
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Well take any issue of inequality, that's the cornerstone of it. The wage gap mainly exists because Men negotiate salary Ask for raises more often Women take time off to have kids All three of these things are 100% voluntary, but because we have the same expectations of women that we have of children, them having agency doesn't enter into it. The wage gap is injustice incarnate. It's the same thing across the board. The old deal was no means no- she says no, he takes no for an answer. But becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:19 PM
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You don't understand why I'd be smug that men are treated like adults and women are treated like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:12 PM
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Wife comes to you and asks “why did you marry me?” Because I find most people tedious and I actually enjoy spending time with her. I usually find myself politely waiting for people to be done talking at me, but I look forward to hearing what she's saying. She's actually asked me and this was my answer. How many men have you asked "Why did you marry your wife?" Can't be very many. You know who’s nice? Every other person on the planet. This is so naive that I'm encouraged to remind you that you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:10 PM
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The low bar society has set for women. It's like when two siblings are fighting and the older one gets told "you should know better". Only men get told "they should know better". It's "victim blaming" to tell them they should know better. So I'm smug. And do you think incels are happy in general? Because the quoted comment is incel 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:07 PM
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Haha as if I want kids. Having kids sounds horrible. And having a husband seems terrible too. Im not ruining my body and finances for some ungrateful man. Sounds kinda miserable...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:02 PM
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I'm not miserable though, just smug.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:56 PM
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In your own words, how is a woman supposed to treat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:36 PM
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Yes, she figured out the cheat code that the best way to land a man is to be nice to him. Can I complain about her? Endlessly. But because at the core of our relationship is "we like each other enough to want to be actively nice" none of her frustrating insanity really maters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:35 PM
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I don't dislike them, I just don't have unrealistic expectations of them. Like I'm not sitting here gnashing my teeth over the social constructs that have prevented the default from being that women are nice to men. Instead I sincerely think it's funny that zoomer women will have all these opinions about how a man is supposed to treat women, but they get stunned and retreat to fight or flight when you ask them how a woman is supposed to treat men. I don't dislike the sky because it's raining. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:33 PM
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Being at peace is not the same as being incurious. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=The%20nothing%20box
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:29 PM
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But like there's a chasm between "be nice" and "don't be a bitch". Like you're not a bitch if you expect me to pay for our date, but it's nice when you pretend to reach for the check.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:27 PM
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I don't speak about women the way a Son of the South speaks about black people though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:24 PM
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But let’s not pretend that “being nice” is all that a man actually wants in his relationship. My bad, I forgot that this alien concept had to be mansplained. "Being nice" to your man covers a whole lot more than just compliments. For example, my wife doesn't like coffee but she always makes me a cup in the morning. That's very nice of her. What's interesting is that OP, much like the animal looking at itself in a puddle, saw the answer but had no earthly idea what she was looking at- Some men (e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:23 PM
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I'm sorry that you've lived a life with experiences that filled you with such hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:50 PM
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Just doubling down on the white supremacist talking points 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:45 PM
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My racist uncle also uses crime statistics to justify his bigotry. You two might get along. I absolutely love that your immediate response is a white supremacist talking point LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:42 PM
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The problem is that society has some very clear guidelines on "how a man is supposed to treat women" but the reverse has been systematically destroyed over the last 40-ish years. If you want to piss off a zoomer, ask her how a woman is supposed to treat a man. She immediately goes into fight or flight mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:41 PM
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Wait now tell me how all women don't hate men to some degree or other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:35 PM
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Haha "perfectly decent" is such a weird way to phrase that. Go to any of those ask men threads where the question is "what is hard about being a guy" and the answer is, almost unanimously, nobody cares. Last week there was this post about a guy who lost his kid to cancer and almost all of the interactions were about if his wife was okay or if his kids are okay. Only his close male friends asked if he was okay. Even his mom only asked about his wife. It's worth the downvotes from angry women for …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:18 PM
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It comes from being around a lot of women and listening to the "jokes" guys around me say. The default is for women to not be nice to men (which is different than women being mean to men).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:14 PM
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OP was talking about one person, I'm talking about the gender in general Also you're assuming the ex wife was nice to him. She could've been beating him for all we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:59 PM
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Because that's literally just how women are. You can either be with someone who says "I love you too" more than they say "I love you" or not be with anyone at all. (Until they finally make the gay pill)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:55 PM
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Men are simple, it's just that women don't listen. You people literally can't fathom it. It's like how a guy can sit and do nothing and be happy or how we can literally not be thinking about anything at all. You're just not built to get it. You intuit something is there, like an animal seeing its reflection. Like you aren't nice to random guys too often because of the danger that they'll become enamored with you. Maybe if I frame it from the misandrist perspective you'll understand? Have you tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:53 PM
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"Women don't listen" is his fault. Maybe we should be yelling louder and using smaller words? Guys want a girl who is nice to them. Think they'll understand it now that I rephrased it monosyllablicly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:43 PM
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Some men (especially of the manosphere variety) will tell you that men are simple creatures, they just want a chick who is hot and submissive and not a single mom. The thing women cannot fathom is that we just want someone who is nice to us. It is wild how a woman can go months without giving her husband an unprompted compliment and see nothing wrong with it. It's not that guys will fondly think back on that one complement they got ten years ago, married guys will do it too. Men are simple, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:11 PM
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Feminism has a branding problem. According to nearly every survey, the vast majority of people (in countries an average American can find on a map) both support gender equality and say that they aren't feminist. The problem is that feminism only exists to perpetuate feminism. It's why whenever I mention these two facts, the guaranteed reply is "Here's why you're actually a feminist even though you just said you aren't a feminist." If feminists cared more about equality than their brand, they'd s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:00 PM
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So are statistical generalizations worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:28 AM
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On average, women were found to have a decline in attractiveness by 10.4 points per decade and a decline in femininity by 7.59 points per decade. The most precipitous drop was found over the age of 40 for women. Male attractiveness and masculinity were relatively preserved until age 50, when attractiveness scores started to decline. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dissecting-plastic-surgery/202308/how-aging-affects-attractiveness-for-men-and-women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:39 PM
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According to studies, women find men most attractive when they're a similar age to them. Men typically say early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:22 PM
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Men and women are valued differently. Men are more praised for their utility, which they have more of as they age. It's why so many age gaps go "younger woman, older man".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:10 PM
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The moms I work with are very candid about it. It fucks up your teeth, your skin, your bones and nails and after you give birth you pee when you sneeze. Babies evolved way faster than women were able to keep up with. It fucks up your whole body and that's before you're sleep deprived for years on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:38 AM
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I think it's just different as we grow up. Like when my wife was 20 she was pretty and now she's beautiful and I sincerely believe that when she's old and wrinkley, I'm still going to pinch her cute butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:36 AM
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But that's kind of my point. It's not a wall, but girls are generally their most attractive selves in their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:17 AM
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Are they hot or are they "hot for 40 years old"? We're they hotter 20 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:04 AM
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It's definitely two different things. The second wife is always younger than the first wife, but like you said- only a loser would step out on his marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:22 AM
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I'm definitely biased for my wife. My attraction is deeply rooted in "that's the woman I'm spending my life with".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:21 AM
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It always comes as a bit of a shock when my 40 year old coworkers show me pictures of their kids back when they were babies and the 25 year old women in the photos are stunning by comparison. Maybe it's just that your body falls apart after you have kids? Like there was that before/after video that one girl made where she was very pretty when she just found out she was pregnant and her after-clip was just oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:19 AM
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He just told you the burden is on the men to invite, plan, and pay majority of the time which is not equal. And I told him that if he works hard on himself, the girls he goes on dates will be motivated to invite, plan, and pay for follow-up dates. You can be honest. Are you the friend who always texts first? Do you get more "I love you" or more "I love you too"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:15 PM
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So on a long enough timeline, when following "the person whose idea it was pays" the person who pays balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:00 PM
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The primary burden of initiative is on men My whole entire point is about what happens after the first date. May we please talk about what happens after the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:56 PM
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Awesome! So if the rule is "the person whose idea the date is should pay" then when she says "we should go on another date" it would follow that the onus is on her to pay. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:53 PM
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The fact of the matter is that, in the current dating market, there is more pressure on men to take initiative than there is for women, leading to men paying for the majority of dates The reason men pay for more dates is because it is the social norm for men to pay for dates. The social norm is not for "the person whose idea the date was" to pay for the date. I think the issue is that you're talking about what is instead of what should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:52 PM
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The argument isn't "whoever suggests the FIRST date pays" the argument is that whoever suggests the date pays. Sure, the majority of first dates are his idea because the pressure is on the guy to initiate. But the rest of the dates are a 50/50 split between who says "that was fun, we should do this again".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:42 PM
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Are you shifting your opinion to "who pays for a date" from "whose idea a date is" in order to be technically correct? Your focus lacks focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:39 PM
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You said "large majority" not just "majority". Are you modifying your opinion in order to be technically correct? I'll agree with the logic behind "the average number of testicles a man is less than 2" but I won't agree that the average number of testicles a man has is less than 1. Also commas are used to break between ideas not for when you pause the cadence of your speech. That's just me being pedantic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 PM
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The logic follows- The person whose idea the date is should pay. Normally, first dates are the guy's suggestion and the rest of the dates are a mix between the guy's and the girl's suggestion. By saying that the set up "you pay for the first one and I'll get the next one" will heavily weight you paying for dates, you have lots of first ones but not many next ones. This isn't putting words in your mouth, this is called active listening. I'm reading what you're telling me and taking a beat to unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:12 PM
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"You pay for the first one and I'll consider maybe paying for the second one" still ends up with the guy paying a large majority of the time. So we circle back to my first comment. You should work on yourself enough to get to the point where a girl says "this was fun, we should go out again". The thing I just quoted is you just saying that you go out on lots of first dates, but not many second dates. You need to ruminate on why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:05 PM
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I'm saying that it is common for the guy to ask the girl out on the first date. It's 50/50 on whose idea the following dates are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:02 PM
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Spoken like a guy who's never been on a second date. You should work on yourself enough to get to the point where a girl says "this was fun, we should go out again".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:58 PM
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It's not macro, it's micro. My wife gave me the ick the other day by mispronouncing the word pâté as p'tay instead of pah-tay. After much soul searching and long hours talking to my priest, we aren't getting divorced over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:34 PM
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The way ick's have been explained to me is that it's something that in the moment is awkward or off-putting. It's not that deep. You can get the ick from a guy trying to push a pull door for just a second too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:27 PM
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"Tom why the fuck did you just throw that chair?!" "IM JUST SO PROUD OF FATTY LUMPKIN!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:25 PM
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There's something so sad about resorting to AI for emotional fulfillment. Like OP should watch the second BladeRunner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:16 AM
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Not everyone can dodge learning homophobia in their formative years I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:10 AM
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Six years ago a leather daddy shouted across the street at me saying I was hot and asked to suck my dick. That's the most sexual attention I've ever received and I felt so pretty. Fix your Kinsey score.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:54 AM
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In another subreddit there was a post of a video of some Japanese girl laughing at a white guys joke and I made a comment about how white women couldn't hope to compete with this "being nice to men" technology and of course it's sitting at 20 downvotes in under 15 minutes. I'm not complaining because it's as useful as complaining about the weather, the only thing white women hate more than men is when you notice that white women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:10 AM
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I think the concept of dei is fucked because like it's LITERALLY tokenism and every last justification is racist (but not the kind you're used to) and it's like "you can't just be cool and also hire a black person, you have to form a whole internal committee of specifically blonde white women and one minority employee" who fall hiring a black person inclusivity. I have had minority bosses and it was zero issue until HR trained everyone to be painfully aware that my manager was culturally differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:36 AM
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A) In my day to day interactions. I don't expect as much from my female coworkers (literally all of them except one has told me they've cried at work and the exception is a very prickly lady regarding our boss) and from my friends and family I'd just as soon do X myself then rely on them. B) Because on an individual basis, just like the misandrists in my life say to me, "[she's] one of the good ones". I can treat her like I'd treat a guy and she doesn't immediately crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:25 PM
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I don't despise women, I just have extremely low expectations of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:03 AM
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I want you to scroll through the thousands of words in this thread defending that having an abnormally high number of sexual partners is not an indication of your mental health. Now I'm not saying you have borderline personality disorder, I'm just saying women who have borderline personality disorder are extremely promiscuous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:01 AM
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My claim was that if I asked you how many people you've slept with and your response was to freak out and get defensive, you know there's something wrong with it. If your response was "🤷 6X the median." then I would sincerely believe that you believed, through and through, that there was nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:32 AM
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I think a normal black man will say "no we're every bit as intelligent, you racist". If he behaved like the woman in the video, I'd assume his intelligence was quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:27 AM
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I urge you to watch the video I used as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:11 AM
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It does. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289616303324 And you know why I'm right? Because if I ask "The median number of partners a woman has in her life is 4, how many times the median are you?" you get defensive. I don't care about your body count, I care about the gut reaction to the question. Like this girl. Do you see how she shuts down and goes into fight or flight mode, repeating the same phrase over and over and over again? That behavior is why we all know somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:55 AM
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So as I said in the beginning, They do make it hard to not be misogynist...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:41 AM
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So to clarify, the analogy didn't help then? Also your rebuttal is like telling me that functional alcoholics don't count because it doesn't interfere with their lives. No matter what we're measuring, if you are two standard deviations from the mean, that's abnormal. Can we at least agree on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:38 AM
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Statistically women who don't have kids out-earn men by the time they're in their late 20s. https://abcnews.go.com/WN/reverse-gender-gap-study-young-childless-women-earn/story?id=11538401 By the time they hit menopause, according to Google, over 80% of women have had at least one kid. Please read up more on topics you're interested in. It will help me respect women more if I learn something by talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:35 AM
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Hyper-sexuality is a symptom of a whole range of mental illnesses. The median number of sexual partners for a woman 25-49 is (depending on the study) between 4 and 6. Let's talk about it like food. If the median calories women consume in a day is 1,500, and you're eating 10,000 calories each day... you might want to look into whether you have an eating disorder. Does that analogy make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:25 AM
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So for example the wage gap and how it's largely due to women taking a break from their career to have kids. That's a choice she makes with consequences. Nobody's forcing her to be a mom, but the reaction is like "well what else is she supposed to do?" It's like that. I treat women like adults who are accountable to the consequences of their decisions, but many women (you) are horrified by the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:09 AM
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Can you flair up so I know whether to respect you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:37 AM
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My expectations of women are pretty low. I don't hate women, I just understand that society has set them up as these children who can't be held accountable to the consequences for their decisions. Like name any feminist stance and I'll explain why it treats women like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:37 AM
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I have been told by supervisors, girlfriends, and female friends the thing a racist tells a black guy as a "compliment": "You're one of the good ones."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:30 AM
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It's like asking "are you hungry or just bored?" but with depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:19 AM
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Why do you think my marriage is shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:15 AM
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Like, it's fine to have dating struggles and vent about being ghosted or be upset when you're cheated on, broken up with etc. That you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:27 AM
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I'm married to a woman I've been with for 15 years. Not every misogynist is an incel. Try again, this time without assuming a woman's only value is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah sure, I'm not here to tell you not to be hateful. What's interesting is that I have never made that claim and get denial in response. 100% of the time I get justification. It is what it is. I'm not going to change a gender-wide phenomenon. It's as useless as trying to change all men so that a blackout drunk woman is safe walking home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:16 AM
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Women DO hate men. Misandry is just so normalized that you don't even realize it when you're doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:00 AM
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They do make it hard to not be misogynist...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:59 PM
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I sometimes feel like feminists infight more than they fight patriarchy. Because it's easier to fight a person than an idea. A little while back I saw some studies that showed something like 90% of people support gender equality but like 80-95% of people self identify as "not feminist" (depending on the country, 4% of Germans are feminists). I've never seen a feminist take this information in as good news instead of immediately doing damage control for their brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:05 PM
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"The only people who hate women more than men is other women."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
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Yes, most guys would want the bare minimum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:21 PM
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Are you horny or are you just empty and need the dopamine hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:00 PM
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mmm... pretty sure "basement dwelling neckbeard" is a pretty standard insult. Where's the basement, addings0? Whose basement do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:43 PM
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For the most part, yes. The caveat is that a man's status and income are the equivalent of a woman's looks. Men are mostly valued for their utility. Why do you think the go-to insult for a guy is that he's an adult who can't get sex because he lives in his parents' basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:19 PM
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Riley Freeman, red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:17 PM
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Is 50% of the population the problem or is it more likely that one person is the problem? 4 billion people or 1 person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:23 PM
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"If you smell shit wherever you go, you should probably check under your shoes."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:49 PM
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Oh! This is a teachable moment. The seagull lady is following me around Reddit calling me names and I don't like it. I can either blame her and curse my bad luck or take action and solve the problem myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:40 PM
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You don't expect them to be better than seagulls, you want them to be better than seagulls. When you can predict an outcome, the onus is on you to decide whether that's your desired outcome or if you want to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:38 PM
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"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." If you get mugged, that's bad luck. If you're constantly getting mugged... there's a common denominator in there somewhere that you need to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:35 PM
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haha "expecting women to take responsibility for their decisions and accept the consequences for their actions" is an incel take. Sorry I hold women to the same standards I hold men to. My bad, won't happen again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:30 PM
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People have sex in beaches for the same reason they have sex in the shower- it sounds like a good idea until you try it. And then for many people the process is "I didn't like that, I won't do that again." But some women blame the seagulls and cannot fathom the consequences of being an adult with agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:23 PM
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do you think people stop eating at beaches for seagulls? Yes, I think first-picnics at the beach are much more common than second-picnics. It's like sex on the beach, most people don't make that mistake twice. So I know that Gen Z is full of women who can't comprehend "actions lead to consequences" but going back to my analogy, maybe it's an entirely male concept that "I didn't like what happened to me, I'm not going to do that again."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:59 PM
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Most people are ugly. We really, really need to remember this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:40 PM
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I think I lost the faith when my 24 year old coworker told me she was surprised and confused that one of our clients was blind. Like she didn't understand how blind people could have jobs and apparently never met a blind person before that interaction. I'm cool with zoomers and Gen X, but we're at completely different stages in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:24 PM
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I'm sorry that you're offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:55 PM
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So I made a joke about mis-attributing a quote and you think I have an incel hero. Canadians are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:42 PM
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Thomas Crooks was the guy who shot Trump in the head last July.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:39 PM
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Thomas Crooks was the guy who shot Trump in the head last July.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:39 PM
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I'm glad we had this talk. I hope we both learned something, I know I have. And your skill at scrolling through most of my comment history so quickly is on par with AI!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:48 PM
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Over 50% of Gen Z men admit that they've never approached a woman, which means there's another percentage on top of that who lie and say they did. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. -Thomas Crooks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:47 PM
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No I mean it. $70k is a big salary for a girl and you're so smart for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:43 PM
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"Igotstandardsbro.com" is definitely where you get all your information from. It's why you're so smart for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:42 PM
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Women will eat a picnic at the beach and then whine about the seagulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:41 PM
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And I proved to you that 70k is the top 45% for people. You're really smart for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:40 PM
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And I'm saying that $70k is not impressive for anyone. You're really smart for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:39 PM
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Let’s see how much she earns compared to women. Oh neat so it is "She's really strong for a girl" LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:37 PM
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It's not a big deal when a woman makes $70k You're trying to brag about having a 100 IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:35 PM
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Holy shit you had that locked and loaded you absolute psycho. That comment was from almost 3 weeks ago lol Yes I stand by it. If you're interested in me for my money, that's absolutely fair. What do you bring to the table to justify your expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:33 PM
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I'm not sure why you don't understand why "earning more than 3 out of 4 people" is more impressive than "earning more than every other person". Is this like the women's sports thing? Like I'm supposed to lower my expectations because you're a girl and be impressed with "average"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:30 PM
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We'll stop objectifying you when you stop objectifying yourselves. Nobody put a gun to your head and made you wear that outfit to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:29 PM
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They absolutely aren't, but keeping score is a sure way to a divorce. For example my mom has had the same office job for 30 years and recently I've taken to calling my dad unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:27 PM
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So to most people, a salary with six digits in it feels way bigger than a salary with 5 digits in it. $70k is $10k more than the median income for an American who works full time. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_income_in_the_United_States I am absolutely not impressed if you're making $5/hr more than the middle. Also https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-calculator/ $70k is the 57th percentile and $100k is the 74th percentile. The difference is pretty significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:18 PM
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OP makes $70k and thinks it means she's successful but is single because of her toxic personality and refuses to self examine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:05 PM
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Weird and my b https://torontosun.com/life/relationships/generational-age-gaps-can-be-positive-in-dating-study-finds Idk why it copied that page
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:51 AM
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Well the article says 10+ year age gap. I keep thinking gen z is 25. Shut up and get off my lawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:38 AM
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Allegedly about 40% of Gen z women are dating men in their 30s. Now, they're fine to look at but I work with gen z women and I honestly don't know what we would possibly talk about. https://torontosun.com/life/relationships/generational-age-gaps-can-be-positive-in-dating-study-finds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:12 AM
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husband dick vs vacation dick Gen Z is a lost cause, that's what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:13 AM
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You ever lose something and search the house top to bottom and just can't, for the life of you, find it and then like two weeks later you open the freezer for a toaster strudel and BAM there's your book? It's like that, but for bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 AM
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If you look at how our parents relationships were, a lot makes sense. We are a generation of men raised by women who did everything, endlessly hearing about how much more our dads could be doing. And I say that as a kid whose dad left for work at 6am and got home at 7pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:26 AM
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I think she does. It was really sad during a fight a little while back when she said I could've done better than her. I am the man. My problems are secondary and it's my job to take care of my family. It's the cost of my being a misogynist who hates hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:17 AM
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My wife is an artist and writer whose annual income is less than $5k. She wakes up at 9am every day and doesn't drive because of an undiagnosed anxiety disorder and she can't do simple things like text someone when we're going out somewhere because she might miss their reply and they'll be mad. I love my wife. I am that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:47 AM
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So I understand that it's a cost/benefit analysis, but you're describing shitty friends. With my female friends, I've paid for stuff or they've paid for stuff or we crowdsourced the group for money to pay for stuff. Don't be friends with people who treat you shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:40 PM
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To be fair, I absolutely cannot treat my female friends the same way I treat my male friends. With my male friends I'm completely unfiltered but with my female friends there's always a general necessity to be diplomatic during every interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:38 PM
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There are exactly zero unbiased posts on those subreddits. Those stories (which are typically creative writing exercises) are so skewed that OP could say "AIO, my husband slapped me in the mouth" and I'd be willing to hear his side. Zero people on reddit, myself included, deserve any amount of respect or benefit of the doubt, especially in those rant subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:12 AM
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Me : big pharma will hurt people for money. You : Is your point that you don't think we should advocate for more male contraceptive options because big pharma will make money from it? Please read my comment again to understand that the only reason McDonald's doesn't put heroin in their burgers to get you addicted is because it's against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:41 AM
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How tedious of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:25 PM
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Then I have no earthly idea why you felt the need to bring it up. Pity party? Men bad? The fact remains, if you want a condom he's legally obligated to wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:59 PM
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Yeah it’s illegal, but that doesn’t amount to much. Where we disagree is that you don't think it matters that rape is a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:44 PM
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Okay so we're agreed. If you say condom and I say no condom and have sex with you anyway, it's a Class A felony. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:25 PM
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Speeding is still a crime even if you don't get pulled over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:59 PM
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I think it is unnecessary and possibly dangerous. The female BC pill kills 300-500 women each year. Condoms kill... I mean let's just say less because people are stupid enough to choke to death on a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:43 PM
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Female birth control is covered by health insurance, male birth control could be too. Health insurance doesn't mean pharma-corps don't get paid. It's common enough for men to bring it up here on the regular. I couldn't give you an exact percentage. You don't need to shit test me to see if I "really care". I have literally never seen a guy bring up how scared he is of getting raped and the woman sues him for child support. That's not a thing. You're making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:42 PM
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So if it wasn't legal, it would be murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:10 PM
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It's not legal. He's spending life in prison for murdering a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:04 PM
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Can you list a few or even one reason why it's not a good idea to advocate for better male contraceptive options? Pharmaceutical corporations will hurt you for money, they develop unnecessary drugs all the time for money, and again, as a layman I can tell you what's in a condom and exactly how it works but you can't tell me what's in a [male] birth control pill and exactly how it works. How common is it for women to rape men and get pregnant by it? I want to gauge how seriously to take your hypo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:00 PM
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Honestly I think it's a "black Snape" problem. Who is this for? If a guy is afraid of being baby trapped, he's wearing a condom anyway. It's birth control you can see working, and again you'll need it to protect you from STDs. If it's just an added layer, it's a nice-to-have product instead of a need-to-have product.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:56 PM
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Also the "trust me bro" works both ways. 100% of women will assume he's lying about being on the pill and make him wear a condom anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:46 PM
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So the point I'm making is that you're in a double bind- You say that we "need" male BC because female BC is unsafe at rates that warrant a new drug on the market. My argument is that if this is true, the OTC female BC must also be unsafe at those rates that warrant the need for male BC. Because the OTC drug is also female BC, it's either safe and we don't need male BC or it's unsafe and it should be pulled off the shelves. I'm not arguing any facts, I'm arguing against your reasoning. It's a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:44 PM
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So the target demographic for this market is "rapists who want to be considerate enough to not get you pregnant". Who are you selling this to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:37 PM
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You'd have to argue intent. Also you'd have to convince a jury that it is reasonable to assume Plan B injures women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:35 PM
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My experience is that men will lie, and lie, and lie (not to mention beg plead and threaten) to avoid using condoms. "Sex requires mutual consent. If one person is like "put on this clown makeup" and the other party is like "nah" but proceeds to have sex with the first person, that's a Class A felony."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:34 PM
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So you are saying that it's dangerous to have women's BC available without a prescription? I'm not understanding you arguing that we "need" male BC because female BC is unsafe AND female BC is safe enough for it to be OTC.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:32 PM
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So the intent was clearly to induce a miscarriage. There's no other reason he'd have slipped her Plan B. You'd have to make a whole case to prove that he wanted to hurt/kill his girlfriend. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:29 PM
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Okay so which is it? "Not all women" or "many women"? You can't eat your cake and have it too. Is BC reasonably safe enough for the average person for it to be OTC OR is it unsafe at high enough rates that we "need" a male-centered hormonal BC?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:26 PM
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Okay so I refer you back to the "Class A felony" point. Like if you're tricking me into sex that I wouldn't want if I wasn't being tricked, that's rape. It's the same thing as whatever you call it when the guy takes the condom off in the middle of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:25 PM
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So when the other person resorts to a lazy insult that doesn't actually address any part of the conversation, it's an indicator that they've lost the argument. This is me letting you know when I've won an argument by using the Unborn Victims of Violence Act point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:23 PM
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If you really want me to, I'll let you know... uh... big girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:21 PM
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You'd make a terrible prosecutor. The burden of proof would be that he wanted her to die, when it was pretty open and shut that he wanted the baby to die. It is weird that they didn't catch him on battery, but like "what's a misdemeanor when he caught a life sentence for murdering an unborn baby" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:19 PM
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Women’s overall health relies on the menstrual cycle and natural hormones, messing with that shit is problematic and dangerous for lots of women. Didn't we just make this drug OTC? Was that a horrifying mistake? The side effects on birth control are unsafe for so many women and others face lasting consequences because of prolonged usage of BC. Yeah it sounds like a horrifying mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:17 PM
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lol I read about that guy for so long before I heard his voice and he did not disappoint. He sounds like Lil Giddeon. I don't know what I was expecting, but that wasn't it. Wanna change that law? Absolutely not, it's my go-to for proof that abortion is murder. That dude's life sentence is a sacrifice I'm willing to make if it means winning internet arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:16 PM
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You're aware that the man was convicted by the Unborn Victims of Violence Act and not the "don't poison your girlfriend" act right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:14 PM
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Why do we need male hormonal BC?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:06 PM
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The girlfriend didn't die though? He's in prison for murdering an unborn baby. The injustice of removing a parasite clump of cells that isn't a human being carrying a life sentence. Can you believe that bullshit?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:06 PM
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The only men who give a shit about the “unfairness” of abortion are men on the spectrum fixated on the childish concept of fair. Hey it's murder when we do it! Doesn't seem very "fair".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:03 PM
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But right now male BC literally isn’t an available option. https://scitechdaily.com/99-effective-first-hormone-free-male-birth-control-pill-enters-human-trials/ I thought this was why OP made the post. Men are fertile 100% of the time. That's absolutely not true. Women are fertile 7 days out of the month. Also not true. Do you know what you call a woman who relies on the rhythm method? "Mom."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:00 PM
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Look at how much of your rebuttal is "crazy and evil women exist" and then bow before the superiority of the condom! Just be thankful we aren't still using lemons and crocodile shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:57 PM
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Show me where I said you're against condoms? "Condoms are peak, no need for more male-centered BC" <- My point. You can do whatever you want to your body, as per the riots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:54 PM
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So just to clarify, when a condom fails, you can see it happen and take appropriate next steps. There's no "three weeks later she might notice her period is late" to wait for, it's just "oh shit it broke, go get the orange juice." Score another point for condoms being the pinnacle of human engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:48 PM
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I'm not entirely sure you want to brag about the confidence you have in children putting condoms on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:42 PM
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I'm terrified at the dry sex you're having.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:41 PM
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How did you learn the proper way to put a condom on? You learned it from somewhere right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:36 PM
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Do condoms come shorter than 1ft long? Like the way they're designed, they can hold about a liter of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:35 PM
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Eh... you'd be surprised at how many guys don't know that they need to pinch the top and roll down leaving a little space at the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:34 PM
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Condoms only work if you have the right size, the right fit, put them on correctly and use enough lubrication to avoid friction tears. Size and fit are the same thing. Just don't delude yourself that you need a monster condom for your magnum dong and you're fine SFW. Also "educating people on how to actually use them" applies to every contraception. Like even with a vasectomy, you aren't shooting blanks until you ejaculate like 50 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:27 PM
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The men complaining about this go on and on about how it's unfair to men that women have all the say in whether or not a child is born but ignore the fact that women are expected to bear nearly the full responsibility of contraception. Sex requires mutual consent. If one person is like "put on this clown makeup" and the other party is like "nah" but proceeds to have sex with the first person, that's a Class A felony. So it could be argued that condoms aren't just male-contraception, but let's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:14 PM
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Link the article about the feminist protest to end the draft entirely. Bonus points for it not being in the context of an alternative to putting women on the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:28 PM
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They give lip service against inequality that favors them but you'll never see a feminist protest to put women on the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:19 PM
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OP was trying to deflect from the fact that 80% of rapists were raised by single mothers. I asked if she thought it was nurture like my assertion or nature like her assertion and if she thinks black men are genetically predisposed to rape white women or if it might not be genetic after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:46 PM
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But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors. OP is talking about me pointing out that 80% of rapists were raised by single mothers and as a rebuttal, she said 90% of rapists are men and I asked if she thought it was nature vs nurture and if she would extend her assertion to how often rapists are black men. OP declined to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:44 PM
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It's like me saying I want to take you to a concert and then we get there and I ask where your ticket is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:39 PM
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Ever since I was a kid, this was the kind of love I wanted. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4ftmOI5NnI Max and Valerie are relationship goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:24 PM
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So to clarify, you probably wouldn't count as "these types of people".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:01 PM
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Every now and then with these types of people I'll link a random study and say it backs up my claim knowing 100% that they won't even click the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:57 PM
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Yeah, that was her thinking if you scroll down through our conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:53 PM
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On our first date I paid for everything specifically because the plans were my idea. Though to be fair, I simp for my wife. It's doesn't have to be society-big. Every interaction is just two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:39 PM
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Having reasonable takes while still finding ways to be misogynistic is what makes me purple pilled, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:37 PM
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Sorry I didn't see your pill so I didn't know I had to point out that if she had asked him on a date, she would be expected to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:23 PM
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He offered to take her on a date. She's right, if she's paying he didn't take her anywhere, she took herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:58 PM
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Okay so anyone filming themselves crying is absolutely 🎣 BUT. If I tell you "hey I want to take you to a baseball game" and when we meet at the stadium and ask where your ticket is, that's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:56 PM
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I'll defend the thot. Whoever suggested the date should pay. She's not wrong, if he said he wanted to take her out, the implication is that he's treating her to whatever. What if this was a Friends situation where he took her to a restaurant that was out of her budget? I wouldn't go nuts on the menu but a $60 expense that I wasn't expecting would put me in a bad mood. And to clarify, Manners dictates that she must "reach" for the bill when he pays and show no outward expectation that he will pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:53 PM
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But I'm paying. That's payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:47 PM
2

