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Rant/VentingButimdifferent/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:51 AM
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Deadpool game...Agree and Amplify everything, always.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:08 PM
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Here's something I found in a thread called "What's the sluttiest thing you've ever done?". TRP is important because the vast majority of men are not interested in a woman like this. But the thing is, this could really be any Jane or Sally today. "I'm convinced every girl has a slutty period. You've just gotta get it out of your system. In mine I went on a date with a guy to a drive-in. He took me back to his place we ate ice cream and had sex. It was early when I left and another guy I was talk…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:05 PM
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They are women who happen to be from a different part of the world than other women. That's the most honest answer I can give you. They're women. Treat them like one.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:47 PM
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Why are you trying to Michael Jackson yourself? None of this has to do with attractiveness, and all about your insecurities and fitting in. You could be a dime piece for all I know. But if I knew you personally and found out you thought this way about yourself, it would be one of the most attraction-demolishing events I have ever experienced.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:45 PM
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Your true problem is communicating with her when she is in an entirely different country. There is literally nothing you can do with a girl that is in another country. You are talking without being able to bang, which gives her time and reasons to come up with other ideas than banging. Tell her to hit you up when she gets back. Otherwise you're stuck giving her something for nothing.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:01 PM
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Yes, it is usual for girls to try and turn their guys into huge faggots.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:49 PM
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Thank you for helping put this into words. I have issues related to this with my girlfriend and I think explaining it this way will help her understand and not feel neglected or frustrated.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 12:19 AM
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"Not dominant enough" is probably the best way the guy can describe it that he knows of. Another user pointed out that feminine is not equal to daycare. If she was single and wanted to go out to eat, would she mill about the house for 45 minutes having a battle with herself for what she wanted to eat? Most likely she would decide on a place by herself and then go there to eat. Why all of the sudden when a man is involved does her brain stop functioning and she can't come to any sort of conclusio…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/15 11:59 PM
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Yeah, man. Strong oneitis. You're still calling the guys she used to date losers and douchebags. White knight much? Now you are thinking of entering a serious relationship with this girl after being friendzoned multiple times? Even if it did happen, she would still view you as a faggot. Try and bang her. If that doesn't work, realize there's no good reason to keep in contact with her and just take her out of your top 8 cuz this shit is old like myspace and needs to end.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:01 PM
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No need to feel sorry about it. I'm just a guy on the internet and not everybody is a winner. They don't understand emotion unless it is in the context that they experience them, which is to be overwhelmed with them while they exist. Us men don't often do that. We are able to separate the emotion from everything else, analyze it, think about it, discuss it and figure out why it happened and what we can do about it. That's the exact opposite of a woman's emotional experience. Let's say you were d…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:56 PM
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Even before TRP I knew girls were full of shit when they said things like "I don't remember" or "I must have blacked out". Of all the people I partied with, It was 98% of the time a girl who would say something like that about the night before. There were a few legitimate times when guys went really overboard and blacked out. By blacked out, I mean these guys drank so much their bodies pretty much turned off. Borderline alcohol poisoning. The only times I have ever had memory lapses were similar…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:37 PM
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You can't open up to them like that, but there are other ways to score points. My mom passed from brain cancer. In the beginning "get to know you" stages with my ex she asked what my parents do, and I told her they're not around anymore and explained the circumstances. We were watching Gray's Anatomy and the episode is about this mother with brain cancer who has to decide if she wants to keep fighting a futile cause and deteriorate or to accept her fate and let go of her life. She decides to let…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:08 PM
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Yeah I was just going to post that. It is the most depressing comedy I have ever seen. https://media1.giphy.com/media/wdB2OJASnB5N6/200_s.gif
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:13 PM
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It didn't happen overnight. I spent a lot of time thinking about it and came up with my own theory that works for me. It's not something that you can relate to with your peers, and even if I found someone in my situation I sure wouldn't want to be talking to that sad sap. The weirdest thing still to this day is when my parents come up in conversation, I tell the other person they haven't been around for a while, and then they start to feel sorry on my behalf. I always felt odd that nobody is ok …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:26 PM
