Buttamilk_Buscuit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Banned from r/FemaleDatingStrategy for simply participating in a Men’s Rights subreddit. Why are so many Female subreddits, vapid Echo Chambers?	Discrimination	Buttamilk_Buscuit	/r/MensRights	08/08/22 01:39 PM

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-1	The rising epidemic of sexless men in feminist society I disagree. Circumcision is an ancient practice. For centuries men have been circumcised and their methods were likely less refined and riskier than modern surgical methods. Yet for centuries men have still married and sought marriage (or just sex.) It's only in our modern age that more and more men are opting out and the reason most guys give for their lack of desire is not related to their physical organs. I strongly believe that this shift in male/female relationship dynamics is societal. I a…	/r/MensRights	20/04/23 04:39 PM
1	How do I flirt with a coworker It really depends on gender. If you're a guy, be very careful as it will not be hard to unleash HR on you. Start by just having friendly conversation with her. If you do want to compliment her, keep it to her work ethic and intelligence. Make good eye contact, give her your attention, smile, body language can communicate things too. Compliments on her physical traits can come when she's already expressed desire in you. I suggest not doing that at work but if you can't resist the urge and want to…	/r/seduction	27/08/22 05:11 PM
4	Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else? You know, that term gets thrown around far too frivolously nowadays. It's like when your younger sibling learn a new word...	/r/seduction	22/08/22 05:15 PM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? So could you agree that "types" exist? That one type of man will do one thing and another type of man will do another thing?	/r/seduction	20/08/22 06:38 AM
–	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? You'd be surprised. Men are more conservative in their sexual decisions than you think. There are some men who are like dogs seeking a slab of meat. They see an attractive woman and they act a fool. But let's not pretend that women are any better. There's women who have one night stands and casual sex all of the time. They see a hot guy and they hope on it. I can acknowledge these things while understanding that there's plenty of women who have standards. Men have standards too. I'm a 30 year ol…	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:49 AM
–	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? As a man I love sex but I won't have sex with just any chick.There's more to it than that. I assume it's the same with women. There are two forces working within the human body, the base passions and the intelligent will. The desire to eat is a basic instinctual impulse. The flesh needs it for survival. But I can override this impulse with the power of my will. I can choose to starve to death if I wanted to. This is what makes us different from animals. Animals are slaves to their instincts. Hum…	/r/seduction	20/08/22 01:11 AM
–	Why do girls do this? In my world, the fear of being stuck in a relationship is the same as not wanting a relationship. When you truly love someone, being “stuck” with him/her is a desire, not a burden. Again, people who are afraid of commitment are unstable. They are in and out at the same time. I don’t ask that these people not be afraid of commitment, I simply ask that they don’t string their sex buddies along, treating them like dogs they drag on a leash then ditching them when they ask for some actual love and c…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:06 PM
–	Why do girls do this? Women are "allowed" to have a fear of commitment? Who was ever preventing them from doing it? Their fear of commitment doesn't excuse playing around with people's feelings. And let me remind you that it's just as painful for women when guys do it to them so this is something both sexes can agree is painful and should not be done. If you don't want to commit to a guy, be straight up with him and let him know before things get intimate. Stop treating him like a boyfriend then cutting the plug when…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 12:54 PM
0	Imagine if it said boys... When an infant claims he’s the strongest in the world. We laugh because we know it’s ridiculous but we play along because we know it helps his self-esteem. The same is going on with these kinds of messages. It’s permitted by society because somewhere deep inside, we know that women are incapable of ruling the world. We just say it to boost their esteem.	/r/MensRights	08/08/22 01:25 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase" Yep, even nice looking guys experience it.	/r/seduction	29/07/22 12:07 PM
–	First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with. No problem bro. I'm 30 years old, not old but not really young either. I've been there, done that. So I can relate to your situation. When she told you that she found someone else that she better click with, I know that that was a tough blow to handle. However, the best thing you can do is assume that she meant no harm. In her mind, she's just being honest with you and trying not to lead you on. So take it as it is. Sometimes, our insecurities will creep in and distort things so don't insert you…	/r/seduction	26/03/22 08:38 PM