Black men are the demographic with the largest incidence of being a rapist. Tell me you think it's genetic and not environmental and we can continue your good faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:41 PM
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You think 1 parent households are genetic? Being a man is genetic. Did you forget your own assertion? So what Im saying: what’s happening in the household? It's being run by a woman by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:44 AM
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Do you think being a rapist is genetic? My racist uncle tries to play that game. I choose to believe that the things that make a rapist are their environment. So which do you think it is? Someone's life experiences or is Uncle Frank right and some people are just genetically predisposed to raping white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:54 AM
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It's not a story that stays with you for 10 years, it's the fact that for every 5 rapists, 4 of them were raised by single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:48 AM
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Women are right to keep fighting for rights they already have because we see all the time, when you give the government an inch they take a mile. Men are wrong for wanting trad-wives. Life is much easier when your significant other is independent and especially when she makes her own money. Encouraging little girls left right and center isn't bad in itself, the issue is that we should also start to encourage little boys to "be whatever they want to be" when they grow up. Life is complicated. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:16 PM
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I'm not saying they don't, I'm saying that it's probably closer to half like Gen Z men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:12 PM
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Things are news because they don't happen all the time. 80,000 rapes happen each year and you remember Brock's name literally ten years after the attack. Nah, bro. It's a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:12 PM
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So I like to think I have some red pill takes and some blue pill takes. No such thing as a strong women. Did you ever notice that women call themselves strong and independent when they perform the basic functions of an adult? Like "I don't need a man to pay my bills." haha grats I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:43 PM
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The problem is that I don't entirely hate the dynamic. Women are coddled and supported throughout their entire upbringing and most of their adult lives. 65% of college students are women and yet we still have women-only scholarships and programs trying to cram girls into university. The drawback is that they're not very independent or self confident. Despite me being in statistically more danger than a woman when we go out at night by ourselves... she's scared and I'm not. When I come across a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:23 PM
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63% of youth suicides come from fatherless homes. For context, about 20% of kids are raised by single mothers. It is such a catastrophic disaster and nobody's trying to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:15 PM
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80% of rapists were raised by single moms and you're like "Nah, bro. It's a coincidence." Never change, blue-pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:11 PM
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So as a Purple Pill guy, I'm of the opinion that men have ABC privileges over women and women have XYZ privileges over men. It's like Dungeons and Dragons races. Dwarves have +2 to constitution because they're stout and -2 to charisma because they're dicks and Elves have +2 to Wisdom because they're old AF and -2 to Constitution because they're frail. Which race is superior? The answer is "it depends what we're talking about".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:57 PM
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The statistics are pretty outrageous. A boy raised without a father is 14X more likely to be a violent rapist than a boy raised by two parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:40 PM
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The whole blue pill / red pill metaphor is basically the question "do you accept society for what it is or do you dream of what society could be?" Like blue pill women are standard feminists because most of society is geared toward women and that's how they want to keep it. Red pill ranges somewhere between "this is stupid" and "I'm angry that this is stupid" and virtually all of their opinions are rooted in some form of counter-culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:33 PM
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So what he said- they've all said they do approach and make the first moves And all = 100% Which is why I specified that I'd even accept all to mean the vast majority, so the bar has fairly been set at 90% If you drop much lower than that you can't really fairly say all. So what he said: It’s been asked to women here before and they’ve all said they do approach and make first moves and what you interpret that to mean Just that women do approach men they want to date. these are not the same state…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:41 PM
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We are, and I don't believe that one side has a 100% rate while the other side has a 50% rate. Even colloquially meaning "the vast majority" I wouldn't believe. If you have any stats that show like 90% or more I'd love to see them, but I understand if you just saw a headline a while back about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:26 PM
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they've all said they do approach and make the first moves Studies have shown that half of Gen Z men have never approached a woman in their life. I don't believe your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:11 PM
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Men have one shot, one chance to blow. Women take fucking forever to get going but my high score is 4 on my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:37 PM
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Oh I was talking about like possible PTSD or probable emotional trauma. It's not guaranteed, but it's like "would you rather be with a woman who was in a car accident or a woman who wasn't" with zero other context. She's not a bad person but there's a chance she's in a wheelchair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:27 PM
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But the whole point of the metaphor is that I did something to "the can" that doesn't actually impact you, but you'd pick the other can. There's a laundry list of problems a person would have from "years of abuse". It's not their fault and again they're not bad people, but given a chance between that and not-that, the vast majority of people would pick not-that. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:11 PM
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the can that had been licked, but is now cleaner than the other has delicious soda You can't change a metaphor and have it still make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:58 PM
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So the implication of your "sanitizing the can" is that all remnants of the trauma I inflicted are gone forever on a molecular level. Is that ever the case for abuse victims? Ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:46 PM
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one was licked but then cleaned/sanitized no. That's not the scenario. I was holding two cans, I licked the bottom of one, and I held both cans out for you to pick one from
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:23 PM
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Is the value of the soda that I licked less than the value of the soda I didn't lick? Like I said, you'd reach for the unlicked soda every time. If the unlicked soda was $1, how much would the licked soda have to be for you to reach for that one instead? And again, the liquid inside each can is identical... but because of my actions against the can that we both agree won't actually affect you, the licked can has less value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:17 PM
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She isn't a bad person, but I wouldn't want to be with someone if their last (years long) relationship was abusive. It's like if I presented you with two cans of soda and licked the bottom of one. No part of you will come into contact with my saliva, all of the soda is unblemished and equally delicious... but you will ABSOLUTELY reach for the unlicked can, every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:33 PM
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I haven't seen the report that cross-references those three variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:35 PM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/10/covid-response-forgiveness/671879/ So you might not remember, but radical authoritarian leftists wanted to put people into camps for exercising "my body my choice" about three years ago. Member when Trudeau froze bank accounts of people who donated to a peaceful protest? I member.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:24 AM
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So to elaborate, I don't trust corporations to not put health and safety at risk to make a profit. Pfizer made $38billion off of comirnaty, which originally was 99% effective at preventing the infection of covid 19. Nobody currently believes it does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:04 AM
2