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My father passed 15 years ago when I was 13. He was on a bender that month and ended up having a heart attack in the middle of the night. There was no brain activity so we had to pull the plug on him. My mother passed 7 years later of brain cancer. Her dementia got so bad she just wasn't even herself anymore. It took me a long time come to terms with their passing. The biggest thing that I realized is missing them is selfish. It's a purely selfish thing. They were gone and I wanted them back bec…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:50 PM
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The best thing you could do for the guy is to show your genuine disappointment in him. "Man, what happened to you..." instead of "Cool keep me posted". Deep down he knows what's going on. Sometimes it takes a slap in the face to pull yourself together. I can't imagine not being able to have a heart to heart with one of my bros and instead watching him crash. Sounds like you two got along but never had a bond.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 03:24 PM
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Whatever works for you, dawg. We all have different goals here.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:29 PM
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When I was unemployed I got $200 on my EBT card every month. I ate the best I ever have. I normally wouldn't get healthy foods as they cost more. I got a lot of greek yogurt, cottage cheese, fresh fruits and vegetables, meats, fiber tortillas. That $200 a month got me quantity AND quality. I live in an expensive city in California. I've never heard anybody getting $29 a week. Even if somebody did only have $29/week for food after all other expenses, it would be a rare case for it to be by circum…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:11 PM
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Hey OP I have had friends slip before and I'm going to contradict the rest of the people saying he's gone and she's won and there's no hope... Come on that's horseshit. I have approached my friends in ways of general concern. This guy seems like a genuine partner to you in your life and I am sure he feels the same way about you. Any bro would at least hear his good friend out. Invite him over for a beer and chat. The topic will eventually come to women. "hey I've noticed we don't lift together a…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:26 PM
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Women have an abundance REALITY, not mentality. The ones with a scarcity mentality are damaged.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:32 PM
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Youre talking about the 'what' and my message is about the 'why'. We have all selfishly thought about what the world would be like without us. Yes, John took his own life. This is established. The dead can answer no questions, so we must fill in the blanks on our own. It seems the story of John is a common one for men in his position. How many men will become John without even knowing it? This is the 'why'.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:18 AM
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At this point there will only ever be speculation. Its not like I can call thebguy upstairs and ask what happened. I hear about stories of men who commit suicide when they feel like they have no options left. I guess this really hit home for me as it is a typical story of a man taking his life that I read online...except its not online anymore. How many good men cant live with themselves anymore? Ive been with my girl nearly 4 years now. I bet John a long time ago was thinking getting married an…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:10 AM
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She told you about her gradual change to searching for a provider, then painted you as one with her comment of intelligence. What's that say about you and where you want to be?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:47 PM
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7 page essay on my dick and then a 7 page long 8==D Shit test nuked
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:13 AM
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Why don't you take the first step tonight? Put on a cute dress and ask him to go on a walk or something with you. Hold his hand and tell him that things aren't right between you and you want to make a change. Tell him you want to be soft with him, that it won't come easy at first, and you will need his help. Whether you choose to be with this man or not for the long term, put yourself in that mindset. Otherwise you'll be miserable just being near each other like you are now. Us men, we just want…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 12:06 AM
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Don't forget The 12 King Pimp Commandments.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:22 PM
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Shut up with this good guy bad guy horseshit. "If getting a girl blackout drunk and then banging her is your sexual strategy" ....then so be it. Who are you to tell me I can't be a "bad guy"? You are right in the fact that the individual decides what is "right and wrong". Just don't preach to me about what you think and criticize. That is some feminist garbage.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:48 PM
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Morality is ultimately consequence management. If you can't handle the consequences of an action taken, or the idea of the consequences for an action not taken place yet, then it is not in your morality to support it. Many people recant after the fact, because there have been consequences inflicted upon them. In the moment of the act, there is nothing in their mind telling them they are doing the wrong thing. Right and wrong is what you believe is and is not.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:44 PM
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Is she really his friend? Or is she a female he does things for and she is pleasant to him? As a guy we think of course we want to help our friends out. We bend over backwards for those we are loyal to. But what is he getting out of the "friendship"? It seems he is just "trying to be a nice guy and do the right thing" but actually he is giving away his time and energy in return for...what exactly does she do for him? She just has his male label of friend.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 10:16 PM
