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Thanks bro. I also needed that
/r/seduction02/04/26 01:34 AM
5

Why have you not blocked him? 😂 man is crazy and belongs in a mental institution
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:14 PM
3

Looks like you manned up. Nice 😉
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:28 AM
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You’re crying over a girl you went on one date with? Man up, she probably sensed this. Also you saying “can I see you again?” Essentially said “you’re higher value than me, do you accept me?” Wrong mentality. Change it. You’re the prize, not her. Stop texting her. Stop. 3 texts without a reply displays neediness. She’s testing you to see if you’re needy/crazy. You verified you are. You wrote an entire essay about a girl you went on a single date with. You’re too invested. I’m not try to be rude,…
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:24 PM
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Just tell her “It’s over 9000!!!” But she will probably not understand the joke and just not ask again.
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:56 AM
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Okay, pussy lord.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:59 PM
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You don't. There is plausible deniability, the vibe and mood are set. She will be aware, she isn't stupid. Keep being flirtatious and edge on to sexual conversations occasionally. A little over text is okay, but the bulk of this should be done in person. If you communicatively plan to have to hook up, it's a turn-off and it probably won't go through. Just keep having fun with the conversation and put yourself in the situation to hook up with her if that's the intention. Just keep it light and fu…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:23 PM
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I would not entertain them while they are on their trip. This could have adverse effects and you may portray yourself as needy. I find it best to give them 0 or minimal attention only if they initiate contact. Most other guys are probably feeding her attention craving, and you are not. You will stand out and she will think "what makes this guy so special that he can't talk to me?". She may be more inclined to continue contact with you versus the other 'suitors'.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:41 PM
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By you not readily giving her what she is wanting, she may want it more. Put yourself first, I am sure she isn't used to being turned down and this may work out in your favor. I would not worry about you having to push her back because you have other priorities.
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:02 PM
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It depends on the context of the situation. But I have a Charizard card in my phone case. It's a good conversation starter because everyone knows Charizard and Charmander. But if I'm interested in it, and they're interested in me, they may show some interest in return. "Oh, this? Yeah, it's the original Charizard from when we were kids. I have a box full of them, want to come over and see them? I have every holographic before 2000! I completed my collection for the kid me. I'm pursuing all of my…
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:36 PM
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I am a massive nerd. You just have to show passion about your interests. Like I have a sh*t ton of pokemon cards. Most people would think it's nerdy. But I tell so many girls, "Oh my gosh! Do you remember pokemon cards? Want to see all of my Charizards?" It works every time. But your nerdy interests are hobbies, it's not a lifestyle. Don't let it consume you. You should focus on the gym as you were saying, right now you may present yourself as the stereotypical nerd, set yourself apart from them…
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:28 PM
3

Your priority seems to be women. Your priority should be you. Why would a woman want to be with you if you have nothing going for you? Focus on yourself and women will come and go as your success increases. Do great in your career, get gains in the gym, acquire knowledge through books and education. Be the best you that you can be. Women will come, but you come first.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:42 PM
6

Easy there tiger.
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:52 AM
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Wtf did I just read. Man up, get hard and give it to her. If you’re insecure, she’ll know it. You can’t easily change what you’ve been given since birth, use it to its fullest potential and make the most of it.
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:06 PM
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She wants to make sure you’re not a loser. She wants an equal or superior man, especially if you’re younger. But it doesn’t matter, you’re doing her a service and yourself a disservice by wanting to get with someone older.
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:02 PM
2

Limit your text interactions. Get them to meet in person and do your game in person. If they don’t want to meet, you’re feeding their ego and giving them validation they haven’t earned. Next.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:28 AM
4

Find things to occupy your time that make you not think of texting her.
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:24 PM
3

When I was using tinder, Tinder gold would should me people I had already swiped left on. I’d assume to boost that number an entice you to buy gold. I find Tinder very broken for males. If you don’t pay, you simply won’t get a lot of matches. I’ve had more success on Hinge, Bumble and Facebook dating. Delete Tinder my guy, it isn’t as good as it once was.
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:28 PM
2

You can customize. It really doesn’t show anything from your Facebook except mutual friends with the other person.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:17 AM
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I prefer Hinge and IRL (actually meeting someone in real life). I deleted Bumble and Tinder as it seemed you have to pay for matches, if you’re a male. Facebook dating is also fairly decent.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:44 PM
3

Sounds like you're in Cali. Go explore some forests and some mountains. Take pictures, post on your IG. It's the best place for introverts! Lots of space and not lots of people. You are alone with your thoughts and the wildness sounds. Try it out, maybe you'll like it.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:28 PM
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It sounds like you are lacking a purpose. Your purpose this year should be bettering yourself. Hit the gym, be great at work, eat well, doing the hobbies you enjoy doing, be successful and be happy. Others do not dictate your happiness, you do. You can do this. ​ If you are in to reading, perhaps pick up the book "Man's search for meaning" by Viktor Frankl. It took me awhile to understand. Your current thoughts are relatable to millions affected by the events in that book. Overcoming your though…
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:50 PM
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Imagine telling a girl you have a sex doll or she finds it shoved in your closet. You’ll get less poon than you already do. Don’t do it. Put in the effort into a woman. A woman is also not just on this planet for your sexual pleasure.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:19 AM
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Go for Woman 2 and stop giving attention to Woman 1. Woman 1 will get jealous and give in. Then you have Woman 1 and Woman 2. You now have 2 plates. Spin and try not to drop. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:24 PM
5

Um, what? She is making sexual hints, take the hint! You know the answer. Also, you need to escalate this, not her. Do not ask her if she sees you two being more than friends, assume that she does. Your majority of communication should be in person, not over text. Meet in person, then escalate.
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:50 PM
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You say you showed her you have other options, but you come back to her? Why are you still investing time in this? Next her, if she comes back you can let her, but do not go back to her. She is a waste of time. She is using you for attention, I bet you are also paying for these dates, you are rewarding her bad behavior. I would not give her attention via text. If she wants to meet up and wants your attention, she can do it in person. Find someone better.
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:36 PM
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I would soft next this and come back when you are in the proper mindset. You essentially asked her if you are worthy of her. You need to be confident! You are the prize, not her. It also sounds like you have oneitis. You need more options and you will realize this "one" isn't worth the time and emotional investment you are putting into it.
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:15 PM
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Movies are not ideal for early dates in my opinion, but I wanted to see the Matrix (which wasn't great) and I did a movie date. Throw your arm around her in the seat and pull her in. It's innocent. If she's feeling it, move your hand lower on her back, etc. You just have to act on it and not overthink. If you overthink and make it awkward, she will know. Just do it, man.
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:56 PM
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