Yeah, you thought she was an attractive woman. Don't claim you don't think 14 year olds are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:15 AM
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It means that I deeply mistrust the government and I strongly believe that corporations will hurt people for profit. "I do to" I hear you shout. "That's still what 2025 leftists believe!" Pfizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:15 AM
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That's literally your argument. "If you thought she was an attractive woman, it's not XYZ".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:32 AM
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Giving "but your honor, she said she was 18" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:05 AM
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Aim fatter. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:26 AM
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If you ever need a pick me up, go visit a Walmart. If those fuckin chud monsters walking around with their chud monster wives can find love, there's hope for us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:06 AM
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Jesus said to treat others the way you'd want to be treated. I have a lot of strong opinions about transgenderism, but they've got enough problems without me piling it on. If it was me, I'd want people to be similarly kind. I won't lie and call them pretty, I won't "woman*" people about it, but there's plenty of other people who are way more deserving of a bad day than a standard transgender person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:05 AM
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Well I'm sure you've got a wonderful set of humor and a perfectly average penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:00 AM
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Unsarcastically, this is the same reason I didn't want to get LASIK until it was around for like 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:00 AM
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That would be me You don't have to clarify, this is reddit. The assumption is that everyone besides me is ugly. My mom says I'm handsome and she isn't a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:57 AM
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It is a kindness that costs you nothing. Just because I wouldn't have sex with a transgender person doesn't mean I should be mean to them on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:55 AM
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Man or woman those are some of the worst fake tits I've ever seen on a person 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:54 AM
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It's rude to assume your girlfriend is into anal. A faux pas, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:52 AM
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Discussion about what? Also statistically, 97% of straight men answer no to OP's question and 91% of gay men answer no. What exactly is extreme? I don't get that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:35 PM
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Ya know? I never thought about it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:32 PM
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He's a dude with tits. You think he loves himself?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:31 PM
1