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You want to bake cookies. You need ingredients. You go to Macy's for sugar and flour. They don't have any. You're shopping in the wrong store. You want a man who values your virginity. You are going out with young bucks who like to fuck and are still finding direction in their life. You're shopping in the wrong store. Guys are not uninterested in you. When you tell them you are a virgin, they are thinking "Oh man, I'm gonna have to buy this chick flowers for 6 months and go on walks and snuggle …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 05:38 PM
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No need to bring up "what-ifs" man. You're missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:24 PM
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In my ideal man-world, I would like a woman to have a face that looks like it doesn't have makeup used on it. I wonder how much better a woman's face would be if they never put it on in the first place and instead used creams and lotions. I've met some Korean girls who take care of their face in that way and man their skin is fantastic... They would wear some makeup here and there but they mostly went nude. Their faces didn't have the appeal that makeup would have on it, but taking care of their…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 10:36 PM
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Seems like the girl doesn't hear the word "No" very often. You can put it to use yourself with her, or maybe through the instructor. You are there to learn and if she is derailing the class then your time and money are not being put to the best use. Make a plight to the instructor to shut her down when she starts getting mouthy. Either way, make sure she hears "No" from you more and often. Also don't let her gaslight you if you call her out.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 11:29 PM
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This is true, man. You have to pull yourself back to reality every so often. Don't be chasing the dragon...because dragons don't exist. "Doing everything you can to obtain that same "high" you got from the first time you tried a drug, but never quite getting there due to the body developing a natural tolerance. Originally in reference to opium addiction, this term now refers to any drug."
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:21 PM
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I want to run a video game arcade on Jupiter. I want a ferrari that runs on Cheez Whiz. I want... I want... I want... We can want whatever we want, but that doesn't make things so. I want to put aside my romantic notions and believe that relationships and interactions between individuals don't work like this, but they do. Once you are comfortable in your acceptance of that, you will find your own way in how to deal with it and the actions you will take.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 11:07 PM
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Look man. It is what it is. These guys here calling you names, they're just coming from a spot of not wanting this situation to happen to them. But real life isn't so kind. Why do women want to get out of a marriage where the husband is some poor schmuck who may be a "nice guy", but just doesn't do it for her in her core? Because it sucks, that's why. You gotta do what you think is right, OP. We may not always make the correct decision, but even if it is not the correct decision, we made it and …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:11 PM
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Reminds me of a story I heard where a little girl tells her father that she loves him. The father says "Thank you honey! That was so sweet" and gives her a hug. The little girl then says "I said I love you. Now you have to say it back!" Truth is, people aren't obligated to do something for you just because you did something for them. If I hold the door open for someone, then later that day they have the opportunity to do the same for me, but just let the door close and keep on walking, I have no…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 09:38 PM
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Terms like "50/50" and "equal" don't belong in any conversation about your relationship. They are power words that will get you suckered into giving up more than you want to. Live your life without those words and you will create your own value which will allow you to achieve your goals on your terms and not some horseshit quota of how much you should do things for each other just because it sounds nice on paper.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:12 PM
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Look at it another way. Hopefully your relationship goes well and you will be with this man for a very long time. In the event you two don't make it after all, what are you going to do to be so memorable that he will be calling other girls your name? And if you do those things you probably won't hear your name very much at all, having it replaced with baby, honey, schnookums, and various X-rated terms.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:00 PM
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As a man, things like this do something to me when I hear them. They give me an uncomfortable twitch in my core because it is the equivalent of taking a big shovel full of horseshit I don't want and throwing it on me. Something related that my girl does is when she sees something that SHE wants to do/eat/play etc. she will ask me "Do you want to do X?". It is such a loaded question that makes me have to play good cop bad cop. If I say yes, I'm most likely doing something I don't want to do. If I…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 04:57 PM
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Why do you want to be a lawyer? Because it is high paying? Why do you want a high paying job? So you can make enough money to have a family? Why do you need a lot of money to have a family? Because you don't trust a man to be the breadwinner? Maybe not in exactly these words, but I hope you understand the point. I think a lot of women get caught up in cycles like this. They try to walk the road of the man by themselves, struggling all the way because it is not a road for them. However, when a wo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 10:51 PM