–	First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with. Yep, that's how it be sometimes. If she's really a 9, she's the pick of the litter. I'm sure her inbox is full of men seeking the same thing as you and this gives her multiple opportunities to date around. Dating sites have ruined the dating world because of provides way too many options outside of meeting in real life. But it's not too late for you bro. Shake the dust off your boots and continue your journey. Forgot about this girl. You have more potential. This is not the end. Rejection is a p…	/r/seduction	26/03/22 07:05 PM
–	First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with. Why are you pointing fingers at this guy? It's totally normal to be hurt after a rejection. Wtf? This is why men need advice from other men because we understand the feelings of a man. Your advice sucks. You're telling him to be humble and put his ego to the side like he's being arrogant. Your whole tone is accusatory. He met a girl that he liked, she accepted a date, they had a good time and she tells him that she found someone else just a couple days after? That's painful for any person. Have …	/r/seduction	26/03/22 06:55 PM
–	First rejection. Never went on date with this girl. Had something tentative. Says she met someone she clicks well with. Dang that sucks but that's why you should never put all your eggs in one basket. During the dating phase, you should be talking to multiple women until you find one who's willing to get into a relationship with you. It sounds wrong because you want to be loyal to one lady but it's necessary in this current climate. Women have dating apps now, they have easy access to multiple men. Even if you land a date, you are still not a couple yet. Until you are in an exclusive relationship, ALWAYS ASSUME Y…	/r/seduction	26/03/22 06:37 PM
–	Are there even single women at bars. women that arent in a group? You'd be surprised to know that there are plenty of women who don't get approached at all. I mean pretty women. They might get plenty of online matches but rarely get approached in person. Online means nothing really. A woman can get 50 online matches and only maybe 10 or none of them are successful dates. It's easy to swipe right, that doesn't mean anything. Also, don't call yourself an ugly kunt. If that's how you talk in real life, just know that you are hurting yourself. We cannot help how w…	/r/seduction	03/02/22 01:25 PM
2	How am I supposed to not get emotional over rejection? Dating is hard and it's nothing like the movies. A guy, no matter how much money or how handsome he is, will still find obstacles in the dating market for one reason or another. Rare are there any real life guys who are swimming in women left and right. Reading your original post, here are my tips Accept Rejection. It's Normal. Rejection is going to hurt no matter how experienced you are. There are some men who claim to desensitize themselves to rejection but I don't believe it. If you really wa…	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:22 AM
1	I finally asked her out! Depends on how he says it. Is it: "Wow, lucky guy" 😞 or "Wow lucky guy" 😎	/r/seduction	27/01/22 02:46 AM
1	I finally asked her out! Yep, it's not always about scoring a successful date. Just getting over the anxiety of asking someone out will make it easier to do it again with other women. Thanks to online dating, people are approaching each other in-person less and less. The better you become at approaching women who are in front of you, the more likely you will have success. At least that's what I think. Not sure how you look and dress, all that jazz. But awesome that you asked her out! Don't feel embarrassed about it, rej…	/r/seduction	27/01/22 02:02 AM
1	I finally asked her out! My guy, when a woman says she's has a boyfriend, you should take her word for it. You don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and you are calling her a liar without any proof...Do you regularly make these kinds of assumptions about women you meet?	/r/seduction	27/01/22 01:49 AM
2	Should I give her a hearing she deserves? I read your update in the comments and I must say, congrats, you handled it like a dignified man. In situations like this, there's no need to point fingers and get emotional as this gives her opportunity to gain power over the situation. Just being polite yet giving a firm decline in her offer will solidify her impression of you in her mind. She will know that she missed out on a decent guy because you could have been a jerk but chose not to be. Not that it matter what she thinks of you, she's f…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:27 PM
4	My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for me Although "That's what she said" jokes is a no go for me and totally corny, I get the gist of what you are saying. Be tastefully playful. Complimenting her body parts directly should be reserved for certain places situations and types of women. I wouldn't say "Hey, nice melons" to a random woman I meet at the produce isles at a grocery store because that may come off as crude and offensive to a lady who's not that kind of gal. However, if it's at a club with drunk horny women, that's a different …	/r/seduction	18/01/22 01:57 AM