Hey do you think the Pepe Sylvia joke was Charlie's dyslexia misreading "Pennsylvania" on all the envelopes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:29 PM
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Not really. At best you were burying the lead. At worst, there's a lot of different worst options. "I have PTSD flashbacks when I interact with men" is different than "I'm nonsexual and don't like when boys in my class flirt with me, I'm there to learn!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:21 PM
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Do you see how "being raped" is different than "getting flirted with in class"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:18 PM
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I'm hit on by gay dudes way more often than by women. You ever have a guy shout at you from across the street to let him suck your dick? I have and it made me feel so fuckin handsome, let me tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:37 PM
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I've never met a girl who was into feet. I'm not into feet, but it's one of those things only guys are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:33 PM
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Bro just telling you- you will never gain sympathy or even have a man be able to understand why "all this romantic attention" is a problem. You're still a kid but exactly zero of those guys who are hitting on you have ever been hit on and depending on your major, likely none of them will ever be hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:20 PM
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It took me too long to realize that "underwater basket weaving" means that you're soaking the basket as you're weaving it to keep the material pliant and bendable so that when it dries it's sturdy. There are no SCUBA masks required in these classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:08 PM
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As I said, there's valid reasons to cut someone out. Let's agree to disagree on the validity of "cutting out friends and family over social media posts" but that's exactly my point regarding the OP and who's less tolerant of which political views.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:17 PM
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If you want to address the OP go for it, but I have no interest in this. One comment earlier Dude no one “voted” for the gerontocracy last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:11 PM
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Yeah but what if you're into feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:10 PM
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Well there's definitely valid reasons to cut ties, like if you're gay and your dad just hates gay people, yeah you should leave the toxic environment. I'm talking about ghosting people over wrongthink https://www.cbsnews.com/philadelphia/news/study-liberals-nearly-3-times-more-likely-than-conservatives-to-block-unfriend-someone-over-political-posts/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:09 PM
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It's kind of worse when someone's social circle encourages them to cut their whole family out over political disagreements. Those posts have been getting more popular and "isolation" is literally how cults recruit members.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:57 PM
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It is, but every marriage has its ups and downs. And same. I marched in Occupy Wall Street and naively believed that the momentum it had in December of 2011 would carry through to the election in November of 2012. On the other hand, I am not a woman living in the US, maybe I would feel different if I lived there, who knows. Oh yeah that's another fight that happened because of clickbait. You probably heard "Roe v Wade was overturned and America banned abortion!" or maybe the doom-scroller versio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:41 PM
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Imagine finding out that you aren't sexually compatible after you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:30 PM
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Kamala Harris was in her 50s. She was literally only eligible to be president since 2001. And yet 45% of women who decided it was worth the effort showed up to polls and voted for the old guy. Also despite all the Reddit posts, you personally don't know a single Trump voter who wishes he or she voted for Harris instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:18 PM
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It's a two digit number isn't it? Because you definitely don't know, the bar by itself is 45 lbs. https://thehill.com/elections/4938935-pew-survey-republican-democrat-masculinity/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:10 PM
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I've found that the difference is that when you disagree with a conservative, they think you're silly or dumb... but if you disagree with a liberal they think you're evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:05 PM
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I think most men lean moderate or right anyway The most important thing to remember while wading through the liquid garbage that is social media is that the vast majority of people in real life are politically moderate. Despite it allegedly being the most important election in American history... most people didn't care enough to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:03 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/in-the-news/liberals-a-third-as-likely-to-describe-themselves-as-highly-masculine-than-conservatives-study How much can you bench?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:59 PM
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45% of women voted for Trump last year. Reality doesn't match the Reddit-tinted window you see it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:56 PM
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Last year 45% of women voted for Trump. 53% of white women voted for Trump. Mind you, this is MAGA not just conservatives. While it's true that men lean more conservative than women, it's not like there's a shortage of conservative women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:54 PM
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So by 2025 standards I'm a conservative but I'm a 2005 leftist. My wife and I have been together for 16 years and have aligned politically for most of that time. However. During the pandemic she took a hard left turn (definitely a total coincidence that her anxiety disorder and social media use got cranked up to 11) and while our values have remained mostly the same, she's become antagonistic about whatever political cause is popular that week. A year or two she'd bring up trans rights "atrociti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:50 PM
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I said "feeling safe enough to say no forcefully enough to stop him." In the 1900s the social contract was that there didn't need to be force behind the no. The iPad children invented that part. No wonder half of Gen z men have never approached a woman in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:00 PM
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feeling safe enough to say "no" This is explicitly what I'm calling out. Imagine if I'm ordering pizza and say I'm getting pepperoni and you're too meek to say that pepperoni gives you heartburn so you don't say anything. Society expects Gen Z women to be helpless children and that's fine, but children aren't allowed to vote. You either get to have agency or you don't. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:34 AM
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When I was a teenager, back in the 1900s, women had agency and accountability so the expectation was that if she didn't like what was going on she would say "no" and the expectation of the guy was to take no for an answer. Gen Z women are helpless children who can't be expected to live up to the millennial "no means no" accord, so now it's whatever enthusiastic consent is. It is very hard to respect women who grew up in a society that constantly infantalizes them like that. Is this why boomers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:13 PM
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"imagine if it was" is not an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:33 PM
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You still haven't answered my question. Kinda verging on sad now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:04 PM
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Okay I imagined it. Same exact world. lol what a joke, you can't even explain why the golden rule is valid. Talk about not having critical thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:37 PM
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Yeah that's why I specified "without being insulting". You literally can't explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:24 PM
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Walk me through why abortion is more prolific after it was banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:09 PM
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Because when men get harmed it's either their fault or it doesn't count for some made up reason. Like those social experiments from a couple of years back where they had "a woman slapping her boyfriend around" and "a man slapping his girlfriend around" and beyond the obvious "nobody helped the men but everybody helped th women" they interviewed passersby afterwards and the responses for why nobody helped the man were all some version of "I assumed he deserved it".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:49 PM
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You have no metrics to back this up. You just decided to believe what you read on some protest sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:45 PM
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Wait are the men coercing women or are they deceiving them? You can't keep your story straight. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:14 PM
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Most people constantly pretend that they're something they're not. The point you don't understand ☝️ I don't know how to better explain the concept of "everyone is on their best behavior on a first date."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:04 PM
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Is it normal to wear cologne on dates or is that lying about how I smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:46 PM
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why are women complaining that some men are perfectly ok with “pretending to be what she wants to get into her pants" Most people constantly pretend that they're something they're not. For example your mom only vacuums the house when company is coming over so thar she can pretend that she's a clean person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:26 PM
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Hypersexuality is a symptom of a lot of mental illnesses. So it might be a cart and horse issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:24 PM
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I'm just trying to make sense of the logic that the government banned abortion and now there's record breaking amounts of abortion. Seems... paradoxical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:21 PM
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"Women are committing abortion like it's going out of style" is definitely something we can both agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:11 PM
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Nobody restricted it, it was deregulated. It is genuinely insane that you were just told that women are committing abortion in record numbers and first you thought it was banned and now you think it's restricted. If metrics and data can't convince you it isn't, nothing can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:06 PM
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I mean when you increase abortions by 80,000 abortions per year... yes, there will be an uptick of "that one story from two years ago that is your only example". You have more abortions. We're ankle deep in mashed up fetuses. Why are you upset? You won.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:15 AM
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(They didn't ban anything, as evidenced by the record breaking abortions)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:39 AM
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Yeah... I think they know it's all bs too but like they're just trying to be like their moms and their grandmas and their great grandmas. They don't have "their oppression" to fight. They don't have "a suffrage" or "a Roe v Wade" or "a women's lib" like past generations had, but they were raised by all those women's rights activists but they came too late to the party. So when they dress up and play pretend-oppression it always comes across as nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:28 AM
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Without being sarcastic or insulting or using circular logic, please answer the question you just asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:14 AM
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Super fun fact: more women have committed abortion each year after Roe v Wade was overturned than in any of the prior 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:13 AM
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"You grifting little shit, you only ran that 5K fundraiser for MS research because your mom has MS."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:12 AM
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Hey did you ever notice how that literally, not figuratively, only ever goes one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:11 AM
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Full disclosure, I may have suggested that if we treated incels like human beings there would be fewer school shootings. Personally I still think my logic is airtight, but I had like 200 downvotes and someone reported me for "promoting hate".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:09 AM
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This is pretty spot on, but I'd nitpick and say that you're explaining "I'm not responsible for my kids being able to get dates, but I'm responsible for my kids developing all the skills that will enable them to get dates". It's kind of just saying "yeah" but with extra steps. Like you're not responsible for your daughters' driving, but you're responsible for teaching your daughters how to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:44 PM
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I don't think there's any hope for Gen Z. This post is that "adult woman fetish" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:00 AM
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Oh I was being hyperbolic and sarcastic. Only "certain people" think men are inherently predators and those aren't people you need to take seriously. Women who think this way could go fuck themselves, same as any other bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:57 PM
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The reason I'm excited for my 40s is because my 30s were better than my 20s which were better than my teens. Life gets so much better when you just go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:15 PM
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I've been with my mostly-normal wife for 14 years, if that's what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:41 PM
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But men are predators who don't actually care whether the woman consents to interacting with him. It's why ComicCon NEEDS to plaster those "costumes aren't consent" posters everywhere and why colleges NEED to "teach men not to rape". Where have you been? This advice is just agreeing with women with a "no, not like that!" reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:52 PM
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I don't agree with OP but I've always understood it as the female orgasm is a vestigial quirk of how we form in the womb. Like male nipples. There's really no evolutionary reason for a female orgasm, but there's no harm in it so it wasn't bred out of us through the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:03 PM
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I've had a first dates at a 24 hour diner My first date with my wife started with going to a Harry Potter movie at 8pm, staying out all night driving around talking, and then going to a diner at 4am for breakfast. GOD I miss when businesses were open 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:01 PM
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Yeah it's totally a coincidence that the LGB turned into the LGBT a year after gay marriage was legalized and gay people officially had all the rights straight people had. Bigger coincidence that 99% of the national discourse of the "LGBT" is only ever about that one letter. OMG do you remember the "don't say gay" campaign from the 90s? It had a very different meaning than the 2023 "don't say gay" campaign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:53 PM
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I'm not sure if you're old enough to remember, but 2025 Homophobiatm was normalized, but 1995 Homophobiatm was on its way out. We had stuff like "metrosexuals" where dudebros would emulate gay culture and before they had corporate sponsorship, they used to be called "gay pride parades". If you go on google trends the word "transphobia" didn't really exist in the cultural vocabulary until 2013. Things are different now. I blame social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:29 PM
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I miss the 90s when racism was hating people because of their race, sexism was hating people because of their gender, and homophobia was hating people because they were gay. It's so convoluted now that nothing really means anything anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:19 PM
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No I understand and I'm saying I think she was just honestly confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:45 PM
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Eh I give the benefit of the doubt. I said you twice and then women once so I think it's fair to think I meant you-you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:36 PM
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Sxnflower15 commented What do women need to bring to the table though? It doesn’t need to be justified. Like she said, either men adapt or they’ll be left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:35 PM
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You need to do better when switching usernames. That was Sxnflower15, not RoseyButtterflies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:14 PM
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The other reply was What do women need to bring to the table though? It doesn’t need to be justified. Like she said, either men adapt or they’ll be left out. I think she's serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:07 PM
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Everyone's prime is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:03 PM
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The other person made this reply but not jokingly. Pink pills are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:02 PM
2

Oh I meant the general "you" to mean "women".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:40 PM
15