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Bro Dudeman here My girl has always thought of growing some plants and finally decided to go through with it. She built a small raised bed garden by herself and went to home depot to get the soil and tomatoes she wanted to plant. We live together and she could have asked me to help, but she didn't. It was her project and she got so much enjoyment out of it. I really enjoyed seeing this side of her. Not in the sense of she did it herself, but in the sense of she had a genuine interest in somethin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 03:57 PM
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Come on man... AWALT means AWALT until proven otherwise. Neither the guys on this board or myself have the time to sit down and hear out a person's life story and critically analyze it. We make a judgment call. I accept that any woman can act in ways that negatively impact my life. However, I would love it for a woman to prove me wrong. And even if one woman proves to me NAWALT, well, that's only her. TRALT (The Rest Are Like That) Regarding fatties... The vast majority of fatties are that way b…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 09:51 PM
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Hey man Do you even want a kid? Or are you just submitting to circumstance? "She is pregnant so I'll do the right thing and stick around" What are you getting that YOU want from the situation? What is she getting that SHE wants from the situation? Compare the answers of the two and see where you lie.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:52 PM
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I'm not sure where you are located, but a lot of malls will have a Sephora in them. They have a big wall of cologne as well as perfume. Why don't you take him there and try some on? Some surprises are nice, but having an untouched bottle of cologne on the dresser for 5 years...well, I think it's best to try before you buy in this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:16 PM
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Hey dad It seems like things aren't going well between you and mom. I have some resources that may help you figure things out. If the information makes sense to you, that's great. If not, I at least wanted to give you the opportunity. Then present him with some links... Put your own spin on it. I think every man appreciates an honest approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:09 PM
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Women have an obsession with body modification. I get it. You enjoy it. It's something feminine that you don't need a man to enjoy. When it comes to attracting men, however, we appreciate something different. We know those pencil eyebrows aren't your real eyebrows. Your cheeks aren't ever that color red except on nights out. Intricate colored patterns don't grow on your fingernails. It has to be believable! If you don't look like you, then who are we looking at?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 07:21 PM
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Most likely, she is single because A or B A: She hasn't encountered a man red enough to lead her. (high value woman meeting low value man) B: She isn't the kind of woman a red man wants to lead. (low value woman looked over by high value men) There are two sides to every story and women are exceptionally good at leaving out anything that is their fault. She may say the guy she was seeing is a jerk that disappeared, but what happened was the guy nexted her because she started talking about babies…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:17 PM
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^ Great first step! Here is some more food for thought: " I come from a family of strong, educated women and am myself a woman of strong character" I have a feeling that "strong character" translates to nagging, controlling, and loud (to the man). Try soft, feminine, pleasant, and see where that takes you :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:26 PM
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There are a few things you have to get over first before you should continue. "I grew up learning any attractive, valuable woman will have absolutely no romantic rejection at all." This is not reality. This is not reality. This is not reality. Even beautiful women will get rejected by men. Be thankful for rejection from a man as it allows you to experience honesty and to reflect on your faults which may have caused the rejection "I have a gorgeous RPW friend who uses OKCupid and a lot of the men…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:03 PM
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GF and I live in a small 1 bedroom. She was doing something in the bathroom and talking to me so I looked over from the living room and she was taking her tampon out as she was talking. She saw me see her, then starts to giggle and says she is "un-puppeting" herself. That one wasn't for me...I like your soft notice better.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:52 PM
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I don't believe in respecting those who do not respect themselves. I believe men show great respect to women they deem to deserve it. Otherwise, men won't pass up an opportunity to exploit a woman of low value for the only thing she has to offer. Remember, a man's priority is to have sex first, then decide if the woman is worth keeping around. It is easy for a woman to spread her legs, but quite a challenge to earn a man's honest affection. But then again, wishes are wishes. Let us know when you…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:54 PM
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It is a very life changing stance! A complete 180 for most. Even a sharp 90 degree turn for some guys who thought they were doing fine. Most are hurt and recovering from a lifetime of misunderstanding. It feels just to "get revenge" on females as they have caused them so much pain and sadness. It is a phase. The pill's effects are not immediate. Don't take everything at face value as everyone is a work in progress. We would all like to wake up tomorrow and be the best person we can be, but that'…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:27 PM
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I liked Eddie's stuff from the 80s because...well, all the other guys are still saying the same thing today. Things weren't so different 30 years ago...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:38 PM