A long time ago a person's "prime" just meant the best years of their life. Before pickup artists and incels existed, in the dark histories of the 1900s... it literally just meant that you were in the springtime of your life. The most possibility, the prettiest you're going to be, joints that didn't ache in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:07 PM
8

It's fine to have whatever standards you want. Full stop. The pitfall I see you walking towards is that with your increased standards, aren't you applying for jobs you aren't qualified for? If your standards went up, what new thing are women bringing to the table to justify their newfound pickiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:01 PM
1

Please tell me nerds didn't come up with something badass sounding like "dark triad" and it's just something lame like "Money, looks, being mean to girls"...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:57 PM
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It's just a woman laughing at a man's joke and being nice to him. That's literally all men want from a woman, and from conversations on Reddit this is asking for the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:46 AM
1

How do you embed a gif right in the comment? I never figured it out and still hyperlink text to imgur like a grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:36 PM
1

Same for #3. A man can do laundry every month and be fine but if you want it done every week then it’s now wrong. He was never struggling or incompetent yet still did not pass your bar. This is mostly a clean as you go habit, especially when you're doing laundry for two or more people. Also the presumption is that you have a washer and drier in your home, so like the washing machine becomes the hamper and it takes 3 seconds to set the wash going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:27 PM
0

Nice sleuthing, you could just ask. My account is 2 months old because I got doxed and someone made a death threat so I rotate through accounts every few months. Your intense (definitely not psychotic) investigation tells me it might be time to start a new one. Glad I didn't make the mistake of commenting on my hometown's subreddit this time. The avatar is just the first random choice. I use the old UI so I'm not very good at the new interface 90% of Reddit is anti-Trump hysteria. Calling it stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:56 PM
14

Always ask yourself "Why is OP's account 3 years old but only has activity stretching back two weeks?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:08 PM
3

I have met more women in my life that gave me the racist "you're one of the good ones" than women who didn't treat all men like Asians treat black people or think of all men the way 4chan thinks of Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:29 PM
1

Nothing is so emasculating as being one of the girls at work 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:51 PM
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As a rule, women hate men. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:49 PM
1

Most analogies really only work from one angle. It's wild how feminists never understand what an analogy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:22 PM
1

You can't just make up terms and bend them to your will. ...did you just wake up from a 12 year coma? That's exactly what "people who unsarcastically use the term abelist" do. There's even a term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:49 PM
3

They started letting girls into the boy scouts 7 years ago, so the first batch of girlboy scouts are like 16/17 years old right now. But it's a sad pittance of an example. It's my example because the word "boy" is in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:37 PM
1

People who brush off your feelings and tell you to "stop whining" aren't your friends. You shouldn't be friends with those people regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:35 PM
3

There's space enough in the world to have many common third spaces that are coed, and some that are single gender. I wish that were true, but further down the comment chain I point out that feminists have even gone so far as to invade the boy scouts. It's cool that you allow your husband to hang out with men unchaperoned, but I think your misunderstanding is that you don't get what I mean by a third place. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:25 PM
2

So this is weird for me to have to break down but theoretically, being her actual friend- Means that in her mind you're a good dude. People who are friends have overlapping interests, so her friends will have similar interests to you. It generally gives people the warm fuzzies to help their friends out. This would be one more wedding she gets to be the maid of honor at. I'm confused as to why you wouldn't think a person would see two single people in their separate friend groups that might hit i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:18 PM
1

That kind of thinking caused this recent measles outbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:15 PM
1

Women are not allowed to be in public unless accompanied by a man= Sharia. How was this not the obvious parallel I was making?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:07 PM
5

I mean if you look at it from the perspective of networking, it's not such an insane take. Like I'm not using my work friends workplace proximity acquaintances. But I got my last two jobs from a casual acquaintance's recommendation. If you see it as "a strategy" that's fucked up red pill shit. But if you don't close people off, there is the potential for your friend to tell her friend "you know who I think you'd hit it off with?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:06 PM
2

I refuse to believe that anyone genuinely thinks it's similarly as difficult for a man to find a girlfriend as it is for a woman to find a boyfriend. Like take note of what people focus on- men focus on finding a woman and women focus on finding a man of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:27 PM
4

So you don't remember when the Boy Scouts only let boys in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:11 PM
1

You aren't explaining why it's bad though. I'm looking for "We shouldn't normalize this because..."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:02 PM
1

Hey remember when the Boy Scouts were only for boys? Feminists ruin everything :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:00 PM
4

That's nice. There used to be men's third-places, but nothing upsets a feminist quite like a man's happiness...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:49 PM
1

You have yet to explain why this is a bad idea. Cool. We have established that it is optional. Please explain why it is bad to make the paternity test part of the routine labwork that the vast majority of parents-to-be are already getting done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:45 PM
3

Maybe when women stop invading men's spaces men can have activities to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:44 PM
0

Some day I'll figure out an effective way to argue against Feminist-Sharia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:22 PM
4

You could just say "yeah". We didn't ban smoking, you could just smoke in your house!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:56 PM
4

So Plan A is still to destroy every woman-free third place that men might have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:49 PM
2

So women are... biologically compelled to go to therapy more often than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:06 PM
1

I'm saying women are better at dealing with their mental illness / neurodivergence /whatever it's called today, damn kids not because of privilege, but because they go to the doctor and get diagnosed and treated for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:43 PM
2

Or move to a state that isn't friendly to alimony https://lawofficeofaishahmccoy.com/what-states-do-not-enforce-alimony/ The hard part is tricking your wife into thinking Mississippi is a good place to move to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:42 PM
3

Women live longer because men don't go to the doctor. The reason autistic women have an easier time of it is because they're more likely to get diagnosed and receive treatment/therapy for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:39 PM
5

But that's stupid and wouldn't stick cause the actual definition This applies to so many buzzwords. Incel... racist... nazi... woke... shit even the word "literally" has been changed from "literally" to "literally" and "no, not literally". You just have to make your peace with linguistic drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:28 PM
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This is exactly it. All of my painfully single friends throughout my life have had one trait in common. They're fucking awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:38 AM
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So when I draw a parallel to two types of thinking, and we agree that one of the types of thinking is bad... you're supposed to either change your mind or explain why the parallel is incorrect. You can't just be like "I'm right because it's in the constitution that she's allowed to let her kid die of measles."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:42 PM
1

That's neat, I just explained that the father gets labwork done during the pregnancy. You have yet to explain why this is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:10 PM
3

So you think this person just stopped trying to form those relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:01 PM
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it’s very much not that we’re just too coddled and not self sufficient enough lol https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.html Women are absolutely coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:56 PM
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It is integral to civilization that men are disposable. Like not even counting war- look at workplace deaths. 96% of people who die at work are men. We need that. If something has existed since the Neolithic Agricultural Revolution, that is a load-bearing social norm. Sometimes it sucks to be a guy. Sometimes it sucks to be a girl. That just means sometimes life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:54 PM
1

So standard just means routine, normal, and typical. What is your argument against making this one test over here as routine during the labwork when parents get blood drawn to screen for birth defects during the pregnancy? "It's available to people who want it" is not an argument against normalizing a procedure. That's an antivax argument against getting your kid immunized against polio as part of their routine care as babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:46 PM
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What the hell do you think "standard" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:41 PM
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This is kind of like when Serial Killer Jim heard about how the police can take fingerprints from the scene of a crime and match it to suspects. What is your argument against making a paternity test standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:37 PM
1

Are you uncertain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:32 PM
0

That's super neat. https://flo.health/pregnancy/pregnancy-health/prenatal-testing/paternity-testing-while-pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:28 PM
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My insurance covered it, but I had a copay. Are you not American? I know that this might be a very American thing to see as normal. https://www.ibdna.com/paternity-testing-ban-upheld-in-france/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:20 PM
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Oh please don't defend anti-vaxxers just because you don't want your husband finding out. This was an example of when it's important for the state to boss you around about your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:59 PM
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It was just SOP when I got blood drawn for the panel to test for stuff like Creutzfeldt–Jakob disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:58 PM
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Like I said, some men sink, some float. Life is trauma. Luckily for a lot of us it's just increasing difficulty going from "dad dismissively told me to stop crying when I skinned my knee" ramping up until we make jokes about how Jesus's biggest miracle was having 12 close friends at 30. It's hard, but it's like going to the gym- eventually you build up the muscles and before you know it, "6% of the wage gap is due to the fact that men typically negotiate initial salaries and women don't" is like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:57 PM
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Have you ever had a baby? It was just SOP when I got blood drawn for the panel to test for stuff like Creutzfeldt–Jakob disease. It's absolutely bonkers that you think the birth of a baby happens in a figurative vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:49 PM
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Expensive? You realize that giving birth to a child in a hospital costs like $15k WITH insurance right? The right to opt out? Yeah my antivax aunt said the same thing about why she's homeschooling her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:52 PM
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Don't be so hard on the guy. Men are on their own from before they can form memories. No really, studies show that moms will let baby boys cry longer than baby girls. Guys typically have two routes, they could either be sad sacks wishing they have what women were blessed with or they can take the tools that being on your own your whole life and build yourself into being strong and self sufficient. Like because I've only been able to rely on myself for my whole life, I'm not scared of going out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:33 AM
3

Just like anything else, the severity is what makes the difference. It's absolutely reasonable to expect your man to have a job. It's absolutely reasonable to expect your man to be able to support himself. But the further away from your own income you get, the more you have to bring to the table in return. The only thing that makes it unreasonable is not being able to answer the question "What makes you worthy of my six figure salary?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:28 PM
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Yes. Every time I point out how every woman hates men to some degree or other, women never reply "no we don't". It's always just them defending their hatred. We notice you crossing the street to avoid us. We notice that men will make eye contact with other men and give nods while women will pretend that the middle distance is extremely interesting. We notice that guys will brush past us to get by but women will reroute in order to avoid our cooties. Some guys are bothered by it, some guys aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:04 PM
6

The worst part of marriage is that she likes chewy bacon and I like crispy bacon. I've been considering divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:09 PM
5

Thank you so much for reminding me that it's my turn to make breakfast 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:29 PM
2

So those all say they prefer men and the ones I linked have being a woman as a requirement... Do you actually know what discrimination is? That one's on me I should have clarified ten comments ago if you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:44 PM
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So scholarships exist that men can apply to. Scholarships exist that women can apply to. Scholarships exist that women can apply to. There exist no scholarships that men can apply to that women can't apply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:16 AM
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Dude I'm literally drawing a one to one parallel from "the thing you just said" to "separate but equal". It would be literally illegal (well it's illegal but laws don't apply to women) for a scholarship to exclude women and the fact that you're trying to defend it with 1950's arguments is wild. Sometimes you win some, sometimes I win some. That's how privilege works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:04 AM
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"Why are you being so uppity? There's your water fountain over there!" It's literally normalized discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:39 AM
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or that there aren’t scholarships men can apply for? https://scholarships360.org/scholarships/top-scholarships-for-women/ There are like... six privileges women have over men and how do you not know about this one?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:57 PM
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Please tell me how much student debt you graduated with due to all of those scholarships I wasn't allowed to apply to. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:38 PM
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Is there... any kind of finish line for when women are done needing all the help that they certainly don't "need" because they're fierce and could've done it on their own if they wanted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:29 PM
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Women make up the majority of college students by a bit of a margin. Yet we still have programs encouraging and funding girls to go to college. Seems like privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:26 PM
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No I'm sincerely saying I thought sugar babies were a group of women who exchanged goods and services for money. Also obligatory Riley Freeman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cfCI07zVRg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:34 PM
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I might be old and not understand what a sugar baby is, but don't you just give her lots of money and she does sex things for you? Or like an escort situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:19 PM
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Walk me through how that's not just prostitution with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:06 PM
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And they never realize they sound exactly like a KKK member talking about "you know whats". I guarantee you've said "you're one of the good ones" to your boyfriend/husband the way Uncle Cleetus would tell my cousin's black boyfriend. Would you say around men... you "never relax"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:18 PM
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I said it to the other one and I'll say it again- The fact that women just hate men is endlessly fascinating to me. Like sure men won't respect women and they'll objectify them and whatever... but women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:43 PM
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Is "uwu men would rather talk to a tree than a woman" supposed to be some kind of gotcha? No it's telling women the same thing the bear told men. "I'm not comfortable being vulnerable around you" But when you're the target of the comparison, you get super defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:40 PM
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So I might just have the crime statistics stuck in my brain (women are sentenced to 40% of the jailtime as men when convicted of the same crimes) so I'm having trouble thinking of sex offenses women would be convicted of that aren't really that bad, but like if we're just making up a person, I would date someone who got drunk and got caught for public urination at a playground at 2am when they were 19. There's really not much else, but I'm interested in your hypothetical scenario where I wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:44 PM
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No it's hedonism. My poly friends are plain looking, but one girl has like a shelf of dildos "that are nice enough to display" implying there's a fuck ton more that guests don't see upon entering their home. And her boyfriend's parents just visited for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:29 PM
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Is this what it's like being mansplained to? Ma'am, you don't get an opinion on how men perceive your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:19 PM
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No amount of word salad will change this on your part. You're right. I can only explain it to you, I can't make you understand. Hopefully you're not like this if someone tells you that you're too drunk to drive home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:16 PM
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No I'm just a guy who understands the OP and literally started this conversation The first (massive) hurdle to any question you ask women is the ordeal of trying to get them to understand a male perspective. . And from a male perspective, ma'am, that's a spot on analysis of what happens whenever a guy complains a little about his life. This whole conversation started off with me explaining that men see women as unsympathetic and women cannot fathom themselves being unsympathetic. Again, this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:13 PM
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In the tl;dr version I asked, why do you think women have zero sympathy for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:09 PM
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The question is biased because you don't think you're unsympathetic to men. It's like all those posts about "why don't feminists care about men?" and you have women lying about how helping women really helps men too. It's like how my wife is a loud talker and when it's late and we're walking around town and I can hear her voice echo off the houses... I can't just be like "Hey be quiet, it's late". OP's post is - You are this way. Why are you this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:04 PM
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No I totally get the whole reasoning behind why guys can't understand the problem with being cat-called. But like "living at home in your 30s" is such a red flag to me, a guy who is also in his 30s. There's a whole bunch of valid reasons you still live at home ranging from cultural to like a sick parent or whatever. But if I went on a date with a woman and she was like "Come back to my place, my parents are asleep by now" my brain would just go "I'm going to be taking care of this person for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:02 PM
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The first (massive) hurdle to any question you ask women is the ordeal of trying to get them to understand a male perspective. The tl;dr for this OP is "why do women have zero sympathy for men?" And from a male perspective, ma'am, that's a spot on analysis of what happens whenever a guy complains a little about his life. When asked, "Would you rather randomly come across a bear or a man in the woods" every woman chooses bear. When asked, "Would you rather share your feelings with a tree or a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:57 PM
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I'm in my 30s, still live with my parents, and I STILL can enter relationships with men I'm attracted to at any time I see fit. This is the most wild thing in the world to me. She's either lying through her teeth or too gorgeous to make eye contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:48 PM
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I mean the first google link says 80% https://post.ca.gov/portals/0/post_docs/publications/Building%20a%20Career%20Pipeline%20Documents/safe_harbor.pdf This part was particularly interesting- 70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies and teen substance abusers come from single mother homes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:43 PM
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The vast majority of poor kids have two parents. Also look at actually-poor, non-American countries. Median household income for Malaysia is about $700. Why haven't they turned into Mad Max style savages?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:30 PM
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How can something that isn't there make you any kind of way? The fact that women just hate men is endlessly fascinating to me. Like sure men won't respect women and they'll objectify them and whatever... but women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:21 PM
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Male privilege. Boys are accustomed to feeling superior to girls, men accustomed to feeling superior to women. 85% of violent rapists were raised by single mothers. Bad dogs aren't born, they're made. Look for variables, not constants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:07 PM
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"Always start with foreplay" is life changing advice that you need to pass on to every man you ever talk to. This is the fire of Prometheus. If she comes before the sex, worst case scenario is she came, more likely scenario she tells her friends you gave her multiple orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:21 PM
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I don't know Bro this is a time where a woman is telling you a thing and you need to listen to it. Foreplay is a near-guarantee of orgasm. My wife thinks I'm way better at sex than I am specifically because I don't sleep on the foreplay. A-B test the theory if you don't believe it though. Keep a journal like Trish from Mallrats did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:09 PM
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Oh because I think families are happiest when the mother feels successful and fulfilled in her goals. Was confusing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:06 PM
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There's a hidden bias in there though. For a SAHM to exist, the dad has to just be crushing it financially which implies a whole bunch of things going on in the background like college education, work ethic, and not seeing your dad for literally most of your childhood. It's not just "happy wife, happy life" expanded to the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:00 PM
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I mean if we're talking should's, people should love each other forever and not get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:57 PM
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I feel like you're really hung up on the semantics of it. You can run for president. There's no laws written to stop you. You will absolutely not be president if you aren't a wealthy guy with massive connections to corporate power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:26 PM
3

"If you didn't want to be a parent, you shouldn't have had sex" is like the pro life argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:02 PM
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"If you didn't want to be a parent, you shouldn't have had sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:41 PM
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Okay so you don't really get to have the "If you didn't want to be a parent, you shouldn't have had sex" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:40 PM
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Yes. If you didn't want to be a parent, you shouldn't have had sex. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:09 PM
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You gotta read the whole comment before you slam on that CapsLock But I might be getting ahead of myself. Are you Pro-life and of the opinion that once there's a heartbeat, it's a child? You called it a child and I'm used to you people only doing that after the birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:07 PM
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More sleight of hand: Me: "Men have zero control over the pregnancy, and therefore no responsibility." You: "Since men have no direct control over the pregnancy itself, that takes away their responsibility for the child." But I might be getting ahead of myself. Are you Pro-life and of the opinion that once there's a heartbeat, it's a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:50 PM
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If you have no control over a thing, you have no responsibility for that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:40 PM
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https://www.wspa.com/news/woman-travels-country-paying-drug-addicts-to-get-vasectomies-tubes-tied/ Hero?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:26 PM
0

Yeah, "find yourself"... "quit the bottle"... fuck struggling people, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:23 PM
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Do you really think your sleight of hand works when it's written down? I'm talking about pregnancy, not impregnation. Me: men and women are both responsible for the sex. You: Men have as much control over impregnation as women do. Literally the same thing and not at all the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:22 PM
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Because it's hyper-effective and the ruling aristocrats have spent hundreds of years and trillions of dollars perfecting it. It's why Congress has a 13% approval rating but your Congressman has like a 70% approval rating. Or like how we all agree that corporations will hurt people for profit until someone says the word vaccine. And it's worth the downvotes: Occupy Wall Street brought the rabble together as we were heading into an election year and the end of that movement lines up precisely with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:19 PM
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No, men and women are both responsible for the sex. Men have zero control over the pregnancy, and therefore no responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:07 PM
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These conversations always get so pro-life. So we're agreed on "If they didn't want to be a parent, they shouldn't have had sex" except you're using the double standards of quibbling over pronouns?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:03 PM
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No they don't. A timeline: Abstinence The Pill Condoms Plan B Abortion Adoption Men have "control" of one of these things, and only in one direction. If a woman wants a condom and man doesn't but has sex anyway, that's a Class A Felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:00 PM
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Is anything a woman's fault or do they just have no agency or responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:58 PM
2

What a pro-life thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:56 PM
2

Since when does "let me see my kid" count as the courts favoring anyone? Parents give up custody for all kinds of reasons. Maybe you're a fuckup and need to get your shit together, and after you got your life straightened out you want to see your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:55 PM
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haha have you never heard that phrase before? https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/the+odds+are+good%2c+but+the+goods+are+odd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:52 PM
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He's talking about that calculator thing where it shows population segments and like "I'm looking for a guy in finance, trust fund, 6'5" blue eyes" doesn't exist. If you don't mind the irregular bin, the odds are good but the goods are odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:05 PM
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Gay literally means happy. https://m.youtube.com/shorts/OubN_CUX-Yo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:03 PM
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I thought a vote for a third party was a vote for Trump? Did those DNC commercials lie to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:02 AM
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Dude the answer is the old saying "PETA throws red paint on fur instead of leather because old ladies won't kick your ass, but bikers will." It's the difference between a feminist and a women's rights activist- The Pussy Hat protests in 2017 were sound and fury signifying nothing and Pussy Riot are fucking ballers because Putin throws them in jail for protesting and they don't stop. https://www.vice.com/en/article/pussy-riot-member-details-horrific-abuse-in-russian-womens-prison/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:23 AM
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America is a democratic republic, which means the people vote for a person to represent them. Voter turnout in 2024 was 51% women, 49% men. You-know-who won the popular vote, including 52% of white women. When you were younger, did you ever imagine the face of the matriarchy would have an orange spray tan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:12 AM
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Obligatory Mulan. To me the issue is that there used to be a very clear, specific picture of what a man was supposed to be and in the last 25 or 30 years there has been a concentrated effort to dismantle it. The oldest example I can think of is "don't tell boys to man up" with the problem that nobody really thought of what you're telling him to do when you say that. Essentially it's saying "rise above your fear and do this difficult thing" which is pretty much the crux of what being a man means …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:31 PM
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f*ck I don't know what this word is, your comment doesn't really make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:04 PM
1

How about "Women stop abusing women"? https://mainweb-v.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml Down low- too slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:24 PM
1

A woman's sexuality is a moving target. What turns a woman on? Abs? Firearms? Ears? Hands? Nobody knows!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:06 PM
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"Drawing parallels to explain bigotry is bad" too complicated for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:17 AM
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haha sweet attempt at racism bro, but I'm American.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:43 AM
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I mean, I expect to have a lot in common with you. Just because we disagree on this one thing doesn't mean we can't be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:40 AM
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Women are statistically unlikely to be harmed by men Neat! Glad we agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:02 AM
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The danger men pose to women is greatly exaggerated by bigots. The danger black people pose is greatly exaggerated by bigots. Do you see how I'm using allegory as a teaching tool?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:36 AM
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Oh I thought this was specifically asking "me" when OP said "you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:35 AM
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It's a parallel used to explain bigotry to bigots who don't understand the problem because their bigotry is normalized. Statistically you're in much more danger from a black guy than a white guy. To be clear, bigotry is bad and the danger that you're in has been greatly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:49 PM
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So women are wonderful™ so it was a study about victimization by sexual preference and "lesbian and bisexual women" are the top demographic for domestic violence victims. They outmatch the wives of cops even. Zero institutions are going to fund studies that make women look bad. Can't upset the half of society who makes up 80% of consumer spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:42 PM
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Have you never been with someone who makes you think "everything will be alright :)" in the moment you're with them? No. I've been married 15 years and hahaha absolutely not. Didnt you hear the rebuttal to the man/bear meme? "Would you rather share your feelings with a woman or a tree" and every single man says tree. When my wife asks how my day was, the answer is either good with reasons why or fine with a question about her day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:40 PM
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The way you say it, my other uncle might be right in saying that the only thing women do better than men is be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:37 PM
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Basically the only people he would be angrier than if my cousin brought home a "one of those" is another woman, because of domestic violence statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:53 PM
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Yeah that's what my uncle says. That guy has interracial crime statistics printed out in his back pocket like a jehova witness with their tiny Bibles. You are both right in your identical reasoning for your discrimination. Why are you fighting me I'm saying you're right!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:38 PM
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That's the neat part! Most male violence targets other males! You're so smart, just like Uncle Jerry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:35 PM
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Would you expect her to physically protect you? From who? I don't really have enemies like that and if it's the case of a home invasion, "God made men. Sam Colt made them equal." I will never understand this from women. "I feel so safe when I'm with you" - safe from WHAT? Who is after you babe? What the fuck did you do?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:21 PM
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But that's the problem isn't it? Sure you could find a guy to marry you at 35... but all the good ones were snatched up in their mid 20s. People think it's so sweet when I say that if my wife left me I probably wouldn't date again... but the reason I wouldn't is because I know what's out there. And it is grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:13 PM
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My uncle also uses crime statistics as his reasoning for why he refuses to let his daughter date "one of those you-know-whats" and we all say he's being racist, but I guess he's just being smart like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:54 PM
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and honestly I'm not ready to be 30 As a 38 year old reading your comment. You are a boy. Your whole life is ahead of you, your back and knees don't hurt yet and if they did doctors would give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:08 PM
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OP I see you mentioned Steven Gress but not Michelle Brandes and I think that says a lot about the topic as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:45 PM
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I mean it's like in Spiderverse where Peter tells Miles "this is where he says "you've got 24 hours"" and then kingpin says "you've got 24 hours". I literally explained what you people do when someone mentions a guys problem and you did it. Caps lock rant and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:23 PM
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You cannot see how we are trying to help you? Um You can’t constantly talk about suicide rates AND DO NOTHING ABOUT IT FOR YOURSELVES! This you, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:58 PM
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Thanks. “You as a human being doesn’t matter to them”. Please prove this statement The statement has been proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:40 PM
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And unlike getting fat, you're allowed to ask them to fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:43 PM
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Talk about suicide rates and you're guaranteed to get a whataboutism to how hard women have it. Talk about murder rates and you'll get a whataboutism to how murderers are typically men. "Prove society doesn't care about men" is a bit of an odd ask because it's just so ingrained into society that men are completely on their own that your request is kind of like "prove the sun is bright". What's weird is when guys are sad sacks about it. Men are disposable. That's why all the Ukrainians that aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:58 PM
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No I mean like how guys go years and years between receiving compliments. Rules 0 and 1 always apply to everyone, but like guys don't care about her job status or what car she drives or who she voted for - if she's proactively nice to him, he'll be infatuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:49 PM
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It's so depressing talking to guys about their feelings. Like all a girl has to do to hook a guy is compliment him in passing and he immediately starts fantasizing about the rest of their lives together. The vast majority of men just have the one standard - "Be nice to me sometimes" with the optional "don't make my life harder than it already is".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:24 PM
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The other person replying to me can't quite get there. The thought experiment "why are you still single at 30" to see if you come up with reasons that are your fault or reasons that are not your fault seem to have set her off. My assertion is that men blame themselves and women arrogantly blame everyone but themselves. It's like fat acceptance - it only exists for women. I'll agree that mental illness is definitely an exception, the rule stands. It's not "her" fault she's single at 30... men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:07 AM
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Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:04 AM
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Why are you single at 30 isn't a loaded question, it's a pretty standard question as you get older and are single. Have you never been to a wedding with a wine aunt or a Funcle?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:42 AM
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As the other guys in this thread have been saying, "he's intimidated by a strong, successful woman" is a cope. Whether it's getting dumped or getting rejected, the problem isn't you- it's the other guy. If I asked you "Why are you single at 30?" would you list your own flaws or would you list reasons that aren't your fault? Like go on those ask men/women subreddits and the dating advice for guys is to improve themselves and the dating advice for women is find better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:37 AM
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I speak candidly when anonymous on the internet, yes. Wait are you the same person online as you are irl? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:33 AM
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The difference is that a man is expected to earn more and there's a built in graciousness to it that women might lack. Like I make $150k and my wife makes $3k as an artist and I've never given her a hard time about it, and have only built her up to other people for having such a cool job even though it would help our bills so much if she even picked up a Walmart job. My sister and sister in law on the other hand proudly talk about how they're their husbands' sugar mamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:09 AM
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I've never known anyone who has gotten dumped and had the reaction that "I'm the problem". It's like a woman getting dumped for a younger, prettier woman and going "Yeah I have gained about 30lbs". Doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:06 AM
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You're not supposed to use the word in the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:31 PM
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The issue he's taking is "how do they define kindness?" It reminds me of the disingenuous phrase "I respect those who respect me." The trick is that there's two definitions of respect: "treating someone with deference as a superior" and "treating someone with basic human decency". Really what they mean is "I treat people with basic human decency when they show me deference as their superior." So like what exactly do they mean by kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:53 PM
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Human civilization been around for about 50,000 years and every time we start a new culture, it's different iterations of the same setup. The only time anything else has been tried is back when we were still nomadic tribes using stone tools. It poses two questions: Why do you think that is? What are you basing "this system we've never ever tried before could work" on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:10 PM
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Again, I don't know what you think an incel is, so until you explain it I can't re-explain my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:31 PM
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Okay let's shift topics away from my original comment. If it was a scam, why has every culture practiced it since the beginning of humanity? Like from the 300 bc Olympics to the 2024 Olympics, masculinity is pretty unilaterally seen as positive. If it's so bad, why is everyone on board?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:30 PM
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My point was in my original comment. Did you forget what I put?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:27 PM
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I never understood dudes who choose to have green card marriages. Like wouldn't she secretly hate you and start cheating on you almost immediately after the plane landed in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:26 PM
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This kind of frames "bitter weekend dads who hate their ex wives for having to pay 40% of their paychecks for alimony and child support... but still pay 40% or their paychecks for alimony and child support" differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:25 PM
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I think Louis CK had a bit about something like this where if you lived in a rural village in the 1500s, everyone was ugly and the one pretty girl got married off to a Barron hundreds of miles away when she was 13. I think OP is saying that stuff like tinder widens women's options and lets them be choosier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:22 PM
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Sure I just need to to explain to me what an incel is without talking about women or emasculated men. I don't know what you think an incel is before you answer this, so I can't explain your question until I get a frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:19 PM
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Most domestic violence is between lesbians though so that's not really tied to masculinity, workplace deaths aren't a crime, neither are heart attacks... Why is it difficult for you to stay on topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:17 PM
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People do not realise how much crimes some men committed due to feeling emasculated. Sure I just need to to explain to me what an incel is without talking about women or emasculated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:13 PM
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We're talking about flowers, how dare you mention marigolds! If my example made you uncomfortable, maybe examine your support of OP's opinion a little more critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:10 PM
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Pretty sure women are 51% of society. And I'd even weight it a little more since they primarily raise kids, what with filling the vast majority of caregiver roles from babysitting to daycare to grade school teachers....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:08 PM
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I quoted the part of the post I was replying to, AssPlay69420.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:03 PM
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People do not realise how much crimes some men committed due to feeling emasculated. If I had a nickel for every "incels wouldn't shoot up schools if girls were nicer to them" post I've seen on reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:59 PM
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My wife didn't play Pokemon until crystal when you could choose your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:45 PM
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Cool! Good meeting you. Please don't edit or delete these comments as I'll need them for future reference when people don't believe me that I met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:40 PM
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Whenever I say that feminists are bigoted and hateful misandrists who just go around looking for reasons to vomit their unhappiness on others, I'm told that this was a straw man and feminists weren't really like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:32 PM
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It's so weird meeting the strawman. You have no idea how many times I'm told you don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:19 PM
1