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Let me break down what Urbanist means with the alpha fuck/ beta bucks thing. Women will have sex with attractive men to be validated and have those carnal desires quelled. Then when she no longer has the prowess to hold the alpha, she finds a beta man to provide her security. A loser guy to foot her bills and raise her kids. Now here is bizarro world alpha fucks/beta bucks. A man will fuck around and sow his seeds with many women. Those alpha fucking women that let you put it in her butt in 5 mi…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:02 PM
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With women being the major retail consumers, it is no wonder the church brings more of them in. At the end of the day the church is still a business and hope is a hot commodity.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:59 AM
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Let me get this straight... You meet a man who is, by your own admission, not a friend...and end up having a great time together at a show. You decide for him and yourself that things are platonic...under the arbitrary reason of you being recently single. (Would you have felt differently if he was more attractive?) You decline his approach, which is fine...and promptly friend-zone him. Moral of the story? Women are confusing as fuck. You gave the guy all green lights and then suddenly decided gr…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/14 04:54 PM
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Sure thing, cowboy. You go be somebody's free nurse and psychiatrist. Tell us how it works out for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 10:19 PM
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Guy here It is so disrespectful to hear a woman I am interested in express such fears. You are scared of being cheated on, so now every man you interact with romantically is an assumed cheater. If a girl I was seeing asked what she could do to keep me from cheating on her...holy cow I think my face would explode off from the unfiltered blame, insecurity, and disrespect. Learn from your past, but each relationship is a clean slate. Leave the baggage from your last relationship with your last rela…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:44 PM
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There is this red pill documentary...I'm sure it will get some sort of attention from some people or another. What would really be nuts is a documentary about the blue pill and I can't imagine it being anything less than clinically depressing. Interviews of men who are blue and showing documentation of their life and where their actions and lack thereof have taken them. We hear stories all day about the man who got divorced and had everything taken from him. Why not show him living in his shitty…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:35 PM
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You're missing the point of it all, man. There may be a community from which we all gather information, but the goal is personal development. This is a tool shed. You take the tools you need and leave the rest. Right now, you have a hole to dig and have grabbed a rake. You have an issue with how other people in the tool shed have selected their tools. Do not worry about the tools others are picking up. Identify your problem, read here and absorb information, then take the information that applie…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:45 PM
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Guy here You said your husband is a feminine man at heart...I think it is hard to believe. Maybe he's not an oil-rigger or fireman, but unless his masculinity has been repressed, then there is no reason for him not to be masculine! Most men prefer to "not cause any trouble". We let things slide because we don't want to get involved, or just do our own thing. The problem is, if you are around people and let things you don't agree with slide all the time, you are still hearing and being involved w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 11:20 PM
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Now imagine talking to women about any other topic and getting the same results your whole life. It's rough I'll tell you...
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 11:19 PM
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FUCK "To be honest I don't agree with the majority of TRP philosophy, mostly because I'm female" It has nothing to do if you are female or not. Anyone, anywhere, can understand a concept. By your logic, all the women over at TRPW are talking out of their ass because they are female. "I just don't believe (for example) that I or any other female is incapable of deviating from what TRP believes is the "norm"" Because you don't have the perspective to. You can't read any of this stuff and NOT think…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:00 PM
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The first time isn't the one that matters. It's all the other times. When you try something new in life, are you always scared about it like this? Go in and have fun, man! Tickle her titties with your toes. Lick her ear. Sniff her armpit. Whatever man just be curious and have a good time. Over time you'll find out what you do and don't like and what works for you.
/r/askTRP17/01/14 05:55 PM
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Yeah and then this girl you think you know goes and fucks someone else you might see what a crock of shit that being a musician for other people is. If you play, you play for yourself. If you're on the pill, you're not a musician. You are a salesman. You have an idea and it is in your best interest to convince people to believe what you are saying. I think you're missing the whole point, man. It has nothing to do with women. You're focused on pickup game. You talk about white knights in the end …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:14 PM
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I live with my girlfriend and we have a little whiteboard we write shit on. One day I come home and she has "When you have the choice to be right or be kind, always choose being kind" up on it. She said she heard some lady say it and thought it was a good idea. I had to explain to her that that kind of idea only serves your own ego and that you are not doing anybody any favors. In fact, you are blatantly lying to them. Why let a person who is wrong go on to believe that as truth? What a crazy wo…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:53 PM
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