Now do race. Which race is the majority of rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:02 PM
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It's one of those things where "anyone can ride the hot pink barbie bike" but we all know it was made for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:19 PM
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Are you just purposely ignoring what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:13 PM
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How many farts in jars do you think a random, mildly attractive man could sell to horny broads?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:11 PM
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We're a little better than animals though. Like we invented consent and as I'm writing this comment I'm watching a squirrel running for her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:56 PM
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What is the sidewalk rule? Is that where you move slightly to the side when someone is walking towards you or like crossing the street to avoid women at night or like are some people walking in the gutter to let m'lady have the entire sidewalk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:54 PM
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If 10-15% of men were pedophiles, would you prefer a male babysitter or a female babysitter or would you not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:05 PM
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That's neat, nobody said it was free money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:16 AM
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And how many of those women were SAHMs or worked part-time to take on most of the childcare? Alimony mostly goes to women because WOMEN are largely sacrificing their careers and future earnings for the benefit of the family. . No, it's for the person who lost their career to stay home. Pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:43 AM
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According to surveys something like 10-15% of men are into feet and they sell dirty panties in vending machines. And again, that girl made $15k selling farts. Guys are gross, it's the rule not the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:57 AM
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Okay so we agree it's for women. Go fight with the people who say it isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:43 PM
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Alimony isn’t based on gender. 97% of alimony payments are awarded to the ex-wife and 3% are awarded to the ex-husband. It's one of those things where "anyone can ride the hot pink barbie bike" but we all know it was made for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:36 PM
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If you're old enough and plugged in enough you'd remember that Gamer Gate was about corruption in video game journalism and how the fifth estate used its power to gaslight millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:15 PM
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Relevant quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:01 PM
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I'm a New Yorker who went to comic con every year in the 90s and early 00s. But then Disney bought Marvel and now we have "costumes aren't consent" everywhere to remind everyone that men are bad and women need to feel protected so that they spend money. And this, despite the fact we were sometimes rejected for being girls, told by parents and families that we shouldn't be playing video games because we were girls, etc. Yes. In the 2010s when online gaming first became a thing, they were male spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:33 PM
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I mean with that mindset, what's the point of laws at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:16 PM
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I mean 20 years ago you couldn't find a girl at a comic book convention, but I guess part of gaslighting is pretending things that happened are false memories. What's neat about things like Games Workshop tweeting "There have always been female Space Marines" is that there is literally no record of a single one until last year when Amazon bought the IP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:15 PM
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That is I how I view male sexuality in the absence of decorum and restraint. With those elements present, I see no issues. More and more I've been seeing people talk about "men are as gross as their girlfriends let them be" and I feel like that concept explains a lot about men and women. A recent tweet I saw pointed out that despite women often claiming they're as horny as men, no women are into feet or men's dirty underwear. "In the absence of decorum" I sincerely believe the upper limit of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:06 PM
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You know so much about these gyms but literally can't name one. Because they don't exist. Because it's illegal to discriminate against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:52 PM
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Men only gyms aren't hidden. Women know about them. They actively exclude women. So they are men only Which gyms? I keep asking and you keep not answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:47 PM
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This is my point. There are none set aside like there are for women, and the only chance is a space women don't know about. Remember back when I said The annoyance is that women constantly invade male spaces and what remaining male spaces there are get stigmatized and removed. You're just telling me I'm right. So either there are gyms that are male-only (like there are gyms that are female-only) or there's just gyms that women haven't invaded yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:43 PM
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Murders just be illegal to do to everyone and now it's a privilege for it to be illegal to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:41 PM
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Obviously I don't and clearly you do. It was the first thing you named. Which gyms exclude women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:28 PM
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Oh neat! I was just saying how literally the only gender specific gyms are women-only, so I'm excited to hear which ones are men-only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:19 PM
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Where? Because not even bathrooms are guy-only spaces anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:12 PM
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Imagine a world where "go get your own thing" is somehow an unreasonable ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:12 PM
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I can only explain it to you, I can't make you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:25 PM
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But you need to share the space with other women, because they have as much right as you do to be there. I refer you back to that time I said "The annoyance is that women constantly invade male spaces" 20 years ago video games, D&D, comic books, and sports were "for guys". Not even Warhammer is immune. That shit was expressly made for guys, but now that Amazon is making a Warhammer show, we have forced diversity that breaks canon. Pretty sure there's plenty of sports and gyms full of dudes. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:21 PM
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It's like you guys are mad you have to share your toys with your sister lol The annoyance is that women constantly invade male spaces and what remaining male spaces there are get stigmatized and removed. We have no "third place" anymore. There's nowhere for guys to exist with each other and just "be guys". You put it perfectly. "You have to share your toys with your sister" and our sister doesn't have to share her toys with us. When inclusion only works in one direction, it's inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:08 PM
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Holy shit is it legal to kill women now? My wife's about to get A LOT nicer, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:04 PM
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I mean nobody's ever been able to solve for the paradox. I'm not interested in the morality of whatever, but if something is a social construct, you can't have been born that way. It's like the bible or general relativity. When you try and connect everything together it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:13 PM
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If you were told there was a 99% chance you'd get away with stealing the Krabby Patty formula, you'd have a gym sock on your head in the blink of an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:58 AM
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That and Indian and Japanese and I barbecue when the weather is nice. On Tuesday I made gumbo and a king cake for Mardi Gras!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:55 AM
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So to me there's three levels of cooking- basic, mid, and hobby. When I say learn to cook I mean get to the point where you're out at dinner and she's thinking "he could have made this better". And to answer your question, she has a husband, two kids, works full time, and apparently does all the cooking at home Literally just means "has a full time job and cooks". He has a wife and he has two kids and we can safely assume he also works full time. As a married guy the best way I can explain it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:00 AM
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I cook. I'm thoughtful. My mom says I'm handsome. My mom says I'm funny. I have a stable job that pays enough to support a family of 4. I'm responsible enough to maintain the things I own and keep a schedule. I cook. Seriously, fellas. Feed women. They can't yell at you if their mouth is full of delicious chicken parm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:56 PM
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I think the thing guys don't really understand is that "girls are dressing up to get compliments and attention... just not from guys that look like you." Also protip to make any compliment platonic- finish it with a bro. "Hey I like your hair, bro" sends the message that I see you, but I don't want to be seen with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:53 PM
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Correction. Apparently 550,000 women are raped in Texas each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:36 PM
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https://calmatters.org/commentary/2023/09/california-poverty-rate/ it has the highest poverty rate when adjusting for the cost of living though, that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:23 PM
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If that were true, incels would be out on the street with bats and bricks knowing they'll get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:14 PM
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I feel like the "good job opportunities" and the "fifth largest economy in the world" stuff are very misleading because of the cost of living If the median rent is literally 2X in California compared to Nebraska, what's the point of those good job opportunities? I was talking to someone in some other thread and they were like "$80k isn't a lot, you'll still need roommates" and holy shit I'm supporting a family of 4 on my $90k job down here in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:03 PM
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A Californian from San Francisco I talked to earlier this week said that there are 4 seasons in California : Fire, Flood, Riots, and Earthquakes. I had no idea they had floods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:21 PM
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I mean that's just kinda my point about how the tribes work. A man complains about being single and he hears a ton of advice on how to grow and improve and be more appealing. A woman complains about being single and she hears love and support and how she doesn't need to change just to get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:12 PM
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I'm not. It's totally an American thing to assume we're talking to other Americans though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:05 PM
1

I also didn't go to the moon, but my country's flag is there. Means we own that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:03 PM
1

Call me naive, but I just don't think there are 900,000 rapes in the US each year. Seems high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:59 PM
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wtf is awo30? Is that like TwoX but older? Also I wish there were mainstream male subreddits. We just don't have the community spirit you guys have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:57 PM
0

I mean Reddit is an American company and so is whatever browser you're using right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:54 PM
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I don't think that's the case. Whenever they want to inflate those numbers they just add another order of magnitude to "unreported" cases. https://www.yahoo.com/news/texans-had-26-000-rape-230143010.html Between June 2022 and January 2024 there were supposedly 26,000 rape related pregnancies in Texas. In the span of a year and a half... 26,000 rape related pregnancies. If you go into the statistics of getting pregnant, it's about a 1 in 10 chance for each sexual encounter so ballpark there were …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:51 PM
0

96% of men who stand trial for rape are found guilty. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:37 PM
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Because I'm American and this is reddit. It's kind of our thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:36 PM
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🤷 Well then it's justified to never call a female teacher a rapist I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:36 PM
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I'm specifically taking about America.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:30 PM
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Okay I'm not talking about how common it is. When a woman rapes a child, the news says she has sex with them. When a man rapes a child, the news calls him a rapist. Do you understand what I'm saying to you or should I simplify?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:28 PM
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Telling of... Double standards? https://nypost.com/2024/05/20/us-news/married-teacher-who-was-surprised-by-students-on-gma-sentenced-for-having-sex-with-student/ "Sentenced for having sex with a student". When dudes get sentenced with that it's called rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:21 PM
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If he was looking for statistics on female rapists, he'd have asked redpill guys 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:19 PM
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It's semantic but it wasn't "men can't be rape victims" it was "women can't be rapists".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:18 PM
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The difference is that if you mention the wall, you get dogpiled and called an incel. Women of all ages swarm out of the woodpile and attack. Men don't have the community mindset to defend each other like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:14 PM
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I'm surprised that people don't ever really think about what men and women prioritize. The reason why men favor younger women and women favor older men is because men prioritize looks and women prioritize utility. Could you imagine a world where guys were like "I'm not going to be with a girl who makes less than $100k"? Madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:12 PM
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You're right. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:05 PM
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You literally brought up female comedians. Sorry for correcting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:44 PM
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Yeah haha you're right female comedians never make fun of men. Silly me you're so right and perfect, thank you for putting up with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:34 PM
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Dumpy, awkward and unfortunate-looking chicks are pretty much invisible. There was a post on the rant subreddit about how hard it is being an ugly woman and the OP just wrote about the normal day to day experience of a guy. The imbalance is so huge that guys literally can't understand why cat calls would be unpleasant. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure men don't hate women any more than women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:47 AM
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It's just so weird to me because if the PuA stuff would work on a woman, they're in a place in their lives where basically anything would work on them... so it's just kind of you purposely striking out with women who don't cry in the shower every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:37 PM
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Every time I hear about that pickup artist stuff, it always sounds like they're targeting either teenage girls or women with very low self esteem which is fucked up on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:13 PM
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Bill Bur has a whole bit about how gay men are always so happy because they don't have to deal with women. I forget the whole thing, but he was trying to figure out why a lesbian was so rude and "it just clicked- she was a lesbian! I shouldn't be pissed at her, I should be buying her a beer, she's been beaten down same as me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:04 PM
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One of the definitions uses the word "submissive".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:38 PM
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No I just googled definitions and used the first link and then used the same source for both to prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:37 PM
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Is a daddy's girl not overly protected? I mean this is kind of the crux of the issue Daddy's Girl- - A young woman with a very close relationship with her father. Mama's Boy- - A boy or man regarded as unduly attached or submissive to his mother. My whole argument is that these two terms imply very different things, they're not just gender parallels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:22 PM
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You cannot find me a definition of what a mama's boy is without it saying that the man is timid and overprotected. And when problems happen between partner-father, men just leave(probably because of threats), while women stay in cold war with the mothers. I literally don't know what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:01 PM
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Being a 29 year old guy on his first date is no different than being in a job interview after a long break from work. "Can you explain this gap in your resume?" There's probably a good reason, but just don't freak out when you're answering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:59 PM
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They're just two completely different things. What is a mama's boy? A guy who lacks independence and assertiveness and needs his mother to take care of him. What's a daddy's girl? A girl who has a close relationship with her father. It's like when women say it's bad to tell boys to "man up" without actually unpacking what telling someone to man up means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:55 PM
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🙄 it's a joke, son. Humor is the cornerstone of any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:46 AM
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Isn't this... just being in a relationship? Like I do shit for my wife all the time with the sullen implication "please don't leave me" lingering in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:00 PM
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Honestly my 20s were better than my teens and my 30s are better than my 20s. Men don't have things like "the wall" to worry about and we can have kids well into our 40s with no problem. Also dating-wise, men in their 30s have their shit together way more often than men in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:54 PM
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Men who use it should be avoided This is you telling people what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:17 PM
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It's so unfair that there's "standard pretty" for girls but for men it's all over the place. Forearms? Veiny hands? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:25 PM
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I put myself into the calculator and found out that 0.07% of men are like me. Should I tell my wife she should divorce me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:17 PM
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Nobody who self identifies as a nice guy or a good woman have an accurate view of themselves. At the same time, the whole friendzone thing literally just describes a woman who is a bad friend and because the tribe is so tight knit, they pounce on any guy who complains about their friend completely disregarding their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:02 PM
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It's a dead subreddit now but FDS definitely had a reputation for being a bunch of angry female incels. It's so weird when a subreddit gets huge like that (260k subscribers still) just gets completely abandoned. No posts/comments for like a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:59 PM
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The probability of mental illness, physical/emotional trauma, substance abuse, and human trafficking. It's pretty straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:50 PM
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I literally started out by explaining that a woman couldn't fathom being friends with a man who treats her like one of the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:46 PM
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I mean that's what statistics are. I put myself into the female delusion calculator (my age in the middle of the range because you can't just put your own age) and I'm 3.8% of men because I'm married, but if I got divorced tomorrow, I'm 0.74% of men. There's just a lot of variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:44 PM
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It's not even saying "this man wouldn't be interested in you". It's "this man does not statically exist " 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:21 PM
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Statistics are misogyny I guess. Be mad if you want, but every standard you have cuts a portion of the dating pool out. You're free to have whatever standards, but like "I only date guys over 6 feet tall" literally cuts 94% of the dating pool out of your available options. At a certain point, "this man does not statically exist" becomes a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:19 PM
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But Miriam does. Her and that black midget wrote a book about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:13 AM
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Alpha bros embarrass us all. They're literally my example of "heterosexuals throwing their sexuality in your face" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:11 AM
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I think what's fair to say is that women who are worth your time don't want that and women who aren't worth your time are. No offense to your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:01 AM
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Masculinity is just putting others before yourself. That's it. Advertisers try and confuse things, but if you name any man who is both masculine and not a piece of garbage, they just prioritize others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:52 AM
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If women are into funny guys, why do clowns die alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:51 AM
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This would only make dating easier or less bad for women if we wanted lots of attention from desperate men we’re not attracted to. So like... that's a thing though. #NotAllWomen but like... #ManyWomen Are simps not a thing anymore? Am I old?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:47 AM
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300,000 people die each year from medical errors. Talk to any nurse and they'll warn you about hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:14 PM
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My wife and I have heard too many horror stories about baby switching at hospitals. I don't think she'd cheat, but I'd probably get a paternity test at some point soon after we get home. It goes from "haha oops" to "my life is ruined" in the span of a few months I'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:55 PM
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I'm kind of confused how it would work if I picked the 1950s mom. Would I travel back in time or would our marriage be me teaching her about supermarkets and seatbelts and not to be afraid of all the airplanes in the sky? This woman wouldn't know what plastic is and that shit is literally in my blood and brain. The reality is that Mary Tyler Moore never existed in real life. We're being nostalgic for a time that never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:11 PM
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I believe you, but don't know where Richmond is and that's why when I say NYC I specify Queens or Brooklyn or one of the other burroughs. You're still literally in NYC but the buildings aren't 100 stories tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:55 PM
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It's all about zoning. You can build apartment buildings in Brooklyn that can fit thousands of people in a city block but Californians (San Francisco for example) keep voting against re-zoning to trade out single family homes for high density housing. So according to Zillow, median San Francisco rent is $3,200, median rent in LA is $3000 and median rent in Staten Island is $1,700.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:50 PM
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Maybe women shouldn't be allowed to be dicks? That solves the empathy myth. Hold them accountable for their actions for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:34 PM
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Short kings exist. Huge broads exist. You're not even disagreeing with me you're explaining why women don't really want men to treat them like their male friends despite claiming they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:20 PM
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The shortest answer is that the blue pill crowd recognize normalized misandry and then blame men for deserving it. Like when you point out that most murder victims are men, they're quick to point out that men are the murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:23 PM
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Well that's kind of OP's problem. Go look at reddit posts on men/women subreddits about "I can't get dates". Men get told to work on themselves and become more appealing to women and women get told that they're perfect, don't change. Imagine a world where your fat friend complains about being single and you can just tell her "you should probably lose some weight" and she takes it how your guy friend would take it. It's why men and women struggle to be friends. You can't treat female friends the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:11 PM
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Because women are that meme "I don't want a solution I want to be mad". https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&pp=ygUXaXQncyBub3QgYWJvdXQgdGhlIG5haWw%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:04 PM
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Dating apps are literally designed to reject men into paying for the premium features. Like if you ever see those flowchart posts on rTinder, guys have like a 1-2% match rate and women constantly have a +50% match rate. I think if you're in your mid 20s/30s and you've never dated it's unusual. Not bad, but not really normal. His date was definitely kind of a dick about it and probably should have been like "oh why not?" because there are hundreds of absolutely valid reasons to never have dated a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:44 PM
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Thank you for this comment, I'm so old fashioned I honestly thought OP meant you should make him wait before making the relationship exclusive. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:37 PM
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What personal, your comment loops back around on itself and directly applies to the post. You could be less crass and actually pay attention to what interests men or you can roll with the femcel "all women care about is money" parallel. Bro just be nice to a guy every now and then. How many threads are there about "the last comment I received from a girl was six years ago"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:13 PM
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Secondly, to hear it from many men, all we need to bring to the table are fertile pussies. To be clear, you're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:13 AM
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For a 1 bedroom, Zillow has some stuff in Queens for $1500 and in Brooklyn for $1700. The neighborhoods are pretty decent especially the ones near Williamsburg. $70k budgets out to 1900/mo rent but I'm cheap and would never go that high. But seriously, why do people live in California on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:57 AM
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To be fair we give that advice to other guys too. But like it's generally "aim fatter".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:44 AM
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Men: "Hey maybe have realistic standards compared to what you bring to the table?" You: "Stop shaming me, get the fuck out of here you homeless lunatic! CAW CAW!" (In this scenario you're also a magpie)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:43 AM
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Men's standards are so low compared to women. It's literally just "occasionally be nice to us". Modern dating is such a hellscape, I'm terrified for gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:31 AM
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Why do people live in California? Like I've never heard anything good about it. Rent is Canadian, worst homelessness problem, fires, murders, lowest literacy rates in the nation... What makes it worth it now? All the tech jobs are remote. Live in NYC for half the price and ten times the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:29 AM
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Kind of my whole point. Zoomers are being taught to be scared of each other. Half of Gen Z guys have never approached a woman. That didn't just randomly happen overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:14 PM
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Women have been infantalized to death in the last 20 years. Nowadays there are signs on campuses that say "Mike and Judy were drunk and had sex, that means Mike raped Judy." I'm paraphrasing but a sign with that messaging went viral on reddit a few years back. And yes it's dumb as fuck. Exhibit A: explain what beer goggles are without it sounding rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:06 PM
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You must be a millennial. Because that's just a paragraph explanation of what no means no... uh... means. Nowadays there are signs on campuses that say "Mike and Judy were drunk and had sex, that means Mike raped Judy." I'm paraphrasing but a sign with that messaging went viral on reddit a few years back. And yes it's dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:03 PM
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The fact is that women lead charmed lives where your feelings and well-being matter. Your life is so alien to men that we don't understand the problem with getting cat called because we're over here clinging to four compliments in our lifetimes. Every millennial 40 year old man is like "I wear blue shirts because back in high school a girl said I looked good in blue". https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.html I read this and thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:19 PM
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As a millennial I was taught "no means no" and now zoomers are saying that's not good enough anymore. It feels like we're deliberately being made to be scared of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:03 PM
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OP I don't want this to sound shitty, but have you never heard of the social contract? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_contract
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:18 AM
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That's kind of what made it all so surreal. Even family guy made jokes about it way before Harvey Weinstein was accused. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-06qtIfXqs&pp=ygUXZmFtaWx5IGd1eSBtaW5uaWUgbW91c2U%3D This was uploaded to YouTube NINE YEARS before Harvey Weinstein was outed as a rapist. I sincerely thought it was something we all already knew was going on but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:07 AM
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I'll die on this hill, he was accurately describing groupie culture and he was 100% right. Groupies absolutely act like cult members and even B list celebrities like Daniel Tosh and Jason Mews made videos being gross and disrespectful while still having women want to sleep with them. Jason used the pickup line "girl let me get up in those guts" and it failed like three times and then some girl was down to party. That's absolutely insane. Lemmy and Gene Simmons have body counts in the thousands. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:02 AM
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They have more options. Same as anyone else. That's literally the whole reason. Typically the dynamic is that if he wanted to cheat he would have to go out and try and try for weeks or months and if she wanted to cheat she would just have to stop saying no. Without that in her back pocket, there's a massive power imbalance in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:46 PM
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I think you're confused because it's not "women think men are obligated to" so much as it is "single moms think men are obligated to".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:31 PM
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How exactly does a girl/girl relationship function? I have never seen a woman get angrier than when she's told no or to do something she doesn't explicitly want to do. Like there was a post on AITAH yesterday where a girl was like "I wanted to shave my head and my boyfriend begged me not to so I compromised with a super short pixie and am going to shave my head anyway" and the entire thread was like "what a bastard".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:45 PM
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